- S4 r) w4 u$ \9 N2 t1 ^记住我们为什么做某事% F! ^1 V# L, F3 e( |
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.) a2 T$ M' u! f" d& |- L: b
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。. J: |$ O$ H. L3 L S+ O0 A/ P4 Y! N
Have you ever done that?5 g+ k* G# G i4 W; l0 K1 s
你曾有过这种经历吗？& n. N; j5 J+ ]( f) V, @
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.( `( w: V' L# W) \7 d6 X& T6 ]
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。' w# _; Q0 u1 d2 L( } ~' C8 r
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.9 p+ L: r) H; ^, F# T* B! b
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。7 l# ~2 P& C$ U- f
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 9 m3 ~0 y; l1 Z4 W然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。: O) [: f; t3 X0 F p2 J! n
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.2 q+ j" z; k& C* G
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 $ e6 ?* O4 r) K! }: z4 O4 ZThat's a memory problem. 1 f2 w/ i) Y* l) v; g, I) @这是一个记忆问题。; I; v4 X" _2 [" d) Z1 I) ?8 S
I guess that counts too.) L- m- s [0 h4 L, j+ m2 J
我想那很重要。+ y m/ b: R% L8 g! l6 V% s" c
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? + O& b& \" \0 c! U但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ , ~' l0 I+ |; {2 e MAt one point, there was a reason we do something.( K" n) e9 t/ P9 G5 `
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。: q( m) X6 S; h! X' V* p
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.8 _' g8 u" K L9 x, c6 z) C; `
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。; g$ _3 W' ]3 ~; C( ?, X0 e9 b' T, L* W
It's always could to ask ourselves why.' ^; K2 u2 i) D/ E. J& u# C3 B
总是可以问问自己为什么。 0 I$ b4 x) |6 K" J# ]* sWhy did I start to learn a language?- X( t# h, d( K- m! T+ F" B
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 9 u/ f) v# X0 @& t$ \# t. AWhy did I join this club?0 i' U X. S) g
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ - e9 _' O: e/ z# tWhy my friend was this person?. J, j/ i' S3 d9 b/ B0 B
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ / l# l- D; [* I& u1 JWhy did I get married? 9 u8 u, ]0 p# H! v# S为什么我要结婚？ T0 x- h! H9 E- V( r
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.7 T- _5 F6 B- c
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。* d" ^( O& B, b8 h/ W3 q$ g
I think we need indeed remind us of why. " F$ `/ L4 q4 r+ m% x$ S$ l我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ' D) {, u! Z7 o/ ]! AOr else it's tough to finish what we started.. V. @* D5 Z% ?4 R8 ^& b
否则很难完成我们所开始的。$ z6 {9 Z7 w% R- l6 q+ y
We stop starting. We quit the club. * y8 L2 b& h) U" d% e1 L我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ; P# q: c3 H- A2 ?/ Q1 \7 x# t1 hWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged., a& @2 x6 ?4 C1 T- A1 q- ^ p
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 % b; G% |% G4 d$ G- M& \There's nothing wrong with asking why. 5 ?. [) o) v, A }% v( N) k# }问为什么没什么问题。 ' _& Q1 }, U* [. u. bIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.6 h8 G0 Y) g, r# {
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。; }6 Y) o4 H3 N3 ^) O4 {; T
Talk about it.' D8 H( E3 i& h9 b1 Q2 L: z6 B4 N
谈论下面的话题： / |' c5 r- w5 w9 ^: y$ \4 {Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?/ m6 E5 d7 A9 ~: a* u2 b
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ % T5 n- L, b7 L+ d2 i0 h G; pIs it a kind of distant memory? 5 `0 Y% c' p7 B Y R& F它是一种遥远的记忆？ 9 ]( s8 W; |9 rDid you ever forget why you are doing something... 6 ?8 u/ m2 a# p* b8 Q你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… v) q9 x. {0 l, F- ?; ^
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?& W% b2 g2 v" |; p$ g$ z7 r
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？$ C' {+ T `# O: ]
Do you write memos? ' M- u/ W1 W: n7 v- D7 n0 g你写备忘录吗？; ]+ ?. k' r# c$ O* F7 X
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?8 g& v. M7 n+ a/ c
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？! D) g! e t$ P9 `
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 7 p6 V" t* C3 T9 _) U; A还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ! l$ E! m4 ?' x8 eWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? : v7 F8 p, j, L你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？