标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something% [: n! m8 p. \" e: O% f
; O3 Z4 U; B$ b+ V0 b5 o记住我们为什么做某事 3 C8 ?0 Q2 P) |& s+ x" U. g9 s) lSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.$ y, x- c$ O8 }) a, R" W: a
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。: d0 @. O: g7 p" e
Have you ever done that? . W. @1 y% E5 Q. o2 o# O2 w8 G, [7 A你曾有过这种经历吗？+ c# i1 j) z2 D/ Y1 v1 m& E; |" @
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.( L8 \2 |* q2 y1 }1 \* Z0 R9 l: n% m
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。% I: T4 B' I2 r' r/ k
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. . M' B8 z- j; u# [我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 % I9 i' ^5 s& P$ mAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.9 T; v: _+ ~( S
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。( v2 }6 \6 a f0 Y2 W
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. . f: x) \1 m w* p3 }( L$ d哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 }6 ~* m4 n4 M9 d" ~That's a memory problem.; W$ v8 p9 F' r$ D# T
这是一个记忆问题。' R. w3 s- ^$ v' u
I guess that counts too.6 m% P% Z9 n3 H0 f( ?& h5 _1 g7 D
我想那很重要。 9 B- M) u2 _! Z" \But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ! l& q4 q6 g) u" m但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 9 l i; s5 b& Z1 L2 X* mAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 8 H2 s( Y( W4 Y' |2 w在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 & I# L- k0 W' M3 r0 R% R8 eFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. * @& ~/ G4 U6 G' A对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。7 u2 p9 U: _: m; Z7 L
It's always could to ask ourselves why.6 _6 \* { D' X+ b+ u$ ~
总是可以问问自己为什么。9 v' s b H5 `$ ~- h2 ]
Why did I start to learn a language? , b% s9 N/ n n' P为什么我开始学习一种语言？% V. |9 f% d& \& @& R8 {5 l" L
Why did I join this club? 3 j9 G4 n( o6 i* P9 N为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ) @ O: A) Z9 G4 e- HWhy my friend was this person?1 @5 s0 ^7 r* |' G8 e4 p
为什么我的朋友是这个人？; _1 b2 N0 _9 G8 b; [3 }
Why did I get married?9 m" r& s' v% x0 \0 [# L
为什么我要结婚？ 9 a! c' |: H$ o1 a' ZIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 6 H. A7 m' a7 J) @如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 - |4 N: g' ]7 ^6 i' R: lI think we need indeed remind us of why. 2 f4 l$ P* Z; @我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 $ o* Z- C% I V' |& x7 ^Or else it's tough to finish what we started.* L7 A1 f" H$ m: X& _1 J
否则很难完成我们所开始的。5 `1 E9 v; _% V5 C4 a
We stop starting. We quit the club. # V4 b, R+ F4 C- n/ }7 U1 K. W7 @我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。7 C5 I$ m" }" |1 P% O
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.' J% K5 i" E1 M# m* w
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 Z ?+ D& s6 W4 x
There's nothing wrong with asking why. Z# b1 d8 `' {0 }4 C. }, x% Y% O: C问为什么没什么问题。 0 m! C( t: f7 E; s( u F7 C! JIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.7 f6 V% f6 A' T
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 . O+ F7 ~& |4 B0 k9 N; q* w& CTalk about it. ' I6 u6 {/ y2 y" o谈论下面的话题： 1 f* h0 z# X5 B+ j1 i( tIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? , z2 y9 Z' E4 Q* Q A你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ % O t9 k6 _6 P% WIs it a kind of distant memory? * V# n$ S# O* h它是一种遥远的记忆？ % W% z" A$ l @; n% D3 ?Did you ever forget why you are doing something...8 a7 l& U' R- X
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ' e5 N4 G3 R9 z9 S5 W8 O* pHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? " H/ g8 X! v# u% q你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？, Q' O. b3 G' |8 v- o* d8 {- F
Do you write memos? 6 u7 `1 `" j# H3 p+ ]4 c你写备忘录吗？: \& W/ b: R. n/ o) M
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?3 [8 i' ]: ]( k& ~) A5 y
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ # I- X2 p8 C; i. L' SWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?: z: x+ _3 o( P3 p/ |- B0 @
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？5 ^/ d8 s5 X+ Q- N
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?" t0 \5 E$ z! D% a, u2 D
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？