标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something + X* z8 b8 v& Y2 P! i) p7 f- [3 e 1 d& j' H: C6 \, S" d记住我们为什么做某事 ' @' {9 j- x8 v4 xSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.* W, p7 C, z4 g+ x% T' } Q8 G
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 v" o( {; U3 X4 _/ \; F* w
Have you ever done that? 3 ^$ k8 K A8 U: r你曾有过这种经历吗？! T1 O. i; b7 j. [$ @+ f
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.) }/ |" Q9 A( C: ^1 [ w
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ) U+ }( P y& [% g( d; p7 e9 r0 q6 iI have called someone because I want to tell them something.6 c s+ a# b2 ~# r
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 3 K, G& s- l( {4 e/ X3 A4 PAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.; U+ s9 \ G% }" v; A. `
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。3 N; ]0 {! |# a! c/ i
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. # U8 q' [! Z2 _. ~哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。: k2 n0 h) f4 d- s
That's a memory problem.0 r3 x# J- N, n/ G/ P
这是一个记忆问题。* o3 C# M( w1 d; `/ R% n
I guess that counts too.- D: M2 b1 u- @7 u. \4 p4 K% n
我想那很重要。 C. k: P) `8 f2 N! J' i9 EBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? , I8 {: l2 z" P8 s- A k* P但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？+ [0 A; U" w+ \ n' }
At one point, there was a reason we do something.! O1 A8 p7 U- a
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 / ^* E# `. Q& e" y& }" F& BFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.( X% T H% ?& F. o5 Z6 f$ Y& w
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 9 A& b7 K3 L7 @1 U2 }: h Y( @It's always could to ask ourselves why. 2 m! n, W. J+ C2 _总是可以问问自己为什么。% D: n; T J2 f( f6 |/ g) f
Why did I start to learn a language?; m t* ]) Z' j; b
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 8 j2 k( [) \8 aWhy did I join this club?7 H6 D* v" {# Y4 |1 j
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？* A( ^/ d6 q$ |! c% X
Why my friend was this person? 0 S) X) y l+ T3 r2 K2 _0 z+ ^为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 8 m' @0 e4 l: O& _7 E; XWhy did I get married?( ? p6 S" [- K, v, B5 U. t
为什么我要结婚？4 F& _6 e$ h6 _6 N0 \
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.+ |+ R2 R7 i' h% G3 f+ R
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。# y$ @1 J" V" U( \
I think we need indeed remind us of why. $ g* |9 G* ]2 |% t; H我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。( P' X1 D- k; P
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.3 |4 j" |: E9 `$ `( V( y
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 7 i# s7 f1 N1 \1 Y& k. HWe stop starting. We quit the club.$ M$ \+ Q$ @ W' c7 Y5 O" t9 z6 s
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。% Z, W" |, I' C, X6 L
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.8 M& S5 z) M0 [' L* }
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。7 C$ O. P' x, {: V4 y/ q0 G
There's nothing wrong with asking why.! _/ w" h4 N2 ^9 x+ ^% X
问为什么没什么问题。: f" a+ Y( @* o. v
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 1 r* F" w! I2 u; s5 T事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 r8 C' C' T0 s1 ^" W9 F
Talk about it. 6 f: Y' V, I4 _- {0 H( j9 z谈论下面的话题：7 z) R+ j+ A1 Z
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?7 [+ U6 {0 d) T" T
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？( i9 R9 V4 [* h% O
Is it a kind of distant memory?: ~. {6 C J! K, L/ e, s4 R8 d5 ^' e. Z3 L
它是一种遥远的记忆？ ( L4 A* V p+ V* IDid you ever forget why you are doing something...8 G, |" p) n" j% F, p/ M/ l, @! d5 g
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……8 {+ {4 F0 D8 j9 [+ i. X1 E* }1 t
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?. ?, R, Z# k* c0 k% ^6 q; R
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？$ l2 F4 q1 x" ~; y
Do you write memos?1 a" L+ K7 y6 D7 a9 m. A
你写备忘录吗？ " ^3 b4 P S5 T3 g5 X" N& ]2 I5 _# SDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?/ @8 r! W4 A- u7 x2 }& [- m2 A
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ / i8 l3 ^$ u% ]9 U2 @% R7 g- h9 f2 RWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 6 a% t3 E' @/ g5 {5 ]) H还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 5 N: C. V) ]& r0 j, F' ~What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? , V3 a& S* i1 ^ ^2 ]! P9 D9 q* `你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？