标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something( G( ~1 e) j, B ~0 ]
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记住我们为什么做某事 7 [, l p: e, iSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 2 S6 j, ]" e& N* o2 s8 K8 a1 a有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。1 N" N8 K7 M- h: n- f2 P8 Q/ U3 J
Have you ever done that?( x, }. p+ O% a+ e
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 1 l! \# F3 M' C* AI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ' }, Z7 }! P- \3 h% V2 {- M我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 1 z9 f5 i# T0 O- g, A% ^% P3 TI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 3 o- C& m+ b% h4 z0 `我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ( Q3 i9 q' I) M6 A4 F% cAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.; g' a; R( O" z
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。+ C! o1 g6 m2 D; `. \
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. " T t, D% H+ o& N+ B, Y哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 : e8 S9 F% V& Z1 O% L0 H, vThat's a memory problem.% X/ e r& S* I+ i
这是一个记忆问题。 % p I: n* g7 x6 P ]I guess that counts too. & K8 c4 G! ]$ \/ A我想那很重要。; d5 f. ~. k$ X5 _0 P+ t' F
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 7 M w8 D2 s+ {& e; Y1 m但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ , t" P9 ~+ r- E% eAt one point, there was a reason we do something.+ j6 e* I5 T2 B4 v' B
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 9 U8 c8 P7 E; t7 r, T/ j6 yFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. " { S# ]5 i' {对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ! c8 k: Y$ |! d. \$ `# R8 h, EIt's always could to ask ourselves why. " c* r2 M) }4 r$ F/ @* X. @% t总是可以问问自己为什么。 8 |' m/ G, }4 j F) {Why did I start to learn a language? 8 J; [2 p8 Q; G$ Y0 V3 p为什么我开始学习一种语言？1 _; J9 c! ~ u) Y, i
Why did I join this club? _8 x+ @, O) \+ b1 o2 O为什么我加入这个俱乐部？& m% _5 B% q- l& E1 e( i1 s8 F
Why my friend was this person?- H' N( Q$ X1 u: p2 N
为什么我的朋友是这个人？' C3 E; B9 H0 Q: C5 ]+ f
Why did I get married?9 Q% }5 \8 ^1 u
为什么我要结婚？5 T; y: x' U& g" P
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. " E1 @% V, e( l* B2 h- A如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 " M' a) \- D* z) oI think we need indeed remind us of why. + H8 F4 E6 |7 i0 o- W2 ~我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 2 i+ \8 m- |3 U8 t8 b, wOr else it's tough to finish what we started. . |) ~% n# ~# @4 N否则很难完成我们所开始的。 % Q5 \ n) B! O( J {% |We stop starting. We quit the club.4 U1 r) q1 G/ q# Y6 h! ]- e
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。! G* d0 A$ X. Z3 ~7 M
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.8 g- m" D6 H+ X% ] ?2 L
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 3 ?- j5 i3 u7 D% Q( U6 o: pThere's nothing wrong with asking why. ! W* R* C$ r/ ` I; K$ `问为什么没什么问题。& q5 A- `1 |& \3 d9 _
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ; C+ p9 i% Q9 q$ F( _, E事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。0 [' H" q+ I( F- K" `
Talk about it.$ _( e8 _/ A" X; g! G
谈论下面的话题：" h. j( K8 x: P+ y( W- }: V
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?8 T" d% f; n& P+ S. ]# L
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？6 U9 W7 E; W) E9 q
Is it a kind of distant memory? {* d( g3 l' @. l7 m
它是一种遥远的记忆？ A+ u$ I1 ?- D$ J. x8 N" N1 v& ?2 m
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...* H. a. s; r' D) C/ |9 w# B# C
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… * s1 ~3 C# I- M: NHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?/ W& ~) K! ]& q- M$ \7 C% b5 n
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？5 ^! ^" y6 D0 j4 c
Do you write memos?$ \% X) i) z! g9 u) c& A/ L6 d
你写备忘录吗？ 9 s; m" ?% ]! ^( J, TDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?, ?+ h6 |2 f% y5 y
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 8 r5 r+ J$ h- w6 o. IWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?" b) w4 V7 R2 Q9 w( ` o! I$ t
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ( i- C+ G! [ O5 z4 T/ KWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?4 [4 E7 q! U6 G2 i, ]" @' `: C" | k8 X, \
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？