标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something$ g- }$ n- p5 s; N# ~0 q
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记住我们为什么做某事 ) f Z5 z! D" E5 Q. u- {# l: |Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.6 `% Y: M* v, |6 e
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 k9 M, [) m y) x
Have you ever done that? 8 G" {2 I, ^. @5 e5 n3 i你曾有过这种经历吗？6 K) C4 n3 P+ z
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.) A7 w9 n6 D! b: L2 s
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 9 Z7 x: |/ Y; Q# W2 k, Z% uI have called someone because I want to tell them something.3 G/ x$ S1 x6 g9 @5 Z4 q7 |9 } C7 a
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。! ^! z. t6 h9 @$ y% B
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ; D5 o! ^) Y! ~/ i% {2 ]然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。. q* ^4 m' Y9 X! R, h" R! Z- o
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.8 m- Q0 v0 x9 o' U8 h
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 5 Q' K0 s% r3 h, ]. Q. C" E6 [2 ?& dThat's a memory problem.: ]$ X) Z9 A3 o6 ?$ c" B4 H" @
这是一个记忆问题。' q# c9 H3 H4 S' Q ^* p$ l
I guess that counts too.2 @# [7 S2 p9 X/ u* E. F4 J; X- J
我想那很重要。 % V: P4 P) G; \) Z4 J4 LBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? # p, H! L, b; b# c但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？! k: j$ {' T+ }. Y6 t+ S4 D% E; Y S
At one point, there was a reason we do something. / \% ?: W* q7 `. ^7 L在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。* K9 |0 {7 ^, k" y$ ?' m4 r
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ]3 s: H) ? N) N
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。7 t2 x3 w0 F& g
It's always could to ask ourselves why., D- S4 ]9 ?. [* _/ p* {& `
总是可以问问自己为什么。 + s- b) J; p% h4 s; g) D; H2 }9 Y0 YWhy did I start to learn a language? - E3 |* X2 M0 D/ p3 @$ I; ]为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 2 d6 T) q2 B5 ^9 BWhy did I join this club? . b1 w. e w2 N/ c/ ~为什么我加入这个俱乐部？$ I" I/ W) g y6 f% {4 i* e
Why my friend was this person?) u4 ~8 X: m: y9 b/ m/ H; g4 v
为什么我的朋友是这个人？% |$ `/ g- S% S* z, B
Why did I get married? % u$ s7 d9 }9 S2 A$ P% }为什么我要结婚？* x& I9 f2 _7 x+ Y: }0 c7 q4 T
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why." Z2 x% R# r2 U; G; b8 f
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 5 `! h! {9 Y+ S# \/ T- y% [5 |0 Y4 c( nI think we need indeed remind us of why. Z% K7 H' H0 h- s
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。' Z; }# T( B' D5 @/ H9 ^4 T, z+ u0 U
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.8 Q- _8 C/ S$ ]! A; q- C
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 4 ~1 Y1 f% _+ l( h' oWe stop starting. We quit the club. ; o% {, Z! W7 }- j5 U我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。' j8 s9 T! M" M$ D9 p
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. . l. L. c ^( f4 v4 k |! r& @我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。0 \$ A4 R# n0 b8 g
There's nothing wrong with asking why.; P8 }" p$ g, o
问为什么没什么问题。 8 N) U/ f) {4 aIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.( t! u; O1 e/ K ?7 L* a6 K5 l
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 ( }1 n+ X5 U* ^2 Y/ T, aTalk about it. 8 E. U0 I, r$ U: I: f$ Q; a# v1 A谈论下面的话题：! i W( B& K+ ~4 m
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?2 a9 C$ e$ F" a: s* K7 E
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 5 r* f8 R# r% }: VIs it a kind of distant memory? # n4 u, w# P6 t5 l$ L( }4 R- i它是一种遥远的记忆？ + ^1 C, T" O5 I# ?Did you ever forget why you are doing something... " {( H) q. v2 @0 F" C8 I) E+ j你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……' ^9 J9 g/ m$ z U/ B/ L0 i; d
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ! c2 t' N3 ^4 _4 ?4 y' `你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？& r2 ?' R, {$ K1 `) u# H
Do you write memos?* n; X9 s7 i6 ]& O0 d* _. }$ W8 H
你写备忘录吗？ 9 Q6 J; S& T# G7 M) B% YDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?0 i0 W1 p9 Q' p: i
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ : s9 D7 W. i4 H, U5 C4 sWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?" M3 K7 w; n0 p8 b9 o
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 4 K0 i Y, l5 Q9 vWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 4 t3 ~# l! p' B8 |" _你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？