标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something % p* t; W3 C i: @* ]0 F+ V5 v . F" \0 x! b1 `6 w; X记住我们为什么做某事 7 o% X- u5 a. \& ISometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 9 I" W) `9 N& q有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 . Z; A, F v& h6 r) Q- O* j2 B O7 E8 jHave you ever done that? & U: i6 n' h1 c你曾有过这种经历吗？ p1 d" b/ F' K I8 mI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ) O$ Y% V6 A! c7 |6 ~/ z我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。! x6 d- s4 l# N7 K5 Z9 ?7 ~
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 4 D( J8 ]1 S$ [8 ~! \3 d我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。3 L M; r/ x/ n! R
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ( e; H3 d: f7 i( b然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ; Q4 Y5 p% ]+ d0 j$ S1 J* _Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. / J- w0 O. i4 Q! T. M$ T- c哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 - h/ v2 k. @$ WThat's a memory problem.0 |: \& |: |/ M8 Z- v- Q# v
这是一个记忆问题。7 g7 }( Z+ X# \: T
I guess that counts too. 7 J; T; \3 c, x; _ f我想那很重要。 . G2 J6 w. M% Z9 a1 H. e* e* V$ xBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?% x7 ?5 h3 d; x8 B3 |. s
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？0 P- ^5 N% U3 f% o1 r, L2 i& \. p1 A
At one point, there was a reason we do something.4 P o6 g( [( @4 V9 [9 I" w9 x
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。; x# f1 G* u' W4 a4 R1 j
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 6 x' { [9 [# c! ~5 ^ n对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 8 Z- _! K8 c, ]$ @5 c1 z& H3 vIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 8 X7 t5 Z( z; h" K# B总是可以问问自己为什么。 U8 n9 [. z$ O
Why did I start to learn a language? @. e( N3 S4 ]( o3 |为什么我开始学习一种语言？ , M* X y x% ?" xWhy did I join this club?0 P& h8 P2 F, j/ H' J$ s- P. O$ q
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？8 Q' }( A# E3 b8 _0 a# _) s) Z- N% N
Why my friend was this person? 8 e% C7 [* |: L为什么我的朋友是这个人？: U# I$ e! }6 i! ^) S
Why did I get married?( \1 W0 O2 F4 A; ?: O! t/ k& U4 b
为什么我要结婚？. P0 b! E, l6 l
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.2 D' A' P6 s4 j( {4 \3 q
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 }$ s$ z$ b1 ]
I think we need indeed remind us of why. $ O$ A/ j8 v2 V! k; X7 B我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ; R1 f! u W" Q+ r: N7 @Or else it's tough to finish what we started. ) I" W8 ~) f; v4 p; H {* l5 b- S否则很难完成我们所开始的。% ^: d% y" l; x2 Z
We stop starting. We quit the club. + ^2 G# T. ]" q( W我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。) s% j; `( S0 |6 [
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 3 _9 l3 U7 Z7 S7 h0 f. j我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。6 b6 g" \, m1 t3 J1 f# e
There's nothing wrong with asking why. f5 J/ y2 e' i! C3 ~问为什么没什么问题。 9 e2 e9 O5 `( D3 vIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.# H: c5 j4 p A
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。0 D! G+ u0 G M+ S; K. u
Talk about it. & o' ~/ w: ?( W% U3 J' u6 ]/ t; J谈论下面的话题： 9 s5 q( z3 C, {& O" g3 eIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?& j4 `+ [( K0 i Q. k
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ! q Y8 s. z0 V+ g% i QIs it a kind of distant memory? 4 T+ x. p" w% O6 b' g0 M它是一种遥远的记忆？% X7 ?/ y9 W; t* |. v, a9 \
Did you ever forget why you are doing something..." F7 u1 l* y1 L" p. ^
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 7 |; m* ^$ h5 x9 wHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?, {" ?& E0 |! A2 k
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？$ w# H; |! l. a
Do you write memos?/ X. v! F0 Y3 a" w
你写备忘录吗？; N4 B) W9 {* u! y1 T: [8 T; `! `/ ?
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?* X, r5 a% a* y
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ : j6 T1 w; m# W" B" |/ C1 g. ]What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 6 S1 V/ \ |8 M! a7 |$ N还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？3 p3 `8 U# T( z7 N3 S% b3 P
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?6 y4 W. r7 m: s7 d; E* _/ O/ Q
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？