标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something2 b, K, @. q( T! ]$ Z `- |0 n, ~% `; k
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记住我们为什么做某事 5 a A+ N6 }! A6 _8 ^( FSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ; T, f" \5 U1 H! E: i0 x9 Q5 \0 r8 L有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 % i2 V" I4 e+ wHave you ever done that?/ l. V4 `9 [8 V6 Z, x9 C( T
你曾有过这种经历吗？2 B1 |6 n" w1 v- t, n8 R
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.7 \% M6 B4 V9 h1 d
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。* |: V' J" U0 D w }# H
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.4 p9 _" ]. i: I$ o$ q$ B
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ) D! z$ v6 ]3 i7 k9 a8 q4 g4 LAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular., d3 u5 j1 w; C# R$ y n
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。) H8 l! j: L& N+ d: ?6 a6 r
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. $ ?9 j3 G' R4 V) b" u哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。! H9 M/ K2 a2 }7 m
That's a memory problem.2 C4 k3 x* [1 [* d/ ?; p3 |
这是一个记忆问题。* {! h0 e7 C* F2 X$ x% i! i- D! b
I guess that counts too. # R6 S; J+ l& H: s7 N' |我想那很重要。2 V# E: x6 I8 c6 h7 c
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? / D+ l8 j+ |. a" F5 F但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？9 g# ~: ~. {' e& S, d
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 9 t8 }1 R% F, m; s* `9 v在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ! Z6 w1 D& e8 _& D/ X) BFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. + Q2 h5 c1 A% k; e对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ) d5 X! x2 z& ~8 d" ?It's always could to ask ourselves why. 0 C/ ~/ z/ N$ @7 }2 \总是可以问问自己为什么。, ~3 e& x* }% D: x' T) z
Why did I start to learn a language?# n6 p# ~7 I- u# y1 f! g
为什么我开始学习一种语言？$ H6 p: p" r6 }- G+ ]% J- X
Why did I join this club?: l z: g) A! B; Q# R7 X$ E: u0 \
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 7 Z. Q5 i/ V/ v/ C4 k+ ^0 @Why my friend was this person?+ d0 v" B1 B; [( i. f" N) `
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ( w6 A! P3 x5 _5 f$ A: _Why did I get married? - @* v+ }# v( X/ D为什么我要结婚？ 3 \ j% J6 `9 r2 n6 v. n+ z( l( m JIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. `! F0 `$ C/ g1 m' A, k& k如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。2 x8 N6 A: ~- e& p
I think we need indeed remind us of why.2 }9 S+ s8 u4 o3 |/ W+ \
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ; @5 ?9 F6 B+ B6 U- | MOr else it's tough to finish what we started. / V1 v- o! C9 G否则很难完成我们所开始的。 " D0 L8 |; k8 }; [We stop starting. We quit the club. 7 k9 E, \5 u' ~# C" @2 ?我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。( u7 x8 F8 S. g1 w+ ^) j
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. - T- i6 S9 U+ s! G( e) o, A3 ~我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。) ]% Z ^) I: L9 a( Q; m
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ; I$ E2 v5 E, q# `8 M问为什么没什么问题。 : u7 b+ T" S2 z" X- ?" i# zIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.2 r3 v; r3 D. Z" T- q8 q% W6 H5 z
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。/ L, Y3 a, u; \4 A: K7 e/ }
Talk about it. u1 ]. B) x; [! x* |! S2 S谈论下面的话题：' s5 _5 B1 @& X2 I, ?
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?0 j- P, {9 J! ?+ y* n2 E
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？: V4 [2 r6 Z5 e) p+ |* Q9 D
Is it a kind of distant memory? 3 M6 m, A" l! p x它是一种遥远的记忆？4 X H6 D8 o- \/ H4 L. d
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...8 W& g2 ]/ V0 P5 _- [" h
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 8 b+ m! A/ T9 |" Z0 @+ FHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 0 Z! ^6 G" P2 L$ L- w- E你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？/ {) M2 J) e- E* [" R
Do you write memos? ! u) m! _0 b; Z& t你写备忘录吗？ 5 d9 x, |% {. S. J9 BDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?2 K X% t* r' N8 H, ~4 x0 Y% ?
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？$ u" a: J% u* O4 @! F4 f9 O! K
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?3 S" U" g' v Q" D: M' W( q, y# u
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 1 s2 Z- @# \/ G) g/ QWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?! y Y# I5 }+ v" |5 k+ f0 y
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？