标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something , Q" b% X" S/ D# t: j: P4 r; A: T6 T4 M3 e8 r5 o0 w7 M6 A' f& F# ?
记住我们为什么做某事 ( o5 S9 f' y+ z0 O8 RSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.8 Z4 P1 D& H: a2 r* j2 k3 J
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 # O5 Z1 H0 Q0 Y w9 J/ z0 |. S# rHave you ever done that?& N$ A8 [8 e8 P. h1 d9 i4 P
你曾有过这种经历吗？! E! z' i# L: f2 M
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.2 H5 x6 t$ J: \: W
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。/ K; S9 ?5 B; [; S4 t6 [, I
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. ! z v6 [: i' ^& K! P我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 0 }$ ^$ E# g; uAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.8 _* v4 z6 @# F/ y# A: g
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 " u8 M; i' s* G! G. n7 y$ eWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ; Z( a9 H( ?: \+ D& `4 X8 h3 V% J( u哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 " f! E# y1 P% Q* MThat's a memory problem.7 Y0 E% h- l+ s1 n; H( c
这是一个记忆问题。 % b! {3 m! W/ J) g# P& hI guess that counts too.; T/ s/ c0 R; o, k6 n W
我想那很重要。' E6 z& y/ g$ y5 u' _5 J
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? . v3 C2 P! w! r, N8 c但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？- g, o4 L" d+ a
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 5 c& A! `7 D. ?% P$ f/ L在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。; {. z5 I2 U' o' y& s
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.' z3 H% @1 L! a0 F) Z
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 " Q4 K3 m% i* T0 c9 i8 g- Q kIt's always could to ask ourselves why. " I$ J3 {9 k0 @总是可以问问自己为什么。 , G* v" n5 R8 Z# C/ u4 V) W* ]5 H( PWhy did I start to learn a language? 2 a% l0 }1 E+ \( |# Z为什么我开始学习一种语言？* Y# f+ D' X5 ?7 K( C! _
Why did I join this club? ' w: f: K+ i e5 a* v9 c为什么我加入这个俱乐部？% C& p4 f# ]" K7 T
Why my friend was this person?, S3 ?) _* ^3 d1 T8 I
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ " w& p6 o, o( D" U5 M# cWhy did I get married?% x- [& V9 M+ J% t g' b5 [% m
为什么我要结婚？# E' x# R) Y8 t4 e ?
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.! y( X2 A& j+ M, M- e4 C
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。! o7 Z E& l' Z
I think we need indeed remind us of why.- f. A( d$ E/ f( m3 n
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 , j1 l0 ~4 ?- ~6 {" c& w$ B8 FOr else it's tough to finish what we started.$ Y0 R9 @' Q( k3 w# a: x$ p8 I0 C/ S
否则很难完成我们所开始的。* l/ E2 D' C& Q2 _+ L/ u
We stop starting. We quit the club.; t: ^& d' a' w+ Y- @
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 , a: K, Y: ]- [& W* |We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.+ p; U+ b& j0 a6 y9 S4 a, i$ ]: B
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 + N6 T) I9 D+ oThere's nothing wrong with asking why.2 z% H$ p, } D2 x2 h! H% L
问为什么没什么问题。 * E, E4 z6 W/ MIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. $ x( r, s4 g# z U事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。$ ?1 `+ J' x; n6 d0 I+ i
Talk about it./ i/ C3 F) f! c+ ~. n
谈论下面的话题：! ` w: c6 C7 F5 k
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?& t* J4 N% W+ C: `& _
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 0 ^ w# h! i6 k& n& n2 fIs it a kind of distant memory?2 X8 \" ~! [( o5 H P: p% F
它是一种遥远的记忆？ . C6 E: Q6 H; a8 i% iDid you ever forget why you are doing something... ( |$ t2 e& D! E' i; t# u1 X你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……1 X! q8 U2 I2 L0 @% Y0 L. ?3 C, n: r
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?( m) \) V5 @. Z( b% c5 n- H5 u
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？; q- s) z' a' A, b8 ` M
Do you write memos?# D( ?! b1 S6 }' u7 F" e6 V
你写备忘录吗？5 H! O0 r9 _! N# k3 \8 J
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? - w0 c8 C0 H( [, @* {: d6 J你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 9 \* F9 w( U; q% e& G+ ^What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ; _2 R) n r. w M$ z还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？1 g, D3 b; ^( U/ K* _& g
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?8 _ u- ^, D% ~8 }( B1 y; S s
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？