标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something) b7 [. a7 {& x: H( ~" l
& n% h3 L$ G1 r6 w记住我们为什么做某事 8 H# g8 c% M+ H3 ^1 c" E5 DSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 4 |8 b5 b. u2 K, D' k, T; Y有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。5 Q \7 J' b }3 \4 q
Have you ever done that? , q8 D0 U. _; @- O& J+ g+ ^6 I: i* ]& \你曾有过这种经历吗？ 1 B6 y) T/ p$ O% PI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 3 E1 o; o ~+ h7 }我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 . l, |/ |) `/ }7 AI have called someone because I want to tell them something. / H( g$ Z/ ^: Z# q0 D' P- y; V& g- ]我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 & [6 c' I1 ]0 CAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.3 n) H2 C/ ^; [
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 6 N% G: i w% w" y$ kWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ; p! x: Q. i* _9 c7 @5 m" T* b" W哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。& H: S* \9 S& ~: U
That's a memory problem. ; M: a o+ y3 E, ~7 b8 d这是一个记忆问题。5 S( ]: ?: B% w
I guess that counts too.- n( F& I W5 p
我想那很重要。. v/ {5 r4 w2 g1 B0 ]' B+ Z; c! V
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? & d( r& {! a8 ?; Z* R但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ( j0 A% B; O/ E0 n% c- u" ?At one point, there was a reason we do something.; y1 {6 O5 B$ z- \* s4 O
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。, k8 T% _4 L; K8 }
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ( P& N. \/ I& l$ d7 @. D* @! y7 |对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。! o- ]/ ]1 A/ N9 P
It's always could to ask ourselves why." v; [" Q, ]9 {! D" H' j
总是可以问问自己为什么。 2 [% n: ^$ W, r) P( A! p/ |2 ~* Y3 FWhy did I start to learn a language?& H) V/ Z- {& h
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ U' a4 h9 B/ }# \, i
Why did I join this club? 6 K) t0 u2 X) D- w7 a为什么我加入这个俱乐部？9 x: R$ |8 a+ Y/ Q5 y a1 [4 j. n
Why my friend was this person? # V/ \- y9 J' I为什么我的朋友是这个人？/ E3 s) b5 a' v4 Q
Why did I get married? . |& y% v( X6 x- W" [1 N* V: m为什么我要结婚？. J/ u% c) G# h2 t x6 l! ?4 i/ q. ^
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. & x9 ~* Q8 l4 W* J8 f, w如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ) e9 F; k: Z! LI think we need indeed remind us of why. , I' }# F/ E3 l f F) o我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 . L# I& V- m) UOr else it's tough to finish what we started. |" r5 Q; b7 {2 W, `. ]/ `
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 " m5 m2 e# b, v) C- ^- ZWe stop starting. We quit the club." P* R) |! z; l+ T: }! m$ a9 }
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。) h- n) |( H4 ^/ ]/ H3 K
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. # m3 P4 d; @8 r, _% U/ Z( r我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 * B" u" `; k, gThere's nothing wrong with asking why.8 y: l: X, x: T0 D1 o
问为什么没什么问题。 + s( p, \+ D( }! j# J& D# FIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 0 v8 \, M& i& h; u; o7 ?# \事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。/ w8 J! ?8 B3 J- n
Talk about it. : v) {* A; T a2 ` L$ t谈论下面的话题：. |0 E& e. z' K/ Y& T
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?9 G( e3 ~/ e- } n& C" w+ ?4 d/ W, O
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？5 K$ z- p4 j4 v/ c
Is it a kind of distant memory? ; J; G2 c! r& A8 W! g4 X它是一种遥远的记忆？6 N! s8 W7 @2 n( [7 \- z+ y
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...5 N a! f: o" L# S9 L* Y* g8 o
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… , k2 p) X6 a8 YHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ; @ h0 m' N1 j3 x你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？2 N* [, a7 d0 X- k4 b
Do you write memos?) h' `0 u `! w, X, O* q
你写备忘录吗？ 5 {0 Y. d; g8 F4 ^6 Z- qDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 6 _1 J6 Y: R) Z4 F& u/ Y4 D你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ # A( v% S5 P5 T+ Z1 c) R0 BWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?5 [) ]" ^" M! h% L# k) ^
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？, b6 F, {4 R. A9 z5 [
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? * i: @1 |( c* R9 z% }. R你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？