标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ( h: [0 Q" k* n) F6 p. m* u5 X% F / O9 m a2 E' F9 M记住我们为什么做某事 $ |# u. u( L+ e0 B7 ]' WSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. / R8 h8 ?, |; p7 {) c: j有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。6 d6 N: l* [7 W' J; k' x: X
Have you ever done that?/ x [% m# i$ P
你曾有过这种经历吗？( C/ v+ {& H$ W: [7 r
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too." w( b; [/ G2 V0 }* Z0 D5 _
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 2 b* r( C2 e3 ~4 G: }I have called someone because I want to tell them something. % l2 v$ x; L& w/ p我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。8 |& _! q% u( c& i
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 6 a; [6 S1 n" b8 Q1 G4 B然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 0 G& {' y4 j5 ?9 ~& wWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. $ v: l0 z6 y' O: F. I哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。1 F9 {: y9 Z1 ?$ \0 e$ l- X ^
That's a memory problem.4 w- o( a8 b6 N8 c8 R
这是一个记忆问题。" t2 n2 N, E6 e7 e' f9 k
I guess that counts too. 7 F: { `- K- F* P5 u% W4 o我想那很重要。" `; k1 s5 E% \, j; x- y0 d
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?: \4 @* K( Q8 u- o* ^
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？! i T% A2 m* A2 U5 }
At one point, there was a reason we do something.3 s8 G: c7 ]0 ^& M8 w/ A
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。& C3 B$ R" ^5 l
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.1 t# \, a" V& c; _% ?8 C
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。- x5 W' U( a" O/ f
It's always could to ask ourselves why.% e l- U! c' y% c
总是可以问问自己为什么。 2 a, r0 x7 [/ `, {" n( Q; VWhy did I start to learn a language? ' Z" Q+ _8 v- x为什么我开始学习一种语言？ - Q( s5 N3 N) L: w; KWhy did I join this club? $ {% L; o2 |8 c% W% f+ K+ e为什么我加入这个俱乐部？8 w y! F6 b, s( l0 p; s2 {) J
Why my friend was this person? 5 R* ~2 O% U; A为什么我的朋友是这个人？ + L: w5 Z, A* Y& zWhy did I get married?; A# l9 y5 Q8 G z. J: L7 q/ `
为什么我要结婚？% B4 m& B' G4 L* B0 @3 M& \
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.) S6 f7 E ?! @' D3 U2 C, T
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。: G2 p+ L& l4 {! ~
I think we need indeed remind us of why." U0 w1 z0 _& n
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 3 [: Z G6 E, O% }0 O) tOr else it's tough to finish what we started. D2 j: Q* ` Y6 q9 ]+ }否则很难完成我们所开始的。 9 c' { i6 j: m1 X* Q) E1 [We stop starting. We quit the club.8 c C7 v& {# a) l
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ( j" A5 z4 F4 L* t$ ^We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 6 n2 w9 C/ j( I" E O: L* o我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 % \5 X% p& o- q5 Q& H" q) OThere's nothing wrong with asking why. 0 s2 O) b. x9 ?4 ~9 Z问为什么没什么问题。: [; f$ I( Z2 \( k) V
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.# c1 ~4 C1 Q4 c) ^+ j
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。+ F2 T9 r( j1 G; h8 t
Talk about it.8 f5 Y$ K2 o2 r4 y# L5 a# m% z
谈论下面的话题： - v5 p4 F. [7 b3 t! y9 s& dIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? % e* y5 P7 z: q/ X你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 2 \( i9 T: j) v% }/ B: A3 Y8 k1 EIs it a kind of distant memory? 5 c$ j3 K& Q# U; X6 R' S它是一种遥远的记忆？& ~6 x3 |" n' m. i
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...* K! F, m# B/ K
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ]+ _) ^" c7 S& Z, G6 r
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 6 A! ?) ^2 T" h1 q9 G你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ : J1 \' ]6 L. |' {9 t% t/ HDo you write memos? $ r: E5 u) `5 }5 e& M你写备忘录吗？ 1 t& K$ H- z+ p' K A* N ZDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?2 K4 U. N8 G" _: \
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 1 i+ z$ F3 D! ^What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?, ~7 c8 @+ s. Z3 r: j
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ $ e! D, t# p! K' Y' ^What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? " X) P' M" C) i3 ?7 n1 b) X你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？