标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something , K8 Z3 C: T. ]& D! N. n3 w3 O* G# `7 \3 I! |# G) l
记住我们为什么做某事 ' u5 M) h4 R: s: e3 [" F# iSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.+ Y7 w/ \' C& t9 G
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。0 ~5 `7 o3 N+ y; I5 B. u( u$ J
Have you ever done that? ( x: p; _/ o. j8 Q6 @你曾有过这种经历吗？ 4 V, Y9 ?1 U. R! E6 J9 aI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.$ a) Y1 O9 W9 X7 i' x I
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。7 C0 A! g4 |8 e+ i( t7 a2 f
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.4 i! o8 s, ]8 L* J
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 % L$ r0 ~4 N/ m, OAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.' e1 Z' R7 @$ p: u9 V
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。0 y6 J6 }7 t9 Z' ^ R/ y
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.5 G0 ~% g8 w8 ?& a0 q5 m
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。' K+ N- ~# j0 N m
That's a memory problem. 2 X; C/ n$ P7 v7 l8 c这是一个记忆问题。) R4 u2 X) Y( i! ?; |( Y
I guess that counts too. # e! X6 h: R6 n我想那很重要。) i# j! i, U+ P- y5 C3 `4 u$ A5 y
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?) B+ B4 ^, h/ I: n4 s4 n, `4 k# _
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？6 y+ p# o5 B4 t* u
At one point, there was a reason we do something.: I# L+ D! V7 N6 H
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。3 i5 a2 i! e) f
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 6 V% H. F1 q# `/ `" ?对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 5 p/ _1 f' N: O0 W0 n3 w9 E+ dIt's always could to ask ourselves why.. G; Z! z V( f! h1 s" j
总是可以问问自己为什么。3 C3 W* Q& C' u! ~) u& n$ _- j4 ^
Why did I start to learn a language?( N* S9 {( P' b: a. {- _
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ : }; N2 J$ m* q' G! UWhy did I join this club?" k- A: Q# x [- J( u
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？) I) X5 U6 s9 I9 \- r' i
Why my friend was this person?0 F6 D$ X; l+ Q8 c% j
为什么我的朋友是这个人？! b' N6 N0 O8 a; j- B
Why did I get married? - p4 c0 ~% U3 B为什么我要结婚？3 `" W3 m$ k. i/ Y
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.* o: p- `! ?! `6 v7 X0 Q! g9 ^. |
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。! X: d' w/ \9 M G
I think we need indeed remind us of why.: ?3 S$ k% o6 F; x
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。1 d& Z# D& ?6 A$ U9 E
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.8 [% o( p6 b& ]; G- C' s
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 + f: X; ~+ B1 p4 YWe stop starting. We quit the club. ' O; w3 w `3 X$ c: w7 Z3 }9 B我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 6 P1 s5 z9 O+ |We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.$ f( V- L% l7 ]& Q6 ~
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ) w) E8 i; p4 f _5 u! R! ]There's nothing wrong with asking why. $ x. _7 ~' d" [3 g$ s. @4 |4 i9 D问为什么没什么问题。 ! _1 R! O) k; |* d- X) G. ^In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 0 q4 {+ p* o: b% W5 t2 T事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。9 w( i2 o0 n! |# q
Talk about it.( _8 f3 D0 Q/ `: k3 }. c8 M1 B* _8 Z
谈论下面的话题：, f/ X# c; Y# A E) ]. G1 O
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?& ~+ }0 F. ?, d& W! @% M
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 1 o) R- m* C+ l/ g0 p! gIs it a kind of distant memory?( z/ {/ I" i6 C; X& Z
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 3 e, P8 ~, k1 h4 g2 K. {* e* TDid you ever forget why you are doing something...1 O# l- h9 {3 |
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ; j3 m6 I8 J U. a" d; EHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? & S# g% i' O# B$ |2 o你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 2 I) u) f) C6 V$ }Do you write memos? " t; d( U+ F% h7 n% t& R你写备忘录吗？ : D% Q n+ r( D: J8 G( ~Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 1 L0 g$ {4 C5 W你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？% P& {; `+ j0 _9 U2 E& F: V; D) G
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?/ w6 m7 k( ~) p0 O" [6 b* d
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？4 s- c, W3 C# H, \1 B
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?$ I% P, H. s# B# S
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？