标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 1 j* W) ]3 V' j3 y) h- d( V5 u' T* Q3 t
记住我们为什么做某事 ( @# H# v8 Q# p( ], hSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.. c9 y, ?6 [1 b0 l3 `7 i: ^0 u
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。1 U% ?0 o5 @! V; e
Have you ever done that? 0 ~3 Z! H" U4 _ a4 g你曾有过这种经历吗？ 8 x+ S% F0 ^6 B9 I, |I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.! b1 S7 W% }7 E# B8 F1 R% W V
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。3 s# l& A; \- m: X' @! O
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. ; g+ W% c" L% {* S# \# V我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 9 i C) r. `5 W3 Q/ C5 {And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. / q J0 P9 [6 G然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。+ x: Q$ Y+ q5 y
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 8 @8 C, [7 {3 k* {3 b# ]1 l' \哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。/ z, p8 |% U" \$ c2 Q- O: Q; X
That's a memory problem.2 [1 J ?( {0 R
这是一个记忆问题。 * A5 y1 t, S9 n8 `I guess that counts too.5 K% B5 R7 X2 W: b6 f: v
我想那很重要。# p0 _0 W) n" h* u0 H
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?6 F2 p. M" _ o9 B; @& k
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？& B) a+ ]) B2 `
At one point, there was a reason we do something.# z4 s1 @$ H+ f7 R
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ( _7 }6 M" ?1 nFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. . F! r; `6 P* \% z q$ f' p+ O对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 6 d: @# a, x2 U# SIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 8 |6 s4 p [3 N( H总是可以问问自己为什么。# e) }' e4 v. D4 W4 a+ d+ @
Why did I start to learn a language? @6 l7 a( ^- r4 H为什么我开始学习一种语言？ " U0 I9 C9 z1 YWhy did I join this club?( x0 M" P3 L- P* G: e1 W# P4 V* t
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ( c) s$ k/ X$ {Why my friend was this person? * b" A; ?; d$ H+ F6 U% k+ _为什么我的朋友是这个人？( ^9 C9 ^8 `( s0 U( @' o2 |
Why did I get married? 9 q8 n2 e. q8 N' Q为什么我要结婚？# O1 A8 |, J" N9 E9 y. f
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. , K/ b1 J( y1 P5 F$ i& e/ y如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ( I0 A2 y$ C( H8 }$ fI think we need indeed remind us of why.. z+ g& F1 X5 |% V( X
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。0 D7 a8 Z( ^9 q; ?* {" g' v
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. * `8 k: A) Y$ z8 f# p: S否则很难完成我们所开始的。 + w: S* b# q O2 OWe stop starting. We quit the club.- |! h$ u1 Y8 G7 P
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。5 o" E5 Z2 O; G
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 4 l: h/ }6 v1 _# i我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。& g3 @. i8 t% w* v' r
There's nothing wrong with asking why.$ N" n! V+ ]: c( y1 n x
问为什么没什么问题。! m% _6 R3 U' k" v0 Q
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.6 X+ K9 C. \) L- q* v
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。4 [" z9 ]$ ^* n
Talk about it. & s6 R: r" o q+ V/ I4 X; v) [谈论下面的话题： t9 `- Q' {3 `. @/ D
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?: ?$ s& u6 l8 M* H% P, z
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ + u" K9 ]6 F/ _" G3 hIs it a kind of distant memory?3 V. ?) o& d: P* V
它是一种遥远的记忆？ . }# }2 q4 ]# ~ l, l) {Did you ever forget why you are doing something... + m; J' R4 p: d9 X1 |5 Q你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……. i9 V0 M) q" S5 @' N
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? " K6 ?' M1 S* h+ O! D你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ # u1 ~! Z5 c: ^Do you write memos?3 A1 K$ w, H$ Y0 b4 u
你写备忘录吗？: M; J" `$ b! f$ n; C
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?; Y8 M( I+ u5 P
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ " J( W8 C7 x4 N; O) J0 R p: v; aWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?$ W- \/ J: F4 T& O7 O$ |+ p5 F
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？6 D. X% B' d8 @* x3 s3 I1 e4 l
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? , F2 L4 S" b5 p1 e; h K你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？