标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something% ^! [1 I# T. w8 I& o/ |
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记住我们为什么做某事 : `" L( ~8 X9 W( YSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.0 U8 f) W0 X5 A
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 $ l7 y: n+ f0 x" b* E2 n* }: QHave you ever done that?4 \4 j4 N7 ]$ j+ `) P9 X2 M. m
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 2 Q% T0 B! N! {9 \# K: LI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. / `% f; ]$ h) p: W我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 6 r+ z& n @# C8 \; c, [I have called someone because I want to tell them something. , K1 P O0 @! o' r我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。- G3 N1 B* C0 F a9 s5 p' D5 R
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.( x& V, q6 h6 E t
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。% w' y5 S6 x. R; \! i0 ~6 M
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. / a5 P) @ P- K! {! A哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。0 ]8 G/ k' |/ b7 G, v/ G6 d# N9 M
That's a memory problem.( r" B$ T! B* T7 m
这是一个记忆问题。% a' x5 }1 t) \0 e. l2 X! T
I guess that counts too.% D. u' y2 c' Y" ~; ]9 d. x; K
我想那很重要。 5 X3 w" `; O7 X9 f2 fBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? h+ [4 m+ L( C6 {6 s+ H- Y
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ' ]1 I5 z8 C2 B- aAt one point, there was a reason we do something.0 }8 Q5 n1 k3 {: h( R! O' V3 R
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 D; J. P, C" f% l6 M% \: s& \
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.( I" T# }! T% n
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。* V* {) c7 }* G! A* U: W! a
It's always could to ask ourselves why. / p6 L) L& W( Y2 g总是可以问问自己为什么。! V9 K, i0 j3 m$ z k) A
Why did I start to learn a language? % i5 D6 _% [5 H$ J为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 3 j$ ]! z3 B; r7 m) X+ I5 CWhy did I join this club? X4 w" F/ y" d7 a7 W
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ) R: c' a6 r3 _; V# jWhy my friend was this person? * X* b7 T1 f Z7 A+ y9 _- o: _为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 8 G7 G& C% d$ f9 D# u8 vWhy did I get married? / ]1 K+ P9 E- m; w/ w; z% S* X为什么我要结婚？ " n7 y" r5 `; J: M: ?$ x& UIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 3 [7 u4 X* Z$ A8 Y$ B) ^如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 y2 z4 U' C% r k3 wI think we need indeed remind us of why. 6 W# \: s4 ]! E6 p& Q+ K, u/ }我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ) y' Y2 R @/ ~1 s1 y& U6 R UOr else it's tough to finish what we started.$ @2 l* J# T! I5 `" o2 \
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 : v( L5 @0 G: z: a1 p/ Y3 }0 T. u$ DWe stop starting. We quit the club.7 ?! O* C2 q- E0 R3 s! t
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 $ [3 t; D$ E X( U7 e3 o* FWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 8 V5 S8 k$ w4 H+ \+ A1 |4 R2 Y; t我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。4 ^: Z7 S) d# g
There's nothing wrong with asking why.- r1 g- ]8 N! O3 ?: J7 X
问为什么没什么问题。& m/ u8 H7 |, E% z% K$ g& a& K( U
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 5 x3 E9 u1 j# m$ X/ V, p, L事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 . u3 Y: t; S; R3 F* s/ l$ {Talk about it./ I6 r/ }0 ]' f2 L: m
谈论下面的话题： {: T; P g7 [- d( }( KIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ; G9 X" A4 K; B" W你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ' }7 E* _5 A% N' TIs it a kind of distant memory? # [" P: x6 P/ |$ ?& @% H& O* d它是一种遥远的记忆？, C- i. H4 p: J
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 2 w7 `( z4 c. P# _+ g你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… $ n( H! K% D# L s- LHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? , S! n* j1 c* S" G3 o" R你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ & J8 a3 S! e: @6 Q A4 MDo you write memos?: v/ u' _, ]8 t9 C
你写备忘录吗？9 I4 D; ]5 h& J0 ^' d
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ; q8 ]/ m0 z9 F# {你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ; m) W) h! i8 xWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? * Y. E |; J7 t还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？5 j H4 D. j: C$ F9 O' s& H
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?- r! T0 U! Q6 _; @) Z- @% G
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？