标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something , G* F* J0 Z2 w* P2 k D) B2 P & I4 Y8 m; K$ t' z0 k3 u, R* @记住我们为什么做某事3 b4 }: t' p/ Q
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. - ?3 c. B' ~' W5 Q5 Q有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 $ _+ J3 p# q% v6 `* MHave you ever done that? / P, ?8 f* o. j& g5 {3 _& Y2 {- f你曾有过这种经历吗？! l* u" V" Z W: i! y
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. - B+ P* j |" j: `5 g1 j我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 % X9 @7 {3 X3 w1 W- \ ^I have called someone because I want to tell them something. . a, I( [1 O6 _; z9 ~我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 / S3 w/ w/ r# x% ]: g2 m5 NAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.: u% d4 Q7 V* ]8 Q- {+ i) z
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。5 _, |. c. s% V( b6 ^- F
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.: X; U+ T1 p2 n$ d
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。! j( t) F: k8 k n4 ]) n3 N3 L
That's a memory problem.# y7 W) Z# n$ T
这是一个记忆问题。 ( |1 Z: r) U: |) v* ZI guess that counts too.9 p. b$ [' W" n; ^$ w, o
我想那很重要。 ) ^7 v9 s8 }$ [But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?3 o' E' ?3 N& a# k j0 l0 P0 @3 S6 e
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？- R a/ r' A O4 i" ^( a B
At one point, there was a reason we do something.+ \# @8 M& k* U. ~
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。/ z0 b: W i! U0 \8 A
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.: m# G% x' _9 E6 l9 s
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 , _2 T6 n; F, `( k2 NIt's always could to ask ourselves why.- W- l1 x$ M) X% f- P; }6 ^5 r
总是可以问问自己为什么。 $ {* M, t0 Y: `' x* C3 V( {' Z+ C kWhy did I start to learn a language? . k( ]9 x2 S2 _, A- p# e9 i为什么我开始学习一种语言？( s: K7 T; ^: y0 q0 U; o
Why did I join this club? 2 @. o) d# P5 U! T. [' b为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ! ^, Z1 B) d: U& {- \Why my friend was this person?9 t+ [( W" ~& k5 X
为什么我的朋友是这个人？, k9 ?" p! z& q# I
Why did I get married? - a: q1 y2 H3 M8 A为什么我要结婚？ ! L! Z) x$ S) }8 F6 F% s) ~# r! SIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 6 l1 k) }: X8 ]# q如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 0 r9 i# \# G' L: \7 VI think we need indeed remind us of why.$ R/ h! l( U6 V! d: W7 N
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 . q% ^4 q0 a9 C0 EOr else it's tough to finish what we started.6 J$ |2 N+ s ]5 Y$ m* ~$ F7 w) m
否则很难完成我们所开始的。* l& l0 i$ q f; C3 L/ Q
We stop starting. We quit the club.; e- s ^- d- \1 p% J2 N% m2 p
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 " H: }% W5 x8 N6 D% q+ B& x2 x8 BWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 5 a$ s6 I- A6 J0 f, O8 N5 N我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。1 @9 L2 X) F' ~2 i; Q
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ) ?- w6 s. Y; w问为什么没什么问题。 o7 G A3 t v) |
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. + U2 c6 T% i- J0 n, A; P5 R事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。* W x2 L, P# Z1 _6 A. H% ^
Talk about it. . w) [) U% ^, |7 S* y: L谈论下面的话题： 8 `' A6 U$ l" Z, f9 {/ X& d9 C: F0 hIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? " L1 I, X; u2 s你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？# J5 w n* H, d* G/ [! w
Is it a kind of distant memory? 4 Z& h$ Q! _8 r* v! \它是一种遥远的记忆？ * A/ D0 @' H# @9 H. P+ U8 m; UDid you ever forget why you are doing something...# c+ E6 J9 _. P" l+ ?
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……) O" [) Y$ [* v9 @" @8 o
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?+ d. _& I5 k4 h( P6 H4 w9 o0 i- n
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？, }' x2 U' t6 O0 l/ j( e
Do you write memos? ) M s$ z/ K9 a$ N3 D你写备忘录吗？0 h5 z! D, @/ C% J2 n; G2 ^6 @2 |
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?+ G# k8 I( v8 Y0 B2 t
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？% _. o6 w' W; C' x$ {
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?+ `: A! ]- F( M# x! V, s
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？( `! ]3 K. B4 J
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 0 y) x9 Y6 r" E& i* ]你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？