标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ' j; x5 q9 a$ m9 k6 o0 x9 E1 g5 v# S2 y+ V$ A: E
记住我们为什么做某事 [4 p* O6 J. l) v8 Z. j- W; Y% P! ~Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.: q7 D& g- x; p( N
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。% t% d0 U/ v& ~( N* g# W
Have you ever done that?, m: g' E, }$ t% s
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 7 w x8 Y7 z2 W8 v x: fI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ) U* J. E9 d/ t8 a' E9 W. Z0 h我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。3 O k) V" o$ z7 N1 O! c
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.$ ~) X" A4 f5 r) j# g* ~4 v
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 6 n$ h( a X; k% q3 g" R% sAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 9 b- U( t+ K% F0 W然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 + R5 ]8 Z, x8 ~Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.8 k2 h- |# w3 R. k# K' n
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 2 q: K7 r- W- z) O" S/ d' w: oThat's a memory problem.+ V0 m& T! M6 L* ~: h3 z2 v+ m
这是一个记忆问题。 8 D: d! c& |" ]I guess that counts too. - m" P9 t7 @- ^! ?5 ~/ I" j; T我想那很重要。4 z6 s1 c; e8 e- j! m
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 6 L8 t4 [* Y) |/ v但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？' c' m0 h9 a; b9 {) ]5 a
At one point, there was a reason we do something.# ]5 x# f3 h* S: R7 G* Y7 e
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。8 z$ m% x6 O: E1 \3 P& h% e
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 2 U0 v' d* C7 m4 O& D对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ! p7 ~- ~3 T5 Q: X$ zIt's always could to ask ourselves why.3 a4 @ ~, Q1 |) U
总是可以问问自己为什么。 1 N1 e9 ]2 Q+ D) m7 Z9 n1 OWhy did I start to learn a language? T4 I( I a4 v9 o9 `6 A( D* N2 b
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 0 G- p; a6 U2 C5 C7 W$ V M5 }* D: pWhy did I join this club?* [! A0 Z' L8 S; l9 p
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ' L1 P6 N8 u1 ^. m2 Q5 W' xWhy my friend was this person?; f7 w$ R, T7 j! p" K$ M) \
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ & j5 V1 \/ T5 F7 c- T' d! xWhy did I get married?( w( P' H% [4 r x6 q
为什么我要结婚？ j6 n, \1 A! I& UIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.- L% ]# w$ O2 ^' D- H( D
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 2 w: |7 h4 R0 m. w, a8 e/ L0 C$ X- FI think we need indeed remind us of why. 5 t$ C9 s. g. _& X, L我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。0 \) h" j/ h5 f: z+ a% _$ a
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. , p6 m8 K' k5 E! q1 c; Q否则很难完成我们所开始的。 - G f/ [6 b" B5 a5 e, Z; V; wWe stop starting. We quit the club.# Z7 ?0 f) F' h* F/ V
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。7 W7 K& X+ `0 N3 ]
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. . O) f( @, a; P# C( {: g* v我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 2 Z7 f& c u' _7 {There's nothing wrong with asking why. - |) a. p) [7 Q, T问为什么没什么问题。 - K+ b, F# F6 zIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.( o4 U- X& H" v0 K0 k+ \6 H
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。( e! H( v' n: ?3 Y- i
Talk about it. ' R5 ~. ?, g% V谈论下面的话题： ' \2 Y* V7 {2 ~6 f$ TIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? . c: ~; M2 L+ c C' {4 F你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？9 Y6 {$ _1 b9 ^1 E+ P0 d' }
Is it a kind of distant memory?& x+ d& S S" i, A
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 2 [3 _. q$ u* S, n* hDid you ever forget why you are doing something...# X2 g$ t T) o& f& u; o: s
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……; R3 J [+ H* }7 q$ I4 Y" [
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? * t- I" Z+ [( e$ B你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ s L4 P9 K" V* W; ADo you write memos? 9 f0 M) F `% ~3 N% t a: e( |你写备忘录吗？$ m9 y7 p D2 d1 O/ u& a
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? G, e, L: ^$ w你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？/ {9 V$ T: B. R/ j* ?& T" V- i3 a
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 3 h/ O2 h; o1 Q# | x- O还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？: z" _8 n: l p8 Z% Q1 g* v
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?: d0 Q) r' Z3 v2 `' ?$ m# H4 z
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？