标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something3 F. X3 p+ J' Z* J/ U4 r) _
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记住我们为什么做某事 . s% Q" u7 E; @* M% Z7 H9 nSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. $ {. j( C& V& K9 A$ \/ B6 c5 Q0 C有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。( z* t7 `! g" `( W6 F! j
Have you ever done that? t% p) d4 L: I; D1 u) x1 [你曾有过这种经历吗？ 7 t, [! n2 g) e* D* w- LI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 1 X. T+ f4 Z, t" f1 x% l我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 6 f% d0 S0 W/ \+ E+ TI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 2 W1 b( Y6 i4 ~4 a' y我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。' r5 c2 A: a; d2 V
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.- ~( T% w9 q' D g1 J( e
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 8 k# W0 p$ o; E ?& D5 ?( EWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ! U( e+ Z& C1 j5 p8 `6 B, I% Z" P( f哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 " Z$ ? _9 u! ]) lThat's a memory problem. ) @) g2 P" U- a' W: _3 d这是一个记忆问题。 * i" v" f3 B3 w9 E) j5 V# ?I guess that counts too. 0 }3 T1 p6 \$ s$ r我想那很重要。* _8 m, }+ @. @% h& r; S1 A- E
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?5 J% E) U5 Q k! U: s
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ / a( U9 U. F7 t: cAt one point, there was a reason we do something.5 m: X8 C" u3 k0 p0 J- N. ?
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。- Z7 k& A# u& Q
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.! w9 X& A8 Z J6 C
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 7 G% |& p B- D. |1 gIt's always could to ask ourselves why. ! t: y/ o \) I: {% ?( y7 Q总是可以问问自己为什么。 4 v5 R* `3 x/ z' L+ U6 t- u0 NWhy did I start to learn a language?& t* p; v0 I2 c- p& J* j
为什么我开始学习一种语言？! ]1 H8 S4 H6 L) M, n& F" ]
Why did I join this club? 2 }9 b# ] L" F9 J1 ^* t0 d为什么我加入这个俱乐部？: @1 d* G+ }9 N& \3 |+ z: s$ t
Why my friend was this person?' |3 i5 x! Z2 {4 l$ G) K5 W, C- ]1 ^0 W [
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ / h& X2 k6 D# A$ G* @* P" IWhy did I get married? / I* Y, I& E9 g: E& R为什么我要结婚？ * q3 I! `. C1 e" J) L. \If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 6 a v# i$ g3 \7 X/ j" Z8 O如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。# q# S# H! s# B
I think we need indeed remind us of why.$ |. e" y% a: {, X
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 n0 e9 I% l# G, I' [2 W3 I
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.. p% N, S. D+ O
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ; @: \8 X N: pWe stop starting. We quit the club.& y8 o$ v# S, R5 u2 ]4 Y+ U7 V( m* i8 X
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 $ O! P4 M7 i# R& Z4 n& eWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. - |3 _# D% I9 ^% Q* C我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。' ?: g7 h/ ^- }! K* X' t
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 9 g1 \3 `, \3 J9 n问为什么没什么问题。3 A! t) O2 v6 |' N K% O
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.- B% N9 @, z! ^& g% p
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。, L- J. o ~2 s; i4 }4 r9 H$ S
Talk about it. ( Y0 D5 i0 O: t3 e d$ ^7 d谈论下面的话题：4 M8 C5 S% E! Z- L0 b' b/ x) i: m4 T
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?: V. A, m2 C- M; L7 _
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ( N6 |3 }. b& c& {9 n4 o# |Is it a kind of distant memory?3 B6 P0 B+ o7 B' a/ R
它是一种遥远的记忆？ / w# O" H# F! ~: M, dDid you ever forget why you are doing something...& A, x: G4 v% S8 @
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……% M6 Z N. P; p& {1 `8 x
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? - C4 Z% e$ |+ c. o$ g* ?% n你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ $ X, g( r& t0 BDo you write memos?3 ~4 ~1 p6 C1 j) h, W3 w& |0 `
你写备忘录吗？6 [# n8 F2 C+ D3 w
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? " M% Y0 W* T" W ~8 Q你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？- n0 R+ f0 `( u- @& k9 i/ t* L, E
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?& R! ^( O8 ]+ W( e7 ^% ]
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？, Z8 F( v+ f) _! J5 }
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?' Z0 Z: u+ g3 t0 q6 ?
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？