标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 1 D& G, c8 ~, A8 b8 t1 }0 l% p' w" h) t2 w3 p: @# ?
记住我们为什么做某事3 J0 N. K1 p) T, p
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.) k3 B8 f V) z, s2 p
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。9 X$ C" T! P5 {6 F6 @! [6 [
Have you ever done that? ( `' g+ |& U& N( S' D你曾有过这种经历吗？8 T }# r) ?3 |* z
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. {+ C C! g4 M$ B
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 J$ L. }1 B( OI have called someone because I want to tell them something., b* C/ s; I* e% T% c0 c
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。5 X( }( M" k/ d) a- O4 s
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.2 }5 `, C5 N) E; c0 h1 T5 H
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。8 B% E* t% R5 T
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.% p3 m, G- N% k2 x7 J7 d5 n2 P
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。3 w" y9 f& f- U+ g# [) ]/ T
That's a memory problem. 6 K2 c' \$ b- A* E' G这是一个记忆问题。" Z8 Z! C3 V9 X5 {$ m& L
I guess that counts too. . U K; g8 Z0 R% e3 ^. u" i我想那很重要。 1 l* j$ k" C" Z% T2 yBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? # H0 P( H, I4 C) {7 V. S+ e0 b但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？/ d0 }# I$ H1 y) ^6 n2 `, {
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 3 r6 X( _4 D' `在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 4 T, Q4 L3 _+ X3 k& i7 S6 K! zFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.* D% b" v4 H1 E% b ?7 y
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 " J6 ]+ k8 z6 ?/ A' [It's always could to ask ourselves why.: }7 d: \! d% I: w/ I) _5 r
总是可以问问自己为什么。7 N( i1 D8 r. i* L5 `
Why did I start to learn a language?0 A1 }2 q- ?5 \1 o/ G
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ + G5 I4 L2 G( y) J# {Why did I join this club?9 s \& N- b& O$ z& r7 F K0 H
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 8 @3 Q: m; k% N% N) s0 MWhy my friend was this person?& M- P% d, S7 K1 c. J+ i
为什么我的朋友是这个人？& y3 Y" c& y' }" A) S( |6 N
Why did I get married? ! j# d4 S$ [/ z' _* Z为什么我要结婚？ + D% f# {% c# U+ T8 m+ J4 lIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.* t- I% u( y+ |- O1 T) G2 o
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。. e" H0 e2 R! M
I think we need indeed remind us of why.$ u9 G& o/ |: y) {/ L
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 3 B% Q% q* |' \4 |# U( Q% O# g* DOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 0 q- \7 o! q; i. g% H( X否则很难完成我们所开始的。6 @/ Q0 U& u4 R1 K9 l2 x
We stop starting. We quit the club.( v& `2 x6 E( X; s
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。: ~; X8 [2 J6 `* Z9 e2 ]
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.% N# s) d& N7 d1 ?+ I# Z. s h
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 : u" q( j7 v( Y7 `5 G3 kThere's nothing wrong with asking why. 7 [" B* @2 Z6 D! M N问为什么没什么问题。 $ o6 d7 F$ Z+ vIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. l7 f4 w% d4 ?4 n8 ?
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。3 H+ T) G' _4 M2 w1 u' O4 E; X
Talk about it. - ]5 u; A( V! E \/ ~% d5 S8 H谈论下面的话题： * W. j" I1 b& PIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?1 n8 M1 {* _9 j- \: c, E! {' f
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？2 L# z/ E& X4 K3 C$ r% ^4 _
Is it a kind of distant memory?3 x: U3 Y6 O' j- ?4 h( f5 S( ?
它是一种遥远的记忆？3 J& Z" R1 Q7 H0 [2 d* c2 e/ |( z
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... . `/ L c% r# \/ d5 f" ]0 D你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ( X& P! \" ~: X4 P! e: \How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 3 P5 j# q* Q! H: P3 w你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 2 w2 G& p/ Z# H, e+ s2 r( fDo you write memos?8 H( n+ y8 l8 [" V8 A5 h3 l/ b
你写备忘录吗？, Z. j) R$ I6 |# U; x6 p* [; s2 P
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 5 m. e3 W3 ^3 q2 W5 j: d- R u% P你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ : X; H/ ? Z' s5 M0 ]What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 4 f! L$ u; w1 \+ ~! e! h5 W还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ % s. K0 @; l- KWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 5 ], E- T+ Q9 i5 B2 ?. X你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？