标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something& u& X1 c3 ^! p/ k
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记住我们为什么做某事( q9 S! l2 L& \" ~/ \
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 5 R& a( c: `* t0 [% o有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ( A# G4 P( B) k" W& U6 V- HHave you ever done that? " F, q0 p. ^% S3 e" K: X* r: E你曾有过这种经历吗？ % d) c8 S0 G S) O2 T5 N/ KI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.5 @) I9 s! m( `* O
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 s* c7 ~, ^$ e1 O. J9 ^8 H
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. + t3 J% M$ g/ L9 G* S我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。+ ?+ Q' O6 p* E8 y- p' n1 H
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ; I/ E M/ E" A1 I* k5 {$ X然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。8 q; i- a0 ~( u7 I! D4 O
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. : Y+ a; e$ w0 u% h. f4 j) L% v; ]; k哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 * r' W. C/ ^: f3 T! NThat's a memory problem. ! h6 v! I9 j& F/ _" b这是一个记忆问题。2 K: N6 h' e! l0 ^. ~) x
I guess that counts too.. g: a5 |8 w$ o$ ~0 |; G
我想那很重要。/ R( ~8 L ] r' r8 t; j. u5 d8 L
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ' j- v) A) u G& O但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ) ^: u0 K" b! P, i- pAt one point, there was a reason we do something./ W5 M% w3 X$ P2 [
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。" C6 v( Z1 z, D4 j
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 7 T B0 x/ W0 |7 a& w- i% |( }对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ! K2 r1 X- n: F. \7 XIt's always could to ask ourselves why.& c- `0 U0 T4 a7 E, q
总是可以问问自己为什么。" [( ^' X2 ^* m
Why did I start to learn a language? 7 R# e) ]" x) ~# g) k% q为什么我开始学习一种语言？ K! X) O% Q7 b7 y$ m( g
Why did I join this club?6 Q- @$ I( D9 T( D5 e l8 l% E
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 1 `$ Z$ Q- r' l3 I' j' z, Y( rWhy my friend was this person?( K% n, S6 s9 D# t. W
为什么我的朋友是这个人？, F% l0 m% J* L. i& {# G
Why did I get married? % D& r+ R, D. a* ]: J为什么我要结婚？ . ]# `+ |$ J/ L |/ c5 xIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 2 \# Y. r6 H- m% j如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ! a( H/ R. u# o0 B1 F9 U0 [I think we need indeed remind us of why. 1 q$ s' B9 `6 ]: _7 V8 `我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。1 A6 O3 N8 {/ Y, ]& R
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.; f% o5 R: N. M" u% g
否则很难完成我们所开始的。( ]7 O- K+ ^4 r0 c
We stop starting. We quit the club. ) E& h2 d! j2 r. y3 g我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。; P% M3 i& M# N% [- N- e
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.- F, [6 K, S% \8 z# N
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 & p- U: R1 i) u& sThere's nothing wrong with asking why. 0 K. y4 ^4 m7 d7 }+ e/ N问为什么没什么问题。 : V5 T8 A* {$ F- W. m' g8 ZIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 2 U- F X6 e( C" q& m& @2 P' c事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。, t/ l$ r' r$ P. W
Talk about it. _/ K: ^. ^& F$ O0 T% `" ^/ d
谈论下面的话题： 9 g. K* e2 E! v ]2 r& NIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?, ]8 _, l$ {* w" p4 V3 M% z
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ! z* W) U) t {& TIs it a kind of distant memory? 9 [4 Y; e# e. I0 x它是一种遥远的记忆？ + }, p" _ ~2 |Did you ever forget why you are doing something...( c1 N$ M5 A& R, ^% s6 a+ d$ V
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……2 V, G8 M$ M0 r1 S3 }& K
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ( \' n5 A; F b" }$ g+ z你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？! L; t) [" d+ p) J1 K( ~
Do you write memos? ' f5 V, d$ P5 @0 e5 a* s% x3 a1 ]你写备忘录吗？ % m# ?- x7 V9 ]5 uDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? , e# P" X2 i% C4 u( N你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 4 N9 H6 \% b3 n+ i7 iWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? " [# |, C* \% a9 S8 k6 R3 ~ S7 \还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？7 \% Q- I" l/ l2 J8 u6 q* l, [
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?8 V& z" X" g+ q8 ^: f9 E! G0 U
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？