标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something / t8 q; @0 s( h8 J% q3 ~; j; I * B |* d7 a+ _/ m+ X记住我们为什么做某事 5 D2 w) o" t% t' e0 jSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 3 J$ L/ k, t5 Q a有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。) @. }6 X, K+ \; r# @3 A9 C/ F
Have you ever done that? : H0 R7 m2 r" M5 e5 b2 y你曾有过这种经历吗？6 R+ r0 i0 g: A8 O6 w5 L
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. $ n) z+ v6 u; d# V3 C我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。5 V$ H# l5 G( g$ X' q0 X6 w/ Z
I have called someone because I want to tell them something./ Z7 `. i, ~5 V3 \& @. b- w% O, x z
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 - W3 ` Q8 \) O5 ?2 d' Q! M: V0 YAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 8 @2 i9 m; q: Z) D* g9 z然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。* n, i+ I$ \3 ~, i& V! m; z
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.9 ?* p7 L0 o) p6 Q( A
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 5 X& i z7 t6 k/ D: V; J* |That's a memory problem.' J% q5 X0 a; C! s5 Q, d, w
这是一个记忆问题。 + L v8 j7 s6 y# n. F5 x. S' PI guess that counts too.5 ?* D M1 s; o6 n
我想那很重要。1 S8 ~0 X2 P9 d6 w4 N' ^4 S$ Y/ }
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?( |6 ~& Q" |1 f5 d7 `% [
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ & @3 P% d$ ^4 s/ LAt one point, there was a reason we do something.8 Z$ f' b* U ~
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 n# }3 f8 c+ b7 Q
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 3 F1 x, N( {4 T2 X. j+ P对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。- I0 {$ c* m1 o6 @
It's always could to ask ourselves why. $ L+ G7 e% p; w* ]总是可以问问自己为什么。, N+ }* |$ P$ P. y/ u1 R
Why did I start to learn a language?! }. x$ i0 u2 g7 f3 @1 K
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ; a* X, G+ I) e |+ D8 sWhy did I join this club?9 t0 N/ L! K' s1 w
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ / t7 F$ s" N7 g! dWhy my friend was this person?0 E* d& [) r4 H( @" _" A# _
为什么我的朋友是这个人？% V2 r! L( K4 J0 ~
Why did I get married? 5 B& U+ ]1 _2 x2 O0 W, [: h为什么我要结婚？- q' Z4 ?, S' X- { S! C
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 3 c0 \4 `. T0 C+ A P4 h h+ J$ H如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。+ @4 U' l5 | |9 f
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 7 O7 ?# D. |+ Z1 a- R( d `/ H( ^: U我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。/ ]7 G- E$ k, ~# A) e
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. $ n% G; h( l8 `3 t2 S7 c. g7 ~否则很难完成我们所开始的。4 |& c& c1 Y. F% [9 d; D/ j
We stop starting. We quit the club. - d3 Z( Z, X4 V8 M我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。7 P2 d4 |6 z( T
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. . R! X$ W B- a; z- a# h" o$ Y我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。2 ?5 X+ Z" w& e. Q. m1 ]4 m9 o! d" }
There's nothing wrong with asking why.5 q( b1 `9 b0 ]( P- l9 P
问为什么没什么问题。 ( y/ T8 U9 N* v8 [* bIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ; U( h" P( A n, y2 u. |事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。+ R3 J3 Y1 N, _
Talk about it. ! o: z1 F2 D/ g) ]/ m谈论下面的话题：( b' O @4 g* b0 x* H5 Q; e3 U
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 9 z) v' k. J$ h. ~* [你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ( S! h# v: [6 p7 q1 E' jIs it a kind of distant memory? ( }! V% y8 b! ?- H; t/ g7 e+ p# e9 {它是一种遥远的记忆？: |1 {' p* }7 d" @
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 7 F+ z5 q) C: B0 R4 u你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……# R) O/ x/ c5 u" V) x/ y, H
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ) n% s; k# N1 G; t& E& d/ r你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 8 q& q8 P9 l9 i% @# |3 U9 O/ gDo you write memos? 4 \% u. I7 U# J J' \/ e你写备忘录吗？- ]" ^7 I- w9 Q3 I5 H
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?5 I x1 ?! {; o3 C
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？5 Y( \8 Q' C- M7 {3 d( K' {( B4 R
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 4 ?2 u. a' f3 ?6 P6 W2 M$ U+ P% v" p还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？$ C/ R* R! |! c
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?# v2 j2 m) r7 a
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？