标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something. I Q, B7 c5 R1 P
- q) M( t% c8 @: e/ Q4 h记住我们为什么做某事7 V) _9 m2 z, T5 c- m
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.! ~: ?& `2 C2 ]" M4 ~" P% A8 b
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。* C, C: x$ w7 g( G5 [
Have you ever done that? * h6 B% c O% ^ _' t* z你曾有过这种经历吗？ 3 U; Q% p9 @' n# e" T: x; T- e) RI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.* n# j/ W n) _, Y6 V$ x
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 % O+ j& q1 l' lI have called someone because I want to tell them something.1 Y/ s! ~( c9 V4 w/ e6 j# ?2 ~* Z
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。. `3 h: e& r) C1 v2 ]
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. - v# a9 x7 n( ?. r( u* _2 g然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 " L! U& f! ?: j& |4 [! f1 bWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 1 L1 n% ?" l' J: _哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。& U6 u# D: `/ E5 I
That's a memory problem. . ^% l5 ~ j% v. Z1 C7 B这是一个记忆问题。0 L8 V4 l3 v( A# d! x- r& r6 A
I guess that counts too.; |! ]5 {8 t8 [& h8 f
我想那很重要。* o! c% e3 [7 M
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? d) s. W0 M! \: ]$ Y但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ) S+ V$ l9 R F3 JAt one point, there was a reason we do something. n5 B+ E( z" W
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。/ q5 }7 ~( L1 v4 z/ S" G! l! Q! Z0 S: n
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.1 ]( e! I- a0 X* A3 p
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。* G9 t0 a! Y1 O% N, X6 S7 a4 Z9 L
It's always could to ask ourselves why.% `, B& Y3 Q! q% f) J
总是可以问问自己为什么。: K; e5 S- Q# K6 @
Why did I start to learn a language?! n3 i L1 I( d) s
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ & h6 U: P- U3 P0 T# V3 G2 HWhy did I join this club?2 [; e( c7 c' _/ T
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ * t& x6 s( {: s* `$ l8 W4 [Why my friend was this person? 8 j' l S) j, L0 M" m为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 1 G" L, Y" k% C7 HWhy did I get married?: L6 c5 e* a' M. B# Z2 J- T
为什么我要结婚？5 {3 g: G3 M0 j+ a- J2 }
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.1 J; J: B: i8 F6 o4 s6 t
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。2 i; R6 ?! d7 E( g2 L
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 3 A+ P, i% |- v我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。! o* ?- i1 K- V: [: {; }
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.5 u0 n2 ^" y' L: a' H/ f, ^* r
否则很难完成我们所开始的。, \8 q( |7 m: G+ W
We stop starting. We quit the club. 1 y9 v8 _4 D( f5 U/ r+ e# _9 y我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 , ~: H: M' |7 L( dWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 5 o; i1 v9 n2 e& x' D, r我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 - w4 \' u; [" s4 h5 }7 VThere's nothing wrong with asking why.4 Y! X# r7 [, l- U& k6 r8 Z P
问为什么没什么问题。 8 F( g) C! d, d1 I) \In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ! Q+ \) _0 @9 c& k( r事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。3 } r/ Z" _5 h4 p1 Y6 [
Talk about it.4 [ Q' A; z( W U: Y, u
谈论下面的话题： / U% v; o$ `( Q4 X% i! J3 s3 @Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?3 Q$ \- ]+ g2 V# W& Q3 A# ?4 R. H
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？0 H$ ~9 |" z. X4 j0 Z
Is it a kind of distant memory? 1 y& A" {3 d- O7 h/ m5 W3 l它是一种遥远的记忆？0 T1 \/ o6 r- R1 P4 Z
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... + h7 w, o$ [1 L2 i/ X你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……8 ]5 Y4 m+ u1 O& l
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?2 M% J$ b+ n# Q# O: g9 w+ ^4 L
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？. K6 P5 Y% r) X$ [
Do you write memos?2 F5 I' r; b* ?/ A9 I, w$ @
你写备忘录吗？6 B+ |$ [/ N" M1 b% t. r
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? + |, k# {2 `4 K1 s; P你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？; T E9 P* n+ X( r L' { F3 ~
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 1 M+ {$ }8 l j/ {) C还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？" R; l, u7 Y/ E7 o- d7 }- c9 M
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?( i& D6 w3 f: {2 g" @) r6 {; N- O
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？