标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 4 ]4 \- Q8 B9 N; q $ E4 t. P2 E" j记住我们为什么做某事$ x2 p) _& \$ b7 K. r# x4 S0 k
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.9 |4 ~' l9 D( A6 v0 `2 z$ V% \
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。2 h9 Q: A- r0 T- t6 Y5 H3 K
Have you ever done that?$ B9 F3 z6 A, Y/ G% j6 }: a
你曾有过这种经历吗？ _1 J4 R: }' L y4 D( |
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.' d5 q( F6 U$ ] a! f6 l1 s( }0 `
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 % Q9 |3 t/ m6 }/ A3 D4 kI have called someone because I want to tell them something.& b3 U% ?- }) ~6 P; [. C. X& `
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。2 J5 l0 K3 c) U9 \* p
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.; D \8 H1 j% Z5 o, G L) K
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。, a0 f. |8 ~& m4 v+ ~ n; |
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.- B4 A% @. W$ B, E
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。, L% w, t$ \* G% _8 }
That's a memory problem. % B2 g$ N+ P- ^4 t% D这是一个记忆问题。 $ }' L) T5 z8 X& G Z( l2 aI guess that counts too." |! s3 W8 Q4 h6 H! W' y+ E8 I
我想那很重要。; h* Y" e9 L1 o6 m
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? * Y2 S; B1 Q) A. h# M5 P; b但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？7 h) }8 r y) i
At one point, there was a reason we do something.* l% n4 D5 ]( K7 P; R1 f+ V. i7 R
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。! g+ M5 W& H4 U% X
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 4 C X4 ~5 D/ F" U# ~1 Y对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。/ p5 s- ~& n6 V, _8 |) Y! O) k2 ^
It's always could to ask ourselves why. . n5 u i7 V0 m2 R总是可以问问自己为什么。 3 N0 e; g& U1 {2 t, J1 rWhy did I start to learn a language? 0 D$ ?; H$ r W5 Z为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 5 ?: D+ g9 V1 y8 wWhy did I join this club? / ?9 ~9 g& l0 M- @. g为什么我加入这个俱乐部？" z/ u. x9 I/ l, P) J w) f j/ H
Why my friend was this person? 9 j) \3 ^: b6 n4 t" _为什么我的朋友是这个人？6 [6 V: w: h5 q2 W) ], Q
Why did I get married? # R3 I/ X6 k2 t$ _3 G为什么我要结婚？ 2 d/ F9 n( l" b" f$ G3 mIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.9 K6 B8 a6 Y( v
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。; s7 ~3 E) ]" W/ v% _
I think we need indeed remind us of why.( \$ o- V% A; q. c* |& e7 C
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ) J) ?' E' I6 z: K( k8 qOr else it's tough to finish what we started., Z8 _) n5 o3 }
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 + Y6 {- O5 C* C5 ]2 b0 o) ^We stop starting. We quit the club. * ~/ W2 X; b6 t0 K我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 8 ~: M" W- l( ?+ M, Y, ^, ]+ qWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ! h4 ~+ w1 j# o* a+ N W7 a我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。; ]+ Z5 \* z1 B: }5 w0 D# K
There's nothing wrong with asking why. , e/ b* v0 w+ I/ F2 m! V* b问为什么没什么问题。0 P4 z3 V$ y/ v" w. X- ^+ g, H
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.3 J# e+ j: ?9 a% K6 J1 g; y5 h
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。* B; v ~5 q( F( g3 s
Talk about it. $ W/ L/ r' |( c% l谈论下面的话题： z& m. e8 j5 I! q- V) x( OIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?7 w6 i: k9 Y' N2 [6 M
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ : @* ~, f& Y% _$ _- mIs it a kind of distant memory? " |7 |3 b8 s" W0 e( @* P/ B4 q它是一种遥远的记忆？: _) R0 z" y9 d- M+ p
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...$ h% S4 g5 z0 f9 j2 C
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……2 Z+ B* i8 A! _
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?9 d5 X! _( M( x% ]5 Z4 E
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ - m$ J- C7 ?* w$ m7 cDo you write memos? 8 C2 J2 V' D/ t- l你写备忘录吗？ / O% F4 `# O6 Y. v8 w7 N" Y5 LDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?& ^" @9 o! _3 J. ~& b6 P) U
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 9 a3 X/ t6 ^' K; u; }! S- zWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?$ O* p9 c7 Y, o
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？! Y- ^7 o% }+ Q3 t* k
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 0 ~; k) I. b. w( _* `: Y你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？