标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ' D q9 f u/ I E3 C& ~3 W0 |& F# O
记住我们为什么做某事 7 a+ v6 A! h3 KSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. W, I" i7 a. Q7 z有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 5 C" T( l; S! t& N# F) C- cHave you ever done that? . Z& V; Y4 ~6 }0 K. ]2 b$ |你曾有过这种经历吗？ , [6 q( v: ^: m1 qI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.4 C+ ^9 Y# Q: ~+ d! \
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 . x* r0 Q3 t9 D, V- w* uI have called someone because I want to tell them something." u7 d# {* P& Z
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。+ z+ }. o r) H' E- @+ }
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.7 @1 |+ w4 v: ]7 h
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 W* f( L/ p2 W3 A# c# xWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.# M9 ?' a* I/ c9 _
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 e+ H; d" r) y2 u6 oThat's a memory problem. 2 W0 g5 t- |1 J, h. F( d这是一个记忆问题。 4 }3 v2 W. G! _! I. jI guess that counts too., I l/ }* [7 E0 G6 n
我想那很重要。 3 |$ P: l: B2 h3 `; R [" CBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? / _. N! C: I# }' @! R1 a但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？& H n$ `$ K# W: T" u7 H; o
At one point, there was a reason we do something. Y' z+ J. W* \" M6 ^2 B3 O+ I在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。9 u) {1 r# `! P2 w h
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.9 X' c. E$ s! H4 b
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。$ \1 X3 R: r$ L5 F! j$ P' l
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 8 j! O% E7 D/ W5 O( b6 y6 o/ ^/ C总是可以问问自己为什么。5 v: G- s ?; [, C# ]
Why did I start to learn a language?/ f- W# s) w0 h$ Z
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 2 \- T/ p2 r8 T3 ZWhy did I join this club?+ p: k4 a0 s! _9 E: H# r
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？3 o' A9 R3 m) j( R' w6 {
Why my friend was this person?" c& k" }( f8 x
为什么我的朋友是这个人？! B1 r: n2 P# z, b( a+ G3 y5 W
Why did I get married?% o* m8 w9 i5 |: v6 \
为什么我要结婚？8 O ^( H5 ] ~ C6 G8 F
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. ; c9 _# {: f) {; y9 K$ O2 [0 c如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。9 w: i' n" _* T3 e6 a! D: x; f
I think we need indeed remind us of why. " c$ r7 D# c2 [, R我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 $ ~ d. Y9 ~$ WOr else it's tough to finish what we started. ' `6 Q f) q* [否则很难完成我们所开始的。* ^0 [; F& G7 ]/ Z0 K: ^. U
We stop starting. We quit the club. p+ r R& `4 P& N' K
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。$ g0 F' E% Q* }: q1 N# q/ P( _
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.+ a! z) p6 Z4 m6 i# j0 W8 B% `
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。% Q. M' ]0 g: F) Z3 G8 v
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ]6 X& A: g0 ^3 s% V8 c. ~7 _" x
问为什么没什么问题。 0 |' m! |# ^& O: Z: ]" q- F# Z% {In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.5 w0 h% T+ s3 V+ i; ~
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。; F* y5 T: i E5 M& Z0 T
Talk about it.. K' ]% z6 }" V- v, z: R
谈论下面的话题： 8 e6 D4 v8 C( L% C! M c+ w. jIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?% u! p- }' A0 T4 c1 l# E2 `8 o9 d
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？* M( u3 O/ G3 k
Is it a kind of distant memory?. {" ~3 C% M0 H, l. o
它是一种遥远的记忆？+ R, v, Z9 ]# |+ J! g. Z
Did you ever forget why you are doing something.... N0 f0 \2 `) \3 ~; ]. X
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……* p/ B/ [# ^4 }4 \$ T( I; f0 N
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?" x0 G& _+ D2 M8 H& \% e
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 2 E' L# e) e' V- ]( \# YDo you write memos?- P2 i0 M, Q7 n5 i' O
你写备忘录吗？ 9 B9 k% o+ k( y- W, ?# R cDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? B: ?( u. j( M" r3 y, g1 t6 q. V( o
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？7 W, W+ U d. a' ]! ~9 N7 i
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? b2 C4 X p5 `. q, `- V
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 6 y. q- H5 ?$ a, z/ I4 iWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 8 R- y9 u7 P8 B8 L* \你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？