标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ) y( \) _* e8 J9 f3 l( C5 E! x0 s" @! F1 U( H# O5 H
记住我们为什么做某事 8 z& c$ K3 w7 R3 s3 d5 W7 I- ^Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. + |9 D% P. e0 ?6 h; ?& m% y, k- q有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。) B5 Z; Q0 @ G% U) y; u! y4 }
Have you ever done that?5 y% \$ |9 ^) R) ~+ f* x
你曾有过这种经历吗？ : U, F! K4 Q6 c) c4 sI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.2 [" f" h5 k# Q" v; V
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 % C6 L" ^$ u; x% w5 XI have called someone because I want to tell them something. , a0 f( }" ?8 c7 c) J3 d+ x* ^我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。2 g3 `( S9 ~6 U
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. : k2 |# k: u9 u# b然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。/ J. D6 K9 b# X: m# V% E
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.- i2 o" {8 h* r7 g2 a* z3 u5 \( s2 Y
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 7 ~+ G1 V0 d+ {$ d9 X; c! h: QThat's a memory problem.& f' x8 M( v1 n
这是一个记忆问题。 3 ~- k Y, J5 qI guess that counts too.6 ?/ U* E2 k' i1 t3 _7 `8 w
我想那很重要。 6 G+ a+ d: [) a* W! [; bBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?1 p$ J' H _' ^, }. K4 s
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？; i: G6 a. ?9 q8 x: a
At one point, there was a reason we do something.( O. b/ i5 }& F3 }
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ! \+ n0 q: U1 [) w/ RFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. & ?; Q6 g+ l/ ]( z- E3 c$ U1 {对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 : u s" ~. h5 w; yIt's always could to ask ourselves why. . z4 S$ b6 r8 g/ i9 i' b6 M总是可以问问自己为什么。, K2 }7 R+ y3 \$ f8 U: |
Why did I start to learn a language? , @( k. q8 U6 L! G8 g8 s; F为什么我开始学习一种语言？9 c4 w& J: D" Q- c' T
Why did I join this club?9 L& r; k( K M. `8 ]
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？; a1 O; h% f) B! n0 g7 Q6 N- h
Why my friend was this person?9 \6 g9 }1 l7 D! U. \; t
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ / k0 P$ Y% k) |. ~% n- tWhy did I get married?. O! n4 L1 t' X
为什么我要结婚？( E8 A. ^) x5 I$ T! U
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 8 S9 S3 W1 |0 ]" L$ d1 B( ?. @9 e如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 & S! H8 I0 ?3 E6 e6 G0 O4 W) yI think we need indeed remind us of why. , O" Q# v) k! k7 ]* A5 L我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 . |5 F9 x( k! a1 IOr else it's tough to finish what we started." J0 _ r% ~! b& S2 F2 l
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 + Y) k+ O7 Y% h- F: W: FWe stop starting. We quit the club. " z5 O" \/ M$ i1 d我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 0 R' ^+ I; a6 k$ x6 wWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged." S( ^8 M) p, ^9 }9 Y
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 K, g2 v: O- J( _& i
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ; N( `% X+ A r3 \) j问为什么没什么问题。8 @% Q: e8 T$ `$ f+ o: f
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.& e! t+ d: m' W; x/ } M, t
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 : G$ }3 g& }8 Q9 X$ j% H, O5 [Talk about it. : X0 c% K M3 j s谈论下面的话题： : W5 |) V0 T( x9 }5 E1 F6 U6 PIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 6 T8 b/ w' b6 T- c你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ( y5 u) ~2 V O' l' C' u3 `: H' ZIs it a kind of distant memory?/ h! M5 q# J& ]: l) _
它是一种遥远的记忆？4 `" s( @3 ]! }) s3 x- s
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... ) r2 Y- T" R0 m你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……9 D6 |" S: B B7 t, U
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? k5 Z+ b2 `. y
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？6 R8 R- A4 x# {/ [
Do you write memos? 0 j; Y1 S* E! X( S+ z) s7 T你写备忘录吗？ 0 U0 T9 J' m8 Q; ?/ f+ c5 u0 |Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? . h8 V, Q. i# i你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ! |; U; a( {% p0 kWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?+ N7 P# u( I: }
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？1 g- Y3 B2 }; A5 E
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?& M& D4 M! J( f, D3 a
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？