标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something + L# `) } f" J G; d9 G# X % w- e' h/ d9 t& F% N& I4 i+ K记住我们为什么做某事& k F1 |1 E5 z6 \
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.5 G5 e$ H( Z1 ^. d
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。2 z3 B8 W: B" S- q" N
Have you ever done that? - I+ p7 u+ v% X' N% k* ?你曾有过这种经历吗？: j: t7 }, e: Q7 ~
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. + ]+ r% n6 D; P, F6 Y( A我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。) Q6 t, r6 {5 t/ [, h9 I, G
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.# _9 Z& S# Q8 x8 w+ }. |# W' p
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。% j: z$ P0 X( ~5 Z" s) B
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. # R, A3 k" {) f8 i: u然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。/ _0 R Y3 U7 p* P% R. b' _( P
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.) C- j$ E$ r" _
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。5 l' S3 z" z/ F2 c5 s: u6 {
That's a memory problem.( |3 D6 D( z# y* d9 k; C' r" I" ]
这是一个记忆问题。 * H# l+ ^2 G, p% J8 HI guess that counts too. 4 B% B( x% ^/ m' |% H: T. \" W# z我想那很重要。 % U& m- Z) G) Y& u8 ^- KBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?" I9 Y4 L! |8 y" f! P4 v! f
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？- ~. n l" d4 h
At one point, there was a reason we do something. & `& K7 T! ^, E$ [在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。0 G1 I; o( U1 R) }
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. I" i- x* s7 J对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 6 Q! B3 ^" y/ _8 z1 G, ~" y" U- u2 GIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 3 i F# C f6 U1 X/ }8 r* @4 q1 q总是可以问问自己为什么。 0 v7 u. G6 @, l. g" P0 m' y" bWhy did I start to learn a language? ! X4 O) K) _' f; S7 n* k4 U为什么我开始学习一种语言？$ v9 [/ r0 f8 n0 S, f
Why did I join this club? $ E; R3 J, a' ^, K& t7 m2 r& I为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ " ?* m/ d" q) O# C& E# g- gWhy my friend was this person? . b, N7 R% [6 L7 {1 B为什么我的朋友是这个人？ # b' [' F; `0 b, V: a% p+ w; C& L, `Why did I get married? & o9 c6 k! Y1 z6 F5 O5 x& r X8 I' x# N. [为什么我要结婚？6 A9 u) |$ `7 N/ I+ G$ o8 m
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.; ]& O7 t' W7 r' B. D# w! n/ `4 U
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 7 K P0 g( k- zI think we need indeed remind us of why./ P8 O1 u8 _0 X
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 $ D* \$ K( A9 k: ROr else it's tough to finish what we started.. ]$ s J) K- v% R) R, e) H. }
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 4 J: f$ e( f3 _3 iWe stop starting. We quit the club.; K) q6 o5 ]6 |. s4 F! n
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 % X2 j) s, W; u* L& R6 WWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.8 R R z4 C' J) O9 a
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。9 D! I% z4 q" {$ s& k2 N9 b4 v0 {
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 9 h7 q0 A4 s' Z& y* l问为什么没什么问题。" ~# j$ I* H" K' I
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.* b. @( Y, d# d& F) X. d, `
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。* t U7 F) T/ H4 M5 A7 `
Talk about it. ' G& l/ Z. |4 r. z& g9 w3 A+ s) Y谈论下面的话题：- R, S; X9 X @. ~
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?, e ?4 V7 D9 Q
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ * m9 K2 C2 i/ Y AIs it a kind of distant memory? 6 ?0 r/ R' x1 F8 V6 y它是一种遥远的记忆？ |" U6 S7 r0 _+ U
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...$ l' S4 \1 b* F3 w& u6 s
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……: w' t1 H' l& G5 Z' ]" D) {$ e
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 7 ~, F0 b5 r3 f( p, L你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ S4 l: O0 ?- ]+ e
Do you write memos?; K, x1 ^- w5 B
你写备忘录吗？' v" t+ ?- q. ` E4 ~, k% e8 ^/ G
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 0 W# }) D2 f7 d3 d9 _: k: t+ N你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 4 D) E* G$ t2 O# T: M4 G7 p( mWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 1 b4 Y2 r8 b& U$ H3 w3 w还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ( B5 O- F9 O* u/ Y! |+ L- TWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?: D! k& [! t' P* w1 U- k
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？