标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something- x0 \3 v6 X. C* Q0 J% L
4 O' x" A; d/ I% P) I记住我们为什么做某事 7 [2 _$ c% Y* u, p5 g0 L8 QSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.5 |# u4 Q' x, ]* S* c' S0 o
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。+ t& w0 q* _: k) a
Have you ever done that?( A& F( F9 y, ]# [
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 0 R! W% m. k+ i# iI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 0 D: `" g' J6 a; p* J9 W. N我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 1 N$ z0 y0 C" [- ?I have called someone because I want to tell them something.: x- A9 L. a2 g5 h" x, A" Y: M6 N' n
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。. K; G) M) C# I, a& q/ c
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.9 B( j u. V9 J) x1 H( a: t6 ~0 ?
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 $ i8 Q6 J' U% }5 n/ N; O( cWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.6 T6 d4 U- P. w
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 L0 Y; c' y3 ZThat's a memory problem. ! F, w& a% F) m: n& Y, `这是一个记忆问题。( U: e7 h2 Q3 f3 X+ Y
I guess that counts too.4 O n- G# _ B. ~4 h2 o6 p& R& m6 P8 s: ?. L
我想那很重要。 6 c" ~/ ?5 W: bBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?2 Y# C! o I7 ^+ a
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ - w$ u6 b4 i$ L# z' w& z# o1 x0 uAt one point, there was a reason we do something. / R2 D3 \# J/ f' u- ?) b在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 / [7 r% }" h* l7 GFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. : [( |+ P1 P- _; U3 T/ V7 Q对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 # Z& Q ^# `) p5 jIt's always could to ask ourselves why.2 F; Z# q1 _7 @/ O' o
总是可以问问自己为什么。6 S8 P- a3 z5 D
Why did I start to learn a language?$ j1 m7 D: K- x- C9 P
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ : p% M/ n& e0 b* J: u5 w/ ?Why did I join this club? 4 J, C3 _- O/ b1 y9 J. u为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ b* v4 D: S0 vWhy my friend was this person? 8 u; E z6 L% i9 a& L9 m: B为什么我的朋友是这个人？3 f% |1 Z' y; m; [$ G. ^7 V
Why did I get married? 6 P$ ?; ?4 M: j& l为什么我要结婚？3 X" _) R* t' s7 d( D
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.4 I a% W/ ~; ^% }
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 9 ~9 S" Q* s" I& aI think we need indeed remind us of why.% ^, P) B+ @) L4 S/ |
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 3 r3 E U) e& t8 \- c* kOr else it's tough to finish what we started.* y5 I, |0 T6 `1 h# f8 }& `3 [
否则很难完成我们所开始的。+ z& d& B4 ~% ^4 @: f: M! R* q
We stop starting. We quit the club.6 x0 n% [( G0 T8 {
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。9 {8 p$ J/ X+ x# e3 g, X4 w# k
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.. t6 T7 t+ @- a5 g5 ~9 Y+ Y7 V E; z
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。3 Z6 s I" L3 M; a7 p }9 f1 a
There's nothing wrong with asking why. . i( k$ s& q! s问为什么没什么问题。& F3 f7 U$ x" j! D' a# J! X
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.- P& n$ {2 r. v3 e* B
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。! o. h$ m1 ?$ Z$ o# D6 v
Talk about it. 3 Q$ H& }3 {! r) d' I谈论下面的话题：4 `, y) [# U0 r* d
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?: x; [. T+ m3 h9 L
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 1 Y4 x, X6 o3 j+ o9 O, }Is it a kind of distant memory? ]% _! W4 ?$ r+ M1 R
它是一种遥远的记忆？ ) e. e- h4 y. J) k: b( c( qDid you ever forget why you are doing something... : _1 j9 R' D0 i. X2 B' [4 p7 p7 E$ X+ c你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……2 @1 u9 Q& n8 r, F2 G& \6 d5 |
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?+ a3 ?, P8 J( m! l
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？1 k7 I9 f7 s, u
Do you write memos? 1 d# A2 P" e1 i7 `* m! C. o你写备忘录吗？ % v& [0 w' l" R8 G- g* V4 o+ E# MDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?; d3 ^5 A0 [+ H
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 1 q6 ]! N" o# E8 ~What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? : X8 c* r& ?# z7 a7 Y7 M, A# a' o还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ + f; V( w7 w9 `What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?4 X2 \* j+ f" Z8 q4 P
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？