标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something& N) T, R& E. p5 E+ P" G
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记住我们为什么做某事 4 { Z/ p- O. P4 X; DSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. b! i, H1 _4 R" A7 x2 z* r2 e
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 , {0 q; R1 n9 k/ {$ BHave you ever done that?8 z, w, r6 H9 A) C8 s3 z
你曾有过这种经历吗？0 b& x1 Z2 _4 F* A/ [+ F4 x0 r
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. + E* x$ {$ v+ H L3 f j4 l我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 . Z) ~3 y0 y P6 uI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 6 E% z2 q! }' Q& Z" \7 ]) m我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。0 Y! E, {, b; Y- h& Z3 Z) M
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ; l: Q+ I( N( Y b$ Y e9 @1 Y然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。7 N& v* L4 {4 N% P# L; _9 V
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. j( f+ l1 v: @6 Z0 `7 ^; x哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ; W, r+ L( S' R. F2 q" D* G9 UThat's a memory problem. / D0 t2 u' ?* _* g& Z这是一个记忆问题。0 g: a: l( L4 E+ p
I guess that counts too. # o6 z! c' N: m- V0 _$ s我想那很重要。 2 S* M7 `4 M" xBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 8 U2 ^3 h# ]/ l7 A9 _但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？6 U8 U) h+ g9 N. ?
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 4 b6 E' R7 u4 ~4 E6 v在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。) |1 @/ g% G+ T% |- u$ D
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ' c, a; @% ~* E. }. B# Z对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 7 N7 d$ T' _* iIt's always could to ask ourselves why. ) A/ O2 b/ e' C$ }: E总是可以问问自己为什么。 7 i5 |: X7 F2 v- M. L- pWhy did I start to learn a language?# h1 u- x7 n9 t# ]& W. X) \. D
为什么我开始学习一种语言？# j9 I- U0 I \9 g
Why did I join this club?" N9 p }: t: Z9 R9 E
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？' M5 X: e# r% K
Why my friend was this person? , g) k; F1 Q, V) v6 Y" s# m( r为什么我的朋友是这个人？' h' r7 O$ o( s/ N/ c
Why did I get married? * M* [, u6 G$ c) a+ }为什么我要结婚？ m( ~; C* m8 {6 r% E
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. & @6 p; p# n8 a4 j- B8 F& S, E如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 5 S" {! x( I! p6 bI think we need indeed remind us of why. & k5 U+ p5 Z. e3 O) ~% G4 x- o+ i我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 7 v8 }6 M9 G. Q. T' _! LOr else it's tough to finish what we started.8 A, a* ]2 G) H8 D
否则很难完成我们所开始的。0 w& k5 l2 L: V0 d4 F8 m1 J0 K/ K
We stop starting. We quit the club. ) \" Y" p* m8 b$ v0 m3 u: q4 }我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 0 R7 t3 W2 |) J: O- UWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. {! t9 Y3 \4 ]6 {3 `我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 , _8 f; b! A: ` s% TThere's nothing wrong with asking why. ! P7 G# C8 C8 y1 n/ R m7 s' V! k& O; F问为什么没什么问题。6 j$ I0 a- x# N* h$ h# d( R) j
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 0 \6 |, N, G0 T: E事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。6 _6 C6 I/ @+ |3 j) M
Talk about it.4 `0 T1 H2 g3 x- b
谈论下面的话题： / ?+ }; J. M9 {; D: ZIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? % ^# a; ]8 Z: {: g8 v你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 2 l1 ~! H6 v8 v6 ~ mIs it a kind of distant memory? - R1 l4 C3 j3 Y# Y1 @7 [9 j; d它是一种遥远的记忆？ 6 ]! a7 W. M4 p0 R/ Y' ZDid you ever forget why you are doing something...% G- Y( k o x! a
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……8 P1 L% q. p6 \% s3 ~' J
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?# o4 o q Y/ c7 o( ]
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？& v& p/ ]- {8 G! W4 f2 f" h
Do you write memos?: L) X3 |- Y# m! q8 w& X6 n
你写备忘录吗？/ n! A: f l" i L5 P
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? : s7 Y; F2 w! `- ]6 Y' W w你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？8 R) a% k" x) ^: W0 c( S# z/ n
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?8 T, Q9 W. ^/ f0 M f0 n
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？3 g! z$ Y2 D2 f/ o) c4 N; g$ u% A# ?
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 4 P/ `/ t7 U2 q$ f* d$ q) K h你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？