标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something * g6 \* s; O8 J) G4 c 3 L! \; |1 J; o记住我们为什么做某事: k6 i5 d2 r Z L0 T2 }
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 6 F! i; p3 `2 P* o6 P) s- a有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ( n, A4 ^( E5 {! c* ?6 xHave you ever done that? F4 d V; a- n7 T
你曾有过这种经历吗？ ) l/ y# {) x4 hI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 4 u3 o) U+ @3 W0 q% U% |我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 . p4 r. v; f. u0 Z" N% q% cI have called someone because I want to tell them something. ! D) `9 \% E" A# h! j我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。( n! N+ q' e) J t* ?
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ; p9 l: ~( j2 M# D& n6 q' X7 {$ y+ h; g然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 8 }1 ]( G0 f( N: S, tWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ( x/ h1 f8 `6 _; t$ m% n哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ' k; g8 ]4 i- ~ oThat's a memory problem.3 h1 j4 q1 a# i
这是一个记忆问题。 ( T4 g& [1 K8 jI guess that counts too.: J6 K4 B" T8 N
我想那很重要。7 }, V2 b. a% I- Z$ s2 i! s" o
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?: H( k' T2 ^% D z" K `
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？' U% F& k& D0 A7 F/ F% C
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 9 i5 L3 O% V* A* e3 a在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 9 d9 \5 B( b. Q, jFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.* N7 P' c4 n2 t5 _' N3 _0 S+ K7 \
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。! O* \0 `# c% J& W9 P8 C5 ?# n/ U
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 1 y O" S3 A1 ?! A5 e0 }* K" i6 E总是可以问问自己为什么。 ; E! u7 U" ~6 b2 f, ~Why did I start to learn a language?7 `5 F) `, t- x
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ * k2 Y& ]: p" w+ {' pWhy did I join this club?0 I. P0 \/ b t/ P
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ # C+ B: W% s) e0 p: UWhy my friend was this person?0 d' P3 I9 Q5 e9 E9 \, A8 E/ l
为什么我的朋友是这个人？' j# `# q& d% u1 O o2 p+ i
Why did I get married?. g0 H* R" y/ c9 ^
为什么我要结婚？. s9 y/ \% b" Q. m8 ]7 H, [
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. - p" G; B$ Y! Q* v- ?2 E! ~如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ) A3 m+ K4 `4 E* Y$ t3 DI think we need indeed remind us of why.% {9 s- m+ E& N. w# B8 w: ~: w
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。' n% [% t" U# s7 l( ~
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 5 x4 R) T4 \9 r1 A否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ! l9 q% B( t- R& \" d' x4 CWe stop starting. We quit the club.; I& K, m3 v6 h i4 m- E
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。1 k4 C$ I( ^* d% Y! f' R
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.3 o" `8 P! y1 h
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。0 T& }/ _% c2 e" {1 h
There's nothing wrong with asking why.9 m3 l, N5 X4 y) z5 e) [ n
问为什么没什么问题。 " p' L. M9 m/ R) ?In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.; k4 l/ Q. F1 B3 b& q
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。# R! w1 ]+ H5 s: v) Y
Talk about it.. F8 r' C( q f. S$ `" i! K
谈论下面的话题： " a) r, s- |" ?6 Q$ sIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 8 @8 ~$ n7 O a; y4 N你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？$ c7 h) u+ @- N1 C
Is it a kind of distant memory? 5 z; f4 C8 R4 O! S. E7 E) R9 s3 w- V它是一种遥远的记忆？ 8 \. s) y) w) f0 N% A) TDid you ever forget why you are doing something... 6 W0 u+ w3 u& D$ T* L1 X+ E: f你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……; T% j1 i0 ~! d
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? # }7 F7 y" d) q: a1 `) L/ \3 B/ b( l你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 5 j, F$ I# v" lDo you write memos?1 J% T+ l6 I- w9 ^8 J
你写备忘录吗？ , }4 w" r- n1 n6 p; W6 D* O7 t MDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? : u$ B6 y* p$ z# N! b. o; ^, K+ Y你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 9 y6 a4 f3 o% K( m/ A4 ?What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?! d( I( r6 l0 }7 V% R* Y1 \/ E; Z1 Q
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 3 K i, d! t0 T* G( x: QWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?9 A* N& |& k" X. G/ a" f0 ~
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？