标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something+ y- S8 [4 |' h; o
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记住我们为什么做某事# T1 X* B2 h7 w7 K7 V- |( \1 S- N
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ) E* D6 d! a# l2 e) X% L有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。% ~: ~3 }) s3 Z6 a8 k; N
Have you ever done that? : T- r/ g7 Y$ W$ P; `你曾有过这种经历吗？ # F# w" R4 {& y6 kI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ; |% B7 B6 {/ C. g我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ; P/ ^/ t1 J" M1 j/ \I have called someone because I want to tell them something./ H6 K8 E3 t* j9 O7 t1 a4 R
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。2 q9 p: [7 V9 v& p
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ) X B- t& n% g& q9 M! j然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 8 X0 d3 B1 N/ Q* {# `, TWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ; j8 Q9 r1 `1 ^% \/ v哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ) [* Z5 I6 n1 C( z9 UThat's a memory problem. u1 X6 f/ R! T: `& z0 b这是一个记忆问题。" a2 y. F+ h' h* b# L) b
I guess that counts too. 9 i/ N) u4 e1 c" J+ c9 z$ _0 {/ _我想那很重要。* z) C9 y3 {, l$ @, {
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?) H+ X# ]7 [) @0 Q5 {
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 2 N" N, X- P J+ zAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 6 p0 R7 q ]0 N( {' H在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。5 i% b8 z2 H: }& d
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.+ a6 K/ S9 i/ ~: Y, c8 [ L5 K8 v
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 2 w, r2 W9 d2 V6 m# O8 WIt's always could to ask ourselves why.; g9 i$ i4 z0 y- X6 t% n" {
总是可以问问自己为什么。( P. N; h1 N9 @2 J+ {
Why did I start to learn a language?$ F; e2 E8 G0 j$ @% E1 z/ z
为什么我开始学习一种语言？( i! U7 O& u7 o3 y1 @
Why did I join this club?, L4 K! {: h( r7 [: q$ I% @
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 0 c/ O$ ^ w) _Why my friend was this person?! O L$ E2 Q. b" K0 N' _
为什么我的朋友是这个人？3 y& P3 r3 Z: b9 @' W3 D0 t! R
Why did I get married?# L! _" q2 F4 N; d! r) `% c
为什么我要结婚？3 O, C' H3 v) h6 X1 V
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 5 {- B- T5 K& U) g) P5 }( W& F如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。9 U0 x* J, v0 O# _8 u! I1 Q2 ^
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 3 Z$ O6 J0 z8 S. k' J) B: z( E9 V我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。% H5 n% w7 d' I) o3 d6 K
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.' y* G. R5 U/ S: F0 A( p4 N+ x# g
否则很难完成我们所开始的。% c8 h. i8 c1 | w5 i
We stop starting. We quit the club. 2 k' u! a2 y3 B" g! e0 i8 y+ `我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。6 h& I# O6 k; i- P% z! Z; W
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.# m; z* Q7 U% s; m$ c( }$ t
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 9 Y+ j5 q- s1 Z# `: C$ `There's nothing wrong with asking why.( @0 n( D5 q0 v
问为什么没什么问题。 ' I. b Q1 u* t' H7 c$ X eIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.5 w4 H+ I5 ~& B1 b6 p
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 : p, H! i8 v O, E1 JTalk about it." {0 Q: h5 ^- ?# U* t3 t
谈论下面的话题：+ `' E, N( h8 z% Y- `2 S
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?+ ^& Y' e/ U# n" H
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ + v" R1 q* u7 `: h% {7 nIs it a kind of distant memory? 2 o9 }9 d* l1 [( f1 ?它是一种遥远的记忆？) r/ G( R7 }( w" l% m) q" h" l
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...% r: Y, S' a! R" Z l
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……$ w1 O" S9 B! Y! _$ @1 Z5 q/ [
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 6 v, l& E: F, s8 i* v" p你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？/ a4 u* F. h- a2 H( @1 g# |! O
Do you write memos? & ^ v9 s3 q8 K) E* R4 j你写备忘录吗？$ y0 W7 e( G3 \( W5 k* E
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 5 T4 ]3 {! | q4 K% p你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？$ Y9 P1 I9 K2 k, s* F7 N
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 6 h* i9 m0 ?( H3 t5 c: [. D还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ + r" o5 Z7 w; o7 d0 q4 d0 s( |- p5 aWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 9 D4 Q( O3 P! d" A7 s2 r4 }. L你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？