标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 6 o! h& x' P& [/ `; r 5 X7 ?3 t) u# w% {8 j, C! P/ b记住我们为什么做某事 * s* ~% K; o; SSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.9 W2 |* K! _6 M4 M: p" O7 F0 ?
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。! W% y: S5 ~; l; j0 ^( _/ ^) H4 |
Have you ever done that?; N* X0 G. ?3 p: G
你曾有过这种经历吗？. t8 S( t6 a% Z
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. - o; }) f7 x8 `% x3 Z/ r我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。$ g" n( b h5 |1 X' A2 N- P
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 6 ?2 K8 p$ w) X- O, r- _# t7 F) x我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。, m% t& u8 u6 g' t/ S. D
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ; }1 H& \: q' h3 ^+ V$ p0 [8 _2 `* H然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。" V$ ]$ Y: |! F
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.8 T# Z4 E5 A; S7 e9 h
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ! e) B- m6 ]' Y5 j. {" m# t5 BThat's a memory problem. 4 W/ Y7 I+ W& }3 w% [这是一个记忆问题。# o: Z; }. u- [) k
I guess that counts too.; r. P* E9 X. Y/ C4 _: ~
我想那很重要。( S4 r M- S) t: ]/ w
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?5 m+ w( _$ Z! |1 f# T/ g$ |1 g
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 6 P9 [' H9 R t- _9 P- uAt one point, there was a reason we do something. ( q5 l9 A2 k* u6 b2 O在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。* f# X1 D9 H# k0 P8 P* N
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. I2 _! F' p7 \6 I对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ; b( P. j, q+ o; E3 U8 Y( D, XIt's always could to ask ourselves why. & N" ?% Q T6 v总是可以问问自己为什么。# W. N0 ^ w' y0 m; [) Y/ A* t* Q+ }
Why did I start to learn a language? / H, b' q& L0 I5 Y# b为什么我开始学习一种语言？- B; v9 ]& m# P0 q% C8 F
Why did I join this club?4 E9 c" H6 Z1 u2 m' L
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？) @# v: ]/ c. G- k5 n% C
Why my friend was this person? J& C1 D- t$ \% n; X/ z' A; P9 `/ L
为什么我的朋友是这个人？' N9 f5 R" W9 _: y- }1 v) w: B
Why did I get married? 1 S" B+ O9 ]! q% l7 K为什么我要结婚？ 3 ^7 p2 m, P8 w, y7 I2 dIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.. E: j+ D# t& Y" t9 S3 m! B
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 / z) B A9 x# b) dI think we need indeed remind us of why.* i# O- ]9 O$ q' X1 H
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ! a% H* i* O* x0 [8 b* F7 }# p0 tOr else it's tough to finish what we started.5 j) m4 {, E* S( y
否则很难完成我们所开始的。, k, f1 J6 i+ Q6 |
We stop starting. We quit the club.1 S* e7 S, P8 x' V. N: o
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。7 f4 g) r, b8 z$ e
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.1 `! q1 G0 {* Q3 Z' B* t1 f: H2 ^
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 2 S i" [1 |3 U2 ]There's nothing wrong with asking why. 7 I: i. `4 ^" E) F* K7 Z问为什么没什么问题。4 W/ n7 g* _& B7 \ L9 ~
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.4 q O4 {! Y+ N5 W% P
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。! E/ k& {# w: N! P; S
Talk about it. ( E1 Q/ t3 o9 f; L谈论下面的话题：# q+ V1 Y7 N+ h# F
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?) ~# Q2 g- F; B) f8 L9 ]
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？" E! k, L3 B ~- M, w7 l7 N
Is it a kind of distant memory? 1 C( U2 z7 c" {1 \$ @( ~* p1 y6 F它是一种遥远的记忆？' E2 ^: y2 Q: T
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...) V5 F! I1 T3 w" J/ o- K+ O7 r
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……- |3 \5 i: R+ l" I+ `" y
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?( k8 M- j, r- q- C; `
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 5 ?5 r( T( X: E n% bDo you write memos?* V* D& h! e, |7 }
你写备忘录吗？ 3 Q, P. S# @- y& p8 P, _Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? G* a, R0 q' Q) S
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ s* l: [6 V; y' V, W( ?3 T& y
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?7 [- {) h ?# `/ ~% R) j
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？8 a$ e, U1 V, N. k
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?5 Y* {0 _6 k2 D0 }. u
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？