标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ) y8 x4 S$ H9 y2 E5 ^/ e! c/ S! H; L% H$ Q4 P
记住我们为什么做某事 - p; d# F( r" |5 m# r6 M% ~' G! }4 USometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 3 v# T. @/ G" Q/ W/ f有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 0 r( A" |- i$ B2 y" I- `& c' VHave you ever done that? / [ U" [* b1 m+ Y. j- k你曾有过这种经历吗？6 I* y! W& | ~" L# S: d
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.! i% \$ b) j% B9 N! u* r, R
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 . c x- [) u$ X# d8 z4 ?0 H' mI have called someone because I want to tell them something.) S" S5 t# O# K% f3 b! v
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。% o, b; f4 k$ T0 a8 n+ J
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 5 f E% T) ?! y# r7 D" g然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。& T( F! I) `* U1 r" p. {
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. . M8 R* }) V$ U4 |哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。1 t- ?+ r+ |* G, [3 m/ Z8 `
That's a memory problem.* p- k7 x) a$ b: U& a3 c
这是一个记忆问题。 9 U F5 R9 M" K1 c& W) E+ XI guess that counts too. - {9 T3 l {! w( x# [3 Q" T我想那很重要。5 v1 ~* @/ ^0 M1 ?. w
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? + t1 w) q# J7 C% |但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？7 A9 m/ B8 y, M( D7 c" ^8 V
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 4 X9 c5 m: y2 K2 Q在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 0 s+ }+ L# e4 _0 g0 WFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 9 A. _# h, [0 e: u6 Q) }8 p" f对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。: T) e8 ?& ?8 W* O; Y% U
It's always could to ask ourselves why. ' ]" W- ]( ?0 [8 r6 z总是可以问问自己为什么。) M: j, p/ V/ q+ S: ~
Why did I start to learn a language? ! ?1 d0 V3 C% \6 y, ?8 i* T4 f# I- l为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 7 D! k; j8 V2 P7 k. D4 TWhy did I join this club?8 [& s3 u2 o( e e; E
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 6 u( U* \4 [2 p/ WWhy my friend was this person?2 l8 K( ^, Q3 I, p& J, a1 B/ U
为什么我的朋友是这个人？* V9 U" q6 S/ |8 J9 }3 `
Why did I get married?. T: [5 ^- A) [( K) a/ |
为什么我要结婚？( O6 l/ r- n9 n7 c( E( s1 J
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. , P5 X: X; L& ]2 W- T如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ; g* g. `9 x+ F g3 {I think we need indeed remind us of why.* v# b9 p% |( e
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 & L$ c7 v2 }5 E# ]Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 3 U8 J# ~9 ?1 Q否则很难完成我们所开始的。 1 ]" q& v6 w5 \2 ? H1 ?We stop starting. We quit the club.; z4 C. j2 p" n e% j
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。4 a* ^- C* B" B1 d9 Q8 v
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. . U1 C9 M- x0 Q3 Q z我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。- H' ?5 A) C' e. v- h7 o
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 6 I9 J K3 @3 S3 c) A# ^7 }# M问为什么没什么问题。 + g* b. l# a c2 xIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. g! y5 l; `5 \9 E1 C8 {事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 H& k0 c0 k2 F& f$ W/ U% i" `* `Talk about it. 0 V( s5 Q. ^, ~+ ~谈论下面的话题： 1 X4 z& j1 l8 W1 s8 Q6 k) _) AIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? / h6 z9 M) ^* w/ C1 b* M你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？9 q) E- q* _# x( V% E- M
Is it a kind of distant memory?: U$ ^ N ]+ u9 a6 m4 _
它是一种遥远的记忆？ ; d+ G5 ~1 i! kDid you ever forget why you are doing something...) h" W5 X( V# S0 J i+ p) U% M; @
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……; P/ U, V( j$ _( b" J
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 9 l3 }; C/ `7 `. j你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？# K+ ^7 @1 A$ W2 n/ o
Do you write memos? ; ~. [. Z7 L/ G; \; g2 K! ~你写备忘录吗？ ) V! D' o. T. S( H: K, N( t B) DDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ; \% J5 v" B/ S6 n `你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？- O; a* B9 Q- G- W' N% W5 _# ]
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ; ?6 h6 C) ^" b( d; d还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ o8 M6 k6 R n: q$ G7 d7 IWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 2 E) ?. t4 L `, F你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？