标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something1 c9 j) g" F7 \: b
1 {1 B3 F2 e' p$ D; x- b/ d记住我们为什么做某事 : m6 n* A* E6 I) z& U1 lSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. " y$ ~ q( K" Z. k# ?% f有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。- @ [9 G# Q/ Y4 }1 M& u9 O
Have you ever done that? 4 h4 Q4 @# n9 e, ~8 I8 m你曾有过这种经历吗？4 Z, x3 t, V! u/ G( C" w
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.7 X& `- Q, t( h" n2 i. ?' P, i
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。& ^/ A5 H; ^1 U x, f& v' ~
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.4 q a; ~6 O' I' r: \: k3 t5 G
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。$ N. X K$ B4 M" I/ Z4 c9 ~& i; d
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. A1 B1 B% i; q, N: a' @; Y然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。/ Y: G8 k4 x0 H+ O3 E
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ; ~9 T" ~/ g4 L" u; P哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。) i' r) H* ~$ [- ^3 S
That's a memory problem. : l; X: ~0 o( L; n这是一个记忆问题。! Q) S5 X* T, t& B
I guess that counts too. + p& g' f1 ~. y. w. ~我想那很重要。 $ O7 I m# G n9 gBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?, t: N. f; x' t
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？6 @! Q% t7 Z( f8 H. R
At one point, there was a reason we do something.- i1 L# |/ c0 z$ K- K6 l
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。2 O% s# s c, w5 U$ T
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. * ~' E- N$ S+ C1 ]8 ] m对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 % U3 }" D6 C! O. t. h( ]9 JIt's always could to ask ourselves why.: P* X3 t8 N" q" ]. E9 I
总是可以问问自己为什么。 3 s6 {, O& \; E; D- TWhy did I start to learn a language?0 c! U( G Y* h
为什么我开始学习一种语言？* V' o$ D# c8 I! H, g
Why did I join this club? 8 w( S7 U; _ R2 Z7 K为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ " n' o: r2 `6 Y! y; |4 N9 u& aWhy my friend was this person?' i# ?/ }: A1 ]0 i9 @
为什么我的朋友是这个人？3 D1 i. g3 R+ r4 B/ b+ u3 w
Why did I get married? ' j2 f4 z+ S6 s# m为什么我要结婚？4 l0 C- X! ^3 N
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.% x3 S& ]+ I0 V/ V- y0 N
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 , O" L, o) e. k9 m$ nI think we need indeed remind us of why.8 g5 f5 {' x5 y; L6 F
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 : D2 v* J2 ^9 i2 o; fOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 0 }7 f# [8 X) p1 I, h0 ], y: @; k否则很难完成我们所开始的。( r% q' F. d3 _& }2 J
We stop starting. We quit the club.2 J [! Q9 t q! M# D4 X; J: H
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ( V' h' a. c$ K! }8 MWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.6 [- j, Z4 s3 y: N) |5 W
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 8 ?- O9 B8 P( v$ ?5 w0 J1 wThere's nothing wrong with asking why.4 s% d7 f; _: \! q) z0 W# b8 p, H
问为什么没什么问题。 * v. z* y3 O* `# _In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.5 J9 u2 f. R5 Y
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。$ Q. W; n3 o! U$ W9 T+ m
Talk about it. : K9 Z" ^$ }( B谈论下面的话题：' j* F* u. O- _$ i* `. b
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?, u; o( g* F9 R/ r L8 H1 w
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？6 U% |6 H) }9 F: l
Is it a kind of distant memory? 9 E" @7 Z! O9 I* b9 n+ q它是一种遥远的记忆？ 2 j* P @( p0 S1 |" Y% F: EDid you ever forget why you are doing something.... t! L+ k% K3 R
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……4 T4 f' U! l* K
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?) x5 E; Y. X( l. b F
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 9 a9 X2 z, j. F5 s# q; [Do you write memos? 2 O' q2 L( P) x" R5 y. X. j8 S i你写备忘录吗？2 G7 V& q6 Q9 r! e& X) C6 v: C
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?9 G) B( L6 \/ Y# ?3 H V3 u9 E. x
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？& k% W3 n5 J1 [
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? $ P! v9 u+ ?3 T! I6 H: F还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？- k$ g; a% a/ }* ]6 u1 t
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? # _! h7 b. L" F$ H* d3 V你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？