标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something / d+ c+ A+ Q# B2 l7 V+ p# C! W8 M. B! Y# b' E
记住我们为什么做某事 - `3 }6 J8 D. v/ v) b# @Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.: w1 ^3 R9 {2 g- Q5 e
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。) T, b9 g: A6 k2 @% D$ k6 W
Have you ever done that? 4 {( t1 x3 J/ x% @8 ^$ N6 z你曾有过这种经历吗？# p7 X) s! l, ]. \& N$ v
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.% y& b) L# q. j% i& j5 `
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。- M2 D3 R6 S g1 u7 p% e5 s0 I
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.! E) g1 F; {9 v% S6 I) L' k" g
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。3 r+ |+ y. \! R: r6 i
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. " ]1 e+ n$ a3 ~% w$ M& B然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 0 U% j. f+ A% k! m+ }, qWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 6 Q' ]8 h4 k# T3 X哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。' g/ l( Y$ y. V
That's a memory problem. $ Z# S: Q. t! U) t这是一个记忆问题。6 {# G; y- }& V
I guess that counts too.3 H: S' p, z a) H3 O3 e- X
我想那很重要。 2 v+ i( P3 }+ I" K+ xBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? , Z( y) J! G$ X6 p N但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ * {. v, D1 T5 v2 ~/ |At one point, there was a reason we do something. ( S5 a5 P5 |5 U' n6 `1 ~6 w1 f在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。/ u1 _) t: ?* \* k2 }
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.! M* Z7 Z5 B0 I3 \* Z! v4 p
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 , b' {0 u' X% H9 ^" `0 KIt's always could to ask ourselves why.! X1 t0 I# _2 n% a" H& X: E
总是可以问问自己为什么。 % Y, [* B* E" M5 d0 y/ L& J8 EWhy did I start to learn a language? : ]7 X2 t5 m1 Q: v m为什么我开始学习一种语言？ - b; c, R# s" n& F) ^Why did I join this club?0 i& |, n, b! y: @9 j4 V7 ~$ G- e
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？% s$ ]5 p! E- N" ^4 q9 c
Why my friend was this person? 7 N' ~6 d D4 g# {+ `# A0 I0 A5 |为什么我的朋友是这个人？" |" r8 i: D+ k& }1 X7 b) [
Why did I get married? ' j& c V" `% I# W& x为什么我要结婚？& w! i) K5 o: M0 p
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 2 R) g$ O$ i6 b- `& i* v& ^如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。; R# \' {6 T$ e- ~
I think we need indeed remind us of why./ ]4 H; }' C, u7 B3 P2 q+ n* ~
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 7 ]) ]3 V+ {3 b$ bOr else it's tough to finish what we started.$ y! m/ k( N _9 z" |! M, g
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 Q; b) q9 g6 j
We stop starting. We quit the club. + R: C7 z( O+ e- x9 a我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。- Q: Y* l% i4 [7 i6 A
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 5 D G% @/ f, m我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 4 {- H! V! w! ^+ n' l8 Q3 [) aThere's nothing wrong with asking why. & K9 ?; y( a; U- d$ n h问为什么没什么问题。 + l" v- X5 L* r f' `2 lIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ) r" N" x" O: H4 v; V! O2 l事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。7 L \9 p1 l6 _9 ?! b. N
Talk about it.& |- v' W$ | K: `* N" M$ Y
谈论下面的话题：- c$ A c/ C A9 x. K* d3 P6 O3 D/ {9 T
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ' ~# |" ?% _6 b- D) J8 ?) t# d你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？$ Q/ C4 z0 c0 O
Is it a kind of distant memory?9 \9 A: o9 @8 H" m4 e4 ]+ c2 C
它是一种遥远的记忆？ ' V6 v* u, `; d8 o) v1 E0 ?Did you ever forget why you are doing something...4 e0 ~ q3 ~5 G* J# p5 q
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……( k. _ F {- y& a9 u# _$ R+ G3 Z
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 8 X6 n9 j+ b. u" _' i( x ?你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 3 Z9 f/ E$ N. E( |Do you write memos? 6 ^9 s2 o. Z0 N! Z+ Z你写备忘录吗？% t9 `. w4 h d( W+ O$ [
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? * G& z" J$ Z; {( b3 z你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 3 h; W7 n, m' F! z# M; }/ cWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? l: b* `: E0 o" W还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ' R7 x% N. x) ^% V! MWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?5 M, y9 j; V+ u. W
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？