标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 3 M" J+ ?1 L/ Z/ N7 i( g* d1 B( f$ b' D9 W: Z. C% B4 T$ L
记住我们为什么做某事) B* `) p5 a( h) e
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.7 A+ r& u& r4 p, n8 q o
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。' E: _8 c: b; B. k% F
Have you ever done that? 7 G8 `+ U- b3 O: O; x$ T; a你曾有过这种经历吗？ 3 a W! l1 e! a ]I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.7 A% v% s7 E- J+ V4 j) n- P: }8 K
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 1 r% J" d" ], E$ U" y9 iI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 0 E3 V% Z) g. C7 ~5 r9 ]我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ) O; c X1 h1 HAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.4 X, U! v! u/ R8 k M
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 1 G/ N: o+ M* Y5 p. _7 W V& IWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ) |0 j$ x" A& t1 M& q哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。+ M! T6 z8 d: _+ U
That's a memory problem.1 f! B) i' o' y/ [# p: T2 b
这是一个记忆问题。2 ^, r; x" S( h4 D
I guess that counts too.. m6 i4 I3 S; W/ y% q% R
我想那很重要。 9 }* w0 j7 q; t. O' d5 T# {But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?; j$ Q9 F" p7 H' s0 A
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ! \- n. h) _( kAt one point, there was a reason we do something. ( `( }% @0 S$ {! [8 I7 c在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。8 T) m; Y5 }5 V" L) E
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.0 C+ t5 O% I# A( h/ z
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 / d+ Y6 W! L5 { i ]It's always could to ask ourselves why. ( O6 S1 n3 A1 i8 P& s' o0 A8 y总是可以问问自己为什么。# P. j) @* l+ g7 s/ A' e" }$ z3 t
Why did I start to learn a language?, F% ]: o0 n" @" H1 w; h
为什么我开始学习一种语言？4 M1 ^' G- J8 Q% ~
Why did I join this club? v7 ]; o; ~8 d+ C0 z& }为什么我加入这个俱乐部？: E/ S8 X; {6 z7 v
Why my friend was this person?) F2 R+ F5 ]9 l0 U6 f" \
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ^+ a }2 F* W" A; |1 `5 zWhy did I get married? 5 t: r% Q, I; x; ]( V4 t! n+ E为什么我要结婚？: X( F( U9 d2 T" W
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 1 m& d6 \6 ~, j: b如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。* B! z! u! R8 U% k' i- E3 g/ k
I think we need indeed remind us of why.5 F3 e1 S* y, z( y$ d
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 7 I* f0 o( t. x# `Or else it's tough to finish what we started. - I, Z9 l; e, }否则很难完成我们所开始的。5 W! U# P- f: s7 N
We stop starting. We quit the club.- K7 z6 X) O8 J7 \- d% L6 u" S
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 % F- z$ Y F. Y2 x. a8 {We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 6 Y6 F! f6 g; q% n: f我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。/ H8 x/ t D. @' ]9 Z/ D) Z5 v
There's nothing wrong with asking why.% {. I" x: t5 W5 {! }6 t
问为什么没什么问题。 : O; j$ i9 Z3 G/ C0 X, {# z, o1 FIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.2 Z( N2 x; w8 u* E. X. ?
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。5 w5 W. [% X/ X7 y" G$ E) a' K
Talk about it. 3 {' p- E9 T. s2 c' V/ ]谈论下面的话题： 5 Q' F$ }' Z" QIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?3 G. f5 P3 j8 f% @# O" T
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？) C2 S) \- m2 j( M
Is it a kind of distant memory? 8 H ~# I( {0 w( W- l7 W它是一种遥远的记忆？: k. C. A2 g- \: x6 O. W' l
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...+ ]6 \) [6 ^6 A+ I, L. {( }! @9 ?$ V. i
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… + X) ?$ l: ?* |3 u1 C5 u5 HHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 2 {, f4 U6 [3 {3 X0 [8 j你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？3 u% d* n5 Z) Z% C# b# t
Do you write memos?* r- K7 h- A5 d/ K" B
你写备忘录吗？5 @' ~& r& G0 W1 x; E ^ ~
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?+ m4 y8 k" f! \6 G1 S. Y6 Z6 x* T) c
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ . C, m) P/ V3 C- R/ h/ p0 dWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?. b0 T. B9 Y+ ~) Y1 ^
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ # S# D% \" o: ZWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? $ f: \, d* J% e' o9 P& i3 J' s你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？