标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something, N9 `" A' t! g3 Z7 y& ^( j( P
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记住我们为什么做某事4 o' M- B: N9 h& I3 u! O
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing., p: E( L, {; v/ U# @+ P
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ]5 Q+ ~" i$ g
Have you ever done that? ! A; T1 J& L5 [9 [9 H你曾有过这种经历吗？ . c( V/ ]! ^( GI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.0 F% }$ h1 N4 V; j
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。! R7 M! N: m/ w) d7 [
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.6 R7 K$ S \. M: }( e- O
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。* k% t5 V, n% v" D( ~
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. $ C; f9 F2 J& l$ ?然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。$ V: _1 a5 ^( o2 e1 L" O/ T
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.4 Y! O, s8 O& f2 s5 U6 D
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 3 x+ h9 q5 m; I0 ~That's a memory problem. 3 {: }% L6 e2 C9 G( G3 s5 y- w; p这是一个记忆问题。- W% a& X! g* {: L+ `! ~/ y# g
I guess that counts too.4 ]! C. ~0 |" M! e+ I
我想那很重要。 ; ?9 B9 j' H$ C1 T1 ?4 kBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? , }/ V4 o( [; @6 U# S/ T但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 1 x: G; r9 X2 e6 Q1 @9 v* a5 fAt one point, there was a reason we do something. , n. z* R( L/ y8 F在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。: S. z0 v1 O0 s" V* Q& ~
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.( \& H2 Z s2 J8 F
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 , p& K6 D5 G y; h/ R8 ]- pIt's always could to ask ourselves why.# w+ |* o: c( K
总是可以问问自己为什么。 ! f; o, v f8 v @% B' I3 iWhy did I start to learn a language?4 h0 Q+ I- c# C/ k: E
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 4 s4 D+ v# H4 l; A u' lWhy did I join this club? # G0 R& p7 x( C为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ + e7 |' |7 A* u2 tWhy my friend was this person? 8 U- W0 m, p2 M7 L4 C8 Q* P为什么我的朋友是这个人？/ C8 i9 N3 Q1 b& d# K8 b: y; T
Why did I get married? * d2 ^6 S- M9 b' L: @为什么我要结婚？ % `& g: b/ V- x( V! n. \If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 9 v7 R. l/ R) d' B/ s如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ( c2 c9 O8 f$ _5 i8 [. TI think we need indeed remind us of why. 7 @$ w. L" _" h" P4 a& c" n我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。( U2 q$ x. k6 U8 L
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.* t, D- i D; z. A8 q7 O$ m, o
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ! E l0 O$ q1 z4 B* oWe stop starting. We quit the club." i# _+ l, x* R+ K; b! N: F
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。2 U6 q7 [) b' |; Z, K$ e
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. \5 z- M# u/ d2 y" M& ^
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ' S' G$ }$ [0 q0 n2 ^$ f: n6 ~% RThere's nothing wrong with asking why.: i: T( _$ e+ g& n
问为什么没什么问题。 x1 c* H' ^$ D+ ?- F0 u
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing./ I* F( q$ V* T7 ~
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 8 a* U: Q" }0 J$ z7 t4 xTalk about it." C( e7 x. ~4 a0 h5 T/ \$ {5 \
谈论下面的话题：! Q6 w8 ~6 H; \3 k) y! g$ T& D
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?! o7 g. @* |- J1 W' O7 [
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？0 n& X$ x' b) D% j5 s- F$ j. N
Is it a kind of distant memory? ( }' P/ Y( Q8 D5 `9 r它是一种遥远的记忆？: _ b! k7 E/ K- }2 e
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... % Q- \5 z0 `. J3 e3 G. x$ N9 _7 I你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ( b: V2 g$ \" Y FHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ; p" D5 a% o5 @9 r6 T: T你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？' i( s- K( \7 V. }# x9 V/ q `8 j
Do you write memos? * Q* T- D* B, w' @1 J' \) D' ?" M你写备忘录吗？% q' J$ i; L4 j
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 5 f$ g5 G( `+ a/ w$ D7 l你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ / Q# f) [8 ~8 k* t S. L' nWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? + c- \/ C% D* J$ X- Q还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ; n2 a/ }% |, ^+ XWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?% U6 j/ U) x) N F( O, G, `, P
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？