标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something5 A4 @* h& S3 t% Z/ {6 C
; a' X8 I2 N% {9 u记住我们为什么做某事 u( \, h7 w, |5 W: Y- I2 K; B9 K& _Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.1 z, u( L l8 R1 Y7 H
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ( D2 c* o& Y5 Q. U; @! nHave you ever done that? & G5 J5 m+ D5 F4 q你曾有过这种经历吗？ 4 R1 b5 c! G1 U# u4 |: x1 @* OI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too., o; |, }5 H& z0 G
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ( x* G4 Z& Z* j! jI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 8 d8 K0 J* n" J, K( Y* z) u9 n# h& F5 W我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。& E- A0 V( r7 X7 N
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 8 O& C) b. d* U5 N然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。* v; ^1 S% U& P# N
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. " w5 m6 `, O' j) X7 c" A1 u7 Y哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ; M# G, y k/ z/ WThat's a memory problem. ; t" A7 I" W$ n4 q& y这是一个记忆问题。! D6 w# r5 y6 h3 U2 `* t
I guess that counts too. ) l& F$ `5 S2 k% Z# G& z我想那很重要。 6 Q4 Q8 y2 u. h6 kBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 2 T* I9 j; f& U8 W但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ & H* B5 X6 u; \& P: I& V" W) vAt one point, there was a reason we do something. + L5 t$ v. w1 I在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 % p5 {( N/ k6 v# U6 z/ tFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.1 G% C; e1 O1 l5 M
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。/ h3 d- r% H7 a4 N1 H: H8 o& B0 D' P
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 2 d5 w7 `: S4 E. p9 S" D总是可以问问自己为什么。 ! S) [7 o7 H- o0 a$ ?2 @Why did I start to learn a language? 7 @% G, S3 O% ~: C H2 y为什么我开始学习一种语言？ # v3 O/ H5 `/ dWhy did I join this club? ! a9 r$ i i! L- O3 C0 u: ]为什么我加入这个俱乐部？% g7 p. }" ^& [- K3 |- O" P" u" d
Why my friend was this person?8 w. F( E0 c, P; H; _9 B9 X4 T
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ : _2 P2 B* P4 \3 W( FWhy did I get married?0 C, v6 q @5 p; F
为什么我要结婚？ : ]9 `! V& e4 A& T" q4 mIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. * ^2 W5 A. V3 Q% V; Y如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。1 N/ U+ ^; n) g, O
I think we need indeed remind us of why. . O) i) |3 {0 q2 h! H V我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。0 u J p5 G6 I+ m
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.& ^0 R- j6 }3 V2 {
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 7 j% u4 K: E D! l* s0 e# OWe stop starting. We quit the club.$ ~ y5 i; v# T- b b
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ; p$ q! S! K/ Y3 hWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. + D: m: r, c( I7 y, ?# t我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 c6 b* g0 v2 S* c1 P3 B
There's nothing wrong with asking why.2 P! x; ]+ d; `# S) B( H+ j) g; z
问为什么没什么问题。 $ Z! ~6 p: N _4 R, A! t& rIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.& E% {9 d3 N1 I j- k
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 2 Y6 L6 c' s% sTalk about it. / N2 F2 w2 c. V- V3 T谈论下面的话题： 4 l) G- n7 P4 ^' ]Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? , w, a2 l6 p: ^! m. B3 ^( w8 T你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？) {% d6 j `4 D6 D! Q$ n& M/ Q" _5 ^
Is it a kind of distant memory?2 C( \9 C) \: {7 g! f, Z1 J
它是一种遥远的记忆？ ! d4 ]4 m; n; M, x8 e0 ~4 M, oDid you ever forget why you are doing something... & p; C3 T7 I; F: c; F你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ! y2 b3 j7 q% d8 C! X5 N9 rHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 9 F0 B O6 B: |0 H3 D; L你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ / a0 D3 O, k4 z& |) g" ~/ Z" gDo you write memos? $ a8 I, ~7 `' \1 F4 x; _7 l: a" @你写备忘录吗？ 1 f! C* o' _" D: k4 |# yDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ! M; t( G! Q0 z你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？; d7 P7 ~) s$ R9 {
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 1 J4 @6 N! R$ T; A8 v' B; b3 z7 }还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？, W$ H* m% A: F/ t* f2 E
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 7 k: O, w" }. F. Q! X; C你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？