标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something/ C* U# w& C9 h6 Z1 v& F
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记住我们为什么做某事: k2 w$ U2 b. u* n9 X+ K
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. % L. N& g2 g6 `1 j4 R: P有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。* A( H/ g& j% M; Z5 ~7 u
Have you ever done that?! n! Q2 G6 U! g: _1 g
你曾有过这种经历吗？& T, J o7 u7 @2 r0 L# y
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. I+ ]. G% u# H A我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 5 T/ A6 F# b8 |' tI have called someone because I want to tell them something.; j: ^2 _: V+ z: K1 A2 Y( j1 r
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 + R1 q2 m- c! i) I$ [And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. . r% G, y, W4 Y然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 - J4 l! w% }# vWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. % W. r8 C( g5 I( K5 c: U哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。3 N" ^# P' m) r; C6 e4 v
That's a memory problem.3 l2 z. s/ @/ a8 K
这是一个记忆问题。 3 @- h* P: S, m" M# D6 JI guess that counts too.& T5 F0 h, a" q( Y
我想那很重要。 $ Q" a) J" }( L9 dBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?) J, c* h# B6 W/ ], B; R
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？& m6 E; j( P. K0 l9 ] B8 F
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 5 }$ V) L: u6 L& q9 @: Z' \# _$ e8 Y在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 8 r1 T$ b* l1 P3 d9 A, cFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.1 x, J: c& ?8 j' f; G8 C4 h
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 0 W G- S+ u) FIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 6 w+ h0 _! u0 b$ ?! \% s总是可以问问自己为什么。' X" ?- y) }0 K) K9 ^2 g4 d
Why did I start to learn a language?7 f" p6 C! f0 G8 K# `
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ # Z4 `1 j* s- v" [! ~Why did I join this club? ; v2 }/ n3 Y7 K1 t# W为什么我加入这个俱乐部？2 s: o; e# y. I. R, M! J# {
Why my friend was this person?) I" ]. K9 g Z4 Z
为什么我的朋友是这个人？& U) f- c! p, b, ~
Why did I get married? 1 f4 V( x: _- C: P* X: l/ U" N为什么我要结婚？2 q$ X% ^* k- C3 H
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.. `$ A% i: H6 f9 b% C
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 . A6 c# Q; u5 M' C3 B. w/ LI think we need indeed remind us of why.. `; \0 D$ m0 }+ z. n
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。& r8 ?2 I# r: \) t( ~0 X/ O
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. $ s( @% N. \6 u6 g/ Q否则很难完成我们所开始的。 * ~ u! P! A# n+ t/ \! B6 @We stop starting. We quit the club. 2 @6 W+ S5 T) P* S& }/ q$ b我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 / V& G, h9 y" D. Q3 R( h; bWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 2 X: W* j5 ]1 Y% }# h我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。/ ?# V* P$ K5 Q: r, { T# f, A
There's nothing wrong with asking why.! g. z8 J% O. j$ n' D! p/ I* ]1 w. w
问为什么没什么问题。* g. G, i( E& D0 C- k
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.; v5 n2 D0 m6 G3 h
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。8 A6 A7 L# C/ X7 b* W, M
Talk about it. , k8 e4 h- ~* f! k; P1 j' Y谈论下面的话题：* r2 {/ ]3 o1 ]! L! T8 Q9 r
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? & l' }% u# O; G0 t: Z! H( L. E8 b你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ . x; g4 e0 b, g5 i1 Z* sIs it a kind of distant memory?) R6 D9 V3 n- I8 U' |; L
它是一种遥远的记忆？ ! `4 R0 [3 e+ e! z9 _3 I& tDid you ever forget why you are doing something... / P4 Z$ O+ \( g你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……* }% L L. j2 {, `- M
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 9 n8 O. {! |) Z$ c2 R8 t& v) w/ n你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 7 F' x; R& Y; b2 @3 m a3 dDo you write memos? * e; s: X2 h5 U W' z- y你写备忘录吗？& `$ J4 P* P+ z! w1 S6 @
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? , U6 R# f5 ]! ^( c4 a; }2 G0 i' ?你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？4 R& K* }3 U( `1 `) M
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?0 z7 S) c% k7 Y/ |* }- Y( F
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？' q+ y; r3 ^4 }. w2 ~7 ]9 D
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? # s5 f4 R! N/ V3 V' v' G你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？