标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something H! i8 A ^1 }+ ?: b! d4 C7 P/ X: `4 ^0 L
记住我们为什么做某事5 n' F q; }* H: W
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.8 g5 Y! b. O1 c- \
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。* r2 J* c8 V! n
Have you ever done that? % @9 P, ?+ |7 X# j2 ?2 d你曾有过这种经历吗？ 2 o! E3 \$ s9 s4 z* ^# k+ @I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. $ K4 i2 ~, J6 R1 ~4 \2 Y我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 6 V- S3 [, | n, j4 II have called someone because I want to tell them something. ; c3 d, [9 Z, t$ u' L* _" Z/ ?我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ( X; [+ ]8 A: D1 g2 sAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. $ {1 l! ?5 q3 w. I" y- S% @6 g然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 + \5 n+ _! `1 K4 h4 s# ~+ XWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. . W( \- D0 |6 t$ W: |6 `哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。6 j9 ?+ `% j/ q! `5 G
That's a memory problem.+ @ n( Z, S5 q5 ?2 O- G" G6 D
这是一个记忆问题。 2 a T2 R; w; q' N6 k7 O oI guess that counts too. ; A- K) N! |9 W' H我想那很重要。9 w1 g: A* q* }$ N5 l8 a+ x
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?$ {5 y1 J, i8 y9 _# l4 R
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？0 j" f! U5 ?1 J
At one point, there was a reason we do something. . \. N# T6 E4 R' D' {9 m& c在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。1 o4 c7 h9 c# Z
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ; ]& k2 M' Y) Q% R( {对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ! a3 B0 G1 f" ?. y, a6 K& C5 ^It's always could to ask ourselves why.! {5 M9 }# f2 `5 n# g5 a' _
总是可以问问自己为什么。 ; X9 n/ G B# e2 RWhy did I start to learn a language? " q6 o% V9 K6 T为什么我开始学习一种语言？ % m8 E) P# i3 O+ JWhy did I join this club? 2 p( x1 e7 `& h' K为什么我加入这个俱乐部？' s" D8 @( U$ q) d+ G
Why my friend was this person? : J, v$ ?* l9 \0 D5 a m; w为什么我的朋友是这个人？6 n. S" e0 i5 }, P% r- e5 l) i
Why did I get married? * w4 y; H6 h- I; o- w- o' U' Q- F为什么我要结婚？ 5 Z( y% D6 r# y0 bIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 4 r& F: d; {) T. X7 S如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 0 \3 J$ [+ L: }* ]! U- k% kI think we need indeed remind us of why. ( Z/ w) y! V8 t% U' x7 X8 P我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 9 D# |# ~6 t2 t& H! ~Or else it's tough to finish what we started. & e& J! T" S% H0 B否则很难完成我们所开始的。 K1 a0 K) @( u( j2 t* k
We stop starting. We quit the club.8 y! q3 a8 ?: l: }; Z% y
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。6 g& I! i* M7 k- Q1 Q8 k! q5 n( S& L
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ! p [0 w) r4 V1 m' `( y* K Y) ?我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。" `' v+ p }6 u5 b1 R7 K0 y
There's nothing wrong with asking why.! L0 }9 e2 B0 D: ~
问为什么没什么问题。 : Q* m+ v3 m* V, [7 S7 S# aIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ; c. {' j7 O2 \: ?事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 6 z9 e) ^1 Y: l E- p& }Talk about it. + ~/ W4 M6 D' Y, a4 g/ j谈论下面的话题： ) P6 L! o) ?* \, S, lIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? , V! z. j! z$ `; j" v7 v你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？. i }" c4 _6 e+ S
Is it a kind of distant memory? " i! ~8 h a7 r! U2 U( F3 I它是一种遥远的记忆？ % ^; y- T6 h# r" M, d8 \& ?/ o- jDid you ever forget why you are doing something..." ^' ~5 G" O+ F2 C& S8 h
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… : }! R* L8 I! b4 q* JHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?5 O# q% o" K {* j* z
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？% q4 E5 J5 h; U' k
Do you write memos?5 i! p. a/ o, y
你写备忘录吗？( _/ p5 n' W# S, U: P& ]& Y
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 6 G3 [% L8 j2 x+ w# G6 q2 _4 P/ ^" f你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ # s% S/ @' L" E3 }# \* x2 d+ t) K% dWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?! M E( d- V O3 {
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ . O, N# {% X: \) {2 {What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? F, \; x) Z+ y l; f( n你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？