标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something- ^* X, E) t( ?0 m8 X) u7 J
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记住我们为什么做某事 ! p2 ~: M5 ]- O6 [Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.& C0 G5 {. N$ K: w
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 K5 v0 _2 J+ e& T3 ^' u6 Q2 Y1 IHave you ever done that?6 }$ W8 z$ z3 ~8 o7 y# V2 w
你曾有过这种经历吗？0 O* R- K R8 s# T5 G
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.6 @4 ` `" O9 q/ F* ]
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。. P8 L- X6 c' |" m7 T$ d! [
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.* @9 \) s( ~7 O/ \; e
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 P' Z: K: y5 t- }3 B/ R2 A
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. + |% {* J7 S7 Z# X然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。) G A0 B. u1 r5 _
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 0 @! b- j# T+ Y# G! Z6 v1 P9 S哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ! o+ ~# `# O4 W9 FThat's a memory problem. ' j# I& K* x) t这是一个记忆问题。* W4 Y6 l- T; b- j
I guess that counts too.* r% S( ?) G3 Y5 T' c3 w
我想那很重要。3 Y7 v( ?0 |0 l, x
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? + g! U: D7 m/ x& g4 o但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？3 D0 @8 S: d. S0 O" J3 f
At one point, there was a reason we do something.1 @5 q0 E. m0 ]" ]
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 7 v% B4 V0 a% R* U- RFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason./ T- \! V+ c% B5 ^( l! s7 @
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 7 B* \/ d2 R+ eIt's always could to ask ourselves why. / e' v9 p ^, q! F: I总是可以问问自己为什么。 4 j/ k. Z Y. S8 _Why did I start to learn a language? # ~* {' N7 p: A- H/ Q1 {5 d" {4 Z5 I为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 3 D- S/ g5 {3 D. a) i& g5 E2 f" r, I+ tWhy did I join this club? 2 P7 }$ S% \0 _9 D2 @为什么我加入这个俱乐部？! t4 o& j2 }! m
Why my friend was this person?! d* U4 z. U6 C% [- T1 E P# p
为什么我的朋友是这个人？9 e% {5 A% @# I9 b! u8 d+ ]- r
Why did I get married?* z5 X( L7 {) t1 d& d
为什么我要结婚？ $ ]7 Z1 p. |, NIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 1 u+ n6 h6 H b$ d" x1 k如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 : E, o: m0 W3 {; BI think we need indeed remind us of why.$ j4 S* H& u0 D& A, X- n
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。1 r& Y* g. k3 u+ y c* D
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. # Z7 ~& O! l3 s3 n; j# Z否则很难完成我们所开始的。 0 M1 C! M$ Z9 {We stop starting. We quit the club. & O) e5 a" @1 g7 F2 d/ x我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 0 y5 U8 \7 C/ }7 L$ X: k- BWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 1 m$ b {% m7 \, W$ ^我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。- `. \9 ~4 O7 u4 q4 L
There's nothing wrong with asking why.: Y0 Z3 [& A( Y( f+ L* [
问为什么没什么问题。- k4 H+ H# y& [( ]5 _! i
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.+ C# Z* g9 ~! b2 _7 o" E
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。: f; g8 T+ @- ^5 Z; z, b( W) b
Talk about it.4 U( g% G& M! h8 R* [
谈论下面的话题：+ Y# A8 b" o) E) ~; A
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?( v0 A( A: C8 X1 }
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ % s6 f4 c* q' t1 f8 DIs it a kind of distant memory? . h" ]) f- z( G) i: s( `它是一种遥远的记忆？ 9 {! W, r- Q6 Y) q- J- l# s# pDid you ever forget why you are doing something...# O" N9 o1 o. [" A1 C6 A
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……, l; C& _1 X$ e1 Q/ O
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? $ H$ x5 p6 b8 Q3 {1 M0 R6 \你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 0 }5 \( B3 q5 g3 N" LDo you write memos?% V; z6 V" g# T; I6 D
你写备忘录吗？ . o" l3 a6 G8 T; |Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?0 M; _* B3 k, @ V4 p, s! z$ L
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ " J, V7 B+ S0 H& V8 C7 ~What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? & T5 O: J, x' [7 {- T还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？* Y+ q0 k" G( J6 i9 P# w
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ! D7 t, t t5 U3 a' Z1 V你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？