标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 3 v! C& d$ f8 R, N3 L+ ? 4 R/ E2 _/ |7 t& ~: I/ g记住我们为什么做某事8 j( Z' N# _: f3 _
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.7 C6 I9 \% u3 N' y2 d/ ~, N* b
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ! P X+ b5 s/ C7 z: i ^% OHave you ever done that?" h# P5 v; A# ]0 [2 m
你曾有过这种经历吗？ # o1 J- p* V9 m% E0 {: _I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. : n }* b9 g8 \2 O/ q我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。9 M/ ~7 l, j# R7 P# v
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. ( {1 m8 M% r) i% }. O: ?我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。& B) V- K7 w3 B$ P& _0 R. u4 V
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. * M+ G/ T) M R( @* K) P9 a然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。* X/ ?7 x0 E' n/ d
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. / i; E9 B0 y* k! }. @哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。9 x! q4 `: C' P8 u2 T
That's a memory problem. ' m' d- C4 S: w. |1 x( O, D1 G7 S这是一个记忆问题。; M: d* ?9 F4 O' o2 E) |9 u
I guess that counts too." e+ ?* r4 c5 S% _
我想那很重要。* i, n. v- p+ G2 x# ^
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 1 ~. H- p# e$ p, i0 i! A但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？$ F5 m9 y( m3 p
At one point, there was a reason we do something. * b% B% p" J' _. ^: u3 L6 {在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。7 G3 l, U; u2 o! v' _
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 8 ~6 z$ q2 A! L" m& e. v! v) i对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。- a0 a; ~& L! b- s$ P8 y- Y" K+ g
It's always could to ask ourselves why. Z' j2 U9 }$ `9 m \) t! Q
总是可以问问自己为什么。4 b$ d4 @8 ?0 q. \. Q
Why did I start to learn a language? ) B' l' a! V- [* i6 T为什么我开始学习一种语言？+ r) v4 V0 O- I! h0 V# {
Why did I join this club? + |% \6 h" [- A0 e g9 C F为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ( E- Y3 n8 W. VWhy my friend was this person?5 u5 H0 x9 x# \, F4 o
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 5 V$ x6 t1 X# A* J' P8 ?( sWhy did I get married? 2 _- P5 }* \* k; t. B( C为什么我要结婚？ & K/ `5 v) @ D3 {5 q7 |If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.5 M1 }2 d, Y8 e6 t) Q1 ?; T
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。( b& I9 `' U+ B0 A1 f- X: d
I think we need indeed remind us of why. b& J* F- i! v' X' k* b- }7 D我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 R- n4 _5 |0 E* q1 T9 Y, S: n7 MOr else it's tough to finish what we started. , T9 W6 d! r4 u& ?否则很难完成我们所开始的。 0 c# L y: o- F0 b8 NWe stop starting. We quit the club. * s% J3 M* `7 V+ y我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ' E/ S+ y3 p& K/ M/ f- F" \- sWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.0 F# O, s8 d9 v* F
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 7 W: a5 f# m5 g% RThere's nothing wrong with asking why.1 ?1 y' y* B5 J1 w0 e6 W! V6 ?5 k* [* Y
问为什么没什么问题。 % t p- o- W5 D: a" o* h+ P0 H. w0 lIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 5 F- F/ L! N D/ J. O事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。# ? K2 F0 t' r6 L2 m4 S$ P
Talk about it. ; O' M2 d6 y9 e+ O, H% X9 ]谈论下面的话题：1 p* u4 C% h! @+ ?5 F- q
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 0 L P1 {6 y( A2 d$ n7 k你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？5 S* j+ \; ]' f3 F6 f
Is it a kind of distant memory?6 B1 P, Y K: R8 m( q1 o3 ?
它是一种遥远的记忆？ & }. z3 ~/ B6 r* X- n( i5 h4 EDid you ever forget why you are doing something... / {) [! `' N3 q' q. L你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… + K4 g+ S. V# Q2 y$ pHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?8 p/ {" z. s' n) x# r" D9 F0 l
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？) e' U* ?5 x$ q) p; f
Do you write memos?$ X( n8 ~* r2 M. r2 x+ a; g: y
你写备忘录吗？! I/ d8 B5 G/ P9 c' t, X
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? z" H. E* N& [4 R- d& x7 j M, |你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？1 ~5 s U" h/ g% O* ~" H( I
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?7 T* P8 E+ @+ R. y; Q6 d1 Y0 @( K* L
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？8 Z0 f1 V, K0 C% P: a' j0 p& w
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? $ l1 V6 ~8 m2 k' Y0 ^9 G: S' a你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？