标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ! y+ |+ q5 {# O S4 R; K9 C& O9 U2 t+ j3 e H
记住我们为什么做某事 # o1 L( A# O( O3 JSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. + U5 a( [3 Z& [; `( B/ L有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。% f) \# L8 N4 o" x
Have you ever done that? + W2 D8 W! ^% O6 Z; R' D你曾有过这种经历吗？7 h" b$ o0 [4 ]! j* _% ^1 o0 Q8 S
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.7 M( C. N. C+ F% \; _
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 * w- r; r l5 M7 E: g) JI have called someone because I want to tell them something.& ]$ F6 b0 x5 M' r. C# q- I
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 & m6 h; c m; T gAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 8 J; B6 z* Q F7 R4 X* R然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。4 V& q/ `6 b/ P7 O$ f, s
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 4 R7 @( S) v+ g8 Y9 z A哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 : M8 u' ?7 [1 R" T# Y0 WThat's a memory problem.3 N8 @2 {5 D4 d( x3 H: h# w: f0 D
这是一个记忆问题。 $ L9 C. X3 Q' N$ g! Q! H' DI guess that counts too. + x5 M$ ?) W& Y+ M8 t我想那很重要。# F! ]+ ^( ?% t2 r
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? - x% h5 h4 m4 v# U但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？3 U% Q7 |+ X; i, t
At one point, there was a reason we do something.6 e, o5 d( L2 S2 k! O D
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 & y1 p1 j! b8 L" v ~6 H9 IFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.& Q" p! V0 @* D" P( l/ h; D
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。+ {4 x" c5 R) S9 h8 R# V
It's always could to ask ourselves why. % n ^6 T# `/ u总是可以问问自己为什么。 4 N! U) J" {8 W* a7 y* y* u: EWhy did I start to learn a language?4 W" b; @' N" `" n
为什么我开始学习一种语言？( Y) b. ]4 e3 F: a
Why did I join this club? : Y- a9 g% ~' q4 ]. ] ^6 C为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ . n. l7 v! E+ IWhy my friend was this person?" z$ U$ j5 \8 X; O1 l7 ?! T/ J
为什么我的朋友是这个人？0 _8 k* E' n H9 z* d
Why did I get married?8 A6 w# ]% C( C2 l
为什么我要结婚？ 5 p* Z2 e/ |: f% r& t9 wIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 6 G! a7 f/ L- _8 {- V8 I/ s如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。2 N' g3 B$ [" J) J
I think we need indeed remind us of why.$ a" \; ] I+ }) Y' h. q
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。5 u% z% n: y+ t. P( g v. j9 N3 \
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.6 o$ r5 `- h! I
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 4 m& j* b9 K( M; n! p7 kWe stop starting. We quit the club. * M6 |+ a+ w. C- a# c6 b$ L我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 7 c3 c9 W5 R4 p! W0 t9 u, xWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.& ]' q+ E" Z1 r3 N& x; |/ U
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。# R/ H5 [1 _/ p
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 2 B$ _/ S5 m* c问为什么没什么问题。 ; T" E" d: _, ]In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 5 C4 k/ D+ Y0 r/ q# O/ g事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。7 ?& c4 y4 }( @6 a# \' p! c" \
Talk about it. : }/ u! N2 T/ k' w( |: K谈论下面的话题：5 a/ B/ j- p: z6 l5 a1 |8 l. N7 [
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? + T( d1 a2 F( Z' x1 O6 a你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ - K9 S+ T, J5 S: H: _6 y4 \$ \' E, MIs it a kind of distant memory?3 b7 r& v$ p) b% a6 \
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 0 J. l& s) d6 tDid you ever forget why you are doing something... % ?6 U6 ?& [1 k% E. t+ l. \5 [你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 9 ~# U/ o: h2 f: lHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?9 Y4 o8 {5 w5 Y3 a. D7 P
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？7 L7 _: i9 U, \4 o* d q
Do you write memos?$ B- u- ?7 \! `* X- {0 i' C
你写备忘录吗？: f- p1 w) a2 X; c+ |: L
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?4 h7 Q% |. q v4 u
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？. V; ]' n2 V7 G& j& J
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?+ ]! N5 l/ B% J: @4 Q5 Q$ ^
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ # \7 V% M% n1 j1 }" G: H" OWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?5 k) i4 k' y' c# z9 b7 N
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？