标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something2 v, U. o) h: a
7 C" Q3 h$ \. ~记住我们为什么做某事 0 W' w, [; V5 \" @+ FSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.( U& w+ }2 r) b5 X+ ?# z0 c' |* ] b
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。8 w- J1 a1 g: h- h# Y$ w1 G
Have you ever done that?! C0 ]6 V ]* ?9 j( u8 {$ u( D) `
你曾有过这种经历吗？. G% a7 X% Y1 r5 | d. Z
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 3 |+ t" G6 k9 Y# m, P+ S+ Y我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 + q' R. f0 H- l, ~- L6 f3 U! c' rI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 4 R+ y' k/ [# J6 v' o% W我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。. v) i1 H! H* E6 P# ?+ U- H3 v, ]! m1 ^
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ; s' d* R) E! k+ F8 \ C: \然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ! [ X0 t- W P4 G' n2 l1 T1 kWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 3 g! J/ G- v$ o# s, L哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。1 m1 j8 a( A" W
That's a memory problem.. q( U& f1 u* n. L- |3 U. G
这是一个记忆问题。 - @; ~6 A& P9 RI guess that counts too. $ C- M8 Y# o9 W M- t1 t+ I. ^我想那很重要。 5 q" F$ P0 x1 sBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?% T3 h6 ?' `, x6 G
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？5 r1 O0 `& w1 ?) W
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 4 S: r# G, m& m! `0 U在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。, \" E3 v. \& D
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 5 f; d0 E; Z' ]- X' c. E% v+ E对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。% n) e, j/ [8 W
It's always could to ask ourselves why. , \2 ]" N6 D+ N4 l6 B9 B/ U8 {总是可以问问自己为什么。+ ^1 u) h( n, T" V, i* T+ a
Why did I start to learn a language? ( @5 _. N2 T; x为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ) o/ ]+ r" i& H0 [) W2 PWhy did I join this club? 9 J* W; B" P. U( n为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ & O( }4 Z6 m' g; [Why my friend was this person?/ l3 _; g5 \- W& c; m$ B, |' U. }( Z
为什么我的朋友是这个人？5 D/ T3 x" k. U
Why did I get married?: H4 Y M ^7 ~$ v X) W; j, N: R7 Z
为什么我要结婚？ & O r+ h' M$ ~, X1 A, `6 S8 xIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.# k; o4 ? E% R8 a/ ^2 S6 ?( X
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。6 M- {. i" L1 L; F$ m/ V& ^" { \
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 9 ~- c5 Z, g3 d2 X* v我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 + P, [+ e/ ?, M, Y) T' q, bOr else it's tough to finish what we started.2 W/ A+ D; p9 k i4 t
否则很难完成我们所开始的。5 `7 O0 }4 Y4 T2 e3 x- o
We stop starting. We quit the club. . D% L1 @) M# d9 W4 e1 R7 b* x我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 9 h* T8 L- V) _( t6 E. DWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.6 T) o9 N6 G/ Q6 i* G
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。1 J$ m0 d" w2 W8 S I: s
There's nothing wrong with asking why. : H/ q; _( `2 G+ S; h6 Y! m问为什么没什么问题。 2 u/ b1 S3 G5 |. X. fIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.- T5 F' m9 x# V; ]' v8 l0 @
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 , {2 R; C f5 x4 HTalk about it. & Y+ A- } I5 }8 H! R9 p5 B9 w$ }谈论下面的话题：7 O/ q+ J; ?' \
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 2 g* o1 W5 R; |8 L4 b% }你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ' {- N. A5 ?5 o# B: i& KIs it a kind of distant memory?- D$ ~0 p1 k9 Z- g
它是一种遥远的记忆？8 I* W! E+ N" M4 d5 A/ K" y
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...0 r0 G4 O$ O4 y1 [* E) i. Q: D. Y
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……" j$ I6 _3 w& a5 O6 u
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? + t+ n& ]: s* J, ?% L/ a你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ * J3 Y- c8 C8 K8 r7 Y9 }4 tDo you write memos? 6 J! o; {2 w! X/ [7 L# I5 W$ T你写备忘录吗？ 5 ]! [! x7 Y3 V2 D( W6 t3 z4 QDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 8 l* u% U3 d* B6 K你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 1 D: E, l4 ^; [( n" SWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 0 X Q2 f$ C7 d3 E) {" J6 f8 M& Y还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？) ~" }2 S- s2 M6 e& t# _: Y* k
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?8 T- Z, Z5 x8 `' N7 w9 j
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？