标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ) A9 `- ]- b* G$ Z! @. k, {, w; l& ~) ?4 K( F4 S1 h
记住我们为什么做某事* P7 _( d" h0 y. A% e. O O/ J
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. + v5 Y& X1 J7 p/ c& r, a! Z7 i9 H有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。! _: q( n, S# ?( M
Have you ever done that?8 o( K1 l+ k; }, g U
你曾有过这种经历吗？ / x0 Z! c/ V6 n: {0 `( ~5 QI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too." p8 p) u2 I6 e# H3 p7 b! h
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 d: ~8 E2 ~; w6 K- O0 I
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 9 K( K( W) @4 T6 g% \我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 + d7 z" W9 ` m) h. R) O- M4 m7 w" }5 ~And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. # {1 D% B5 ^9 a+ m) L5 w然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。- ~ J2 ~* r% \ Y! _, u" c
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.9 h4 m- \0 E! L9 r6 `
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 , I. \* q& X3 q) oThat's a memory problem. a t/ J3 d0 O. U6 N这是一个记忆问题。 ) }2 e% W# E9 q& h, A8 C. JI guess that counts too. $ }9 f/ n# `5 u/ o' k我想那很重要。% Y* w# y+ B5 M5 e; Z
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?! D2 B8 l! Q+ K% A d
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 4 n" F" h0 P: `* `At one point, there was a reason we do something. $ E# }: w; Z, N# W在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。: B0 `6 J* ?8 j5 @% U/ u% Q0 r5 y2 X
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.* o% w- z: H( L
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 . P8 F3 }+ d; T% `! }It's always could to ask ourselves why. , n4 k+ j! P v% r8 T总是可以问问自己为什么。9 U6 u, Y. i* E r7 Q& L$ E: S. L; F# [
Why did I start to learn a language? 5 B( D' |; n# @5 @7 {! j- u P% l( G为什么我开始学习一种语言？0 S+ h# t- P* ~/ S3 S
Why did I join this club?6 ]9 I( M/ \; o$ M% H
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？/ l0 F/ f" F9 H, P0 i4 Q- S& ^
Why my friend was this person?8 q6 C; `9 n" E! y8 q1 @
为什么我的朋友是这个人？1 ^! H. N o$ S! ]% M* `. D
Why did I get married?% c3 a' C6 ]. }- H- f
为什么我要结婚？0 `& [ p5 d) B8 A7 t. ]1 k4 d& E
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.- S0 @- O& o5 q. Q
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。% R1 A1 }" _9 V2 P T
I think we need indeed remind us of why.2 L, w# a5 O+ E
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 7 Z9 |, M, R- f7 T7 ~- p4 qOr else it's tough to finish what we started.! G) z- H a5 G2 b/ U" n6 U
否则很难完成我们所开始的。5 |- U. R8 _6 z. {$ ?4 e, D5 x
We stop starting. We quit the club.$ I* `/ [& \8 L0 W' M0 y
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。8 w3 ], S& L g
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 3 P. Y8 v- U* r" Y* {- g% A4 N: L我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 5 _$ o/ a9 F2 t, m( F5 K% f! U3 ZThere's nothing wrong with asking why.+ b% G ~ p! r! ?
问为什么没什么问题。* U% K% R6 F4 n* A& n. |1 x! b
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.$ Z; x( s/ i' P* n {
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。' y% @2 I4 @* L Z3 D
Talk about it. ! u- b' b, r) K谈论下面的话题： ! S/ s& S y. z- u# V5 V0 N8 t1 r/ nIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?6 a7 Q/ _6 q" b
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？9 Q0 ]6 P2 I, m, P$ [. k: Q8 i e
Is it a kind of distant memory?$ X$ Q- q. A) p9 J- s
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 0 ^6 z3 k# Z2 S. oDid you ever forget why you are doing something...8 y4 Q4 k3 s9 I; @! N# E
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……- M7 _4 ` p0 B
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?0 `: L) ~9 A6 o6 Y, p) Y3 H9 l
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？; S1 V' p p8 V8 G" ]4 k9 c- H
Do you write memos?0 l* X+ S- F3 A: f4 ], q
你写备忘录吗？ V _. B2 \ X, m; aDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?+ Q8 m/ I* j) L$ T1 \
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？# V$ x7 q! z5 Y' f/ @. _
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? * F3 H: {2 \* m) Q- Q还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？" ^' z) g8 V, v
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?7 Y% B9 h# S: T% Y
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？