标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something , G# ]" T4 p# `9 S . {6 g0 U" `6 L0 Z记住我们为什么做某事7 D+ `; T' D/ w) L' i
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. - w5 Q' U, x* V# h有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。! p6 a5 m6 x. \ g% N: X
Have you ever done that? D z0 B: @: U" Q你曾有过这种经历吗？, v9 m. v7 v" R5 A
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.2 j; g1 {6 \: F8 h% ?% F6 |
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。6 e) e f0 y* `3 ^* y+ Q% A
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 7 x: Q6 j% o1 A, f+ ~- a; r1 e我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 8 e$ _' N1 w# X4 W) S0 k1 B3 ~And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.. ` n% o/ f5 \! H) O
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 4 }/ L* o* M% g' z. lWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.- G+ P0 T1 K- f# J6 e
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。( ]& O5 Y$ t9 o3 I- k( I, x
That's a memory problem., Y' ~- Z) [) r& Y7 R* `
这是一个记忆问题。 , d1 o! W' E6 Q9 j# aI guess that counts too. n N; c) X3 [- D) H& O s! P+ _
我想那很重要。 , G& w' q3 e @2 V7 SBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?9 T2 _6 ~! @* i) T
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？/ S5 W/ J/ P3 D6 }, G
At one point, there was a reason we do something. ; g6 _5 e: J& j' j在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。. x" y0 P& p& i. `
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 7 E% c! c1 {+ f$ f9 @. G9 L8 N0 i1 t对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 - \% l# g8 d+ m& i g7 mIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 6 _" W6 W; W+ P2 ~总是可以问问自己为什么。2 C4 Y4 x) A2 K* X" N: U N
Why did I start to learn a language?& b" \0 F+ N- y3 s Q! ~3 P
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 6 e4 ] n7 \1 i+ D; ~, fWhy did I join this club?8 t8 H/ A# Y$ \8 Y$ ?* t; |* W* X
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ / A3 t( q. o; C6 ~6 mWhy my friend was this person?% _" b- }/ [9 @- S
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 6 `* k7 ?# F, Q2 [Why did I get married?2 O* h) q& G6 B' W( `
为什么我要结婚？7 T; C' O. y) G+ b+ _" W' G* a
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why." E" ^3 E1 v" K0 g1 i
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。& \$ B. F1 |0 R2 y9 b# B9 o
I think we need indeed remind us of why.* w% o0 w5 f( {( E5 C l6 @; x
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 8 n6 \3 t) R5 @" f+ W6 z W/ | WOr else it's tough to finish what we started.. o- X& W' }! L9 J! E! p
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 0 A' k+ V- z3 D* i- B) Z9 PWe stop starting. We quit the club.* p9 w1 G& f% B& R }
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 7 S: ` m& F' y+ M' E, aWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.# l6 m; l8 l7 }7 I( _0 a/ w- [ x9 `
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。# t" L* J) a" ]) F# c# l
There's nothing wrong with asking why.$ `) O# T0 ]& C6 E( O& X
问为什么没什么问题。0 }2 }8 G# v7 `
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. - u! z( T% Z2 s O& W事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 8 C# s7 {4 _/ V7 W- bTalk about it. " |# S5 g2 B5 d% I, p& v1 ^谈论下面的话题：& A! ~+ X. K% n+ ~
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?" u- q0 S; A2 L+ h4 F+ f
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 5 C4 `1 C" P- Q% b2 x5 yIs it a kind of distant memory?5 U: \4 Y( m9 X) Y0 m) m
它是一种遥远的记忆？! i; y4 Z! ]. g# Z3 i s* q
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 9 y ^9 F, P) j& [' _你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……2 Q5 G; N. f! L
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? / s+ G6 L1 R) t2 I6 l你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ; @3 @- m5 g" e0 s c+ O9 tDo you write memos? U% \# M3 z b8 P" r, N
你写备忘录吗？9 \) C3 [ f: C( `! M
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?* g6 D9 ?- J- s6 T& r( C$ W+ e
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ X& t- l; C$ l! [# ~
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? % ?$ l, @5 W! @4 t0 |# ^还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 0 f8 ?0 ?3 y% Z$ nWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?( Z, l- V8 Y3 L4 ?- {9 K$ s
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？