标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something0 u/ c5 a! o4 P" Y4 O J
" a# w! y, p" e# @/ u Y记住我们为什么做某事% Q5 v! `; i7 z2 t5 g1 f( _2 a. R
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. - Q* F1 J! C1 ^; Q4 f3 a有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。% _' J% z$ O5 N# G5 ]1 d6 ]: o8 C
Have you ever done that?( T" F a- @/ ~) w! @4 r
你曾有过这种经历吗？9 Y3 u( `( {; h W0 ^# b
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 6 I- b) A6 J) o: C/ ?" ?0 W+ {我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 9 R# O) ? b+ {( \2 rI have called someone because I want to tell them something.2 J0 t3 m. N; E: p$ O. _: {7 G/ y
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 + F. d' t1 _- ^And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 2 k. T' l/ c w! V1 y% P2 I然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 9 W5 \' p7 Z% h* i7 M* a2 vWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.# b! R7 W6 v7 f
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 / ^! i" t4 L( ~; R# I9 q0 X( iThat's a memory problem. 7 z8 q" [2 q" D# E这是一个记忆问题。 ( l0 |7 l! y6 K0 d" \" VI guess that counts too." o8 X' b! s" P# J
我想那很重要。 3 a6 ] _9 y1 i: h4 aBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 8 v$ T; g6 d* q; }9 y但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 3 |7 N+ J, O: I uAt one point, there was a reason we do something.. S$ f- |( H4 t7 k3 E
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。) Z- j# A1 }- @! O6 J
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.3 q8 b3 p2 f- i
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 A: f. H, Q) V$ y/ j! {" |* l
It's always could to ask ourselves why.# ~3 S% O, G" }( @- S# F
总是可以问问自己为什么。& q) j" t) g9 B6 g7 v! X
Why did I start to learn a language?& A9 E* I- V1 y: O$ a8 y5 ^
为什么我开始学习一种语言？+ _" Z# F& N2 v( Y) N
Why did I join this club? ; G8 k9 }+ g6 o% h: V' z为什么我加入这个俱乐部？0 m$ U. y3 c" `
Why my friend was this person?2 a( f" }) u' P i, u, I2 L; `
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 0 S) [9 |8 {" s% RWhy did I get married? # T1 w( V9 u9 l* O5 \! b1 h+ Z9 Y为什么我要结婚？" v- z4 o2 O$ H- H4 f
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.( C2 C" V, Z; ]5 x1 S0 n l; o" A
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。$ K" w9 v& C+ c- K
I think we need indeed remind us of why.+ E' k3 Z, D9 Q. Z- k8 u* q" V
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 1 P9 E# L1 U& [0 g! jOr else it's tough to finish what we started. ; s) m ^: n0 w X/ c7 E6 s否则很难完成我们所开始的。 + T* l' d8 J& o$ x ], dWe stop starting. We quit the club.. `7 _, v; s& U1 [6 z ?
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 % ~$ g) Y- P/ v' G& hWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.- h9 A$ ?8 x3 X8 D
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ; G, s4 U. n, GThere's nothing wrong with asking why. $ A3 B6 e/ T$ n' S. F( k问为什么没什么问题。 8 q1 ]& c4 u$ Y+ xIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.5 |2 z, ^( D# m" o+ s9 _1 C% }
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。& }& t, R+ ^" g7 S( S$ \6 s2 L. k
Talk about it.7 d3 L( S, l2 M. U
谈论下面的话题：# I- y {+ Y2 f4 Z9 c. b' {% p
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 8 V) N7 m1 j6 H: m; p/ M4 e+ U你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ * z7 ~/ \* i9 E/ i+ _Is it a kind of distant memory?& F: h4 _: a$ D; I+ L2 k6 ^
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 0 A) T6 h* }' D+ z: Y8 f8 MDid you ever forget why you are doing something... ! C' P* t6 }% E1 M你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……2 P2 X1 `9 L' W- ~( W$ f
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?# `* s% n0 M( }( W
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？: ^8 X' E1 ?+ j+ C5 B
Do you write memos?! f3 c2 b8 `6 Q' ], \- Z$ h3 k
你写备忘录吗？8 ~* ~. t* U9 j8 D1 V& O
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?( V4 \" }0 i, q
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ $ T7 i. J6 G, mWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?9 v# V! _) W* S: ~( l
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ # D/ n0 ^( k0 L& G+ M @8 q: i) YWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ! a4 f% y' D8 Y$ N, M% G你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？