标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something; o: o' C' R: Q/ }% T4 e4 c
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记住我们为什么做某事0 I( z3 V* b; x" T% p& N( I
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. : s! V# ^! w6 N& S, i8 g5 H: P* q有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。! U( k8 o/ T2 `
Have you ever done that?. J' K* Q2 i5 r8 _& c' O
你曾有过这种经历吗？ & a/ K1 T4 k7 v2 \I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ) v+ m% N- l0 s6 ?# Z我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。7 t; v5 a% {8 e( P+ U0 O
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.& ]% n; c. ]! g3 O) w7 C
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ) _# G! U' F# [: G5 y5 _- WAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.2 i7 r. w* v* t% O% F5 j: M; N- M
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ) X* b' A$ X- C4 i. ? ?1 k* YWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.4 s" w' M F, `7 m
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。# i, Y2 m6 A, p
That's a memory problem.' p+ r/ C" E7 W) l; C
这是一个记忆问题。2 E9 q4 f0 U( G
I guess that counts too.6 u, ?; t: w9 {$ F K
我想那很重要。( |1 ?: y0 h* I- ?4 i
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? " q) i# t5 [! \5 M6 ~( @: k但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 5 J X' r% M3 u4 w9 A+ UAt one point, there was a reason we do something.' @& W( v6 I5 T: I# O
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 7 S' E7 L& a$ Y, S9 x; ~For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.' y! K x Z! Z- ~' s1 P/ o- a
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 6 g5 Z5 u @& H6 V+ ]It's always could to ask ourselves why." ?1 S; b5 f9 g( l; X
总是可以问问自己为什么。; A% J$ O( H9 H8 v% ?* Z
Why did I start to learn a language?/ q% i' e- s# q# e1 ^, O
为什么我开始学习一种语言？0 b& }3 N& U1 N
Why did I join this club?* x3 m* R K; u! Q- _
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ( z9 K4 ~0 ~$ BWhy my friend was this person?5 q8 M5 c! u# ^3 E( }4 Q3 h# B& v
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 4 C* A5 |; b; _$ w! ?Why did I get married?9 P7 c- x6 i9 P, F
为什么我要结婚？- }1 s" I9 K w- @) D
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. $ z1 D' p% k1 q* v! h如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ) D6 F) }' v: vI think we need indeed remind us of why.4 g9 {- _! [+ D: e) M
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 8 s9 T- Z1 R. {7 DOr else it's tough to finish what we started.; D6 G& _# E- g# i
否则很难完成我们所开始的。5 @2 O ^" f; C# K/ {& g, p
We stop starting. We quit the club. : M5 T" r* f7 y& O) G8 d Q我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。8 _% n) e3 o& s
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. $ P# }1 k D7 w' n; X我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。, V- M# K! ]( e
There's nothing wrong with asking why. % ^" O: ?. V; h, Y3 N- `( I问为什么没什么问题。 8 g+ M0 ` _) u+ C" F0 \In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.. J% u, Q ~, w, o/ S/ D3 r6 [
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 8 N5 ^" G- |4 J) sTalk about it.5 J( }7 ?! v, S# A, L- {: }, \( P
谈论下面的话题： + c3 R1 y! C' ?" v! p( ~/ |0 pIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? % C+ L$ C; o: b1 r' P1 o你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？7 a! ^9 V- M8 ^4 U, l) J( I, K% i; \3 Z
Is it a kind of distant memory? & K6 j# Y6 {- }它是一种遥远的记忆？! H- f! n0 ]3 U1 F. l1 G2 l9 [4 s
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... ; B+ j, m5 h0 S6 O* s$ J" m你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……4 r6 W) m$ L1 l) E" y$ r8 Y8 ^
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 5 p+ a2 J' X" m5 M! ~! C/ x3 n7 |7 ?你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？, W1 i6 W/ s+ h4 x9 O1 w
Do you write memos?" ~9 U; O Z' {5 r8 D
你写备忘录吗？ 2 x* t( ?- v5 |2 B8 h$ QDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ( Q% z$ I' \+ _. X5 A你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？1 f' k8 t6 {0 N4 v- X7 p
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?+ z2 ?, s! P5 E w% |: ]+ V* o4 }2 P
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？3 S4 x. f. }, W, A" z. Q: G! Y* h
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?4 n* ?! z# F- _! t ^
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？