标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something) l. E# `6 R5 f; H- U4 U$ K' t
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记住我们为什么做某事$ e! _. F& ^" }. W3 E$ X3 `3 x% E
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ; R/ a, ?* j2 X2 I- U8 Z有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 , ~ j% @0 ~ }2 CHave you ever done that? 8 G4 H3 J+ l5 C% S% @你曾有过这种经历吗？ 1 f/ ~. k5 L0 M# x1 c5 TI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. : _& q! u2 U( A我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 7 ?+ w# ~( D" a O3 M$ Z1 FI have called someone because I want to tell them something., k8 o! t3 S2 g
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。. U/ L; w: f2 r$ Z1 j2 Y
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.5 _/ d) Z* v, B7 d
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。- E3 d# \: k% f; _; K1 _1 O
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 3 n! e0 Q3 D0 z v7 \# R/ V哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。& l) o, [. F& j4 g
That's a memory problem./ t! A4 t! K+ c: n- O, z7 b
这是一个记忆问题。 & l0 ~) y! S( L k" wI guess that counts too.* ]5 E- T+ u6 a/ h9 ?; H: S1 ^2 U. U: ^
我想那很重要。 / r# M. b' v. @# V& r8 D* f: zBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?- r% V; N6 r( T# I. S1 _* D4 _
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ e2 c$ V. k8 v' T6 cAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 9 m7 J9 k) y! _% L在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。$ O( f! V/ O8 M
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ) P/ X- T5 V: y) o; F7 _对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。8 `6 a: R1 g. c6 J" S% z/ i
It's always could to ask ourselves why.- j" O9 H6 u) {2 u6 ^3 |# x
总是可以问问自己为什么。 & b* Z7 b) `5 {- V- S& U; CWhy did I start to learn a language?8 V) o W5 O- r; q1 z
为什么我开始学习一种语言？) M& o: Q2 B; m/ }1 U' d
Why did I join this club?2 @: }$ ~4 l) z1 n
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？' I2 `5 Y3 ~" o$ e$ r; a' A; V
Why my friend was this person?% D/ e- o4 `! ~7 O( n% v, O
为什么我的朋友是这个人？- s0 p h" W1 M! V) J# F7 L* {
Why did I get married? 7 S5 M8 u5 H M4 [4 Y' C: I为什么我要结婚？, o E1 `5 Y7 w. r" b p
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. " q7 x( Y, ]/ p* D: @, a% M如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。, c! ~1 P: k6 d( d/ {# x
I think we need indeed remind us of why.1 m, V; |2 U& M5 `0 r6 M
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。1 t6 b4 C4 C* B& l5 D8 Z
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. , E6 f; m1 \% b4 h/ P, c! n- p0 n6 j否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ( n, J$ ]( F8 b$ x5 |8 x zWe stop starting. We quit the club.! k' |6 j- y+ |+ o/ K6 j0 b2 Y, ~
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 , Z4 t, R1 X) U! ~We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. N1 m5 U6 h8 a; d5 y
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。; J8 ]$ i6 i% s2 U% F- V1 k2 K
There's nothing wrong with asking why.2 V+ ?+ Q/ Y- x/ L6 Q* I9 e3 J3 W
问为什么没什么问题。+ ?% n' T1 G- q. S& a% `9 s: ]+ I
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.% o$ L- B0 p# {: {8 l M
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。, Y/ D/ _; ?$ z' Q5 k( m. E
Talk about it. # b* |6 {! p. Y9 Q9 }2 a5 I谈论下面的话题： . t; T7 }: j5 v/ u/ D: l; c/ F$ OIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ( `$ D) k5 K% `你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ) i* w/ q: _ v) N9 { w- ^: OIs it a kind of distant memory? $ l! `9 _% W0 i$ n$ D8 I* z1 A4 y它是一种遥远的记忆？9 V1 j" m7 A# v' S
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... / V; X3 ?2 N( r' D- ~* M你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……3 _# q9 h! [/ m n d+ {
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ( e5 m1 a# Q0 B( H+ s2 @% |* H你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 5 [' y% b7 k. y9 h& _Do you write memos? / f, x5 y/ [. m# S你写备忘录吗？ $ O6 q. a; T! ?7 [- `Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?9 T% g8 N4 n; L0 W$ e& {
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？: t$ L2 t+ T5 _0 x* L, _
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?- `) C5 o- t1 G
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？1 k7 q2 ~- o1 W
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?2 a, p3 w6 K# g3 V) X
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？