/ g$ ]# G T# \# i8 J6 f$ z记住我们为什么做某事3 a6 x O# F1 A$ B4 a
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.( c( t' h6 I" m: J
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ; _/ R+ B( ~" D! mHave you ever done that?3 O8 b. c0 R$ i4 d6 V
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 3 M2 B0 M* }' NI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. & O- m p* r5 T, l我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ( _3 }- R4 x1 F0 v2 S' mI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 7 B: `0 E' e% L4 o我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。: q" t7 U) I# O2 I# _
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.# P" S) b, H3 a) o2 K4 v4 ~" d7 H
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。7 h/ f- P( y9 F+ j/ H! b
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.& X1 N' Y7 w* k( g/ G' y+ m
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 6 s; w* w2 X' a' L! SThat's a memory problem. . v, \7 e. V3 n6 ~0 u这是一个记忆问题。$ Y7 k) f) F; o# }/ p
I guess that counts too.; P+ v) o& c" X4 t1 T
我想那很重要。 ( c3 z. S; s0 \/ e5 _) y1 L/ H3 wBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? " ]+ S9 n% C2 }. @" \- r" B但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ + a5 `# M5 E5 A5 GAt one point, there was a reason we do something. . @2 o% d ], D在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。8 o2 i& a8 R$ z$ @2 l( g Y
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.% {' t3 G- r3 Y) i
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ! N: _& n6 [( UIt's always could to ask ourselves why. + J- u6 h8 b+ S总是可以问问自己为什么。 9 c J, h; b: z$ @Why did I start to learn a language? 3 f2 o1 n# ~) A Z: b) ^- }( V为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 1 \; b- R& N. B3 ]" dWhy did I join this club? 5 _, c# ~3 W9 J7 V! J' s0 U* V为什么我加入这个俱乐部？& b0 m2 n+ I+ ~: B3 X$ u8 T
Why my friend was this person?; _* N V9 o0 r# n. Z: }1 B
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ; x# W0 j+ j! UWhy did I get married?& u) J J% ^! j0 }9 D- y
为什么我要结婚？4 j0 Z5 d6 s ^& \8 }( c7 G
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. " ^/ Q' t/ J: z# ]如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 2 l! l2 k' o4 \0 x6 d/ s1 T& ~I think we need indeed remind us of why.# L6 a9 b8 ?3 m" }3 N0 M
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。3 R6 ?/ ~$ e$ J V* p5 h' [8 @
Or else it's tough to finish what we started./ ~3 L1 m" b1 C1 j1 i$ ^8 ?. X5 c
否则很难完成我们所开始的。" Z1 u8 V3 R; Y, Q
We stop starting. We quit the club.2 ^1 c* b& \8 z( q+ h
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。2 K8 D* r; R+ |8 w$ P, E5 {
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.: D( {& S7 b Z! X7 O
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。6 R/ l* k) v9 z2 G9 f0 y V( F" G
There's nothing wrong with asking why. : z$ R* h h* L4 C0 N3 O问为什么没什么问题。 2 x7 w: R# g3 @6 QIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ( S% ~. U7 q" p; v( v事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 6 Q( Q9 F/ S" @' ]5 u# r) hTalk about it.% @/ ]" f9 N* J# _( g/ Z
谈论下面的话题： ; P; L; J; P3 VIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?) ^* t+ h! E0 \
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ " |% G4 ?% x4 q9 A" m2 X6 YIs it a kind of distant memory?1 J2 ]9 D, |; W9 J) l: P9 B
它是一种遥远的记忆？1 t1 H" F$ K1 w7 b" G( [5 d
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 8 X2 R' O, ^. h: c6 p你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……+ K3 i' g. y: q
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? / h- a5 j) W. p. |你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 4 O; [, O( U5 bDo you write memos? ) u2 ?. m9 t2 q8 ^$ ?你写备忘录吗？! V% k; D7 `/ x5 S4 C
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?2 O3 i6 ^% y* q7 Y
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ + Y7 |/ W; W6 h$ lWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?7 U" K/ j6 g7 F" ]/ B) W& q- B$ G
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？- o* R+ y5 H( T5 ?% W
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? J# Q1 U ]+ u/ c9 w' P, ?你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？