标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something . V# v: @& U! `1 i; b0 M* D" s- R% x2 Z ' R/ w. o; g9 W q) L记住我们为什么做某事 # ?+ L) M6 X$ p1 U! e: hSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.0 F$ e K5 P7 \6 L) N2 c* R0 B
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ( S: G6 P3 B2 W m( p$ T3 Y1 BHave you ever done that?1 v" ~1 l. _: W% X4 E9 [7 c8 u" n
你曾有过这种经历吗？+ e% H* p \% H; b3 O% s5 A
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. * H$ u4 ]2 C- i$ n H我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 - o+ J$ U4 ?% l% x* u% ^I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 3 z9 J# l( _9 ?' p9 M: Z9 K S; ]7 f: Q3 N我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。, R* a& j2 k3 u/ D/ M" ?. r% `
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.8 L( [: J( F" b6 M
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 4 \4 ?4 Q( z& h L4 y OWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place./ G4 P! y4 f: c8 G+ I
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。! X; V9 ^+ i: I5 X7 f6 R* c8 `
That's a memory problem. 2 f- [% }6 a L/ N p1 O: w这是一个记忆问题。 % y3 i& S: B" r# k/ ^. ^I guess that counts too.3 E' n8 W+ G4 U6 j* a# X4 N
我想那很重要。 , _/ Z7 K7 h8 @- v& P/ @ rBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?1 A8 V: h5 y' l' c C. x
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 2 Y! U. ~3 k& A/ YAt one point, there was a reason we do something.6 L4 ~5 n1 a: e
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ( f0 M% e: N+ h) P+ y6 r! EFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason." s( a8 N: M5 M4 h9 v$ C9 c
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。5 j* {& Z0 n' Y
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 1 g! j2 I0 U" M3 c/ ?$ g9 t总是可以问问自己为什么。 1 V. o; ^9 j, b0 @Why did I start to learn a language? : F! |2 ]6 [2 z( z为什么我开始学习一种语言？. e: u; m% A! r
Why did I join this club?8 {" e9 G7 r. N$ z" R
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ' r2 Q& b+ }7 W" d8 ~Why my friend was this person?9 |+ [/ c/ |4 d) h
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ " n; W4 a; n' Z% BWhy did I get married?5 F) W! S4 c; ?/ m P
为什么我要结婚？2 l% v2 B; s8 l. s5 l+ Q/ A' s
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why." P: j1 k" c8 P$ B9 q. V. K
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。$ x7 t! y, f* l' n# Z' j$ N9 e
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 2 Y0 Z$ ]" P, H( O7 t' m我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。- ]5 \& l( Z& K& s( a+ {
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. ( e7 A* B9 H3 A8 @& v否则很难完成我们所开始的。 1 s8 } L) K3 w' q, K6 Z/ uWe stop starting. We quit the club. % y' W7 c6 G! W* y+ |4 H3 n( p我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。! l. o( x& W) S1 z) V1 [
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.% A: e5 r- N0 ~& O8 I/ {! H: b
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 - n1 z8 _3 E% {There's nothing wrong with asking why. 6 y' X6 k, G/ w% _0 c/ o: b& l4 W问为什么没什么问题。 # s/ Y8 S% T+ \1 h1 {In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 8 r1 g; i' y; V' ~. F事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。2 p& A/ Z/ X) D4 n% s' ]$ l. Z
Talk about it. , g8 N5 Y& q0 }: D谈论下面的话题：" k* e+ j* Q1 a2 X, n% w
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 4 m& F: [1 v4 j' V$ @你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？8 ^" c3 r9 m$ b
Is it a kind of distant memory? , V! w6 \" d$ a' `/ }# W7 {: [' u它是一种遥远的记忆？ + A1 t0 c/ b1 bDid you ever forget why you are doing something...+ M0 l( d3 [! G
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……- a: i* O. q% U5 n4 D( y
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 4 w G+ e( l% }% c8 S0 d你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？2 @& r4 P& K) p/ K- @
Do you write memos?+ g8 H: O1 G" M* w. j6 p5 ]
你写备忘录吗？" d3 }7 O+ u/ j4 D) p' |( K
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?& }; m6 B/ b3 T ^1 |. t8 E
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ) H! c0 W9 D' y1 Z" p" S% EWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? * I" K$ W4 J* F+ U还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ % f" i2 O' k- S1 P( I% lWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 7 x4 f! Y% r7 U' Y: @1 Z你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？