标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something4 g. B- i8 W* ]$ @$ h
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记住我们为什么做某事 + y" }: O% I5 C2 b& V4 z) h4 YSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. # f0 K1 |2 r: q! ?9 H! s+ k& P有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。: o; @* O/ F/ R* V2 T/ S
Have you ever done that? 9 I) {. H" ~6 I你曾有过这种经历吗？; `# |2 M( H$ ?! n; m
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.8 @! j% }7 y b; I& Y% {
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。* u% S8 j1 [" z5 I" U9 R
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.3 O7 A0 \- P: l5 U8 T) ^
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 6 O/ R% o1 K( m" ?% g; L( j5 KAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.3 Q {& d# }: l5 l, h+ q7 }
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 - G$ [5 d. ~, tWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. : t @; s1 @- r4 D4 s, J; X哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。4 n$ p V* u* U% F% z' l" @4 o
That's a memory problem. * `3 d% K* a- x" C1 Y这是一个记忆问题。 0 C* t% N1 ^. B% J( z2 HI guess that counts too. ; s, |& U7 Z4 ~+ Q# _2 P# l+ C) f我想那很重要。 5 |' V8 u/ c" ^% ABut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ( ]- R& h$ m9 c* v! _但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？' j3 X2 _8 t H# m3 k
At one point, there was a reason we do something.% p) ?3 m! W0 m. B
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。! a1 t! Q1 w4 z3 w, K8 D' D
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ( ^( q& k9 O! d* M对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 # N! w, k! K/ } C& g: B+ t% {" jIt's always could to ask ourselves why. - l8 g3 P: J) j1 Y3 T$ G9 }5 t5 p总是可以问问自己为什么。2 {+ R" d; A. h) d/ U2 ~9 G
Why did I start to learn a language?7 U# Y9 {# A/ [* B8 i* c; V+ D4 {# O ~
为什么我开始学习一种语言？( v4 p" T' a+ ^8 Z3 d
Why did I join this club?" s: s+ r* l$ ?3 r. A0 S
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ I0 C( p" F9 j: J* h
Why my friend was this person? , V! u P8 E8 d6 u为什么我的朋友是这个人？& B" H& ~3 ^ z3 h( m: U
Why did I get married?5 \ f" M: @$ n9 Q
为什么我要结婚？ ' a, Y+ Y0 w9 D: rIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.0 }" r& X( f7 {2 x& ~' c- ~2 ^
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。6 d4 t3 r4 z" D8 M
I think we need indeed remind us of why.# H. ~3 b! w. u
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。3 N3 r; L6 h( V& i! e
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.3 g3 e# c! I" X
否则很难完成我们所开始的。, P% L% K# Y* b) K) ^. b
We stop starting. We quit the club. " t7 ]8 I9 `6 G5 ]我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ' I+ v% A- s5 b' }8 SWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 7 F8 V6 m z; s* T我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。4 V5 h2 Q, O; P3 k( m
There's nothing wrong with asking why.' c' i `$ S$ o# Z2 ^' T
问为什么没什么问题。 0 R& B0 g# h# Y; o- n6 {( wIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing." j9 }' N/ J- E" j
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。; S* c, w; B! {8 `! Z
Talk about it., f+ K" p; p d% O) `
谈论下面的话题： 1 j: f4 r( y/ h) M# W2 f- AIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? - S* e9 H$ P; t' Y你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ t5 a( p: H6 r, RIs it a kind of distant memory? / r; x& N8 C% _4 b1 v6 a) M它是一种遥远的记忆？ 0 a& ?+ E; I' ]# J2 t# p2 EDid you ever forget why you are doing something...4 X3 D9 r0 A% D
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……, }. u: Q! s+ d2 h9 v
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?, o" W/ l4 \) Z. \
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ * L6 G3 y& ^5 }2 R/ }# WDo you write memos?; J/ y4 P4 @% N" P; Z# F/ E/ e
你写备忘录吗？6 k6 ]/ V [# b( U; n2 y, s
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?9 H# i& r, X( M" y
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？% o& t4 A! ~) k; ]7 v8 ?
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?/ d2 ^" V9 i8 b$ M& e, I7 R
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？5 K2 O4 Z0 c( f
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? / f0 n+ S; s {0 f你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？