标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something6 s! @# c+ b$ b
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记住我们为什么做某事 / S8 R1 Q" }$ M) iSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.8 ~' K' d1 S* K8 U/ _
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。* n3 B: H7 e" z$ d
Have you ever done that? 4 G. R6 s, e$ W7 V) @) i8 n你曾有过这种经历吗？! A9 ]% v+ P# T4 j7 Q
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.2 m8 t% l. y; s: r) q
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。& s' ]# [# n0 @- ?8 c& n' g+ C
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 8 j) |& E N0 y4 C我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 0 q9 a6 A* r) B% {+ I6 OAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.* @5 t! [6 l+ o( {0 C8 X
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 + Y7 F. \8 v( X6 k) U* o, cWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 7 i9 N! \9 m& Q* ?哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。' Z/ T; L7 L5 z2 t1 X6 L4 _
That's a memory problem.( j( \* w$ l8 H* h9 A/ ^! f% z
这是一个记忆问题。 3 _" X2 i2 K. ]9 y9 ]I guess that counts too. 4 U* e" U# n& _5 Z- k8 k/ m1 B我想那很重要。2 r8 J$ {8 ^7 Q/ R5 ?. \7 _( P. }
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?; l" B' |4 f- r, Z
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？$ Q8 I2 n" \0 U+ ]7 s
At one point, there was a reason we do something.5 [5 D* W4 X& ]
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 * K5 y8 j! p4 ^1 I3 \For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 1 b; D- l& f& l# c对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。1 u t; S+ p5 e8 T8 j/ k
It's always could to ask ourselves why. * d' ?1 w9 G8 B* E" g总是可以问问自己为什么。 6 l5 A: A! d K6 H; h) F: X( KWhy did I start to learn a language? ) _4 y8 y- l* P! d0 t为什么我开始学习一种语言？) G1 Q, z# l9 Q+ V
Why did I join this club? 1 R3 v- m3 t9 h( y% P为什么我加入这个俱乐部？# D/ Z1 e: I1 { Y& b$ u+ w0 I' l
Why my friend was this person?) W5 I: _4 _/ K6 H7 a/ W" _# R4 f
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ( L& ~* L* a1 s: E* I1 d) BWhy did I get married? ; E& E3 a' A4 ]3 A. Y: J为什么我要结婚？) P$ j) O0 J/ B( }) y1 u1 L( U$ p
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. ! L# b- o' e. l( k如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 - A: \" D' s2 pI think we need indeed remind us of why.8 f7 p9 _+ n, l/ ]! y
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ( H" j4 g t$ g9 bOr else it's tough to finish what we started. # z2 k1 X0 {, q1 U; Y否则很难完成我们所开始的。% [ Y5 Y* ]+ `: E5 j6 t' u
We stop starting. We quit the club. & o6 c2 Q- B! j, N- u9 l我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 7 Z/ {, t! u- l! S' b8 P; d4 r* y" wWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged." o4 E' v g; x! W3 N5 a
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 & V7 ~( O7 {5 y8 IThere's nothing wrong with asking why. , u8 U2 f& u; j6 w$ T5 c0 \问为什么没什么问题。- D _7 `2 T) k8 n4 i
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing., w C' O* B; ?
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。" N+ S5 C$ y* s6 E' A* ^) _3 j
Talk about it.; g/ f7 a4 O. j8 H* R# `) \, A
谈论下面的话题：: A0 R. Z1 v5 ^$ v
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?: p. D* { B l* G
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 2 q+ l: G" Q( @7 X' P2 G7 |5 eIs it a kind of distant memory?( i5 N; v8 M3 O7 ~# U) J1 g9 F
它是一种遥远的记忆？. Q. j* L. _3 l8 U' }' N
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...; F' `' T# g7 _; ?
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……! X2 o( d* a5 K% B
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?# i/ F. M8 G* H! T, n" m8 k6 J! e
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？! O3 ^8 S% A& r3 L }! g
Do you write memos? . P# ^+ A, u3 d! [7 R6 n! C0 g+ ?你写备忘录吗？ 6 z- w# k6 i" k# L" t$ U. }Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? / N" |% U. v) Z$ u8 J1 N3 N你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ - p4 N4 t6 \9 o& f$ J) f4 s. [What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 1 d( m+ V3 O) L1 ? V还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？# u, z c. i0 d7 v# l
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?/ S4 b. H3 d5 E+ L8 u
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？