标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ( U% l. Z) j" [/ ~0 p0 g6 [, T$ B7 `( W1 g! f! l# q2 R# j
记住我们为什么做某事 . ~1 ?% g% s! X5 J% [: ~" b: q: hSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 3 t% W( A) T" }1 U- q1 B. h有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。) C, L3 @2 \: A& ^0 c3 _. j
Have you ever done that? 7 K. o& J% H. p你曾有过这种经历吗？1 I8 K* g$ F" r: e1 }( @
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. & l6 \8 Y/ k. L% q& v4 S我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。, L; a% h( m; y
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.4 M; E9 q, G5 A$ `3 n3 m
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 % @, }8 v7 Z9 h/ oAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.+ z3 W0 M& J' N2 l
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。1 h8 s; t3 ~ Q+ U7 L- z( ~
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.2 |# @! E) h" N( Z( P
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。, l, g) W- n4 |& E+ l: I# N- d
That's a memory problem.$ x9 A& Q+ K# s- H9 ^; j9 ?( d
这是一个记忆问题。 % @8 j2 j( J. D" l5 RI guess that counts too. 0 R [1 I/ s4 m9 L) j2 x3 `( q我想那很重要。5 a" W4 Z' l3 _. c, H0 n. A2 I0 p
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?) H' S! b! X# H6 o
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ! h, P5 n6 q3 ]7 t& a3 \( ]4 |At one point, there was a reason we do something.& j* y& P0 O* G1 G: w3 _1 S
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。1 O y. _' j5 ~& G0 l! v3 `
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.6 L+ j3 `& H$ @# g: h- t0 s
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。5 ], Q: P# g2 E4 E
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 5 f: N' S/ Z3 L. a+ @0 f. R, c4 Q总是可以问问自己为什么。5 G, K7 U( k1 I7 C( x. ~
Why did I start to learn a language? ' O g# Q1 g- Z4 R( U为什么我开始学习一种语言？7 b4 ]. ^" J% \7 n& t
Why did I join this club?7 t5 y1 s& y3 U% v! b
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ , m9 n0 n. k5 _! R2 i3 n1 z, q1 s* ]Why my friend was this person? 4 w; i( g$ ^7 g7 m$ ]+ }" X2 q% L为什么我的朋友是这个人？0 T+ E- w- ?! x6 ^: U h
Why did I get married? 2 o3 U" ^3 }1 B* A为什么我要结婚？ ! o7 K4 \7 P! E; ]* U G1 zIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. / t" r9 }* g5 T如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 8 J4 U5 x& D; v% R. x; ?0 MI think we need indeed remind us of why. G% Q/ R5 @9 Q: } Y$ w$ C; v
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。7 b- s- ?- F0 a ^" Z. w! z& z
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.; Y! k, \& J$ O3 k F% `- }
否则很难完成我们所开始的。1 t; C3 e% Z- T1 C7 ?9 l, h" }* B
We stop starting. We quit the club. + ^+ U- b( A! V我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。6 E( K+ d" D- p* I
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged." \' ~$ O# N9 U8 S. K6 O* i
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。8 }1 d! D7 G/ S; i
There's nothing wrong with asking why.7 S4 G; i& q+ {) l1 V4 Q* C# Q+ a& t; E
问为什么没什么问题。& w) L/ }3 U1 e0 d* n
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ( K( A- {4 x4 e Y G7 x4 F事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 4 P9 N; L) D1 T5 o/ PTalk about it." W3 h& ^$ M% d
谈论下面的话题：7 e. s. y' |$ ?5 H D
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 5 N1 K% X A' v$ n Z. @/ ]/ [你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 9 A+ h; v8 w5 q, t6 a' R* v& IIs it a kind of distant memory?) J: o- o! z6 E% x7 s$ Y7 a2 M6 d
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 6 X8 U$ l* M: i" c6 c3 ?Did you ever forget why you are doing something... & u# W2 @) S+ l$ q" W" Z你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……! `1 s3 N5 k" s
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ; j: r( z i2 j7 [8 w* Z1 [) G你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 1 |' q+ b" y7 R" b3 H( ^* KDo you write memos? + R) u+ e- N: G# D" E. L" e你写备忘录吗？& d. A9 _ ?( J X6 Y2 Z0 {
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?0 w, G, d: ]8 t9 _. S- J
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？4 V; d- X) `' {* J$ [
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? & [1 S. G6 x7 E还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？3 H! O# V6 L8 D7 P/ G; E" F- K/ C$ o
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?+ S4 f0 ]! d7 X3 w0 y2 G. v0 I
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？