标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something$ l* J/ Q1 ~/ a" I/ X
0 }8 U' @& s7 x/ I+ N+ h记住我们为什么做某事 : l( F. a* G4 Y. [Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 0 ?" R6 M! ]+ G0 x有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。; w9 @" C. M/ W
Have you ever done that? `2 X7 W" i6 n7 d3 u v! r6 ~
你曾有过这种经历吗？% Y; d* L0 O: U" w4 j2 x
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 6 R) ?: E9 l! m2 X7 u我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。3 J8 U, D! F4 ^
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. $ ^4 ~2 y, k: \+ b我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 8 T* f, ^2 d+ T+ b; W% DAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 3 i' O9 [- k9 v- C! j/ T: C然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。& z- N2 p" ^* b) }- I
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 2 }' R% T7 t: `1 n哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。2 O( Y, F, _/ n0 }
That's a memory problem.; M( v2 N+ q: n- k' u5 z
这是一个记忆问题。; B M9 D, [# {6 |$ g. M! N
I guess that counts too.0 _- p! I2 U# ], J
我想那很重要。6 m# w0 q: v: p u4 d
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?6 b7 v9 K. Z5 T9 h- K5 \
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？; u3 F( o: u( Y& C% P1 A3 |9 L* M
At one point, there was a reason we do something. . j# p D9 p7 x6 B: a& Q: _在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 8 m& R8 n. n0 L- q" Q! E/ cFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.8 O t8 _ y& J0 O1 ?$ P' ?
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。% |5 X( A9 v* l8 j( y
It's always could to ask ourselves why." {9 V) r7 \; X9 M! [/ M
总是可以问问自己为什么。; [* n6 z$ B/ p8 ` }1 y* S! f
Why did I start to learn a language?/ i- f" t* w6 k- S; U7 J
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ & b1 K* B0 l1 S" t& a6 u! }Why did I join this club? $ l7 V4 w' W; m: r. Y' g. j为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 4 o, A2 |. U" e: @+ ZWhy my friend was this person? ! H/ y2 n+ B! e- k5 L8 ~' f为什么我的朋友是这个人？0 n) z1 P; x6 X7 x$ m
Why did I get married?& o4 B5 y% n7 A- _" H- M/ ^
为什么我要结婚？ ( P, y z1 O& e+ ^+ V& CIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.' R f( u; s% S8 A4 h4 A
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 % |2 |7 I2 g$ b7 e7 gI think we need indeed remind us of why./ w$ N5 A2 ~) O
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 * z' v n/ z2 O- o x9 ~Or else it's tough to finish what we started. : _# n) ]9 J& n: y5 M8 Z否则很难完成我们所开始的。 8 J- k3 m; o0 u3 g% u: XWe stop starting. We quit the club.8 M" m2 z4 i$ k! b5 \- m$ \' ^# F% z
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。7 C1 S6 i7 T+ [0 u$ x
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 3 m# y# V7 @' i, X我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。2 r2 R$ d& P1 \# N
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 1 p# `7 g/ C% Y) E: h4 N问为什么没什么问题。 + r- k" u6 A# W7 z+ S+ JIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. * F! z) b7 X" ? e, h, S事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。, z1 P) \7 k. k0 W- ?
Talk about it.9 M6 s0 s3 \# W, w/ q: X
谈论下面的话题：3 G/ D, Q' @! F' G
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? + c/ I4 e$ V& R你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ $ w" m# F$ M" X* q, e! E" y! SIs it a kind of distant memory?1 H/ W- G# \6 o5 r Q; h
它是一种遥远的记忆？2 \# a- w6 q& Z0 t6 D' R
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 7 F ^6 U- E! ^: _5 l* M你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……7 B0 x4 T' R, u2 ]: e% W' H
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 0 D: p. x$ N9 \7 K4 b3 j你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ # _1 n% ~$ U3 o& F4 ZDo you write memos? ! R- F2 `' t a) i你写备忘录吗？ 2 f/ N7 }( \( @$ O1 _: R6 d! p5 oDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 7 Y6 J7 z" E* _2 f' f6 L; i) ~0 M) E你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？$ _0 m0 ^. x' f
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ( J1 E5 Q% [# ~! M( @8 b3 e6 X还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？/ o/ g' f7 o( p3 ?* A, ]( q6 T' N
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ' Q: y: m7 z. f9 ~; q你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？