标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something9 n" g% H% K8 n- H
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记住我们为什么做某事 & X$ e4 T/ m* `4 s# l7 X& ~- CSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.- |2 f! R! a2 W* V8 k$ i) E( K
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。* P/ Z8 ~5 e! B, F9 Q
Have you ever done that?: ?9 n E( W& {, Y
你曾有过这种经历吗？& @2 k; i! R. B/ C0 q# E8 j" b
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.7 }: | e) p; u# i8 W7 G' `: J
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 c# T3 z8 m4 _! y
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.# x0 ~- [5 G3 v8 I
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。$ _) f' T a0 t7 n) a' R
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ) r" V2 V$ W- y; j @然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 + m! {/ A' S5 [( k, I- V) Y O5 VWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 9 w2 q! q9 p% U7 T/ h哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。9 I2 [" E+ R; q
That's a memory problem. . M7 X# o8 T: G2 z5 M2 ]6 l4 \这是一个记忆问题。% A! j1 J; J$ R8 z
I guess that counts too. : J+ U2 N1 Z) y. a+ e @4 `) a我想那很重要。 , N' c+ R% b" T7 q- H3 v, UBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ! l. ~1 q- \( E( m% ~3 z. q" G但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？5 Y) U% Y* o j* ^6 q, J
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 9 e% N5 ^% u& z& F7 x在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。* h% H& P' o" E1 X) T8 m) b
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. : W9 y3 d% K" z! l; F0 G对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。' P* y8 q/ T; ~& q4 V/ m: @
It's always could to ask ourselves why.: o/ d: V' R8 H! o; H7 ^: K* o
总是可以问问自己为什么。 8 i" g3 ~: a" q& YWhy did I start to learn a language?. c1 a+ V) U- L- p( y, V" B
为什么我开始学习一种语言？1 |) D2 x& N* N) a! |: T( ^
Why did I join this club? " Z( p$ m: H8 ~: I为什么我加入这个俱乐部？: N ^ P* y4 e1 T2 ^1 u3 w0 [# E a
Why my friend was this person? ' [; ?; x, e, j; @, K: V为什么我的朋友是这个人？3 S! w7 Z/ p' B
Why did I get married? 8 q4 ?2 y% C" X: a2 n! L为什么我要结婚？. x3 I( o- b6 {3 s4 c7 W
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.9 q! l4 y1 v4 S3 D& y
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 8 c8 I9 V3 Q; ~& v9 II think we need indeed remind us of why. % H, N# d8 k) l' B# q5 V我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 + I+ I1 }8 i, O4 u+ `1 ~* VOr else it's tough to finish what we started.3 R* W0 I' I: ]7 h' e$ N
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 4 i+ R' S6 _& T* `- }3 KWe stop starting. We quit the club.3 A% _& v" h' w) X0 B
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。5 K( g- Q# U3 H
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.; J, E# w# s- b, L0 d
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。. N8 B2 ^) H: o, Q s
There's nothing wrong with asking why.( Z2 E0 R. v9 k; _% |% @# y
问为什么没什么问题。$ u) Z5 T( i" o2 v t$ H9 e) z
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ; i* l- I, T( W1 h& d% x事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。7 @% O# c) H9 u3 g% P1 T: ^
Talk about it.( v0 `0 `3 S" G- n+ p
谈论下面的话题：% m$ d% M( |8 f- \, F( V
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?; H6 m% }. F! ^& \
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ / B! c$ T1 A9 o g3 t4 w1 wIs it a kind of distant memory?$ P; H% d& b% r+ V$ y
它是一种遥远的记忆？ # V/ F! t: N1 d% Q& i* BDid you ever forget why you are doing something..., C* i7 `/ Q/ D$ [8 U; B8 t
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ) G h/ e8 V) [8 i" C3 y* cHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 9 d; l8 |/ U: x' ]" r6 ~7 X; V# f你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ o: W$ M9 @& p! I6 P
Do you write memos? 4 t# M, p6 o- W: ]# K$ |你写备忘录吗？! p7 {1 Z/ x, B; G! ~
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ' r3 v- B' ?* Q6 o你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？1 Q9 K% C& D$ F3 V9 w8 l9 a5 p) B
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?) F. ?' n/ k8 Q6 N% ]
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ " E/ E. j5 ^) [! uWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ! x( J2 ?2 q% ^. y' l你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？