标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something" k; [6 G- d o! p8 {+ Y
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记住我们为什么做某事* S3 }' o7 J& r/ R0 `/ f9 d
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. + }+ h, D9 Y% X有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。' @. M& w% g. Y: q
Have you ever done that?) ] z2 A; u6 G3 ?8 v" p. ^9 T9 v
你曾有过这种经历吗？$ l; M' K( y' I5 V. a
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ! `7 e5 A0 ~+ h5 M我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 4 M: w8 i, x; J! A2 {7 l8 yI have called someone because I want to tell them something. + c' a* C" T# z% ~5 ?我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 4 j% a0 {) H F. o7 R E8 ~# SAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 0 u4 p, [0 l+ A7 b+ p: C然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 7 z+ ?5 p1 p# Y0 xWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ! e9 s1 s' K" }4 `3 f: S哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ! _8 t4 X6 D0 l/ o/ dThat's a memory problem. ! E( B6 {2 {, y6 _+ ~这是一个记忆问题。 $ ]/ j1 S9 x x; X) R5 lI guess that counts too. 6 x1 s2 C5 I! h5 e我想那很重要。 2 \1 @8 z7 f0 x( h6 nBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? " |3 h& ]* w, D但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ; c& r y2 g6 S2 e+ q0 LAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 2 {+ L5 R. p! @! W; j; c' j/ U: J在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 # e- F; c2 G% Y/ ]0 T: U' CFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 4 {* \& S2 m* Z, b对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 5 i# h& z1 T, U6 a; k2 mIt's always could to ask ourselves why.7 O3 L$ \9 E: v& {: ]( y* t V% L( I" j# F
总是可以问问自己为什么。 4 X, W* Q! a% |1 Y3 X" `Why did I start to learn a language? " H1 w+ D) g0 c9 U为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ! Z* _1 j. r. {& eWhy did I join this club? $ L/ Y8 O& w# q! Z) b; B为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ - W; u1 J: i" l \8 PWhy my friend was this person?) ]) B: Y0 H: D$ H% |, _
为什么我的朋友是这个人？. j. Z: b. e% x# h" E
Why did I get married? . Y) N, m. a; c6 @4 t2 }/ L为什么我要结婚？ $ ~6 {9 X8 K5 V9 l1 Z4 |! ]If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. y$ G# z! w2 I0 H9 n" \4 j/ E
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。* n: E( b% Q0 N/ y
I think we need indeed remind us of why.7 j( t k6 h' h% E4 G) q
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 5 o$ g1 G9 h- t ~$ G# ~Or else it's tough to finish what we started.4 o1 k# O& n6 ]4 o, N" u# m
否则很难完成我们所开始的。6 ]( l: a$ j Y3 i, |4 m W
We stop starting. We quit the club. ; Z. o$ Q1 `+ q; Z9 O, ~6 n我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 - X0 C& G) |) e4 EWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. & l) {' a( N- A* Y9 ^7 c) r我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 : d( R3 |0 g% s% `1 RThere's nothing wrong with asking why.8 N1 q" f. f- ?6 g4 a
问为什么没什么问题。 7 k6 H6 t1 ^, i5 z7 |( P% a vIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.# m, h4 P* v; _ R
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。, A7 T3 x4 k) O: P2 l8 g. i: m
Talk about it.: N7 @- k _$ k n8 E
谈论下面的话题： % h; A$ a! B6 d4 RIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?( I' z( Y# y& R, H9 y- s
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？& `7 J# x' y7 F( W' _
Is it a kind of distant memory? 6 t; A& S# F! V4 a# e, o它是一种遥远的记忆？ 2 K U9 I# M$ E5 n% pDid you ever forget why you are doing something... 4 A1 W2 S9 f9 c8 e$ P4 @5 Q你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……5 t% c6 S+ q& g. ^1 O
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?( s( H4 A" `) Y$ G( [4 z* j
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？8 S( V* c& B4 p7 L2 W5 I
Do you write memos?8 P- K" [" `' ?0 K8 }
你写备忘录吗？ * h4 e* `: d" N) ~( EDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? " e0 l+ e" Y4 r9 R你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？6 V8 E0 o; L9 y8 D0 j2 i$ Y
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?0 {6 C; Q2 b! |; V7 x
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？: x8 w% w/ b8 C4 m3 M" U
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?: A$ B+ u- |4 j* ^/ s
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？