标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something4 {. y2 M! l/ @+ u( R
& A6 I0 z# z: B b0 a记住我们为什么做某事& [7 t+ N7 q9 d- }4 s( W+ e; l
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 0 {" k; u4 r) r$ l/ q有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 D; B9 _0 I" F/ E v8 w
Have you ever done that?& c3 T% i8 i3 H7 F: U
你曾有过这种经历吗？ . J7 d. x/ {8 B( ~" V" hI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. " y3 U' y! ?# j1 `& v我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ' o) B+ G; L% z+ qI have called someone because I want to tell them something.' J( }$ D& N, P# h/ L8 d
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。% `' a3 [- a9 l) A; h; X" d
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.3 w- G' o" n7 M d9 v v
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。( p6 n% U( c E# y) g9 |
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. J' W, v( h- J1 Y* L3 G
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ) o* {/ Y' S- N) tThat's a memory problem.- I+ e4 R. Q' H/ }. \9 R
这是一个记忆问题。 / T+ y* t: ^+ ~5 k& s" xI guess that counts too. * ^, V4 M( X/ {; I我想那很重要。 2 E ]7 ?% q0 s6 z/ W5 pBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ) A1 B V4 U% [) h; B但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？+ j7 A" g5 Z; @
At one point, there was a reason we do something.$ p- B: N$ D; ~/ e O- I$ w
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。% L5 l3 L! G' U$ M
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 5 }; l* T- B4 L! A2 H+ \+ r对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 # A2 a' W% |4 w- K5 J( ]It's always could to ask ourselves why.$ T* T( a5 I8 m$ T; O4 v# Y/ I
总是可以问问自己为什么。5 f; q0 ~+ K" Z+ _1 I! j/ }
Why did I start to learn a language? 6 ~$ x8 H6 }" L5 V f为什么我开始学习一种语言？; r1 R+ [* f* w, j
Why did I join this club?% V$ ]+ V/ {; t1 w* u* ~
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？; h+ n5 Y* ~6 @' ~/ \
Why my friend was this person? * J- N C: D. m7 H+ N为什么我的朋友是这个人？3 O+ w% f9 [: }# l6 Y- s0 Q
Why did I get married?* h Q' K* v0 ~* u$ M
为什么我要结婚？ # f$ M, ~+ M; \: B& s% {1 Y/ WIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why., W/ Y0 |# d+ n! G6 t; n5 F
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 + w: Q; R4 B& C, m5 pI think we need indeed remind us of why.9 M" X, d) y2 J- f" v, L( m
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。6 D9 m5 i) b' ^ W/ G
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.3 s1 O& D) D* B1 J0 t% K
否则很难完成我们所开始的。! `+ F4 L6 z# Z7 a \+ n# ]( [
We stop starting. We quit the club.6 p1 V. x: \9 s. q& d+ z- g# D
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。# o! t+ B: H% y
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.# t2 ?( P0 K8 T9 R' L
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 - P( M9 a; E1 n. BThere's nothing wrong with asking why. T1 S: h# ]% S( e
问为什么没什么问题。 $ o% y1 J Q8 P4 yIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ) Z( f l& a$ m事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。' d1 J9 |) U) L- g4 M4 ]
Talk about it. $ J+ d' ]- j) A; g谈论下面的话题： 6 Q- D/ W9 d$ {: z. h# R# cIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?" T3 Q- s7 v/ s8 Q* B5 e6 k7 C
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？& A- S8 v- ~$ Q3 i. k( G$ L
Is it a kind of distant memory? C+ |5 o. ^ D& C! M9 Z; H- @它是一种遥远的记忆？ 9 K" K0 ]5 t2 H. z" qDid you ever forget why you are doing something.../ h% |4 C; v9 Z- N' p
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ! U5 Z2 g3 v/ Z0 z: ^ c7 aHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 8 W; T4 x( Y( ?6 k4 M4 C) {/ A( ?你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？. K' d |" n1 a& m7 p: l
Do you write memos? 1 G3 v. J, V7 n你写备忘录吗？ 5 N4 G' q# \" I n8 j oDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?1 |3 M5 q6 n/ m& y; d
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？& A7 g, l1 u+ k+ e
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?& s3 G. b; `9 [4 R: @5 I
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ , D, n: E3 P% {7 l& y# @- N5 x9 \What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? , J# Q2 R& @9 X你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？