标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something' Z& n: N" S9 i
! u# V3 s2 p9 j1 r1 `7 z记住我们为什么做某事" H$ [0 ^& q, K3 R, y
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.. ]; `0 u1 l: v% U6 q1 a
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 6 }, O2 S' w8 l; ^. p0 IHave you ever done that? % m' T* q( g6 K( Q3 W$ z0 w% s+ |5 \你曾有过这种经历吗？ $ e; R+ l8 F* C7 tI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. p% n* a7 e/ K6 ~9 m' ]6 K
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。2 T* X7 w6 a" [$ W3 C" r
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 9 f1 e# V+ p5 m* v$ h我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。/ K, R, K$ }9 t- y# S+ n9 d3 S
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. + d1 r1 \8 `+ e然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 . K) L6 ^5 u0 V5 | [Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.( G2 N3 S& ?8 j1 w0 H
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。# x1 t" f! x) {1 ~# s
That's a memory problem. / p ?2 W# L- }: ?; M% b% x- q这是一个记忆问题。& m! y1 L9 K5 |4 F& q
I guess that counts too.1 l+ i% V4 K! V+ \; `$ @
我想那很重要。 + N1 w9 R7 {9 U# r6 ABut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?# B4 d: o1 |% v- `
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？9 h( ^2 L( g, Q& g3 E
At one point, there was a reason we do something.( M" H$ {, g0 k2 g5 ]1 G2 R
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。7 m" ?# \8 u2 u0 [7 d
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.0 `4 }; b7 Q5 c; j# h
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 + C7 h( n5 p/ Q5 W" J$ rIt's always could to ask ourselves why./ u9 ]7 L4 U6 V0 K( i! b( A
总是可以问问自己为什么。% e% t* u. m5 f: g
Why did I start to learn a language? 9 B! z5 g; H1 e7 @1 _为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 9 B" Y. _( l1 t- T- A" @. C( FWhy did I join this club? 0 l% ~5 _& f2 ]9 G为什么我加入这个俱乐部？) C" k& T+ p. ]) K
Why my friend was this person? 7 T: Z5 u& H' t! D$ G2 N为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 1 Y% U* U% \# h- n3 gWhy did I get married? : _2 @- q9 u. R$ r9 [4 n5 {为什么我要结婚？: X( B6 n1 z( b/ J3 Q
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. $ k* s8 x6 z' ~1 q9 \# P如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 & f$ @2 W" @7 n2 c0 Q5 rI think we need indeed remind us of why. ( | H6 X3 \* n9 g& H& c. U6 r8 t我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。& P" q/ ~: W; J$ a/ e% S0 i
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.6 j0 @, s3 c' W7 C+ J
否则很难完成我们所开始的。, F* ~$ ` `: F% d, p% O% F9 e
We stop starting. We quit the club.6 J( E) w: c. \$ I5 c
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 6 Z7 a1 Q% G8 {% K& dWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. # b' G0 N; ~# Q( Z我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。% I; K' |5 ~3 W& |5 D; c: `6 A( r. `0 g
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ' n' t0 k/ R, w1 r# e5 |问为什么没什么问题。8 I; Z$ I: |$ `! ^$ z) g5 q
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.; I6 r# A3 [& C0 P$ x4 {+ K% \5 p
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。( r- W7 N8 u9 B# z: M
Talk about it. % b6 n: Z9 R6 e5 z$ r0 v. ^/ l谈论下面的话题： - I8 Y! p. h4 ZIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?4 M9 ?& |) j4 R, i9 I% r$ a
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 6 b* J7 j7 @$ {! g, tIs it a kind of distant memory? ! j! g" i. m5 `) \$ |4 r- ~它是一种遥远的记忆？9 ?3 ^( L* I. p! E2 ]# y* O
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 0 l" _2 J7 E% w. l9 z你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……. @1 {4 p2 ?! d; P' P1 W3 y
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ; B3 t9 q3 e( N+ F- d4 V! k4 z你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 8 M! t8 X. W% qDo you write memos? 3 _# g D- R0 \3 [% C. Z2 d你写备忘录吗？7 A- _- ^3 L; E
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?0 W$ `1 l3 v/ q _6 G
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 8 K' s8 g7 E' q: I% f8 }/ g1 fWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?* L- w, @$ L* J7 [3 H/ U1 r+ b2 y
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？3 p7 O0 x- q% D
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? + U+ l! `' [; T! O3 s你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？