标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ! _4 K N5 L7 l3 A8 | K" O! M2 D5 s) P5 a: w- c
记住我们为什么做某事 2 }& a5 n) |: X+ g$ K6 H$ v9 c! sSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.' F. J9 J. g+ T; i: w9 S# a" o9 p: g0 x
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 2 T8 `) U% z; O9 x, u5 U n6 Q4 A( LHave you ever done that? 6 {+ @) O/ n% R0 S你曾有过这种经历吗？ 4 X5 ~! h8 E/ H: VI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 8 P8 h3 q! t3 x B$ U( a8 u我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。& l/ C" R' k. K6 I8 ?1 W
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.; d5 }3 z% ^; W' o% V c
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。0 T2 O0 J2 G* t/ B( K+ G
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.) X1 h; {9 h8 R, g) g h% P
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 7 G) V0 X* f0 m3 V. o3 f# RWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. {% K& R! r, p! A# k7 Z. p哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 & y$ ]& D) u3 d, wThat's a memory problem.: n! @( B6 h! w* m+ b3 E" h8 f
这是一个记忆问题。 / `: H) n% l4 ^) J& v9 D5 `I guess that counts too.& a8 b2 \. i' s6 F- ^
我想那很重要。 4 e+ J$ E& G }" [- k/ b2 vBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?. W# D8 h* W8 d, m( \8 `: q
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？+ J( T4 j( x$ y6 ]8 h/ U& `
At one point, there was a reason we do something.( N3 ~6 U3 g2 J0 ]
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。8 w! V% k8 C. b; L5 R2 |
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. - Z) [9 i! V a对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 & W8 q1 R l; bIt's always could to ask ourselves why., c3 U, r g8 m6 m, C# V
总是可以问问自己为什么。 ) R: r" n& _$ V: pWhy did I start to learn a language? 4 h: c \, q% F& w/ h; _+ f为什么我开始学习一种语言？3 Z+ q3 p3 B% ~1 b) G: H
Why did I join this club?' P7 [: G, f- {! M
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ; E9 v5 K( j% a$ m" H7 YWhy my friend was this person? , p- h0 q5 q/ c" _# _( ^9 I0 W8 f. }9 o为什么我的朋友是这个人？ e4 @( r1 F0 _: i1 _* l
Why did I get married?4 l1 O c' I. d3 H( \+ l
为什么我要结婚？ 1 [; e8 N. i/ D- i3 e S$ JIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.$ Z6 A1 m3 H" M7 X! h
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。% A: g' s0 [- v) n# E K9 d( p
I think we need indeed remind us of why.. R6 }" A# N7 l. U. E
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 4 D) a8 t8 k, A& b7 GOr else it's tough to finish what we started. / E" q$ w+ G2 E& d8 ~# s否则很难完成我们所开始的。- P: I% @! z) w) A
We stop starting. We quit the club. ) f6 i" o+ p- \ A( K3 o我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。, l2 I8 u- _. K. H7 c
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.; Z3 S8 d/ C# t1 I9 y9 A# B: O+ E
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 $ [0 Y3 |, T- Y: |0 {! |& C% M7 \There's nothing wrong with asking why.3 T. [1 V. G+ n6 e. Q3 e$ r
问为什么没什么问题。 5 @ ^; j4 M0 B+ T6 f1 k. L, R; VIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. & _( q. p+ ]* Z3 S, U- ~事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。7 Z) u }- ]; x7 ^
Talk about it. 8 r9 h# a, X# j0 Z% C' J+ D谈论下面的话题：1 G( L- o; c5 k9 M* V- x; s
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 7 K3 S! V8 M- s% r/ u" ~3 @9 q你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？0 ~% m) O, d: R r
Is it a kind of distant memory? 6 d, F4 M" X2 [% M它是一种遥远的记忆？ - B) S/ f% V; M/ N5 k6 T5 BDid you ever forget why you are doing something...& e: X2 |4 l, A/ S9 h
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……+ t g- ?" r' I& F& B: J4 b
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?& n9 |, U: D: m4 z' [0 l
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 9 i1 W$ E, C7 P0 pDo you write memos?' D9 H1 ?8 z$ ~0 H8 `
你写备忘录吗？ q6 Q, @5 u/ D0 Z# L: O1 B
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ) O, f E; G7 l* [" f你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？$ {- i7 `; \% B7 i+ U4 H
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?! z+ k5 K: v& O' W& q6 x9 Z- [% O
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？* b3 [6 ?/ j4 K2 l- r
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?. o# F8 L( A1 ?( C) x
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？