标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something% `+ p- Q4 \; E
" @3 Q: b6 g0 ~* n4 ~! e+ Z! V记住我们为什么做某事 + z+ u* a; o$ O; `Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. + ^. V( c" f" [, c有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 $ L: z4 ]+ q9 n6 z0 S( kHave you ever done that? ! B' B. J! p1 T& `6 E你曾有过这种经历吗？6 m1 H/ a% k" F# i/ g
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.+ v2 x$ P+ ?8 ]
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。" f$ J, L% G7 M! B9 o; s5 E
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. " R& ?4 C7 W% U, ]我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。( }; i( m! \, Y3 U" j
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. , Y# L+ v. m; N( G/ z- T3 ?然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。9 j: \7 j4 q/ y7 [0 p* W+ p
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 4 j9 m+ K& t3 H- L哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 1 |7 A0 ^2 e J2 b( pThat's a memory problem.3 ?. _ f4 C5 }' q( e3 |$ v# e$ K
这是一个记忆问题。 1 r6 t* o" i1 f- t' N; l z9 oI guess that counts too. 6 B5 R1 M/ d" p3 n, g2 I我想那很重要。 / c- d" ?/ U+ h3 e" z7 \, XBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?! n/ k! n6 H r5 Z& N
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？+ u5 x( Q& `. c+ f6 n* _/ j
At one point, there was a reason we do something. $ ]. c9 o! U/ n# {在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。% l% [1 T" I0 u! `( t
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. : {1 \- C! r5 b( t: w( U! f) s E对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ; z& b5 X: {9 s1 D! l$ A% o2 d2 |It's always could to ask ourselves why.! `, i- Q7 \( }1 ~
总是可以问问自己为什么。) G: J) S' w. W& x) f
Why did I start to learn a language?* ]! A% q3 Z* L2 H( o$ L
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 0 w" l$ D: _# L9 b+ B- ~# XWhy did I join this club? * f; B" D, o( m2 `1 D9 S9 o为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ " l8 [9 h8 A% l9 @. r! tWhy my friend was this person? 3 f4 G0 H" G/ x为什么我的朋友是这个人？' U- U; l0 G2 _+ N
Why did I get married?" n' F+ N v8 ^) ^8 @- S
为什么我要结婚？9 d1 w. V# T& j" H' V" p
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.' x- \) o( h! D' y
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。8 t0 V) H, |" R
I think we need indeed remind us of why.) y/ |3 b' d# @6 i# B0 E
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。) W+ z3 ^1 ?. | R9 b U. H* g2 _8 N) t
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. - }1 k8 k. P, Z# U* i否则很难完成我们所开始的。8 I/ }$ Q S g
We stop starting. We quit the club. 2 S% _, u' C3 u; H我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。; ^* c( \: s+ S, ]5 E9 w
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.; z2 G7 U# C& e/ g& f1 l" M2 `$ u4 b
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。% V5 B5 K/ K" w. z0 Q; _
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ! ^4 Z" l2 b3 z% F+ J8 `& r问为什么没什么问题。7 K, j4 I: t! z2 b
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing./ y5 Z' R4 g, K* L
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 & Q1 }+ W( B$ H( i3 [, p7 U) sTalk about it. 9 q% V2 c: m+ _) A+ E谈论下面的话题： ' a+ ?: E0 m' j6 S7 O3 _8 nIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?, d& }" v; K' F1 p2 ?3 z1 t
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？/ E9 x* e+ h, n2 H `6 ]; Z
Is it a kind of distant memory?, J u1 u7 f& `+ E- r
它是一种遥远的记忆？ q' l+ i9 Q8 h+ W k2 f3 r. k6 _
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 6 V* f. D' Z$ S* R; |你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 6 u2 Z# k f2 T% X5 X" m4 t6 F L/ ^How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ) p E3 ^/ U4 P& n9 X, ]% `4 t你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 5 G" q, d1 V R6 t' JDo you write memos? 3 z) Z/ j4 ~. J X/ O6 ^- n你写备忘录吗？ + x' O% i) L2 G( d4 o2 \% `Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?0 S3 r ?2 |7 W! V8 T8 ]7 K$ j( W
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ , x* ]2 g8 Z3 Y; D6 V4 IWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? - ~5 }" I9 r3 _7 b Y还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 5 T" }+ z) R, {* j. b7 mWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?& Z: |, G; s: W+ @9 Q( b
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？