标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something4 u- g- Z1 { d8 Q) ]
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记住我们为什么做某事 ! |5 q9 @% y2 z5 } U1 W0 OSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. [9 n' p, K' ~% R, M% k! [
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。( e# }0 z* z5 h' N" c# a
Have you ever done that?' R# u2 f( q* g* s+ q
你曾有过这种经历吗？0 Q4 y9 b- s" K( r5 i
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 4 \4 L( O3 f* S( T/ m% g1 V) z我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 3 |% p; G2 F* i* ]/ _I have called someone because I want to tell them something.; \0 ]7 X1 b3 |- L O9 \
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。4 Z* H% P5 t- O2 x+ d2 _
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.% d/ d+ k0 T5 Z, f4 l1 t+ i
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 - m! ^. `4 U! E5 rWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 1 `. p$ l, O, E/ z5 X0 d% y哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 $ l7 A* ]. P# gThat's a memory problem. . _' E( W* S7 j# _- H5 \这是一个记忆问题。 6 S( c; M6 F: oI guess that counts too. p3 `& f( @" }
我想那很重要。 ~- \7 b6 |4 L( ?) K) o0 |
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? P$ J9 y/ [* C" y0 O
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 0 o' n; b; _( d" RAt one point, there was a reason we do something.. w: C* d* r; e: Z; {1 v- v
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。& K0 I. k9 y2 g) Q2 c) ^
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.% ?6 [8 Y6 C' u6 ^3 S R
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。, x0 J4 G# {' K, e9 p4 j( ?0 N4 k6 Y
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 6 [! H/ O0 B) N总是可以问问自己为什么。( O4 D6 e1 U& R7 P$ x5 n; A
Why did I start to learn a language? # f1 V) }9 w* I z8 U$ J为什么我开始学习一种语言？- }6 ]6 O+ w# b3 G g, L2 V
Why did I join this club?3 [9 e6 Z/ E# U# j/ ]0 y8 _3 P0 A4 c! J
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 6 m/ B* j* F* Z8 E! D) rWhy my friend was this person?% N: n" `. g# \; Y9 O/ m
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ " s2 V5 }/ y5 G# C8 QWhy did I get married?% K4 v- s) b* K. q. l! y
为什么我要结婚？2 i i4 ] p; W# ?7 l! e: w; C
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.. d. _% P c9 t4 u5 V
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。2 l/ N, X; \+ l( K' ]
I think we need indeed remind us of why. ]- T0 X1 x a) A
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 $ R/ e; Q1 n# U6 |" H) ~Or else it's tough to finish what we started. & ~% L: y9 A! m! L否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ( h3 [3 B) Z- E3 n0 e+ R" J Q' Z4 EWe stop starting. We quit the club.- x6 ], Y6 a! t! x* D+ |9 [( k) L' O
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 3 |5 [" A, b& y% ]: p7 RWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. # e# Z. y& p' N7 h8 Y% G3 N我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。7 ]: `7 h( F7 D; P C O9 t# s
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ! K; a7 L/ ]. }9 h问为什么没什么问题。* X7 J) {+ w: c8 ~ n3 x
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 9 w7 I" | _" a1 A( `事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 ( r. z9 z9 H" x& U6 FTalk about it.- }- M; f; w b4 S% l& y6 m
谈论下面的话题：" e" L+ M8 Y6 f
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ) `! q! V5 T. G3 y$ X0 n你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ' `0 a% }+ \( C$ F$ ?6 \: HIs it a kind of distant memory? $ Y5 `5 b; j. N) Z# x1 X它是一种遥远的记忆？: q( F0 e+ L( Q0 i
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... $ a: R% g- R' b你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… , C0 S' {6 T/ e0 O( `; GHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?% {# x" v2 P& g5 `3 r5 e
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？1 e' T5 M! Q+ |! u
Do you write memos? & \0 l7 ]$ O- M/ v你写备忘录吗？) z1 H1 f5 x( g) I
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? I6 I( C! h3 h7 z2 R你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ % @* U& B1 r2 P: eWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 9 {1 o1 | [5 i) t* @* F6 \& e8 A还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ / A. d+ b& j W% b# ZWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?7 j+ I) M6 E4 E8 X+ _: W! W
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？