标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something1 h: i `4 u% _ k
4 u, Y7 c; I' ^- {记住我们为什么做某事 / q0 T( h7 T8 s! Y/ R7 e2 KSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 3 \. F" e$ X% {有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 1 i" t& L* [! D# PHave you ever done that? `% e) N! Y5 k/ E- |" J, G
你曾有过这种经历吗？ ' \; w/ S9 f) M' Q7 C9 I- Q% \( AI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. : A- y- j6 \. ^' h我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 # B \ T A) R$ x# |I have called someone because I want to tell them something.7 k' j( @5 f7 B- @ A' I
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。2 f; S# s+ @( X7 |- u+ U8 I
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.2 Q+ z A! Z2 u9 a" c' l+ Q' `7 ~
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 , A9 W3 E& k) G. b/ d; zWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.$ a8 Y% e- z4 e
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 + o) ^6 R# E0 o( E: h& q7 rThat's a memory problem.0 L$ P# l( p6 J1 C+ m. c
这是一个记忆问题。6 U/ Y, H+ z( ~5 |3 t
I guess that counts too. % }6 p+ a& D5 }我想那很重要。. k+ V# B! M/ J8 X" J
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?8 d/ ~) i( x9 b
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ! y R5 i% ]2 J B8 JAt one point, there was a reason we do something.8 K, ~9 A6 t$ X3 Z+ `2 p6 l; l2 p
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 $ i7 W4 Y& a7 d; XFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 1 z# u/ I* K0 L8 i- s对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ; r* s4 j+ Q! R3 xIt's always could to ask ourselves why.3 i* N7 B7 B9 t: p8 l
总是可以问问自己为什么。 " W0 H1 F3 J$ X/ y# _4 rWhy did I start to learn a language? 3 f& i8 L$ }& s4 s为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 4 l) {( U$ s' i4 H, `0 [" wWhy did I join this club?3 ~1 ` @$ R7 u) D9 Y( f7 _3 H
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ : _* S; q# T6 `/ M0 fWhy my friend was this person?7 Q6 Y K d9 `2 N
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ $ V9 D; p- I) o/ G$ sWhy did I get married? " H X" Q) r! N2 |8 k为什么我要结婚？ - X( D: i" \: J/ i% q- m) s& I# `If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.7 B9 H6 U4 t2 L5 Z/ V7 }
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 2 t0 D+ Y$ c# ?/ `) a' S6 P3 p: W4 TI think we need indeed remind us of why. c0 u2 v" [/ d9 y* s: ?. \4 E
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 : P6 b1 P+ _4 B! e+ w" POr else it's tough to finish what we started. - C9 Q6 `7 }- g% P' m) Y否则很难完成我们所开始的。9 J, D2 o0 i" ?) I l
We stop starting. We quit the club.# {7 z( Z6 R4 q; o& G S
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 1 i, d2 p( E! I8 u# V* H% BWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.( ^1 ^9 v7 w! i6 s
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。$ w! I) ?0 e! [- K6 n5 w
There's nothing wrong with asking why.* F) N$ s! S" V
问为什么没什么问题。 1 ^8 J: Y2 k( V* }7 D, jIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.* v1 Z, r3 I& H1 h3 w1 |
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 5 I- z6 s! n, l9 aTalk about it.$ ~. ^7 K0 |3 d/ s* x
谈论下面的话题：+ p4 o" ?- @( b
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 6 P0 m8 y# T9 U9 Y0 I% g" t- l你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？( t$ \5 f8 W7 G8 ?! S" q) I5 T: x# T
Is it a kind of distant memory?+ N; e" r5 l" Z% _/ x
它是一种遥远的记忆？ J. G) Q1 h8 A8 D9 {% O' @: c
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... D5 ^ h" g% n. }3 u9 r你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……% V( Y2 R, ?6 V. I% C3 Y* W! q P E
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?% Z+ ]6 {% b& I3 ]4 e# H# E
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ % W. B8 X# w4 Q9 r% zDo you write memos? 7 Z" E+ d6 E m) \, a* l# `! p你写备忘录吗？ ; b( ^) r! m' n7 V K! ]Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?5 y, W+ Z6 x4 S4 _1 n0 L/ T
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 0 G3 w6 H9 I: c E% sWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?* |8 O. Y5 c/ `: p: n0 T! ^
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？& h) D5 ~; B1 e2 N4 v) @
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?0 H$ ^( a! _4 g4 A. f+ V
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？