标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something' h6 y9 d1 A" S( i) n! n
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记住我们为什么做某事 . B3 h5 g# W8 p# s) e1 s+ HSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ) W" \2 t ~1 K% w% t! d有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。8 z ?+ p8 M( V# l# x1 {% B8 k
Have you ever done that? / ^! e2 p4 x6 ]0 S* Y& N你曾有过这种经历吗？ 9 n c `0 W1 N; Y& o, p) wI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.( T) W4 f3 v& z
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 + f- {; D, }0 m: g/ u: T8 vI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 1 @8 \7 C& u$ \6 B# m我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 + X0 e& B1 o4 D" A) _$ UAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 9 [3 \) V! y# b2 ?7 z8 i然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。4 q# y/ g3 ^% J% q
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.$ G8 W& q) V2 u
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。* j0 K. p8 [- ~+ A; ?2 z) e& p
That's a memory problem. : ]6 Z# d D0 [' M% {* |6 S7 I/ k) K这是一个记忆问题。+ Q' y/ O4 S: N" O q/ I$ \) b
I guess that counts too.9 p1 \3 u; p; [
我想那很重要。8 }. ~+ @& m+ @
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? : f/ L3 V, N6 }1 X/ B6 u9 }/ Z但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ + F: C" g+ r) s" WAt one point, there was a reason we do something. & u+ W: C; _$ m) \% |+ `- x% Z在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。$ }! N7 _ g. d. [/ k
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.- i9 t# p7 P# D
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。& R5 b1 y1 b" j2 G8 X8 R2 A$ }
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 0 R/ o4 u# h3 ` ~" F9 m总是可以问问自己为什么。 + s9 \ g1 U1 g6 @/ TWhy did I start to learn a language? & m$ c7 d. K& e$ F为什么我开始学习一种语言？ $ h8 ]4 O5 M8 Y# _6 z" N; z0 x& DWhy did I join this club?" D3 c8 g# D% U- j! Y D
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ! K; ?1 M, ?" B6 aWhy my friend was this person? 9 P0 i' I/ p! C为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ( ~/ Y d# \! j: ^, U* Y9 }Why did I get married?! h: \! S: ~( P5 M: |, {# W# H
为什么我要结婚？- Q8 L. ^3 x$ M
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. * L# Q5 q6 l0 x' _/ D6 C3 i如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 1 u* f& A! B+ ]6 v: k& g6 T0 AI think we need indeed remind us of why., e) T0 g; Z; K/ I: f) P; e& f
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 X# M3 G" l+ I: i7 v! J2 E" w
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.) _3 I U* {# H4 N! B% U8 F
否则很难完成我们所开始的。. Z& r1 z, I+ `) F3 ]" m
We stop starting. We quit the club.5 z$ I' ~( C* n5 b' R
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 1 m, Z' z- N ?3 r0 l \We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.$ b& R7 i8 g$ P
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。2 h( e& \! |; S# X. U; q5 b
There's nothing wrong with asking why.+ z8 U0 r: ^8 ^' b! u2 ^" v4 [1 L
问为什么没什么问题。 $ x2 M* t* S9 f+ ]* ]In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 9 y7 e D! S/ K6 E& U: y1 r. x事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 / v( c$ N% \! X7 w- E; w8 ?) I1 ~Talk about it. ; u, [/ k1 ?- P6 S% m6 ^/ d谈论下面的话题： 4 `! h7 D2 ~: e* K* p3 v( sIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?- E$ t. U& g% s. f+ k5 f, E" K4 _6 e Y
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？- N# ^7 ]: S9 P) k; K
Is it a kind of distant memory?: I3 ]+ j' |! q- x
它是一种遥远的记忆？: M/ P# |# [; A: h/ o# X+ H: }; o
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... ( Y+ a* Z7 d) S! z3 [你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 4 V- o) w+ a- T5 R3 @How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?9 H' I" F9 I$ D0 R8 |# G
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？6 F) M/ i. Y# E3 g8 i! B1 l
Do you write memos? " Q+ \ H3 ^% @1 k9 _1 H你写备忘录吗？" t" |" D$ D: k& L
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 4 N5 x( i0 h6 j0 P5 A3 W: z1 U: c你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？* z% k! q* ?& ]) O
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 5 }7 D) K/ k1 G# Y1 C' W还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ * _: r1 P" `/ H5 }What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 5 y3 }- x. G2 {1 l& `4 j你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？