标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something - I& `9 e0 T I6 g. N: U 2 f% Z/ d# ~/ X3 y3 F记住我们为什么做某事 # F d) Z; L9 j8 g" P$ i& p/ I, }Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. : P1 `5 o1 A/ c有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。( J n$ `0 A& R) m( r
Have you ever done that?9 g! t% B e6 O0 T2 n
你曾有过这种经历吗？ " }- L% @7 j% g7 m4 u o0 s# x, H1 HI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.0 i' M7 d5 \3 z9 J. b$ L
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ' ^4 c: U! X w' w: l3 g& }I have called someone because I want to tell them something. " J+ E3 z2 J% z; F4 x我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 2 f# n% N; P" o2 p; TAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 1 p& O6 I4 l( Y" q! u) e3 W: U然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。5 F8 X: e6 ]7 I( ^1 i+ B
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ; w" R' y% ]* j, m9 U* {2 e哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。& H/ s4 C2 i) v6 g7 {
That's a memory problem. ! V6 X7 {! h5 j: N8 M- d) y这是一个记忆问题。 - r" g0 S5 m8 z0 O& vI guess that counts too.1 X) X$ n4 K; u, t" z
我想那很重要。 3 t! K# I. j) WBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?5 S* M0 z, f. N; j
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 0 Q$ T/ W s- Z9 {0 eAt one point, there was a reason we do something.; _ X! q$ U; x% y h \0 B8 H
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。! i( D( }3 U- D, r) p F
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.$ J, d) R8 g C$ {7 j& P/ w* {9 ]
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 $ f) _0 J7 H3 F; M; ]It's always could to ask ourselves why. 2 `* {/ L8 {( ~9 t5 y% }总是可以问问自己为什么。 1 f2 x! F' ?+ {- C2 m1 dWhy did I start to learn a language?1 R) {3 w' z+ ]8 d
为什么我开始学习一种语言？5 m# S# w3 u/ M- \& }) L' a( T
Why did I join this club? 4 r$ Y0 O# I: Q2 D- P& w4 x9 H为什么我加入这个俱乐部？' u1 X( H) ?- R2 _/ G* }6 U! m: ^* F" D
Why my friend was this person?0 c7 h+ a' P/ q" S5 a4 r
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 3 `/ |" F e* h+ S. \Why did I get married? / W7 ~% e7 ^, O1 c为什么我要结婚？ - v1 K! m1 Y# v+ ?If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.9 a$ \% }# }& b4 V- k9 r7 G( L
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 % m! R: O) v5 l/ ]' ^$ \I think we need indeed remind us of why. " n7 D5 |- D# d) z我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 2 u; a6 `1 ^8 a: POr else it's tough to finish what we started.7 x3 p6 Z3 B$ Z" g* u3 J$ I) P
否则很难完成我们所开始的。' Z L; t6 n+ [3 e6 l" v
We stop starting. We quit the club. 6 w: F, O1 R- f我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。1 W$ a' q. S, y7 M( |3 P
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ) Y2 R W0 [" K% u我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。$ F! x5 ?; C* }8 t- z& U- |5 H
There's nothing wrong with asking why.3 o: w+ Q3 n) I- H& H: U4 j: T! v
问为什么没什么问题。 % u% l4 r3 D- a; [; tIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ( x1 G( k; m3 r" U' @/ V事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。, ]) U, J7 ^( i& r6 m+ k: H
Talk about it.; i& o1 B4 g! q& l" C
谈论下面的话题： ' N% j- h5 H( `* h+ n; t8 w, bIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 5 b! m# P9 a. R/ n. t" s/ T你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？4 J1 W3 ]$ a! m
Is it a kind of distant memory?4 h+ J: t. g+ @: E
它是一种遥远的记忆？5 |6 }& O' K. v7 {% D( |
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... $ \' }9 {0 _# {; p/ s你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 1 Q* m. a$ \4 Y4 OHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?' q5 g' d" w# `8 F3 }/ X. B6 z- K- J
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？2 l- u9 }( B: {& g
Do you write memos? C" q1 M# e5 v3 N; U0 l你写备忘录吗？9 l6 I8 ?' \; N" h( ?0 U8 C
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? / f1 r- j# i( i8 r6 ]. T- K你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ , N3 }5 u) R) _3 \) ZWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ! k4 L' X, E% V还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？3 s9 n' {) b8 w
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?" T4 z5 O! ]4 e. S0 s& x
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？