标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something : u# ~$ {& s+ n1 M" s* X ]+ z) ~, U$ T; A9 `1 T
记住我们为什么做某事* \/ S8 n* u7 r$ ?; D. L
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 6 C' b/ D/ P1 M有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 3 Y% Z0 c5 I- J+ D% _% ]/ THave you ever done that? ) M+ f: R$ _5 X5 x4 A你曾有过这种经历吗？ . O% `/ [3 {1 M( _) k# F9 j5 vI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.! ^/ m# K# m3 s8 f- t$ N- r0 F
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。2 u7 R! K( t2 |; V3 W8 K! A
I have called someone because I want to tell them something./ _( j1 e5 ?( K( e' f9 ?
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 , T, K3 z1 I: I+ }And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.- y, a E) m. U8 b* I) e
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。0 ~% p: ?* x: T: ` ]' ?+ H+ d0 `
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place., b% r& {0 F2 ]& J6 ~( z
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。! i& w7 w' w# ]# j) ^
That's a memory problem. 6 o. m* a/ u4 a0 M: c* y# f' B这是一个记忆问题。" |6 A& G4 _2 ?0 y* f( j6 c6 v' ]
I guess that counts too. 6 K# r- ]* `1 Y. T/ e9 m0 {4 @; m我想那很重要。 : i( p3 q/ b" q; F7 i/ VBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?0 G. D6 w, l0 h( S0 D8 [
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？% r' Z/ P$ J: c; Q
At one point, there was a reason we do something.9 R9 k/ ^, Z9 @. a k
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。0 h2 W- c' q( v# ?- l) [5 r. s
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.: e3 `$ c7 Z* s% T0 P
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。- A4 V! m* M$ i& w7 d* g
It's always could to ask ourselves why. . J% {; b$ @# [) I7 p总是可以问问自己为什么。 ! x0 u9 j$ k# t: f$ Y dWhy did I start to learn a language? ( k6 E0 M( b4 H2 V/ U% J& L为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 6 G- L- l o% z3 C! ]4 oWhy did I join this club?2 u, Q2 I8 @1 M* a0 M
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？5 U( h5 Z& Y' U
Why my friend was this person? $ h `% n6 L/ C; k% W( m/ G, d/ s1 N为什么我的朋友是这个人？; U+ ~9 O( W4 L% Q. `
Why did I get married?7 b* i+ ]7 v$ }0 ?) T, Q: d0 o
为什么我要结婚？ 0 B# ]* R8 ~8 G9 O D& bIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 8 Z# \9 F0 A$ f! w如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。1 P5 I( v% T7 s1 o
I think we need indeed remind us of why.8 C3 B3 T( ]* I
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ?/ w Q$ s$ J1 L6 G" @- X# w) vOr else it's tough to finish what we started.- V- _5 v7 G/ X5 q! r4 N8 k( W
否则很难完成我们所开始的。5 f, T1 F) a* x
We stop starting. We quit the club. + q, @7 V+ x$ @! r; D* F我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ' c4 G, R0 x1 t' i2 R$ |7 p" l! l0 [We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.$ P% E, o/ m/ a# ?$ A
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 0 j0 K* M6 v6 D' _There's nothing wrong with asking why. 7 ?% `$ E& b* C4 H问为什么没什么问题。 5 q1 }2 Q$ g' i m2 h' x, @# wIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ' w2 S; m! Q/ E事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 + z( a) X; W0 W: N4 qTalk about it. 4 [) Z0 Z" i6 C9 l, H# J谈论下面的话题：* U, S5 u; c# {% z* ^
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?9 |) C0 J; x3 j: i
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？' D- q9 @$ h7 |2 {* u3 Y
Is it a kind of distant memory?1 Y- a! {% N. d f/ [* S! [' D
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 5 S d$ s% U) l" b" z S3 Z# F9 HDid you ever forget why you are doing something...7 {4 Q: B/ B4 y0 _
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……0 V* @; w' w8 l5 d: f
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?- c% z0 \2 o' r! D2 s7 |6 `
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ( D8 ~ Z$ v: `) t o2 Q+ L7 V3 TDo you write memos? 6 O+ P P. d" O0 E9 U% U" p你写备忘录吗？, C4 h( X9 c4 t( T
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?4 ?3 n8 D6 d! X+ p& G
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？) Q- w+ H1 e9 `) L, _
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?/ w! f) ?5 b# @5 o Q
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？* w* g3 o( A, K: b+ i' `* F
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? % x2 y( u! O2 p; z/ O! y& C; J$ L你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？