标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something5 t9 }8 c$ I3 q0 k
' z" ]+ @5 O/ ]7 C! C记住我们为什么做某事/ L8 B' e$ ] _+ r7 `; {& ^
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.: t! P: |# a% h7 d- w: C3 E2 G
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 / H$ M+ ^7 e( N3 I* F- j# XHave you ever done that?4 ~/ i9 b- y% N
你曾有过这种经历吗？* {5 U8 ?+ x7 g: s* U# b# g0 Y1 J
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 6 Q6 y o$ K$ q# v- d& G我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 % E# `% T+ J( K4 _ p0 R- d( }I have called someone because I want to tell them something.) i- E% t6 L0 s, P* c) w$ Y l
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ; n3 D" m+ m# f5 o9 }* }* b6 NAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.0 |* {/ t: m8 N
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 1 a6 B% A; o7 ^' }Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.* z9 Y4 }* X/ J8 K! z3 ?
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。7 H9 K) y. Q/ Q2 |) _# e
That's a memory problem.( Z- s6 y3 A/ w9 L1 ]0 i
这是一个记忆问题。 ) Q& r! ~7 L, tI guess that counts too. ; p1 w- e0 z" a2 N' q) z我想那很重要。+ [' r5 D4 i3 C! z- |! O
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 4 V) }, p' \( @$ }/ N- G但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？. j$ \/ v- n) @ c+ l2 X
At one point, there was a reason we do something.+ f6 H) P4 m! E9 w
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。" d/ ~( b9 T, W6 p& T, C6 T* ?" U
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 1 f& L# L+ o# r4 h对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 9 d5 i$ r7 n9 D) E$ lIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 2 J4 A( W9 L u/ f9 x1 s `1 _总是可以问问自己为什么。 4 _! {* @. g& `8 }7 n$ t" yWhy did I start to learn a language? 2 ~3 N" t! i; z$ Z; S1 C6 ^$ K为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 9 S* ?4 q& |. t- Z& aWhy did I join this club? . F9 I4 V" n; U为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ " V5 U1 t H; x4 m, f- D EWhy my friend was this person? ( M3 w. \ h4 q& P: k R# q2 O为什么我的朋友是这个人？4 \0 B9 ~3 ~7 ^9 ]. j5 e6 f8 z$ P- n4 Q
Why did I get married? ! @+ q: B+ ]3 S9 R& O; N+ g& z4 Z为什么我要结婚？: l3 }5 I# v$ z) q
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why., V$ W" ~$ X4 n- r& b! |6 E% q8 u1 e
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 % j/ `* _6 h) h4 q3 }( EI think we need indeed remind us of why. 6 H/ x: m0 e; X0 x9 |# p1 R5 {我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 . d. M$ K1 U7 o) @$ |' F* t bOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 8 h- J3 r! X0 [, k* N% C( W否则很难完成我们所开始的。$ `' C8 V! V& K
We stop starting. We quit the club. 8 Y3 R7 F$ v+ N( D1 [" l我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 - V ~: d" i4 ZWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged." D, i: l# D2 S7 s" t
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ' a$ b; b) k+ T& v' L/ Z( ~There's nothing wrong with asking why. 8 w6 M0 X9 f- G问为什么没什么问题。 . U8 a2 x( y8 aIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ; [( u, k- s( L! d/ E: c$ i. X事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。( B3 y# e+ M+ K, i, `2 A
Talk about it. . a4 u3 \) _$ P9 q3 |5 r$ G谈论下面的话题： ' H: a9 y8 {& h) w/ O: `Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?3 w* b& R; e/ \# J
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？) k Y. R5 H% F- e
Is it a kind of distant memory? ! j. G; g+ h8 m5 J+ ^它是一种遥远的记忆？1 S9 \) q4 h3 G1 c5 o: P) s" {4 n
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...+ Y$ V; J% G) p0 j A2 o
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… & ]- M3 J5 {7 j2 P# j: o, PHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? . g& v [+ R3 H8 N/ P; l9 g2 f你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 3 `2 K! F' r* d) g$ h7 _Do you write memos?- g+ u8 X% ?5 H' H D
你写备忘录吗？ * L) Q% J) W/ J( ]5 ]. ?+ M0 x# qDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?0 j+ [; Z/ X; w# P4 u7 V5 {
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？+ q7 x( x, p% f- j
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? - e! V6 U6 j$ T' P& o还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？$ y" ^% D, \" j. R
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?: ]( J0 n; R4 _& I) _' j& U7 G3 z j
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？