标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something , }& V6 K; g' p u6 p% ` + k4 V2 h8 ~& s) N) N4 J& s; W5 f记住我们为什么做某事' R* q8 A" q, U6 R+ e
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. & Z" d3 R* a& W- m: G3 \有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 : Z! m7 R! r& Y& W- ^: xHave you ever done that? 2 i5 k/ S1 i! d, {你曾有过这种经历吗？ ; B- J5 ?8 `% Q& MI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.! h: K: d O5 q4 n& F) ?
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。" C: r1 k( v: k0 L1 @. l
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. * u& F+ T- e" }+ N G( h( b我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 2 P9 p% u) A; P0 ]) F) {And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.6 N; P0 G/ c5 J" ?: V' Q
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。/ h. m( X5 }* ~" n6 d
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.& {- @* H; w6 N6 H; J
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 . m# H( ?; X* A/ f& |! vThat's a memory problem.$ P+ Y% C6 X7 X! A9 j
这是一个记忆问题。 * x' @' H8 p' J U. ?9 X1 nI guess that counts too. 7 M6 v- h" Y4 S Q( s% ]我想那很重要。0 `) V2 A3 R7 d4 b, k
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? : N; F4 P8 A4 O- ^* L0 F* Q但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ! c, s B# }& ?9 x* z' `At one point, there was a reason we do something. $ g) ^8 p) {$ Z7 V4 {在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 & p5 H9 Z4 J* @4 I9 E5 AFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ( ~8 q Y0 h' t" Z对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ' Q1 p8 K8 Y& W, T* t0 `* OIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 0 N, I! o; O* i( s$ P% [. ?总是可以问问自己为什么。 0 z: P7 q' g5 ^ X: o3 FWhy did I start to learn a language? , c2 Q6 n# s" ]7 ~! M为什么我开始学习一种语言？; X9 ?( E6 |, s+ F; K2 u( H3 ~. H
Why did I join this club? : H1 R+ M' p* W0 h" W* m为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 5 J9 N) k, }0 O; R6 SWhy my friend was this person?$ r, B6 ?& F% _8 A& S- g
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 7 O- l& \9 |- m! {, S* vWhy did I get married? 3 m e% W# m8 s, b为什么我要结婚？. }/ E7 U I7 G' U* M; e
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. ' N1 U( D/ h3 I% E5 U5 `. X) O如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。, _$ \) i; p8 U
I think we need indeed remind us of why.( r. M) ]2 C9 S7 D. f1 J8 g" r
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。. P+ l, {( [' |8 _& v( @. a
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.2 t! R# f$ p# \/ S8 J
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 6 y& u' d% a: Z3 g! U4 j# cWe stop starting. We quit the club. / }+ @7 o. I, D7 {( x我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。* }' f; [# K" Y) j0 s
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 5 D6 M; P( {# i V% Z我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。- m+ n5 h9 I3 x/ _# y7 D# F
There's nothing wrong with asking why.8 C: a2 C! b% P0 o3 A |* }* [
问为什么没什么问题。6 A$ j$ p* f! d* f$ K
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.$ B6 o: d% N; J& n
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。' ~/ f9 ?8 e, r: T0 k! h
Talk about it. & G; Y* L6 S- T. o4 l) J# `谈论下面的话题：( R8 @) E# F# U' {* c, E, J: U O
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? # E" F: u: O1 c你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？( |( L% P/ ~% x
Is it a kind of distant memory? 4 U* h3 N) Z3 G' |7 ], y7 }它是一种遥远的记忆？ . j4 O) L* q+ c! L0 \* n. fDid you ever forget why you are doing something...9 w6 _1 a ~( O- D, e. w/ B
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ! Z, B3 T; o2 e. ZHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?# o1 ]: y6 j4 z* ?- U S* r( x
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 3 @3 F ~0 L1 \Do you write memos? ) j9 j1 q+ H9 z7 `6 f F$ ]你写备忘录吗？/ H$ R1 Z( \% Q2 v$ Y$ k+ i
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 4 _: z$ I0 k% T9 b. W' z你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？. E* q4 L" m4 q0 f
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? . F3 b3 u6 Y4 q* ~/ J, j还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？$ D' D& F1 C8 P; ]8 @, r
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? + k/ j, y& d9 w5 _, A7 L你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？