标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something1 o9 z/ @; ~" x8 d( _) q: Y) g
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记住我们为什么做某事' O- G) Q6 }8 {2 J9 w4 p' a% e
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.& n3 J! ]# W% D6 S4 L9 f
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 9 t. Y/ G- \; b3 }# sHave you ever done that? ' n$ N$ s) a. E: I' d2 }你曾有过这种经历吗？ 3 k$ a+ j2 A4 D$ \4 H1 [ o. s$ ZI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 0 A' D" o# [: p# g6 D @我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 , o2 O6 B I( p D* h4 xI have called someone because I want to tell them something. # |5 m; r( s* Z; F我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。8 O/ k/ {# |$ k7 A
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ) j, u w* Y. n* S1 V8 V) n+ V3 H然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 $ A V8 H& k6 X, E, E. ?- wWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. . o8 E" B) {6 T, G% P哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。. \0 I; [7 y4 e0 o7 N
That's a memory problem.5 W& h' i# J N/ Q5 I
这是一个记忆问题。) `! x9 i; z% n1 r. E) o# D
I guess that counts too.# k, F3 a& `" k( W0 ^4 o
我想那很重要。: H, [0 L* o/ J3 K5 s' d
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 8 ~8 Y3 C. l+ H9 X% J. c _2 l但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？+ q: g, Z: C3 J6 r' i4 {
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 2 g2 Q9 |3 A: c" E# z4 g# `7 j在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。. E8 }- B6 c: }6 J: Y2 U( g
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. - S( Q: _8 s3 T# N3 r8 U- Y& @对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。% x7 y& ^" h. i/ V
It's always could to ask ourselves why. [/ B1 M" l2 [+ Y; b$ u总是可以问问自己为什么。( _$ J# w6 e% ~! ]8 A" N1 ]8 f
Why did I start to learn a language? 2 e3 D6 }9 n' j% W+ U! R0 D为什么我开始学习一种语言？& Z N% R& _' w( Z8 _: J; D
Why did I join this club?" w d0 E1 @% y. X, ~5 q
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ + _4 u- _( |1 j! i% b+ NWhy my friend was this person?) Y+ u* q& F' g' W7 x
为什么我的朋友是这个人？8 R- e( i* x; W3 ]0 b; S3 U
Why did I get married? 6 D% {1 @6 T n4 T7 D为什么我要结婚？ . G* \' r. t" x/ x6 I9 J' |2 x+ ~If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.$ @" m/ r6 U4 I# R1 R# l
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ) L, W; S5 k! U4 mI think we need indeed remind us of why.$ F+ o: E% x9 B- H
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 2 t0 `3 z W- l% Y- @Or else it's tough to finish what we started. ) u7 j7 J$ n' q l# O; c6 ~否则很难完成我们所开始的。; ?$ G9 E$ r& ~. D" r+ I( P: H5 X% s
We stop starting. We quit the club.5 ]2 b9 W2 |" P c' ~! Z: o
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。4 y' y3 z! p, A: P7 F) U4 v0 w
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 4 I# Y0 D8 P# E我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。' A# k* g$ k. m3 `& E
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 1 v* V( R, L% B3 h- ]" E! I$ Q, h3 M问为什么没什么问题。 3 o/ b _4 L0 H/ wIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.) J Q1 r% i# B4 u5 H
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。' E {( n% u- ]( \6 Y, O5 Q4 W2 d) H
Talk about it. ( j% ?: C; u( _( d }谈论下面的话题： / Q& ?0 n* C/ m/ \ nIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?( }5 r4 t, n+ l( y4 o9 K
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？6 ] Y) T- J: D
Is it a kind of distant memory? 3 G7 C! T6 G# E; U3 n它是一种遥远的记忆？; k+ j, K7 B2 U1 J3 _
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...) B: m& D% q! D2 b
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 2 ^5 W8 x$ N/ \% F" zHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? , D' {8 \% k: E. u4 B( Z你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？1 L7 m- U, _0 ~# V L6 g
Do you write memos? * B2 h; J# I) |. q$ H5 z# j0 G你写备忘录吗？ / d9 y- U: g7 _. ]! l/ _Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ; j$ v4 e l, F2 S你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？3 _1 W. x5 T1 S! K* t; ?
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 3 m, V1 Y7 ?' m( Z$ D还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 7 u, K' ~; l1 ^4 AWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?& N+ S# X5 P f% t# Z% k
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？