标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something E) \. B+ G* A' k) D K1 H7 q1 i& z" T/ w; a记住我们为什么做某事+ Q* Z9 J+ V: i: U
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ) V# E( c0 O, F) {5 M有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。% g" r7 n% \* N2 ]! T8 G1 C4 Q
Have you ever done that? 9 B7 v: N) F1 \* L/ B1 r0 S0 k U你曾有过这种经历吗？ 0 E4 K" _3 [& w" vI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 5 w8 r" L! Y9 S" a0 g* d6 m% G我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 $ [* z" W, V4 J3 e+ t/ z& m, f( MI have called someone because I want to tell them something. , Z& h- u0 F( X& Z* P7 g' f我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。, R6 a6 H2 S9 d8 `8 K5 P
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.' h# ^ v: l4 f. H' ~, i5 g+ ~
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。1 j6 } d( a- ~2 o
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.+ y: c9 Q$ ?! m- W- a7 Q) Z! o" a
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 j6 Q1 Y0 D! s$ \9 a1 \+ }$ UThat's a memory problem. " y! e1 J; ^: y5 T( e5 C这是一个记忆问题。 + r' O9 m* G- d! [% b" g$ WI guess that counts too. ) f) d/ _$ T/ l0 N7 C我想那很重要。, N+ f6 v" n+ [5 P5 V. ~( H
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?8 C8 O* U. Q1 H
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？8 j; }$ @4 e( C3 L& O; [6 E
At one point, there was a reason we do something. ( J5 u' p3 G' j+ v在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 # M. W, ]3 A& |, V/ iFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.' q, S' W5 X$ ]% o3 `
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 5 g6 [8 M5 I# C0 `! tIt's always could to ask ourselves why. / \+ e4 z9 T( m总是可以问问自己为什么。 3 I N$ S! U G$ p0 w7 ~Why did I start to learn a language?: u9 f- z2 @1 t# f- U
为什么我开始学习一种语言？& `! {1 _/ b+ ?7 S5 d
Why did I join this club? p- w5 J$ H( q: d# j: b为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 8 j7 c) a& [. @' c( ]% B' V. t5 AWhy my friend was this person?1 f7 ^8 k; N8 W( _5 G1 x$ h& [
为什么我的朋友是这个人？5 x6 x" H8 j4 c$ }
Why did I get married?3 E F, Z0 w2 t; `( E( I8 M
为什么我要结婚？ # \5 D& q t$ X" G' M' l6 ]If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 0 n+ }! h/ p4 k4 @7 ?) i4 |, N如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。2 L! v% l7 p. S( J3 r [0 ^- N. t
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 6 u& p; \& @ k; [3 ^我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。9 E$ e1 r2 K( c% t6 J1 ^
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. , F2 a/ c9 z5 F否则很难完成我们所开始的。 7 N5 h+ n+ r0 U, v& E! X) n" BWe stop starting. We quit the club.( ^/ u' h+ G( K8 M K
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。0 ~+ h" d4 B+ j6 l( D
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.) a2 l9 d9 X' N" ^% ?' r
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。% k$ _% F) V* `/ }3 `2 L
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 8 m. v9 D- Y8 ^- r问为什么没什么问题。 9 V v8 f u! F" k% e* ~/ V qIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. : k' `# ?' W- v5 @事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 + v5 @: D. ^ n) C aTalk about it. 5 y, W7 q- }& w谈论下面的话题：- O8 O4 x0 H5 y$ T4 s
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? - h( s. o t/ O/ Y' ?/ P你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 7 H% J5 }2 J$ O7 C7 p0 HIs it a kind of distant memory?( k: Y. Y# i5 Q$ y' k/ g* [) Z% D
它是一种遥远的记忆？ " \8 |, L" }8 ~8 v1 I7 @Did you ever forget why you are doing something.... [+ R6 B% R* c% [! c4 B
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… + z; e/ |) _, J5 o' l9 p/ [* s, fHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?! \8 }5 E2 y- x
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？/ N2 a Z1 n8 R" ~) V
Do you write memos? : J( x: u0 [0 e9 t3 ?& i+ j! x你写备忘录吗？+ q( T% l b/ I
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?4 @" D1 K4 t: c) n7 ?
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？: ~9 p% ^: {7 N, d, a# x; u) ?# ~
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? / O- L" @1 f$ s还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？( [" s- P# Y4 ~9 h
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? . l6 h: W$ ` ?/ T5 c9 Z$ v你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？