标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something , G9 E, c" y( Q' S : k3 R% A( ^: b) [4 t/ G记住我们为什么做某事 4 F o/ `4 }% QSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ! `% j: F# B+ m2 ^ ^有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。. \5 h% y+ m7 [3 q3 M8 ^! r; H
Have you ever done that? 8 m0 x0 w) Q- @/ v3 B你曾有过这种经历吗？) W- F* \# A1 e# b, W4 F
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. & f# A+ V# j9 a我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 c; E) e- ]% [' E
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.9 G" Q( |# X0 H# C- b
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 $ b3 ^4 M1 b! k: u: uAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular., d$ i: \- F* I9 Z0 y1 L3 a
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。- k# O7 s8 M- x% L
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.9 ?$ `3 h4 i' f; |4 V1 @7 o9 p+ X
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。# ~$ |3 S5 X8 M; E/ G$ \* g
That's a memory problem. 3 X/ C4 K, b, D; M k这是一个记忆问题。4 T4 y) V2 ?; B5 M; h8 U% h
I guess that counts too." r2 Z+ \3 H3 q* I: E/ i
我想那很重要。 6 w: I+ e; x O) W' ]But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 4 [ J7 ~% W0 b! H0 G( d但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 3 U4 H \$ H$ w4 lAt one point, there was a reason we do something. + X6 O# g# o- j& R在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。/ A# ^+ q- P: Y d
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.: M% V: [; W& Q* L
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。1 a; v# {, F; p* T
It's always could to ask ourselves why.2 R/ T3 M. u: V: [
总是可以问问自己为什么。+ `$ C# T0 p3 U4 U' G
Why did I start to learn a language? - P4 m8 M7 q3 p为什么我开始学习一种语言？ * I9 B- U" Q" @3 j7 L8 O, pWhy did I join this club? / X L6 K5 u& C+ M6 I% j! Z为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ . T- y) C: x. [7 t( B5 wWhy my friend was this person?" _1 K9 x/ _! X9 ?5 Q C z
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ! w' ~0 K6 {* \/ C, j% bWhy did I get married? 1 Z5 ^+ s: C3 d' m O为什么我要结婚？2 @- E1 _" m4 y
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.0 ]# B# r5 y6 Q
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。: m* m( H0 t1 }8 {& @) R$ B3 S
I think we need indeed remind us of why.; h, r7 F D1 G$ X
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。. C( c! Z- m/ B/ f o u
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.+ p8 w! r. Z6 q, M4 z0 K; H, ?6 i
否则很难完成我们所开始的。7 |4 X C( y4 \
We stop starting. We quit the club.: u1 I. {/ C5 P+ h) R$ a, {
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。/ X" I' B: m4 t0 ]- G' w8 a
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. * S9 W# m$ L8 T S- N; S- ~我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 6 Y O3 j7 z# UThere's nothing wrong with asking why. 1 _ O% a+ h T& i1 U. I0 p/ N a问为什么没什么问题。 2 O5 E$ \2 v" KIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.* K: f' `/ p% | h
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。) L$ R$ w3 ]: T4 K0 ~ Z m
Talk about it. : Q! \3 L& [6 O( G' |谈论下面的话题： & W7 c: [; o$ T8 P3 t& c/ j/ qIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? $ {3 g- d& q1 X5 F2 s你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？6 ?% I, c, ^4 s# H/ q1 l& T* y
Is it a kind of distant memory?+ o3 l$ B3 ^! R: X4 f; M+ {" Y
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 5 U$ T! y* l, n2 w( C1 w% k! uDid you ever forget why you are doing something..." o6 M8 q8 W6 a7 Y
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……6 E1 u9 A' E$ N2 ^7 k/ h
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 1 F+ |& q" [ n( f% W你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？5 C7 B% {1 k$ J" R) P; Q
Do you write memos?6 T# U3 ~% }* F" A- [9 {
你写备忘录吗？% z$ l) _# Y8 U2 T. ^
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?' j |- h1 G9 V( X1 _9 ~ @
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ % W0 c7 k5 K% F/ p8 \. L$ sWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?$ I* \0 S9 P0 N* r1 D
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？$ F" k- o$ a a0 O. R) I
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?5 z4 Q5 a$ E0 H# Z5 l& m; d
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？