标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ' P- y! @ L/ W: ~ # v% w( }- f/ h* K- s( k3 P- z. @记住我们为什么做某事 , E L5 U4 R. c! p, T/ l4 D( TSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 3 v$ T8 \* U" t- t5 H# ]有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。6 j% e0 u9 ~$ J" s+ |/ `
Have you ever done that?$ r7 L# l7 K) [% @1 b
你曾有过这种经历吗？& M/ F& b6 f0 ?
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. & }; y. u6 S( @) d: R3 w我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。! o- m. @! D3 B: @& D- L
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.. l( i$ I6 q6 W+ O) z7 V
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 F4 b" N1 o8 p; N( q0 a
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.$ x( P) N0 L% q$ ?5 m
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ) P" Y# W0 H! J) s2 c: _Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.. S+ z/ ]) c( g
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。( i4 ?0 t8 {% T, e* }- a% ^1 x
That's a memory problem.4 r0 Z& D$ ]. d& Q! j" h
这是一个记忆问题。 4 Y( B1 j4 s, f# [* y o" gI guess that counts too.* O, b: {( Z4 z6 y3 X% T- C. U
我想那很重要。5 c+ k+ e' I, D- d( G2 g( e
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?" Q, y1 ?% a! R7 O" G, S& M
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？, l/ I. V; k, l( U6 B E: x
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 6 d+ m3 j" `, o在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。6 W g( Y8 X8 r5 l9 v; g5 I
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ' t8 Y7 t6 s& b! B) i对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。+ \& ~' P5 U; F4 B5 J6 E ^ {. R
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 0 h/ j0 f+ C9 C+ _9 ^总是可以问问自己为什么。% w' v. J6 J5 x) H* V" l2 p
Why did I start to learn a language?8 Q% g6 x% |7 m
为什么我开始学习一种语言？* ~$ O7 s7 i" @
Why did I join this club?8 u6 q3 o( j8 }$ |2 V
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？) S2 }% f0 w0 W
Why my friend was this person? 4 f5 Z" R+ w0 z% I为什么我的朋友是这个人？ q. F1 I0 _% h" wWhy did I get married? ( t7 K( _/ z. K" t- j% w为什么我要结婚？7 [1 B4 j( K6 Q G
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. % _1 R2 t, E9 }5 U& v6 j如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。* p5 Q: A4 n" W1 x4 v
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 8 [! ?8 F L- y7 @7 a; O: I' {我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。3 o4 r) l4 t$ S9 L3 g! d
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. * V2 y, \+ S6 K, `. t否则很难完成我们所开始的。 1 k7 A1 B* M9 t" |5 \: TWe stop starting. We quit the club. / Y' Z( `+ J1 S7 b- b我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。+ @" ~% n, }) j) q% P$ D" i2 `
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.* Q3 U( r9 N+ M x' q
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ) B% Q( i9 w: o2 T; w- P9 m$ aThere's nothing wrong with asking why. 5 o" F0 Y5 _9 ^, X3 |: ~7 [' i问为什么没什么问题。- [6 q# C* P. Z# q% K/ t) j% [( t: w
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.8 @3 D* V- K; K& G: j: \
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 , o+ f/ |4 U4 ]) @% ~. g$ FTalk about it. 4 A0 c, K6 _/ W6 g( S$ E9 V) s谈论下面的话题： x, `% I1 |4 W' g3 C& ~
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? . [ R- U0 _: j: r你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ - P/ A0 W3 Q) e' `: }% Q6 j! k* hIs it a kind of distant memory? 6 e* e) n8 j' x它是一种遥远的记忆？ $ x% T- K5 I! r7 _& g# WDid you ever forget why you are doing something... 7 h% P. k! |/ Q4 j你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 8 H$ M0 g8 T; G9 Y4 z" PHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? * g! v c; a+ e k$ s你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ - t. v$ L0 u8 f2 l! }7 k$ a# t( ]Do you write memos?0 Q' s$ \$ ?; Y$ o$ j
你写备忘录吗？ / B3 A' S5 K; NDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?) U+ ?) s& \( k/ V
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 3 n8 s4 V% v+ rWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? : ?7 L; [: J3 }2 c- m* A" |# ]: g还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？9 R6 \' r$ K8 X9 A- C0 \$ z% O
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 9 e% g& d: m. r* x0 @. i你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？