标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ( F: ]" \" K9 _2 m6 B8 t, C `' L: J9 J6 e3 p9 u记住我们为什么做某事 + C; E! p3 R: t$ U: MSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ' d7 q3 O+ |7 \ z* \' B, Z, i有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。, G7 R7 e" z. c$ n5 ^
Have you ever done that?+ v9 U: M' r( R# ?8 i) z: ~
你曾有过这种经历吗？ " n$ F' O3 n% kI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.7 D2 E! [2 @& \. g5 X
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 : r- U6 z- q- B5 I. P' s( ]I have called someone because I want to tell them something. " V5 |: o! L9 ~ |- o" s- N; q我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 z# i2 G; p' x0 [9 l, YAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.& L/ W, P3 ]/ l. Y# C# Y, r' Z
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 - m D& R* ?+ A! zWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.$ f5 H2 M) \* o( v4 ]) X2 X
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ' X1 ^( {, z! l8 e# i# }1 ^8 XThat's a memory problem. 0 N& H( P5 }, }' ?# k4 n3 K/ h这是一个记忆问题。 2 l. r6 b! M0 E) ~0 Q8 sI guess that counts too. 0 n; ]2 o, S- w& h我想那很重要。: n3 H( P+ Q: S. B
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 3 k; ~% E) D' F8 @) n7 q但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？, R; {/ W) Q @& g
At one point, there was a reason we do something. % V0 W) ?5 V5 v% k# m3 L8 [在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。* d- `* s u5 l& X8 U- t O- \8 m
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.7 ^# `, h! g2 e- ?1 n: I
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。, a: u: C1 e) _/ p# [1 D
It's always could to ask ourselves why., q3 K/ ^* i9 p8 U" @
总是可以问问自己为什么。 / g J$ U8 P6 N9 H$ X; f# G7 jWhy did I start to learn a language?3 M; g4 H; Y% L: ~) b
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ : p0 ^ u" x. ~% ?0 T) n' s6 }Why did I join this club?! a! d7 {( c. b+ `
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ' q: |( n! {% b MWhy my friend was this person? 2 m4 K' E7 ~2 j7 g为什么我的朋友是这个人？ d! w3 N; w1 \, M. ?9 cWhy did I get married? + ~- h% e# t6 R1 s" X$ u) n为什么我要结婚？ / s" ^/ J( p. OIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. & t* g* J% ?+ s* l! m( h$ p如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 E# ? M4 k4 H! Q6 T; eI think we need indeed remind us of why. 9 u7 F, _, e- s" w/ ?+ ~2 V我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 $ C# S( F$ M+ E/ [: a- qOr else it's tough to finish what we started. $ _. C$ g5 w9 k, D7 F否则很难完成我们所开始的。1 Q3 ~ J$ h$ k D
We stop starting. We quit the club.8 J1 ?; r' R! V
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 + \! D5 ]+ V! p; XWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.! W8 C1 _+ \5 d. p, H# X
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ( d3 }4 i; t# H& z# N9 l. G/ p- R# KThere's nothing wrong with asking why. : K' H+ A9 n. H) W1 c问为什么没什么问题。3 L! i9 D6 T+ Q% i7 P) f
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.6 E, n+ y. e: {3 _3 J
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。* o P" ^) {# f" o! y
Talk about it. s7 M6 X" M, S, A谈论下面的话题： ! F8 l: _( X! ?" F! rIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?1 t, ]; r5 |2 C! `) Q+ n1 }
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 3 I! Z+ z+ p: r: n6 pIs it a kind of distant memory? ( R7 A; X a# }/ F% n& m0 `它是一种遥远的记忆？ 1 X" t% F, M, F* e" f: cDid you ever forget why you are doing something... ( O2 H3 J) k" k8 j# q+ J0 @' g你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……: ^! T8 s+ i K2 ?3 t) q0 p" H
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?9 l. L5 ?8 P1 g
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 1 J% c" i+ ]/ d/ u% WDo you write memos?/ h; k( N! u4 n9 \, Q* g0 e! p2 n; Y
你写备忘录吗？ , x( r+ R( _0 h/ b! v. ~ XDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? / y3 U( Z" D, I3 x6 U; [你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？9 Y- i% J* }) B: K; A
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?* a4 G' w5 C( K: Z3 C" o
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？! ~1 t+ O3 I- z! a, T# r( c
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?5 V) ]" b% q* Y
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？