标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something3 H: m& ^9 S0 S% b; X7 r2 b( c
+ S D9 i* @3 s: s2 l0 Y记住我们为什么做某事 0 H9 [$ W" g* |0 ]Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.: D3 ?$ ]3 H7 A* r* u- e; g
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。0 v6 e( L2 \8 s* I
Have you ever done that?, h; N% q9 |6 }! ^& m+ n9 n
你曾有过这种经历吗？2 ]6 s4 |/ G; G* e8 Y
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ' ^% j7 @& }0 J' A4 X0 W' f我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。! G+ p ]+ a d
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. H( E3 [$ A9 q/ i5 L) d
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ' x; S7 ~+ P# @$ z4 B' R& GAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.( R. s* }+ Z. ^/ W. @' G
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。4 J0 U N) P2 V$ [" H4 C1 ~, o* E
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 7 I# l0 m+ L2 b# W8 C7 m* y哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。- C( f7 N- w8 C2 Y9 }3 Y
That's a memory problem.0 A( S3 _' G3 [2 c7 y5 p
这是一个记忆问题。2 ]1 x1 h7 d8 q5 y
I guess that counts too.1 P& p" ^0 ]" e* z1 I" L) h
我想那很重要。 ( ]" M; c- {) {2 X8 ^3 s! s% jBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ' S, w* L" |" m8 a( b5 U但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ $ n+ w( L, O" [9 a5 A" kAt one point, there was a reason we do something.9 _: e- c7 b6 F: C$ b) q( A
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 " ~3 m4 k5 X4 _% TFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.+ Z9 d+ n( i8 A/ Z! C- L3 N
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。3 |! c1 {7 f3 }8 L
It's always could to ask ourselves why. : }7 F J0 R: h' \6 E总是可以问问自己为什么。; H9 \4 |- `3 ~
Why did I start to learn a language? # P* s2 P8 n8 w; r为什么我开始学习一种语言？+ ]* r* p- W9 ~4 b7 l% T* N. v1 _ j4 f
Why did I join this club? ; C: L q" |' p" L为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ * k% t' B N8 Y% H0 yWhy my friend was this person? 1 ~7 ?2 h, E- l' d. k+ w为什么我的朋友是这个人？1 w/ G9 w1 ^' N
Why did I get married? , b5 A' d9 ~& m0 C6 I" N( W9 E为什么我要结婚？ + H3 J0 A, V' i1 ]& ^- k$ J- E( M% d4 {If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.; x7 o0 P, A2 |! }
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 k0 G5 C* ~% D9 r- k
I think we need indeed remind us of why. , g, T2 J' n/ e' L/ i我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 - Z2 ^/ W$ j/ p" sOr else it's tough to finish what we started. ; B- d* O2 d0 W. o7 M, V$ ?否则很难完成我们所开始的。 " A, x0 [4 X. vWe stop starting. We quit the club. + y: ?; a+ B# n/ d7 e' A$ |! B我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ! c+ p) i. _7 Y' y: XWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. * R$ X# O) T* O e$ j2 W我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。4 X6 L: {* \! o4 g2 S
There's nothing wrong with asking why. / m8 b, N- [* q/ A$ o& E问为什么没什么问题。5 |# l5 Z1 C4 ?5 R8 p0 I
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. I7 M+ e) u; E: g% s, j
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 % K8 Z$ b1 b$ N8 MTalk about it. p5 j" k8 k" j" ~& ]5 {谈论下面的话题：9 \+ Q/ O' r; H: w& F( j# t7 B
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? : A0 g& t+ _0 g- M' x1 ~. U# i2 W你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ . C# K" g2 k# V4 zIs it a kind of distant memory? . R/ D1 Y# N8 v1 E. T' H它是一种遥远的记忆？8 ^ E6 n* f9 U) R' \' Z
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... ! q: B" B. B( ]! r, j/ Q你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……+ t R2 h- _8 e) c7 m
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? . s0 ?7 f+ h9 }3 |' |/ M; X( _你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？4 ] X3 C. E2 C6 ]0 |; c
Do you write memos?- P) ~$ O' z4 B) r& k f' T
你写备忘录吗？% o8 S" T* n" S0 u
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? & _0 L) j; H) f Q5 Z% \你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ , {; O5 _5 W0 q/ ]. o0 P/ D7 A7 }What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ( |9 C, N! D7 C! u2 s3 m4 P' h+ z还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 8 V! V4 c' l6 ?What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? * @0 W$ U7 C0 ]4 S' [# V& C你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？