标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something$ y7 e' R* ~) b+ N; h7 m' Z$ p
9 V9 |& E3 a3 y$ G1 M n/ `记住我们为什么做某事$ l; X4 P6 [2 G- c2 ^4 [
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 9 l# r2 s9 W5 z* w) G6 t- [8 l有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。0 S, q+ u) a6 h1 u- j
Have you ever done that? $ b# b" h. r9 Y: ^: u. I- w你曾有过这种经历吗？ : W9 g" i6 W: ^* i% @, iI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. P8 E" W2 a+ C; @+ D$ v
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 5 \. d3 u" K, m+ Q- _+ s- |I have called someone because I want to tell them something.6 Z0 S9 m. @# F2 q A! Z2 F0 @. p
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 : |. z7 Z8 N3 j, W$ E- a" h' PAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. * w I; y& B0 P: k( T. f3 s; \ {然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。. O/ N i1 b; ~
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. " J8 [! i' I! I* Z哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 6 F& C3 Z7 U7 G+ A- c r2 cThat's a memory problem. A6 t" h7 z6 Q/ U' n, g这是一个记忆问题。+ O7 Z1 `- W, t3 O! s
I guess that counts too. 6 }5 T3 g( O; ~- ~我想那很重要。 $ G. R( Z* t0 Z- t5 X1 ^8 ZBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?1 c) X5 _* f- x0 D3 o, V
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ + ]3 F$ X' ~2 K t3 \" U7 s) EAt one point, there was a reason we do something.( _; h+ l! c* l# ?
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。9 `6 o$ C8 y, m. I' y _2 t! F8 h
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. * x& B- j' }7 K对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 0 N3 ^2 I3 A* Z: J( W! F6 EIt's always could to ask ourselves why.* N% v# ~8 e+ o9 L
总是可以问问自己为什么。 m! `! Z& U" ^; [: d
Why did I start to learn a language?4 s* c4 c% ~) m# {) Y
为什么我开始学习一种语言？$ ?; y, Q9 |% d7 }& }2 {5 I) m
Why did I join this club? $ ~: m& H( v" @3 M为什么我加入这个俱乐部？% m3 b6 O0 v1 O+ t
Why my friend was this person?* n1 B6 i' x& J: j* S+ \* ?
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ % w- \' w; {4 g4 Y# V. A! E1 i' ]Why did I get married?9 \0 p% @& y; l+ c- ?) y. _* ^
为什么我要结婚？ @2 o0 j5 F6 c* sIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.; l2 i! y( b8 J! y7 } n
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。$ M3 y! C! T9 ~
I think we need indeed remind us of why. F/ i: K4 h/ |
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 0 ]3 ~& _/ |1 D! ^( AOr else it's tough to finish what we started. + K9 y7 M, k% z5 O否则很难完成我们所开始的。 + f8 m- L8 |2 {2 F8 C6 _8 k- X# SWe stop starting. We quit the club.: ~) H; j ]3 W- s% Q+ }
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 * K- T2 R- a2 H( wWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.8 }4 k) l ?2 T% i9 |# Q' B
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 6 d; c4 G9 a6 @& D3 VThere's nothing wrong with asking why. ' Q* C6 X7 _: P( _+ w4 @/ v: D7 L问为什么没什么问题。 ( a* o' a, [2 v1 X0 a6 lIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.& N; K: i, c# A! P
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 : s0 n9 f+ v: \! ~Talk about it.0 M8 R5 D$ {' s& P
谈论下面的话题： q+ K% r2 V9 G0 f& m% VIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? + `' _# _+ G" C8 {% ]7 w你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？0 A2 l6 ~' W1 ~5 k% |* J/ D5 Y
Is it a kind of distant memory?7 v- @9 s- ~; m7 n' C0 J4 y7 h
它是一种遥远的记忆？ % G, W" G! ]5 i9 G9 }; xDid you ever forget why you are doing something...5 E* [2 Y& O* t& a3 b& R
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……/ \; Q' b9 a6 F$ Z3 y+ ?
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?& E" x* `9 T& [: Z0 \6 P7 R
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？: d/ I* ?9 }) {, p% Q' p* g( E9 T9 t
Do you write memos?. ?0 ~/ t& F% j5 J' P' r) @( A
你写备忘录吗？/ _; s1 ~% z4 _( ?
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?. Q# f# y% B! \
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ' ]$ Y2 r2 K |- s. H! H' ~7 zWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 9 n- F& W+ j; ^/ g5 H) ~还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ : n! _8 J$ K3 L% O% K. qWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?( K1 a8 n, n' u
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？