标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something % }7 i2 |' N) ?9 m: p" Q+ V1 _. o. i! m. @5 ]" f0 A4 m
记住我们为什么做某事( A" I; U- W+ x. ] f# i
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.6 t9 y, G' x2 N3 k; M
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 $ D* D/ z$ K$ o9 G1 ?- A& f, r! C8 eHave you ever done that?: g) y% D" Y% |5 k: e
你曾有过这种经历吗？+ a5 a7 o; i3 r/ `! n
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 4 j, C3 B/ J1 w$ a- Q我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。! a+ o+ [& N/ G. d/ x8 O1 A
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. ' F3 P3 o/ y/ y* D3 b: L, j我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。. S. b) D' g! r7 W- Y
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 5 u+ \9 `" C, c然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。2 W9 Z$ B* w8 b. T- h9 U$ p1 I
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.' p r( E5 {) r
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。/ Q b. s( K" ]
That's a memory problem. 4 w! d7 D( k; U& |1 M这是一个记忆问题。% ~ A- P$ o& t* V
I guess that counts too. - K- {( ?: `, f9 t$ e7 i我想那很重要。 H; u+ V1 _4 c( o2 ]But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?3 p5 e8 ~7 n# z. S2 `, T/ V. Q& Q
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ . |. m, b& ]4 SAt one point, there was a reason we do something.5 b( A! C, n* W6 t+ P: @- K
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ' f1 f3 m3 N5 d* SFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.7 u2 g$ Q+ \& V, e6 s
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。* e O- V" D1 z. n, W- c9 n& I* j
It's always could to ask ourselves why.- r) d( \8 J! M! r/ R; z& Q) {- h: M
总是可以问问自己为什么。& D) R8 {1 w6 x X4 g, l
Why did I start to learn a language? ! }. P1 n% B9 b1 }9 u为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 6 E# R" M$ _4 Y+ S! K& W" gWhy did I join this club?7 o1 H$ g- [* `& `& K" P) h
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？9 P/ N) B0 W0 Q5 D. I
Why my friend was this person?1 B& n$ m N! h* N. U! ^
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ : q' A9 d% n( q" _8 uWhy did I get married?: y! B7 V: `) W; P& W: H" Z
为什么我要结婚？6 C. B7 T g: b
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 7 z+ Y, F) L# G9 _+ p; l ?3 ~如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。& L! a2 |) `; @7 }2 I
I think we need indeed remind us of why. & z$ `* c& }+ F& s1 j/ \我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。7 p" s/ p* ?$ u" a( E1 J
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.+ i( `( ~' u& P6 x4 O
否则很难完成我们所开始的。1 u( l$ Y' L: c( Y- R: [
We stop starting. We quit the club.7 P( ~ \$ o0 F' o9 K1 R
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 3 B) @! Y7 @! B( z3 N, _3 {We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ' L u C( H1 j( k0 z1 |/ W我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 " b3 ^" d7 C1 V1 m1 x2 E! ?There's nothing wrong with asking why. ! H, B. M# H' x* P" e. B问为什么没什么问题。( r; K7 e, [/ W! \- V
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. : X' ?- l" S8 S: ]2 A9 s9 j- }事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。. R. T+ B, K* f8 i2 M( \' U) f; w) y
Talk about it., r' ~/ }- q9 ], j' F4 m+ w
谈论下面的话题：# m! X+ k* X' N) [. h+ i# C, B s
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?& z* o* ]& c' T3 q+ _3 I
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 4 }9 A( h7 N" B. N0 t; d* @Is it a kind of distant memory?# M: {1 [: X0 I1 {5 s z2 J
它是一种遥远的记忆？$ U+ Y5 |- F, _( G
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...0 a7 p: A6 M3 q' C" g; e; W9 ]: p
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……* D5 k8 N0 i8 H- d# y# J9 T: W
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?/ h3 D9 s, E3 B% p/ C
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？! o$ f& q: _3 g
Do you write memos? + P* O Q0 \/ k5 G$ ^! Q1 \你写备忘录吗？6 m6 I- E. I. E9 N$ d
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?+ |7 Y7 ~1 @1 B+ b( p4 D0 u
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 5 I {3 b- ^3 e+ B9 XWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 7 J+ ~# k! k4 q还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ / n- `( ?1 Z0 f- ~- C5 B+ s% Z: dWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?3 a8 o* g. A/ @1 n
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？