标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something, ^, O* q+ t7 Q3 E; b) X. |
+ P1 k {) R' S7 j6 ]/ C记住我们为什么做某事+ V$ T, z# z& b8 U1 s1 y
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. X( u$ s( P5 Y% u: E4 ~有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。1 [ @) N5 W/ H% B
Have you ever done that?# {4 d9 k) M% ~; E8 N
你曾有过这种经历吗？6 ^% h) f& U' A; s
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.& R$ m; q! `2 r6 X2 ]6 T6 H! Q
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 5 V5 a8 N& T6 d E9 i& S0 `5 qI have called someone because I want to tell them something. - b; x1 z/ g ~3 P, h我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。8 E$ y# r5 w& |' x( G# M, Z* a
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.. e: x; r7 U$ c, K7 a3 ?( E
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。( ~4 m% i+ l6 ~2 X9 R% p
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ( [/ _( G; i4 K; T1 h0 u哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 . j8 K. Y) j+ j( Q2 TThat's a memory problem. 8 P: t" T3 ?7 r# Y, i$ V! f这是一个记忆问题。$ R8 v3 C% V8 o- G% J7 W+ V
I guess that counts too. 8 A* [8 f# l& a( ?' r我想那很重要。; E5 `9 D# O- e7 K3 O: P$ \& Q% ]
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?0 }& O3 @; D; u& x0 P/ B
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？5 ?6 c4 c( b8 t$ ]5 h
At one point, there was a reason we do something. " R' D0 i4 Y8 R0 |( ^( g在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。6 C* U M" D( s, P/ ?3 O9 K5 Y3 r
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.' Z- D) C: K+ n. w& G. G( K! }. v
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 # U c: \7 P) oIt's always could to ask ourselves why.( l: t( A e4 _
总是可以问问自己为什么。 J8 h/ _- j3 u9 x& {6 O5 lWhy did I start to learn a language? * P1 q$ O* E, Z4 r为什么我开始学习一种语言？+ h) Z1 L' L" @- o% y- m
Why did I join this club?* _$ x- D' s4 N1 n* c7 m
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 8 `& M8 P/ a# JWhy my friend was this person?% r7 B. h; M0 G- U/ b5 a
为什么我的朋友是这个人？5 \* n. G9 C1 [4 _, _
Why did I get married?% Z5 w% ~: W; {+ M: ?; P
为什么我要结婚？ 5 l. P3 v( ^( NIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.+ p4 \2 Q& i0 p' U2 n( v; b: g# T# `
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。* B; @; g% W. t
I think we need indeed remind us of why.1 w0 g/ p' |- R! R) A z' E1 t
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 9 k& n' ^, u5 a7 T& s3 XOr else it's tough to finish what we started.! L& t9 V+ m# B9 Y
否则很难完成我们所开始的。8 g- ] a6 c- F- Q: j
We stop starting. We quit the club.5 F' }! q$ q& M
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 % N5 m8 a) V7 L9 O% h8 nWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ) z* h: I o7 p, \- X3 z: a我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 % v# T4 U/ v2 bThere's nothing wrong with asking why. ' R- R3 |. Y' Z1 C/ |# r; H& q& S% p问为什么没什么问题。 5 G& L; K% s% D: E6 V0 D+ j6 pIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.5 e7 `. j% S0 V# m
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。: I" x4 e- x) ^8 E) a2 r
Talk about it.2 K6 H8 \4 H6 P6 X. k
谈论下面的话题： & _9 d3 a& Q w. {1 V1 ~Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?3 c7 V2 G' b. ^8 \- Z% N7 `
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 3 j, Y( w, X. _% v) |% W, Q! l. h4 fIs it a kind of distant memory? - o |, o( |+ h% ^$ b" {8 E5 P4 i它是一种遥远的记忆？& S$ C7 K* A1 k# B6 h8 _+ F3 F
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... # j9 | W/ T1 [2 X1 _1 O你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 9 H9 Z7 t+ O2 Q9 MHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?/ k9 X* i3 B5 I" V& Z
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ $ e. d! N' o# gDo you write memos? $ k8 z) _7 s4 |) X$ A% B% `你写备忘录吗？ * Y9 i4 V/ F$ Y) U! X# DDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?5 ]1 U# Z6 h/ }" z- i& P2 v
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 3 N, z5 @/ I+ ]8 M+ R) r6 t) P: FWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?, P6 j' [# P: }: s+ |
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 9 ~) O" s. o+ y. B- oWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ' A, M) ?# N$ Y7 j, b0 u你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？