标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something% }% p7 E. e- \* e' x
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记住我们为什么做某事 2 X4 ~ }4 i; y! Y' M( g4 t4 P! Y+ NSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.$ Z) F$ D( l/ w7 {4 X# [
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。! v0 l+ r: x& F# a1 z ^
Have you ever done that?* Y( i, ?" a, I
你曾有过这种经历吗？$ P% R5 b( S& t4 H! [
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.+ X2 [' w6 J: }; H: ]! ]
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 , S' B% I3 G( f4 E5 b. J& m: KI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 5 J$ g5 O9 [/ g7 z我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。* c5 A) O7 q1 X
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. , Y$ k1 j; o. ~; {然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ) ]2 @/ e! A) |, ?' [ A/ e( J9 @Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.* n5 ^0 c8 T. C6 T9 k
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 : Q4 E8 j+ q m- G7 u5 H _3 b4 HThat's a memory problem. 6 U9 \% n. L+ P这是一个记忆问题。: m# m, X S U8 I
I guess that counts too.0 M9 z/ A& r5 `. C
我想那很重要。 6 |- n" M5 X8 [' s) f# ^/ ?+ e2 pBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?/ M9 o+ u# ~+ T* |/ x4 F
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ) b- J) D( a; c! t3 g% X RAt one point, there was a reason we do something.+ Q, F* b) k/ ?& ~/ c& u
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 y" q, q# c& G2 c8 iFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.. K1 R/ R+ l- x
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。% g0 e) G9 H. q
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 1 [+ y5 O h3 g2 K* t& J) b% d) e总是可以问问自己为什么。 # V5 r* B" D/ Z. _, x$ HWhy did I start to learn a language? ! R8 w. J! y5 G9 s5 F& m0 r4 r为什么我开始学习一种语言？( A# r* ]/ x) W: B6 J
Why did I join this club?& Q* d9 b4 {8 V
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ / G$ w7 p1 n. A+ k/ FWhy my friend was this person?& t4 j% A6 K. f# b: f" w7 l Q
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ / w. `7 C4 A; B* NWhy did I get married? / L5 ]8 R. T! J f. R3 H为什么我要结婚？) _: u" x& Q h* n+ j
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 6 R' x" g) T0 g0 e" \' B如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 * \# C( ~: u6 SI think we need indeed remind us of why. / e( L( J, h5 c- Q/ C( W我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ( H! J- U. ^+ I/ w' e6 G7 y8 g- |1 fOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 1 }9 n: E+ B, W$ o否则很难完成我们所开始的。 . {& H. t+ M6 @% t1 s" M) ^* HWe stop starting. We quit the club.% C- A+ y L+ B: q/ n/ W4 k
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 9 _0 Y7 [# l, S( K8 sWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. * {/ }: Q; a/ ^+ w& n3 Q我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。, H m/ _3 Z z0 g6 `
There's nothing wrong with asking why. * _9 G) N* |) J$ ]" @4 S问为什么没什么问题。' I1 h& \) Z" A8 }: J$ u( R/ R
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.# G3 C- p Y0 X) V' c2 s
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 8 n2 ?8 n" C( p1 JTalk about it.- X+ _) H, G- X
谈论下面的话题：6 `2 x6 m- l' Q
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?7 {" z3 `; _' B! S# n6 M% M
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 1 m( s. v* {* G! ^, T7 x) Z9 uIs it a kind of distant memory?4 y. j. Y k% P" k% X0 ^
它是一种遥远的记忆？1 K5 z. ~7 X1 _$ z4 U7 T. j
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...! m& y1 N8 u* J
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 7 L5 R6 v; W8 r# X2 \5 I( g6 PHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ; f' Z# s4 s) Q+ o' @你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？" J9 o* b) \/ p$ a6 B
Do you write memos?1 Q j3 X3 R. Y; \# x; ^
你写备忘录吗？8 j v S4 s+ @+ E5 ^% S
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?" m- l B( ^7 Q- H. H2 V' W+ j
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？% q" T6 z: |) j4 h5 w* i; P+ y& u
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? V' U0 G/ V+ @9 j; @9 P
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？7 Q7 G+ x% T6 h5 ^
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?9 a, {7 J3 Q9 t& i( T* q4 C
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？