标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something6 Q! Y" H# ]4 j& X6 o) L; i
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记住我们为什么做某事 2 u- h- b. w9 l. q4 o2 i0 v+ NSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.& a" s+ b. {- L$ W! I9 L( N' H
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。4 X1 g5 G* h6 D7 _1 R* ]
Have you ever done that?! j$ h; J W1 D. d- `0 @, I
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 7 R6 p+ {2 \$ b0 ~I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. : p1 a# X5 p% K7 _: c# q我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 % z: L; O5 q5 N K* R$ }I have called someone because I want to tell them something.( L# q9 e. ]0 h
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 $ R/ e: R0 z& ` _* ^6 AAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.8 y! |; M2 R6 K& H% u) z: Z
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。! o' ?8 b; \. a$ P% h" d/ A* G% W
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ) R) S8 X3 a- Z8 N K哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 , I( r& s5 P* @1 ZThat's a memory problem.+ h2 ^8 w7 `! E0 ^# t5 R2 q
这是一个记忆问题。 3 H+ ]0 v1 i1 O8 {I guess that counts too.+ {7 Q9 X; Z* c- x, A% R: q
我想那很重要。+ C4 j) _! C1 \5 T7 h
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 7 ]+ i3 E( M `- M$ q V k但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ , a7 N9 d9 `. j& dAt one point, there was a reason we do something. & N, v; }% N7 j4 ~0 h, y. g0 R在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。2 i# B7 d: N h* u$ f
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ! v+ M/ W- a$ y$ s) b* ]对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。/ A, @* g! q1 W# Z" d4 O
It's always could to ask ourselves why. * q" Q* Z* s& X$ a: Y# G总是可以问问自己为什么。 3 g, ^) S6 `2 f+ j$ {( {5 UWhy did I start to learn a language?8 J! h4 X% h! t
为什么我开始学习一种语言？8 C0 g, H0 C x% R6 A5 F9 p
Why did I join this club?4 Z1 k; }. G, r7 A$ o
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 0 N/ {$ R7 R1 b, h* RWhy my friend was this person?; N. y1 O1 v8 J5 N+ m2 [2 v+ z
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ / n0 M* f. Q. C3 n# cWhy did I get married? ' { |3 c# i! p& b! q" ~' _( a9 G; m为什么我要结婚？ 5 D p; B5 n+ z& YIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 8 Z' I7 q* q9 Q如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ; i, j: `7 C9 r" V/ SI think we need indeed remind us of why.+ B; `) ~/ I; W. L$ S+ c5 s
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。0 _) q3 i6 l* r7 C# s; o- G) w+ b9 Q
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.% D. h6 S; f0 f( S) O
否则很难完成我们所开始的。+ E1 W4 r, \( o2 ~
We stop starting. We quit the club. + K* t [5 ?* r. Q我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。6 l; X+ A; a1 A3 \
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ( u- d" g0 B+ I- \8 [2 c" H我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。. H* t" F* o& X) w2 F1 S: C$ @! k0 V
There's nothing wrong with asking why.. R' V. p, f" e& G) ?9 S
问为什么没什么问题。4 e$ V6 O+ x) k0 @ ?& d% Q; _
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 6 m" d- p0 q5 n" C事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 * u% a4 k# E/ W5 x9 w7 `Talk about it.: U- } z- R" i8 G' Q9 m
谈论下面的话题： . U: {& b1 ~- a/ i4 ZIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ( n1 G& A' X u( p* j4 L你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ( O Y( h9 U! ]" h, I/ UIs it a kind of distant memory?0 v1 j0 q0 l8 _1 _- v' X, j
它是一种遥远的记忆？ / O/ V- A3 m( _( X7 ?Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 8 y5 Z$ j7 A8 F+ r你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ) A( I% k1 [; X N* ?How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?. p! ^- P9 I6 I- Z( o3 U
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 4 C% T- ~' [& b- F) e# ?Do you write memos?- T3 P0 P8 ~# J' N
你写备忘录吗？4 {2 T. l: c& n& {5 |4 [
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? : n: D% s/ q, `$ q: {你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？- z( a6 e+ z9 s
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ' w! I8 Q) S. U8 ~( R8 E还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？! G) O' m* p% X# x2 [0 c
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?7 l1 } ?3 i0 p! @
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？