标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something % ]; R9 e# U4 {6 B! P6 I8 k4 ~3 l$ Y2 d, B, o! c- U( ?! P
记住我们为什么做某事+ l7 q. V! F( Y/ E* p* k* g9 y
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. c+ v$ i* @) P- Q1 F4 M有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 5 ]6 _! h$ ^8 H* O [4 CHave you ever done that? ; {+ G4 \2 D5 \0 |你曾有过这种经历吗？ / p ~! U5 m0 m# f' x/ M" DI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. . I+ g8 Y5 C9 B0 g. y我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。3 P% O9 l, r* P; @
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.- r4 r; h! o$ t2 i6 _8 I
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。7 @0 [) ]+ l/ H; Y( N% F
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.4 }6 C9 E" L1 ?; q( x* c
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 # J( |: L& X9 A B( z- JWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ! \; a7 x! U& q哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。2 x3 u# H4 u+ }* r: l
That's a memory problem. 4 R' `- U Q( Q这是一个记忆问题。2 Y& x% u0 `) n$ c$ B2 y
I guess that counts too. ! `! Y) {& ^8 v+ M# U/ T我想那很重要。8 q4 y$ o+ {- ^3 o- i/ s
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ' E! t; ^ _& O. Y1 s/ }% H0 l w: d5 M但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？8 b& H3 f5 A9 q6 h6 E* p
At one point, there was a reason we do something. V0 h+ M. m2 D
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。2 b! X3 L" Q( }/ R9 [, g
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. - t5 J0 ?6 b) F% O/ r! _2 y( K对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ) a0 e8 y/ O# K* GIt's always could to ask ourselves why.. L( [1 ^, p `% o
总是可以问问自己为什么。 0 V$ h& i( V! v: B. N0 cWhy did I start to learn a language? ( J& L5 \" }, O" e6 v$ d为什么我开始学习一种语言？% y' P) {- g2 @
Why did I join this club? ! @/ w* E! I+ L& Q$ ^4 U为什么我加入这个俱乐部？, l! C5 Z8 _2 x7 \5 F+ ]- a: F( @
Why my friend was this person? $ l& w6 l6 o @# f# G, Q为什么我的朋友是这个人？4 D% {( b$ {' Z! @1 l/ }0 T
Why did I get married? + V8 S9 A2 j% k' G' r5 \2 ~为什么我要结婚？/ I! \; {% n$ X# h: j
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.3 b/ T, c, `; T' W' u. a& N
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 , y3 J7 ^/ [1 z( pI think we need indeed remind us of why. X5 K" o" a' d P* M# {2 @
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 5 G, t- m, l) cOr else it's tough to finish what we started.# K7 _) i9 [" X; T
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 $ l5 e [: y5 s9 W: q9 ?( QWe stop starting. We quit the club.' l9 c8 ?) R1 }3 R4 {2 I
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。, }8 b, I/ `) j
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ) R" E: i) l1 e) e我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。; P, v, c/ X: l/ d6 P' G
There's nothing wrong with asking why. # t A' _) ?- ~( Z$ B8 F7 e问为什么没什么问题。 & ] V$ `) |/ k. k/ OIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.8 E" [) O J. b1 U
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。1 G- ]$ A# z+ |
Talk about it.& A; g* O# n" N( P
谈论下面的话题：' `0 u7 U$ s; E" U/ j3 G
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?4 y1 J3 |) _1 ?
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？5 a9 V5 F |+ O# U/ G* o
Is it a kind of distant memory? M# {# Q# b0 @4 P6 X它是一种遥远的记忆？; x3 j" f$ [/ }! m) \
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...( X. u: E [ p% z3 [
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……- x1 V( b- L8 h9 W0 {' Z
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 0 [; [' O' I; I5 h# n6 j* ^7 N, b/ J$ {你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？7 K: |* f% G, o8 q
Do you write memos? K7 _0 d. ~- p; G. k3 X
你写备忘录吗？! i" u( c) \+ Y6 z" Q
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?# |( S6 o; n8 q, o1 s
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？3 q% e) j- G$ L! K& Q
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 8 ?6 X& a& |4 W/ R# ]还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ $ e6 P. a* a3 h s3 H, BWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?8 s' S/ d7 M# w8 V7 k P
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？