标题: 美文赏析:记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析:记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something: i/ I" M7 I: a5 n: P
5 L8 s2 C2 E, O+ r! J. m9 C记住我们为什么做某事: H! c) Y+ R) _( q7 P' |
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing." Y& y0 t0 ^1 [4 ]& V( u
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。, v* y) X8 {# _3 b w" K' S4 A
Have you ever done that?1 I# i+ f1 B& W9 {4 s& A& U$ m7 W
你曾有过这种经历吗? ( G3 A- t4 s' s7 P8 ~4 x* ^1 G# FI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.$ s3 ]2 t9 G7 D; D& \9 p
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。$ e0 \, a3 I3 x* D- P
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 7 I, I. G! N: z. [1 }4 A9 [我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。 7 d; A6 w' Z1 w; c! hAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.4 e/ j+ ]7 Z1 m+ a* r: E
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。5 k5 |3 S/ h: s0 {7 k* [; j
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. $ r; k i5 A B$ |7 l1 m哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 9 J [6 h' s3 [$ x, c0 W& h: A8 TThat's a memory problem.5 L* f* E- \3 [1 d9 a6 l
这是一个记忆问题。2 \8 M Q9 `& h5 q+ I" F& Z
I guess that counts too. E; I. ] k' _& y0 R我想那很重要。, H, I/ R9 E* G; j `4 h: @3 S% x
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?* |7 l5 {4 d3 w t/ F! D
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么? 7 T8 u4 k% o8 c' i3 u' f' d0 B( oAt one point, there was a reason we do something.5 F; e i2 H1 Y
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。 # k1 Q: E3 b6 W$ Y" P9 L1 WFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.: d( `, U/ p8 N3 S) `
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。 - X) D& m5 `, Q; v) u; g% z7 [It's always could to ask ourselves why.9 G! P% s( V$ X; U0 ~+ n `
总是可以问问自己为什么。7 L% m+ l; f% e) w4 O
Why did I start to learn a language?; ^, @" F2 p0 `
为什么我开始学习一种语言? q/ r, S( f' y
Why did I join this club? + U" }9 K. R p2 e7 @为什么我加入这个俱乐部?) F! ~ a1 Z: _, M
Why my friend was this person? . A7 x t2 V1 Y. W. {1 {! l* {/ N为什么我的朋友是这个人? * n6 e7 O# o. b* ^5 q+ s9 H; xWhy did I get married? 4 l: M% ]8 |( j6 V' B3 \为什么我要结婚? `! ?4 ^9 `) r$ ~If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.6 s6 I* e" ], e, a9 l) b
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。 # ?" _7 t+ v, R, F! q' gI think we need indeed remind us of why. " C# R' w( f. e% ^6 X; Z- }我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。: j* J5 }! e, _9 T* x$ Q# ]
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 5 N9 E! v. S* }& }% _否则很难完成我们所开始的。 + z/ |( O2 H$ gWe stop starting. We quit the club.$ F2 X$ q8 W; X+ e. S0 ^1 b
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。6 ?4 B* ]8 y8 f$ g! l k- O
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.; g z" t! q# x9 ~
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。" J* [7 w0 E% _8 d# H, `& t
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 6 K- J4 d4 z% W y% v/ e问为什么没什么问题。 ' C' j7 I" c; C. B( j+ s5 XIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.5 a4 s% v1 u. c4 I4 V
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 - j; m6 w2 U$ [: h: a5 fTalk about it. 9 o! z2 p5 q! o( J5 e, k! m' M* {5 Y, u谈论下面的话题:; \- [" ^, w5 E( x4 G5 q8 h" A
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ' q7 }5 O8 g8 P3 z( D% i你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗? . w, Q. I" j* F8 A5 {9 u; r; pIs it a kind of distant memory? + s l) e, k- p7 Y" P- L& d% `它是一种遥远的记忆?% c5 V/ M% e4 {, W4 u0 r! h
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...& I) F' p0 O1 `' N$ M* U6 }# Z& H
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……: k$ }6 e V) @1 ]- |; k2 j2 u
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? , B% |. S9 Z( s你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗? ( m7 O' g7 d' x/ r* PDo you write memos? 9 H: X& f8 F' D2 F! j( {你写备忘录吗? 6 `, Q) y G/ Z& J6 @8 D+ x2 MDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 8 J2 R0 W1 I7 j你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?- v2 F; J/ N4 c$ ]/ o3 A0 u% S
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?8 d' w6 G- w& }4 g4 L8 ~. _4 f' y
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?- l) z. e7 j; ~
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ! N1 p9 P9 Q5 S2 O+ s; j" @你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办?