标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something , B+ [+ h7 Z# u& r# N5 b) X7 d% S6 F9 e6 o. b( @2 o: f9 `
记住我们为什么做某事* |, X p* A f
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.7 K* a) y# s; ?2 a2 X# I6 D! ]
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。% W' V/ E' Y( }$ J# L
Have you ever done that?' t/ S0 Z. X9 h
你曾有过这种经历吗？9 {6 p- j8 V6 o& D3 A# K
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.0 \! k2 ~2 F) T
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 7 R8 s: U, x" f' q, YI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 1 k5 X. Y2 o! Y( h我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。4 L$ L6 e: Y7 s Q5 _& N
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 5 a6 [9 }# |+ X: \9 g然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 7 `) r8 Q0 `! S4 g, `Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ! D5 W( n) f% ~* A: t哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 $ ?& ~8 F6 ^2 N' W* F: @That's a memory problem. # H2 Y' |' z) y3 \# O. T* T6 j这是一个记忆问题。' T) I1 b1 Y9 R" i
I guess that counts too.& i5 e" h3 s- k$ O1 M2 {
我想那很重要。 * m k* ? `' p/ dBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?8 y- X8 |1 Z7 e! `
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 2 e m" r( O' J& FAt one point, there was a reason we do something.. y% g$ A' c" a' f' U) ]2 C) b7 ^
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 3 B) M! i! B+ M5 [' M2 _! qFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.' A+ H: q- e, s( w. P+ Q
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。5 |+ |/ K. V! D% f; e3 T! Q
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 0 ]0 h; G) h& P% g" L总是可以问问自己为什么。$ r, @$ N( W h7 y+ i' M/ q. A
Why did I start to learn a language?9 Y1 @; o) a* }7 `
为什么我开始学习一种语言？- K& H% T# _9 T/ g
Why did I join this club? / S3 J. Z# O7 S4 y为什么我加入这个俱乐部？9 V/ P. V v( o
Why my friend was this person? 2 U2 k! K+ V+ Z8 I! E为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ; D- H9 A3 G( ]/ n BWhy did I get married? , w, T6 C9 @9 L* z4 q2 |0 F7 J$ \, w6 P为什么我要结婚？8 A/ t$ g+ m3 }+ L# X
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.; ?0 ]3 G6 c4 F0 t
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。8 @1 K# B. t% a" G% V) C
I think we need indeed remind us of why. ) ^2 J( |" e9 N3 l9 ?" ` ^我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。0 [/ X& y& ^1 k- c$ q9 N5 E: F ]
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.+ ~' c2 V2 q, e/ @7 l' F4 c" E z" r
否则很难完成我们所开始的。; Q9 u6 c& B7 S4 l
We stop starting. We quit the club.0 O6 F) z7 V) E2 d# F a
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ! @; w- T) ?8 F) { B8 oWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. \, |& j. A: o, P- f3 v
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。0 u& G* X' b* K* S8 J/ s% O
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ; k4 t- T! ] I6 O$ h问为什么没什么问题。& ]' t; ^- b* v* e( r: [" E
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.% t+ i( m0 y, X4 q8 v- Y
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 ! a) ^6 H9 u$ z0 c7 _+ i/ BTalk about it. G/ X3 T$ L( }- c. g谈论下面的话题： $ \7 n! w7 J' g9 N# ZIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?" L( F0 N( n. K1 r. E/ V
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ + I3 V4 I. s7 XIs it a kind of distant memory?8 E3 L3 L7 p1 v& \# H1 O, l
它是一种遥远的记忆？8 T; C# }: l# T- R( L# a- n/ q, {
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...7 `* f9 B$ @( X; e$ J
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……1 ^. x O8 |5 L
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?+ \9 R$ f. x, _4 Y
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ - y$ b" E! f: y5 CDo you write memos?2 b# X+ G7 R1 q2 M5 p$ Y6 I
你写备忘录吗？+ u1 R1 k4 L$ s
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?* n- z6 v! j) U8 {' N a8 w
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？4 b9 s4 Y1 Y8 ^# q% M( b$ u
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?% z; N4 _$ e" U5 } H4 W: _- |
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ' J/ O2 Z n5 _0 M: Y6 k9 BWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?% y9 p, k5 i, e2 _9 g7 t
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？