标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ; t+ S# d$ O; }! g7 R( ~. |- ` " P- S4 p: A: a5 w记住我们为什么做某事 6 w- `9 h. ?9 D. B; F" g' |# N8 J. U" {Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. # n. u% L; `6 f: m: S; ^4 c有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。& R$ I! x$ a' Z+ C7 ^- u
Have you ever done that? $ [8 m& N8 g. t3 I你曾有过这种经历吗？5 D! H5 A* l0 o7 F5 q C3 J
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 5 J6 i w1 b0 L4 y1 Q我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 . D; n$ z/ O6 ~. \ {$ d: V+ d7 o ^I have called someone because I want to tell them something. / V8 f, I: O- o: W# d/ A我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。" ~) N& {3 r+ }- C
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ) T4 h. H! U! p- c3 [3 A然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 % {. T7 F* W, n8 p1 g* P: F8 k2 ZWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.7 I3 {! H( r! J- [
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。7 V$ ~( G" J( t4 |
That's a memory problem. ' ^# Z2 u, J- x: K( n- y' L- R+ f这是一个记忆问题。 9 A* s8 P6 Z! ^: n. cI guess that counts too.# I6 X. Y( c0 `2 R3 ^1 v
我想那很重要。 6 o( Y3 T& h) s, O, GBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?4 u. G' J2 X0 i) m- a; O" X1 G
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？: a" s( K8 s' \$ K2 I/ c
At one point, there was a reason we do something., \4 q1 _: _5 m4 W6 F$ Y, W" T) M
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ( \: W Q! Z n2 `' M6 ?0 z" zFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. # {% u/ M% W. l9 V' G对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 " R: E1 O7 z' o% ~6 X( OIt's always could to ask ourselves why./ ?2 ?$ W! z/ T# \% S1 ?
总是可以问问自己为什么。* U7 j/ d9 U: \6 X+ l3 r: D
Why did I start to learn a language?7 {1 Y: w7 g( h- i# s1 a. X$ _& A
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ * w$ k, v5 c, T; \Why did I join this club? 9 m) a9 d/ N& l* j/ s! ^9 u为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ) m% [' ^$ i6 C1 t* Y2 W1 oWhy my friend was this person? . N5 `- c( C8 i2 v/ S: I为什么我的朋友是这个人？8 o& v# b; b) ^
Why did I get married? v% W# q/ S6 m$ R& m$ Y为什么我要结婚？: ~! | Y) H' ~& B8 ?. Z* \( l) }6 Z
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why./ H# j/ T: [4 i- O: d
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 + W9 `* B* v% i @I think we need indeed remind us of why.* N/ v% k' j& s- W! k( P
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ; v7 x! W$ f+ K1 _Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 4 H* T) l& h& B+ h5 b/ x, ~. e1 i否则很难完成我们所开始的。; q ]; c2 H% M
We stop starting. We quit the club.5 S: }0 e" X0 U# Y
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 + c2 D; R2 n, j; }* uWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.0 }; Q% }6 G' X& K, {5 t* o4 g# y
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 # |, B, _7 f- L' H1 FThere's nothing wrong with asking why.1 O' I T4 K7 O/ W* i' i
问为什么没什么问题。% `% f' e) `. v* R, j! t
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.0 P9 G( l1 l& }7 p& ^/ A9 n
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。% L4 P: ~) D7 l7 R9 C/ q. D
Talk about it. + Y6 a+ m; n* b3 E) W( Y% M谈论下面的话题： 1 j1 H% F8 ?$ E7 m" S) O9 OIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 6 [$ D; l: C2 j) N" X你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ * N9 h7 w: t) h# r- x$ O& ]& x. RIs it a kind of distant memory? / w, n$ z, O9 J4 A; @2 L' S8 B! i+ W* W它是一种遥远的记忆？ ( X" E M. {. |2 K1 EDid you ever forget why you are doing something... ( E5 @% M" J# L4 z, K- G* V7 ~你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……* h, y" |, [ n6 k
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 4 y* `( _/ Y# x$ Z3 w f你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？/ c3 r L4 R$ }) W4 U0 H
Do you write memos?6 C2 ]& n6 S |: K0 h
你写备忘录吗？; u" u) B8 n8 I
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 1 i/ s% M, E, S% _% M你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ " J! k4 U8 K1 AWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?5 l" O" c, d* _( r5 U9 W
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ) N y6 ?, ?4 Q9 p9 Q% FWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?! I. x: Z9 ?1 t( W3 Z' a% {: M
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？