标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something2 ?8 e. q; h3 L
, }4 v$ X' T" Z/ t记住我们为什么做某事 ; M6 q0 d0 N' W; f8 \' {' WSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.6 M, l! Q" A b/ s' C/ Y
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 3 r5 p- Q# f9 e5 w2 T" xHave you ever done that?9 y5 g4 i4 ]4 o; g e3 f6 ^
你曾有过这种经历吗？% y% j+ `8 V8 W9 m" }5 G7 H x# K
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. }- ~+ z0 o8 E& x
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ( K4 W* K1 Q' ^. ]( \( II have called someone because I want to tell them something. & a9 ]+ `, T% G2 O( [4 S: z. ]3 G4 U我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ) L/ Z+ h% H; E" S4 [And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. % U7 @+ |) ]) T h/ t然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。& g+ q& v7 }1 X8 _8 l
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.& }8 p [7 G7 g' a% o+ u, C* O
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 $ I- v9 c# }, E2 R" G3 N% x$ dThat's a memory problem.3 J/ X/ }6 A \ S5 i
这是一个记忆问题。% C+ l0 J5 B9 d/ o. L. _! R% ]$ T
I guess that counts too. 4 u% s& u8 a; R! {5 `6 z我想那很重要。3 B, V8 J. k# \4 A. p
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?8 N' ^: S/ J. Q X0 k8 ~- V
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？2 {) N" h( t t4 K( [# V
At one point, there was a reason we do something.- C5 U0 `( q Y& c# ?
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 8 x; \9 [2 i0 X3 F& ~For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. + w/ ]& O/ o2 r9 Y/ E对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。8 p {2 X* m% j+ j" I
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 6 B5 ?3 u0 i" `总是可以问问自己为什么。 $ I; Q7 s. O: v: \2 ] XWhy did I start to learn a language?: E3 N d8 D/ p, J: Q( J7 N
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ " W- T; W' l1 m' B' S6 XWhy did I join this club?& F6 O$ y' ^: n1 K4 |7 V7 p, b7 t
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？" N: x$ \0 H1 Z6 E& v
Why my friend was this person?' R. A* N* ^; E) ]5 x! G; U
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ " G, C) c$ I v3 k. hWhy did I get married? & ~& `' b4 n' Q1 g2 e为什么我要结婚？ ) C3 m6 C$ ^! I! P$ h* G4 k0 GIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.7 u4 ^' ^, g, Y& K; X
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 2 ]& k1 X p# ?' x! e7 uI think we need indeed remind us of why. 7 K; S; u0 D1 e: q& Q, p8 R我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 * t8 U! S8 e/ R2 B: rOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 6 {) N8 v3 q: j1 h4 X& }否则很难完成我们所开始的。6 p( D c7 ^4 @9 i( Z+ @2 W
We stop starting. We quit the club. " y1 Z6 g8 z- L& p/ `- K我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 6 [$ u7 Q- W+ v# g( @We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.0 N6 V6 M3 R, s# B
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。/ T9 ]" R, C) D2 E- E
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 5 ^ i; n1 c7 @9 h7 A% B5 r5 ?8 }问为什么没什么问题。 . @) w: X/ j2 {. N' }! ZIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. , ~+ h4 L2 L" g& x) S! c事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 / t( C) a8 v' _8 ATalk about it.8 ]) [9 x' w. D, w: }0 P& ]
谈论下面的话题：- r+ F6 l' [/ @3 v C/ ~* l1 N& G
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? $ T7 M, J" v ?7 j% f+ S4 m你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？& j+ f4 J2 C- i4 y" E; E W
Is it a kind of distant memory?2 E. [- l# Q s4 C. t( H
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 3 {& b) @, Y$ ~ L. E# \Did you ever forget why you are doing something... D2 H! D5 Q- H( t. t你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……/ y& m, N* _, X- P# u, s/ c' u$ g
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?; O: K+ @5 I$ s
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？8 l" w+ |7 T9 V
Do you write memos? 4 H8 m6 S" `! f+ E/ j2 \ Q1 T你写备忘录吗？ $ S) ^3 U9 ~# ]) ~$ y! x3 k( q& QDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?6 S* J' W0 }! t7 N
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？6 H& P6 s4 y" |- t% t |4 T
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?: U" a( Q, ]' C `7 r
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？( ?* L; v( E+ V
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?9 ]0 q- U8 V6 V4 a* g: C& o( d
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？