标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something" l: L! N" ^. z p
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记住我们为什么做某事 8 [! \. O8 c; u$ e* K. @Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 7 l- K5 }4 i$ H' y. j1 U7 M' d有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ! G# M0 e1 `, w$ RHave you ever done that? 3 l5 |. L5 X3 }2 J4 b- y, A/ N你曾有过这种经历吗？: B( S1 Z x! p% ~ T
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.1 H4 Z: I+ K, \ P' ?3 F& \
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。+ O! G& H2 \- y. y% E% j4 ?; [9 G3 n3 w
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.2 O, T4 l! t0 g% h" z2 P7 p
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。5 l6 r7 o0 h6 v& U
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.- C, U- T" _% W6 G/ c( }
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。5 C3 y* g+ _1 i! s! X
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 7 v$ k) E% D& X1 _4 A, R哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 & H* F2 ?: |6 W L- KThat's a memory problem. * L, e) D, i; w2 v8 H+ E" y这是一个记忆问题。 8 z" p) L8 |& p" i' GI guess that counts too.9 H. I# b( _+ x) n
我想那很重要。9 T! Y$ p m2 D1 O w2 m$ H
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? . ~5 r3 B# l# O" z f# {但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？* K/ Z5 Z" P: L" O
At one point, there was a reason we do something." G& p- \+ w4 s. I6 e7 p
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ! w/ x* P: |) K- MFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ' ?% j' t; [6 [ @对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 + V& l# ^) w% e' Z% B# N0 uIt's always could to ask ourselves why.4 d* Y9 b `! ^9 V; | Z: E
总是可以问问自己为什么。 " o1 v6 M+ A% O! n4 a5 oWhy did I start to learn a language? 1 R9 S; r0 r1 B( j7 A为什么我开始学习一种语言？0 C r& [: D. B
Why did I join this club?" l V$ l2 Q3 ~. x5 `: O- }- l
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？" f* I g) H% h- d- A0 [
Why my friend was this person? / H9 d& w% b% n为什么我的朋友是这个人？ , D$ ~2 x" P. q. BWhy did I get married?4 Z9 y( ?' L$ M+ p) s" o% E$ e
为什么我要结婚？ 9 {/ m: Y% g1 }2 }8 r- u9 k. pIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.! }) P+ [" p2 s0 F) }; o+ I$ P
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。+ ~+ |: X, w$ x. }: Z/ E& _
I think we need indeed remind us of why.2 G. o+ M1 D+ \5 ?
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。& p3 i9 P% U7 |" F( ], t
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.) @' c8 n: N9 i. T8 b/ U
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 / _& s0 |2 J7 r6 D8 m) F4 `We stop starting. We quit the club.0 x, y) o' O: h* F* s
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。1 x! | N7 N" V% f; z
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. + a8 M& X+ e( }我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ! b; G' P5 Z+ n5 ~There's nothing wrong with asking why." x# v. n+ s0 }
问为什么没什么问题。8 H8 w8 f1 b: c2 m4 C
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. . C" q" q% {6 V6 a事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 4 B1 i2 S, ^/ y. XTalk about it. . L" @: x/ O+ x$ v- `9 I谈论下面的话题： r- g. e* k( {/ T
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?4 {4 f! n$ r& B0 a% R
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ - x h8 G9 G' \6 \& RIs it a kind of distant memory?/ N3 Y2 R1 H8 M7 t5 Z
它是一种遥远的记忆？1 m) f4 ]- I2 K! \" @) J
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... ( V, T- H9 M' J1 }1 `/ ^" v你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……. u* C! K* x5 L4 [. h2 X! a$ G, I
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?0 m$ ?/ N7 ~$ I7 x
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？' m2 w8 u& b7 Z4 M5 Y
Do you write memos? : g4 m( ]6 ?* m! d' W你写备忘录吗？ 7 a9 D, e- r- l% ^0 v1 h/ D- e1 _. }Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?; @+ V& ~# W: }
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？) Z) h+ n6 s9 L
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 0 Y: R' ?. _' }9 U; B还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？3 M9 |- s$ |0 Y$ A$ O
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?! D# D0 z# ?. y8 `
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？