标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something+ R) c7 U& N" [+ T
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记住我们为什么做某事 9 z; [3 e b" Y- R$ v6 S3 e$ T7 dSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. J' d& m# q0 J: X7 [! W有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 } O. A) ]' w' IHave you ever done that?. N& {2 ^: W0 F3 a+ Q$ {" K2 F
你曾有过这种经历吗？ ) E( E" V4 x# H- wI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.; y9 d) B5 h2 a
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 & [/ |( Q! G- LI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 4 A1 n8 M5 w7 \! _: b5 A) B0 R我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。+ X4 I7 H( v4 ?& T( a
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.7 N/ J H- q* F
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。) |3 y( F+ |$ W' f% m) r
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. * g8 q+ n# c8 ?5 \% [& n哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。& _+ ~) q3 J7 g3 |
That's a memory problem. 5 i1 w6 R0 r, [这是一个记忆问题。& B N0 o. ]4 c; G* j
I guess that counts too. 8 E8 i9 K( N* v( y1 d4 S& X: n我想那很重要。 / v# Z8 t+ O" k4 a' bBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? / u0 S) u, a5 W w) [但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？3 Z# l' X$ g$ l$ A
At one point, there was a reason we do something./ `2 Q4 S6 Z, t( W9 k6 V/ O3 Z/ I
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 T p3 P8 J( U9 D4 t6 v& N; E
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.$ K% r5 d% {: o5 T2 O: E/ t
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ( g- r+ O+ F& b) f. LIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 7 y. o0 s( t0 ~+ S总是可以问问自己为什么。 , Y' J! ?" H2 v* j; N% [. YWhy did I start to learn a language? 7 L) O" W6 f9 y: }; h& v' a为什么我开始学习一种语言？7 v& W |0 m+ k5 Y( W* |
Why did I join this club?- Y$ \9 t1 |* m3 w. m+ L
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ . C- |" q3 r/ X* f b/ M- lWhy my friend was this person?; _5 F1 r) _4 s" i# B3 b% H. o, s
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ / `3 h+ Q# @ t+ _6 G2 Y& u8 t# TWhy did I get married? ' g& J8 [: r/ ~* |0 g, h$ e+ |- ^为什么我要结婚？ ( y5 j2 R+ [" y5 ?1 `1 CIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.4 K; j+ V6 q" y8 L
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 3 T" B1 Q; O3 n7 v# M4 EI think we need indeed remind us of why. . a6 W1 C% s/ Q: c# a X我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。# x! Y& T0 n1 e( {
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.+ S4 z" s# z; q( t1 j; p B$ U9 \
否则很难完成我们所开始的。" d3 ]! k' w7 I" n7 P/ y3 d8 ]
We stop starting. We quit the club. 3 S# C) O( o$ i$ u+ [5 j/ U我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。* W" j" Q9 W9 }4 q
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.* Z& b" @! D/ f0 J" F
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。* f! [) H& p1 `: Q# V' L
There's nothing wrong with asking why.4 {( t3 ~3 B! V5 V6 f% y
问为什么没什么问题。! I+ H2 `6 t% K0 k5 t
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ) Y* l' \4 h8 E! J6 k1 m, u' `' h* Z事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 4 ^2 @; Y' u; l6 v- T* J6 W, [" LTalk about it.. V6 L; K2 w9 N; o B; ]4 w
谈论下面的话题： * U0 x, Z* l3 y" u4 xIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?9 V- y5 C5 c* A) E/ c
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ - A, I! i1 r# G" Q& `Is it a kind of distant memory? 6 }" o6 D5 Z: ?) p$ u' ^4 E它是一种遥远的记忆？ 9 ^4 k9 ?" Y' IDid you ever forget why you are doing something...1 N8 R: c& q: P8 |/ V
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……8 n8 j* L, X9 i( P7 ~
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? - |2 q+ a" V! u5 N5 `; ?4 Y你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ & b2 G* @2 ~, k. q8 c9 rDo you write memos?7 R: |* r) E: C- n G9 T- m
你写备忘录吗？ . a- P; N2 Z7 s- L" ~ UDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?8 m0 X; j9 J7 T" c" d9 f3 o8 I
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 3 L( i! |% A" sWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?; A6 ^% A4 E" ^" l* l1 [* P$ y6 w* _* w3 ]
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？! F4 I8 G0 q, ?" u( O) Q/ ^
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?3 R- [( r8 j% N1 _* ?
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？