标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something' M3 O0 V! ~! M" N
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Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.7 E, [, W! t% @4 F: n7 u! u
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。4 I1 c1 U+ D) z; r! K1 A, x2 N
Have you ever done that?4 U- d2 u% `' Q% z' t# k( o+ w' U% c
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 0 ~0 M( f3 r3 N. l4 q4 n8 f9 d* EI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.1 [; a6 W% o5 h' c
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。1 a& _' q: D2 l* f5 a$ y" H: r" n9 l
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.5 k2 k. r I6 _' u3 @8 S; Q
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。! Y+ g j) `; ?. ^2 A, d) Q
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. # i( ?' W: O$ t; u& D8 |然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。* U' c7 N: o3 @, U. n8 [
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ) v; j( t2 S" q6 i9 f; M哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 * m1 {# v& {5 {3 t* q( uThat's a memory problem.$ z- f1 L# q& l/ i
这是一个记忆问题。 9 b- q+ A6 R$ w; xI guess that counts too.& m7 F# S \4 E
我想那很重要。0 i7 J* F# Z; Z
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 4 v; n/ D9 ]1 r但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？) F) @4 d% i( E: @# {6 n' H+ \
At one point, there was a reason we do something. * I/ V+ X- f/ F! G, q/ x ^在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。% a7 I! x) h9 Q8 j) J* i x
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. . q/ w2 S3 I0 t1 y9 d' i' S; h对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 6 G7 A; p$ u1 u J/ ~8 LIt's always could to ask ourselves why. / ^2 G. j9 f2 O2 _总是可以问问自己为什么。 8 i% [$ _. ?! {; _2 T3 z9 ZWhy did I start to learn a language?3 i& L+ T! @8 C; G
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 1 x/ M9 e" `$ Y( F0 kWhy did I join this club? 0 w1 A- @& L7 A为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ e8 X) u2 I1 @8 i0 y! n. d5 `" l
Why my friend was this person? & ?" X/ u( I- P9 F; y为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ( W7 W' @8 D9 G6 UWhy did I get married? 6 i. ~1 b+ w4 b为什么我要结婚？+ m0 s' ?0 n4 i1 ]4 A. n4 b6 }
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 0 b3 _& t5 y$ {5 j E) \+ K如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 0 t# Y- v8 O5 ?3 p; w3 KI think we need indeed remind us of why. # O3 E! U9 _, x) ^1 H我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 5 u5 f% l9 r% ~. p$ IOr else it's tough to finish what we started. # @. n' B8 j1 b( d- ^/ _否则很难完成我们所开始的。+ Q8 g+ R m5 Z: y" l* h
We stop starting. We quit the club. 8 ]$ C, L6 N: e我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。9 M: O }6 d/ I& q
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. * x6 t) z4 ?1 ]7 O* h( ]我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 0 L7 K, k/ t; D; qThere's nothing wrong with asking why.1 e7 G9 b/ n, n a% c8 U
问为什么没什么问题。, h8 P3 D9 L. G" o9 e6 W# p
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. : s. O' o5 M3 ^1 Z5 F事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。8 |3 C+ d# {* ]0 k0 @$ W) D8 K
Talk about it.* w1 K) Q; i3 ?% @+ [2 a
谈论下面的话题： / T( L1 Y) Z' p' {, R7 VIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?" O- E( z( F2 T7 `1 q
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？# {: ^$ p9 `3 J) c1 }% Z" v9 |
Is it a kind of distant memory?/ g, g2 B3 H7 j
它是一种遥远的记忆？5 G* @; p0 m9 o1 O# Y1 M
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...; j0 d' @) g, d) o4 A
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……% B8 ~- j( }2 c$ I( e
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 8 O/ ^% W) C/ X2 E" T' w& i你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？% ~: m7 `2 y' h
Do you write memos? 7 [2 `9 ?" N, {0 y7 C' _2 D0 v你写备忘录吗？5 S' ^7 F& W" p# O1 E( |1 O( O
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 6 w4 @& ~# d2 q5 a/ ?你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ $ ~# M- Y; F5 W$ w; {What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?6 K( n: D" p# j4 x
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？8 E$ X' Q) _. s9 [: w" ~" k! P
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ' h, F) e$ |9 X你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？