标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 4 M" b, J7 W, V) ]) _& F/ }* V: L/ D
记住我们为什么做某事9 {" P' q& ^$ R" x% g8 S* P' G$ }
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 8 y V5 ?1 a& T# p3 ~5 z有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 4 a& [" k. X- d& h! hHave you ever done that?* W; u2 T& R1 q
你曾有过这种经历吗？/ m5 h5 s+ H' Q( A( b8 E3 d3 w! N0 ^
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. # M3 f1 ~$ ~; U6 `2 [" {我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 0 N! `! D i; Q2 U7 c5 e. _( AI have called someone because I want to tell them something. ; t0 y2 ^* Z( M1 d我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 \4 p3 S3 {, [$ }6 dAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular./ o8 p% w5 _# i" z- z
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。+ c1 Z) E4 N9 R0 C# n; m
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 4 M) d# U& M' h- q: G2 c4 w哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ' Z" `0 C4 ?$ ^) W+ a6 i6 [, mThat's a memory problem. ' v" @2 I2 t$ C5 J) k$ n) w J( v这是一个记忆问题。% y( H" C5 T, @) c2 m9 t2 d1 U
I guess that counts too.! v; H. u0 t: d/ V
我想那很重要。 : O* U/ U. @' M6 P8 Q D5 GBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ; i1 I- w6 ~5 {1 L但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？7 e/ U# C- Q: b j3 P- q
At one point, there was a reason we do something. % {2 t: x4 T8 l% w3 U9 c2 d) M在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ]/ A' n0 O g8 f* x5 [
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.: }* }7 D# H* M- H; S4 W
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ! ~1 W, t( W% q+ g! @It's always could to ask ourselves why. ) @7 f6 J# m8 @" P" Z" R: b+ Y) _总是可以问问自己为什么。 3 k5 }2 s4 c) R6 k1 {6 C6 U- J2 K! HWhy did I start to learn a language?3 A& a6 X% a" o9 O2 M
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ " B, A5 _% U( Z6 SWhy did I join this club?/ A1 n0 B+ A7 G! Q7 ~
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？8 q3 X6 E5 {" Y
Why my friend was this person? & H0 |* d, @0 T' Y; U& c5 b t/ f为什么我的朋友是这个人？ : s, J' @# G K/ c+ FWhy did I get married?6 l. O6 X d# P; W( q$ L
为什么我要结婚？ T& y! n3 ~; N0 E1 t5 Z/ |* tIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. * b3 K4 n! a3 c3 }- C如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 , o# Q3 m+ Z1 F; DI think we need indeed remind us of why.) {3 g% i1 L! }/ C! V, z
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ) j! A6 `# |+ Y( n# Y% NOr else it's tough to finish what we started. $ u, e3 A' U5 O1 `否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ) ?. b2 k f$ z5 X% E7 a' lWe stop starting. We quit the club.% U9 D; Z9 b$ A7 ?5 x% A
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。9 q- l x+ i- e( }, A2 [
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged." T8 k& p# x% Q- T- w5 V
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 + c D ^) ~0 k) L: j- s9 G$ i4 P+ zThere's nothing wrong with asking why.8 v9 a* @/ e) r7 _9 H. {
问为什么没什么问题。0 R( L8 O" I& \6 R$ j+ j5 |
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing., Z6 R; M4 r! S- b% H, l
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 4 k% w+ ?6 r, h5 |& o! }5 Q. h9 ATalk about it. # i) p H2 l' t谈论下面的话题： & B* n5 ~- A; J9 vIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?( M0 }: y' r2 @7 w3 p0 q
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ' h3 L# \( q0 D- W' J% G: pIs it a kind of distant memory? / e5 }1 E2 q. z+ b; e它是一种遥远的记忆？) t: j9 @1 i* t5 `3 m4 c1 B- @/ | L
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... ; z1 V4 F- H: C) B你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……( B0 t- A! |# O% \5 b- g
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 0 \. H4 h) R6 [! Z2 \3 l. p& F你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？2 [$ R" d2 E' H% A/ R1 U
Do you write memos?3 B/ r' R1 e. b+ ~% [
你写备忘录吗？! E4 g P$ c( c5 q
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? * X6 h4 C8 S$ ^. M你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？2 g4 T _" y$ V. n( t: K' y' c/ y
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?5 t0 j( G8 G, o# t
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ " \7 f( |8 n2 k: zWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ( {3 m# ~7 p: A. \1 V& ]5 {你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？