标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something! h! B# ~0 ~& s, y" t, h' Q1 c
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记住我们为什么做某事# D. J8 K" ` w2 e4 e) X! `
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 0 C! p3 }0 q6 s$ \有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。& d" P) T, P- {8 n% H
Have you ever done that?' p0 L" t- r" I( g W1 W' U7 f
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 3 l2 ~! N0 c; q a9 dI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.! i& g4 i& r. Z* S' T5 l# p
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 r; H" N% ~* C% s2 ?
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 9 ?; }, o4 D: z& Z% i+ Q我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。% A; I% m9 j0 p& @) {; \) l
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. $ B- k) ]1 J$ a! u* Z7 B然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。! n& `: Z; f( P1 K/ Z0 `& [
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.. N+ z$ Z2 C2 ~. O
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 % C& G T0 H. x2 b5 p! ] VThat's a memory problem. * X9 ~+ u$ J% C3 M- j这是一个记忆问题。, k4 C8 H4 K( a c
I guess that counts too. 0 z' {* h2 A# B! {+ w% [8 ]4 O _" G' a" E我想那很重要。 - z/ k# \1 U* J }& ~But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? v h& T! G( c) F1 U但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？, p& Q4 x2 G* J* {6 w5 K/ q% X) x
At one point, there was a reason we do something. . z5 U2 Z1 E0 n2 j1 a% I. U在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 0 b- K" P' h( u0 }( M/ sFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. / e) w% z- U" t- f对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。' w9 K6 {$ Z8 v- Y1 f
It's always could to ask ourselves why. ! {' Z, Z1 w$ I, G/ \2 D总是可以问问自己为什么。# d$ x! X9 L" D. G3 ^2 C
Why did I start to learn a language?" ? K+ N7 o7 X0 \7 }
为什么我开始学习一种语言？7 S# c$ p( E6 U4 y5 ] X
Why did I join this club? & i& z8 R5 |8 }/ u# e0 K; M为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ : P" x2 f& M6 xWhy my friend was this person?3 Q- } `7 P" r7 Q. U K! o
为什么我的朋友是这个人？/ C& x. h4 g1 t! g0 N: y& R$ @) U
Why did I get married?8 j$ S, f# Z2 B! {) g/ y
为什么我要结婚？ . Z h1 a- `4 ?$ l7 J* LIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. % O1 l& \3 o1 y2 }如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。( r1 ~ v! c9 X! p" ~5 Q
I think we need indeed remind us of why.* R7 H$ O, H- y- ?2 ~0 g) Q2 N
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。6 t0 I( j. x2 I0 y# d$ n
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 1 j$ G+ l4 b: u, h( a7 b否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ! o: [, K- d5 d6 V# L& hWe stop starting. We quit the club.7 F- R: [: I: v9 w$ {( X" Q
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 & Z q# D5 N) D5 x7 }& Q& O, WWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.: o& I0 }2 u, a: e/ t9 R
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ; ~' [5 d" V4 ?8 W) w8 \There's nothing wrong with asking why.+ t4 s" \: V5 ?' K! g4 k- Q
问为什么没什么问题。( U ?( [* q0 T, M. }6 O) E: A, E1 k
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. & r; N: _& ?* E6 O) e' q7 O1 C事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。1 P) h0 T' y; G* r( a3 D
Talk about it.& t6 Q: n. e( Q; u Q5 p
谈论下面的话题： % ?! [0 j/ R) m" v0 v; j! H2 VIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?) ?, c+ ?( A; V) c, r
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？# C% u+ H0 C( ]" U' H, ?1 [
Is it a kind of distant memory? 4 \) p) D `5 D- F: E) K. b' |它是一种遥远的记忆？: C: w0 F3 l, I: ~7 \0 J
Did you ever forget why you are doing something..., }% Y: ]- M( u+ N
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ( g/ e5 N | |How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ; L$ r3 b& L. N6 c8 i" x2 K+ K* u你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？3 U6 Y/ B% J& c4 q; z2 W$ g( i
Do you write memos? " P2 Z/ i) |+ o' g7 a; p+ m你写备忘录吗？ C/ ^! @) ~5 P7 p) A7 K; M
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? / O* U' ~' w+ H2 A& }0 q3 i/ ~你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？1 l5 H* v& v0 }& X! W
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?) y I X. V+ V2 u# h
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ! U, U9 ]8 ]- W3 @9 VWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?9 p( p m/ R4 Y2 P0 a; Y0 @
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？