标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 2 k: Q3 `5 l# U . \$ c$ k, O& [, {3 R记住我们为什么做某事 g+ O$ E4 P' N; [! [Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.5 g- z- e5 G7 H* @0 H- k% P& W% b
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。+ J9 }9 B6 N. x! c6 M/ w
Have you ever done that? $ B H/ H. L9 @0 ^* J' ~你曾有过这种经历吗？+ d$ h5 z* l7 _- k* |
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.1 e& ~& s% ?! N, M1 b/ x
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。9 m5 K3 w: `0 _5 o! ]8 f( M
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. ) }4 _# ^8 H. N( Y# l4 _我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。% Q1 ?$ j j. `5 t( J i" k
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.- V- x( L) R, A$ Y
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 7 B V2 [! l- p; T* jWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. $ e+ n* K$ n [: F' q哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。3 Z& q9 ~ f' I( {" ^' R2 C
That's a memory problem. + U6 e7 ^# {* M这是一个记忆问题。! g) k6 Z! n+ f3 d a
I guess that counts too.4 |! ~) p1 b: |) K' B
我想那很重要。 , c+ E5 f& y2 C+ zBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?; p4 w6 j. F4 d: g7 ?) J# n4 m
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？# R; h" f* k9 K; O0 K0 {& p8 S
At one point, there was a reason we do something.& f2 `; \; V6 u& U9 D
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。1 R( O3 a( r! A& W
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.% v) Z5 R1 k s9 Z
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 # U1 u1 Z& B9 T2 V3 d$ kIt's always could to ask ourselves why.) U+ C3 W3 n. S6 p) `
总是可以问问自己为什么。0 H3 I0 E" \/ i7 i* s5 d
Why did I start to learn a language?& H; O) q7 _9 j. | o. d H% C8 T
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ; s! v4 T, q( l6 B4 DWhy did I join this club? ! F, M! A8 } e% M为什么我加入这个俱乐部？/ m1 v# \) ^3 G4 R& h2 v
Why my friend was this person?4 N+ U8 F1 n# O0 k% [
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ $ t- U. q2 N* s. T: SWhy did I get married? / \ b8 ]4 F/ |4 j为什么我要结婚？4 }& e% Q' e* H6 ^$ {
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. & k4 W, ? i1 c' o; [2 N3 _; J如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。) e2 a; V2 S6 @) b
I think we need indeed remind us of why.6 i* G- X! F9 t. c% ~) I
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。& v f* D6 H- _" P' f
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.' f5 X9 b$ G6 P t! ~( _
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 3 U& ~4 \" k6 mWe stop starting. We quit the club. # k9 z' a. }6 f, H我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。' Y$ G4 W, ^! H" D9 k |9 N. p
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.0 \3 w* O: J, H
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。4 E; l: @/ x4 S# @0 Z- d6 K
There's nothing wrong with asking why.. ]) F6 i+ K3 Y. x& p- [
问为什么没什么问题。 1 e0 F! S( L. f# |# x6 M: l! w- O6 _In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. % W5 f3 Q+ v- A' H) |: j4 w- k事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。* E. O* k+ b e7 x
Talk about it.* y* y0 [# Y3 Z" R! e
谈论下面的话题：: T! q2 q: E% r) Z. H* Q& E
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?' T/ W0 d' x/ c$ ?4 U5 s0 E. }
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？* u# g( Q e/ D) Z9 x
Is it a kind of distant memory?4 w% |% e$ u+ x4 W: e8 y7 R( B' `
它是一种遥远的记忆？- @9 S9 P3 N2 V5 M% ?
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...# u- |( S# n$ u m; u$ _
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……; w% ^/ D" k P$ O# }& f2 k
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? % w; \# t+ Y W+ L: A l你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 4 r8 _3 U1 B7 h4 jDo you write memos?) i$ a% M" E A* Y1 A0 P( C
你写备忘录吗？ ( @0 E! G) L _+ I' HDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?4 V f" s/ B7 p; o% _$ f
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？4 d, ]8 s+ F- H5 d) e
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?- w% \1 P5 ]: o% i: [& H
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ' X; v0 d# U4 y, k9 l A: A; Q% wWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? $ `. U( _9 C) ?* d2 w你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？