; u" c/ ?! a7 r6 m: {记住我们为什么做某事4 k( b. \$ E' u1 J, K% d+ O
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 6 ~: t. \& Y6 L6 [- e! X有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。9 r& v* @: _4 n' b$ L
Have you ever done that? 7 b$ P* r; o7 i3 g% \' N你曾有过这种经历吗？8 U' {) a2 h( H3 V4 `
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 1 m: |4 V) F% C我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 5 Y1 |# W( O. j' g) i8 \: kI have called someone because I want to tell them something.) j8 ]' _! p7 c" y' \# S1 D
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。! u+ I2 B4 c& G. y
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.( O1 H( R+ x0 \; z; L
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。5 E- `: @6 r! t/ y9 l, z
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ! k( L6 Y6 n- h# Q5 O9 A哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 7 d5 h+ a9 v% [0 T/ b* HThat's a memory problem.4 X, X# ^( Y5 ~+ I' b* [+ l
这是一个记忆问题。 2 n7 N" l+ Z' r, T2 `I guess that counts too. 5 ^: ~# Z/ z# a, D9 X我想那很重要。 , [8 z- q. u; f0 }' J/ \( N9 pBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?8 E' x* r) a4 c8 i8 z
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？4 R5 Z) E7 `9 T# r+ P$ Z5 n
At one point, there was a reason we do something." w: x1 z" {6 B' I; j1 j4 K
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。. ^. P: v1 [) y, [) p T5 f v
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.% Z2 ^2 ]4 g8 R* D# W1 |
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ; s3 U) N, s% k1 d. M* UIt's always could to ask ourselves why. . a* H" H$ _: P) i$ m总是可以问问自己为什么。 3 X* q0 }" e+ o7 k! CWhy did I start to learn a language? 9 t5 R$ `* @7 r l( Z为什么我开始学习一种语言？: B; Y- h* [6 s5 i" q
Why did I join this club? ( o6 ]# R( o& E为什么我加入这个俱乐部？; j! z7 t/ h+ o0 F+ \4 G2 Q
Why my friend was this person? & m$ G2 p/ X0 n3 `8 o/ |. |, L; [为什么我的朋友是这个人？ " K8 C# P( p3 DWhy did I get married? 2 N& w; G+ h# O1 Q5 I为什么我要结婚？! M: z6 L* I: a4 ?" C( v) z! ~
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. , G1 u0 l7 O' c7 I: w! ^* c1 L( T如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。/ E7 _! }1 X% _8 c& E+ W
I think we need indeed remind us of why. ) x! q( [0 Z& P$ ?' p$ X, s我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 : p0 A4 V4 P, {4 eOr else it's tough to finish what we started. / x: U" ], r1 ~; E8 t2 k) J( H: R3 X否则很难完成我们所开始的。 * `$ p2 |# l8 J2 a* X, Q- P4 FWe stop starting. We quit the club./ n0 f& ?2 W& g8 w2 j( h# [% e: i' C
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。, y& E% {3 w+ ~0 H/ b1 s+ I
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ; c' B' t, f8 }/ ]6 Z: y$ R6 I我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 6 D2 u5 [' X/ _6 LThere's nothing wrong with asking why., R/ ?0 I4 m* H1 h2 A4 F6 q A6 U
问为什么没什么问题。 1 c# k+ `% N9 Z. aIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 9 Y6 U( N. ]1 ]事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 ; ], Q% i0 A; M# eTalk about it. ( B1 V* e5 }) K$ E谈论下面的话题： ! C/ N5 ]( R. e3 _) ~) {Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? $ [4 @+ @) M2 s) B0 K你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？$ P' y7 S# i) c) B" F- S$ C. S' ^
Is it a kind of distant memory?$ b# n* D% U* y2 v- n* o
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 6 F9 v* x+ T9 }4 T0 z4 dDid you ever forget why you are doing something... 3 _9 m: H0 A4 O" F- @! _你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……$ o: F, L# H# `5 O
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?+ h9 w& }0 C7 C5 \7 z$ x
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ # U! i# ?( W6 `" K& cDo you write memos? ! v- g+ b; t k+ j4 p6 |你写备忘录吗？ % [: w; R9 S7 q+ [ U1 rDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?( {0 s+ d8 k' X t
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 4 A/ e3 R3 J& \( Y( Z2 n2 T" YWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? - V& p' `; [+ P6 J _. ?8 t- l- p8 p1 y还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 5 u4 d; z% h' b7 Q/ d7 ?' EWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? * [5 |& Q- b# b2 }8 y: P* L你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？