标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something , u/ T+ ~: N; Z" K! p; l. w) {% V* T6 L) \$ E h& B
记住我们为什么做某事' x- U) I/ K Z5 |6 {, Q/ d
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. & v# Y0 J- h/ |6 Y8 r1 T有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 * N* L6 _$ U1 J, h* W4 {6 v1 S. cHave you ever done that?+ a" `6 m9 d }/ K4 i, n; \7 F2 N
你曾有过这种经历吗？- r! e7 e2 w1 Q! i
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.$ P9 x% \" n& i4 B
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 5 y) ^7 v+ y/ O, \' A; b5 UI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 5 S [9 i$ z" `我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 + C6 t9 T" H0 |( kAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 2 @: l, S/ `3 B5 Z' O然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 6 O" a2 y; @, I- OWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place." v3 D8 L$ ? [ h& m6 p
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 \- }# c5 g) W: a7 d8 y) i, `That's a memory problem. z+ T& z9 E0 W h8 q- `
这是一个记忆问题。 8 L+ K" J$ O' h% ]6 f% _I guess that counts too.. u5 c- k& d$ }, q2 U9 j" q' K
我想那很重要。' L: u) T- [! a/ f4 I
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?. [0 D/ M8 u4 F5 s
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 7 ]: g$ t' a4 s1 F7 wAt one point, there was a reason we do something. & G8 k5 |" t! U) b在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ) u7 d9 z) A5 k2 ?5 \# O! CFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.; h9 p" g8 G; s( u' g
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 2 n$ o0 b" J! OIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 9 e/ r2 A" d, D3 t; ]总是可以问问自己为什么。 8 j: T7 E: F6 Y1 q6 lWhy did I start to learn a language?+ Z, P; R. h) a7 i
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ; u/ ?( V& B4 t: F4 @Why did I join this club?# o9 s& z& Q. O0 B
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？, G: W' P/ x- m
Why my friend was this person?2 Q$ B7 b+ V8 a! B' ~) h
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ : Y- y. h# {9 ]# ^' c) F$ Y( `Why did I get married?) _* h) I) e4 p5 c C" N: ^* n
为什么我要结婚？. Y) g( W; H/ S' A6 ^
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. j) R- _6 @! x; g+ v" ^8 Y如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ' ^ {4 p$ K& O) O- @I think we need indeed remind us of why. ; p8 S; ?" |% _4 d. C7 q' k0 Z我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 0 m S% i% R, ~/ _, }Or else it's tough to finish what we started. . l* j6 Z R+ F否则很难完成我们所开始的。4 T% s1 m( g4 C4 B6 N
We stop starting. We quit the club. " H+ V9 L4 R3 C, X# j* @0 Q, `我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。8 ^0 s$ p. g% W; v
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.6 ~0 d& c3 ]# K4 ~$ T0 s* d
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 . ]3 w' \3 y- ]/ O+ d2 o" SThere's nothing wrong with asking why.2 ]: }# ~& C1 f% v7 D& @
问为什么没什么问题。 " S# R6 }5 p* y! d) m! iIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.4 z& U5 F% s2 L0 V3 E( a3 }" x- @% }1 U- e
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。- W7 p$ S& j1 O% T+ F
Talk about it. 6 r, I$ q5 C/ M8 c谈论下面的话题：" i5 ^- }6 G. K
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?1 X4 i2 ]* \) A* b
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？9 ]: A; T4 F( g. O2 f- v
Is it a kind of distant memory? 8 e5 \0 K: m' P5 n4 u; a, i3 ^它是一种遥远的记忆？ 3 Z. G* r7 B. TDid you ever forget why you are doing something... 4 O: J1 ?2 o7 U2 K9 z- f+ R7 a你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……# G. {7 t- i. O. a( T r* [
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ( }3 h, o- [* Q0 k你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 5 y1 K* P1 J. \9 E- j. a6 qDo you write memos? & {* Y/ i0 D5 a8 ~0 j: g你写备忘录吗？1 j7 s; i1 J- k& J2 t( \
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? * O4 d) o' z E9 Y; n. |你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 7 N) v2 Z8 b) u- n! G* fWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? & I3 v/ o' }/ G1 N7 Q7 |2 p还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？+ g5 ]' E. T7 ^/ a: M
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? / s+ t6 S8 F8 w$ n3 }9 R你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？