标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something5 {7 B. w) Z; c W3 z K
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记住我们为什么做某事 # _4 T; O3 ?; r* SSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.3 h& E; ~3 H+ M* ^* G" I7 T
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 8 t6 { U( H. @) |, eHave you ever done that? 8 a; v0 j! f( n' R4 V! R你曾有过这种经历吗？ + c# x8 n0 d7 lI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 0 C4 H/ C- x- t我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。5 M; s0 o: Y- q b/ C, u1 [
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.- C' f$ H+ Q0 C* x: k; Z* n" w
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 " R8 Q. t9 x( z; Y l. \And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.% `; t$ h3 r) t: ]- W6 P& G
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 " _$ W& E6 [; kWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.! H8 x D7 |- ^/ V- P$ o
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。5 i) Y9 E. T! t( X1 j
That's a memory problem." ~ x; }4 y* ]0 Q3 O' V' @& N9 q! i
这是一个记忆问题。9 L/ M: `: E2 I$ @3 g4 j. H
I guess that counts too.- r9 [' D+ `, x! C
我想那很重要。: P& E2 p, {4 l1 K4 S7 I H4 m
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? # V: S( R" |2 [6 k6 S/ o$ B但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ p' f5 u: M3 R& J; s z- CAt one point, there was a reason we do something. - u9 j: }: ~2 I2 q在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 1 {3 [ I) F, ? _) QFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ' x. {! `4 A3 ^% l2 W) Z对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。9 |9 v0 [# _' D2 ]" `& X
It's always could to ask ourselves why. . q5 R t+ Q& ~: q- k/ u总是可以问问自己为什么。 8 Q. k5 ^! x8 \! m! aWhy did I start to learn a language? 3 A, o7 h4 a) ]/ N为什么我开始学习一种语言？ # w- ^5 L7 d6 NWhy did I join this club?: }! k& \% P3 @ n0 C6 f \& |
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ( y# b$ @+ K" Q& `1 jWhy my friend was this person? r' e7 _6 V' F9 ~9 c4 q为什么我的朋友是这个人？* F. Z* ? c; B
Why did I get married?, D+ g8 R! s$ |, h) D* T I0 D) u& v% P
为什么我要结婚？ x( {. }, w- ]3 D, l% jIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. , }1 m9 Q+ _" J! |+ Y4 {$ u" |如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 & j3 ]9 d& k9 A) c: N7 L5 EI think we need indeed remind us of why. _4 M3 [4 h2 J9 c: C+ i5 t
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 & C" o' Z1 z# a( f; R% BOr else it's tough to finish what we started.7 w; ^, C1 }# v) G& l2 t0 G9 \/ W1 a, ?
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 * T) D! e! V6 ?! `We stop starting. We quit the club., E% \ n. |9 Q
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 5 O8 I2 p) A" y; h: X! ^We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.1 h' e6 F2 x2 |3 N, ]6 d9 Y$ w
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 $ w& g: o7 A* b/ T* p2 KThere's nothing wrong with asking why. 0 X/ [8 Q( p0 j3 _问为什么没什么问题。 & o9 ^$ A$ w: w* JIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.3 W1 N* N8 {7 J; e; \
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 5 s; D; L1 q5 d8 q0 _Talk about it.( @3 Z9 D4 z# G6 i% k& V) d3 k
谈论下面的话题： $ H& y l1 @, d; sIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 3 w. u2 F' ?- G+ ]; S- h! w你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 9 @+ `) C" ? w! t+ ^; nIs it a kind of distant memory? ; G0 J5 K- u* X0 C+ H5 g它是一种遥远的记忆？" g. l% ]& E, Z6 Y, \3 { e
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... & w8 J$ L" g* G9 E, Z9 G( l4 j9 ]你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……# e( i1 f! p3 o
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?4 s' I7 W+ a4 N
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 3 X6 a9 C4 O9 F/ | ?4 lDo you write memos?% i }# I4 ]: }
你写备忘录吗？ 6 P! Q Z* f# I. xDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? { `5 |% W8 `
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？( n9 o4 D2 a3 O/ w- b/ x9 I
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?4 T4 m1 R2 ]; T1 d4 o: {5 Y6 j" ?
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？; h; z. F9 ` N, L8 Z, ]( ?
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?, _, c4 `# i) U8 J. r( i# N) @( X
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？