; V' s8 P! i; _2 C# [' G4 n记住我们为什么做某事0 p+ d8 H ~* a! |8 J& {
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.+ e: z5 }4 y0 m) k$ `. \1 q
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。 1 Z- n1 l+ {* r/ z; Q, M [) J2 AHave you ever done that? 2 U8 V5 y7 i* m* P% E& I. u你曾有过这种经历吗?0 h* |$ W k" w8 f# [' C# @
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. $ o) w* {" `+ x/ S% e8 O我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。 & Q; d, B9 x3 GI have called someone because I want to tell them something. ; H2 E9 b5 H1 l9 A5 `. a- `& Q0 m' H我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。 # | T$ u- G) N7 P6 nAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.0 A( q" V; [% g) k1 y6 v
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。: \' m a( u8 w2 n( F" d
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.( N5 k5 y. V9 Z4 s9 m# |% m7 D3 p
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 5 @0 z: o; b$ gThat's a memory problem.2 i* e! |! {% r3 P2 ]/ K
这是一个记忆问题。0 X7 Q& I: T& `6 B$ J
I guess that counts too. ; A8 W8 m* F9 q- m* |- l5 p$ b我想那很重要。 6 h3 W' p. B! @4 |( |9 [- rBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? , E* i- m: K$ y但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么? & Q* f0 O e$ M P: I) zAt one point, there was a reason we do something.4 a2 i5 J$ a( Y) K4 p D) I
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ' v6 t5 D! _2 q8 S' e% UFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason./ a. ~8 C. w' ~( D2 E3 P
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。+ P9 l) l# N" ~# q
It's always could to ask ourselves why. - H- V: ?' f+ I% f总是可以问问自己为什么。5 v' D( B: R+ V/ |3 _& V' o
Why did I start to learn a language? : h; x/ s' [* d: Q为什么我开始学习一种语言?, c5 \: Z. g! i# j
Why did I join this club?5 w+ D- q& e8 x2 ` o! U
为什么我加入这个俱乐部? G- m2 B: H* a) a
Why my friend was this person? + [ @2 E+ n+ f( t; f# \为什么我的朋友是这个人? $ V3 i. _+ Q! Q- Y& C6 D1 b8 F# fWhy did I get married? 7 g1 Y* l. e n- c1 V7 N3 P+ V为什么我要结婚?0 Q5 R' X' x! I, Q4 E$ ^/ o: ]+ x
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.9 w3 B3 S, A$ a) G1 U5 v, C5 Y
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。 * l7 \+ k- h" h% {! W- WI think we need indeed remind us of why.: \3 r% M9 A8 t( v
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 3 W7 C. {( `3 w' rOr else it's tough to finish what we started.! P: R8 X+ O9 O5 k) n/ B: V
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 * S) y+ a% a% RWe stop starting. We quit the club. % a8 L; U- c8 J# T7 d8 a我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 8 ?/ `& X$ O+ g4 m# y1 C, `We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.( ^" Z8 P% f' g' T) A0 J4 C5 [% W
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。4 c- s% }; C9 l8 v* K
There's nothing wrong with asking why.. x, f; X+ G, {$ I S
问为什么没什么问题。 . I1 \- g* ~9 d. N% V9 ]In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.8 C h l% W. L
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 8 z5 X: ^0 S8 p$ ]2 w; LTalk about it. 3 M* Z: A6 M9 B谈论下面的话题:8 R5 z8 S( }' d1 ?+ q$ y
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 8 Z: ~0 n6 w( [# t9 k, M+ U你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗? 9 p5 C% R+ R% S' M4 { J) i0 PIs it a kind of distant memory? |7 V) c; v' T6 x3 Z" f1 Z
它是一种遥远的记忆?0 T! B/ I# C8 Q8 k9 h
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...8 N0 P+ ` ?- _2 I/ r
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… % U i( ^) y0 w+ w w# I! d+ E' rHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 6 Z4 s: f W( |% w+ d3 |! K3 Y1 b- g你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗? # I$ T$ z; X% \" J+ r: WDo you write memos? # e6 Q" A7 ~. n: U( y r; } |' L' ^你写备忘录吗? ' D( ?# o$ d& |9 Z4 [6 [8 HDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 0 P! B) I- s: T/ `7 b你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?+ e' ?! Q- Y2 H/ H1 l+ l( L- y
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? : v R R# y- a# K7 Q4 ]' e还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?, g' W# N8 C( x9 b
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ; K1 @9 g Q0 v* d8 v0 | d, t, o% B K你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办?