标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something G/ s3 I0 D1 X: g2 j6 q3 K M4 M3 ^6 \5 E5 F8 ]# e- w
记住我们为什么做某事' Z* q: ^0 x1 I
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.' |( q+ i3 g N/ r
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 7 }* _6 `6 y9 b$ m2 m9 q, zHave you ever done that?* J+ `: u: u6 t$ t$ C
你曾有过这种经历吗？! q$ I, x- u* q4 d% p. ~
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ( j: h' e: u+ L& y我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 8 a7 G' B- m+ k4 d* cI have called someone because I want to tell them something.* N9 m. N$ |5 v( _0 p5 h$ F
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 * P* U! k; k9 A: f5 }7 oAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.- {: F# c" y' w
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。$ L4 G* O3 T5 V! g
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. % o k+ O; S/ m哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。( N5 v: K) ^' P# H
That's a memory problem.1 b% A7 z5 u0 _$ @5 q' R
这是一个记忆问题。! t! F& j7 p# V
I guess that counts too.! l4 H: R* o; v( U
我想那很重要。 0 b9 j# v' X# wBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?0 Y5 ~" e/ [ y' a0 B+ r
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ( Y9 S1 M: ^1 i7 @9 A, z5 n ^& AAt one point, there was a reason we do something.) B a* L5 o& a3 M/ i& r3 a6 [
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。7 m3 n/ r/ M( a2 T" {0 u
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.2 r. v, H6 I8 F
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 / h) U* U9 }* Y) U }It's always could to ask ourselves why.5 g- n8 ^* a) p+ F( V6 n2 z/ ?2 J
总是可以问问自己为什么。 5 |+ S* p& `, C* v! F% ?Why did I start to learn a language? * @1 n$ T/ r; p0 L$ w$ b, ` {1 D$ m为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 2 k5 [! P3 o, w+ m9 s N6 s# a. I0 dWhy did I join this club?: a9 X6 e2 `4 i5 ]$ I
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ K! u. G# O! K4 _+ Z2 l
Why my friend was this person?( L2 M+ ^2 o4 L! H; o0 w
为什么我的朋友是这个人？' j- k3 ]. ^7 I2 ^; w: U
Why did I get married?# }. D( O! B+ D5 `" t1 g# `
为什么我要结婚？ / @9 s9 ]" i$ s5 h2 ]If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.: A+ ?( J7 y4 s% b6 d7 X
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 2 u/ g0 M$ w/ bI think we need indeed remind us of why.7 [. O' z+ e+ G8 R6 Z
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。3 }% O/ J, \4 I) v% j V
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. : F5 F6 L" i: k5 g" k: J否则很难完成我们所开始的。 g2 ?; {+ r. y+ t
We stop starting. We quit the club.2 T* ` ]- Q! e0 u6 N# p0 P; [
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。, W% |; B9 \% `( J& A# G
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. % o8 Y$ @. P$ n; Y9 [, I我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 7 `4 }' y' i$ n AThere's nothing wrong with asking why. ' ~/ i8 h7 ^4 F问为什么没什么问题。 3 p6 M+ X) P) ?1 b7 ~! w' yIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.$ z9 u( b) k. ~6 ~" w5 E
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。0 [( b; F& O* L4 [6 y0 Q" ~
Talk about it., Q1 z! d3 k; `' n. ~# V: f
谈论下面的话题： + S; {& A, L* @5 ]4 K: ]3 gIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 6 h. j" b v! G; M+ |! z% ]( `你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？+ Q" Q( r, o- i
Is it a kind of distant memory?# E' r" m# A$ \( ~4 m4 w \; \
它是一种遥远的记忆？8 M& E* @, |7 W4 x) V
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... C1 A* P) o* M; i" S& i9 O. }# A% |
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 3 a7 M7 c: O& o3 \How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? % e" ^& K$ q4 U: L& ~2 ?5 M你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ a7 m6 U; e% p1 C) k3 TDo you write memos? 2 i# _4 s& r- k0 w" x, y( S3 T* Z% I你写备忘录吗？) B& h L1 V) T
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?" G) N+ Y C# `) [0 m) s: D( h
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？' d9 e: R8 |' C- m- K! P9 {
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?4 b1 ^" }. {" l% D8 d Y8 S- x
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ - j( M( E) _; ]7 l9 YWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? + p5 m' @1 e9 z9 O, G你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？