标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something : R3 U+ f& ?# m: D: _& ]. P - y, j6 H' T0 Q7 k! h- T1 W( X% Y记住我们为什么做某事 : R9 b7 y& x- ~ p9 SSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. # W' O( a7 l! B# e( c1 [有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。( F R( W- R$ j) S( j4 `2 [" J) Q) n
Have you ever done that? $ q |" i# [- F( H你曾有过这种经历吗？( y* D% U4 C* Y+ |
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.% z) [6 b1 Z4 i, I& x
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 - K" q% u$ ~5 r2 yI have called someone because I want to tell them something./ V8 t; P# m' u" T% D4 T7 T8 _7 d
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 2 e: y. x9 F) m! PAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.5 ^& v% x. F5 E9 B* n$ `9 M
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。9 r7 B' J$ C( G) ^+ K
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.6 {9 R" k( s2 w7 m% P
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。' y- D. q7 N6 s6 |# W; T$ m
That's a memory problem. & a. R6 ?" w/ ?+ K9 R这是一个记忆问题。- Y! u# w# ?- L) g/ ~
I guess that counts too.: t5 N, o2 A. C0 j' |+ A' {
我想那很重要。 * S$ N& v6 ~" ~: Z7 w aBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?2 L6 r9 C" M# E" @: q' p& M
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ' c! m. p" r2 a5 hAt one point, there was a reason we do something. # t% B' D1 L2 ~1 G a* {* N! \在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 5 S9 t N0 v- J0 y$ KFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.0 t# e3 A4 F: D( u6 G9 Q, X; L
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 m4 G R# C2 G S$ D6 GIt's always could to ask ourselves why. + h5 |( m+ G& w& e! A# x总是可以问问自己为什么。 0 e& U! P' }0 q* p% ^" v WWhy did I start to learn a language? & }8 x$ c+ I1 P$ r( G" k, _- o为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 9 [: d3 h; ^' w; ^5 YWhy did I join this club? : H) p" L; j9 @为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 4 G, m* P4 `! A% k/ J( v9 @Why my friend was this person? 0 K0 W+ T. Q$ R. M- |: Y t* B; q/ j为什么我的朋友是这个人？$ Y! v- l ~$ k7 n9 v M
Why did I get married? ( Q# N1 o0 W: r0 {' r- S4 I5 z为什么我要结婚？ F, b9 E0 ^$ a R) I* N
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.* a) P8 X( ?0 f4 ]6 T8 L. ]# T& b* Q
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。4 |( @- L% x4 W( {- g7 {
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 4 y$ _- t! z6 F, M1 m, r0 _5 s- y我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。+ b' @; x1 `1 N0 j& G+ ^1 z
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.% }% ^0 ^/ B( \( b* B8 m+ d) k
否则很难完成我们所开始的。9 f% L& U( I0 \$ ~; u% V
We stop starting. We quit the club. $ _0 C4 q- @4 c5 K1 Y) @3 a我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 % A' D; p% Z% O0 v1 MWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. # {/ u. l$ a0 [% \) X% ~) a我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ! ~9 ^( ~4 B6 h3 B6 k e5 D' oThere's nothing wrong with asking why.5 h1 {0 n/ C M. p! {. k
问为什么没什么问题。0 J! E. N5 |9 |3 x% G6 ]# V& m/ N
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.7 I2 k3 P* J" f8 s& r
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。( q- Y) J4 f6 X" H4 I5 B
Talk about it. ) F0 i4 S) d2 O谈论下面的话题： / f8 k( n% h# J' ?# a$ Y3 K, B) Z9 WIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? , s/ v# @$ V/ J你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ) p4 k" U( n4 ?1 PIs it a kind of distant memory?) ^% X5 u! z9 R; F. c& Y2 _
它是一种遥远的记忆？ % m T$ p3 [. M: r: Z$ BDid you ever forget why you are doing something...1 g& g" e, r" m V- V
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……( Q. w5 S+ z& G% P; o) N5 }
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?7 l- M: ^" P8 V5 n C/ z7 f3 T" ?
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ! g0 i; ~) _6 ~5 J) }Do you write memos? 7 @7 q! }! L' ?% O$ u5 V你写备忘录吗？# h. G$ @; `3 \+ C. q
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? : K5 G1 B0 }! [你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 6 v- Z( f7 W* g' |( H* QWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? . f7 S+ Y L* _, f& e! s. R/ F还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？& S! _- F* r- c: Q& m' K
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 8 U+ S& h2 [6 u: q5 U" z6 [$ s你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？