标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something " s) E b9 W' L; x7 E/ T4 F2 t6 h , J( \2 A. I9 N7 ?5 i6 A& w记住我们为什么做某事6 g9 v' C4 A, e3 F
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.; [4 V z; q. ^( b
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。$ h8 {7 X& t0 P) X" e7 v" x* n$ I
Have you ever done that?' v! T7 P: @- F" G2 V* O
你曾有过这种经历吗？2 p( F& m/ R, ]
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. % D# {& k4 ?: o' s4 `8 M" X. ~我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ' E0 V, k, C8 `% KI have called someone because I want to tell them something.0 q9 {% E$ \8 M* r/ F! i8 J# b
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。* C8 @, i* [5 q4 q U0 K% o
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 1 ~5 y- W( J: T3 d% m* x然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 9 {/ T# V- a* ^* A; g9 SWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 2 r( @( L3 _- a% `# h哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。* l; i4 g) w- o# p/ V* B
That's a memory problem.; c/ T1 G7 j* E- h2 ~5 |! h6 U- o
这是一个记忆问题。 ) a& j3 n5 o iI guess that counts too. + K# E2 _3 ~8 z% G/ C1 V* t我想那很重要。 3 G2 @. M d4 W# a2 s! F" OBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?0 g9 e9 T3 [6 L5 a0 \8 t
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？2 z9 v4 b, R+ X/ h5 u ~
At one point, there was a reason we do something. - U$ H8 Y1 V Q% {在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。" p+ l' Q+ x. p5 t5 k7 H, t0 I" B4 U
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. , u# `' ^6 `5 q对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ! F, J9 m) s4 P+ X L! wIt's always could to ask ourselves why.% e. B" {0 d+ N% G
总是可以问问自己为什么。& `7 i, ?0 G3 ?" p: c* U2 T, v
Why did I start to learn a language? # L( T8 o5 K* x# _5 P为什么我开始学习一种语言？0 J, \- h5 ?$ |7 _6 k* }: q4 W
Why did I join this club?+ n) {9 N) P9 x9 B. t8 ?. }
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？0 a% f$ D" H* B3 |
Why my friend was this person? # |& A# i' k1 ]3 D为什么我的朋友是这个人？) h. k! G: B+ W* X
Why did I get married?' x' g% ]. M! ^* @0 c4 W
为什么我要结婚？, C6 Z4 d* w2 g3 d
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. ' S. Q) @7 I( k5 V- ^: l* q g) s3 e如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。+ T6 `' j6 |4 m8 F: d+ v! Q
I think we need indeed remind us of why." c3 R; `0 v* `) [2 |
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ' T; P5 N u7 P6 TOr else it's tough to finish what we started.. e) c& o- S7 z8 l- A% J0 x/ r
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ( ~6 l& o0 q( b r' k NWe stop starting. We quit the club. , z( Z' k' P: y; H2 ^我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。$ A4 A4 G+ d& O7 }3 p" W& Q
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 5 a' \9 p9 ~$ Z. R我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。. L: t/ C4 r( E3 w8 m. c8 p
There's nothing wrong with asking why. % _1 B5 l9 s$ V: {问为什么没什么问题。 " W Q1 p" r# F6 k1 PIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ( m1 h- y% ]1 m0 a; E% G事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。) I) {. H+ B1 G
Talk about it.7 y7 m: B/ L6 Z2 I1 T7 }$ k; Z5 N- k
谈论下面的话题：, E/ w: M5 h# @5 m
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ' C/ x* F) h0 E7 c4 f3 I你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ - [2 k S0 b+ P- q" w4 MIs it a kind of distant memory?) b' P1 r- G# u: J# U0 Z* L. y
它是一种遥远的记忆？! j: L: r' ~ T- ~3 q4 q5 z7 s
Did you ever forget why you are doing something..." o. s( T, q9 m. w! R+ |
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……- G% p U% }/ ?8 j0 U* F; g
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? % @4 K: \1 ?, r/ `' k你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ & Y) G- X6 m O# O- |" d$ U$ y" \5 lDo you write memos? 4 |1 i' s! A4 A& j6 P/ e9 ~你写备忘录吗？ 8 m; t0 e4 ]: F( m( VDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 2 s5 z* y0 ~7 T# K你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？8 W% ^% r4 i3 e# o
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?& V+ P7 N+ a) o% C8 E: q, A3 F
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ & v( E3 Q: A% I2 e6 m, ]What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? * ~7 U" h3 J" a6 O9 ]你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？