标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something " c" d; s- B1 e, o9 m. [, Q( v, j
记住我们为什么做某事 9 K9 @# {/ `# @& i# \5 {, oSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 4 q' `) m- T' M+ k' W. q' Q有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。" e& b4 I0 W4 D! L9 a' \
Have you ever done that?& \8 K3 O' \, I1 h
你曾有过这种经历吗？6 i) R0 G* H. C5 `; P. `! l- _
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.$ ?, a }" o# I, X" X" j8 U
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 1 G* c! w4 Z4 x7 j0 nI have called someone because I want to tell them something.) F/ d( b' x' _3 a5 r" b+ N
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 1 m# l9 }' ]4 I( lAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 4 @0 M7 c1 z( @% U然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。. U6 A+ P5 ]* V3 P( M9 Y
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 3 w; |5 Z$ e7 {9 C% K/ r" v) d哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 0 P0 R6 n) \9 F0 I! ZThat's a memory problem.( H6 o* ?8 g/ H% b
这是一个记忆问题。 0 _; x9 N. j$ R& h& NI guess that counts too. / }7 Z& N: o b我想那很重要。- E7 |! p) S5 H" L: q2 S2 l0 a
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?2 I: b/ g9 H% f; c
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ : N6 ^8 e! o" e/ K9 M/ uAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 1 j( O7 A5 T3 B" C1 r a, ^在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。% [% z4 b& A- m) Q! F
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.3 b) S3 i: i! |& |/ N8 m
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。9 u* J0 b, |/ R. r; G: x& e1 ]
It's always could to ask ourselves why. * Z- C U5 m9 g" Q0 m6 u总是可以问问自己为什么。 * K% x' i( F2 s% k1 _Why did I start to learn a language? 0 n1 Z1 r; r( w" C. Y8 m/ y4 }) [为什么我开始学习一种语言？5 |4 f' b0 r1 I; T; s7 I; m
Why did I join this club?3 v( k1 S8 w+ N/ S: I! u9 j
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？! s; j2 S+ J% q; x
Why my friend was this person?3 d# q. W' @, Y. g
为什么我的朋友是这个人？( j6 c/ g6 z: ~% K; m; ~5 ]) D
Why did I get married?6 j- B" n6 o' S/ g6 I- t
为什么我要结婚？ k% C; @0 h& uIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.4 j7 O- q* U" f+ q# U
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。, _- u. i7 E6 s% u0 S8 J
I think we need indeed remind us of why. . C1 p& |, o$ R3 @7 Q) N K6 J我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。' q* a$ q3 I9 o+ E0 |) r
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. , S; @) z: g2 ~' s+ E7 G否则很难完成我们所开始的。2 F4 G+ W/ }9 `0 ^
We stop starting. We quit the club. z) |1 I7 a* r) y' I5 Z5 k$ a我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 I; J# Q! s$ V E5 X9 t
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.5 h' O2 F$ L/ V& z* r: U
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 7 |$ x" `9 P8 [! @There's nothing wrong with asking why.* k o# g5 C3 l- T, d
问为什么没什么问题。' x$ l; S# ~1 R2 I5 ^3 u
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.' R+ s* k' L' J! z* b, D
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。* R2 d; j6 z | I
Talk about it. 0 H- q$ M: i2 O8 l l谈论下面的话题：/ z! j8 ]- N: @8 K( f
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?" y* U7 _9 ^3 L* N) q9 d( p K
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？8 D. Q W# |5 K; g
Is it a kind of distant memory? ( U2 }6 v) k/ l9 B [4 C$ F% k它是一种遥远的记忆？, [2 u( G5 t9 ]8 V6 `
Did you ever forget why you are doing something.... E; `$ h/ A: ~; f
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……6 f# C0 |: q, h( t5 R$ M; P
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?& V. U, k1 o+ K6 L5 |8 M7 n/ l0 A' Q0 G
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ * C7 {) o6 X2 }' k9 fDo you write memos?5 P2 e; ^" ?8 P H- D, G/ m
你写备忘录吗？1 ]2 ^1 H' W# |! ?
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? $ k7 c: e3 i0 A/ |+ I: U6 n5 n9 w你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？6 X- M X9 B" ~( g7 W) G
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?" A& V6 d; j6 o% D
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？! `! ]: J [( S; a7 U
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 2 o3 P; r- z& S7 @( b你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？