标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something3 H7 ~, I$ W% ]) E) h' P
S4 S2 ~) R/ y5 y3 ^: T记住我们为什么做某事4 c1 q% {/ S! c" @3 c- U
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ; Y( m6 J/ k& y/ K/ p5 F有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。0 `4 z# Y/ A. P, j0 c) e w
Have you ever done that?0 s: o# R- |5 S3 M' K8 ]
你曾有过这种经历吗？' {% R7 g6 T4 u: k
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. # l' q u% ~$ b我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。: P$ p3 t: P/ r2 k4 t% A: e. x+ A
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.- t% r7 T" }* @6 l
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。' @7 K' B% ` S3 [% V- m
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. @3 Z+ [- A9 I+ a' @3 l
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。9 t: n3 ?$ [$ g8 Q$ N) n( g
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.# s- B7 E/ M0 H' j7 |2 s
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。: n4 x" ]) R& b
That's a memory problem. $ i0 z/ p/ M+ S4 D$ }7 o/ Y/ L0 j这是一个记忆问题。6 K& N4 l3 E Q6 \
I guess that counts too. " C- W- N+ R9 H! \6 x2 ^2 D( U我想那很重要。 + P7 U8 o' @! o- J( D/ P8 ~But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?+ O. Y- ^9 |, b1 h& U; K$ k, z! n
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？# I K* S+ L6 y% P" X
At one point, there was a reason we do something.- e B9 ?* y& J7 w2 N! y0 U
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。( [& A D, {5 B' M5 {
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.& D1 P, D* a% c- H/ V# ?, L3 i
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。. ]$ F6 d1 I. S. [9 e" g3 Z* i
It's always could to ask ourselves why. ; ~ l- a. _0 p# W& Q A& u总是可以问问自己为什么。! i) e6 r5 d2 x+ v, \ A/ `
Why did I start to learn a language?- t* L5 @+ W0 E+ \4 D( Z# B: h' H
为什么我开始学习一种语言？* T8 c- m$ m" J3 J3 k3 I
Why did I join this club? & ?# }! i" C. n$ y3 ], f+ Y为什么我加入这个俱乐部？2 Z6 G: R! `* s
Why my friend was this person?0 {% E. ?, R* y- s: }
为什么我的朋友是这个人？5 B2 ^6 V0 d( g7 Y: x8 h& _
Why did I get married?4 g0 y% K/ i, Y6 ~ Z6 A& _
为什么我要结婚？ \6 x3 |/ e3 S# cIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.: |5 @- g! g- J q1 e4 i5 C
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。8 z, _ v/ p; ]& q/ w/ y
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 4 ~) [8 G& K1 ^' j8 [我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。4 J2 T) a! U- y5 L) A+ g, i
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.0 R7 L* E+ `$ [( K
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 $ m W5 e7 k/ B! LWe stop starting. We quit the club. ; y- l4 p: g* ?; D3 q7 e- p3 U我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。# w) F0 S# a) |' ~& ^
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.0 I) A0 {: R6 p9 k
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 5 V& ~( i, @5 n; h* mThere's nothing wrong with asking why.- i3 p8 ~5 v0 s0 }8 h
问为什么没什么问题。 6 i S' V) m8 z% y& r+ vIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. $ {9 v9 U3 p, w- p$ [2 P4 a F事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 , Q. d- t4 K% [* B2 p$ yTalk about it.& Z ~9 H- g! {) d) U& u
谈论下面的话题：% A/ Q# D! ~4 W, v a
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? , V& U$ R7 `( y4 w) C, \你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 3 j: A: H; h; [& ~* Q' [, XIs it a kind of distant memory? / [4 z# |$ t0 O5 R它是一种遥远的记忆？9 q: t1 i. i7 u' x/ u
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... # W: J2 x+ Q; X$ F* ]. A2 I你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 4 Z) N5 H; s" Y$ g+ d& MHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 8 E/ a! T/ h2 f+ ?: c$ h* r! j你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ & b; P6 x& b* L8 J NDo you write memos? - p6 Q) z' x, z3 H/ o; f2 w你写备忘录吗？6 t0 [3 {: n/ [
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?/ y7 N2 R9 B! j; O9 s1 J
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？2 ~, b! W% N) k: F9 _' J" e7 J
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?5 d/ N, m& i6 n/ G! N! a7 i
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？- [/ |1 p X2 k9 ^, p
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 6 m, S( j3 h6 z: e. E6 W: b# }你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？