标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something : F+ j w+ d9 f h. |" h; H+ H, L& F3 |7 B4 j. _
记住我们为什么做某事2 B- B6 R. N) _. e9 ^ ~
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.; m) L6 D5 R! v) y: w" m
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ) [" \; j8 @) \8 n9 t5 \3 D/ a1 D6 qHave you ever done that? * ^" H5 W7 t# ^$ `0 G+ t" f D1 r& Z你曾有过这种经历吗？2 d: q5 \9 X/ I3 W" {+ H5 o( g
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. . @" n1 P; j. k! j3 U7 g3 W7 w, z我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。- F" q: B r) N8 r, o! q4 k
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. $ y8 Z. b" h) E, H+ y我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ) ^' g& Z5 Y4 d4 P1 ^5 hAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ' ?- H O5 f# ?4 F- g, |然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 1 ?' L# C4 J( [+ R/ R8 o" DWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.' Q) i) x# U0 g, V& u) z7 J
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。/ v" y9 g; G( O/ W
That's a memory problem.% R! D1 w" Y# b C
这是一个记忆问题。 B9 w( j. g4 ~$ f4 p
I guess that counts too. , P6 {3 m0 \1 F& X5 L3 x Y我想那很重要。 * h: T8 \" g0 L7 c, o; D% d) L( E& sBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?9 _: H5 _+ ~9 W7 |
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ - l" N3 e# z, t# u" M- ^At one point, there was a reason we do something. ; Y* h( K7 s/ U+ C在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。- z. f$ \3 z) g& ?' q" B3 x
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 5 [+ b1 W9 A+ e5 j* k' |. O1 `对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 - {/ T8 @( V l$ B; v7 IIt's always could to ask ourselves why.- X S1 W% u* v! B
总是可以问问自己为什么。& y& c) i# c3 p
Why did I start to learn a language?8 C, L1 P+ C# C1 [4 g8 M! \- [
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ # H' D' W! V2 J5 L0 aWhy did I join this club?' |* |* J: s1 S2 ~
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 7 ^5 c: `0 I: `0 Z" ]7 iWhy my friend was this person? - Z% X0 Y( `2 ?% A* M5 Z5 ]为什么我的朋友是这个人？: ^' h( \( W4 l; P# K( x+ J( Q
Why did I get married? . p# E' J; B% e% B7 h. b, n为什么我要结婚？ 8 c) U0 r1 B' d# b' AIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.3 D: [; B0 y. w- p
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 % k" _$ U! j! s. H% o" f( |I think we need indeed remind us of why., t4 Y( Y j2 T' Q+ C' b f- W: L
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ; |' B; T( X, J; F+ M0 s0 OOr else it's tough to finish what we started.+ V, \% P& L6 w: M8 H6 w
否则很难完成我们所开始的。. d+ U+ Z9 Z3 j, H9 a
We stop starting. We quit the club." Y# X- h d+ O4 H& a0 ^
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。0 L8 o! N0 k' b( ]2 |5 U
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.4 O& Z' P4 P/ g9 I* \' q# P2 d
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 / h* a# G4 k; X: V& X1 ZThere's nothing wrong with asking why.( k* B2 V' ~6 c+ A
问为什么没什么问题。 4 M' {) s' |( L* c' ]& D% DIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.. s/ ^4 Q% r9 c# |3 u
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。% N9 i# E3 k6 [
Talk about it. # |9 O) a7 M+ N% T& Q谈论下面的话题： 6 A$ r4 l& A* J' g" _1 JIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? * h0 e! l) c0 m$ }% u& }你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？: S( _/ P) [) k
Is it a kind of distant memory?# w' l! Q; g: R+ s. K5 P3 a
它是一种遥远的记忆？ - [6 ~* a% v( kDid you ever forget why you are doing something... 4 z8 ?( I$ ?- U% D" D你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……4 N6 x4 `1 z' q( W0 B2 `
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? e- h! L* J' A% t
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 3 `, G! S% Q" s2 r9 i( `4 d% c4 c( VDo you write memos? ( c4 [/ q9 k( |你写备忘录吗？ 7 a! v* U0 c7 XDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? % ]9 r# R8 i" s! c* E* F- \; ]0 l你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？. i. ]* d. [9 G
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 2 T3 o' p: n8 J8 ^" x还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ & Y3 x1 D' J9 b( M" @$ l$ wWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?5 P. @% e' N, l4 @
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？