标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ! o$ H3 F- F6 M& S6 n( D 2 W/ L. M- p4 x( R( i记住我们为什么做某事 9 z2 \( r! B2 A/ uSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. " _# O9 h M5 F* U- a0 X有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。6 H5 @) Q- z+ p. f
Have you ever done that? % s% R3 `6 B/ H; w4 X% n2 Z你曾有过这种经历吗？ 4 F, n6 Z/ p8 k. R, e3 n8 rI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. `% n t4 y3 @3 P( M2 y9 Q; N
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 " e9 O% s& e. ]& ~7 _I have called someone because I want to tell them something.8 n) C. ?+ J. x0 D
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。! u; R6 S- E) U! k) U2 M
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. - Y" T1 N9 S6 B3 ?8 b: i7 U然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ) g4 g% K3 g, w7 r2 AWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. + {/ b# ~* H. g8 g. F# k5 U哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 + L( U9 W' b/ Y* d) N7 OThat's a memory problem. 9 Z8 ^! `/ U7 \! {7 e: W这是一个记忆问题。 - |" d9 B! z C+ L# B2 l3 m" bI guess that counts too.! ], b0 g% C% d4 i
我想那很重要。1 f2 u# l" u+ i& S- {6 p8 u
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?" i! J$ L& x6 J% M* V! e7 T) z9 O; g
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 3 d* j$ `6 n* gAt one point, there was a reason we do something. w# L' Q. g2 `7 W0 `在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。& R8 y* p9 a6 L
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.1 n0 e( r1 X/ K; l s- d
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 " I% z& p/ W+ YIt's always could to ask ourselves why.7 l9 k+ o( P6 Q( h/ | C
总是可以问问自己为什么。 N& q' l9 p; [. m2 |
Why did I start to learn a language?" b+ x) Y9 h2 J: e
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 1 i5 c, f+ o' N7 K' I0 Z) LWhy did I join this club? - {6 i7 v" N+ d, b( B/ @! p- p为什么我加入这个俱乐部？, ~: \7 z, l& `
Why my friend was this person? 8 `( L3 c! \* {9 D# a为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 5 u/ @# M: W* j! e. RWhy did I get married? $ G5 K/ s N6 E6 s为什么我要结婚？+ l' t. x1 a. ~
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.- R) z. b% c# \9 J4 S( M
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 3 g* a, q7 m: F4 i' E( b8 |' yI think we need indeed remind us of why.) v, E4 b5 l) w1 {/ \: o$ c w
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。& t& V) L% D1 u# c- n( C: }7 o
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.9 a8 S" S( E# V9 b$ N( l' W+ Y W
否则很难完成我们所开始的。& Y8 e* y- E; l" P' H, E! K+ B
We stop starting. We quit the club." P2 n# B1 f6 p+ c$ M$ ^: i
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。4 \( Y- W- K* X8 t$ \5 w7 R$ i
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ( h2 v! F# y, i# n- f/ z: V$ W4 J我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 4 e$ m5 R1 S' N9 }( b- [There's nothing wrong with asking why. . K/ |5 c( _0 X8 P6 O0 b8 H问为什么没什么问题。 ; R, d3 y8 g' _4 @5 X- K3 D' QIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.3 z5 M/ w& Z) L, G$ Q6 c
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 , J* c, V& H9 T7 V0 o/ ?! YTalk about it. ! M0 s2 y- E; l5 r谈论下面的话题： " f3 F. g% s/ J: q5 e9 AIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?8 y9 M$ R" W& L
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 6 W& s- ~. q: W$ L6 dIs it a kind of distant memory? & i: @& B( T) J它是一种遥远的记忆？ - ^* ]8 t) ]7 R; z8 aDid you ever forget why you are doing something...' n$ e! Y0 N. h! M% o
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……9 h( v5 _% }, B0 s y$ i, ^
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?) p0 b A2 ~: }4 O- w5 U* \
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？8 a" R' |0 z5 \: T
Do you write memos? # i2 Q1 c9 C0 Y1 ]9 F8 O; _1 L你写备忘录吗？ 5 [8 P6 K% |# Y4 YDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? `/ C) F O4 ~2 w你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？1 h1 `# W6 {( h- B4 Q. {! N* t
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?# _# p$ |, {4 D7 A+ b8 L
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？2 i3 v0 ~# m4 |0 k d2 I# x; d( F7 ^; W
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? C$ _6 V/ ?2 d; E7 v
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？