标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 0 Q: Q* n p5 w a& x# r & J' J) l8 P* i+ _# \4 v记住我们为什么做某事 1 B# Q8 H( u' K P! A- c: N1 B% ?) _Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. , z2 ^6 Q: r. O& Z1 t有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。$ Q: m) V( X: K- Z
Have you ever done that?1 \" Z8 P! H4 K3 ]8 T8 {4 ]6 a
你曾有过这种经历吗？" I* ?% w. ~. ^ y' m* V9 U
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. * x, n! W _# I2 O我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。1 u/ ~% T6 Q+ o% ^* K8 E# e
I have called someone because I want to tell them something./ k; e+ z. p& C5 S
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。. ]& q' N5 j2 h; {9 `9 m% n! y
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.7 G/ H! U0 \6 x1 x0 c* ^
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。% s& m4 y: G1 M2 d+ J6 {' B
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.0 Z; M- ]$ e% @4 w4 P
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。2 [4 w8 Z: `- K6 A, R& c/ ]/ W
That's a memory problem.3 C, Q: Y" \# H- t: \
这是一个记忆问题。 + b& k- w2 x3 ?. g: c/ X" |3 kI guess that counts too. 0 e! {3 O) Z- _6 @我想那很重要。 $ X' W$ A5 o5 D. z ^ _4 p' yBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?! e4 N" D! O( R; S1 {+ ?! s' c% [! U$ a
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？1 H9 c4 Z, N4 G' o
At one point, there was a reason we do something./ p8 I% e2 l; q# ?4 {$ r6 g$ R
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 , s* q6 E9 P, F" o: @For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.* ~+ E- E5 ]7 g/ r, K- R/ B1 e
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 % h4 z1 K( _6 G" s0 @! GIt's always could to ask ourselves why.6 E5 i5 @3 a2 E+ z6 B
总是可以问问自己为什么。9 ]7 Z7 a; H! U6 g
Why did I start to learn a language? 6 u; C% V# P& P为什么我开始学习一种语言？. [- E+ e' q, M$ v" T
Why did I join this club? ' Y O* S5 x: u- i) z为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 4 D; [0 e& r* Q. u7 b0 {Why my friend was this person?. e% I9 |# l3 t
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ . a9 ^, S& m( N# G2 m: J' UWhy did I get married? ! {7 K# l) V+ Z, V. v为什么我要结婚？3 z( r7 n p5 Q* Q9 Q' q
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. R; r: A. ^7 `% x, k
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。- `: W* ^+ [5 D
I think we need indeed remind us of why. - q/ C; F5 b! O V5 c( i( ~我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 & o+ ?- Y4 c, B/ ~Or else it's tough to finish what we started.+ t) \1 a# O; K2 n3 w' H5 {8 R
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 . n2 x3 p8 z+ E$ cWe stop starting. We quit the club. ' z3 {* p4 `& k9 |% q# H我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。6 a8 X) M9 a# @# k
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged., e* P1 G: @6 B5 O: C
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。9 J/ N1 C6 i# ?5 k4 S# H
There's nothing wrong with asking why.( D. m! J) M) D( a" r
问为什么没什么问题。 4 K u. Q, { @In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.& J) O$ q- B% S3 I
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。$ p+ I* [4 r. ~; D
Talk about it.* q* o& w0 ^" w" N- p
谈论下面的话题： 6 [. I( Z4 H( n$ T- w+ L% fIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?+ ] f* T+ ~+ U3 B3 O& j8 ] F) M
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ p5 q$ e0 V# W
Is it a kind of distant memory? / V/ E9 O- q' U# \6 R$ Q( ~3 G8 H它是一种遥远的记忆？. P \1 ]. |0 l ^: g+ ]% `
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...# R+ D a& F+ N+ M$ R0 D
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… , o, j3 G8 @8 \How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?" G' E9 d! V# y
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？" P7 K7 V& q% H H
Do you write memos?0 z/ n3 ~5 B3 [: c1 g, l/ ]
你写备忘录吗？# y" \' M" L1 a, f) p( t, y4 d
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? $ A9 ~/ O* m' z/ U2 r1 f你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ % O8 [9 i4 S1 RWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ; J8 }5 m( o" p3 n0 G还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 2 d( z( n& U. Z+ P+ M3 g1 d7 u& P( }What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 9 ~( {' K, I9 c! i4 R) x你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？