标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something$ K' K; F5 B% r* U- F9 ]
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记住我们为什么做某事 5 d5 p1 O V. }5 xSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.8 k8 k9 e1 s1 u; f2 o, p) n2 _& J3 F
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 + C( m9 X/ E: T' p' X9 R8 THave you ever done that? + k" @: ]# p+ c7 e& b: y你曾有过这种经历吗？% V. O' g3 g* k7 j! o
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 0 }% Q% ~/ S/ A9 \) y我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 9 ^. h2 D% n4 ~* l, F7 EI have called someone because I want to tell them something.! b* s7 E+ E# g3 |1 K4 e
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 2 ?& ^: `% v9 t& xAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 1 U& h- K# p- K: v' n" h然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。' x- f! h2 V s5 j" n% X2 ^/ T
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.5 p% T# S( ?" u; q( [ N! m
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。8 R q/ w* e! K- B% v9 q; }
That's a memory problem.3 e/ d1 N4 K7 }
这是一个记忆问题。7 z4 b% Q# @& i) Z( x. \, _* ^/ h
I guess that counts too. 4 x) F$ O* j* Y3 r; q3 @ R3 }我想那很重要。 N; W/ A' O4 o$ b1 s
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?2 A) t. {3 E6 ]# y
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ' m1 |0 y! r5 Q- @At one point, there was a reason we do something.$ a; @. r. v4 w! D) R i1 _. G
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ' {& q- N/ d+ ]1 A% ^For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.1 {) _2 Q; l1 P, x
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 9 W" Z5 g7 F) |# ]) q2 qIt's always could to ask ourselves why. / R' X! c3 K# S) z% v总是可以问问自己为什么。" @& j. E' H5 e; o6 n3 n0 M
Why did I start to learn a language? # c1 W" t7 X: H M7 i0 M为什么我开始学习一种语言？' _( J- V5 @+ p0 g
Why did I join this club? ! B6 p- l: r6 @8 x" v" V2 L. j为什么我加入这个俱乐部？( u& n2 ?' G- T. ^1 E3 Y
Why my friend was this person? 4 S$ Y( Z/ D! y" l* ?; v: Q为什么我的朋友是这个人？ . x; D$ C& M& ]* {Why did I get married?, |, f* P1 L+ F4 B
为什么我要结婚？ ( x4 w0 q/ ^% U1 iIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.9 m7 U4 { F9 ~
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ) A# O& P6 W- ~7 j/ E1 f- PI think we need indeed remind us of why.9 z q4 R% s4 t: a
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。6 k I7 S0 K( P g$ @; ?
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.$ b) @" K6 W+ m4 U# h% W
否则很难完成我们所开始的。9 W- E5 ]. }1 U* i& @
We stop starting. We quit the club., u, B2 T( v# {2 o5 U9 O5 h
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。& t8 g0 }. M" S, g- j3 f
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. & F! N: J5 W/ I2 r2 i/ y我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 3 Y" t9 l" c0 L' |: M5 L# g% aThere's nothing wrong with asking why. 7 n; x1 P, `, \2 k问为什么没什么问题。6 b, Y. X! c& L! i' |* X: M
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.$ t$ o2 U& u. F" g0 B5 h& x
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。! k7 v& T6 g" Y( `' p
Talk about it.6 H) T+ b) U' X4 l/ Y
谈论下面的话题： * m' X& E' e) a+ ^Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? % w/ u2 r; E, U4 ?( a% _你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ & O- L, [- M7 u1 |; AIs it a kind of distant memory?6 |, a1 i9 A) Q0 ?3 S" ]
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 4 [6 r$ Q9 ^4 I8 o8 j) U0 W) ~Did you ever forget why you are doing something...! W# q+ N; E+ r8 P' u* G! O
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……, a: T0 y4 E, A e) Z/ l7 g
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?) M' x! n- S% P" E& {
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？! [) r8 J4 b8 b
Do you write memos? + v3 D! O) N/ Z* @% R6 R0 p$ v你写备忘录吗？ & }; ~5 P2 {9 q f# z3 HDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?+ V, }' w, J( [# M
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？6 o0 M) N) ^. \; Z3 r! B+ N3 r2 N. \
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?4 k' X. @6 o& ~' W; M# j
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ , G9 _3 J8 _; Z& kWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? + x% X+ c6 m6 h4 \& E! K/ N你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？