标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something& |! ^( x) x, V# D0 d8 y9 E; E
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记住我们为什么做某事 " r! H7 Q) s( d9 C# F' t4 A7 _Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.1 v9 q/ E! y7 N) b( ?8 R$ X: I
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 / H J$ ^ l9 Q0 y- N: CHave you ever done that?7 p* p7 W( f7 o, H/ ~ W
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 3 p) V3 [( ^! BI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.5 _& a4 V$ ~* G; u8 \0 M
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。, V# L% I8 l0 w2 a; u3 W
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.0 g9 Y% E8 |+ D# L/ |/ Z' J9 @
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。3 j% x7 d! [/ c' a I
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. & Q6 ~5 c3 @1 T0 h+ t: l5 X: z然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。# j) f: [% C$ \* y2 z* I# S1 J: F
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. * k- d# D8 [; a7 O8 ~哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。+ h; X& T5 r1 C2 y- r) z1 c# I
That's a memory problem.' T* W7 c3 d* f/ W; _ r2 x9 h
这是一个记忆问题。 7 f8 a; n& W. n1 e/ iI guess that counts too. ! v4 H' p D& c# h2 o我想那很重要。. Q/ j8 [' ]9 N- R- Z t
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?6 o. _/ `- [' w: D* I
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ; S0 e4 s5 r' P# j1 r$ S' {, D6 x4 |At one point, there was a reason we do something. ( }* u/ F1 q! P, E/ Q6 l/ e在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。( w( Y! F0 ^3 o7 ~' O
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.- Z! B8 ?0 {( `' H, y
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 & K; O5 x% L5 M+ r# R/ FIt's always could to ask ourselves why. $ ~" d1 d. p! t+ ~7 J# R, `总是可以问问自己为什么。* U; |% G( b$ `8 k
Why did I start to learn a language? 2 X/ L3 ^4 r0 O: x1 ` a8 r$ Y为什么我开始学习一种语言？. G& @( Z9 l9 M }; j/ r/ @
Why did I join this club?! U. W( j$ T8 t
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？4 e0 X- M) U! b9 d l3 g
Why my friend was this person? A3 c8 v. S: t4 t5 V+ `
为什么我的朋友是这个人？: x6 }4 z2 f$ [, @; K6 T9 _/ k
Why did I get married? 5 {6 p; ~6 |! u& u& e3 _6 L' i为什么我要结婚？ $ e# I+ Y8 n: \; h; i2 jIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. - @+ m2 d" x$ {如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。* b% P& d; g6 W- G+ Z5 X
I think we need indeed remind us of why. + f+ p" S' i3 P. V我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。$ F6 b$ Q# f7 q+ K# F
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. % A+ T( @1 ~. p4 Z! ]否则很难完成我们所开始的。: L" n7 ^, ?* p4 E _; a
We stop starting. We quit the club.9 N- a% N6 p( N G; Y0 Z( Y6 k
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ! P$ _& {2 B6 ?. }) Y+ jWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ) c5 f& ^9 y4 t+ K3 B0 s" S我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 * q; t' Y: j w+ m, X! X+ OThere's nothing wrong with asking why. + H8 A3 w& ?5 c问为什么没什么问题。: ]2 ~2 h( Z1 F/ H* m
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.* O2 R# i) M+ s" [
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 . S" Q) X* w6 fTalk about it. 6 b E1 c3 `, v0 d8 o; x0 L c谈论下面的话题： l ^6 ]0 s, z1 c; q7 m
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?0 B% }: t- [* V4 W
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 4 p5 Z+ ~0 ^' j* N u& yIs it a kind of distant memory?( _3 L$ o0 @! s( ?9 _+ F
它是一种遥远的记忆？# P; L# e- q6 x4 O+ g8 V& @
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...) G* \- L: s. d: s! w& `9 J
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ; k" R! Y( a* a2 T/ THow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ( a6 o. \" J. m, k& m, x! J7 u你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 1 y% K) u: R6 t i8 s+ D& l& K% ~Do you write memos?/ c7 \% J, n: P2 W, z+ q) C
你写备忘录吗？1 w0 q! P& Z8 G
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?$ z, C, Y' T% a" y+ m7 v
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ # E7 [1 a2 E3 NWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?: |) e! p4 g, y! ]
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ % i. T/ k- O7 q/ b' ]! AWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?! `6 J- ]4 m# C! K8 s
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？