标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something % L! I8 k9 T5 H$ s5 f9 I0 y- w; @7 K7 b8 T& `( D7 z7 @4 m6 z
记住我们为什么做某事 * }: F8 T2 [7 DSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 4 [3 ^ F: j5 {+ H/ ^. w8 ` _有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 7 v* z+ J/ M* e+ G2 `Have you ever done that?" Q+ n, a1 C% s. F# T/ f
你曾有过这种经历吗？$ q5 W/ W. W4 y* q* B* U# x1 t) s
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. + y; H1 U" y- m! U) r' ?- c我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 5 {" y1 L% n$ q4 @( @' Y" d2 Y5 oI have called someone because I want to tell them something.% g0 m2 i0 V% p2 g& d; l, n9 {
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。, c/ l2 V# J" A7 z3 y8 R i7 _$ i
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.8 s( U+ E# y ]/ F
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。2 B* \( j+ e/ d/ H) a9 ` ]1 ^
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ( u. J" `% b) E- d" \' X( V哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。2 r0 P. q ]* `& [1 S. {
That's a memory problem. ( z4 M+ s. y# }2 N" `2 m这是一个记忆问题。 p6 V: ~! L% m
I guess that counts too. ! S: |& S# }' [5 u0 w* j我想那很重要。 / i/ W+ J& @: f2 ?" g* mBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 1 N$ K4 Z) { {' u+ T但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？. a' b$ ?2 \ p3 O
At one point, there was a reason we do something. O S9 E) d" E. i& ]+ A. Y' D在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。/ I( U5 q: h7 P- [$ D
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. & ?* {# ~, i0 e2 c5 S, h/ h: q对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 l' i* h i3 c7 _8 m0 I
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 8 G$ ~ P, ?3 U: b& [总是可以问问自己为什么。 5 H: V! P1 X3 rWhy did I start to learn a language?* H+ H* l' j% I( j3 @5 }) H
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ / I- u( R4 M4 x! n9 WWhy did I join this club?4 b. A( \( ^. P6 l
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 6 y) \7 B1 x/ N9 u+ f& tWhy my friend was this person? + N, S6 F# ?" L# W为什么我的朋友是这个人？# p/ l2 T/ e# ^7 P2 y7 f# b
Why did I get married?7 |8 A: ]; P+ g7 B% P) i
为什么我要结婚？4 A. p- D) m$ L5 h
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. / n* f8 a i& ~# C2 A& l& X! H1 F如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。8 P! ?# F: n* h, G0 H
I think we need indeed remind us of why.$ Z( M. v$ S/ b1 ^7 B
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 4 ?$ c, G# Y9 }9 I" nOr else it's tough to finish what we started.) _9 R& y! _. y, Z+ S
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 8 j: P0 ? G* j/ B, a! \6 TWe stop starting. We quit the club. 3 k" z$ o# E% f' Q: K8 a+ v我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。5 C+ G' i7 E! ^; t0 C
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.# ?! k3 L0 U2 o4 D
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。0 T( q, {' g7 O, I
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 4 ?' S+ ^6 ?/ W* s: l" T' F问为什么没什么问题。 3 o4 P, |5 }/ d, X+ oIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.( C$ T+ C$ K' H, z1 s9 ^
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 * X8 d: i# G) `& z2 aTalk about it. ; ]1 W% Z* i p5 e; O- ?% }! F谈论下面的话题： - u5 O4 r% d8 H: q: d4 b% BIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?/ t, l5 m$ v) ]- V
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ g! s( k1 J" O1 XIs it a kind of distant memory? % [# R$ e" V9 L它是一种遥远的记忆？8 G8 R6 g% u" W; }6 K4 L" V
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... , ]1 y2 O! C' a8 E- p2 g你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 5 J7 q* E' Z1 |: {How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? : r) `6 Z0 \8 o4 N你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 4 y3 I* i1 s# r) L2 G2 j) z' uDo you write memos? 2 X- j9 d* [% B/ M: S6 L3 b# H你写备忘录吗？ 1 b. d- i% }" X/ x3 S4 V- gDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?% q3 }! Y# |, ~/ @- Z- R% |
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？- T5 M/ F7 Q& W
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 8 C* o! Q' f+ p4 ?' k还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ & t& s s9 S8 r% R, D/ @What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 6 _. m# l4 \+ \你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？