标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something , Q) Z" R( F1 B: r/ q: Z, R9 Y/ e* U9 X6 h4 B2 W6 J
记住我们为什么做某事 ) H- ^; R/ y# J8 Z( _ R: RSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.; Y: \" r9 k) U5 N' V$ L
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。, f2 A, w# V% D \9 R- U& M5 f
Have you ever done that?' i9 ]: `- i0 B! X B$ w. u
你曾有过这种经历吗？ , }& V" Z+ d0 W% [& x# |5 |I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.' z3 D, e7 Z) N3 ~+ J
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。# w3 H# V2 Z5 X6 [" A' _5 ~2 |3 J% M
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. + R* N: k3 H1 N/ {. o( i3 z0 K& J! E我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 4 ~/ l3 ]! P$ P3 o f3 S6 _And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ! {4 f. Z8 A7 Y) f然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。3 U7 h0 i. G+ c8 z6 A
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.- n- m+ } S" @9 R: Q/ a2 h8 @: R
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 y# A4 L9 O, n0 |2 b
That's a memory problem.1 y4 |/ Y& _( k [/ {
这是一个记忆问题。 ) ?6 p" Y4 M# _: _) T- d; CI guess that counts too. ' P9 a* W2 Z3 i7 H b我想那很重要。 * C- j- t# `9 `; O% B& B+ Z5 tBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?' u* B2 M3 K* [' D& I; J. Z
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？0 w3 J. f* W2 ]" E J* A5 v
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 9 a6 M; Z3 R1 Y在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 7 f9 z4 D. H, k& s& L0 V1 W! i6 vFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ' {) d# I0 D, L4 N5 {+ X对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。, E) T( ]2 P; h, G. y
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 3 [8 C& v `0 }总是可以问问自己为什么。 : l' z0 C, p$ P/ y, u% @Why did I start to learn a language?+ }! Z, V5 Y0 O$ L
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ; @; d& T( H6 ?, vWhy did I join this club?& m, a: ]1 b) k) }5 b8 _
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？1 I7 h: F0 v7 X1 q8 Y/ X
Why my friend was this person?) X1 Y/ L6 A9 \& }
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 7 ]* k6 R5 K J! i2 ?+ B' \6 M4 uWhy did I get married? 4 O5 L! x/ d1 _5 h: j为什么我要结婚？ 4 X# X7 [! i6 c" r3 @3 c7 _. I. XIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 2 A8 N1 x, \: p0 N* h2 _. x如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 1 f- v. i t& z/ t3 t+ M/ TI think we need indeed remind us of why.! H$ ?" i5 O: f4 m# Q) z
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。! h- c" U6 s7 C# G9 \
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. F' c; T$ n! t N否则很难完成我们所开始的。( @; o! c% B2 O) m& P% V% Q7 l
We stop starting. We quit the club.6 { y+ u1 v/ [/ O0 X
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。! ~/ ^" [$ X: n5 s
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.; @; g! M" U7 }3 t
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。. _* G# G% r7 {
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ) g) r! [2 }* Z! ]: L问为什么没什么问题。 H9 w3 \+ w4 I# O7 J& kIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.% B8 e! v) E4 I: J. h1 |7 N, `
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。* R/ c: Q5 r9 W( K& |4 {
Talk about it. & D4 l3 Z, a0 g! G' A* _谈论下面的话题：8 W3 v Z" w% a7 ~
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?. z3 j1 ~# K0 v3 t6 A0 m
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ p- j) v( a$ [2 F# Z4 }
Is it a kind of distant memory?6 N6 \0 @: C1 m7 T( z U8 X
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 7 F' Z; v# w7 E B1 x6 U, A: ODid you ever forget why you are doing something...; `, y' h1 b* x9 e" }' D
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… / M2 S5 M3 p, Z# V ]How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ) E T* o5 ^- t* ]你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 5 \. ^% |3 R6 [0 s, A9 ^Do you write memos? ' Q- z/ Y( L$ b H, {+ b你写备忘录吗？. k1 t/ K' P& l9 \
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?+ u! D1 L% \6 C* h2 i0 _
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？& E: Z8 ^9 c! m6 l0 g
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ) D1 r+ H$ x2 Y# j还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ; Y% R3 s# h* L, B2 ^5 zWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? $ k0 X2 J, k! H, k q你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？