标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something+ J* K( M6 C0 u1 g2 }5 E
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记住我们为什么做某事 / K2 ^5 z. t- o/ l# b& lSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.1 R2 z* E7 [2 _9 A
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 % V& t5 j: Z( h; x6 M& n$ bHave you ever done that?9 g- `+ y7 p7 V. a3 ^
你曾有过这种经历吗？3 P# A% G. N: ~% |. ^- o9 O
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.# A" w! D* n7 y: e, X* A/ q7 K
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ; q- O7 o0 b6 W7 R' n3 ?I have called someone because I want to tell them something.1 U6 H) ^2 q) ?7 g' v
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。% w0 V8 l: H6 K# B9 D ?0 O ?
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. r% {; s4 F9 E) V* E8 B然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。% }. i: \" v3 I- B
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place., f2 n/ I4 a+ C1 j6 w
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 1 G: |' T6 h( `4 bThat's a memory problem.4 u( o! ?; C* G' J" F
这是一个记忆问题。 7 N) l0 G: k' \/ T. z# {I guess that counts too.8 _. y0 u! Y: P# K" w7 ?8 O
我想那很重要。 : j, z5 w3 P( y2 e" D& SBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?5 K' q* K5 Q3 d* T& ?
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？' |) Q9 K- ?9 I9 L' W4 `
At one point, there was a reason we do something.7 S$ F0 e0 ~8 x/ }# e
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 * t' T4 B5 V! F. x; b J% s+ CFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ( z3 N9 U! k# A& Y: X {对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 3 x1 ^; v$ H& o; b O pIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 2 x3 c4 p* T# {, \; t1 O总是可以问问自己为什么。7 C& d ^: e$ e. g. B" n
Why did I start to learn a language? 1 p& G$ L: }+ S" L2 ~- x为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ]0 M9 M0 y$ _6 b" D! O+ q
Why did I join this club?5 U/ f ?7 j; S1 e* v+ M7 J
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？6 W% ~7 l- V+ r7 n. l; A7 l+ I# }
Why my friend was this person?* A: ^. s0 e1 q/ J1 ], b& C
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ , a [/ j0 R' F0 l H5 }Why did I get married?+ H8 O4 t; Q' [$ w( G
为什么我要结婚？ ' l* J8 l' W$ P; `' N- V; p. f# VIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 7 v/ {0 ]: f- f/ ~& s7 Q; W1 T如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 : D7 j3 s' T, E* B' w0 gI think we need indeed remind us of why./ S# { @( n. H; ]0 K2 t
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。' f; h6 Y+ }! R9 ]; D' b
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. " i* c4 W' A" ]0 K8 z否则很难完成我们所开始的。 & @! R; s% _/ R" ^We stop starting. We quit the club.# y# J9 c) `9 T% ?) ]: ?: c* H! A
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 . R7 k7 z6 ^; N3 zWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.$ g4 S { Z9 S/ a# j/ q
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。. B0 W' c6 a( }) Q/ |5 E2 q6 {
There's nothing wrong with asking why. / v8 R& c* K$ r问为什么没什么问题。+ T5 }# T; W8 J4 Z
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 6 d" n: n( f" `9 c5 v; Y6 ^事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 * F, ^6 A! D, d- tTalk about it. * x; }5 X! r9 f& f4 R& L. V4 h- G; a谈论下面的话题：$ h5 |1 F% G+ Q0 x( ^5 q0 [" Y' p) B
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 3 e2 h6 s$ O6 |% v; I你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ / ^/ _9 A; [$ z+ A# _# g+ lIs it a kind of distant memory?4 s/ m- d+ ?& g+ e+ s( w3 k
它是一种遥远的记忆？4 ^- z1 d, G& N' L- m
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... : n( @' a p0 H/ q/ {8 R2 `& ~8 r7 t你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ) W5 G5 W( C/ \( Z' f$ h# x' lHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 7 Y& i) d0 k0 l4 w& j: e7 U( g, B1 A你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？' q1 o$ X0 P. u8 e, A8 Y
Do you write memos?) {: G+ n* _& X/ ^: [$ `- u
你写备忘录吗？2 \' s2 R/ q X8 h- b2 B4 a
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ) z1 I% T e* r( D, |你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？! j" V/ {5 D# `9 e
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?# i+ Z+ {( L0 F
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？$ ?- [" p C6 @3 I& g* ]
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?( ^; D& s% Q0 N5 d. |1 C. ?
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？