标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something1 L7 N' c8 V& s5 C. @: v6 V0 ^
. @9 ^, o; x( _记住我们为什么做某事 4 i2 I) ~& I9 I: u) _5 nSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.' }3 ^" u' C; |' V
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。0 I$ |4 ` W! Y) {
Have you ever done that?6 X' f) V$ N+ z
你曾有过这种经历吗？7 j/ T! h# X& l0 P$ G1 s% v; i
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.; x6 O$ Q& Q& V" x
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 8 s& f9 F4 q0 EI have called someone because I want to tell them something. - |4 j0 n b# P4 c我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ; J* V9 |: Q/ B% W0 hAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. $ m0 A5 i' ~/ |' _+ Q) N- ~然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 . }2 y j) F' n: g3 dWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ! [( j0 I5 E9 C- p: r- Y6 L4 |哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 / b; k# C9 U2 s [3 {That's a memory problem. / U: N5 o% \1 h2 A这是一个记忆问题。+ o( c/ }2 l/ ?+ A K7 H$ n0 [% V. e
I guess that counts too.9 J' F a1 g' T2 j) v* }9 ?
我想那很重要。+ v* c1 c& ]) F/ C
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?; H2 ?7 C# x! A- ]5 q
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ , t6 S8 Z8 A! l% l+ _) BAt one point, there was a reason we do something.& t1 H# I' z0 s
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 - Z' J; I3 a6 ?9 Z9 sFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.4 M) x; V# H* T( A2 H" Q% v$ |
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。6 ~: v+ J" `1 R2 E
It's always could to ask ourselves why.- \2 @6 p- _4 {
总是可以问问自己为什么。 1 Y- W2 o1 k* G, K' E0 f7 ]7 X9 @Why did I start to learn a language? # t% |( T# A, u! F7 n; C为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 9 u. x# J+ B" x Z2 z& X# |0 m yWhy did I join this club? 0 \3 H$ u- q( ^* z2 ]. s为什么我加入这个俱乐部？: Y5 N' i$ `1 H% j3 M
Why my friend was this person? 2 |) f4 D7 P1 ~( h" S为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ! u) i+ F6 L9 O9 K! H1 {Why did I get married? ; o, Y" U6 o% W$ K' V* j为什么我要结婚？ 3 N2 ]& t) |1 J9 [' cIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. & t& J- v [8 b如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 T. q" ~# F5 B: [0 o3 }I think we need indeed remind us of why.* L. h1 t+ j8 P+ G7 q
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 * Y# v' _! W; l! P9 v; O [8 k! KOr else it's tough to finish what we started.. f4 X* P4 p2 Z$ r
否则很难完成我们所开始的。0 b; C4 l% e- s: U$ p
We stop starting. We quit the club. ) ?8 {0 D" C% q6 r4 H& V) Q* z我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ' p& O3 Z# C6 ?5 ^. o* M& G6 }) SWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ! ]/ e3 ?4 E3 ] [$ v我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。7 r4 {9 x; M* ?7 ~
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 0 c( R5 b8 ]! I1 q5 l- M& A8 J问为什么没什么问题。$ L' ~0 e4 ^. f S6 V$ a
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.4 z2 l3 {! X' @1 A. f: ]0 |
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。% o- Q* `, s% x: L5 h: F
Talk about it. ; s$ q( h( {3 O$ Y# [* ^; u" ~谈论下面的话题： % Q! ~7 ~! Z7 y0 WIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?4 `. v% _; D) B2 s" K6 o X
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 5 X- B; {7 W8 K4 s, J/ ^Is it a kind of distant memory?7 U- h5 c$ P4 W4 Z8 B
它是一种遥远的记忆？ . u: v% m; V' |* `$ K2 a0 zDid you ever forget why you are doing something...6 I- a1 R6 l) z6 Y" ^5 c5 e
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……$ s# ?4 g |5 O7 t8 G* D
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?- f9 a( E8 R; Y- P! U7 e* v
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？6 M8 ^/ P* O3 {$ Q) ~! v
Do you write memos?$ u7 h1 l0 i$ V* x0 W
你写备忘录吗？ 6 a- H. ^1 E% k Z' S. N& j& mDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?& N4 o) W5 @6 h' Q
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ * m: m4 R9 D- R6 r4 e" Q [What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 3 z) s4 b% J7 H4 n' w2 Z还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ' V/ c) w% q9 \: r. t- `8 w' {1 SWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?. e" Y3 N; ?5 f/ p! W$ H! m
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？