标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something E6 i Z- `% M2 [, a x
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记住我们为什么做某事 ! u3 Y0 [0 C/ u5 E* j% v$ L6 ISometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.. q! ]; o5 D( V! P, f! v
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 7 t3 w* R0 R) X( O: |0 h, {8 MHave you ever done that?/ x6 \: R7 j4 H. {" k8 ]
你曾有过这种经历吗？7 N8 T6 F+ s# u6 y
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 1 W% |/ k9 @% K9 s' S我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。/ g4 D- k4 C9 _& A6 V$ ?$ Z" C
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. + l: T: D8 i$ l& r1 O" A我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 # F& t, b! u2 k7 m% m" SAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ' ^" N; C# y7 `+ u5 c, @. v% U然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 2 _9 b# q/ K6 K$ Q) X! `; ^/ OWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. # k' K; I/ ]! [ C) \哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。8 e( d5 J8 k5 k% x1 L
That's a memory problem. t" k. V- w! r% r' J4 M
这是一个记忆问题。; c/ C( x! h4 K7 d8 X
I guess that counts too.# A2 R w3 e" k9 L
我想那很重要。 7 f, h1 m! S) c5 V# [- ZBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?4 g% Y" V# U: h2 w* O
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ! C( F, D V+ B6 dAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 2 ]* c% [- m$ R: @0 ^# z6 O在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。: [" G% h% H! K, d
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason." w0 W7 I1 f& T g' t
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。+ v6 n) _! q7 K
It's always could to ask ourselves why.0 R0 {" O& B! E6 L
总是可以问问自己为什么。 ) p R F! r* V i5 OWhy did I start to learn a language? ; t% `- Z( w+ b+ n" B为什么我开始学习一种语言？ $ N% A6 d' m# b6 uWhy did I join this club? 3 o/ Z; H( }& F2 Z为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 0 { ]: ^/ l& l5 B' HWhy my friend was this person?# {$ u" y. B/ W. s
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ e4 H" e2 U& {* wWhy did I get married?& {* O. O) Z+ j E+ }$ o
为什么我要结婚？ 4 z7 h3 l% a$ X/ E$ n, OIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. ) D; x$ S& r: @6 N如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。" H O: [ q p( ?' ^& B
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 4 D! }. \2 _# i% n) t! Q我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。5 u5 P" H5 s4 i2 \6 ^& x/ C% [( L! K
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 9 L; m: T4 Z$ {9 B B0 m否则很难完成我们所开始的。, w5 K$ ]/ ^6 c" i% D, D
We stop starting. We quit the club. ( ], [2 c. M! O& q" T8 \& m我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。$ G& [2 {! {: ^( Y$ q5 l
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. # n( K8 V+ A6 ]/ A( y/ N; H: D. g, n我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。/ P7 \+ R9 k6 S0 H) m" F8 B0 l
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ( s! m; f) r/ O* q$ P问为什么没什么问题。 5 N& d3 l/ Z/ N2 u7 eIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. * n* K8 l6 C- |& b! b事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。: s( Q( W) q* [; l3 h
Talk about it.! x! \5 n+ ^4 H2 U& } X3 C' N3 w) H
谈论下面的话题：' u0 W4 x3 ?% Y! s
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?# i' }9 ~* F0 l6 C4 @9 g. O
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？9 ?) U5 T+ m/ M2 Y q2 e
Is it a kind of distant memory? . m# F( v. N1 J; ^它是一种遥远的记忆？ 0 L2 d/ {2 b! J1 G* XDid you ever forget why you are doing something...( S0 ]: x0 r, s9 j0 B: j4 |
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ( `, Z4 b& l& u4 S/ `How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?. f& ^* C* a: b3 b$ ^* b
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？( b) ?3 Q( L% `* ]) y
Do you write memos?. I! o% w; ~) Q, Q- v/ s( q+ k
你写备忘录吗？2 o0 A3 I8 e" _7 k8 V
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?- K2 H. x! d; T7 b! V# ]
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？& {) @3 b T0 M3 b+ |& E4 n6 X7 f
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?& K+ ^1 V3 D) S6 k2 O$ m9 o! B/ W
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 9 g4 |+ u% C; x) A& o B1 n, a) jWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? # ~' p. R: h: ]: C- J你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？