标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something9 @4 I- u S# e- x R
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记住我们为什么做某事 + M1 E- ~2 ~5 O9 {( K& O H u4 e9 ^Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.& L- q8 B, z$ `" r9 a' L$ L
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 . p2 E T6 N/ d OHave you ever done that? " i9 |6 I& T- S: |你曾有过这种经历吗？$ B1 `9 t5 U! F2 g$ K Q4 h( s
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.% B) ?6 y- B# f: J
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 * p6 Q5 \ k7 }1 P: B$ C+ NI have called someone because I want to tell them something.1 s; \' g, {0 g: v! o0 L( V
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 9 m/ F7 v4 r4 ]) hAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. . H8 f; V# L& Y6 e; l& O, G然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ! R& e* f5 H8 [ PWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. / q5 L6 X% I+ ]6 r: ]哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 , n" W6 H, @' s9 _$ b iThat's a memory problem.9 F- R7 Q8 E1 E( X* K2 {
这是一个记忆问题。 1 z Q7 y1 H6 c2 s/ [/ G( n* V% r5 pI guess that counts too. 6 Q' w" U0 B9 e我想那很重要。+ b2 F5 a% z; c$ R+ I
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?1 k, T3 e7 B9 e& g
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ * N7 X; [4 c) {5 u2 ?7 ^9 V- s V5 L. RAt one point, there was a reason we do something." k. u |% C! K. H; T! C3 h
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。0 O5 ?3 O7 k! i* N, v
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.1 i; w5 ?# I- U8 D. I
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 * _8 t, L2 Z& j: T" OIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 1 Q9 l9 q6 j; ?0 g总是可以问问自己为什么。: V: N- b8 J* y d
Why did I start to learn a language? " P: c, o; S1 Z E% @( z为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ; d5 v: d8 |& s6 T# OWhy did I join this club? % {# [% |0 a8 w( ?! R1 E为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ " P. K" |0 `4 p( h$ r0 i5 x& ]Why my friend was this person?+ E; c! z% A8 H7 H, Z. b$ t
为什么我的朋友是这个人？4 L# l# O9 [. C, k8 A% m
Why did I get married? 9 Y, c/ G/ J& ]3 D为什么我要结婚？ $ \( v, N; {% }" {8 [- r9 p& _If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. . L2 v Y4 b; j' ^如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ' O9 J( o; W- X: Y0 ]: {I think we need indeed remind us of why. i( i1 m! _; H+ e7 t我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 * c5 E0 l# T# c# v& t% hOr else it's tough to finish what we started. % E3 [1 J. J; w: `- x否则很难完成我们所开始的。$ z# X! g* ^2 A6 T+ K. b4 T
We stop starting. We quit the club.1 `* h! i7 ]( i. \
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。9 }5 C$ \* [1 Z4 C' r
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 3 H4 B" n4 M5 O" a; k9 F+ P2 @" o我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 K. a2 U% d8 l2 `: U+ h% hThere's nothing wrong with asking why.$ `+ ]* u" H0 h# j8 q- Q! D( u
问为什么没什么问题。 5 V# ^* Z# \6 b, H7 v a7 mIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. y1 @% u8 A$ \& O- z# ^: p
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 {, W: V( D3 K9 k
Talk about it. % d/ ?6 @% P0 {' \/ `谈论下面的话题：) ^% p+ O @5 N& n
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?+ [6 G9 ]" c0 K
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ % m, {. v, V, {! w+ N5 IIs it a kind of distant memory? 6 Y6 M: ~$ ^. X1 |它是一种遥远的记忆？ . @/ G ]9 @' k5 }0 ^, h2 GDid you ever forget why you are doing something... ) n! z: F" I: S* q* U8 N7 I你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… $ w8 c+ s+ U: W" a0 l# N f- R+ @: y9 ^How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?9 a6 ~2 e0 T9 ~2 i. H3 `* U
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ; j! ]& `; J. O8 \! k9 O: CDo you write memos? ; a7 [% s2 s' W K你写备忘录吗？ r4 x' h# d2 U" m3 c9 QDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?' Z9 U1 ^2 N( T+ S9 @
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ) n; m+ u1 @4 D% M! i% }0 wWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ! Q: {) q3 b: h还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ / X6 [) k9 i7 H5 o& y; rWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? " ~9 n) d4 u* N4 z; g你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？