标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something % `" K: G- c& o# P, I$ j# F8 m l
记住我们为什么做某事% Z6 J4 @! M( r% H; L& {3 Q
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.# B" x" h1 l; n7 A# V
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。, F' ^0 }# r( q* l Z: ~7 i
Have you ever done that?$ H+ v; ~7 r/ n: F0 z1 x
你曾有过这种经历吗？/ C; T" V+ n. s+ R2 u) ?
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. % Q) h& r, m* L9 r; \# m4 ?我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 e$ }$ y o( ]- |4 Q
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 1 N' Z5 K5 z, O9 |8 J7 t我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 4 c T D. h- O9 ]* J- ^/ @And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.* ]! c9 [9 z, H3 c* @0 R& u
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 # f( R+ C2 w( l5 mWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. . }1 P, i, K3 N' z7 J哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。! _4 u+ @+ ?. ~) q" G _1 i: R
That's a memory problem. - v% C* y- w' L+ c1 Q这是一个记忆问题。& x$ v7 Q: E- C' [2 v
I guess that counts too.% E9 b" i! n9 j5 y/ o
我想那很重要。 4 a( Y) T% a; R+ P4 cBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?+ X& M, \1 M' Z, ^- h: V
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？+ @! e8 V# }: H5 U. H R" N6 j" Q
At one point, there was a reason we do something. . @/ z( g- ]2 k/ A5 W在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ! F4 j9 K, _0 c$ R: w @For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.# z5 R# D2 U; W( z7 v1 r( Y
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 8 d$ ~' L. Z1 p z& y9 o V& }) CIt's always could to ask ourselves why. ; k6 C7 F3 T( C! y4 g% _总是可以问问自己为什么。5 b& Q* G8 R T6 m- O
Why did I start to learn a language? E% l a; l0 b( i4 }; j为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 3 z9 w c1 S& ~' hWhy did I join this club?) Z# c5 ~. |3 B4 Y( e9 s
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？2 a/ i6 y0 m3 S8 N
Why my friend was this person?0 b- p1 g a/ V4 g& \
为什么我的朋友是这个人？; j3 s: s# L2 `$ m
Why did I get married?+ \; T% `7 Z7 `: [& O# V
为什么我要结婚？ & o( `& v5 ?+ R. z) ] }+ aIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. ) A/ y3 v& E2 H如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ! y+ M$ r7 W( N! ]9 U/ [1 KI think we need indeed remind us of why. ! K, Z* N0 g0 B我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 , H$ {% j5 r/ c! w: L) g( g, D1 ~- XOr else it's tough to finish what we started., S) w5 C7 K6 Q2 ^2 |) l
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 7 L. M' Z) w7 M; H: O7 \/ rWe stop starting. We quit the club.) M- R( K9 i7 }
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。) m, W* I% e" j; E
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.! O5 E" @3 k3 v/ R
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。/ J, b$ @' x8 v8 s) Z" q; Y
There's nothing wrong with asking why.4 {, ]% r; Y: q( |: {; ~; s
问为什么没什么问题。 , U; U Y$ p7 b3 N! P) ]* |In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ' @8 U- _, `- I. S( g- O8 F事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 % G& K' V" q! C1 B* GTalk about it.3 o. {! G: Q% B: z1 Y
谈论下面的话题： ( P; T- d* m) dIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?+ N, ]9 T3 z7 j, d& V# K2 A( C7 o
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ! ^9 g) U, ]( M' ]* F$ `# {Is it a kind of distant memory?( E: o* A; q6 H w1 [
它是一种遥远的记忆？ * S, M. M9 v4 d0 P1 w; NDid you ever forget why you are doing something... , f; X8 w) p% k( q* m, [你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ( m" T" V3 }) s+ Q' F9 R# a. @/ {; iHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? , \% i2 n2 [* |: V3 s/ q你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？2 d' |4 @0 _' m! f+ T) E% t
Do you write memos?' R0 V8 a/ w/ u
你写备忘录吗？* N& J0 U( l1 [- x, U/ O; x7 L
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?# C* S/ |5 J4 } D+ B8 r
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ z$ g. O" n } ?! d( G5 Q
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?! K% z z" a8 m- i: _' N
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ) Z* Y& }* x7 n6 k9 u4 z2 e2 iWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 0 {! Z9 I I: T% Z* y0 K; ^8 t你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？