标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ( e m6 Y0 y- P4 h, e % B) r* q% ~# @- V3 r2 U记住我们为什么做某事 , j+ }1 b2 b2 `- V3 P! XSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.+ M" W9 i$ O/ h8 U" R6 m
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ) y2 D8 V+ u& v8 RHave you ever done that?- v7 ?7 j5 ~/ Z7 @8 ^
你曾有过这种经历吗？, n' C3 x7 {+ v' o& Y
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.$ I# x2 D9 h: R$ L5 L
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。0 L" a( H) q+ d! m
I have called someone because I want to tell them something., j* ]* M( G: Q. M( l
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 1 `3 \% A0 Y' cAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. : ^* r- m }1 H: F2 e9 e然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 & o% S% x7 M/ f! H- I& bWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.8 H) a2 r' G0 l) O4 Y" _; s
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。, p% Q+ K& Q9 z8 d% G5 j% R
That's a memory problem. 4 ^! p6 V- M2 @ z1 }3 u6 T这是一个记忆问题。( G$ j$ K5 w5 {% h
I guess that counts too. ) a4 V( |( M4 \- Z" D# A' C/ |3 s我想那很重要。 1 m4 S/ N6 _6 A7 l: WBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?, o1 M: d3 i9 f$ ^( ?9 R
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？( E: K. N2 b9 y5 f/ j1 O
At one point, there was a reason we do something., |% _+ _& L5 l! G+ ?
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ' p+ J+ s4 B5 v% f3 w- H/ p; bFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.5 y M( t5 B/ S5 ^, C3 C2 m: S8 O5 H
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 / Y9 }; t+ V* t _, Q" SIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 7 E4 b, p# F1 ^5 Z+ I总是可以问问自己为什么。 u( n/ E- T" r/ P4 l6 E n1 [9 y. sWhy did I start to learn a language? 6 y% ^- D5 L7 z为什么我开始学习一种语言？$ Y0 w+ b; q2 o& O
Why did I join this club? $ G4 V' }7 q* o$ @3 O( D2 g+ u6 p为什么我加入这个俱乐部？1 l) Q* O& m7 Q6 k7 F$ h. N
Why my friend was this person? & C/ C5 s% K; q为什么我的朋友是这个人？$ P9 c0 m$ x6 M5 d2 R9 `5 S5 R/ c. ]
Why did I get married?, D$ |1 `; h- b
为什么我要结婚？ $ z) m+ y8 y, b p; }- G/ NIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.* z2 O: s9 U" e! e1 s9 `! d
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 6 T. @0 ~7 V+ b( X: zI think we need indeed remind us of why.8 ]0 _* W7 y: N
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。3 M2 s# M3 w, u. P8 _9 M
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.. c5 V- |3 x$ n* D2 X, e; ?
否则很难完成我们所开始的。: |! j. d! h+ r: Z w
We stop starting. We quit the club.: u$ R7 k$ I6 ^* f; @/ G- A; n9 R
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。6 [3 Y9 \. A8 \" h
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. / P" L4 L( W' _我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。( m2 D+ ^! z* H; f7 p: v5 I! L4 Q2 U2 v
There's nothing wrong with asking why.6 P* Q2 i; F/ ^. u/ t4 }' n w
问为什么没什么问题。6 M; O/ R7 K" q8 c' e7 l
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ' p6 c5 T9 ?9 x# i8 C8 a, d: b事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。9 I5 j; g9 @* t: z$ D0 D; {% k' E
Talk about it. 6 G& Q, V0 k4 `& m谈论下面的话题： 2 t! c0 K U, K) [Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? h; T; G+ b0 b9 y6 q
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ n. t6 l) M; X
Is it a kind of distant memory? & x9 w: F) s* @( `' Y% k7 h它是一种遥远的记忆？ + m1 k* S+ t5 f2 YDid you ever forget why you are doing something... . f2 ^8 A/ w3 m8 O" o你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……$ p% u( O% d9 n
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ! `2 z6 {4 _9 T$ G; a你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？5 ]3 b G( x; H# L
Do you write memos? : }5 }0 b4 h9 l6 r& ]你写备忘录吗？ ' S# _; y& q# b6 \! RDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ! p- z" L3 |- _7 o- p) {你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ , _+ y9 j& q9 H5 t, k) ?What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?9 p$ Y" W$ S7 G" k7 A
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？# F% o& F7 N* w) m2 v7 C# Z# f7 b
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?+ g1 Y9 _/ ?) v) P
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？