标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something $ g( r8 O1 u y" W. m, i * v+ [/ {" |& V# g% _8 C! f. y记住我们为什么做某事/ q9 b R' x2 Z
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.7 I4 R" I; t6 U) }
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。: o$ ~/ ^/ ~% q+ X- u1 L
Have you ever done that?' W$ f0 n, o. a$ I! T8 `
你曾有过这种经历吗？ % Z5 ]: [8 q& i0 MI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. : N& b1 W- Q3 ~* O我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 t1 a' Z$ U% s0 Y$ II have called someone because I want to tell them something. ( x1 y. k1 _3 f我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。) ~' S, f8 W$ O- a3 Y$ V
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.$ r& h1 K/ A9 S
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。7 o0 d, E( L$ w. e
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. & @! X1 q8 F3 p% D哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。# J( o5 w8 K- q) ^1 X
That's a memory problem.5 u3 L' g9 c' T f% q$ A
这是一个记忆问题。 5 ?. ]+ ]3 t/ k# c. ~I guess that counts too.' Y3 P( l1 |; H- `
我想那很重要。8 V2 K+ W0 m8 T( T, I% j7 v: b1 z
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ) {) h: D: G0 Q7 } Q) g! Q5 p但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ) X# I! | [7 {& L- T7 cAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 1 I7 i& y4 }$ S* j6 I! ?# E: s在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 Z0 y/ D0 D8 g' K$ t
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 8 H9 S( V8 V9 ~+ P# n0 e/ `( [对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。: C9 u+ j$ y; Z$ g9 Y2 Z# j
It's always could to ask ourselves why. - w. Y: R' p8 O: U" [总是可以问问自己为什么。 - E, ^) T. P, j9 X+ U. SWhy did I start to learn a language? 5 y2 J$ C# ?# z+ [7 P N7 o为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 0 g2 ^1 c9 r# J5 X; ^5 |& dWhy did I join this club?! Y; ~/ k2 r% E, b2 n8 K# B9 B
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ! }+ r! h" G) v7 L* Y; PWhy my friend was this person? 2 D# X+ u0 @. h为什么我的朋友是这个人？7 n% p7 [; O- W) y
Why did I get married? ( a1 u( L. m! L7 G9 ]) O# T S为什么我要结婚？& i; S' f% u3 X+ w0 ^
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.- ~2 P. l4 u1 h' I% R
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。/ Q% u1 c$ X; Z
I think we need indeed remind us of why. ' t# B5 t+ o& S$ O1 Q/ ]我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 3 L# B) i9 i9 sOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 6 L2 e- l8 o% l' ~1 c! Z否则很难完成我们所开始的。8 m' Z2 ^2 Y- g$ Z9 S
We stop starting. We quit the club.5 e) `' b" H7 G. V2 d
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。4 l& z7 ~" I7 _' d
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 9 g! W4 F7 M; k" c R我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 2 D7 }' |4 e( fThere's nothing wrong with asking why. & g$ v7 m, N+ D [* K; q7 F7 h问为什么没什么问题。/ C Y) \% m+ r( F2 m" C
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. " {2 R5 d4 N" J( N- d事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。) W" h3 p6 ] o- |; o5 u
Talk about it.' E) g$ n' n5 ?& o
谈论下面的话题： " i8 |/ Y' ], c3 U4 P: ?7 K4 \Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 6 R, ^2 R* Y0 O8 `! T/ b你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ; N- H' ~( n+ {' v' bIs it a kind of distant memory?- V" Q0 F) j5 R
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 8 R5 d9 a1 }6 EDid you ever forget why you are doing something... 3 r" m* m' j) x# o1 B- R2 n你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… * g5 o, l V) |How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?$ }% f4 c& f% c
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ : J' R3 b$ q# [Do you write memos? 3 s6 t( h" R5 G' W, [: J/ R5 }你写备忘录吗？( Q/ t) [8 h5 g3 S8 c
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? s+ v; _0 n; [# k; E你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？5 b x0 o6 P8 O
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ' l( t2 R) n1 g; O. r还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ - t0 y( Y8 T& o6 u9 lWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? $ w3 }) |- A" d9 b d+ C你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？