标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ) w w' s& B2 Y7 n6 j9 L% d+ r6 h6 e3 J3 ]/ z
记住我们为什么做某事1 v& Q* m: n& Q, n6 F/ `+ c5 L
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.7 d# n) s' t- M( `# ^
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。) d( C+ S4 x$ M" J T
Have you ever done that? 8 c) W# ]7 @0 V8 J8 d8 ^3 |6 x( s; B你曾有过这种经历吗？3 }6 g; e) V: i: J& k( ~3 P
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.( t1 P; R5 g7 c. o# F7 F4 r
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。: }) ~0 n' K& f9 N
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. : B7 ]( Z L' h我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ) ^( r8 U5 @3 d6 A. nAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ! c. V5 E% Q j: d6 o! J/ Y" C1 U然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ' B1 v# z! b7 g& U5 b2 JWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.; @3 ?1 v% J v j& w- f3 t7 z" G
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 1 @& t* a9 q' G& }; e3 B6 PThat's a memory problem. ) X6 l5 j. c* F* J' a这是一个记忆问题。# y0 h) |2 Q X* U; t; L0 e
I guess that counts too. * L. [# B. E. q; H我想那很重要。 * X5 Q2 C$ c5 D* w- \" YBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? q- H) m1 i1 @( F* f) `
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？+ C7 @1 q- U( N, e. o6 G
At one point, there was a reason we do something. ! H* S9 ~% D9 O! a T在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。! N; d! R6 E) @& V1 b4 `
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. % ]7 k) e! V: L# U对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。5 ?& Z( ?3 ~7 U! P, t/ r
It's always could to ask ourselves why. a( |8 ~& B- B9 N
总是可以问问自己为什么。0 t- ?& u2 x/ J( u9 L
Why did I start to learn a language? 9 b4 P) _ p( y为什么我开始学习一种语言？% X% f1 U" f; X/ f
Why did I join this club? 3 w. H$ {7 H ]9 o为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ M9 E p% U; v( G# U1 ]0 z6 i: _
Why my friend was this person? * w! i# g$ t5 l% }8 u4 F为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 3 {3 T( o& z6 mWhy did I get married?* U" C3 L2 g0 [% L. _' u+ j
为什么我要结婚？ & J9 N6 K% m' O, _9 W6 vIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. : {! u- m* |8 Q" E8 Z如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。1 Z, Z' q' s3 @$ R
I think we need indeed remind us of why. U; {- W8 P' f& q& e4 Y, e我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 2 K- j$ ]. c7 v4 KOr else it's tough to finish what we started. ; {7 c( b0 F: a' y否则很难完成我们所开始的。 * T K) V+ P' O1 u& `We stop starting. We quit the club.# T/ W+ c* A; P
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。, y t/ {* y* i, k+ F, C; g
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.7 x9 N$ f, l9 y0 h4 L- r$ d0 j
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ) S2 D# c% L0 X8 v9 }There's nothing wrong with asking why. 7 p" N# \0 {2 J1 v1 Z3 _ J问为什么没什么问题。0 f" O5 _ I( K3 v% \
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing., v! p: }2 f$ @8 |( w
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。- r) e0 k$ C: }+ B# d$ d
Talk about it.$ J' @5 k/ Z8 d; |% o8 n5 ~
谈论下面的话题： * N8 l# }% g& x, EIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?: o; f7 H7 F- E6 [4 x3 u
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？1 R9 ~) a* }0 \" @0 k# w5 u; A
Is it a kind of distant memory? / o, r: n8 n1 o" ^0 T% U! I. M它是一种遥远的记忆？" M1 y( _ T" Q2 ^( f. M6 u2 s
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... % d+ ^. }: S3 V5 e+ |" r你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……$ M9 ^6 V+ Q6 K
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?; d Q( E1 y* V; `1 W
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 6 F+ x! D, P+ c4 r# G) ^% g( dDo you write memos? 2 c& _5 C3 I1 c$ y" M8 m$ L0 r7 B$ p你写备忘录吗？ " i# D6 T) t( _$ N# fDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ; S& w/ x" t- N你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ # P/ |1 C2 K* S5 d& y i, {2 }What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?5 k; z. s; c# \
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 0 c/ C2 J1 _1 D& b" oWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? $ Y' g M2 `2 V. A w你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？