标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something* B, `2 s5 P" ]$ e6 k# Q% ]9 {7 k
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记住我们为什么做某事 * S3 V- G4 x0 J: H5 Q7 N! ^' JSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.$ U( F5 ^ a. R( H8 o2 U4 L
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 . k Y: N0 M5 e0 uHave you ever done that? 0 z: r/ T! t! u; M6 C你曾有过这种经历吗？ ) q7 x. e" }- h. U2 ]I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.! w' {9 \- T6 L+ m& _
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 % P5 T; @1 A1 E: Z5 lI have called someone because I want to tell them something.4 K/ ], U6 @) D5 l1 L* a
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。, ]% f' b5 R) q2 }
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.# l4 t/ g3 y6 V, `
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 + [/ @1 W* e$ [* l, `! jWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 7 A1 n2 l2 l8 ~# r. w& m9 ^哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。8 v+ ~( |8 k+ c, d
That's a memory problem., z6 s! c/ [+ ] K
这是一个记忆问题。 # w3 m7 O- b8 ^6 @- bI guess that counts too.& m1 d2 y+ r( o5 k9 D& b2 w; n; C
我想那很重要。' Q# n7 _+ U a3 w$ W
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ' n+ |; _# b6 Y- [( J. o* Y& _但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ . d/ X* i# k# ~At one point, there was a reason we do something. 1 l" Y" d. X s# q! v在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 6 v: z: {" b2 L6 {0 C1 ^. mFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.( X+ V0 m" V$ x$ p9 W
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 $ X& z" U7 _2 t& DIt's always could to ask ourselves why.$ I4 K K- Q8 ~4 Y! W0 D8 F6 p0 e
总是可以问问自己为什么。 % o( D! Y0 P1 t# QWhy did I start to learn a language?) `1 K" w+ J2 d: k+ u- {5 R: Q
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 7 M I' K |& S' n" I, L1 i+ dWhy did I join this club?# ]6 C: \3 U6 [; ^/ N
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？/ j2 |( Y" l5 f, ?: l& g3 F
Why my friend was this person? 9 p- `6 N: c s& W/ R" |为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 1 F. Q0 T0 n. F& |1 j" y4 E K6 ~Why did I get married? ' l- r9 A/ ^0 D3 [) y为什么我要结婚？ 3 k. c2 g) V y" S4 z6 B, ]If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.$ |) ?; U# J, @/ W
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 0 T: { `2 V1 }' }# NI think we need indeed remind us of why. / n/ X* \" Q5 v, X6 z我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 5 \1 P! c! K, w- dOr else it's tough to finish what we started.$ c' e( b& `/ } @4 x& R
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 2 t4 A- ^/ Z3 c2 i& \; o1 IWe stop starting. We quit the club.0 z' X5 @+ B8 q% H2 M8 y
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。) i! j5 f) i) ?; T
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.3 @( Y) Q6 }* B3 K; R. _
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。( c1 l7 O* P; g3 c4 r/ l* G& G! ]
There's nothing wrong with asking why.& I& M' M; [2 i2 y& l
问为什么没什么问题。8 X+ X% Q2 O# M7 K* s
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. * w- f6 V- y' L$ N2 R2 U事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。7 W1 d, @* L ?* y% z' H
Talk about it. # m& I% o+ _; g. r谈论下面的话题：$ R9 o S+ }6 H
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?3 T% k! b3 l2 Y3 i* _# Y
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ . Q% r% m' D& x, P9 ZIs it a kind of distant memory?- T& I9 k: f+ g9 k# J6 [
它是一种遥远的记忆？" |- j0 _8 e& l: `. ~
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... & w1 n4 N8 c+ [7 v你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……5 F4 o7 e A+ g; }3 @# k5 h3 ?2 u$ n
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?; y6 k& ~5 E6 r0 f0 T% j* l: F
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ $ ]( H, ~* b; B5 R% o+ x% Z! l2 |9 nDo you write memos?" R) A' G( \# V# a: S: U, r0 c
你写备忘录吗？1 ^9 i8 H. B q1 t& w$ y$ G* {: Y
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?1 e8 K t4 h2 s% M' d
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ , ~6 c. p$ E3 X2 Q3 NWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? # A% ]- z. Y7 V% O& N; k$ u ~2 z还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ * G$ U5 X) b( h: j0 sWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?6 u( f4 I3 e% Y! }8 a, i
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？