标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something2 p* }3 m4 u" S0 k" q' @' {& j
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记住我们为什么做某事 " ~) o1 `6 ~9 C- USometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 7 `, u9 e- r3 f: n+ Z: {' ~有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 & m9 \* Y6 y e' @) `Have you ever done that?7 I9 z0 I: [9 U& i( R& O7 G
你曾有过这种经历吗？- L. G7 ^8 e" E2 X, X( N6 g
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. . V b% ~+ _3 V6 V0 s1 K9 c1 P我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 8 W8 k( B/ h2 [: E, R% m' CI have called someone because I want to tell them something.( ^! o+ o; p% _ z# Y
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 " U6 A1 y$ F9 ?( }9 D! {4 G: s& TAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.: u- Q3 P! X) a7 ?
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。% s/ A; ?6 c: y
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. # a1 I' m& u; D+ O哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 1 E0 G& g" A' T: v7 mThat's a memory problem. L& B) A0 X z8 q* c; B
这是一个记忆问题。6 v% q4 f C0 w/ {! A3 A
I guess that counts too. / W& a. A0 U0 {1 Y' A3 y6 d5 x我想那很重要。) W# f$ E3 D5 ? c# `- V/ A
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? a; F7 B: x- ]- ^; Y
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ % u4 M! k% I7 e7 A7 B, G0 O3 D2 n; lAt one point, there was a reason we do something.( @( C: S; S5 l
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 , ?5 D! W$ k: {- S, I7 lFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. , a3 X1 S" n& B对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 3 N, Y, _: W9 Y/ I+ l& x. AIt's always could to ask ourselves why.7 B" M' U( n9 f8 w" V
总是可以问问自己为什么。$ n3 J$ z. L# H" Y; c
Why did I start to learn a language?4 C% c6 i$ W b( w2 u4 f8 e
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 5 Q! _9 I; F3 |; U- P. DWhy did I join this club? ' |! m* G1 p F2 d, ^( H" N为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ + \6 q r' t- v7 X$ Z( l: jWhy my friend was this person? $ [" R; F0 P5 ?2 M' Z0 L4 U2 s( a为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ; k7 @: Q0 K) q# H, |Why did I get married? 2 D) N! t3 D. B5 _为什么我要结婚？ 1 Q- u, O9 Z, R9 n9 W, Q* MIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.% t$ |- T6 p% l% U! m& F
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。8 _2 ?$ R5 ]. d3 _8 Q% o1 H* Q1 S
I think we need indeed remind us of why.1 {/ ]) L4 @. r( q% ~
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。" |4 W8 y* p. h- k5 f% Y& D* R6 \
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.. ^' ?3 u0 e% \- [
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 - P7 m2 V4 I; V# r* }: U7 z3 nWe stop starting. We quit the club.9 ]7 X" e- d# f: u. N
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ) I) d# M7 V g" G3 c3 Y6 tWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.- M: W3 Y/ L; B
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。7 O6 M' k$ C* \0 e" _4 o6 G
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 5 r! {3 H) m3 w: P4 j4 E0 ^+ J问为什么没什么问题。1 G+ }$ @0 e: X' S A
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.+ E3 F2 B ~( }4 z+ V2 @
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。1 I+ y; F- H: G* V; t% _
Talk about it.8 N1 x. q" x! E9 g0 S+ r2 S
谈论下面的话题： , M6 b l+ l9 u- Z5 [Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?- l$ Y7 f- @/ ~4 J6 @) z
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 4 e' j. n& F# c+ O1 @3 }5 fIs it a kind of distant memory? k: c- T. p/ H' b& p8 i8 P. |8 }它是一种遥远的记忆？ $ ~' o# E- P* p M" j$ W# vDid you ever forget why you are doing something...5 }. c7 h* r7 e4 [
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……! F6 t; I# l3 V
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? * t4 a: ]/ Q: P- q8 U你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？) D: n1 C7 T, |' f9 _
Do you write memos? 4 R/ A% ~. c9 c# M# g# a你写备忘录吗？8 Q& H, R! N( q3 i/ A
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? # b4 J9 O' s8 r, N9 Y8 C7 I你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ! G' a2 R0 f) r) O: rWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 5 m; Y$ y5 l2 E8 t1 R4 X还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？/ T7 J5 J) F% I8 M9 b/ h" j- Y. T
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?5 G$ Z- t- A6 A% h9 L* x: X
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？