标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something+ `7 G7 |) E! `/ g& t, X& o, D
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记住我们为什么做某事 # }+ O b/ N1 j% h! n. uSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 0 d5 K" f+ j- }" Y6 ^有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 0 }& {1 L2 s" {, WHave you ever done that? 0 M/ D8 K5 J- t' q( Q" W% i你曾有过这种经历吗？ 9 I5 w+ ]4 `6 S* p V9 j. W! E' UI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. . C$ e. P |# V, z2 J4 h我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。2 i! L$ N* J5 E' E6 f- i" t( l) f
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.% G h0 h! W) O' p4 I$ K
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ) |! a+ d* Z- b# ~! I$ g7 A3 ^4 ~And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 8 |6 d3 s9 z8 J& u; n然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。/ b/ G& z: Q2 P8 t" X. f% Z. N
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.) M7 m9 z" U j9 g2 z' x7 C/ i4 h
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。, k* D* n4 \1 `1 j9 {# V
That's a memory problem. 6 D+ I9 Q' r4 C* {9 B8 `# K9 W这是一个记忆问题。3 K2 |* t+ [& C% P/ X
I guess that counts too. ( K$ W3 B1 X1 V) l我想那很重要。6 `4 d! q* x8 r; j' t
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?* \7 E9 P" ~& C+ r( L$ W
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ % I' J; s8 K) N- E: eAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 9 P. I3 x5 s! |6 F4 D在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。4 y+ R2 b! y6 S; B
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.3 {# T* e+ k$ C4 f
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 : A+ g: }) z. p5 Z0 |$ VIt's always could to ask ourselves why.9 o1 P! x3 h5 H
总是可以问问自己为什么。 2 l7 R( e. B+ `7 \( FWhy did I start to learn a language? . T' q# w m* ?# y/ g( i) h& i为什么我开始学习一种语言？+ k! G. D$ J2 s9 l9 W
Why did I join this club? * c( [$ b5 M# V9 C6 n为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 7 a3 g6 o0 p- w3 K1 {/ QWhy my friend was this person?. d* Q7 j* f( P- [' H% H* s
为什么我的朋友是这个人？6 ^/ U) q b, U6 Z0 y# k2 m/ X0 j9 @0 s
Why did I get married? * P& q; }7 B3 \, s1 M为什么我要结婚？ 6 h' f! B* V7 L' Q- S: R' q4 k; UIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. & M0 X# x1 A- [4 Z( s! O如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。! ~$ ]1 v1 Q$ s n4 A V3 c" Q; U
I think we need indeed remind us of why.( f1 M' ]3 ~4 _& P
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ) {; o: p7 k0 i! Q8 B$ G/ u% X. BOr else it's tough to finish what we started. ' m$ H% ~* K" q B否则很难完成我们所开始的。/ P: I: A& I0 c- t3 B5 a! F8 @
We stop starting. We quit the club.4 r1 g+ T" }+ R3 O! P- M: s
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。) I" D! V" R. M6 P9 H) d! b
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. [* j p' U; h9 F) {& v% w* r' A2 j' i6 ]
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。! M5 ? _/ Z0 u( ?: o" M
There's nothing wrong with asking why.% \0 s' b1 x/ E. s6 o
问为什么没什么问题。( b' S7 ^/ q% H% U: A6 |
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.( w8 K5 C' t6 z
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 + }, E. o4 O5 S1 W5 ETalk about it. E6 U; V, C( A! }- u- K, l
谈论下面的话题：) o1 T* T0 q% p( b6 H
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 2 C: k1 i: L+ h2 q. @0 v你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ * c2 ~8 Z2 v6 i1 NIs it a kind of distant memory?+ w. d6 z7 }4 f" _5 q9 s/ A) `
它是一种遥远的记忆？5 V; H; [( }5 L4 j! H( ~/ W
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 3 c' d, n/ @* e4 f; j你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……- z& m- J7 y9 p
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? : ], ~ p( O* h& f; T# `" {" W你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？1 J2 {. W; y/ k$ o2 B: v) {
Do you write memos? 8 L9 ^/ l, G9 a! J7 }- {. \你写备忘录吗？ ! \3 t) `. x, \5 |* z0 h, v7 nDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?: c0 G6 i- c; _, _2 u! ~8 k
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？/ g: ~ Q i3 F& Q& x3 ?5 Y0 L% G
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 5 N: R, h0 f- u" T还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 8 D/ v( H7 J8 D% h2 T, AWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 1 ~2 N; ~6 r. T, O8 i5 m0 A你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？