标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something+ b1 I( S( E5 u1 Z1 u X
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记住我们为什么做某事 1 g; J$ \4 ^ NSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ! `/ _* T \. `/ {有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。! ?0 s/ ?* k3 `: Z
Have you ever done that?1 t' X# W6 \" ]3 k( a
你曾有过这种经历吗？) U: L. A/ H3 s5 R4 @7 V0 m
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.+ S) T/ e. |6 q+ j" o/ m5 K# r
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。. x# _7 L' {: w% U1 F+ [# _0 e
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.- s" f* q0 @! k& O2 X& G
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。3 M" O+ i. t5 M3 F
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.% S1 o Y1 {4 } ?, K
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。6 m- o& O4 C+ T( U0 B
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. " k: I1 r _; w. Z哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 1 g8 W3 D& N' B; z2 Y; WThat's a memory problem.$ H6 N; @- l( x8 H: n. e! s
这是一个记忆问题。 , T$ c0 }" S+ K8 L- y: ^I guess that counts too. # E: G# b7 r& _我想那很重要。 + d* M* u5 s7 y& ^. k& Z9 dBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? f# v/ I( |% c. m3 S" z- Z
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 7 p% m3 A' w) T. wAt one point, there was a reason we do something.! y$ d- F. X- [
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。% k4 H6 E1 Q0 m" T! I3 q/ I: b
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 8 \/ M2 S& z1 p2 w% ~对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 7 n0 R4 N5 P* ]( A/ vIt's always could to ask ourselves why.6 H, s; p+ u0 @1 s9 b" B, q: G# u
总是可以问问自己为什么。8 {$ X! Y. U7 o
Why did I start to learn a language?" {! h* F) b6 V9 i
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ) @7 C, }+ f0 z5 ]; ]Why did I join this club? ! b6 o+ z4 R5 O' X5 u为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 1 b9 U" f" H; g6 ~" K9 w' t0 fWhy my friend was this person? 0 }2 E6 }! |" n% C1 N为什么我的朋友是这个人？" m4 d4 u( y& F" o: M; S/ p
Why did I get married?/ e {9 R5 g' p# x
为什么我要结婚？& V6 V- w% o6 t% T3 r5 t
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 8 A+ r3 h1 X5 V; E u3 ^如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。, P1 I% }( ~( X& V+ z% U2 i
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 8 o: m; H. D! u* [+ K% f" v我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。* Z# Z0 W* o/ |3 M7 X" s7 m% K
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.3 ~1 C- Q% b9 c$ H4 V9 m1 [
否则很难完成我们所开始的。8 b( b0 s' Z( ]' Q
We stop starting. We quit the club. * I7 ^4 S: T2 f' j$ g) o, U我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 6 V( i6 n* B' oWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. * h8 _ d* b* a( J, [/ k0 I我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。3 w9 M# j1 l2 e9 @) Z' @" @
There's nothing wrong with asking why.3 H- m8 x' _; m1 e8 S& |# W
问为什么没什么问题。6 K: v# O+ W! L( k2 t# g6 Y2 i' u
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.9 g, `- f T# c! p: k
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 3 W' x* R X2 g# t E8 k. YTalk about it.+ ^9 p! X1 S8 D# O% \
谈论下面的话题： . ~* a9 b7 _1 m) ]- k% cIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? - \# \3 z3 u3 d你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 1 @0 j4 M9 a+ L! W. qIs it a kind of distant memory? + t/ @) C# X# j* M1 h5 \它是一种遥远的记忆？: i; S$ |5 G. R" g8 o
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... # o0 D# L( l" X9 L2 L" x你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……/ }: y5 Z2 Q" ^
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? * ^9 K2 s: M2 d9 E, c+ f你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？. F1 e3 j4 {+ W U8 S- e% _
Do you write memos? : f+ }# c/ h+ q) D2 i你写备忘录吗？ # g2 ?: e) f5 I6 E3 r- S" H$ ?) zDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 8 @1 T( m5 _: n# z r8 j你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？/ I6 B" c7 ~9 V5 F% o$ s$ E ^
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 5 _; J# b1 r3 S h9 _还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？9 b& x5 p0 g2 [0 g! U* H5 P, p
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?7 q {# f$ ]9 z
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？