标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something/ | W, `+ D1 y8 K J% F2 ^& H
$ O; w0 q( }- q- j/ @' q记住我们为什么做某事0 l: ^/ ?) W/ \/ `2 o8 f2 C
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing." X$ W8 z. r s" w" `
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 : T4 Q7 A6 L! T- |; C8 F QHave you ever done that? ; i( K& r, C# u2 C5 I6 R' n你曾有过这种经历吗？2 }( [5 n' M: G* T/ N! Y
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.4 `- }( ]2 z; S6 W. Z6 a
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 / ~0 Z0 T/ ~9 D$ ~" q% _I have called someone because I want to tell them something.0 q/ m/ w3 g5 u F u
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。7 d: g' z4 u5 R! D
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. : ]* j" _# Z: X; S5 V然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。! a3 |1 x1 |$ Z. h6 Q
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. # }& o0 G9 o" D c0 A7 B% S, N哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 f+ z1 `" S" R. ^3 JThat's a memory problem.. r5 P& Y, U; I5 V9 a
这是一个记忆问题。 + T4 I W, U: Q* XI guess that counts too." b/ H2 ~* U- ?/ A8 W# H1 f
我想那很重要。 2 E6 |2 w6 a4 UBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?. I+ b( @: I a/ a
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ & }+ d; ?$ f2 `! @At one point, there was a reason we do something.7 `& A+ x' g) C. Z8 l5 s
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。' A: n; g1 a, h
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.) v; b8 Z: _$ D L2 h- t0 c5 s
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 : P1 {! t, s/ e* D$ y" `It's always could to ask ourselves why. ( P- x' i* c$ N3 M5 v- u8 g B0 i2 B总是可以问问自己为什么。 2 r. {0 N7 ?' }( xWhy did I start to learn a language?2 T. n. U5 w" |5 i5 s
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ; _- r$ l$ r3 HWhy did I join this club?* D- D+ Z( f7 B( x
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ * V! p5 n7 z% j( r2 TWhy my friend was this person?9 ?1 W4 w+ N7 V' o7 g8 V0 r, t' ?
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ / n; W2 Y* C! Z- ]$ a6 o7 gWhy did I get married?" D1 G# a8 `# \1 p
为什么我要结婚？$ G( ~$ d, g" ^" s! c
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 5 E' ^# M/ j) K7 V如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。- X6 f2 m. u* B1 a8 D3 n
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 6 x2 V$ f1 w% ?8 l6 w* L! q+ m我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。* n- i1 E3 I- u* h) a( P
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. : y* w5 W; X! F& j否则很难完成我们所开始的。3 \7 c) P; h' k' U) P+ N
We stop starting. We quit the club. % n8 k* _. n& D6 T. f" \; J# c5 p/ Y我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 , R) u9 ^8 X9 b4 b6 y7 n& l" yWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.( B& g/ u( X- o% @
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 & S/ }" |+ D; M; Z% TThere's nothing wrong with asking why.4 Q# p0 F, d% [ `* x, K
问为什么没什么问题。 u! M9 g% m3 Y
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.8 B, [/ ?5 F O% {) D
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 2 n# L9 t* C4 O0 T# K: P7 H0 q/ cTalk about it. 3 m3 U" Z, f( o4 H" S谈论下面的话题：2 f3 @1 P Y0 P6 U' L, \/ d
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ! T( t! n$ N, [9 ^; h2 F4 l你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ $ M4 u. u; } N: |" ?7 G4 X, r8 P0 iIs it a kind of distant memory? - P: E5 h2 g; Z1 a/ a8 {它是一种遥远的记忆？! x% N8 I7 v: f6 D8 Y+ _2 L x8 g! [9 w
Did you ever forget why you are doing something..., x8 `9 g# s3 c* O% q2 O; |
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……! k' |$ T7 k- N: ]4 }
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?7 X" H% } p( l
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？0 u h7 P/ @$ u6 J$ T% M* H
Do you write memos? - v. u- ~# U6 Z你写备忘录吗？/ E8 s& S. t0 d* J- ^
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?) L- d& D8 u# I
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 9 x' J. e( E! l2 l5 MWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?9 n9 C! \+ X1 c9 I* }, j
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？7 o6 \0 Z" ~3 }3 a0 k; m
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?6 ~8 G b3 }0 {# o6 ~. M
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？