标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something8 x% e+ F K+ @4 b, i
5 Q2 c6 }0 y: Z1 W1 [记住我们为什么做某事. }6 B. f$ ~) g, b. `8 i
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 8 G5 o: g w3 m% x' P2 s' V" {有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ( B Y! b- ^ U2 Z+ _9 zHave you ever done that? I" C- }' S. A0 g" D+ n! n% |
你曾有过这种经历吗？3 w' s& D3 u @
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 1 S5 q o, C; K5 M我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 $ I0 j2 [9 @1 c) CI have called someone because I want to tell them something.9 q! q, _$ l9 P6 A4 g" F, D
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。& U+ v! |. l t# z& _: c3 N- X( ^
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.( ?* j# ?) l4 J' z6 |1 Q
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。; H$ K) D2 o/ w- b) b' s
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. + ~" q, C7 z$ ~3 x, p/ n$ a. x8 ]4 [哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ! y# r, h8 |. D- e! y. N% a5 T: KThat's a memory problem. 5 X3 h$ @" \+ `3 l4 S5 `7 m这是一个记忆问题。 0 Q& O. k9 N; M% m' {I guess that counts too. 6 H& H$ G- K& l2 z; o" `我想那很重要。 . _# t* @( w A1 }! C' H/ jBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 9 v/ u) K! q8 }但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ " H5 [5 Z1 W$ s% MAt one point, there was a reason we do something. * r- B4 E i, d; L在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。0 Z/ A, }' T3 S$ C0 l2 A" a
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 0 q2 f4 ~/ O3 y' `2 [1 a9 O$ A对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。: ^4 x9 K4 u. q r4 C8 R
It's always could to ask ourselves why.- A G. K$ Z9 Q+ }; E0 U
总是可以问问自己为什么。 / K9 `; E v4 R w1 R- e( {Why did I start to learn a language? , S+ ]) K% p! m! V9 b: @: j* U4 ~为什么我开始学习一种语言？, _7 t* H) x- ?
Why did I join this club? - M) H" P7 r4 N% l9 j为什么我加入这个俱乐部？/ B+ \" J5 W; W5 h7 J4 j
Why my friend was this person?8 [5 d/ n" Q& v! l: h. s
为什么我的朋友是这个人？7 b/ x5 a$ k* [' O3 U1 y) Q7 q; Q% {
Why did I get married?4 P) r. n* e& |4 L) E& Y Q* y
为什么我要结婚？# u7 z: q5 C) V5 J4 ~1 B+ S
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.8 N3 l8 d+ t6 F* O4 n ^. F0 ~
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ! y, T) V% X H: ^( }- {' KI think we need indeed remind us of why.% `( o- }' M7 Y0 l- B' R5 w
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。; E$ a. f( |6 E) N* F* W: {1 z6 r
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.7 ]& j$ }4 `- x# I( t% c
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 7 p( r, w" T3 d% ?5 nWe stop starting. We quit the club.1 @) h) S$ @& i
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 " Q- k0 R3 K" i8 {: ]& EWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. " u5 \4 g* E! w0 R我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 / Z( K9 E0 V% K4 }7 ZThere's nothing wrong with asking why./ T: Y8 p k# D f$ q
问为什么没什么问题。 $ C3 K; A1 z# KIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.* r; B7 @) H. H- J# l0 q
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 : q% @/ ]# T" h3 W. L6 `0 nTalk about it. 4 Y H/ T% ^/ u7 A* E谈论下面的话题：0 F: {- _5 r) @+ A) v, G' Q
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?; M2 F7 h( S5 b. ^
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ; g* F8 O0 y6 `$ r0 B" RIs it a kind of distant memory? ) s- e$ R) j3 ^* v! D7 y它是一种遥远的记忆？ ; R) f# w8 `; x- {+ t5 y" P- V1 QDid you ever forget why you are doing something... " S- d/ k* ]9 @6 k8 \你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 7 L& I; f' p9 i8 ^: O C! XHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? + ]4 N- l4 R2 e, @$ `8 z你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？4 I* p9 T; W5 M' N
Do you write memos?/ s) X" a" V) `
你写备忘录吗？ 7 [# A" W1 G" rDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? : r* @2 D, V7 A9 G6 k6 N% t你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？& y$ m" I! V# @; d) p7 p
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?+ ^' R5 ^; h* j; i
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 6 E& ]: _2 n. |7 P0 P! Y2 I( e2 gWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?3 [1 ~0 L$ ~; P/ ^3 l; x$ v) c
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？