标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something : \" n; P8 {$ U j/ p ) k9 B8 e1 `" N7 Z* N# ]记住我们为什么做某事 % J# D+ r3 o1 d% J6 y" aSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.9 b, K, V+ X( r2 D! N
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。0 \% i0 K5 Z; _* s1 N
Have you ever done that?+ S8 t0 }" \8 F8 \, ~9 [* z* i6 b' j
你曾有过这种经历吗？% c, c4 K l5 h- u$ a
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 0 V4 H$ f7 N/ H4 C我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 5 ?# l" E0 f8 n! G. g0 f2 QI have called someone because I want to tell them something.* k' S3 [5 x( z: W' d# i
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。$ z+ A* g# C5 \: y' J" ~; O' j
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. , h8 E4 s2 y6 A4 ^然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。$ F& ^, R- @; _ l. U- X# z
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.+ J, t8 u- p8 v: C+ J% }
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 / I) |# Z- D. i; s3 f6 `. _That's a memory problem. # C2 r: w. Z% j+ [# h* x7 C这是一个记忆问题。 E9 N+ k8 p0 r1 G* c TI guess that counts too. 4 ` E t: C0 j( o# m* z0 a7 w我想那很重要。 : P! w' F! y1 K) zBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? $ J( I- Z4 ]& T, J, h但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ( h8 ]1 n2 A! U9 e5 }0 rAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 4 R8 c, G- a- N/ W3 V( k在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ( T- e& w4 C5 O5 H$ A! WFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.5 {* h! q# L" K. ^5 M
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。5 [7 h! E3 t7 E: y7 L
It's always could to ask ourselves why.+ l1 ?3 H& K9 c1 F9 F' H5 t
总是可以问问自己为什么。 " b9 b- v* U- u' N; O Q; b% g0 q7 W+ lWhy did I start to learn a language? - w5 t7 J+ J- G3 l3 j为什么我开始学习一种语言？6 y$ |2 M' Q- E" N
Why did I join this club? F( |; u G, o) X% M为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ # p3 _5 b+ z1 f; c, B. q! W( d% IWhy my friend was this person?% H/ \4 c8 a! ]- W
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ " s q- w' a; `8 C* n$ d3 ?7 CWhy did I get married? 7 d6 U; f2 |, L+ G0 K2 Y: Z7 j为什么我要结婚？0 Y, W! F$ K8 |: g3 G+ D
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. . x9 v( X- u3 |; x" S' l7 S如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。- u/ S0 G, [: p. |
I think we need indeed remind us of why.! ]5 Q, q; L4 M- y& C6 s. z$ j
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ' p& `/ k3 i8 U2 {# h/ T- ?# IOr else it's tough to finish what we started. : A9 k- X& m- e, X0 q. [$ }否则很难完成我们所开始的。 - G" F) V& l) G3 j& B5 i. }3 q" mWe stop starting. We quit the club.5 n0 d: l$ \3 ]. N. r+ r
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 " c$ m* Q! n% g; b: CWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. % l s2 ?! N& K6 X6 _* W我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。0 {9 h' H7 h7 o( ~. W
There's nothing wrong with asking why.7 U( b0 K) U& O, M, }
问为什么没什么问题。 * [5 b2 p, g' Y% zIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ' @/ n0 w- V: L1 w4 ]事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 ; ]# o" l6 I' I2 y( d! ]# uTalk about it. * D+ S1 }' c5 N1 b谈论下面的话题：+ o& A7 I% d) g, f9 H" ^
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? # G' T5 J. X6 |2 f2 n6 Y* ^你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？6 ~' s$ _" O4 J+ n( f
Is it a kind of distant memory? ! L- c4 O7 M' q" s4 K+ {6 T- X% v4 a5 t它是一种遥远的记忆？ . C! W: c: y+ m& ?Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 6 z) R, S0 `2 r' g5 f7 Q- T你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……5 y2 F4 F. _$ s$ h' R
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?; l" O) m, a3 |, {1 X5 I* v+ d( T
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 7 i/ `5 i+ A. c3 Y5 Y- FDo you write memos?# r6 b9 ]" {! \- a$ d! d
你写备忘录吗？! F" N! d8 j" g) j
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 5 q, _& |% j* _+ V# y, `你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ " G! i6 O5 B& i' Q; Z8 a4 {What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? : O/ x; ?! a) J* J还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ \1 D/ X. b2 W) a. g2 o) hWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 0 X' m' D" P) J% o/ n R$ J% ]8 d. @你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？