标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something1 r( k/ Q4 A, u4 p2 b. Y9 V, P
& E6 ?) e6 y' `记住我们为什么做某事/ R: {+ t; H. Y1 m# l& x
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.7 v2 M% K% T1 J9 ?8 a# S6 R9 o# V
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。+ ?% ~- y' o; { }* Z% k) l
Have you ever done that? , _' l7 b3 N0 f' {: Y' s: h你曾有过这种经历吗？/ g- f: D0 W- f0 J
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.( p# S) ?7 ?! y+ N
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。% |, \" |, N, x
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.# [, t! r B Q6 K
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。; d9 @3 N2 {, m" H l1 d
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.* h, H J3 I$ S; g9 L9 q$ h
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。$ ?6 s% W, B$ |' G
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. " |* [& X/ [2 F) U. C+ P哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 8 K8 [1 j5 \* i9 t3 N, }3 r; xThat's a memory problem. 5 J) [( y! C0 M$ L) `8 z这是一个记忆问题。" k' \" M; v0 N( _- R4 I
I guess that counts too.4 ^7 Y& C f8 z- b
我想那很重要。0 x4 P4 x. @! b8 {
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 2 d8 }3 _" ]) v. P5 \6 ^但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ % y: A+ m% _' L. r& [5 cAt one point, there was a reason we do something.2 y* ]& C0 S* L! w: E
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。7 C$ d7 A' `% \* H& O
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 7 f/ s1 ~- c3 c' y7 U9 U; E3 C对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 + c: m7 q" I- O6 q5 s( {It's always could to ask ourselves why. 2 l; O% B% K) A2 S8 O0 y' K% b总是可以问问自己为什么。 ) J7 Y0 S3 L' ]" T( n# p' LWhy did I start to learn a language? - s6 h& y6 n. `" L& w为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ' L0 o' A/ X* C3 K0 {" GWhy did I join this club?5 M, z; I% }2 D$ C
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ' i6 D5 j: f; F# e: fWhy my friend was this person? 5 D) x6 h3 p8 V8 h9 h为什么我的朋友是这个人？( k3 L0 b e% \ m5 L
Why did I get married?& b. Z8 E* k$ g& F
为什么我要结婚？ ' z4 A, ]/ d7 [/ `If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 7 h( C: x! L* S9 Z$ N. a如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ; Q: d% i5 ?8 L$ t) M- aI think we need indeed remind us of why.. S. E$ I1 R4 ^
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。, @4 p9 \# D0 v- o. K2 S0 m
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. o4 ?9 Y; R- G1 k: H8 u' E; \5 P O
否则很难完成我们所开始的。5 R. Z6 l; c6 e, y$ A' F; O
We stop starting. We quit the club.& k `: u0 e7 E: U6 d
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 , F: i& V6 y3 p2 r& SWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.& |7 v/ W1 B! z8 L& m; w2 [
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 4 B) n. }" _/ eThere's nothing wrong with asking why. . ^7 }1 H# o. z6 ~6 a- c4 g0 V问为什么没什么问题。 & U N5 A- v1 w; J1 L" XIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.( Q+ Y' y$ D# G' m
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 " v% x, s! U% E FTalk about it. + U7 N) z" t% c4 \" s5 ]/ u谈论下面的话题： 4 x* T* e/ {1 y, d, s$ AIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? L3 Q& T! w3 N) x你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ( _2 q9 k3 {" G, oIs it a kind of distant memory?& q: q/ v F# m- @( {
它是一种遥远的记忆？ - N+ B' q- x. d2 s6 a+ n- bDid you ever forget why you are doing something... : ` L- B$ H/ H- P" w你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……& e/ F: ]7 Y; b
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?# G9 c# E) V# g* k5 o3 G$ F7 u
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ * i2 L8 |. \' U. M) j2 [% R; ~ J% Y$ fDo you write memos?4 P6 Q8 d) m1 i& e5 e$ P. T
你写备忘录吗？7 J7 S. L7 j7 {, G% [
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?4 s: m1 a# E6 I7 w1 ~ T
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ & @5 P J) u) V/ l S' pWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?) p$ n2 D! b! y; D" j
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ * q7 e9 U% \+ Q/ r! DWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?! l- _8 m Y* N0 \) r* \
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？