标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 6 V$ V. L) I* U 9 I5 U6 }$ K! f/ H记住我们为什么做某事 z D; z2 X3 d1 rSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.' a) T* [/ ?$ b0 K+ H
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 7 K1 @0 i: i5 FHave you ever done that? 0 h! Z8 E+ j' p你曾有过这种经历吗？. ?+ N! w' [! Q1 o J* L. S- G
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ' |7 }1 e2 i" T8 `4 u我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 % U' a2 r( \& w5 ?; |( dI have called someone because I want to tell them something. + \, {" }# Q, R& y" v, C3 g2 h我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。9 ^+ a; i2 B5 f. {, o
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.$ r& F$ H6 r; c% U3 g: \( B
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。8 E, G( S" h) ~9 t; \" U, X ~
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.7 f8 O( ]9 P; r0 u
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 . O9 ]1 @& E& [5 VThat's a memory problem. 2 W4 V# X* m0 G2 u& v3 e这是一个记忆问题。' T. ~4 r; t. J) f# Y( | z
I guess that counts too.- N- A: ~1 |8 P2 Y2 t
我想那很重要。, P5 E9 }) _6 e/ h4 x2 \
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 0 A5 i8 U# n+ W& G8 K9 B但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？" t$ g4 J5 z; c
At one point, there was a reason we do something.$ Q% A- Y# H4 ?9 F5 C$ r) f
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。$ ^6 G0 i# n: h! \
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 3 b; d7 H" k2 O& h, e) x9 A2 Z) s, I7 G对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 . X6 y) q- A0 L3 P/ KIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 2 R# B. a% a4 E: R; U7 l2 r6 W总是可以问问自己为什么。$ T1 s) G3 B) i8 X! l5 S
Why did I start to learn a language?0 E+ e% x" Z* W2 `: U0 u5 H
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 1 a( P: W3 m+ b9 Q" L; d! }Why did I join this club? 8 b# X+ v$ S* S2 i为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 0 F2 o) G& O, e6 X5 [3 @; zWhy my friend was this person? 0 w; N! E; X$ P9 t' ?% p( O为什么我的朋友是这个人？& t7 o( M6 D' t6 X
Why did I get married? 0 z% B# q8 o/ K' S8 m为什么我要结婚？7 \3 {2 Z% s1 A+ |/ w5 e
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. " F0 w! Y# H! @如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 2 J+ Z/ |* }. R( vI think we need indeed remind us of why.& R: o7 W2 ~1 K3 a6 @* G) E' }
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。# H7 d% g* s- ^) p) a" K) ~$ e! Z9 E9 _
Or else it's tough to finish what we started." C" [, [5 d: }" s% y3 {& N
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 7 N- P8 X7 E( \. d- M% xWe stop starting. We quit the club. * t1 L1 J: x8 c3 ?9 e我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。1 ~7 f& g3 o* v+ i: A; s8 a2 o
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. . w/ y& N9 y: l. h- A6 W我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。# [3 J1 y0 Y8 z, c" h! d
There's nothing wrong with asking why. : A' x/ |* [! `$ I4 e, I& M: z问为什么没什么问题。 # m$ M' ^ s7 E+ ]/ G) N aIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.2 b6 y3 F2 ^" j
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。3 o' r3 G: u- W: G% k3 V; `" V
Talk about it. $ e! k' j' l1 m谈论下面的话题：- Q1 T$ H/ T! j6 E* G* j- S
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?# [1 _' A7 R0 ^# Q/ b3 l. C- t
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ # N0 J* h% c0 Q: L) `6 m: VIs it a kind of distant memory? $ ?/ I0 b+ o8 _/ D" H它是一种遥远的记忆？. ]- h4 V5 O4 t- g5 a5 Y1 I8 |
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...) _, `3 I# A; Z' O0 S8 |+ J
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……2 M4 t% H9 r2 P% T1 `
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 3 L4 Q7 x& A1 P1 R0 W你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 6 a$ s8 b: O+ U( }5 K! gDo you write memos? 4 s" d7 ~9 V; ~/ s/ c你写备忘录吗？, Y0 b* R9 N' ^" `8 |0 V K4 O8 w9 T
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? + D, u; F9 F) T, r8 [$ N2 h你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 7 h$ P: {/ I: zWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ^7 j. ~6 R1 F4 j( v还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？5 s; k$ Y, Y5 d0 z4 s3 ~
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? " N6 W2 i1 s2 E1 @你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？