标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something0 J" S: ~* ?9 D1 r& P
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记住我们为什么做某事& Q3 l& ]' N, H( h: M0 L1 Z {
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ) O b5 h% R- J% Y) ~+ [1 A. ?5 j有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 8 }# F* i% P# X ]Have you ever done that?% V! K% R0 G3 H4 V* j
你曾有过这种经历吗？- O. v3 q" K8 N r
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.; x! C U8 r- c
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。& @0 A9 @+ U, m; Z$ t [# A
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 2 k4 Z6 k+ g( | y B" C) e我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。. ^: W) U1 t( {5 L- E& l
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 4 y& F5 a+ r4 P5 o然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 2 K- X0 x$ a& x: @4 J" nWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.5 f3 t* A0 P, [9 T5 N
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 5 W/ N; i7 f* V8 W9 ~( a& f- G6 p% XThat's a memory problem.% k3 V5 C- K: y" w" H# k
这是一个记忆问题。! W8 u) E: u0 R1 o
I guess that counts too. 9 p8 \7 n9 ]& O- V" o0 D5 {我想那很重要。0 R5 U4 I2 T8 c# Z5 ^
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?" D9 u7 |/ a3 B
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 7 l- g7 q, W! _4 y; h/ B3 Z7 RAt one point, there was a reason we do something. $ P9 ?3 i* j, w- g- a在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 % k/ _' l% @' E! {( e6 }7 pFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 8 t! {# ^( q* U" ~% [0 Q9 `8 J对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。2 C. y9 E$ N9 I1 F. h
It's always could to ask ourselves why.% o5 h* @6 l% y, q: ?
总是可以问问自己为什么。 ' }1 K s8 R6 k' K1 v" LWhy did I start to learn a language?9 z9 ^6 T) f/ C4 K; M9 X" `
为什么我开始学习一种语言？" |+ O2 t2 D" l+ Z6 K h( s* b
Why did I join this club?; y+ J+ l5 Y' X/ a p
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ % g) v. K9 P2 _" |* ?( rWhy my friend was this person?2 R; t4 u. _2 D: h5 _
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ u4 M) W) ]" M! d% [
Why did I get married?. g$ v2 Q3 F) E- [: T1 }6 t
为什么我要结婚？% x% l9 N* h' u& C( g
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 3 `7 k9 b$ @+ S; _如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。, t+ [% g: Y0 b' y; a% H" L
I think we need indeed remind us of why. - A* e, P* H2 n9 u- d我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ) }* @/ `7 Z% R3 AOr else it's tough to finish what we started. & W6 z; m2 L1 ]0 E) A6 ]+ b否则很难完成我们所开始的。- H" ]# n. d8 e0 t! s
We stop starting. We quit the club.8 j7 y; c6 q1 s! G p
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 % P; e, i' t. i9 cWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.2 Q7 j: x s1 Q
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。. _7 J3 q6 s* w1 p- |( y# d, k
There's nothing wrong with asking why. # T& G. S. N: o r! C( b: R) S0 c问为什么没什么问题。 q% _6 U. T: V. X5 tIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. - ?, V, H7 V, |5 M! k事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。; R9 {+ k' H/ Y
Talk about it.' i$ b& o( A$ d; V; b. Y& G: N
谈论下面的话题： 8 ]% b6 _! E8 {. o2 `2 C' yIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?3 h( a4 ~; T0 q7 b/ {- q ?, [
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 6 B r! }6 B( ~& _7 Z0 T/ i2 k- FIs it a kind of distant memory?, F) e* L# k' P! ?8 J. S/ F
它是一种遥远的记忆？ ) y* m8 V; N4 S& \Did you ever forget why you are doing something...+ T8 m" q0 K, A
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……# B7 M d' w1 k f" L& q+ x: t
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 5 L1 c0 v) j$ t# f# ]" [, K你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 0 {: y7 D4 i d* q- }5 ]Do you write memos? ) D5 W, Z* k4 I( @你写备忘录吗？ 0 J1 e/ p# k$ L7 w) WDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? # @. B- b" B! N你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 7 W$ X3 }3 c. ~9 v8 \- _& zWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 8 P- A |* N& c v7 O/ C还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？3 q1 S9 q4 E" p* O+ C- G1 s' d
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?( u/ F' U; H) h6 T* `
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？