标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ( N" d6 B3 N# F- K0 N; i8 T! Q 9 @4 i' k; E2 g9 \4 E记住我们为什么做某事' }* v* k2 \* q5 r5 E# Z- w
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.7 U; w, n4 H) ~* n8 ^
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。3 p' P' z- ^: V6 P$ h
Have you ever done that? , Y5 p" \4 W R0 M% Z. B你曾有过这种经历吗？' Y. F/ y' f9 d: w& X& ~% p
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.3 C$ z! C% O3 a+ g ^
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 6 @, |" |7 ^8 d0 o+ V5 bI have called someone because I want to tell them something. , w& x6 |5 t4 s9 r8 g我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。; |. K0 S( x% q K8 n: }3 p9 \
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. % p5 x& x8 W2 T4 N, Y; X, j& @, `然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 , D. t8 j3 W+ G+ c/ V; M5 @Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. " i T% i/ u& g( |哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 : n1 c: ]! b% W6 Q: v+ aThat's a memory problem. # v5 }$ J! Q/ V这是一个记忆问题。 5 w9 X. ?5 e# E+ ]0 |5 A" c, Z, xI guess that counts too. % m2 j$ m0 L- w我想那很重要。 ! P/ ?9 f4 d) nBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?/ n9 D. ^# x; ?. i6 S: w; q
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？) t: O; @% H9 F& b; a. N8 U$ `
At one point, there was a reason we do something. # W8 ]7 K% }" r+ v1 R在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。1 ~8 X1 }( ]9 d w: E* _
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. , ~# B& g0 }5 c对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 $ d1 K9 j! N4 U3 F6 }: T1 r7 MIt's always could to ask ourselves why.) h, B \0 V7 d1 D2 }: ~* D
总是可以问问自己为什么。% k* h& o) O: q+ A
Why did I start to learn a language? 3 f' T# Z/ L: b: N为什么我开始学习一种语言？( i# K0 [8 j9 J$ c1 J5 f
Why did I join this club?3 d8 {& f9 X2 c, D0 C9 ]& @8 u
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ( u1 }% g; W$ Q# y; yWhy my friend was this person? O9 `2 B) t% v; n+ E+ z( V" E* r
为什么我的朋友是这个人？3 N4 k3 r% g/ f
Why did I get married? 0 s8 K( O/ A8 }/ W7 Q% A为什么我要结婚？ # N* B5 Q u0 l% J nIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 3 g2 o3 Y8 J2 e \& h( Y, H8 g如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ( y0 d0 g* t$ A! J8 x! iI think we need indeed remind us of why. 6 U" \+ L$ g1 m4 U# _8 _; n2 [6 _0 y我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ( F% Z4 \+ F+ @( e3 X5 ?# e3 D7 I( ROr else it's tough to finish what we started. a7 E7 S) a/ _ [否则很难完成我们所开始的。 + O! k) B* w! S* R& c! wWe stop starting. We quit the club. 0 U( y' ^: c2 y$ q# `我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。+ `, U1 h6 E* k& [$ {
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged./ j) N6 x4 ~6 s. J6 N
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 , K& R& b5 E, \" gThere's nothing wrong with asking why.6 x, u* n; e3 N
问为什么没什么问题。" ~; R0 H a$ @" B
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.# |* f, |$ ]: x! J( M
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。% z3 ]8 r: J2 g
Talk about it./ @) F r4 |# R, J, A
谈论下面的话题： + b: F) w* K6 o: f ? X8 @Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?- A x7 v9 V! ?! V
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ O6 k+ Z: t8 p6 J7 ?5 L. [3 fIs it a kind of distant memory? 6 G5 I8 T6 f$ X3 P它是一种遥远的记忆？: q$ p2 b# U$ V- d- K( X, L4 b. l
Did you ever forget why you are doing something.../ j; Q: j/ A! B8 E
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……& V6 ?' e5 m$ G; m
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?8 o I4 B% g% g) S7 \8 ?2 W9 t3 v# t7 e
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 9 H' R; z, n( I% FDo you write memos? 7 c$ S7 Y2 W5 `* M( C4 h你写备忘录吗？ 9 [* v: Z- P3 z* V wDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?0 M ?9 C( _/ ?4 I& S
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？3 E% h$ B! \* {, D2 R; ^
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 2 V; j4 x m0 G* L- ]6 U$ T还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？9 I9 D- H& h% n* e1 Z1 o3 E
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 2 v* Y9 k* P F5 m. [/ A# o你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？