标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something! Q$ }3 t# R$ O9 _& H. Z) a9 U# k
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记住我们为什么做某事 ) f& ~; N ~# c& ~" ?Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. + F/ C" p1 |7 C4 y# X2 m0 `4 e+ P有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。, B& |' H* m' m
Have you ever done that?$ |$ R. _( ^9 r; z! M/ s: p
你曾有过这种经历吗？ ! n9 z8 P7 Q9 A+ XI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. : Q$ {* ]! W7 }' x3 j7 L6 p t9 ]我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。4 K" Q7 R; C! b' X' ^' I
I have called someone because I want to tell them something." e. c4 c- ^2 j) P: h0 n# C8 L6 f
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。( G1 c# B" @$ E5 ^
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. , S' r8 P$ S( T" s g: {% h然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。, |9 x+ V/ u$ y d' w
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.% x$ ]0 ~7 Q& j; g7 a0 @ Q
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。; Z% }! `7 C4 g' v2 J. v/ P
That's a memory problem.% m1 R I" t2 L9 i6 f/ l
这是一个记忆问题。 ; t5 z& k8 M# X6 N( Y9 S G7 MI guess that counts too. h0 ^/ I; [" c, l
我想那很重要。 ; F) E8 u& a- oBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ) t& M2 K1 ~! U但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？6 f+ {. v/ |8 y! G
At one point, there was a reason we do something. - n( s1 T* @9 B9 O在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 : l# F9 P5 S( nFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason." y- o) i- Y5 W8 ?4 E; N
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。) @9 e, _& D c" o
It's always could to ask ourselves why.% J1 M5 E6 z( x( ^9 G% L
总是可以问问自己为什么。 1 y' Q0 x2 ~; a- z$ m/ P! PWhy did I start to learn a language?1 D, g* L- _3 g7 ^
为什么我开始学习一种语言？8 H3 P6 }3 T9 K3 D: L; |4 i; N
Why did I join this club? ( A: F) F! Z3 W! ~7 s- {为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 9 }6 H8 {4 E/ j) o- eWhy my friend was this person?, l1 R" _6 p5 k V- s. v$ A
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ F; _! M; p5 E w* G4 Z" d3 A
Why did I get married?& k. F q( E* B& @
为什么我要结婚？+ r1 |4 a6 S) _
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.: a; [; C& p& M2 }
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。! B6 m0 [) ^( u4 s& ~) G5 f6 W
I think we need indeed remind us of why.3 R8 p" p. v& g3 B* S6 l
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ) H+ `9 ` m/ I6 B: C" @8 ~Or else it's tough to finish what we started.# d6 ?$ q/ Q, s, Q+ a
否则很难完成我们所开始的。) S, G& b/ n D0 a
We stop starting. We quit the club.# c; N$ X5 O# \5 N, T/ {, ]7 q
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 7 k C: d" e [4 cWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 4 |+ `# B, \0 T, C+ w; W P我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 : [7 N, ~ Q w5 ?8 IThere's nothing wrong with asking why. ' A, g3 d; H" t: ^4 m问为什么没什么问题。5 w; S8 B# X* u- d
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.! R4 u2 W1 R0 S' c5 \9 V) K& A
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。* q7 [0 h$ n# F8 O+ @' }
Talk about it. ' |/ U- u* A3 C8 C* e& [% n谈论下面的话题： ) \4 w' ~6 {$ k7 e% Z0 Q2 ?( TIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 0 ^/ ~" b8 o. [* |你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 4 V- g0 K2 b( o/ A0 S9 _2 KIs it a kind of distant memory? , e$ T( `/ x$ [, W5 F$ L8 ~- f它是一种遥远的记忆？ ! `; P$ G7 ?' b2 _Did you ever forget why you are doing something...4 K& J/ E9 |4 S. t L( D R
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… }0 Y% d) ?- I4 F6 d0 _& N4 c$ @How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?5 {3 o, ?, ^5 Z$ @" u6 a R
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？5 w: P. C2 x8 C& R" C+ l
Do you write memos? 1 s: j- v# _9 g4 X" h% j8 n你写备忘录吗？& n' t! A# D& a1 B+ j0 A% L
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 1 \1 U+ U+ a. ?; C9 `$ B你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？; j/ L' y; N% I# O
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? % J7 U. u: P1 @; r: s/ p1 t还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？8 V; _0 N, N; K$ j T$ _3 K
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ! }# w1 `8 g+ ~0 F你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？