标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something - ^6 L% ?( h) x9 M N4 }& i9 [8 f5 X' R. ^7 ^4 Z* Z
记住我们为什么做某事 ! V5 o: m% c) D' rSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. + m' ^" E& h; a. O/ C% ?0 }有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。3 T! u6 u+ W, @4 l n. j7 Z
Have you ever done that? : H1 `: r6 A% w你曾有过这种经历吗？5 \+ ^: x7 X( v0 w! ]
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 4 W5 b( D* z6 |我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 - e1 B' w1 T! {0 H+ _6 r* j3 NI have called someone because I want to tell them something. ) o7 o4 k! f$ D& J. s, s. K7 z我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。3 H4 d+ [- m0 r+ {2 e5 s, u
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular., i7 _3 E/ f/ a" S4 p
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 , G2 g6 X- o! mWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 6 `. q' {( b/ P哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。9 _9 C2 w0 Z/ {4 G! ^
That's a memory problem. $ F+ o$ `- |* e# I4 Y; W& j3 r这是一个记忆问题。! m( p t0 w0 a
I guess that counts too. 7 P- W" G' H) ~; h1 Q我想那很重要。; p2 x6 n" m- M# V6 m
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? * A' K) A- A0 K3 i( T但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？4 T, B' Y) t3 K4 A4 S E; q
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 1 F3 h/ x, N& Q1 l( A在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 $ Q) q; U8 E j$ h: n- YFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.- j; P7 M G/ K6 d: J% u
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。. i6 Y( t- ^9 Y/ |5 }% W1 w
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 3 w/ C( v6 y1 G总是可以问问自己为什么。 0 h# g B6 ]' C- EWhy did I start to learn a language?3 Y9 x& r( D7 r% |7 ~5 R( e
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ( X2 N) I B' c' w' }- U" WWhy did I join this club? & U3 P/ j! t6 w7 k" ?9 `+ E9 n, q为什么我加入这个俱乐部？5 T3 T& @0 q) w& U
Why my friend was this person?% F1 Q0 p! f! X
为什么我的朋友是这个人？2 Z5 l" `) v# l7 m2 e) l7 c1 v
Why did I get married?. Y! x, D% I8 {5 P% m
为什么我要结婚？ ' I2 e/ d! X+ A0 K1 P- HIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 0 q$ x, w- ?$ s( l如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。& y! }) f7 c- O
I think we need indeed remind us of why. U1 }0 I$ H+ \ g7 H8 I' Q9 ?我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ' ?& S0 _4 x1 V* J. fOr else it's tough to finish what we started.9 w# i5 j- o- G. ^. g1 K
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 . v2 B1 A) A' g8 @9 F2 }We stop starting. We quit the club.; S+ o: c9 K) [' G" E, ~5 z9 D
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 8 R3 D9 v) n4 `' OWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. G; {8 |# v; F8 _我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。" Y! I/ X5 U+ {
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 8 R) Z6 E5 s% Z' g/ ], ]) c问为什么没什么问题。: ]8 Q" x% y3 \3 c
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.4 T- {) a$ Z, j/ K) ?
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。( I+ x# d; C& G, @# |
Talk about it.0 _* A7 n! H3 @
谈论下面的话题：$ X. x( l# Q" c( H, X% M
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?0 n* d' f$ s( }: z; _' N# j
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ : P" t& ?* n+ [ H6 }Is it a kind of distant memory? ( ^% P8 N9 y( @+ I) x; ]1 t它是一种遥远的记忆？# I: E' m. f. P
Did you ever forget why you are doing something..." P0 X9 ~# n3 `' \
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… % t* g1 x# n. k0 z* i; nHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?+ b' }* D) f8 d8 g
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 8 z9 j" L) F! {/ j: a: M- I6 DDo you write memos? 9 ~$ ^% z% t" \ P' Y3 d你写备忘录吗？ + B O6 ?) A0 t) F/ C4 IDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? $ b) E7 n2 J& x& p# @; p& `6 @你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？" g6 q5 e# Q" `5 X3 C! }
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?1 f+ j; e# f/ v5 d3 a; P- |
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？# Z, c5 W: n! C K; {2 J& V
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 3 ^ \! T5 _+ \, J" A2 t2 S4 }你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？