标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something " M+ {; O: k6 S! U. T4 S " |; F; ^6 H9 \8 |! E/ v& j5 V. Y记住我们为什么做某事4 k$ c( C0 b0 U/ ^+ M5 V
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ! M4 w. h* K2 n$ q( @( N! b有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 6 \3 w2 H( e( U- e% s; p9 J; C% tHave you ever done that? - p4 W9 A) g# l! A; D你曾有过这种经历吗？& g0 } g5 ^# i- x
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.7 O$ z9 c0 @7 r$ B- Z
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 + h3 ~5 ]# h$ e% ~I have called someone because I want to tell them something.; L3 h% p' R4 t
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 1 r' q+ \8 m9 HAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.: v; x% {$ y4 U9 K4 s
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。# U) j+ n/ j# {9 Q
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.5 \# V8 W* [* X7 E8 L% ]' \2 ~
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。( i2 ^% ?! S. N1 W, z4 g! |
That's a memory problem.9 U ?* K/ l0 G. }+ O% I3 X0 r
这是一个记忆问题。* M) p1 h# O: O; S A9 e, G5 a
I guess that counts too. - H, @4 g" X- E4 P$ `+ S% v3 y我想那很重要。9 r. W$ D) w4 ?/ l4 _" h
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ) w1 Y L$ P) \7 w1 ?2 f! P7 f但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ( c2 _- g+ \/ I/ d' U# i7 E! RAt one point, there was a reason we do something.0 z/ V0 U, K. R+ H
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 9 I: L$ O* }$ @0 h$ ?, F$ E' G' N9 vFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ) \+ l! o1 X; h5 N对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ) i1 u3 c3 j p3 A4 lIt's always could to ask ourselves why." b) a: Y( h) ?. n1 U; Y
总是可以问问自己为什么。 3 C4 l2 `& w$ x! b5 Z: t, YWhy did I start to learn a language? ) x( V7 N; k$ r }, A9 Y7 P为什么我开始学习一种语言？1 l' N. |' D9 T- w8 @
Why did I join this club? 9 m* p7 u) E- U$ R为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 3 E7 c8 E O- v" S& e+ QWhy my friend was this person?" h0 F+ k/ k1 |, N* c* N( X
为什么我的朋友是这个人？/ l) J/ l2 m! ?: i3 c2 R) }* G
Why did I get married?7 K* ]/ f* A s( [4 ]0 r0 o! M
为什么我要结婚？$ I% ^& G9 }; a; u
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 4 D' I( D% b: D; H' ]* S3 V& m如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ; E, [% Q* ^! A G! }0 W `0 II think we need indeed remind us of why.: S/ s3 g: w9 j% k! U- f
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 & m9 M$ D) m8 e5 G! d: d+ [4 B! kOr else it's tough to finish what we started. - |2 e8 d: V% V8 y否则很难完成我们所开始的。 . w/ q, B' ?) R% _) M5 \( Y2 `We stop starting. We quit the club. # X2 r( W1 D) N0 u* J& @2 D- l我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。! S: K% }' W9 T5 Z( T/ l; Q
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.% D5 ~: ?) N. r5 O; A& u
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。8 c- z4 s$ b; t+ L2 D
There's nothing wrong with asking why.$ v' t+ z$ i* |( c) j( r# U$ c. d
问为什么没什么问题。 3 _" U1 ~9 K9 Z. sIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.# D$ ]- \4 {( W: B, J' h/ L
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。& U; c8 g2 F/ R0 I8 ?; n9 s( F
Talk about it. - h. Z% ~& O) P5 c& t. c4 m谈论下面的话题：1 x0 M( Q) T4 B( r
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?9 G X4 M+ {+ f; y# D6 T( j
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 9 X6 r" g. }5 oIs it a kind of distant memory?+ f0 f$ h+ |. K
它是一种遥远的记忆？& l& h6 Q i' l' {# ]$ ~8 I$ s
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... $ ?: K4 [8 l T你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……) ~. a0 N: `: B$ H' R
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?0 E& H3 x% Y# b5 Q2 i% `% v
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ' a7 c4 a/ e" a) XDo you write memos? 5 n+ D6 ]. ^0 _0 n h/ J# a你写备忘录吗？( e- Y- U- n. }, ~9 {- h4 a
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? & e2 {" Y% K& k+ G5 E+ B+ u你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？' x0 C3 z# z4 J3 d- z/ {/ l0 O& F5 J
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?# S K# K1 F, b8 f! P
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ $ T2 `0 k3 P1 E [" W9 f' lWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ' H# d; n2 h7 U; ?你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？