标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something / |. P! m G/ ~6 Y3 n, g! f . Y+ a1 @3 a7 }8 v' M5 ?9 A- l记住我们为什么做某事 7 N k6 W- S8 R3 `( BSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. * n- p0 P$ |0 |' D- a, Q9 p有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。2 U2 K5 V" ]. |9 i) X$ ]1 J
Have you ever done that?* L+ E" {. x3 P. [9 K
你曾有过这种经历吗？ K1 p' V2 o( Y0 ?( y% J# Q
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 9 F9 j* [+ B' V6 A我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 $ E) ]: \' R. @6 l# b, E7 `* TI have called someone because I want to tell them something.7 d% p# G& M. p& [
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。( R! ^7 b$ n& L2 e
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.% L, a- d1 c* O8 U
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ( [: w4 s: v) I& @) X% J( rWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.9 R/ A7 s1 ?( S7 M
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 : V9 k2 F: E( q6 Q& S: hThat's a memory problem. 7 P/ u2 W4 o( `, e7 k9 }% p这是一个记忆问题。 8 X0 f' l- I j7 I' R; V _I guess that counts too. , Q5 R+ b) z) S& h) [: I我想那很重要。7 O- o( A/ T: R, Q
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?3 K8 p1 o& x4 |
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 5 n0 b* W! a& H$ h4 D3 n2 p1 HAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 7 H" A. V/ J. E# P9 T6 N在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ) {( H$ ^5 _6 IFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ' e. W% v# w8 Q- f对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。# t: |- ^- Y6 E8 N x8 `3 P1 x
It's always could to ask ourselves why. " @; s3 w D8 T( J总是可以问问自己为什么。$ q! E6 G/ @5 b& J7 ^
Why did I start to learn a language?5 S$ q. b% T6 J/ k! y. h
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ; V6 K2 H& S) l8 }& f: s/ LWhy did I join this club?: ^- C# E# i2 H( l# b' @0 d) P
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ - B( |3 Z0 O7 \7 h$ VWhy my friend was this person?6 B5 T. h1 K: |" a, y$ \5 i r
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 6 a$ K, K3 U3 ]/ UWhy did I get married?8 ~+ s- i4 a% n2 ?9 ]
为什么我要结婚？ $ o7 x: E4 W8 @3 T: T dIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.. b# r2 ?( |4 T9 {4 C( Y
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。; H4 J3 p& g4 x0 H& l) n% @2 L
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 5 p0 @+ o# w9 ?; d4 B我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 - a% X7 u- }1 T" q3 nOr else it's tough to finish what we started.% w p' _2 A! `8 i4 H3 Q
否则很难完成我们所开始的。8 y; G" e2 U4 w0 ^9 l8 i3 B
We stop starting. We quit the club.5 j6 j- p/ d* V* t) c- @9 d) }
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 9 C( ~) A" H- u# v8 Z& s" E8 }. _5 lWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 2 t; J! O4 ~% C0 h1 K/ A/ P# d, [我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 2 I4 w/ Q4 l$ ?9 s/ j! F8 D" |3 bThere's nothing wrong with asking why.* x7 l7 X, U: M6 k9 \8 Y6 v, V9 o
问为什么没什么问题。6 ^3 }4 w# Q4 s/ ?/ u% ^7 m$ u
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing." ~, ]4 W! h t( x3 E
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。4 @! A. N0 u1 h. ^
Talk about it., b4 `7 k5 o i9 V3 s1 _
谈论下面的话题： 8 f2 m- v) f9 M% mIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ) P+ M7 Q4 J& p7 w: H你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？9 N6 N1 w6 ]3 K* f/ m6 v) M% E& T
Is it a kind of distant memory? 5 k# V- J9 y+ M5 p3 X1 q它是一种遥远的记忆？+ B. N* c' A" D& S" x( N2 E
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...1 C& |/ T- V% }% B! _! S
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… / I. }9 d$ d% ~How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ' b1 B8 {* b# I' M! q6 i4 k你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？) _8 W0 x. h: {+ I/ O
Do you write memos?) R/ }: v4 D* { \: e
你写备忘录吗？' d0 @) W% e8 ~+ Y2 F( w
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 6 z; j& B5 H' J5 D你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ # D2 o. C; D+ y e# c9 J7 bWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?) I: P9 H& z1 x* K6 ]
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ & B( @3 C( g! q- cWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?3 u( Y) ^4 e3 C! T, P& k
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？