标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ; }5 G3 Z" T$ j9 b. n" p3 X 5 c' b7 w/ T2 S( g* C" ^记住我们为什么做某事% I5 N; V; ]! Q# ^( L* L5 \ Q, r3 v
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ! {# K2 ~* m2 E( o- V有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。$ h7 T# N3 {& X V4 H1 b% ]8 b
Have you ever done that?; S q |+ o# {- ^2 q1 J
你曾有过这种经历吗？ % M5 J/ a- Z% xI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.$ e# m' v( @% c: X. X1 g
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 - \# l: `6 W2 q- U% d/ G, y! B: PI have called someone because I want to tell them something. # {6 q7 A. P/ H: o& i4 F我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 / f0 K1 a3 }9 n) u: W }And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.$ h* @# ]* J* w* |' o0 h
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。5 V5 R' G6 y9 j( M$ I( C4 q2 h$ t1 d
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. % ^+ s4 T% l9 B* x哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 6 z( h$ V* i4 G2 ]That's a memory problem. " p4 x1 g2 d) K0 ?7 f; B$ }这是一个记忆问题。+ A2 o8 e I1 g6 F3 B
I guess that counts too.( W& v9 ?* Z$ Q* X. Q
我想那很重要。2 o* r. J% _) C$ v: s
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? : ~2 F3 V w* ~9 u$ M8 K5 |但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ $ k" H W1 s4 n" V: L; C AAt one point, there was a reason we do something.+ {- b- T. M0 M3 J
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 & O! _4 r% D+ ?; \For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason." M, x" S9 ]1 x; n
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 % ^ a% _3 U8 Y# kIt's always could to ask ourselves why.; m9 F. ~" } @
总是可以问问自己为什么。& W. p1 D- [7 O/ q9 w3 h
Why did I start to learn a language?+ _5 l1 m" Z* B9 C: Q
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ * J$ A/ B' e9 [2 }5 O$ `. L/ n3 {Why did I join this club?+ q, k* f! s2 o( ~, D
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 6 s4 Q- _8 }5 @- ?7 B" [ f# rWhy my friend was this person?% p5 D. z! J3 j. A+ E
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ - {9 ~8 D: S0 f) \. LWhy did I get married?) w9 T5 g4 r' k% a4 d1 Q* z
为什么我要结婚？" m* Q" Z. P6 L6 |: ~6 v+ ^/ V4 q: M
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why., R& G: J1 E- @, z( m& x5 f' ]
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 - f r8 Y1 }; _. S, K' }5 hI think we need indeed remind us of why.4 O1 a% J5 p1 `/ B8 G3 T( N' v/ `
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。% u- V" F/ d, \; v# y
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. - g2 Y( O3 l/ H" f% V. o6 ]2 o否则很难完成我们所开始的。 3 x8 m: |' N% H" A9 |We stop starting. We quit the club.% a6 a2 c+ U2 w/ w$ r0 E; _
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 j8 O4 G) w7 }; \0 i+ N
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. & h; ?: L& q/ n8 x7 a" h4 L我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。+ p, P9 ]& h2 e
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ; S# q( _6 ~% ?. I# I t# q问为什么没什么问题。 5 f; T8 F# G: ]In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 9 O3 m% J7 z4 w事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。2 b$ t/ E! K6 `, V- f% X( w7 v6 }8 E
Talk about it. ' ?8 T( R/ ]* L' }! V; v谈论下面的话题： , x( I6 h% t; y* bIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?5 K( a# ^+ D# @2 m: @4 F
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？( T% U( S8 U, K
Is it a kind of distant memory? / C* @9 J4 G! ]7 {5 d它是一种遥远的记忆？% u5 B1 E: N' a5 x4 f$ n' A" p
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 3 o: b% y. a* R你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 8 x( ?& ~, F& D. vHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?# n) A9 K) p+ \
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ) }) C* Z G& f0 f+ nDo you write memos?1 z/ A" V9 S& K0 s$ J
你写备忘录吗？+ {: Q; d! r1 D8 n$ n
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?/ Q3 \3 u: n8 f0 {8 _' ?2 }
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ b U5 E7 F+ c9 C' s2 e4 M* y8 w; DWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?+ P, O; S! {$ l0 o# P4 x
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？+ r" o1 [/ b9 d8 M- n; a
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 4 P( Z# @# N5 v% p你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？