标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something& W2 z/ Q9 f0 }9 p
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记住我们为什么做某事 8 T6 w& g& G2 B5 J& @Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.3 E! T9 P m k+ S- O) n
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 " k% W3 |* k. _* bHave you ever done that? $ a) o) r% l7 t5 q你曾有过这种经历吗？1 ?$ E/ [5 J2 K
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.; ~- ?0 C' R/ R) E1 C
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。' Y5 s% _& ?" v3 ]0 |) ~
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. $ b4 E, H& Z0 a! A! h! u q1 L我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。; W9 V. P* e7 Z% p2 E0 Z1 I
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.7 i. [; [' g3 L) }7 {- X
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 3 g3 ^: b' p. s+ h6 VWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. : R9 }& L% A9 C哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。- G7 `& Y" m) t1 j& G
That's a memory problem. , Q" j& G; Q) _2 D8 I( X这是一个记忆问题。 ; R) c8 }9 F% ]I guess that counts too. / J2 L4 K: R. Y- \$ G* h2 n; g# j我想那很重要。( {4 P% D B8 b M& G
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?# e) I% N' o5 E0 g. u
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 7 r0 f1 p3 h& s9 g* W( xAt one point, there was a reason we do something.9 B. X& ] Z" {( Y% U: X
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ! {- e% J' m9 iFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ; T* c# Q$ g& J7 ~# R7 n! l H对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 & f! [9 ~% N' C* |) B" }; }It's always could to ask ourselves why.4 A' u% l& Z4 |
总是可以问问自己为什么。2 m4 i* |9 s' h2 b8 l9 ^* D
Why did I start to learn a language?) f$ i0 V1 y6 j) x" G% U& B$ g
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ( O; `1 P9 I) } ?. O# |! n% N- SWhy did I join this club?3 M c- C. W$ I% Y6 b
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ @9 ~ A* x; U. [Why my friend was this person? / J! o' ]* O0 W$ W为什么我的朋友是这个人？ $ j, @1 r/ y! \7 dWhy did I get married? $ O0 G' A$ M( Z6 Y& p1 C为什么我要结婚？ 7 c% T. q" v5 yIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 1 X) z, w+ [8 b" J# r a4 w9 Q如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 0 j4 @7 v' C7 E! ^) JI think we need indeed remind us of why./ z& c5 c: o7 f5 a! s
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。. T/ W- x3 l: O, w, m% S: X
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.& y# t1 o8 Y" y
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ( d+ e. M, v( U/ [7 ~# UWe stop starting. We quit the club.5 [0 n& m3 R% y
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 , ~" `( t( s. w. b) ^7 hWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. $ U F4 t; v0 S2 C8 b我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。, e* L, ^* n- I5 D+ f
There's nothing wrong with asking why.4 \" Q8 _+ y: |9 T" E
问为什么没什么问题。+ `) O; F" v$ c h8 W
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.# P! ~; q* Q2 M1 F
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。" ?$ `$ O F) v$ T2 b/ V
Talk about it. % s% n# e. ?. t* G9 G* T. a谈论下面的话题： / S4 @ F( |5 ~7 i' E" O: j1 {Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?) n: c8 \) u! i0 \# z) m8 \9 h2 o
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？. s; _; f) N4 K2 r H6 A
Is it a kind of distant memory? + R1 c: s, c( I$ @$ v( V5 H$ A它是一种遥远的记忆？7 E4 S s* F: [5 z# N e
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...* @/ r L1 v3 X0 u/ C+ j* x) P
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 5 h9 J2 U4 e* k4 b, y4 Q4 t- } ~% }How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?" @0 c7 w) h) r1 c* {2 p3 V
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？3 y# J0 g$ M5 S, H# x3 r
Do you write memos?. X, [& h) ?& D ?5 z2 @4 m
你写备忘录吗？; o7 i# i" \2 @9 T; G
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?/ o3 W$ P4 e5 L# C5 Z+ x
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？( |, T+ p e ^0 J# z* \
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ) {1 q( w% z; J7 M还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？3 T' ^% w: R' i0 n4 ^" K* m
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? # B2 e$ V% f e2 U5 h你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？