标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ) t6 [: ^/ K7 h4 r2 m# e1 h+ ? T' n% [2 I: A v
记住我们为什么做某事 8 ]0 g' E U: v" x) ]0 k, Y& X7 bSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.3 O# v5 a5 \" u, h$ @- [
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 7 A# ?7 i6 t6 d4 r( u7 l6 WHave you ever done that?5 u" l9 |. m* [: M( J
你曾有过这种经历吗？ " V/ }2 L, }) h6 \4 QI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.& {! _0 g0 I# K$ e$ T1 o
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。8 |& z& q3 E; T
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. ) d; p+ C5 h9 `) l- E8 \我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。; r- W$ m# k* A# J0 U
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.; C1 w: _% g) n C2 E( Z
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 : g* X1 m& a' C8 X$ t, oWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ! {8 r4 x3 {7 \% j" C) X哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 6 v! E, _2 x, j5 JThat's a memory problem. # P* `$ ~1 x" @5 j. W这是一个记忆问题。+ \9 C5 F P0 `2 }
I guess that counts too. , O4 t& q( ?" t' H0 O/ ~6 n5 \. r1 s我想那很重要。$ j" f# Z: `; X- q _4 [- D
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? Q0 f" N3 h" ]8 G& a5 m' V但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？4 H, A2 ~% |0 H4 W% x
At one point, there was a reason we do something.1 n7 [2 _1 U2 b; u, A
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。# M% X Y! x U$ g
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.( t4 i7 d0 y3 i) D9 i k% b! H
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。0 W% K! |3 x1 m0 D: q B. c' j- h) g5 B
It's always could to ask ourselves why.0 R( N( B5 M( |9 V1 i3 G4 V
总是可以问问自己为什么。* t+ V8 C1 t/ V% E& O) e! D! t" E
Why did I start to learn a language? 0 F) _2 J( O7 f. k1 l" @为什么我开始学习一种语言？ $ S( s! r8 C+ w+ `$ yWhy did I join this club?% U- O ]/ Y0 G
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ; ]& W! ~7 Y" l zWhy my friend was this person?$ {& O. ~: x7 h: i# z
为什么我的朋友是这个人？+ W f/ }6 d6 Y4 W& W
Why did I get married?8 n; A9 M# R, X6 ?1 |# W
为什么我要结婚？& C+ Q5 O. {: w
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.& i7 D5 J! e8 s5 a& g& ^
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 2 k. t5 @& p- I2 ^7 c2 SI think we need indeed remind us of why. , S7 K; U( G+ P我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。2 o$ H' C4 ?9 K5 [' }" u. H1 J
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.# ^0 a4 Z5 _. w$ f# z' C
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 - K2 w4 {4 {0 r+ {0 t1 L3 o9 A) C6 dWe stop starting. We quit the club.% S3 R7 {* l- {. \6 V
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。8 W2 ?" _0 v K% t% ]/ i- |
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged." U+ B. t. o7 U9 b
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。( H( O+ t- [- b' ^+ `" g+ o
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 6 T8 z0 [# P4 {7 |0 W7 h4 T8 ]问为什么没什么问题。% ^# x# H$ P+ |% K. V2 q
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. # A/ C9 i9 q/ e: v- Y事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 - b9 H( R4 V4 b3 r7 t7 _Talk about it. ) {" E; ^0 i4 k' x) s谈论下面的话题： 3 d6 h$ Q+ z3 d% y4 M, Z _! P IIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?2 H' P; A, [" F0 m' {% A+ P
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ; R1 }, ]/ \) p2 K* ]& e. B9 W0 M7 S% R) xIs it a kind of distant memory?; W& r; T5 ? `/ _* P! c+ K
它是一种遥远的记忆？6 B8 s. i5 O3 G. \4 C$ w
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... I8 x- J" {" i- J, w" I$ z1 s8 H
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……# H6 B% o# R6 l- j, _3 ~8 G
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?/ q: s' p7 ?. y5 S
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？" J5 c9 Y, `: w4 d5 j6 {: U
Do you write memos?- j6 N3 G4 t* C' H( \# T5 E
你写备忘录吗？5 N- {1 T( T7 @( E4 h( S
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? / _& p4 V, Z3 G7 \$ P" b5 N你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ - A/ p( W2 t/ _9 b! _8 h; P7 E& FWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?4 m v1 ~0 b/ W# U, s+ \1 T5 @7 q
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？/ W0 W: K) n2 y. p4 Z& |
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?- K* ], g3 ? _2 Q9 I2 m8 R% O
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？