标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 0 Y7 e, H& G& j9 v5 a$ e G# [' K8 L5 p* k+ ~. o
记住我们为什么做某事) c" k! i6 Y7 _8 S$ ?; t
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing./ {% C# N( V! o) Y5 h6 y
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。3 w' l" v, m& i. _& ~9 l8 I. W% V$ m
Have you ever done that? ) y3 X. P7 N+ R2 W' n# L你曾有过这种经历吗？ : J, M3 ?+ F6 R" ]) G: uI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. , i, G8 \! O5 @+ c* c我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 6 H! ]. ?' w& a a- X0 U7 oI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 4 {# u% I7 N9 F* `0 W! B6 p* z v我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 7 [. ]/ T7 L# c! X4 fAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 6 |6 s! _. M. g" J3 C然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 : z4 T+ N# y; A6 i( K, iWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.6 ?/ z. p0 X+ G
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 9 D! {1 I7 c' \& C% Z {8 k( sThat's a memory problem.( N: m; _) C$ s3 s# W- D" F
这是一个记忆问题。5 \" B: @( i) i
I guess that counts too.7 B. a: ` ~2 F4 s9 ^2 n' F; t3 Z
我想那很重要。 6 k0 Z% T9 y/ NBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 4 @" b% S4 e) J7 ? D但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？+ W, B6 g$ h4 d% ?- I
At one point, there was a reason we do something.5 J/ w# R4 h: K d$ n( ?
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 # ~9 L: R% {& r+ oFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 9 s1 D/ N7 s9 D$ t+ G, \% g9 T J对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。4 a4 Q% c3 B$ k8 ~" C2 W
It's always could to ask ourselves why. * T J$ `. P* w* S$ z# N总是可以问问自己为什么。 6 y4 y) R9 n2 ]8 J2 q) ]0 a! LWhy did I start to learn a language?3 p) `! k H8 ]9 `
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ * M$ H5 [6 a6 y7 Q( L' `9 M% yWhy did I join this club?& ]. G/ S6 y. Z% D! d+ v/ ]
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？! J& u7 t. B1 K& i
Why my friend was this person?/ ]- u- v' I2 v, l
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 9 T+ k3 O+ c5 M" lWhy did I get married?/ ^# p2 w# d% A
为什么我要结婚？4 d) E. g, u: |# @( y: j1 p8 G
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.& h8 U6 V( W- x
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ) X# V9 A( M. n# W1 o. zI think we need indeed remind us of why.( c+ P) A: j) Q2 H/ r, t: X) M
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。, j9 C7 r4 \. q3 m" U
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 0 b2 U& g3 d/ |否则很难完成我们所开始的。4 R! V! v. v% s a5 B
We stop starting. We quit the club.9 M6 @3 d2 w$ i( K& r* c
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ! m. Z! l! C( Y& E2 v. AWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. " C+ b' X+ S* D' b& Y! T6 }& t我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 8 _" m) z" w0 F+ g7 ^There's nothing wrong with asking why. / P% F s7 ^1 I2 D" L& J( y问为什么没什么问题。 + z$ ]- u+ C3 ?# n3 C YIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. # [9 k. u. X5 ^1 M1 B5 o事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。1 E# b# M4 W1 j& u) F" W+ b
Talk about it. r7 H- ] e% p+ _8 T, j e
谈论下面的话题： & }3 ], ^7 b' d7 p( e' j; vIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?. ^# X3 h) A7 r7 |7 S6 s9 R2 t
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ / a9 k; ~2 i& a: yIs it a kind of distant memory? 1 Y' w% |% `, B它是一种遥远的记忆？( b& X5 Z; {: D6 X4 a
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 1 A5 `1 W2 m5 q8 G. G. I你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 3 b% q T! P4 N- m BHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? / E3 g' N3 u) v0 q4 _3 W你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？- v3 S7 f3 m+ `7 M4 k
Do you write memos? 7 b( \$ s6 p9 r) R你写备忘录吗？ j" L, y K2 e5 y8 R5 r- iDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? * w3 R t% I5 ?9 f/ ^$ W8 J你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ W0 w. o) ~. U, ]: tWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? - m1 K K8 j6 o" Q t: K还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？! x- b3 i" W/ y1 w7 F7 c( Y
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? / Y Q: p$ i; D1 L6 W你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？