标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something* O5 G1 t% j4 o2 W6 k- u
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记住我们为什么做某事 . w4 i+ h$ O. m tSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 6 g% i: D' X" i+ E$ b6 Q- R3 O; P6 [有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。- I' m6 {8 @, H8 `+ r$ O- Z" X2 t Y
Have you ever done that?' ?, V! M) d& C( X9 ~ L
你曾有过这种经历吗？6 k$ e0 d5 V* A8 F, R4 f
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too./ N R% ], e, l) @; ~
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。( l$ l* B( m) E! g
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.9 X. d* A$ D$ y; D" H
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 , p, o7 F8 p6 E2 K. TAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 3 g4 |1 A% q! p; J6 v9 `' s; q然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。( p# M0 I' h& }4 F( k
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 7 d5 h+ l+ e, @% _& y1 v* g Z哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 % u' ]# n/ F4 |9 lThat's a memory problem. J% l, G, a7 ^* ?4 { R! v
这是一个记忆问题。4 E1 ~6 N. ^1 i1 S& v* S
I guess that counts too.* D$ }/ `; ?) c% S- N( X1 c! H
我想那很重要。: g- M" V& W. S) y0 b
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?' v3 g# u! }1 `- i' q* ], Y, _
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 9 \) s$ u: g& Z) j+ ]( {( T0 }At one point, there was a reason we do something.2 _; b! f3 {' O ^
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。9 }, t' k3 a/ h" d0 E' e) Q
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.: m' I" Y# V5 w2 H4 Y- s; @: m4 s
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 / ^. }: w* f" k8 k. TIt's always could to ask ourselves why.% O7 E4 m2 |; i# z
总是可以问问自己为什么。* D" w1 F. R s$ h/ K6 t2 F: V! E% Y! o
Why did I start to learn a language? ; z4 e9 {( ^ V) X为什么我开始学习一种语言？ * M, k! q+ | H! VWhy did I join this club? 4 q/ x8 l! A- X2 O为什么我加入这个俱乐部？: M3 m! C# s z* l0 e- m
Why my friend was this person?+ V+ p4 G" Y6 I
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 7 T v8 J* k" |# h1 `9 X6 [Why did I get married? ( C# b. R, k% n, G/ _6 b+ H为什么我要结婚？ ) Y. r$ t/ {. E1 W6 {If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. W7 _' m6 t$ p( J1 S# y" l
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。( Q; L- y6 \$ H5 P
I think we need indeed remind us of why.5 H, K+ g8 q: Q- V, O
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 5 ^/ K8 `7 F' [) D) L( z5 }2 vOr else it's tough to finish what we started.2 @9 O; H& y3 s
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 " w) U) I. c! ]0 ^We stop starting. We quit the club. $ c3 [- k U$ p$ g; S我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。' Y. a( I) k2 I7 }2 R7 F, Q5 a
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.. q# N2 ]6 T( F2 P$ O/ Z3 v6 e
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。" P) A6 y4 h3 @
There's nothing wrong with asking why. & ^ O! b. j; K/ b* D; Q问为什么没什么问题。" ~- n4 W, h5 r" Q4 ?
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 4 x$ z- P4 W, g1 {: Y7 w事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。# y" w8 A9 I1 E
Talk about it.0 x( H' C6 X0 X, F+ B% \
谈论下面的话题： 1 r% M9 {2 u- ?: hIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? & i3 o" U* i( Y+ W9 r4 e1 w3 m) \你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？- _, {+ [6 E* G: w6 m
Is it a kind of distant memory?# H8 N. m) s9 C% P. u2 k# z6 R
它是一种遥远的记忆？4 c; f4 t( d) Y% _ ?) \
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...' o; C! a; Z$ D# U) ^& ~
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……2 Q. }* K, w% k% s
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ; |8 y0 J7 Y3 U, t( m1 v你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？! C* M2 u; m5 @* g5 x
Do you write memos? 6 ~* ?; U6 b0 j' J. R' } p# T你写备忘录吗？ 7 o4 B4 K. `! k4 t; \: ~Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 8 f; ]; x& X, b你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ I' @$ N) A" r4 w' _- l
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?3 e' a- d1 d3 X! j
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ - ^7 e2 z$ a* \/ V7 O6 ~What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 8 D1 w3 H# j' w3 ^你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？