% c3 _) k/ W6 \8 H3 ?记住我们为什么做某事 1 d! k( [: N0 n5 z& oSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.$ l/ a- K8 n6 T
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。8 s6 L% p- f4 Z7 ?9 T
Have you ever done that?( Q( h E q" ^- s% S5 }8 x) d
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 5 ~5 P0 Y# T2 Q7 SI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. $ N% e& S1 f D9 ]5 {) m2 S( v我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 9 S4 D# y6 M: j6 ?+ [5 ? qI have called someone because I want to tell them something. ; g! T7 W7 D% y, Z4 I' Q( e我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。" j& |% Q* @5 @
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ! S+ e$ s( D) H' u! d( _, x然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 / T d- N1 P! A: j0 RWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 4 \% Q$ a" a+ `2 c+ W哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。& D: ^# F, o9 Q J% y
That's a memory problem. 3 g7 D1 Z9 p7 `1 p这是一个记忆问题。 % L: X; D q0 s$ PI guess that counts too.4 z N1 E$ j9 Y( P3 w7 F
我想那很重要。 - q2 Y: a! ^# ~7 q/ w% X4 H8 dBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ( t" G3 c8 K$ b7 v2 J) n但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？: k) y2 s, N# z) N. R
At one point, there was a reason we do something. ( B+ a( E$ F0 i- z% e在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。/ X v5 a* r2 B# e, }$ |
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 4 d7 E+ _: h1 [- ^1 y对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。2 K) q8 i* ~( a- B2 m, B
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 6 m2 A( B. E2 v总是可以问问自己为什么。4 l; Q' C- @& r: b0 M. h2 ^3 {
Why did I start to learn a language? + ~9 w+ L6 |$ P) Y为什么我开始学习一种语言？, x l1 n; G0 `% n7 e5 i
Why did I join this club? & h( e. D6 |7 u为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ * _& N4 z! A- m2 TWhy my friend was this person?! J& {9 p6 S P/ p( d
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ) Q3 G/ h" o7 J+ iWhy did I get married? : `# I& G/ ?' P2 R' r为什么我要结婚？) K7 J* f l: ]& H$ h
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.: U* P) j& F. J9 |- r
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。9 w$ C. b) H$ W+ g
I think we need indeed remind us of why.: H3 j/ ^8 ^/ I# V0 X2 C
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。7 M6 x1 Y c @" e
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.9 t1 @9 q( ]$ X6 _/ q: n8 f
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 2 I9 u& c$ x% ^ s- m/ f% c6 |We stop starting. We quit the club.( `. O- Y! s5 X. t+ j3 k! _( z; A( X8 l
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。: m7 x! s2 N* u3 P6 m
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.6 H3 y! ~' C! b1 w
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 4 {2 R( Q, g1 F5 b( RThere's nothing wrong with asking why.1 b. V* I- [+ X3 L1 t
问为什么没什么问题。 # X$ R) }0 L7 `! [% W0 J AIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.9 L* f# s7 ` |% `
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 1 ^8 U0 K* {* J; D0 UTalk about it. , Q0 f) N& a; n# X谈论下面的话题： * r0 k1 s- i" H/ z/ U9 p0 ]$ ~Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 2 y+ a, v% C7 H9 P& f% Q& W( k9 u* C你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ / P `$ @- O J4 \' w, hIs it a kind of distant memory?, v7 ]0 ?' g v5 U2 A& a
它是一种遥远的记忆？* |4 J/ N& M$ y! K2 Q& P
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...' P5 U9 W- M) `; Q
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ; W& B' T6 o$ iHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?- w& g' X) T9 N
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 4 t0 \+ `5 c2 |2 EDo you write memos?, q+ T$ a1 f; R/ z
你写备忘录吗？ 9 X: O6 F% w. U( CDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 0 [( T& [% P+ e+ L( n你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？& l5 h5 Y' Z6 _9 U
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?0 L6 E9 A+ q" \) {4 s
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？$ w' }$ M6 c& S2 I4 d
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 7 }3 h% F8 Y7 n0 h! T你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？