标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something0 n7 }3 \4 ^' d9 O% m, u& @
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记住我们为什么做某事 # @4 J' A% b+ t5 r* [0 }$ gSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.% ^! ?1 }) P3 e% Z
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。. |+ j( z1 Q, t! L |* ^9 m2 A+ s- o
Have you ever done that? ' k- H( T- p; l K9 L8 S& e# i你曾有过这种经历吗？) C0 V- Z1 E5 G: m6 X, h" Z+ \
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. * V3 ?$ j' U$ ?8 x$ v9 D# `( w我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。( p, }& I+ Q& C1 n5 M5 N- C5 I
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. ( ^4 N" C! {; N7 A4 G4 O7 k0 p我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。$ U- h& t# [2 f
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. : d/ _7 R- b/ z, Z8 e# Z# v/ I ~然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 # F( I, ~5 d# g* i. gWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.5 b3 r) E; N) A$ ^, R. m
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 $ v6 S) h$ h& N, S) ?2 @That's a memory problem. " V0 f3 N8 {/ a# F1 Y这是一个记忆问题。) l6 X6 e+ C& E& j2 M
I guess that counts too. 2 `1 k* x# @5 \8 y+ X我想那很重要。! M7 y1 a( d/ _- R F
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?7 ?4 M9 {7 n T; u0 V3 ]
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？& H3 M( K# s) {2 T1 T
At one point, there was a reason we do something.; a4 v d) t/ x8 ?3 ?+ p
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。7 A! Q8 z* n& F! X$ A
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.8 J- _/ W* ^! v. U% q% H' n
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 & J& o9 S0 N" h8 p" x! GIt's always could to ask ourselves why. , d' K7 S: ]6 t1 K: j* l# R6 @总是可以问问自己为什么。4 `+ j6 b( A# \! q/ ^' s
Why did I start to learn a language? # x1 _) S4 R0 \为什么我开始学习一种语言？( M: v" i/ L5 l
Why did I join this club?2 t% P& r! ^+ l( a
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 8 T/ M8 y8 Q' t e2 w; S# G. ]Why my friend was this person?/ P' R3 d! t- C3 b. s7 o
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ : ]3 _- z9 J- b% o) ^4 b9 QWhy did I get married?& \ V/ U& \. b: j% i7 s4 f- _
为什么我要结婚？! y$ W. e# G3 s, }5 ]
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.& @8 D7 q! n" V' E
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 0 S" a J, g7 o6 k+ o& RI think we need indeed remind us of why.. `# {2 f5 Y' B& W- l
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。" q" E/ p) F5 a' `$ u0 i+ G
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.0 q6 W) [6 e8 r
否则很难完成我们所开始的。% e) T c( ?+ N! T2 O1 v$ ` g
We stop starting. We quit the club.% n @% M) E1 y6 G0 \1 _
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 3 q! N9 s. _, e* \We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.3 H- L+ C* U" ~& H4 R) q
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。% C) o2 T1 C. d& Q. _ Y* o& b
There's nothing wrong with asking why. & }' J1 I+ p+ G/ {+ P$ t5 m问为什么没什么问题。3 ^: U6 b9 a/ v8 i& ]
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing., D; R, C3 t t5 o7 J+ L
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。$ O, N5 s+ {2 J0 m1 @; b3 }4 l- F4 A
Talk about it. % I W3 m6 Q( i8 K) M' n8 q, F4 ^谈论下面的话题： ! W, @: r' H. V) W7 o3 a+ mIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 2 ~4 \5 ?, D0 y# O7 h7 h你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？" m: X% C9 F2 a I7 b/ h
Is it a kind of distant memory?( [4 h! q) ^% r( B9 n
它是一种遥远的记忆？( r L; v- v/ L( S+ ?* w
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... ' [& v8 N" G }6 L你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……1 J8 V( k+ j' v! m' G
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 9 O# {9 V G% Z' q% X0 A3 R( V: _7 U你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？% Q; Z' N' j/ q8 A D4 Z* x* ?8 e
Do you write memos?. ]# E; ~. S8 s; @
你写备忘录吗？ 4 ]1 \2 }6 v% g" |+ jDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? / m5 X6 B5 Z+ n2 @! }% {你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？6 d; |/ G! F6 v5 Y& S+ H% Y
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ) m8 g3 [! q' r. [9 D还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 9 y9 s# s3 E- [2 SWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?) A' D' g& q8 C/ q
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？