标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 1 d4 M$ m( M4 a& L/ S5 t " R. t& F2 r5 p6 t. @' L记住我们为什么做某事 . ]! I) f1 _& R* GSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. : _* `9 V- e# Q5 L2 j. p& x有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ( g2 i: X5 w: r' p% S" jHave you ever done that? 7 j3 E& y6 G3 ?) j# ^! L你曾有过这种经历吗？6 `4 a4 Z2 Z8 p
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. & z0 O$ A, `1 X* Y! k- Z我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 . i1 S' _# i- a& s1 F* v- KI have called someone because I want to tell them something.% a6 p, ?( V9 G5 ~
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 & G2 E% n% t3 K' w1 I8 |" R2 XAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.0 M- m2 p' d( U
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 / {8 M2 ~, Y/ @Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.* S3 I8 z ~: E5 r6 r
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 6 G& s g7 J9 _2 MThat's a memory problem.* |9 q9 @, z/ P7 K) r
这是一个记忆问题。; F. o. x3 l4 Y3 z6 P
I guess that counts too. 5 U6 b7 x# z0 F1 o, M, ]) _8 @我想那很重要。 . N0 C% t5 i8 Q# h0 C4 _: x/ a$ rBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?3 a# z. L5 M2 ?+ h
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ % c3 z2 a( `* s; D4 x& i7 G2 o2 K$ dAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 2 h# G) e+ ]4 l. Z( X2 s+ M在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 / C* \7 x+ I( o, ^2 u! b1 A8 _1 `For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.- J1 }# W6 c) D, b
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 * b( d0 G/ H; S! W" Y5 \- ^It's always could to ask ourselves why. 2 a; z9 s* V7 U. U+ |0 A* K# @, Y/ N总是可以问问自己为什么。0 J b; k) k2 B* p
Why did I start to learn a language?: p8 L7 i+ L x2 Y
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ o7 u# \( y% w+ M# |7 VWhy did I join this club? 0 k$ P* R2 t8 c为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ % t5 {8 M& s2 P; MWhy my friend was this person? ' M& P; O8 \/ T' V为什么我的朋友是这个人？ $ P8 b8 e0 e- {( Y* ]Why did I get married?$ U0 H0 F/ B) {+ H+ E6 a L" l
为什么我要结婚？ $ c/ l( |8 H) z/ M6 @9 LIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.7 a6 z( k" Y0 r0 o% u+ U
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。( U [9 l) G% d4 v( C, a- e
I think we need indeed remind us of why.7 ~: I2 K f; d6 p% m5 t5 o
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。# [( M k9 ?9 ^; x* |" D
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. " c6 X! I1 z1 w+ W& r# F否则很难完成我们所开始的。* Z& B" ?0 H& a; v9 j3 ~2 c/ O
We stop starting. We quit the club. . } Q- Q4 q( h我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。9 u5 I" T& g+ i6 i
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. % M- S% ]' u3 }. o4 E我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。6 u( A1 y% ]- Y& s/ q4 \
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 6 x# I5 S2 M% C$ e2 `# v问为什么没什么问题。 5 l2 E/ x8 N: J# u! ?: L1 X* NIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. # O/ ~& \; F: n, M7 R2 G* B# K+ G事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。1 p! \ b' t% ?5 d' s1 I2 ?' N* w! M
Talk about it. 4 J! h7 V* F: V+ Y谈论下面的话题：' Q: ~# j. G) A' x
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?1 o P* F) R ]- Y8 l0 X% T
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ & s( \+ J* ~4 ~; hIs it a kind of distant memory?$ E& Y- U$ I* X- i
它是一种遥远的记忆？+ U$ m# {) Z- A1 o+ y4 ?1 T
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... ! `( I7 ]2 u- N! n3 \- }1 Y. Y你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… * F5 {0 l# v5 ], i- a1 uHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? & T6 ? @% E4 Q你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 5 j: U& H- ^4 j$ z: z A- @Do you write memos? ! u2 g/ W: ^7 f! P5 H你写备忘录吗？* `( O0 k/ M1 W
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?2 H& {- `9 f4 V
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 5 V0 c+ H0 A. G8 V4 Q0 {% K( jWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?6 G! K+ N! R% B6 A) A, G0 `4 ^5 u0 G
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？9 x6 { |+ q( z' Q$ ~6 g. {
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?* x$ l( ~3 B! S6 ]
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？