标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 2 r9 n! Y* K. X# p/ Y ! o0 S5 v0 ?" S, U3 d$ h/ h' G0 G记住我们为什么做某事 4 v V- \8 x7 S! v4 O# F& NSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.0 j, n$ U1 F; k( d a A0 c- a! K
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。% E& d& w" p; `3 [0 m) b
Have you ever done that? # m0 Z" ?7 @/ Y' N) r4 l3 d你曾有过这种经历吗？ ) @- l, R/ E3 I+ {' c& Q2 YI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 0 ~# d8 n' M0 h! `) J/ m& Q我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。* W% i9 Z7 J- ^+ Z5 y; s2 i+ S
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 9 t% M) J& P5 K. v' O0 ]我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。( `0 @0 f% |1 K+ h: D. c
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.7 ~" J5 q7 J/ i7 x
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 / z) ?' ]5 z# y5 ZWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. $ s0 e6 G9 I1 t A5 G哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 K% P" }$ x/ m* p; }( D+ ]That's a memory problem.$ S& b K: D$ M/ d
这是一个记忆问题。) h3 I0 _$ C; ^4 l
I guess that counts too.+ b* M( {& h- W" o
我想那很重要。8 W6 q A* \5 C% V9 G* @, P
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?0 S7 k* A( }( j
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？; V+ b/ i. { n8 f' }8 |
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 3 ~3 ]0 g+ U5 p3 u' c! J' n0 W在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ( B9 C& Y1 m& c+ p6 l3 [For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.' P. a2 k8 E$ n+ s* W) Q( }. Y
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 & m! F* |+ K% w9 vIt's always could to ask ourselves why., Q& b" B" P' V- v# U2 @) d
总是可以问问自己为什么。$ d; H( @- J, b4 Q* D+ q4 y
Why did I start to learn a language? 9 c' }# T. A$ _( y- Q8 y3 h# h为什么我开始学习一种语言？ H, y4 C, a2 Z7 m& j7 \5 Q
Why did I join this club?, D" q4 L! Q8 h# S% ?
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ # |" @7 d0 }- X+ [, N- AWhy my friend was this person? 1 F" K! |- c9 s; c l为什么我的朋友是这个人？ / `, I* g/ V5 c, q0 tWhy did I get married?8 l# W8 [# M6 d6 L3 E
为什么我要结婚？0 _7 p+ w( r' G5 R6 f# v
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.7 U/ ]2 C! D! o) e! H/ Q
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 4 a, b: v; ^' q6 n2 ~I think we need indeed remind us of why.; D, R1 T; q* z+ O1 V
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 y, H8 k& ?! T2 L5 E* g% d
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. " N5 k9 U9 m7 f% u7 B% L- k o. T否则很难完成我们所开始的。8 k( t6 Y) T% j3 o( {) x, \- L; t
We stop starting. We quit the club. " `$ O. j+ x$ s: I我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 % j: L8 L& Q1 n0 s+ fWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.0 R: [6 {0 ~2 S) J7 S& ?4 w H
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ?& k5 S' x# G( JThere's nothing wrong with asking why. ( B6 B. u! T' s# g P问为什么没什么问题。 ; x3 Q, h; P& o% T" L& GIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 6 `3 Z+ I6 u$ D1 G6 R+ r事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。9 F) y4 g0 ?$ _7 A- {
Talk about it.: M) W- f9 E# E/ N9 J' X
谈论下面的话题： @/ Q$ b% p. x% H( YIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?/ K( p" \- K( f5 _
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？" ^9 ]) P: Q: h5 x! j- V ?0 S5 t
Is it a kind of distant memory? 6 [ m: S1 t" m9 W它是一种遥远的记忆？+ V3 A% P# ?, j$ h* K0 K2 b
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... $ H! I9 {, v* L( z W你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……! t0 t. A9 W! r+ M1 {3 W% G3 _
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? - `/ a/ c4 S' h' D+ S) x$ f: b你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 3 O3 \% q4 e- G/ v7 Q8 I+ Y6 m+ nDo you write memos?! x& f: C6 B0 O0 y: O& o' \
你写备忘录吗？ " j& F& k+ c2 U- V" ~) H: NDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?/ W: D9 j6 I6 H
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？3 d4 ]* l+ D% Z) Q7 w* T( T
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ; P+ l3 \6 `+ ~6 J+ ]! G: _6 x) H还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？' v; u0 F1 d. y$ [
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?% w* \+ @- T1 d, E0 S1 _# y
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？