标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something+ [6 V+ @" M: {
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记住我们为什么做某事 7 ^: M* F( Q8 r/ X, kSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.: o- V# T0 m+ Y8 [: G/ v# W! @
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 3 V3 c$ X0 p# O- BHave you ever done that?" E8 ^+ ?+ J7 s* s }& P4 ?
你曾有过这种经历吗？) w3 K3 h+ b9 ~7 K; D F/ t
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. % t! Y) ?3 ?1 ?6 U) K我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。+ i- S4 p8 B+ r$ w/ T. k0 P
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.& i1 E6 w! N# r: a5 }9 S. W
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。. q& c6 i8 A9 a; c8 ~
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. . h: z$ B& ^& o+ ? G+ \7 G$ s然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 6 T3 m0 M$ u' |$ vWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.$ i6 Z& o6 N) a" A+ D6 k
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。! C' q; d! }5 I; o U7 f& e: h
That's a memory problem.6 K9 @7 }1 L4 G" o
这是一个记忆问题。% R. E# D, a& y! V' {
I guess that counts too.7 S% Z& ]3 J" l$ U2 \8 E, i4 t
我想那很重要。8 v3 F& B, g8 D i/ d
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?& E$ F6 B9 P5 Z; W9 r
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ & `4 w( C8 v6 G$ g. ?5 v6 p% }At one point, there was a reason we do something.! G8 Y/ J/ { Y' c: k# t1 j
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。( E, e6 _! t$ F& ~! {, D
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ! F1 l/ C) C) x7 z7 t! z' n! Z对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。! ^6 h* H1 D9 }! T- p. O ~
It's always could to ask ourselves why. . S7 J: L9 p" u/ y总是可以问问自己为什么。( V! Y# U6 R5 ?, y! G: g
Why did I start to learn a language?4 k# J$ v& m d" l
为什么我开始学习一种语言？+ Z3 V. h8 J$ t" V- H9 a/ O
Why did I join this club?+ }6 [/ r% {5 j; z9 \) e5 |3 B
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 4 [8 O# \5 G3 [" `; a. W, BWhy my friend was this person?4 s1 @# y- C: g: W3 k6 l- K5 E9 t
为什么我的朋友是这个人？. R) E g) _$ N
Why did I get married? , u( f) H: S( z2 q为什么我要结婚？ e0 G7 A6 H2 T! Z4 b* Y0 F
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.: i9 X3 f0 u" p" L, O6 V/ k o) l* r$ b
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 0 G6 z# K' Y9 O- WI think we need indeed remind us of why. % |9 Z$ g4 B0 `* X0 {我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。1 S4 r1 r5 u7 s- p5 ^
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. ' A l! _6 ^ T! A否则很难完成我们所开始的。: d/ v# [2 e1 ]0 e6 B" s$ Q5 G
We stop starting. We quit the club.7 F, A, u+ p* n5 K7 h$ r* A9 s
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。# z% k$ J% O8 Y
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. `) a$ {# [! a" _我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ) z4 M$ [% A8 A8 qThere's nothing wrong with asking why.; u' X9 D: I. u7 R9 e5 k P
问为什么没什么问题。 n/ z! T. M& F( E; E& K( d. w& j, cIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. # d/ r. x1 A0 W: S6 e2 Y' z事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 1 `, b% ]' _1 HTalk about it. + g+ [+ Q5 z* i8 i. O谈论下面的话题： $ X$ f9 w. h) ?1 h; E; p$ r0 eIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? % I0 \2 O2 n# A8 B; @/ t' s$ C你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ * `: E" K" B: ]# zIs it a kind of distant memory?7 A: H6 e" i; D! b5 d6 B
它是一种遥远的记忆？( l8 [, h6 i6 ? h3 |$ V. N
Did you ever forget why you are doing something.... j: H: t+ ]0 r$ S
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ; _: _9 ]4 v2 g0 f6 G. [8 w7 Q: X3 ZHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? + P, J0 R* d) M9 x你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ - Y+ ^3 \! O9 i6 fDo you write memos?: ~7 T: I# f) t8 j7 f
你写备忘录吗？ , B: J+ h( f a- w$ O& D$ o& NDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? : }- K( @$ d. @% T你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？# H4 z. u0 `% ~5 v, p/ t9 z
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? % s4 ]+ w [0 r8 q6 x还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ , j% F2 W3 ~& _7 nWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?" }( q* t) r9 h) t
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？