标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something! n6 H! M, i4 @3 z2 A$ M `
3 U6 q) I q3 _4 U2 g1 h0 C1 }记住我们为什么做某事& c: O3 Y7 ~. N! y5 E4 S
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.0 i. w: d; L3 I+ _" ?4 l
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 : @ [( w, N7 W, ^9 P" U. |Have you ever done that? - z' }% a w; b( }你曾有过这种经历吗？ b! t! Y2 i6 C% I3 r7 Q
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. n1 m, P3 g i# o8 V% E我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。2 ` Y: z, h% ?
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. & Z( V8 `1 ?5 b我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。. L! J; m" k. t7 B% j
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.1 V1 a$ Z1 K0 _6 x$ n H# d
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 / w7 z. n% I! x) z! cWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.6 l3 `& h: N& a' i- g- U! ?6 D" T
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 . t2 d# i1 F' R+ s, r) }That's a memory problem.) p1 J% u( U) S! n& x+ p+ Q8 b7 \
这是一个记忆问题。3 L$ l; S G; U1 ~ e7 ~& b7 Z! h: }% I
I guess that counts too.+ O* n# ~: W. D9 j$ [2 j1 A
我想那很重要。# C# {2 X( p" ?- L
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 3 C* V# D5 { D2 z) p但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？7 d; Y$ { u% N
At one point, there was a reason we do something.# P/ y8 F( V) ^3 x1 o
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。1 v5 Q* }$ L1 l7 E0 I# m
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.6 V5 w7 ^2 g0 w( Q" j0 g/ X5 x
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 4 Y" {# g& C9 C9 JIt's always could to ask ourselves why.+ ?8 E, g- a9 F7 d1 Y8 F9 ]
总是可以问问自己为什么。3 x) q8 n: X) B5 s
Why did I start to learn a language?' k l; F% K" R% m7 j+ n3 ^
为什么我开始学习一种语言？- o+ K% s& s% `0 J
Why did I join this club?" X, \2 B4 M7 y0 h+ d$ |
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 0 c2 i9 E- S4 T. }' a7 A0 ?Why my friend was this person? & {+ W3 r, k* p. T为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 0 j- Z% t2 w! ~$ `Why did I get married? , s! g9 H8 |& u) Q8 G* A& N" g为什么我要结婚？) i. N# A! r& u/ b: z9 E5 p, c3 m
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.* I; B$ L# I0 ~; L$ s, y, {) B
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 : }& J1 F6 }$ s: K: n, L0 VI think we need indeed remind us of why. 7 l8 a- d( J. @- N我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。. l- W( G% k1 y
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. . a) S2 w0 Y1 B% w8 o8 D# R7 t9 F否则很难完成我们所开始的。1 I( A; v( @. E ?7 M) f: u0 I$ y2 E
We stop starting. We quit the club.* Q# b1 b6 i( O! }% Z% D: v
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。3 r( B6 b2 F- b/ w" U# U
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. : c1 _& I9 @7 \4 n2 b我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ; a. j+ `7 |9 Z0 h# RThere's nothing wrong with asking why.' {' ~6 Q6 \3 q+ H
问为什么没什么问题。 1 b( ]* i2 `- `- j9 w w: zIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.( U: r0 ^$ Q9 p8 d& U
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。4 m5 M- R- c; M& A
Talk about it.! B: @* f7 Y& b! l6 o
谈论下面的话题：* z7 h! U2 V7 ]" M0 r; Q
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?: C' Y* E# R% U# X+ W& F$ K
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ; u4 ^6 L) v; f8 D% R: iIs it a kind of distant memory?" h. D1 M' t9 C1 |5 X) E' w
它是一种遥远的记忆？ * l) A! s7 A( A% L; T, K: fDid you ever forget why you are doing something...5 C2 y% U3 _5 V% N0 A2 l( j
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……9 c! c' g' P, u- _' m
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?3 y$ T! k7 x) v! _# ]
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ; s: V$ ]6 u3 iDo you write memos? ( J8 p; i# K$ N9 h" @6 E% _你写备忘录吗？ 3 e7 g; v5 t; Q+ |+ zDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?. r. P, r8 ?% q# Q1 @% V6 x1 ~- M5 D
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？) v% T3 x. U& K' s X) r
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?" F( C& w4 ~! I i% p
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ E4 R, q; b8 V; _& [5 V& M) FWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? - q. K! K5 c/ R7 v, h& v/ H4 _/ e' t你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？