标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something- ^+ g' D9 `& k, ~ X) U. r* |$ P
% Q3 X: f+ C- F, [; G记住我们为什么做某事" Q2 g5 {$ @/ E; m; {; H
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. # m/ K2 A2 _9 {3 P& J# ~有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 7 x& @$ u2 R: s. u! b/ m7 BHave you ever done that?4 B$ N) F4 G& @/ G: i0 p4 v$ R: A
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 2 {+ b$ H. h. A0 ~3 t1 II'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.1 T6 H, _# }( Y, i
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 p1 _! L/ r! I3 u& U
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.; q* O \1 b, T# m
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。$ R4 @+ l7 E& I. l7 B5 X3 h
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. $ W" k% W; e2 \$ I) ^' A* F* d E然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 - |; O! W H6 _! o+ x) h2 @: MWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 9 b# S; ~( {' H% f! ^5 q+ X哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 : e) Y, \7 Q! s" \That's a memory problem. 2 S, F5 d$ X$ s3 ?" e) S这是一个记忆问题。 : _- m' }0 V" Q& Z) L; ~% Y- mI guess that counts too. . W) e0 l2 _) ?( O6 M我想那很重要。 / i: e! M* q8 k0 K, RBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 9 p) N5 z4 n6 o: c* f但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ - g0 q3 t, N1 ]1 K$ sAt one point, there was a reason we do something. + N& O# s2 a" g+ k. d, y# \在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 " v" e8 J: ~% VFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.+ {2 M# W- d+ m8 d( y# p, i
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ) A1 _, P0 M! L' P& E5 S) p3 iIt's always could to ask ourselves why. ( f8 p3 J; u0 \, E& Z) K. m总是可以问问自己为什么。 ' \' d* k* C( L( g E* E2 WWhy did I start to learn a language?& F6 h6 Q% ~8 _( y/ g9 T( s: T7 B
为什么我开始学习一种语言？7 z& ?7 U; m7 j0 p; l$ G5 O+ {/ \
Why did I join this club? 8 c8 N/ |4 `9 H$ @/ r: m为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ K( @4 B0 ^) [/ mWhy my friend was this person?' U: I: Q3 J) O8 G+ Y! `4 r
为什么我的朋友是这个人？4 S; d9 l7 O$ X6 A
Why did I get married?3 g9 @! I3 S9 g o
为什么我要结婚？ . E% H( G# {# i/ T; rIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.$ K" j- h0 a7 a" |" l
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。5 c4 y0 ?- q* V, ~
I think we need indeed remind us of why.( a9 i% D" `* ]6 ~) K9 M5 K9 J
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。0 S( \1 o* @- x+ X1 p: D0 O- o
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.; ^& L }5 b, D! N* l- `
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 . ~; y4 ]7 k% J2 A. k1 NWe stop starting. We quit the club. / K ~8 k! Z9 Q: W x我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。0 e0 z. q* L% }2 d. G: Y" X8 e
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 6 ?& J Z9 X5 a我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。) h0 R0 e. z' y$ d9 S- r
There's nothing wrong with asking why.7 ~6 I, p# l, |4 U
问为什么没什么问题。0 l% j3 |9 f% \4 a
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. . C1 b* n; d% D1 E7 n事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。: }" }# _5 v* N# c+ ^- t
Talk about it.6 ]- b7 s# @, g1 ~# `
谈论下面的话题：0 g! P& ^. D& w0 t' h
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?7 v( A$ i6 b9 ]6 r2 S* t
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？+ ^2 L: g# C2 M
Is it a kind of distant memory?% S# w6 U7 Q5 }; n3 L. w& `7 g
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 4 }. h, ?6 {& c/ {Did you ever forget why you are doing something...% W0 Q3 M4 z- p1 \0 I& m3 e+ e( d
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……& |, B* t7 Q3 U6 f K) B0 D
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?3 Q. h/ o- l0 {$ w: {2 ]1 n
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？% {' E" M3 q* j% \# f
Do you write memos?' h3 m% Y2 h! }, @% i% W
你写备忘录吗？9 c, ~. {2 E( T' S
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?6 a6 }7 {3 ~# C7 |1 q+ ~+ X" r: r
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 3 U& M* I0 |( h9 {- UWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?' |! M1 X( b& E4 _
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ * }/ N# p5 ]4 Y4 n1 yWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?' C( l$ \9 S6 G6 j4 N+ F( l
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？