标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 4 u0 V0 @' C, k+ }3 x- g1 ~- [; t
记住我们为什么做某事 ) J q6 m; S0 e- `1 m3 ?Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.% l& o6 h- C( L7 l; {6 y
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ! j6 B! Q) Y0 Z% z/ NHave you ever done that? h! T" G9 F8 E+ T4 l你曾有过这种经历吗？ `; s1 p# k. C" d l. X; t
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.5 P: v3 B2 y! x$ U( K8 ?* e
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。9 T i. X- {9 H4 N( c/ U( K' U* g
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.1 {0 D7 m+ h' Y0 C0 V, K# c2 @
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。5 `+ |+ N* `$ Q+ h
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.. g+ N2 r8 D( i
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。/ \# @, `5 D9 N" o* ^, T- \
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 8 n* T: l& r; l" ?哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。. L7 H% L' ?. k( s& K5 R
That's a memory problem." D/ Y, m6 {0 K- R
这是一个记忆问题。 # l+ l- a! ?1 \% F- O; gI guess that counts too. % ]8 R' b$ U' |我想那很重要。 5 B: _1 D9 ]( l' P. z; vBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? # v. B" j; E" A7 Y- e但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？9 {3 ]9 E z# M9 ?5 K
At one point, there was a reason we do something. & h% ]7 ~* z% K在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。' C7 t4 e9 _( o6 @2 Y# ^% |
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. - j: O* P6 c6 e3 c! n% r对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。& n5 n- N# m0 a) J8 Y m$ y" B
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 2 R# _. G' w' Q) y/ P总是可以问问自己为什么。 1 J7 E: c4 y3 ~7 O- G7 T$ wWhy did I start to learn a language? + e) }6 Z$ D' Z. j) c1 m为什么我开始学习一种语言？ + I/ b7 A9 R& P8 D9 d6 C6 B6 G& iWhy did I join this club? ! @/ C+ J6 y3 _7 ^# V2 @为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 8 D) f f* v+ V- zWhy my friend was this person? / c0 Q9 u3 v) I( s为什么我的朋友是这个人？9 G; k7 o# a# ~+ j7 F$ C
Why did I get married? ; _* j% ]4 n1 W9 Q& e B5 A& N, r9 l" z为什么我要结婚？ D4 m' p) r% N- }" gIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. `2 z9 [/ A0 o( k
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 6 h* O, I" K2 O% iI think we need indeed remind us of why. 1 v2 J a2 H/ Q4 w4 u我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 0 G2 q" i& L: A. w2 o& ^7 nOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 6 D3 ?, e" f3 ^1 I( G: M5 O否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ) q6 \; r! _6 N- |6 W/ l' e. Q6 gWe stop starting. We quit the club.$ T- g$ N/ M+ ?- Z: A. Q1 D
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。/ z* F- a' O7 b" |1 J( G9 a
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. & F3 U7 U1 ~4 V: k3 d4 ]我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。+ V# J: l9 K: O7 b* k& X. h
There's nothing wrong with asking why. / s1 o0 p! ^0 [. c* A8 N v( X问为什么没什么问题。/ B& a) J: v" F, a }' o' P
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.( Z% _, b$ U: x
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。& Z9 X" x! G# F- u
Talk about it. ' M( H+ Y: ~& `2 o( n2 f3 u谈论下面的话题： ' }+ y5 J; U6 [ \, ^Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ( p6 x! l2 ?$ Y( T% m0 ~你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？# x9 b3 a# D1 Y6 N5 e, W
Is it a kind of distant memory?8 N: @5 o9 B& o& a9 W
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 9 n3 c) ?& d3 M7 e7 C U/ zDid you ever forget why you are doing something... + r) m" ]1 ~# U4 B* f# S你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……/ A2 T2 C: k# V5 Y
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 6 ~: c/ ?0 M8 o( P你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？/ w0 z0 C! @6 i) c) Q: ^! t6 t ]
Do you write memos? & a2 ^+ R: ^" N9 R$ m3 n你写备忘录吗？0 _$ A! |1 R1 C8 ~
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? : k7 x# g5 Z% A0 [" e7 c你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 4 t ]' E1 t$ T# FWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ! e; D9 z7 U6 v! ~还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 2 _: S G2 p! Z$ D' Z/ TWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?- A. i5 ^$ Q$ D+ o H
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？