标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something: Q, P" e2 M0 d0 r) j5 A
8 V- j! L f) w4 [: N- D记住我们为什么做某事+ u- K) }9 F D
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 5 ?* J* E. J2 h7 Q/ V$ ^有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。7 C- c& n! p/ }; B" J2 a
Have you ever done that? * m2 y0 h6 D W" T& h你曾有过这种经历吗？ $ B/ p/ }: y: _I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.5 ?1 E7 h0 n! c* X' t& s
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 : r' c8 c/ d' }& PI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 5 X G4 b P @2 e$ z3 W* ?" D我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。/ c' V2 V8 Y; g# @( @; \
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. - x" R. [; T9 X( ~8 m' ]: D' G然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 % f" F; u- E0 O1 v; Q; }; [" QWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.) H& }9 ]. o7 M; O# Q7 i2 X
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 " G( }! F0 c: j7 I$ y5 ]That's a memory problem.5 ^+ ]: z& d3 z9 j' K4 I3 P
这是一个记忆问题。0 m. t. O& ^9 A4 T- V1 f" P
I guess that counts too.$ s* r: u* O, `9 y' j- ~0 s
我想那很重要。 ! ~) A1 E& Q2 F; M& uBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ! P# i$ l, O0 M! ~ R5 ?但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？2 z$ g3 n% @, H3 |7 G- ^" S; N
At one point, there was a reason we do something. . o3 b- H' {: Q4 B0 R在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。8 [- Q0 G4 q. g9 d
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. / b) s: N' q, r5 p: l K# M6 D对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。' u4 b4 e7 \2 }5 B' J1 X$ [( A" R9 n! {
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 6 p) ]/ x+ y9 m7 ]总是可以问问自己为什么。 6 s' b) W3 `) @, O! ]2 s G7 e. D, cWhy did I start to learn a language?% w+ x, }: w* {: ~
为什么我开始学习一种语言？4 o0 n z$ K" u- v g2 {& ?& P
Why did I join this club? + ^3 ]/ m+ R/ N7 I* N% F% E, i为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ; G$ [% W: B8 N( ^! Z9 t+ e/ vWhy my friend was this person? " v7 M" p D- w5 a0 D! O为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 8 @6 X% A& M4 R3 A2 o( P1 rWhy did I get married?! e" e/ `1 H# n% R5 q5 w5 y
为什么我要结婚？ 1 W" a3 U s! R3 _- J+ G$ @/ {If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.$ I5 W) r. q0 Q- ]! Z
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 & S' p4 J! O! ]' YI think we need indeed remind us of why., _, J3 X+ J1 }
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 N* l- s! ]- B- w6 p
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 4 k2 b6 y" B0 L否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ' \' M& m0 h2 t3 P8 }/ t) S% AWe stop starting. We quit the club.2 m% u3 S' n4 w% E r0 s
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 : j @$ I B* i9 @! Y w% _, {We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.7 w" m5 t0 f+ J( J
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 3 d* b6 F4 Z% M# _There's nothing wrong with asking why.( X% A$ r9 i" `1 G
问为什么没什么问题。 . ~ W U/ o$ ^( M% r# v% i# RIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.* e+ H" s+ k6 X6 r9 F9 ]4 _6 O
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 4 B3 W2 q/ x! O' U# L4 `- pTalk about it.8 F' B! H" V0 Z5 b0 o1 H Y
谈论下面的话题：1 A/ {* x6 z- b) h( r c
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? % L1 {4 o7 _$ Y; h! U! y3 `5 }你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 5 |) T# [& n. ^8 [; cIs it a kind of distant memory? * w7 R+ P6 f' e它是一种遥远的记忆？ " T/ _, L% N3 k3 k cDid you ever forget why you are doing something...* U& B9 w8 Q- X1 y
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ) V. N9 w( Y- zHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? / s5 Z& c. S( m( K2 a6 j7 R你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？* r/ }& c( q% p
Do you write memos? 2 ?2 x' S( r L3 ]你写备忘录吗？; O8 C; X. F8 z1 V) x$ D
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 9 a3 y. Z9 G2 D- G" G y4 p你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？2 ~2 X" u4 O" H& Q
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?7 ]2 w1 p/ `" Z9 l9 c4 N7 ]5 U0 { o
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？0 U2 i& n" N% h4 K' r) K
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? , Z" ]! S+ h4 V0 |* V! ?* Y8 _你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？