标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something # d* \' G1 {4 p. x \* c, a; b& Z记住我们为什么做某事 ' b2 p: ]" `- F& {Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. O0 R3 v, k& k. c
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 . n" ^" |7 K# o) S$ q3 N% bHave you ever done that? : r2 I) w' h1 f# S你曾有过这种经历吗？2 T2 v! P, P# ?) Y+ i( q
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.' A* t/ |3 K4 I; y8 a! `
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。1 \+ a( g* r+ _8 F; {! m+ V
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. ! T3 G# c, H V( d# O' b/ Z# ?我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 $ ?! S. k8 [0 o B' s8 h p7 dAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular., l h$ s" U* U' @, ?4 X3 _
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 , ]0 K5 W: z6 VWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. * e/ P; g9 H8 @哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。: G; r1 y! g9 O! f, M" j6 C
That's a memory problem. $ H+ @, ?% Q7 ]; O' @1 i这是一个记忆问题。1 g' n ^' T& T5 Q% P7 A
I guess that counts too. 7 g5 i4 }) A( y& g0 i/ P) _我想那很重要。2 h! l7 a" O6 N8 {$ p
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?" ]* b/ g( [# i7 M9 F7 A
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？, X; O0 l. j' v \
At one point, there was a reason we do something. - R9 l* O& o8 [在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ; ^7 B, |+ T( Y+ |For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ; Q" u6 _' x6 s# q d+ S1 U% j4 x7 [对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 * W: W/ ~ L/ V$ ~% k$ _3 b6 XIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 1 v+ A9 X: b# s s+ n5 i总是可以问问自己为什么。; [4 \1 w7 c# Z2 l: Y3 O
Why did I start to learn a language? 1 W# h$ X: y9 l; \- ?+ u为什么我开始学习一种语言？ % z% J# ~; k6 e1 r: A& |6 g( ?Why did I join this club? - k7 z% v& @7 D为什么我加入这个俱乐部？; O# w5 g- \) M+ @
Why my friend was this person? 1 n( w3 g/ v6 r2 r1 ?2 J% |- L为什么我的朋友是这个人？ [7 v( N* d6 H/ o i: E3 {
Why did I get married? ; H% l3 A; x: K; A. x6 s为什么我要结婚？! W+ a- J0 V+ L9 R7 `
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.# ?6 E b0 C8 p
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。/ B: X/ V, r: |/ b3 b: k7 U
I think we need indeed remind us of why.$ N) g. ~% j7 B" W% I9 }. J
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 4 Q7 ?! x5 F3 O `6 g, A. TOr else it's tough to finish what we started.5 P, x/ s5 \- W0 b3 w
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 # S+ B8 h9 l4 q$ GWe stop starting. We quit the club. 2 ^# W, M6 M: S% [; [! j- [我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 . ]! ]1 j! ~1 t6 [" J9 `7 MWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged." \5 j7 v2 o$ p1 N' w# t* W. n
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。$ ?6 b f# x; a4 N. G
There's nothing wrong with asking why. " E4 s+ _, [) P" e% E3 q, L问为什么没什么问题。! N0 p" Z( q( [
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ( j$ U# Y1 S' r; o; g事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 6 \! v7 S$ }( ]/ M$ D9 x. G! Q* uTalk about it.7 m& w' J* k; a
谈论下面的话题：% C) L- J9 c7 D/ J
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 2 R2 @2 _$ g. z你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？+ `$ ?. R3 U+ _3 i1 R
Is it a kind of distant memory? 5 p& c: N9 B2 b0 i它是一种遥远的记忆？; V- x' r# C P& q6 [
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...- W, _6 i L! d
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… - j/ W1 g {2 [: ^How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? + Z% Q0 s$ o1 {你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ * z/ `9 X; c" _% Q: [4 \& @Do you write memos? 3 X8 J* l' l+ V: F! P5 q, S你写备忘录吗？ : `4 ^" j% K4 }, H* XDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ; ^$ m6 [$ U$ A( ]! A/ @3 s4 ]你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？( u; g2 f/ p( Q; r( j$ Y' n$ }
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?5 B' o1 G5 O( P( C+ w
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？% F9 X3 Q- M8 a) l7 v+ `6 W h
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ! Y7 a1 N# E: Y你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？