标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ; G% {- C$ ^* u6 |$ G 3 G4 C# @, @: ]/ G4 f" }0 U记住我们为什么做某事- D* k" g3 {% ~) F0 Q6 Y2 o
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. : Y& j8 K3 _6 u" ?4 q, b有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。3 `- V2 Y ?) T; ?% M4 ^
Have you ever done that? 2 b' Z! n J7 T6 R' R! I! C你曾有过这种经历吗？, l/ a' y4 k& U1 t) z
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ) c! s$ J6 R' n5 K8 r9 }3 ]1 r我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 5 m( D- j* o/ M9 gI have called someone because I want to tell them something.% Z9 ^9 Q$ G" k. r; V1 d
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。" N* J# V3 L Z
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 5 w' r# J9 Y0 D; K5 y: q( X" P然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 % v: [0 p7 ^- [# H5 f4 w! z" u) IWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.7 s. P' l; t# `; |, C1 z
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。: p8 q, K" x0 J3 f- i6 P7 _. z
That's a memory problem.% H8 _. X# x# @* v% I- d+ b
这是一个记忆问题。 5 Z- Z' v4 `0 lI guess that counts too.4 d# `5 m0 k$ A/ x/ q% g
我想那很重要。, ~* B) ?0 j) i
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?$ V' ~) W9 V0 B5 _ d
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？# @# P+ }* V7 U* z: n
At one point, there was a reason we do something. $ R' z2 ?9 f. [/ ^3 j在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。' m- i( O5 n' [0 E. u4 k, ]. u$ \
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 9 N) X4 g4 Q9 B0 y& B对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 : ^+ w# D$ A& @0 w1 }7 pIt's always could to ask ourselves why.0 \' Q5 }/ |8 O4 V# R& @
总是可以问问自己为什么。8 A; J3 \2 |2 P6 m) r
Why did I start to learn a language?$ W- B$ L. `1 i0 A) @; b
为什么我开始学习一种语言？& C' D" s: c- H) ~$ |) A" [9 w3 Q
Why did I join this club?8 w1 ^0 [5 n5 R, ^( C
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？8 i& J+ a9 L, H6 Y/ C$ W
Why my friend was this person? : s9 f' ]/ p& f为什么我的朋友是这个人？ & l _: M% M9 s9 B9 v7 }" CWhy did I get married? * B- _4 t; E# j4 `! u为什么我要结婚？ ! b4 O2 `; q/ {/ d. S3 h: ~5 bIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 1 l% n( M0 P* T4 H如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 7 c; a; F( Q1 I* c j' ~4 h! eI think we need indeed remind us of why. 0 E6 K) m2 X7 b) A. U我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 3 J5 b. ?! z1 X+ V F* q; v8 xOr else it's tough to finish what we started.6 u1 X& x6 i x; ~) y2 Q* F3 ~3 k+ Q
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 5 _5 t; r3 U4 x$ O5 s* b: V/ C- EWe stop starting. We quit the club. n5 f. C' r! \' E我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ! u* }5 O" P* `: t# dWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.( T$ [& @. t2 O, m, R0 |) M
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。2 G2 d' q9 Q a. Y0 D, A' @& q) T
There's nothing wrong with asking why.- E" b9 V0 i% M
问为什么没什么问题。0 d0 q- W/ B- C2 x) x' Z
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.7 l0 x& k1 {% h5 _2 k
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 & i) u" X1 J6 G! D/ |Talk about it." y1 w% | O; y
谈论下面的话题： * H4 E, ~, X1 a1 uIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 3 ]1 X |, Z6 `" {" J' c9 k: y+ d. @你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？7 m$ n: ]: K9 C) Q" ]/ e" d- ^8 P. p
Is it a kind of distant memory? , t% ^' m7 [) c2 K它是一种遥远的记忆？1 g J A. D4 q; e, C
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... " e- d3 V) D9 [# B5 M+ D你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 5 w% _5 B2 }0 c7 _" QHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?( Z! g4 g0 j: L- F" v! { h
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 2 {1 R1 c9 `( O3 F9 S+ O5 z0 ODo you write memos?- t: h: N1 f$ W, L6 I2 C9 c6 m% @) m
你写备忘录吗？. h" M, N; ]7 E2 ~4 I1 \
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 2 z, T, T2 f1 F; d/ B) @$ R2 s你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ U- @2 s6 _* }- G0 w
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?# x/ m# _' T& D2 b! U8 [- Z
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ - ^7 ]: H/ C: `- tWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 4 F5 Q# E( K3 @% G% R你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？