标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ( ^1 F: Z Z* ?- ~$ j! T s1 ]. w7 y
记住我们为什么做某事 ( n- x8 E2 D4 j. zSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.% P) l. _' o1 c2 v- k% `2 w: A2 d
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 7 |/ Y8 U4 E) e2 MHave you ever done that?7 x/ Z% t( j: n; U: S5 j1 P
你曾有过这种经历吗？: X8 |) ~* `" @7 _ O6 ]
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.0 z+ {. ~' x0 \/ S
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ' e0 T: G/ k$ E" Q2 vI have called someone because I want to tell them something. & w$ {; b$ g0 x4 M# y- [我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。! c6 R5 i9 z7 j$ | P+ s
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. V9 t9 Y" ~! e7 H0 {0 w* Y
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。# R7 b; D) r( b# Z" _! R- M2 h. z
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. & T: f$ f; ^* m6 S) X哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 % G( |, r6 O) H0 {. dThat's a memory problem.0 |4 b$ ~' c6 v. i$ i
这是一个记忆问题。4 g$ V4 c* S, ~8 `
I guess that counts too.5 C' h u0 k8 K8 Z: E4 w) \
我想那很重要。, V' V* W' `3 Y7 R& S) W& w- E
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?6 Z: e; m" f& j x1 e7 Y" X/ l
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？+ l, E; f0 C4 L2 a3 I' L D: O
At one point, there was a reason we do something.1 b/ f4 P% j6 J+ ~ Y+ K
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 0 P, F5 y# k1 UFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. " ~3 }9 L' y6 V8 p) g! A, {对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。7 [+ j m$ F% p/ h
It's always could to ask ourselves why. * R% R2 f) u) }1 S* Y* d Q总是可以问问自己为什么。7 h f* Q! t. u. r3 ^3 H. P
Why did I start to learn a language?- {+ N5 D: A) x3 H( D
为什么我开始学习一种语言？7 E( e5 `# S' K2 j
Why did I join this club?/ u/ X& _2 j4 b, Y
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ / Y) r; M/ a2 n9 ?; n& n/ O2 MWhy my friend was this person?- M7 e: m {) l6 S" W
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ " \! K7 |! G! \6 K# e$ H& [Why did I get married? 6 ~& `3 N: B' S' u9 i! j E! p为什么我要结婚？ ; j. c, j+ r8 u* x. |3 J( NIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.) m4 I8 M/ T! \# O: t$ c3 Z
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。8 G, U! P/ m9 ~/ \
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 3 e$ C7 s% }2 {我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 : p) |# o {4 x) n) _" F: G7 ROr else it's tough to finish what we started. # s* I% g, r6 m否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ' f7 O- X; j {We stop starting. We quit the club.0 e' U4 C$ x- q4 b( ^2 n- s1 d
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 0 Z9 v/ q" |. m# C' ~We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.1 W" q4 G* ~6 h
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。4 v ~) ` A; A
There's nothing wrong with asking why. , S' Y1 I0 [+ R5 }' ^( P0 X问为什么没什么问题。 3 q5 n b1 I' E5 EIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 3 @6 S5 e/ h: j+ p5 L) Y事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。, P4 L1 \( V5 H9 j6 G1 B3 Z0 ?& T" w
Talk about it. 7 F q* M( q3 T谈论下面的话题：. _& e/ Z9 S1 k8 W" p. r
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 5 f) d1 o/ r0 g% A/ W) _你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？* W# c) |; Y1 W" K
Is it a kind of distant memory? 4 o# c5 q1 ^) i, K. I它是一种遥远的记忆？ ' a5 U% z7 P1 a/ H# c* ^Did you ever forget why you are doing something...- Z! f; D2 t- J' h
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… + ?7 l' k- o( \2 GHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?- ?, a P# D( Y: ]* t( V* x7 i# M, [
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 1 h9 ]' m0 ^ w) H2 V& z$ TDo you write memos? $ m5 v3 E; l, e5 K" T你写备忘录吗？ ; _5 A) ^( U% Q) K) gDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 2 P' A& z( S# j0 B* R4 X5 y* f* i$ n8 H你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 6 T( K0 Z6 N( G) S' ~What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ( X& X/ B8 o2 _2 t* [+ C: `6 ^2 Y还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？, m% v4 f& B6 ]! v0 j5 o4 B
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 9 w; @# k" u6 U- O$ o你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？