标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something7 n; }# j$ l! r2 l( ]2 _
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记住我们为什么做某事2 R' a+ Q: G- P' l5 b8 Q
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 0 x+ q) L! H4 S有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。; g) |2 _; p" J/ H
Have you ever done that? " Y0 P! {% d1 W; q6 @; z你曾有过这种经历吗？( Q3 E# u) T, G$ O& D
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. / T# m1 a7 C1 G" z" q我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。7 x* n; ~0 s, t5 l/ p( J
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.6 `; i) i6 F6 ^. o3 b
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。0 {0 \8 k7 w- K4 Z1 g
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.- r$ ]4 K0 f, k$ J, B6 d
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。! i" L2 g! q% S+ ]9 y
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ; t/ e5 Y3 U" n5 [哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 5 } c$ _ L8 f; f, L* _That's a memory problem.! L+ O! O s" ~" ]! m" a! p
这是一个记忆问题。# K* S' M% ]( U0 h
I guess that counts too.& V6 B m/ i; { h
我想那很重要。+ P1 L6 E0 S. O; E" F; c
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? $ @( N9 U8 n& d$ `: {! S8 i但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ / ~9 n; E( X4 z1 [& gAt one point, there was a reason we do something. % K$ K+ o5 y5 j3 r+ e4 q在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。1 ]) b* r/ B5 a0 v7 ~+ L5 T; i- a
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. : s& w8 Q J! `/ y* y对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 3 h) l" W' x& u# e) h- E# uIt's always could to ask ourselves why. ! u1 y& u, y+ v- V总是可以问问自己为什么。7 {5 i" z5 M( {% O; y' R
Why did I start to learn a language?1 h# g7 F6 A4 S9 n1 B4 T+ i
为什么我开始学习一种语言？: y& S5 f( ~- o, i% [8 _ Y
Why did I join this club? & ?) O& b* [7 \ I# a/ p4 ] W为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 7 R6 E2 v+ K. @" F/ q( @$ bWhy my friend was this person? ' W* I$ X. m: p+ g$ d为什么我的朋友是这个人？7 Y# e1 v: S; H+ [ E, Z1 s
Why did I get married? & O+ H4 g C' R/ ? ^# N为什么我要结婚？ ! S! W" c5 W: X' o5 I$ zIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. ) y# G* M. F; O! J# z如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 9 y- ?+ g% L O2 q) o& L7 N+ @I think we need indeed remind us of why.6 h5 L g+ |3 x5 }2 ^
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。7 `- |0 _& {: ^3 P0 S& g, _, T* m% X
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 1 j. |) m2 R2 S$ D h否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ( y/ F% p. @; @* o4 i1 @4 E( cWe stop starting. We quit the club. ( _- c- c9 B$ w t& T. T$ r8 U, a我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 " t. n' W" X* f1 x- Y' FWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.. ?5 l o0 L# |5 R2 i0 g, N
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 , m1 c! |3 {7 f( p2 F+ L: dThere's nothing wrong with asking why.; H$ k8 o3 I- m$ F8 f: O( u5 _3 J! L P
问为什么没什么问题。 0 r2 l7 X7 |! s; \) VIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ; h$ W4 N* s2 Z( k$ G事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。4 }/ K* j) X$ ~1 K
Talk about it., V- s* n9 ^8 U) M- Y* \
谈论下面的话题：; f, [7 Y- V% G6 ]# |
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ) K% o9 e6 J0 l. ~ b; s' t你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？7 O7 H6 S1 p) V y# _6 U, ?
Is it a kind of distant memory?# d$ ^1 k& C9 B5 I0 m
它是一种遥远的记忆？5 f$ @! n+ F3 B: m1 n
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 3 N2 z0 \3 M) h) j% o# X你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… : F, V5 H# \/ v0 H& KHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?7 B. K) S; }+ e5 F5 F2 c' N) k
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？% H0 S* w' S2 S4 `! z/ M; |5 z$ e6 o: x
Do you write memos? - N! }0 E% E* W( t" y. t你写备忘录吗？ 0 b1 {6 @1 t, n0 H" k/ `Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?, {$ Q6 [: v, F2 M# D5 b
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？+ V/ y4 l! g1 T" i3 J! z% z( V
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?9 V0 U$ A3 M6 s- o
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ / j; G8 o- |+ i2 }What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 9 z5 W) C! g1 R% h- w1 r你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？