标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 9 G# {1 C8 K( P/ S! [$ S; R3 x9 X+ R, t9 q4 e' N
记住我们为什么做某事 , v! A+ v; F* uSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.1 A2 a( b( Z! i7 E& F8 Z
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。- B/ B' F0 x; b+ Z
Have you ever done that?1 y5 I# n: k, g
你曾有过这种经历吗？7 E9 A: v" F/ z- l8 G( Y
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.) S' j6 e* L1 {/ E& p8 l
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。: T8 z6 n3 R, \2 x% T, y
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 3 N3 ]; @ ~$ N5 N, V( {! X+ d) i我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。+ y- Z( {" r0 s+ j( A! ^& l9 v0 D
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.9 }; X$ M% l X4 x: T, Q
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ' N) o \3 c0 o3 {5 C. U# rWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 0 D9 N1 s5 b+ z8 t) g哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。% u* |% D4 l" R) T6 m! F0 l
That's a memory problem. ( C4 U( q/ N1 s+ T. f! g# v' G这是一个记忆问题。( |1 }- k1 t+ z, L: ^$ Y% C1 e
I guess that counts too. R8 x& `, x% Q我想那很重要。& i' I6 o4 e( s/ U& ~+ q
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?+ ^8 c% Q0 S9 G8 u8 A# L
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ( w/ e+ J Y% K$ _0 i3 Q! ~9 mAt one point, there was a reason we do something. % w8 v: N0 I$ X7 k. i在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。$ t* s. y: \. O0 G, Y) W
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.. }8 p0 B2 a* G" D
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ( t! h# N- n; A# EIt's always could to ask ourselves why. / h: B8 Y% e/ T' V7 W总是可以问问自己为什么。 1 T5 i2 m4 X3 U8 B- K! MWhy did I start to learn a language? . q7 k) n+ T0 w* v为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ! }/ T+ p- D( `7 FWhy did I join this club? * Z; a: M' Q# |( W( a% g为什么我加入这个俱乐部？* c" `) E8 u' ~
Why my friend was this person? 9 a }) J( E @9 g; A7 }为什么我的朋友是这个人？ : [: T' D6 M; g/ b9 SWhy did I get married?+ V2 U" T. Z z5 S
为什么我要结婚？" c% v/ L2 C, S' t4 s, x* L
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.7 X6 g% p, D+ y3 H
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 4 U8 ]0 w) U9 q3 T. f) `9 x/ ~I think we need indeed remind us of why. ! R4 k, ~. A, `# ^7 u u我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 2 J, E9 }/ a& m- @4 @" ^Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 8 k. j5 P7 I6 L否则很难完成我们所开始的。 6 C! ]) e( @9 t, I) iWe stop starting. We quit the club. 3 A7 ^$ V0 C% @4 H% _$ a: I1 u5 Q8 y我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。2 x% ]+ _0 c/ l4 q
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.: f3 s+ t8 q Q) e* A9 g
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 * w3 K' l) E; ]! eThere's nothing wrong with asking why. G6 z8 e: X8 B$ R7 e! t
问为什么没什么问题。6 D* [) ~7 i3 ^( T. S. e$ M5 h3 w
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.) |4 _6 _" v% |" K
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。9 u. |* r0 \6 l4 L
Talk about it.; P9 c1 p( D( k6 r) ^0 v, i5 M
谈论下面的话题： s9 E# X! B1 c; E. B; [! {( f2 h- W8 NIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 1 b. a0 p9 @- v6 W& u; \* h+ E+ K4 c1 F* b你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？* b+ y# f5 f8 J$ Y2 _9 a; S2 I
Is it a kind of distant memory?3 y1 E. G7 b0 y2 F4 `$ v N
它是一种遥远的记忆？" a0 ]5 Y! F/ w* V
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...: d- s- @8 l* z F2 [8 l
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……# P! }# |& P$ i( u$ @
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?% l& P; u* T( t" g9 t+ [& |) j. Y" V
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？2 }5 x* Q4 J5 f7 `! a
Do you write memos?0 i. T" O* Q" N/ ~
你写备忘录吗？ 5 O& {5 f9 l! z* j- c, @Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?, O# `% A. {8 F" R
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ! i/ K- m9 j r8 o) h% OWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?; N9 b, O/ x0 s5 Y' f, [3 n* @
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 3 F5 _. X! [, o9 `, vWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?3 r1 m; p7 R5 i+ e
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？