标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something & f* f1 x @. @' Q7 P5 J$ o" } F, c) W) g0 U
记住我们为什么做某事& w$ ~, D' N6 R5 N
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 3 W5 y% y& L" z. y有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。( w/ Q2 G C. w1 K
Have you ever done that? ; l: C8 Y" l+ ]你曾有过这种经历吗？/ v- T; h o0 e
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.# l' o7 F' l9 q: z8 a3 z$ Z
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 4 b" ]% R7 N) K+ jI have called someone because I want to tell them something. $ C% }. q8 Y* t我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。1 I$ e) |' _" \( h
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.9 V0 o$ v/ X: |0 ~. n( S
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ! R; W1 i6 `) U1 ^* DWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. % E3 J1 r& V$ a哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ) c: m& {/ v. D6 ]* RThat's a memory problem. z/ } m6 ~3 ]
这是一个记忆问题。 3 ?4 A: j# x: w( f, N( J# w) }I guess that counts too. : n& q9 ]) W- @我想那很重要。 $ F' d" k/ i9 h1 }8 RBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 9 ^# K; {* M6 D% D+ g% \9 d5 S$ w但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？5 z% ^& v7 |1 _ h
At one point, there was a reason we do something. - ?0 ?2 D0 ]7 Q3 C3 b3 f在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 & f1 R5 i& w- `2 j9 ~, [) F( ^For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 2 }( w! s4 l1 V0 V& |; t- T7 I对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。& N' e, e- e) k$ y/ O& N
It's always could to ask ourselves why.- u1 x0 U+ Y. l8 k2 M) h
总是可以问问自己为什么。! x [3 A" K3 A
Why did I start to learn a language?* ~8 o4 b0 g* n" `1 [9 a
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ * F; L; k/ A# f% Z; x* zWhy did I join this club? & p* E9 F3 X8 H3 R7 o! I为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ # J2 |: W2 C, x; TWhy my friend was this person?; Y: X& Z/ U1 T
为什么我的朋友是这个人？8 {) b8 Q2 m5 O
Why did I get married? 1 X8 t; S+ F. f- r y3 e为什么我要结婚？: d4 N5 q0 U0 S& |1 Y) o; B; C& s2 \& w
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.- f% T5 V/ V/ p8 A+ ~: G5 z
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。! g% p3 B* c) i" y9 {
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 2 M. W! b( Y2 J& W0 D! V我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ' t* k4 Q+ z) J6 c6 s+ _+ L6 mOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 4 Y+ G1 b. B* _, @7 r4 W9 h3 n否则很难完成我们所开始的。. Q4 C$ i! V# t8 J
We stop starting. We quit the club.+ q6 q8 u; k2 n' G# u
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。6 H+ O0 y6 L% ~* x! O: \
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 4 v- O, B2 c3 P& e我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。9 p4 l3 E& J9 F/ J7 t6 q
There's nothing wrong with asking why.$ K( l& J- K) C
问为什么没什么问题。 % }# j1 [$ n( E F! BIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. # C A: L( `: X) w1 Y事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。: g9 \9 t8 H) I3 n3 P H
Talk about it. " k! l" i) ^6 Z* p( c' y* L谈论下面的话题： . K, J5 Z' \" g* z7 [, o* E# h2 l% uIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? * _# I) H: ]; r0 U( L0 e! G你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？) W. }- T1 Y6 N7 j6 j! y
Is it a kind of distant memory? 1 c1 r7 s9 d1 J/ N$ O# L# _它是一种遥远的记忆？ . g$ P( f3 P4 X, J% X! XDid you ever forget why you are doing something... o6 |7 i0 s' s5 K( m7 p你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… E! u5 d( }: _( D% J* k6 S: e
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 7 C/ X/ i) c. r9 D( k% I' l" h你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？! d9 }: {* Z4 B" v
Do you write memos?4 D0 V7 N6 }9 V' O+ u
你写备忘录吗？ / u# a: K" L t- KDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 8 ]) l8 @8 w: a( F你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？% o6 O. m% K) {: s7 `. G
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?& E. f- O2 m0 ^+ i3 w
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 4 W3 }4 F( ]/ O$ g) mWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?1 W( Q( p8 Y. ^5 \" y
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？