标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something1 @ x. d s' \9 [9 G. d
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记住我们为什么做某事 0 s' ?! X% I8 m1 LSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. / P, K5 ]; h& D4 @有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。7 W6 z2 ?; R. i( T2 b
Have you ever done that?4 ~* t, S% F/ ?, V
你曾有过这种经历吗？ & I0 Q, F# f' z- _: {6 v0 zI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. : a/ r7 D: c4 Q4 c% h; R" ^我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。( _. g! `/ Z9 {) V4 F k6 e
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. ! q6 S H% C$ s* ?6 L我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 2 q2 `' q8 r }2 xAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.$ o3 v' _" O6 p4 C
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。! w H, e, M' V* S0 f3 L1 U
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.. E. L& W- L8 r6 t- J( `
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。3 O5 @1 R, {* } a3 R) _
That's a memory problem. " y) s( @' c d3 L/ e这是一个记忆问题。 + F( g+ v% S; j+ m$ aI guess that counts too.) a, A' j0 n4 C6 f* g5 G j
我想那很重要。 8 e' e% b2 y* U: S1 l8 W: qBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? . S2 r( P! f* z9 k0 `6 w7 ^$ W5 w但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ s0 M+ Q: z5 e/ ?7 i( U
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 6 Q1 G5 C1 N' N/ u在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ( P u0 q2 m7 X! Y1 `For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. E/ L$ a8 E# e d) ]' M对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。& w6 {' l# P$ Y) K5 n7 X6 Q
It's always could to ask ourselves why. " r( G4 K, L) s. ^" T: f1 k; \总是可以问问自己为什么。 0 ^$ V/ I3 O% e, c; a; t; [Why did I start to learn a language?5 \( h7 [! G7 S( s" |: o+ Y( f6 n
为什么我开始学习一种语言？; q6 k1 o- t) m, w, V3 d. L) c" }
Why did I join this club?$ W+ d% X& I! r. X! s
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ) P! q( _$ p7 w; D e, U& i* KWhy my friend was this person?3 M) t2 x/ c d; }
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ + y8 J( n, X2 p- T [5 ?2 tWhy did I get married?. k2 x u( S% C
为什么我要结婚？4 d! D6 I& }- o. Z4 X7 v
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. + J8 g" Z* b, {& `3 c j) |如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。4 b1 A0 f( A3 g& |
I think we need indeed remind us of why. F$ V% }# q X' s5 l I, A! G我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。0 A! ~6 \/ s6 D5 ]8 w3 R9 {. K
Or else it's tough to finish what we started./ F5 P1 C( `+ s$ k" S+ w) z# d
否则很难完成我们所开始的。: [8 z3 P1 `3 v: ^% b4 _- p9 L; d! C
We stop starting. We quit the club. 5 G9 Y# ^* U' P' q# ]; `! Q我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。) _% q* K, w" b. S! k2 }* {
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged." U9 n: f0 i$ i G6 c/ X: t
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 }5 ^6 h# f7 N' {
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ; E5 V4 Q) R; @; u# g+ Y- d$ {问为什么没什么问题。 7 q6 ^3 ^) l( v: `4 I0 G) YIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. " Y8 L2 J0 H T; e6 n事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。1 c9 L' G W2 B- D1 m, ^
Talk about it. ) l: }+ K( w2 @! v/ \谈论下面的话题： . c9 K& t/ g4 c5 Q- I' RIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?4 r9 X7 a% P; Z% N
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ / z9 @/ f6 Q) \$ P) SIs it a kind of distant memory? + ]1 R* |6 K6 N, f( G它是一种遥远的记忆？5 \- {6 \( g1 O9 y2 }( _2 Z9 K
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... , \, {6 ?# V" @6 N8 `$ ?你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……7 R3 j4 N9 e3 \9 @
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?& b- L. S+ Y- I
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？: e, L' g) q6 c; k" M
Do you write memos? , Z: ^* k+ T/ y( d你写备忘录吗？2 x( A4 n$ R' C) A$ d x# v; s5 o7 f
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?- j7 i" _. {1 k0 A v N
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 4 W* f2 n+ y# F, P: SWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?+ \9 u6 [ ?7 T+ |! Y
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ / ^; x, w R) e! E l$ ]What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?; U0 u, l! T, e' J3 C
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？