标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something $ R6 Q% C% c. [$ ?) W 8 T. H$ ]0 x& o- z' b# F# q M- J记住我们为什么做某事% m5 f& Q+ Z" N3 Z2 ^6 i! b' S& A
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.! I9 z0 s. Y2 f3 u3 L
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ' y3 ^4 ~- D6 m$ b# ^Have you ever done that?8 e+ O5 v2 |2 n& V( z
你曾有过这种经历吗？" h3 J8 @4 x( s# _% O
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 9 ?( v# q/ x0 M! p {5 ~! K( F我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。, V: i! d/ {" R0 G8 e2 y% v
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.6 U* y; ^! h$ G7 ]5 E0 L2 k8 m4 t
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 4 M( T) E$ z7 ]2 ~1 @And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ( x2 P7 S: |# n& G$ U然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。, E, L a6 e1 p/ K. ~
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 9 y9 }4 t6 [7 g; s8 A( B, Q8 g _哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。3 E+ G S2 E4 [) P$ v
That's a memory problem.1 a# P0 l- g: {0 X& v4 p; J
这是一个记忆问题。 ' N5 H5 Y9 v0 P4 l- bI guess that counts too. ( ^1 M C# _. ^我想那很重要。 : `* a+ Z7 o# H. G; l3 f6 dBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? , T2 n# [5 x' o2 |, I/ E& ]但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？8 g/ l) y* H I3 n, n; U
At one point, there was a reason we do something./ `3 `4 _/ U6 u; W
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。. G5 z8 b& V+ ]9 Z2 y% O8 s+ n1 ?
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.. q% y; V, R3 j0 `5 {0 F* X
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 2 }; A+ `+ W: x1 w X, Y: R$ b* X( CIt's always could to ask ourselves why. ' z* _- K; U5 u1 v总是可以问问自己为什么。. i5 I4 i8 e! A; w2 o
Why did I start to learn a language?2 q9 ]6 y) L+ ^7 G3 J/ ^8 U F5 k
为什么我开始学习一种语言？: U9 B9 E1 _! @3 r) r8 F
Why did I join this club?* e5 k2 m! w/ w
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ % r S' ^! v3 U3 b" [+ [/ _Why my friend was this person?" }2 G, U; w1 n/ D# y
为什么我的朋友是这个人？* C# K* M% k: O5 K* C
Why did I get married? , n8 x4 j) f7 r1 w" B/ R. r! _为什么我要结婚？ / q- f0 D* E3 i- g7 ~If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.0 \9 k; [4 e7 O
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。$ Z* _4 e9 U4 ]1 _" L5 ^" [
I think we need indeed remind us of why. & G$ x/ {' v) U& S3 d! V我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。- Y) ^& {8 [1 |! p; V
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 6 K7 W5 d) H9 ~6 f9 @& z否则很难完成我们所开始的。 0 I# D; ^2 H, K# X: HWe stop starting. We quit the club.& o1 Q9 P$ W; r; L# _7 K
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。3 u2 s9 a5 G; `: u# {
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ! ~ D' F/ _& \& `7 v6 k# h# i我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 & X( Q* r ?. V( wThere's nothing wrong with asking why.; i& b7 L( E9 m4 p
问为什么没什么问题。8 e2 M$ q, w# Y7 {
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. - o1 [6 C+ A: ^/ L事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。! o! o# a/ v) p, L: j1 ?2 m
Talk about it. # ?. {# Y4 |* d7 [谈论下面的话题： U6 w* p, U& t1 s9 S3 Z
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? q% B* G+ l1 `/ F% f9 E
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ / s5 H2 ^" X, ?4 WIs it a kind of distant memory?% L+ {: R; N7 {% E9 Q5 p$ u
它是一种遥远的记忆？( p! f0 N3 b. D: X, p3 r+ \
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...& S) s2 ~" T" t1 x3 b$ q V
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……8 e# W4 R1 |1 d
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ! j' `% i$ s0 r D4 Y- ~7 [# m你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？* R8 o. V0 F0 R3 F' @& A7 l
Do you write memos?# G! D3 Z- q. K8 L' L0 v
你写备忘录吗？5 l* i9 t8 o; L/ F$ u F" y
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?0 w3 G1 ]7 h c% k
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？7 A6 b0 D) N& Q9 f; L' O
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? . |: [4 @- D5 `7 v/ ]$ D& @还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ; s1 ]0 l; T2 i2 g6 T5 L& d% Z* `4 VWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?! o: A4 e" D; y) _2 |. i
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？