0 O3 {1 f# r! \7 i7 A记住我们为什么做某事 , Z& h6 f: x& Q* H% L6 DSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.. N- q1 g/ L* U* Z& j, Y
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。 0 L7 A: ]+ W8 N. SHave you ever done that?) y" O; M6 t2 t
你曾有过这种经历吗?2 |" L6 q; ^" |+ Z: F' s
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. , t) W7 _" ], Q5 d# x k/ s' e我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。: Q% Y: b: _, _- e, s& Y' h
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.. t0 G U4 F4 |" Q" ~% d! `
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。 , K8 ]9 q1 E5 I5 U2 GAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. - |) n+ R$ r: r# K7 V9 v `; J然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。/ h3 J9 R1 N& w+ M; I5 I
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.& x+ c: C) S9 Z+ I" Q3 ~/ B5 d: b& R
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。2 A2 Y5 m0 @+ n; y8 E* d4 P5 B
That's a memory problem. 5 n# Q' L" j' i5 P3 [5 Z- J+ ]/ A这是一个记忆问题。3 [( a8 ?. c4 L" L2 a: d' o
I guess that counts too. $ d$ @5 P2 _) ?9 J5 s$ o( d0 R( u; [我想那很重要。 - f7 a" R- ^; N; j$ P& FBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ; x4 g% E1 V' t但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么? * X/ r& t1 t3 m' A+ L8 V5 |) }At one point, there was a reason we do something. 7 K: [( c9 M5 H3 V1 [) x% n" ~, [在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。 2 F- b3 O$ |- x* y) _3 c9 aFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.# x% q% s- r- A
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。8 @3 c: G$ E3 X3 v1 y3 R, x
It's always could to ask ourselves why.0 k- X. l' I8 n( X+ |
总是可以问问自己为什么。# o$ m* H1 U% V% m" I, z
Why did I start to learn a language? 0 M8 I+ C- w5 j* P! a8 O* w/ T9 ?为什么我开始学习一种语言? . D L; Q! I$ L- o2 ^Why did I join this club? 0 W' [$ X5 `5 u9 p6 B8 l, C! b为什么我加入这个俱乐部? 0 Z! U9 O1 L, |0 s6 WWhy my friend was this person?$ s% _/ b/ D$ P. Q& s. ]
为什么我的朋友是这个人?) l9 l; v9 L! w5 f% p
Why did I get married? W- a) G/ z) d5 _) i
为什么我要结婚? 4 e0 e4 w M$ T% OIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.8 Q1 ?3 i- w, y( C* M l* x
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。 # o! G* i9 n7 `4 D. N3 |7 S6 ]I think we need indeed remind us of why. 2 t5 y( B9 `1 w4 N* e我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ( _9 H9 x' z X) q4 VOr else it's tough to finish what we started.- s4 f5 J$ H9 o% M' o
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 + s. E, b# J6 q h* lWe stop starting. We quit the club. & R; N5 I6 K5 [! p6 i我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。0 T2 w3 e' k+ T$ S; i
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ' u6 A r; Q4 s5 l+ Q* Z我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。) h4 T. w4 E" v0 }
There's nothing wrong with asking why.( y$ F! ?! Z7 m6 _. C! p
问为什么没什么问题。+ O7 J: I) E& S
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.3 ^& l2 j& F( t( p1 [& D
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。4 s q" N( F2 t; n
Talk about it. , k# p! ?5 h% P4 @4 k' z谈论下面的话题: - o/ B8 e, O* q' V/ D' e" F9 u' YIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?5 k+ }; }- _3 W4 Y/ Z/ @
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗? # M- O7 C) V3 ^# qIs it a kind of distant memory?( ]3 `: E8 I/ `: L6 ?$ H$ r$ {, y
它是一种遥远的记忆?1 Z5 p% D6 J# }+ G& I1 W+ W
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... % {& t0 c& z! m+ O你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……- _, f8 }* Q# q+ e9 b
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 7 G! t, U7 V; j' q4 |) ]3 P. S你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗? ; }0 w7 n2 n* X4 y/ KDo you write memos?( U- L& `9 a% W! I9 ^, w3 ^' _
你写备忘录吗? 5 w4 P) a3 x- O) z7 YDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? - h y2 Q5 ^- I) G& I你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?# |0 M6 S* N" x. O& q8 f* D
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ; |# G- [3 w+ G) m( i3 U1 y) h还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?+ y* }0 s: t, m! Z- s
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?, F8 m3 B/ _2 {# Z3 B3 h ^* u0 W
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办?