标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 7 e2 }# O+ {. V3 D+ o" B , d d" ^) B: x3 N: {) Q记住我们为什么做某事 6 z* F1 ^+ ^' v: z: ySometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing., K; d a( L; W! v% ~
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。# h: a# p+ _6 _( i) B
Have you ever done that? % N7 P8 K: | |& y% K) h* u你曾有过这种经历吗？+ y7 I |, Q9 _$ r! s% S( A" w! Z
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too./ B2 C; F$ g9 @* a4 N" j
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。) o4 Q% J: Y* p! f) ^
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.0 x$ Y& q) j+ v7 F! X
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。2 p% x% L0 C; z7 ?6 \/ t
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.* h x+ J' h' w; V0 b
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。% J& A: Y* H: A) E* x2 s
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. / o- O1 f; z& `% L4 d哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。8 d) N3 G4 t% ^: G% A8 \( V @* i' A
That's a memory problem. 1 T ]- i+ N1 V" f. t这是一个记忆问题。 $ s U1 ~# l, h. A1 G' f3 FI guess that counts too./ ~8 m9 I5 d s- M
我想那很重要。6 ?4 w6 t' R: Q! I
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? & i v% Q) g8 @' A" g w( ?但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ " U4 i/ n/ N6 E, O, dAt one point, there was a reason we do something.. u5 o% d( h" ~7 w* n# R
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。! I6 H1 r# U7 _& x4 }
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason." w" w( j' S7 Z5 r3 ~
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ! L, q( |2 |6 ]1 G9 ]It's always could to ask ourselves why. 0 n, a9 s% V6 l总是可以问问自己为什么。 9 w- M; l5 |+ G2 X* p1 h4 j5 dWhy did I start to learn a language?' U# K% s" k H" D( [# k1 k
为什么我开始学习一种语言？3 C$ r0 s$ f" W
Why did I join this club? / O2 K' }) V" G7 F为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ & K2 {! U$ ^2 rWhy my friend was this person?0 X3 Q# v. j! }
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ / l$ X2 v! g: w% k% EWhy did I get married?$ s- A7 B7 t7 R1 C, h
为什么我要结婚？ - o, z& u0 P1 i) t" ]% W4 K( \If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. , Q- L1 B6 S: `6 |* L6 N7 A% @) m如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 4 G, v1 N: B6 K7 x! A; \I think we need indeed remind us of why. 1 i [4 o1 L9 w) @我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。1 T5 o/ h& G( J) j3 f' G8 c
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 7 o* F, K/ X0 `7 W" f! x否则很难完成我们所开始的。 5 C/ s. ]! C3 N$ m, z0 \0 e4 WWe stop starting. We quit the club.- U! @9 B0 @& S8 `7 A2 |
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。7 ~" u+ F& F. z7 L( B7 I/ f
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.7 c8 ?* B3 I( ]& u2 N$ F3 f! t
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 9 e6 h, O2 `2 V$ LThere's nothing wrong with asking why.6 l; W0 s+ d6 b/ R
问为什么没什么问题。* U7 D4 K# ^0 C6 [( `- f
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.- F$ `( C p8 E4 J9 f
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。8 L X+ t) o- L! _, }! f- ]0 K
Talk about it.! G& S$ @5 z* n, w5 S/ h. S4 x+ Z
谈论下面的话题：, p/ |0 @/ M t2 _7 z: q1 ]/ x' c
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?. `3 l' O' G2 p8 g+ A( v
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ / r6 q8 A) B* [2 b: YIs it a kind of distant memory? 2 e z, q# }7 P它是一种遥远的记忆？ ; ^, S6 {0 \! ` F: r! \Did you ever forget why you are doing something... : E+ i5 q7 L6 w6 X" Y你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……3 M" f3 B# A& a# o. B2 Y5 n9 X
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 9 O t ^8 f ?) P% j: o* G3 Y你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？! w3 x2 d( K7 j( @8 H: l1 D% s
Do you write memos?0 O1 ?! |1 J3 f
你写备忘录吗？, G6 A& J, |. n. j
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?( z* `4 ?6 r" P! E1 ] F8 L. x
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？- W( W( ]% L2 j9 e4 v4 ~
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? A( I7 b6 j2 x6 p5 d1 [: ` ]还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？7 C- T8 [* ^; {3 s- N o
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ) Z o+ o& W5 e/ N, m/ F你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？