标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something" w7 j9 o5 ?7 k) \) S
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记住我们为什么做某事 * s. q/ R: P. Q* c6 m( k4 MSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. " @/ Z& ] J: k, e" X有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 : G" @2 E% C+ }Have you ever done that? 7 D3 R9 O. D/ R1 s7 n5 A& D. ~6 e你曾有过这种经历吗？ 7 B2 n( y: c0 B! r" P+ vI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ; U/ G3 G1 k0 i9 ?$ i3 C我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 / J8 i8 X f) W; _I have called someone because I want to tell them something. ' W: I/ T5 i+ w' b0 c* f我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 , `3 u1 Y0 y8 P" H; j$ f$ z$ BAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. F& a6 Q5 W& I. T8 Z$ b8 }# t然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 3 }- @1 y6 I; B* O& Q5 @Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 1 W" c7 C& \ W6 U. [: p哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 . P. D; F2 e/ D5 C8 Q; d3 DThat's a memory problem. 6 U& x; i8 W( K: ~; X7 {* A这是一个记忆问题。 7 a* K$ f% E# x HI guess that counts too., C3 L8 K/ R' x! \9 t
我想那很重要。0 U$ {+ j, r9 x' h# z6 a& @/ k
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? : X* `5 }2 e! P但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？/ W) D7 P! H, b" Q
At one point, there was a reason we do something.% |5 d7 m. f; K5 | R6 S: K" j! r: y
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 0 n% z- N, m: ], z- k& XFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 6 N5 H9 I" ^: S对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。* M+ `: |% m/ o. ?4 r
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 3 \6 z8 T; T( S9 B总是可以问问自己为什么。 3 k8 h* V2 X9 qWhy did I start to learn a language?! X: c3 b, y, `( K6 u. V
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 3 m$ e" l. N4 {Why did I join this club? 3 S$ F/ ^$ ^+ k8 u2 {为什么我加入这个俱乐部？8 l9 [; h5 Z! Y' U. W( w3 S
Why my friend was this person? ! y' C8 B2 k- y! b. [ V: f+ s9 o为什么我的朋友是这个人？/ j2 C5 ]( w: T1 Y) H
Why did I get married?+ J |; |" @# U# h! U1 e9 H
为什么我要结婚？7 M2 ]' x4 F Q _3 c. }
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.& a0 e) B. @+ N: n
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。+ R/ v1 C6 }4 J& Y b5 b
I think we need indeed remind us of why. F* ], S' d2 p# ]2 s
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ; F' C3 ~; `3 J1 w. u# N jOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 7 p) s+ A( z$ c$ T( W. M4 {- e否则很难完成我们所开始的。, q" g& M' S x
We stop starting. We quit the club. 8 P& F0 Y2 F0 P' H我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。; O2 I3 k- O) X, I
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.( \) [, f+ s$ k5 B" p2 ?
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。# L1 |3 Q; v/ h J9 d+ U
There's nothing wrong with asking why.) ]1 ?0 {; T9 c% y' Q- ^
问为什么没什么问题。4 ?- d) w$ Y Y5 @6 J: [0 ]
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. & W) {9 t- S/ ]7 ~' w! m; u事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 , p- C" O$ ^7 v5 e, l# S5 s) gTalk about it.( x5 t+ Q3 E N8 M. y" o5 H" W' b
谈论下面的话题：* d# ~: `% K1 _
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?7 a2 g; A( a: _" e6 f
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？2 f* |+ L+ C$ b- U, p0 [1 P6 _1 A
Is it a kind of distant memory?! b6 \6 v! Q# L1 y7 ?
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 6 A' k! V$ F. A% K9 X9 |' _+ tDid you ever forget why you are doing something... . ]7 @4 t* c+ m8 K$ z8 d你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……# g' D8 Q/ ~8 l# D! f
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? & w5 v, w2 R9 [: s6 s! L/ a你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 9 `& c% c/ c0 g2 n5 |5 _7 l" {3 I" qDo you write memos?; T, t( G. T3 X# ~3 o, p+ | K
你写备忘录吗？% ?1 v' u, w+ V8 m2 T: @/ r2 V
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ( \' m! z6 ]; x9 o你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ , H! k& z/ a! ^ XWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? $ g3 G6 O6 E$ v+ v还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？& n6 d& u+ x7 }6 v! h" a
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?; i' D9 z( m( p/ p: a2 P& x. N5 X4 d* B
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？