标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 4 v& v0 J! \% G @7 B, i+ `4 z/ n* U. a2 B/ ~
记住我们为什么做某事* U: F* a( v+ _& x5 z& z4 Z
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.% f0 K" E5 s. \. [# o. y" j4 u
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 * F7 @2 N! p* K. \Have you ever done that?8 B6 H% w% H$ s; \: ^$ N
你曾有过这种经历吗？+ @' A! A* [( c" T/ [
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.) y' y% ^/ `6 q! V( V) ]2 A" J" C
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ~" B& p1 Y( M# EI have called someone because I want to tell them something.6 v6 m9 L O- \% \4 R9 N
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。- y+ Z/ A+ [* V) }# n! Q" X, x
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.- _! B: x, K( T) V( O
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。1 V5 |( W8 p" J
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.: b; c; X- O% f
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。9 W9 H; ~/ }% Z& \0 z
That's a memory problem. 5 B8 |9 | ]0 ]4 a! V Y7 G这是一个记忆问题。 " e2 t$ w% _: CI guess that counts too. : N h2 F9 I: l3 p0 ~我想那很重要。) K$ \* v7 L# d# p
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 5 b7 |# v# x; L2 ?# J: j2 ~但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？3 n# O. B! y4 J) T5 f9 F) f
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 9 \2 p! E/ \! [- k4 Q在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。& E6 V( V j Y- |
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. " N/ j3 V6 N) M( }# i, F对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ) y! k7 K2 p: c6 C$ ?( x, q7 G" ~# x; JIt's always could to ask ourselves why. / L3 l; t) y ^0 i3 ~总是可以问问自己为什么。4 J s% Z3 T& h# M. i
Why did I start to learn a language?6 ?* ^$ Q6 L+ B- q, w
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 9 ], D$ O8 g# j u; L/ K8 U; CWhy did I join this club?6 S# b1 w ?* ]; B; J# u
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？" V# ^2 I& q9 }9 T$ W+ T
Why my friend was this person? 9 p# u. F7 w5 m9 J为什么我的朋友是这个人？- X0 F# Z; X, |* U, J5 `+ q0 T$ U$ y
Why did I get married? 1 d D& u1 _6 [2 X. F5 `9 H为什么我要结婚？ / f+ e4 o; y1 @( j# IIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.! L' n. c: E( ~. h7 n! L7 n7 j
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。/ [ U# B& D) {. ]3 h4 D0 g
I think we need indeed remind us of why.7 C! F0 a- n5 B! x! o
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 6 e7 |6 k* x: H$ aOr else it's tough to finish what we started.* l! S+ Q$ D. S0 d4 X8 @* c
否则很难完成我们所开始的。6 y2 ?2 ?4 E0 f7 C$ l# k0 U
We stop starting. We quit the club. : B( I" r7 y, a: ]我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。4 Y& R6 b4 _6 E d* c2 w
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.% K* m8 K* j- E4 r
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。5 y; ^& d( c: j u
There's nothing wrong with asking why.; J) j* B- n. g/ {( ^: w
问为什么没什么问题。; V0 m+ S1 s/ P- Y2 ^6 Y$ c1 U8 [# C
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 0 `% m) p5 r8 u+ R+ ^事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。0 ^. _8 a' S) q
Talk about it. 3 N# f' l4 V6 Q( {5 d7 O谈论下面的话题： ) M0 e2 ]! s* iIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? }8 j% Z8 b7 C& A: ^2 J: v* h1 o+ G
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？" \/ R3 n1 S( U* k0 J
Is it a kind of distant memory? : o$ C1 \; `: w0 @它是一种遥远的记忆？2 w0 A* _% l, k7 c( Z% \
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... % ~: O! i5 i0 P0 D3 A' n1 y你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……5 @( N# U1 t# x4 b
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?$ v2 K8 F) c; s7 ]
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ( u1 c1 _; t" @Do you write memos? ) N; Q3 N; Q; y; p你写备忘录吗？ 5 M% C4 q) O6 y0 IDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? % y: S. D+ q0 J+ P5 _你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ! p+ V6 s7 F ~8 p% n) yWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ! h# W0 z9 Q( U& E2 C还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？2 P6 d7 H8 l% m A1 N E/ Q
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?* j( {4 Y+ ~2 r$ l+ O0 a
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？