标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 8 z5 E7 L3 k4 _+ u- T ^! ^7 u 0 j! @! D h- j) ^' ?( N$ q记住我们为什么做某事 " n, N5 o$ u+ \6 ]* a2 q2 ZSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 4 k) s- t4 V9 q9 V有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。/ W. L& f3 e: g
Have you ever done that?' j8 s+ h1 c; A: N0 a% s: P
你曾有过这种经历吗？$ o1 O& H& | R
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too./ v0 Q2 i; L1 f% y, A+ C
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。( J; ?8 Q, c+ O+ C
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.! A. ]! f, [$ b- [% r3 J1 Z
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。1 ]. E# [; O2 \* o
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 9 C- P3 d& E* p# _/ q然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 # z/ w7 a( g( k# HWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. " K. l7 }. J/ z: U; o1 Q, Q哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。1 [9 j4 `6 H2 X/ m# E9 `
That's a memory problem.* v$ [. l$ N+ g7 ~
这是一个记忆问题。& H5 i! p/ j+ m6 W0 U( @
I guess that counts too. 2 v5 {) f% R2 k I7 F我想那很重要。; ~# b% n. N5 z1 \
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? . h- w& K" I# f; r但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ # q% f7 S9 Q7 P" M Z% }At one point, there was a reason we do something.) U5 q& Z" x$ M6 X' {
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。. P! H' U9 G7 X% Z
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.9 r* V+ `; m d$ W0 w5 w
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 8 C+ s7 r8 x U% c9 T2 WIt's always could to ask ourselves why., `+ p' ^9 e1 f, Y1 s- i+ ]
总是可以问问自己为什么。8 S3 I- X+ _- k4 f1 n5 A$ Q( o" y
Why did I start to learn a language? " t {8 G( h" N2 F/ I2 f为什么我开始学习一种语言？' A* D, G9 Z6 O
Why did I join this club? 2 G% w, P8 e% x9 x3 J) ~为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 3 y. {% i( L' R( x6 f$ p% @- DWhy my friend was this person?; B Q! {8 b7 N/ v" M
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 6 n9 ?' c. k1 z: C6 [Why did I get married? $ W6 s3 A$ |7 l% {为什么我要结婚？ ( g. H* {7 _& tIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. : A1 i+ |- E$ w( y, O9 w/ |; i如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。" [7 \9 \* ^0 t
I think we need indeed remind us of why.9 n3 M4 o2 Z' d4 k
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。3 @- @9 Q- W" _
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.6 V+ L9 Z4 T2 N. g
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 9 k7 T# L/ I6 @5 Z: p* T GWe stop starting. We quit the club. k6 k% x. f2 c我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。& C) Q* R( s% E/ z; a
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. $ j! Z7 q, @" v1 [$ F1 t; n我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ' l! F( w# u) E% p3 g. k7 E! mThere's nothing wrong with asking why. . ]* K2 a8 f; W ~问为什么没什么问题。/ D" L7 u1 ~! V7 f& X7 ?$ t- e
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ) O8 w7 p5 t3 \, `: G事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。8 m m' [: F. A, S
Talk about it. 9 F4 A, j& X6 U( j% ^* G2 p8 Y谈论下面的话题：- S- R" r1 A% h" d5 @0 X1 S
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? & P' x$ e& |+ y! L# c1 ^你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ) _+ ~6 |$ |* a' { P6 QIs it a kind of distant memory? : U6 C, W v+ O* G" j, D" M1 g' b它是一种遥远的记忆？ 4 ^' B2 P$ \4 \$ g! i& w7 S2 Z9 BDid you ever forget why you are doing something... : ]$ U5 I' @- Q; I: P0 t你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… " u6 M3 O% B7 }3 mHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ' E& V+ a' R" Q6 l3 W你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？! z1 @7 V( x* K- ~) S
Do you write memos?# l9 X/ \7 ~5 v+ x# d
你写备忘录吗？ 3 u+ ]' I) V, uDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?3 n0 J, @! r; e4 f2 d
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？6 u M5 {1 z% X7 t( ?6 A
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 0 S, q4 q. e, G, O( Q还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ) n: P9 p) D- R- z) b) CWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? " ^9 W4 l. E! ?8 Y. U0 }; L你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？