标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something( u1 r' K- F2 h' o" ^. m/ y
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记住我们为什么做某事 " b1 Y* P) v* H4 t4 o: J) {1 t7 @9 sSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. _5 V: E5 ^- o9 C
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。2 ?8 J) t7 `& @1 c# h
Have you ever done that? O+ p, ?, @5 C4 `) Y5 j你曾有过这种经历吗？ " [& e G2 ~: M8 r+ m- l% m0 RI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.9 @# T9 |/ {) L7 [8 \' Z
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 : a7 d) d$ z$ e9 \: ?2 F4 rI have called someone because I want to tell them something.( ~. K+ u- t: ?$ G0 Y; y+ B t* M' R
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 7 [' m5 j, Y* e' LAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ) t. u7 U4 R6 V7 |( b然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。! } z/ G3 J, i) V
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.6 M. ~. D8 B! D
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 6 X* w6 V" ?( kThat's a memory problem./ T" F7 V5 k, I# ]
这是一个记忆问题。 , Y$ t* B+ L3 _+ Y ~( \: RI guess that counts too., T1 m3 ^2 z/ l s
我想那很重要。1 z' Z4 }: I$ K) [! E9 L3 r, ^
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?* W& r1 A7 ?, O" {
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？& D0 b* x6 \6 a- Q7 o. J& \1 Y' ?
At one point, there was a reason we do something.5 J O0 {/ h9 y2 E0 x5 g' @
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 , u/ Y) E* O+ l" f PFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.9 h: ^; B# ^- |9 z5 K0 Q; G
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 $ ^& A3 E7 X) |* @( zIt's always could to ask ourselves why.' `6 C {# c1 W; ^& _) b
总是可以问问自己为什么。+ z6 N! i, _$ ]$ `" E
Why did I start to learn a language? : ~/ U- ?1 X8 m% Q为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 5 m% E. R5 |' Z# G/ P( `Why did I join this club?: [) f2 d; I4 L4 C) `
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？9 ]/ T: Z* X9 F$ t, h
Why my friend was this person? 4 t8 ~2 a0 `7 a+ D* j% e5 f: Y- {为什么我的朋友是这个人？4 d( z7 t V' N
Why did I get married? / u2 \; l0 F9 K: q7 D为什么我要结婚？ ' B7 ^. {$ M2 d* v/ F7 G' IIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 4 F0 k; V3 r& N; Y: \) O如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 6 D4 Z2 s9 Q7 q- [) x0 R9 PI think we need indeed remind us of why. J+ l) E" W) b8 j1 t0 T我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。* o; K/ \ l5 h: D7 A% n. ^" Z
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 2 I( n7 z9 K c6 R否则很难完成我们所开始的。) o# e9 ~7 N6 f3 q# J0 w. K
We stop starting. We quit the club., s% A( n; F0 Z. C' P
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。+ a# X% e/ Y6 a! }# r, h
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.3 ~, b4 l" _( Q6 o7 D# X9 Q' |
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。* i$ |+ q* N7 g+ p1 j
There's nothing wrong with asking why. / u2 T4 d) d; N' k1 P: C问为什么没什么问题。1 Z# \1 C% F+ X0 Q5 ~4 b
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ( D1 C# l" t7 K事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。. |% o2 w- t1 W9 X
Talk about it. 2 p+ a" C1 r+ R2 G/ s& [/ N. T谈论下面的话题：6 _9 {' G( L8 X- ]5 ~
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?9 A- P2 j6 ~' ^8 T4 i( f
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？* B4 C1 z) I, ~* n W
Is it a kind of distant memory?8 a$ @/ S: I, r" m# y
它是一种遥远的记忆？% L2 ]9 Y6 [* D0 }, [$ M& i6 @
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...* c! r' U9 G: R# O* W% e5 F( D
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… + Y8 I- r7 h( ~% kHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 4 R3 j4 g; I" Z! B8 r你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 4 t: s/ V" w3 R& C5 H- O D6 ODo you write memos?) [' e7 w8 X. [6 `
你写备忘录吗？ 7 l2 M" [+ c; J3 h, d% b4 ]: _Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? : l* a# z5 d- {) y d' j你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？; r9 z; X6 p: D
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?* P$ m( M5 f; y- Y2 C- L, X- e
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？: o1 w( {" Y1 z! n& K
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ) L0 o# h# V1 f( v" |" h9 D; G你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？