标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 7 j1 \ _) C2 {$ S2 f2 I- z$ a 6 U0 t& h9 v3 Y# X; T0 x记住我们为什么做某事7 S+ V: p6 } e* b
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. : _- S/ |7 O. s+ s; x有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ( v9 P Z9 S3 Q r1 [8 Q' SHave you ever done that? 5 V; J$ F% }; r! O0 l: k你曾有过这种经历吗？( U( V; z6 L& S; ~' ^" Z
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 5 q+ L/ o" h& f* Y0 C0 r我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。. e- r3 \7 d. ?9 w0 `2 d
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.. y! ]0 f8 x. F* u6 Z
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 1 ^/ b6 N2 b# i3 _3 Y5 MAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. * z* h8 {1 s+ k然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 $ x# @, U1 d- N, A! \Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.: ?& O' S' x/ o4 _
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。7 v% D! a9 r* T
That's a memory problem.7 t4 R4 p% z) ?# n
这是一个记忆问题。' s1 u* ~# H* L% G! Z# Q
I guess that counts too.: C+ Q2 G% \; N8 B! F! R
我想那很重要。7 X( f' x2 i# w
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?" n% F( s' m7 \
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？, e. Q+ h3 O' q& N& n9 u) l
At one point, there was a reason we do something.6 Y' q5 w- U9 d5 K+ n: K* V# O, t
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。6 n5 i4 S8 t# Z( a4 j$ ~# W0 X
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.) o8 I" _& P- q' `- o
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 4 W% i3 Y3 ]% R- K: ~It's always could to ask ourselves why. w' x2 C6 B+ x+ ?$ c' [
总是可以问问自己为什么。% P) w8 b, B5 A! Q6 F
Why did I start to learn a language? ' Y( [8 s; D, e! a为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ( R) u6 x9 }5 L) {- F% ZWhy did I join this club?9 E8 B$ i. C+ P, P' X. `
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 4 s0 n: k( `# J/ d% J D0 I; EWhy my friend was this person? ( w6 D# d3 `/ n5 k为什么我的朋友是这个人？ + A. O. B5 b: C$ @7 x1 tWhy did I get married? 0 p$ |4 s% H& d8 L5 f5 r! |1 b为什么我要结婚？ 1 w( ~1 P; Z' j3 e( N8 QIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why., q) s. p( U. q8 X' \+ P
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 5 h: y3 w: L# NI think we need indeed remind us of why. 8 W% r& ^1 u9 q+ Q$ S3 Z% o. {/ f, L$ V我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。2 G& X" _9 k+ ?- D, {
Or else it's tough to finish what we started./ Y: N8 G; c# ?- E7 \: H6 _
否则很难完成我们所开始的。/ V+ A: j5 J0 a
We stop starting. We quit the club. / h5 Q; }8 _6 b; O' O2 D我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。6 x) D( u! E7 z& [
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.; d. S% F* j. g! A& h
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。7 R* x; Z( L+ T& V" W2 ~8 q/ I
There's nothing wrong with asking why.* d* l- r4 p; @% M& u" I* c2 {
问为什么没什么问题。. O/ a1 `* O2 ]2 H: P: x
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.9 @# a$ [% `4 P1 r1 l+ E* c
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。9 h3 Y2 O8 h8 T
Talk about it.& _- p, r* b1 k: {6 {; S: r+ q5 x
谈论下面的话题： / q9 W- Q1 O8 NIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?. P" K. Z, Z) v+ z/ W' }0 s; {
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ! y% w( B' s. M4 R. a% ~! tIs it a kind of distant memory?8 h# T7 _7 M6 A7 @) s& K9 w
它是一种遥远的记忆？, T( Z2 {- B5 V9 A. l6 h
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... % g, A' o6 Z& t1 l3 C+ i: q你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……) h2 v z+ } g4 V2 V4 _ j7 D, g. U
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? G# P( \$ `. \! a0 N你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？; i: s k; `' l; E
Do you write memos? : T0 ]# }/ y/ L你写备忘录吗？ & D8 l3 {0 k" T H. aDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?& U+ }1 I+ S& ^
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？( Z2 s8 {( n# I
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 0 @+ Z L8 y+ D$ {还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？7 K2 r- h' K2 @' _6 O. i
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 6 L' z3 t# @# a你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？