标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something$ M% y; Q6 ^) b. Q6 o
. r5 t* _% S) t4 p记住我们为什么做某事! x8 ?7 T: ~8 k
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. - Z3 `; `) q1 }# I# M有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 2 [$ G5 }+ s' z/ q0 nHave you ever done that? " |. \# c7 i8 Z/ Y你曾有过这种经历吗？ ) ~& g" T2 \- r; N& Q9 ^I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.) ^3 H# ]+ ] x3 ?3 w* s
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 & K" s0 ?& l/ e0 g/ @I have called someone because I want to tell them something.0 ]' [" n! ]" M2 \# i2 d1 N
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。$ x0 A: t& m9 q/ G2 n+ Q
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ) m4 f' Q* U/ n7 h- x: Y: w然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。0 g+ \. t$ M3 D8 Z
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ( r* z. b4 D! o0 N4 l G, J哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 h9 [% R* n H2 t+ [
That's a memory problem. 5 ?# N& j& m$ I7 \; y) Q/ o* f这是一个记忆问题。9 e4 \ k4 G7 N. B$ P) R& o( T6 e
I guess that counts too. & ]# h) x/ N& Z% {我想那很重要。, L; B' B! B% B B! i6 A5 x
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? , f) D3 Z" P( b! I$ J3 E! `& P1 J但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？; p- p! n# ^. Q, t
At one point, there was a reason we do something.; u$ r, d/ k. g5 V9 P' L; b
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。6 M! b6 `2 W, S; j2 p m/ M; {0 U
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 8 F' K8 `, h8 Y+ p* n3 y2 t( D对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 0 k# m, l2 h; z* P; N8 ?- SIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 0 F1 F+ ~3 k# {7 k' D& A# h总是可以问问自己为什么。9 f% U! H1 J2 R* c% V' k4 L
Why did I start to learn a language? 5 e: [' i9 t. z6 u1 Y- w' J为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ! m) u7 p$ C7 Q* B) H: YWhy did I join this club? k! A% z {+ z) g8 I9 c8 B为什么我加入这个俱乐部？6 d( Q/ I0 [- [/ q
Why my friend was this person?8 V8 k2 o) x* ?! }% I4 F
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 1 D m N, ?* ^1 I; H4 uWhy did I get married? 6 p. z8 k% m' B) ?为什么我要结婚？ " j* [6 v& |/ E; _2 Q! G5 LIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.* Z" W( Q i/ K* d( j" A! F
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。% J7 w: y# k4 @- v
I think we need indeed remind us of why.1 l: `6 |/ g% [: u1 S
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 \: \: G' T& k% g5 Q0 W8 |
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. ) B W8 T0 v& l) T7 i' C7 b否则很难完成我们所开始的。 7 t( w4 e) Z( oWe stop starting. We quit the club. 9 w$ }7 v! U1 R, ^我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。+ D5 C3 u- v" d
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.% y1 m! n0 e( p* k! m
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 1 v8 w P" j' E% ], R" L/ \There's nothing wrong with asking why.. S ?) \! ]4 Q8 X; Q3 N9 w! v
问为什么没什么问题。7 o7 N7 |- P% y! v* ~% @9 p
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.0 Y1 J5 F b6 p- z; H, G
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。5 y8 f7 ~' g3 \+ X# p" X3 }3 l, I
Talk about it. " ^- U1 J5 o& U4 K( i. J& P8 o f谈论下面的话题：% t4 q" k: W9 \, N# g6 H
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?5 h* ?" O& x( B, K; d
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？" R- |4 {4 D' ~4 |' v2 C0 E
Is it a kind of distant memory?- o4 K6 o7 t5 `% o0 X& e1 ]( Q
它是一种遥远的记忆？ / ?9 Z0 T3 N: c7 S2 O8 p/ ^ m) |Did you ever forget why you are doing something... . Y7 i3 ^, V! x* V/ K" L你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 3 B" ?* ^( B. W( N! g7 DHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ) w1 G5 D( ?% d2 F: ^$ ~5 Z8 Y9 R8 x你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 5 u6 r2 z3 c" C2 A# a) `Do you write memos? ' R% X3 ~/ j) M! X* g0 y你写备忘录吗？1 o; _! p8 T2 Y. J+ t ?7 W/ E4 f X
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ) {* Y: t7 {# s( t% R/ m& s, k你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？1 T% S# B& q) H
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? , N$ V, W n( f! Q. n% S8 }还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ( v$ T( L/ \' _$ U' v7 u& qWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? - h8 { k( m2 Z5 u+ y" l你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？