标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something . Y7 @5 K j o# y3 v$ U7 q3 _' N7 }$ h1 Y
记住我们为什么做某事* m- n& o+ h* Z0 ]) a c- ?) e
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.& c/ k1 d3 O9 k0 D% y5 `
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。2 P( j# v3 }! I
Have you ever done that?3 s' Z/ z, m' O' L
你曾有过这种经历吗？7 O; O+ |/ {+ I! T2 R0 Z
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.8 U- o! K; i) O6 q5 J% Q. W
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。. q# k) r+ C& h* d
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.5 c* y4 R' n; o7 ^ a, T
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。# z D/ F7 J: |; s. K
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. * {- b; O0 v$ Y' W" g然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。5 ^+ y" h9 q5 i# P+ s( F* j
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 0 F$ x3 l1 d; o" E1 k5 H哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 4 ^6 v/ O0 @# |That's a memory problem. 2 S) a. \1 M1 ]5 a* @4 d# ~. Q' T这是一个记忆问题。 * O+ ?2 t( ?- oI guess that counts too. ) g7 O- _9 g. ^/ J1 }) Y+ ]- k我想那很重要。3 v. P3 W4 i5 l3 P0 m7 t8 o* [
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? % y$ `$ v- m, F* @9 C但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？& I; |5 ^) P/ _1 u3 U
At one point, there was a reason we do something. " X% F, X+ @, ]- l在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 0 p' l# h; P! V9 E1 `For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.* A* ?% P1 c4 Z. {
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。3 L9 C9 f' Y. e4 l; X& m
It's always could to ask ourselves why. + N$ t$ ~. |" ~) T总是可以问问自己为什么。 * E* c& y' U) M$ t' p LWhy did I start to learn a language?* h# q; y9 a6 n1 B- X4 D
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 0 G5 u- j0 ~+ z5 wWhy did I join this club? t5 z% Z: @" H9 |: {5 ?" ?为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ + _8 S m6 f/ B6 p Y# X1 e( EWhy my friend was this person?8 g" A* P5 U4 d) n! h
为什么我的朋友是这个人？1 A/ I' A4 C; r/ _
Why did I get married? % d5 X9 z& |! V3 a2 H3 w0 h9 b为什么我要结婚？ . p2 F6 T% m# U) W& eIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 2 c; Y" s6 ^3 G2 C9 `如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。- o; {$ W6 }% M" s$ _/ [6 v
I think we need indeed remind us of why.7 K. K2 f. j( f) N' d
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。, ~( o! z, Z; \- p: A3 h2 S
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. : n( P0 p+ v" c% d {/ J否则很难完成我们所开始的。 + |( e6 M4 b# h3 b+ y2 U$ ]We stop starting. We quit the club.- A, Y/ ?3 t7 \! T
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 6 `* c( V5 |/ b& t) AWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.! @9 Q9 M: G+ k9 U5 o
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。7 {8 U7 ^1 ?4 y" X* d$ H
There's nothing wrong with asking why.. N# J/ j, \: d$ |
问为什么没什么问题。$ d X+ n! s" p4 Q' i
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ) ?' n8 `2 Z" Y" c事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 / q9 s" \: O# m9 r1 `Talk about it.4 l" {7 ]$ C& f
谈论下面的话题：) D9 I! r$ q, v0 G: Z: s
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?' V9 s+ P" t7 b9 z9 p- `$ u, e
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？2 J! `& u) x% p5 }, q, a
Is it a kind of distant memory?7 n$ b R, f2 E& o
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 8 r [+ r& _* R1 A% D* r' U" xDid you ever forget why you are doing something... ! z K, j3 |+ N2 D4 t. b+ T) s你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……8 t3 g9 j7 k/ N; j7 A) A
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?9 i, `0 z7 K: F2 q6 g' R. O
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ , d# w$ D* d- n$ t7 M2 k# k1 ^Do you write memos?& |; x5 H. ]% D" @8 K! {+ X
你写备忘录吗？ 9 U: ?# f! q2 T- V0 O- Y% mDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?1 V9 H0 e+ k# m5 p
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？+ v' \; F) X5 b5 e; H4 x8 q& B: J
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ; `* B; T {* O* o5 k0 Q还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ + o, j0 H# k1 f i: e( }What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?! w6 m# L8 G& N4 r+ f0 x: n
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？