标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something% @% U8 T6 |6 ]0 e( v9 X
7 @! c0 O, ^: N6 H) A' |, @记住我们为什么做某事 ~$ e" x5 J; |6 w
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.4 z2 A$ G8 X A
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 % @7 S/ C |3 ZHave you ever done that? 5 u) V( H E( n8 ~你曾有过这种经历吗？: [: x5 g2 s: t2 H" t" }
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ( U8 l- n" d2 ~" h& w我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。' v, ~# W8 Y. N. X, V# N" O: ]
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. " e8 l# @$ D) X我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 2 ]3 I3 L b$ \4 I; M& \# DAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 9 v0 Y N& Y& S- x# _然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 4 R. O: U2 R, A* PWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. , [" J; ]# O8 C- _" Q3 G" w V哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 & a; z% X( G" l/ `( ^$ QThat's a memory problem. $ q2 T: _/ u; u1 B5 d+ Y, W) Q7 r# o这是一个记忆问题。5 D$ C* r* d- R' h
I guess that counts too. * [1 r/ s0 s: j6 e: u我想那很重要。 3 e' o6 e# H, a5 T; BBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?! H+ q/ v3 n& r% f. G) f
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ . Q6 [' S0 [1 V3 n; \At one point, there was a reason we do something. ) H# f/ D3 c, m* `4 r- C' H$ y在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。4 s+ J+ g- E) `+ `. ~0 x/ l
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. + N8 {( J ^# P& B3 _ z/ ?对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 - x' X" `8 n' R! A$ S* OIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 0 |4 S3 J }$ ?1 K' ~1 D* E5 l总是可以问问自己为什么。# h" {# ^1 ~5 {' T- A: U
Why did I start to learn a language? . T F+ ~5 L7 Y0 I5 n为什么我开始学习一种语言？4 y8 ]0 s5 U* n( u, U6 T$ ?
Why did I join this club?" h; x' r& u0 G2 g# G. R u
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ . [; [) d; g2 i" x+ @, HWhy my friend was this person?: G: x" o3 b+ e+ l
为什么我的朋友是这个人？3 G% v/ L* U+ ?) j) d
Why did I get married? 7 ~0 D, _$ e( X) {4 i2 d+ p: n( j为什么我要结婚？ 8 c7 L, K& v. C: T3 tIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. ' }% a% w+ r2 x7 h- Y* I" x6 {如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。; F2 E$ ^' r7 z# k, e8 X8 Z
I think we need indeed remind us of why. ' g4 @' l! ~% X7 R9 P我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 " r4 m, {1 A$ X4 W4 W3 VOr else it's tough to finish what we started. @: u3 a4 r3 A2 E否则很难完成我们所开始的。/ D; B* k9 f3 W/ O
We stop starting. We quit the club.3 s7 y p ^, V6 V* F. K
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 _+ s# v; w4 u6 {We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. & d! m# I. i. w$ Y# `% j# v我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。& f+ a6 P! b1 U) z$ b* h
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ( F! \5 c1 ?7 n8 @5 \* n i7 k问为什么没什么问题。 2 D- l- O* d6 P+ k+ o# M* t5 ]0 |; pIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. + Y# V* U: m2 I( P4 ?6 L/ q9 Y事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 2 p3 I/ v8 D* l' @2 K0 ATalk about it. 2 c; b5 T* @" W谈论下面的话题： |4 o0 z0 P) |9 h
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 0 Q: e9 f m0 l- }你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 3 Q) I8 x* l, h F* Y n% i5 \' `Is it a kind of distant memory?$ E; J: K. i( M! s0 c* X" M
它是一种遥远的记忆？, j$ X( A3 [9 c) f/ G' x5 V; G
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... # [/ P O8 s! Y0 q ^& j) i你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……8 w3 l1 L& X$ Y6 y+ P$ ~) S
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?6 J& `2 N7 }7 Y# v* M! X- V3 J. Z" m
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ - V5 A- v- A1 u" NDo you write memos? & ]8 G2 v& h n! v* a. M5 @9 h你写备忘录吗？+ v y" B2 O7 _, s
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? + m! \% o2 |3 [0 @+ c) X# ~1 h) d你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ & F3 p: n8 X$ A0 C* R l( gWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?+ T5 k! L, ], }! L, N- i
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？1 m2 Z0 Z& H3 C! X6 ^7 U+ q
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ; X5 T+ w! j$ `0 ^% x+ k你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？