标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something& c2 L# Q4 F. S- s8 C+ [4 \
2 ^9 R: z; u3 h6 s0 c& U4 F记住我们为什么做某事 5 D5 d, k+ b) n$ D0 {Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing., T6 K7 y8 y8 P( ^* ~# ]& R
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ' B8 C% E' | n- MHave you ever done that? 5 T4 S3 n$ f, a1 `3 e你曾有过这种经历吗？ 5 C, X1 { z1 t0 ^% jI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.3 X+ g* J( y7 p) |. }& i% N
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 % y& _" C9 I8 b; [I have called someone because I want to tell them something.+ A8 f+ m3 R- I7 e: A; D4 g
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。! \& O1 Y- V8 `) X
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.+ h9 z/ @$ t& K0 L" {% u9 g) K3 Y
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。8 _, ]$ j; C' O; p0 h
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ) V) g3 d6 k- o: U6 H9 Y哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 $ B7 J$ E6 Y; B4 S8 s, Q3 rThat's a memory problem. 3 S6 L- i2 I/ {$ }这是一个记忆问题。 % u0 x; q" h% mI guess that counts too. ; z# a+ W+ g4 ^ t; w我想那很重要。 ) w1 ]3 X5 Q/ v! N3 N% g- R; v( dBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?+ M- n P' a- V% e4 h
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ m9 F7 u$ L$ { E9 HAt one point, there was a reason we do something.$ |% k I: o# b0 k: h. P
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ( @6 e+ {. c- e2 BFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ) T) }( T4 o0 t9 h6 v- m对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 6 r( O9 l* R& `0 Z- u% kIt's always could to ask ourselves why. & {7 A, n. {! P0 `总是可以问问自己为什么。 1 f- ?; T) T! G- m( w! lWhy did I start to learn a language? + C& k4 [: r y# o为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ' z8 e8 ~6 k {+ u: M: G; @Why did I join this club?6 r2 T& B0 I! O0 G
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ : J0 H# a& S; T$ | m& EWhy my friend was this person?7 T9 P" j3 C# y) t% c1 Y( ?3 j. i
为什么我的朋友是这个人？# g" K3 j; F/ i5 Q
Why did I get married?2 L% t/ d% M6 v! \: a$ d7 D
为什么我要结婚？3 t! _8 j% D; e; l
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.) W( s u; J( o1 N+ _4 U! R
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。0 W3 t% j1 `% H& Y3 n
I think we need indeed remind us of why./ b, }( {( v6 ]8 d% @- u
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ( W. n" B0 m0 ?3 A& ~$ f! [Or else it's tough to finish what we started. l! [( ?- p" W' c& W) L u7 F
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 " f1 _) O2 g& p0 z$ @We stop starting. We quit the club. * W- G4 z3 M9 r* v3 u8 Z我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 4 W$ r7 L5 M3 ^* {; qWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 9 D E' v% o j* m w% ~: G3 _- M我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。, Z7 v+ O. \+ W3 L$ o1 y/ S# j
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 4 G5 g/ c! U" r- Y" g+ X4 n0 C9 M问为什么没什么问题。. w- }, [8 z9 W! Q% Z
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. T `. d; @2 J+ ?+ m/ w事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。) M+ {% n2 ^) z' k
Talk about it. 2 [( ~7 m' b8 W7 G, k谈论下面的话题： 1 ?* M$ Y- o1 g0 A0 k' l2 [( CIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?8 _4 v- ]( G& r% g
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ! |6 x+ i u+ G8 [2 {Is it a kind of distant memory?. T# q! O; y' b! v& g H. H
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 8 I1 Q. X: M( K; e( z$ ]$ M* cDid you ever forget why you are doing something... $ V9 l* m, @9 y7 x3 _1 T你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……& b1 M7 H/ T9 Z% {/ n+ L
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?7 c% n1 S3 ` H% s, [) U7 i/ ?
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ $ i2 m5 O& o& v! P8 P& ^5 oDo you write memos? ( B- k- p& u& w5 V你写备忘录吗？2 |8 m$ A" A7 c6 g1 J; V
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? . r8 `3 l: q" d你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？0 V7 ]& B. N! f- {6 o* c% P5 Q
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?/ J. y( _9 B+ @4 }1 G. M
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ + \+ n# M' S$ ~% }What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?8 h7 r" Z. i; e0 Y
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？