标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something# ^3 ]4 F7 F/ U2 O$ q, C" |
l }( g/ y2 M% V9 S0 M记住我们为什么做某事 % Y6 I L+ {7 F/ a+ YSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.8 y6 I& A+ ]8 n0 g* }" \* D& d8 V
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。' [5 J4 Z' o. n, [! u) ]; ~
Have you ever done that?* k# G; p7 n- H$ f2 Z. D
你曾有过这种经历吗？- P8 U; n2 n- e
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.7 s: ^0 ?6 k- e
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。& ^0 B. U2 t- j2 u0 n: X1 H4 T
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 1 y. k, O. d. k/ N; {" N1 R4 g; ]我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 4 E7 Q' {) p$ \2 U3 BAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.6 O( i6 d7 o! ]0 ^& {
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。4 v( g# q% U2 O7 Z+ c1 o$ U
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 1 d+ X$ `; A: R( n哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 # V1 H' Q' a; u# lThat's a memory problem. 0 F. `& J1 O0 k" @% H这是一个记忆问题。# v5 `# v5 V5 o2 S
I guess that counts too. ! s8 N I. P" U* F# I$ M1 D我想那很重要。 9 l( R# G0 e6 E6 {6 e. k3 rBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? , E5 e) ]8 E# ^) @: a' d但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ; [0 D, p5 U! ^5 B7 HAt one point, there was a reason we do something. - i0 T1 l8 s! w在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。% q0 v8 k( b. H( u3 t( ?
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.3 i( D* w. B+ A) d N8 { ^& z; t
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。! Y# h6 D3 o, I! l
It's always could to ask ourselves why. & p+ h, n' }0 b总是可以问问自己为什么。 & ]' r6 O2 F( L3 cWhy did I start to learn a language? 2 i+ j) D& [ i) R6 B; P为什么我开始学习一种语言？6 @7 l( k' _4 @( c a
Why did I join this club?) R1 D1 o6 Z5 t
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？4 _# O$ H. [+ ~; P1 y
Why my friend was this person? % Y, S4 x7 V, n% h7 t' X为什么我的朋友是这个人？# ` E% O7 W" h8 `( v+ N' ]
Why did I get married?5 ]/ f! x* i2 y5 t4 k5 a$ [! y
为什么我要结婚？ : d1 z# g6 l1 @& ]! Z+ k5 XIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.: j7 Z) b3 N, ?2 b: i
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 2 j5 W% M+ d; |I think we need indeed remind us of why. 9 j0 W3 E+ z1 L4 `" i+ @& K我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 j9 U: z [6 x9 K" F) @Or else it's tough to finish what we started.2 W9 S; k) ?; I
否则很难完成我们所开始的。1 o$ l7 h/ L/ I& Y8 J3 e( r8 R
We stop starting. We quit the club. & _& C! E) U; Z1 E我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 1 z7 G% i9 J0 M7 p9 Z9 E: u3 A2 W2 SWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. : M' q4 ~% Y, n5 ?' M我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 d* T7 s2 M6 [& U
There's nothing wrong with asking why.9 H. }1 V; L/ W3 w. [: i' R: j8 ]
问为什么没什么问题。 " G! Z* Y" S6 g6 K3 p1 qIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.7 W; Z7 n: _. G
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 " \% ?/ k7 z8 w2 W. @& tTalk about it. 1 s# j. I: Q ?% E; S4 s0 F谈论下面的话题：: S7 p4 _3 p6 p' r+ `' V1 a
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?) L3 f8 b+ Z4 M0 r, m/ `5 c: e0 X
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？. F Z; p& b9 |! C7 V
Is it a kind of distant memory? 7 {2 b6 i u$ ?$ t3 @2 z% G6 V它是一种遥远的记忆？0 U9 L$ X* K- A- f$ D
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...$ G# B0 B& x5 |1 u$ P" N8 L
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……# A6 S3 T" W( W8 w1 X8 }' b
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?6 ~! S- E% j n5 a3 n+ q% o/ l
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？. k' e9 v/ K8 B& e
Do you write memos?: W& b' j& T k6 F! ?
你写备忘录吗？7 T) H8 N: V. Z' c
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?7 n9 ^3 J( P. D5 T6 }
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ; C1 u/ K4 N9 U$ B5 UWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? $ f2 m! _; P0 Y8 X3 |还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？1 s+ H- b2 a6 }: ^( ~6 z, ]6 x7 ?& ]4 ^
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? & }) {4 l- ?+ f; r* L3 c/ k; S7 ?你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？