标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something' A/ V9 g# D) E( w/ G' n
/ C3 l/ n/ d- N& Y' F5 [记住我们为什么做某事 9 G2 P! P d, Y5 xSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.7 i! |/ q# V3 F( e# W3 r. k7 j
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 6 B3 i# q- {, x+ A" W- }5 n/ pHave you ever done that? + e, r; e8 X* N( ~; R) f/ Z你曾有过这种经历吗？! F# O4 _1 c: p2 S% m
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.$ @. {5 s1 U7 E) M% b
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。: O8 D& a) `- e/ [- D y) F8 c
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. $ h. ?. v T- N- f% w8 t0 ~我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。8 w* R" h. K* N4 l5 ~8 v
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.; F* x+ A9 ^' P) X
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。0 \. e9 s: a+ U, F8 Z) n/ q
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.( p5 [( R$ x8 w/ a) m
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 : ~' q$ O' \* dThat's a memory problem.8 `2 A4 P" p+ v9 |0 d
这是一个记忆问题。8 c0 V) N1 K( ^! D3 G3 E" Z* S; U/ [9 ~1 X
I guess that counts too." S. t; J& f4 i/ } s5 L9 p
我想那很重要。+ Y2 ^" @5 d1 h0 K u% W
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 9 P7 s3 {# V5 M* g9 r- @但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 6 W0 j# W9 L0 I, l2 TAt one point, there was a reason we do something. ; i4 u, G2 R& ?4 Z. {在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 . ^# D: h G7 z$ m0 R* jFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 7 W7 Z- |8 z3 k0 Z" U5 o对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。, a8 C3 r6 X$ ^ m( v6 Z# m
It's always could to ask ourselves why.7 x/ x' u# Z% x2 M! k% D, P
总是可以问问自己为什么。$ W' C& L" M: |) b# |, e
Why did I start to learn a language?* S4 L( }5 X+ A9 l( H
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ! c1 j1 `: j3 O i; ^/ IWhy did I join this club?: A; f4 J' ^# N; K" G/ O4 x
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ _8 }. N# ?* X' Z+ L5 Z
Why my friend was this person? * U$ U+ a) c3 v* V/ k# c为什么我的朋友是这个人？3 X. d; r4 }$ }( P7 ]
Why did I get married? 8 d' n) T' z# n5 v$ g) F1 z为什么我要结婚？* s4 o9 G$ t9 J+ G# h
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why., ~# i5 s/ y- ^2 N+ |
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。6 J h4 u5 Z9 _' A1 ^" s* ^$ p
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 6 L9 F* b$ w% }9 O" k1 C我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。2 @* |- i7 p) e& r2 g! N; S9 C
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. C3 E1 H- j3 p ?! m6 k否则很难完成我们所开始的。. |% t: I# ^' K' u/ t: J
We stop starting. We quit the club., E) ?( o- j- O/ V
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ! D3 o) c$ ~& lWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ! m0 v( t- }. T我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 d2 @& _! Z! X( V
There's nothing wrong with asking why. + w3 b& ~, ^7 M, q问为什么没什么问题。 + E! v8 I4 u2 PIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ! N" i; O5 B: Z6 ]5 k: d- q% A, _# o事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 / T1 G' w5 N. ZTalk about it. % P' V7 w: B* L( E5 X谈论下面的话题： 5 a- Q# }* I% z& F J% } gIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?& N* k/ [% q) l9 P2 N) O; J) s
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？1 J+ M6 z) P! U, u
Is it a kind of distant memory? $ {% c0 z \) l3 r3 U: J$ X它是一种遥远的记忆？ ) H. ]% x3 }' Y* @, H4 U4 zDid you ever forget why you are doing something... 2 V# I/ p6 ^ i. \* s" X4 r! L你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……$ q* H% l0 ?: K }& }$ h# O
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? & }$ ~. L' }5 O4 [你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？& t; V: K' a) Q3 U- `
Do you write memos?8 s3 p# I# M, _
你写备忘录吗？ . J/ c, Y! M; x, h. ~! B; t0 nDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?& T7 H: {: S, q+ T' B' H, d( u3 V
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ + n: s# n3 y4 ~" x5 ]! z3 Z* lWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?% n @! V! Z* s1 [) e& L2 U
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？4 u$ d; v5 M* C2 s
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?$ O+ }$ X; R5 Z
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？