标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something3 s' _! `- X' ^
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记住我们为什么做某事 G$ b# ]& Y* n3 j; X% A' bSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.3 c' o9 v0 S' e& T+ b9 _
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ( m% @( T, S4 `7 A, ]; xHave you ever done that?: V: Y6 R n! z- N+ `
你曾有过这种经历吗？) h3 _0 v* ~5 {$ q
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 5 U1 E+ L$ G/ h$ x7 [我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。; o4 P$ W1 }; u$ }0 H& e7 W9 N
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. ' p5 c4 ~, f" C; j" D$ x* u我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 3 q% e* @8 o) Z2 t# ?And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 8 m( D0 g- x/ l! O# A5 ^然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。+ V. x1 m; E4 h- y' D0 D
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.: O0 u" |- _9 }, ^9 _* U% H7 n+ E
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。+ l. r3 N" f( |; t) a T* } l
That's a memory problem.! X* z, X$ Z" t9 A$ g2 D
这是一个记忆问题。5 | g; T# [! C9 M" i
I guess that counts too. $ j4 S4 E5 v; I+ ~ Z2 {我想那很重要。: j8 F( O' ~9 t7 P2 ]/ L5 [
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?) M f7 x0 R* B" A6 X4 c
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？. Q( Z- p7 A" ~: I: N; H. r
At one point, there was a reason we do something. ) C; B7 ?* v# j. b1 X- `在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 E5 ]2 y F4 X: C7 I% x
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 1 b2 H8 T6 i7 e( V0 d9 H; D( J对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 - G, ^# h% l% v2 S; f, }It's always could to ask ourselves why. % T/ u* i1 i- |! L+ O. Z S E总是可以问问自己为什么。 8 Q2 v' n3 `1 e& V. kWhy did I start to learn a language?' D* c% p6 x4 \ T# e5 T3 R. N- q
为什么我开始学习一种语言？/ [* X. ~" w: U2 B7 a/ r: k
Why did I join this club? / @- c8 e5 q7 U5 d/ l2 \4 L为什么我加入这个俱乐部？! o8 b6 O; ]/ C
Why my friend was this person?( a3 A) b/ \4 X" |( K7 H$ F
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ) T0 X! r. {, v/ x) ~Why did I get married?/ [9 F$ W2 a( M n( }
为什么我要结婚？3 J1 C( X: }5 u$ }
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why./ I6 ^/ }( z! h2 R5 Z) A. |
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ) O+ l6 b/ b9 h1 E/ ?I think we need indeed remind us of why.# w/ O6 O5 C9 ^" ~, m
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ! s; V& T8 E1 @, j$ J7 bOr else it's tough to finish what we started. t- Y7 b6 z# f/ F: S) h否则很难完成我们所开始的。* f: ^' x9 ~0 a# `
We stop starting. We quit the club. 8 f5 b7 t4 T, \! {3 H* e我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。( K/ }1 b6 Q% Q% |) |: G- [
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.0 t+ G/ U/ ^3 Z7 J* P; x
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。# R# J+ n0 j# u6 [6 X
There's nothing wrong with asking why." ?2 Z5 R: }/ A8 D
问为什么没什么问题。 ; Q6 p, N' M) _- H4 \In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.) W4 i) m( R0 G" K
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 6 l L& Y, p0 W. @7 oTalk about it. 4 |$ d i% [0 B# p7 l谈论下面的话题：- i+ Z6 R8 I# O+ Z# [9 Y! S
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? + W5 ]* ~+ A+ z你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？1 j. H- H0 S. X3 T8 Z o$ ]
Is it a kind of distant memory?& [4 N$ U+ {. ?) y9 Z4 Z- g
它是一种遥远的记忆？, J5 S( U0 _5 |0 G J+ Y
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... ; l5 m& N% Z0 q% @" R0 H0 z8 Q你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ' Y9 E" N' j8 M8 v7 iHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?( W. A, _ B" f* h+ Z2 j, G7 C& H2 Y
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？+ {4 Q. U; B: B4 l1 h' D" T
Do you write memos?4 W7 u2 }7 X q M2 x
你写备忘录吗？8 u9 \3 r9 k: }
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?5 |# v! N. o W: H2 F- ^; Z' r1 l
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？1 f3 H1 z6 o; D& D
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?+ s; n1 x$ c( S- p
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 8 \( d% ]! D8 `' L7 t: hWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?. B Q8 f6 G6 x# p% T3 ]
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？