标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something. W9 Z; u& a' [' _1 e5 k- u
# Z; x1 b' P, {8 j记住我们为什么做某事 4 m9 c7 q: s$ ?7 C7 ESometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing./ @% M& k$ ]' ?
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。9 X4 m7 G% [6 ]# T! g3 E' O4 {/ F
Have you ever done that? 8 E) e& c! A, Q) H6 T: o; {你曾有过这种经历吗？ / ^; g- D) Z3 ^3 SI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. # B3 {* Z6 |; W7 ^我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 1 R4 k. Q, D' M6 P) _I have called someone because I want to tell them something.$ g) G1 K7 W6 K2 f$ H
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。6 F" a, G# `. ?. V8 {7 e
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.3 M* @: ^4 d6 U. y
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。. P6 _+ c) O1 g5 v$ c. h
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 9 Z" w" a4 W6 g& d哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 / Z* V( ^$ U/ ?That's a memory problem.2 ~3 Y& k8 B c* h8 O0 P+ ?% x
这是一个记忆问题。 " @8 h; Y/ O3 M: z& JI guess that counts too.0 Y2 K* q# m: u* V
我想那很重要。 ( M/ x- w+ ?8 w) g. ]6 eBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?3 x \1 Q2 E. M: I7 f* o( I
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？. S6 ]0 }$ ?6 u' _/ i/ e
At one point, there was a reason we do something.& w0 n9 m8 R3 r: \ K; T
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。, ^5 ^; E, Q$ V& z+ Q: F
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. % N# c& t' Z- Z' K$ q8 u, a对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。) V( `) A% c* }7 l! |5 \
It's always could to ask ourselves why.2 p6 T: m# h1 \) \6 T
总是可以问问自己为什么。& i! ]- y5 s8 S6 G2 N4 h
Why did I start to learn a language?, m! g$ ?8 [, N/ n' o, t6 `
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 6 \4 P4 `0 W7 f: C& t8 N- [Why did I join this club? [* H% D; w3 l+ b0 X
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 5 {' [5 J! V+ \4 ]8 O5 @Why my friend was this person?% Q5 o4 e1 P% x- m: p; t
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 9 s* A- k( D J1 cWhy did I get married? + t- }4 ?% B( X V为什么我要结婚？ # \5 D. D* U2 W( HIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.7 Z6 e& M U" A* v1 J
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。6 s+ C) d" x O" Q
I think we need indeed remind us of why.9 ^& n! I/ o& y( J; Q
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ( R% A) X6 K# X( I4 E! y* Y3 T3 hOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 9 x; O: L! S- o. K: T否则很难完成我们所开始的。5 x# s5 `0 R1 Q# H: M
We stop starting. We quit the club. 7 y5 z4 V8 W' `# [" F7 e ^我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ) D" @% k+ y+ { {5 E; P0 |% jWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.% Q. i' w1 t/ B7 a7 h+ H+ u9 p' A
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 * r f" j, i: l. ?3 EThere's nothing wrong with asking why.! Y, M/ J% r( z! w* ~
问为什么没什么问题。7 a$ m. m5 r/ {- y; r# l* K. w6 m! I
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.) ], I; E2 ?4 k" G+ C
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。# f7 t+ v- z; s: {9 `3 i& |
Talk about it. ; j, X& A7 |6 ?# U6 _谈论下面的话题： / C2 w$ o" P0 S% c3 q9 ~, |Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?0 \) f5 Q- V: w
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？6 t$ n& l* Z# E8 p
Is it a kind of distant memory?2 @" u/ q* z9 g) s- Y9 P
它是一种遥远的记忆？ % `* ~& _& U8 E iDid you ever forget why you are doing something... 8 _0 l( G) @1 M: c你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……# M$ y. a: \9 ?1 }" t! j
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 2 V* D9 n. Q* `% G你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？+ \! a& a- l2 M+ m: m. p0 Q$ G
Do you write memos?2 w0 u- H, {2 f; h* K5 F3 ?+ q9 e
你写备忘录吗？2 t* s6 L, w3 U# }$ e% O' [2 c/ _: p. w
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?- a% g z6 n6 u) E/ Y* B8 m; Q( b
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？' x# F& S7 M& v4 r
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 3 [( f( f' E. n还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？, q5 @2 _' i7 S( F8 S* y5 M
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 0 l% D) t f+ d$ @3 s你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？