标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something F9 t. M" W! }# T7 j) ?8 k9 |- E: m0 n! D& Z& u
记住我们为什么做某事 % i: r: E, i, }% s# ^* GSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. : a- E, F! |: ^, i" t# r有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 4 S) o1 D3 n0 ?2 cHave you ever done that? 6 ?% e* n$ S# d/ z你曾有过这种经历吗？% ?. i( t! i5 w6 b
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. , j9 \9 m/ O# o( e9 z: P我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ' ^, h% a& B+ [* S( c+ EI have called someone because I want to tell them something.' {* s( q0 F9 A }
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。! z2 i$ J) k& I% y/ {) Q
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. g& t: K) i7 D1 }" L& L然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。6 f$ u: I9 N5 ?2 r& z, L2 W5 m
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.7 m: T' ~' G- K5 \8 P; V& }
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。# H3 J! W; r' r1 l
That's a memory problem. 1 Z# F& O' @( y4 A) B; z0 @这是一个记忆问题。 " Z- k! z* y) x* pI guess that counts too. 8 v: u3 Z+ _/ U; G我想那很重要。5 u) y6 D" @; T" L# m2 y7 r, J6 c
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 6 ^& G: C! I* C' m( ^) O) r5 y# X W但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ) O9 W# G5 q2 [4 u v& x3 zAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 3 s, N, j9 x) r6 S' l在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ; i' t- D) S$ }& ?: yFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. , ^( u3 F; b. p5 l/ O. f% t7 k对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。8 |' M+ l$ x' Q# s' S, G
It's always could to ask ourselves why.: M7 F3 X( G: u9 ~5 d G1 h! u G# U
总是可以问问自己为什么。( ?3 \8 @7 {) Z4 g `! G& w. v
Why did I start to learn a language? 8 D* f: e1 M% q+ |6 }/ D5 y为什么我开始学习一种语言？. P; |( A( G+ l
Why did I join this club? 8 S& e2 R9 B6 e8 e为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 9 g9 v5 d! ^1 e% @, n9 ~0 bWhy my friend was this person?* v& }* A7 E1 m% q* T% }; H# u+ F
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ # C+ L( q, Q7 y8 C4 S, T( r6 tWhy did I get married?9 F; O7 u% N6 ]& C& h' H
为什么我要结婚？ " i* }0 s" P: F. k# s( Z5 TIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.7 b, `4 ^/ m- Y( |( \8 w
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。, X2 [; O0 L8 u4 i3 d% L8 K
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 7 Y7 o* W) w% Y/ s6 ]我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 / v$ }' [- q* o& U- D$ O7 QOr else it's tough to finish what we started. + q% E Y2 P2 a$ W0 }否则很难完成我们所开始的。 6 ?" U! z3 l2 A$ EWe stop starting. We quit the club.8 p8 M4 y' S9 z+ Q
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ' Z" c) d0 t$ I# l/ |# r: JWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ' {- D& P0 r' G我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 & f8 d. f9 _! H2 ?- |4 s- b( FThere's nothing wrong with asking why.0 t/ P7 m4 q1 F
问为什么没什么问题。 7 [# i5 l2 K' j9 VIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.' Z( ]( L" w$ j% E. Y i2 C
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 , s, c8 ~) ]3 q+ F& JTalk about it.5 s* X2 Z; `/ |* o/ a ^0 o( y
谈论下面的话题：* V3 a# y' {; p' c9 v! `) _' j6 y
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?1 H5 Z+ h" G! D& g
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ( ^5 F, l- e0 \, _; W; E$ Y6 o; VIs it a kind of distant memory? - E6 ]7 w. e) o J- |8 n它是一种遥远的记忆？ % h2 h: A! C: g7 }' I3 @5 pDid you ever forget why you are doing something...: ~8 c. [! Z* h. p, i
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……1 g2 a1 Z. Z9 r- P x
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?2 t/ \6 W/ ~5 u: u" W6 h/ u; V
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ % J9 Y' ]& O7 W6 s3 X- YDo you write memos?/ @+ m5 G% Q1 A8 t7 b5 ]
你写备忘录吗？/ t- [# u: v& p( U( z( D* K% P2 J
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? + T* k: g# C- |你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 0 u8 x: T" l' C+ s1 X0 {What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? - K5 n( o4 B7 ~. y: G还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ H5 U! G8 h6 Y3 U
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?- p/ `7 ^% u/ p. O
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？