标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something' b- j$ M) j8 e, ]
/ _5 U9 e9 ~/ s3 U! |8 B7 S$ G记住我们为什么做某事 4 k2 ?: N) }4 i: HSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. M2 v7 H' T: ]3 U0 ?) L
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 / d* r) M7 s) P l/ k: RHave you ever done that?% |% h. U4 K$ z0 ^" @, x
你曾有过这种经历吗？ ( `& m | F% j6 RI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.. Y0 x+ k; j* _( C. ?
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 $ z* g# P6 A& w$ O2 ~I have called someone because I want to tell them something.& e: m: z: h# t: D& ]
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 / R3 N/ V2 v+ [+ v0 o5 V }: ]6 rAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.5 T! |/ l* V, J
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。" d$ r* ?2 O5 ^6 w) a$ r; r8 c
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.0 }/ e5 C7 T1 }( b4 g: |) W$ R
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 & D4 U. Z+ y6 j' ^1 z! g6 G% G8 [That's a memory problem.2 J. u. { F2 s8 c
这是一个记忆问题。 2 r: T' @6 z$ m! hI guess that counts too. 5 x8 x4 c7 I) B6 [& F我想那很重要。/ b: Z4 Z7 q R& X y; P
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? # P A9 m) A* f% n3 Q但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？% C( n1 a& o9 U- T( l
At one point, there was a reason we do something.9 ^2 ]' K7 e4 a
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 W8 G, x6 w, E2 [" p7 y' I3 U5 |
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.! ]5 ~1 v; s% r1 U0 C" j$ d' l
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 k* U/ l' ]5 I* l; O" _8 X
It's always could to ask ourselves why.3 D' T: \# ^6 ]* u
总是可以问问自己为什么。 ' T6 b; e5 }6 [* q [# WWhy did I start to learn a language? [9 A- ^ u% y
为什么我开始学习一种语言？, s0 q7 Y. H" ^) F
Why did I join this club? ) m! b) A" E8 X, L为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 7 g& `# K+ k: k. _" V8 ]. lWhy my friend was this person? ) H5 G/ e4 d+ s为什么我的朋友是这个人？ : }' b! k: ]4 j+ I; ^7 u8 s+ wWhy did I get married?! q4 ?, P" j8 u
为什么我要结婚？+ J4 `& A' @( z; i
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.- f+ S3 [& d7 |# @2 V8 r* J5 h* J
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 / T+ r1 J3 e v* m) ?' o4 \# L4 SI think we need indeed remind us of why.+ } r7 P$ _% v+ Q' K
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。. p1 e+ I( u7 @$ C
Or else it's tough to finish what we started./ z3 c2 i5 K$ _ u! p8 U
否则很难完成我们所开始的。1 M: w H6 ]) L+ U
We stop starting. We quit the club. & o, T: k: g$ E9 f1 P我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。/ C$ ~ a2 z1 S. q; l- X
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 2 D/ T/ f9 Z6 E* t; Z我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。9 d, P P* ]( g" j+ r
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ) c1 F& R ]. R问为什么没什么问题。5 V1 j; P; S, L, D/ O
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.2 f& z) e1 s; d f
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。5 @% B& V7 C% S* n+ p1 X
Talk about it. / P( q' ?& [) \) l& h* F0 k谈论下面的话题：& S: Y2 v0 P" ^% D: w4 b
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ' u* s5 d3 D( P7 A9 w3 Y, F" }你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？% N( A, t8 C/ P# f# u- o/ }" J+ L
Is it a kind of distant memory? 2 i5 z) _' R# ~0 n/ h它是一种遥远的记忆？; ]" l* X7 O/ i
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 3 B- q5 h9 U$ ~) p% C/ y你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… " t3 o- G: ]7 c. {How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?- D# L9 d+ a' ]9 D8 I7 Y! i" X
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ H% O4 M& r- ]6 f1 G2 q
Do you write memos? * a" R, \: q: ^% X你写备忘录吗？ 7 Y6 i6 f( A, K; Z" q4 DDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?) q9 o% p) A/ V+ m- e% R6 V
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 3 b$ H, z- C- i [+ tWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?+ w; {+ p$ M. O$ X9 E4 P
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 1 @8 L0 n6 G$ ?# l" i9 H4 Y+ zWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? # M/ g% _+ ~$ R你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？