标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something n; h' P6 g9 g# O
9 f/ S d$ D$ Q% Q5 ~6 x记住我们为什么做某事 & `. l& v, w) tSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 6 F' W6 r( V) o9 o9 G有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。+ J* k, C# g5 O' {
Have you ever done that? - Z: W0 g! f+ V6 E) l( k9 t你曾有过这种经历吗？4 J* t" K# ~) D' y5 t
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.8 }+ Q5 p: W& j3 ^( s
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。4 m! i* F8 `! O2 B @/ ]0 o
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. / _ W, I; l& d5 {5 k" R我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。2 y) r& @! d' M0 J0 R. Q# W
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.# G5 C. D1 v7 _+ t: Q7 Q' R
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。) n: v. |: k# x4 | [( T0 O
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.0 E0 Z7 J7 C7 e2 s X$ Y
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 , Q' D: r4 \7 |! z! F" n& p( T* IThat's a memory problem.# N$ ~9 K, }' s7 ?3 X
这是一个记忆问题。 - F+ q# F4 w U& y' R- x7 SI guess that counts too. 9 [. f: W+ B! P8 u- U! }我想那很重要。8 x6 |+ o+ l, y
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?6 ^: j# C! U& E& S) M& b1 F
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？' _/ w9 z+ U1 i
At one point, there was a reason we do something.1 |8 [; p( a9 L
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 # J( H8 e5 E3 LFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.# U- h( J$ \# d, j
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。: V# ]. j$ T" m& Q r$ g
It's always could to ask ourselves why.& x. X! n; ]. O* l0 A1 c
总是可以问问自己为什么。3 Q3 g, C9 p4 J1 s
Why did I start to learn a language? 5 b0 h* x( u: @2 b为什么我开始学习一种语言？* j9 y0 ?' |' v7 i r/ E
Why did I join this club?- |+ |' D6 p& k5 G- q$ A6 C
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ Z: Y N0 w# r3 X* W5 k- ]# t
Why my friend was this person? ! D1 z6 I7 Z0 y. C为什么我的朋友是这个人？ D% k- H) p9 e' ]4 T9 A) aWhy did I get married? ) \* e3 S2 i+ J为什么我要结婚？ # f D5 m9 S* N7 ]7 c5 h ~- TIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 6 B7 Z3 e/ R, J( h* I如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ' g7 ]! {) Z- N2 iI think we need indeed remind us of why.3 k2 y5 x# `2 ]0 e; X5 G" D' k
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ( r; w9 Z5 Z/ ~: YOr else it's tough to finish what we started.% T/ W; b- n N9 `; \" [& P% R% o
否则很难完成我们所开始的。: J# m- L+ v ^
We stop starting. We quit the club. ! H2 @5 B j+ @我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。: C/ B, y& E' w; f
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. : D, @* R2 c/ l6 h我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 y- A6 L8 h" _5 o5 r. K
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ( x8 i2 z: x6 x3 f; C问为什么没什么问题。 ! t0 {' ^/ z+ g3 |, ^1 ?0 vIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.8 |5 l- r B; z5 s: L
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 9 }0 `- A$ c( ~3 J- |" D% W* nTalk about it. 9 m0 }3 U) x. g2 e3 |) r8 F9 d谈论下面的话题：$ T4 F( {7 F" k+ w; d* B8 Z
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?: O( b* u9 F# q, u, j
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？4 K5 f' H. ]0 ^. E; }
Is it a kind of distant memory?4 y H6 L4 |" }
它是一种遥远的记忆？ , K7 f! d- B: f3 s5 aDid you ever forget why you are doing something...- |; h& n9 V: Q5 D9 K$ q( V5 a
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… l9 h( x6 X0 T) Y/ q7 p6 D: GHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?- q9 g$ ]1 d1 [ [% F2 @, \- g9 N+ h
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ # D: Y, Z( C; T6 @9 P! {+ cDo you write memos? / ^: R; ~9 r, [) k你写备忘录吗？9 E- W: m4 V/ U! c' o
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 9 V# i* i3 x: s* B. [& ]5 X6 {你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ; x: o0 ~! h$ B8 iWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?" }% s9 a6 P. t' B+ c0 O
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？" _1 q1 ^! G) m2 p- b( }
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?8 v& J& G7 p$ y' a
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？