标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something . ~2 H4 u1 A ], X7 D# v1 \: k( u5 Z
记住我们为什么做某事 ! K7 F( F" U6 O% l) e4 I: _/ c' dSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. $ n6 E7 J2 O2 `2 M, t有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。( r( _! R( k1 G3 X6 g$ y
Have you ever done that?6 Q& `6 W, x. X2 j) p& D- ]
你曾有过这种经历吗？# V k9 a8 t \! s& _
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 4 ~" C6 U. U% F* f% O1 K我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。/ y+ X4 M o8 _9 l( \ k
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.9 y! m3 n$ L0 ], U
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。2 K/ d3 y f# E5 L6 T' V) Z' k$ y
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. : O, G# {2 A: b4 g$ `然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。" T G6 P0 H( |' W" y
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.3 m* o' o# z* x5 g5 I
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。8 M9 A- S6 u: `8 [
That's a memory problem.! F$ n- B+ ^2 S# u
这是一个记忆问题。2 | c+ P2 _3 F! Z, ]+ Q# T& C
I guess that counts too.8 h& I" f$ ?* R$ H$ | d
我想那很重要。 # u0 Q( K, |5 P$ gBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?0 S$ g$ z) m: t7 L, S6 u+ ]
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 7 h- } u8 U: v8 W9 AAt one point, there was a reason we do something.& t) d, k* F; o \% s7 w
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。7 D! D+ f5 k8 W/ v8 x9 U7 j2 C
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 7 |+ d! ~9 o1 n+ Y/ f# B/ i对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。( M9 N: T) |+ T! }5 D A
It's always could to ask ourselves why.- C" S$ d$ L! O' E$ A/ Y/ z, ?9 z: f
总是可以问问自己为什么。( _1 S# o$ _' d# M1 i( Q
Why did I start to learn a language?( a# `: {0 y) J) e7 h9 Z
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ , V; V* v0 R( IWhy did I join this club? 8 Q- d; y K8 r& h# ^为什么我加入这个俱乐部？6 y- }+ H2 y% Z# q0 U
Why my friend was this person?9 J3 m* H( C7 C! H" t
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ d2 R4 k7 P l' K$ \/ ~Why did I get married?' K6 Y3 g; O5 X% P" w5 {2 a/ K% J8 z
为什么我要结婚？% H5 D% x' t5 d
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.9 u- E* s- r$ @$ v0 |# p, C
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ' m8 ~0 s$ X OI think we need indeed remind us of why. : H1 @8 ]: k/ \: j我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 * X; v4 @- @- H6 I" SOr else it's tough to finish what we started.7 f1 W1 r# r" F8 E( W! X+ Y
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 4 e4 j1 \/ R' x9 x3 `We stop starting. We quit the club.5 f' ?7 T% v: w5 c+ J" }- a
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。1 M& I* Y3 u. ^( t# a* u: N! q
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. * K8 v; d2 ^# C( { E' t& y我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。* ?0 S) j2 R/ O$ t- [5 e
There's nothing wrong with asking why.3 \8 P; F5 P$ K3 C8 a/ _
问为什么没什么问题。 7 }3 ?+ d, A' W5 M0 D; Z4 s/ a. XIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. d5 R- R9 M6 L% k- C事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。! ?! M. ^4 b; ^+ t# t l
Talk about it.9 z4 l: K7 w8 m, x2 V6 r3 j
谈论下面的话题： / c/ X9 ]7 |" r! `4 f- q* ?4 nIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?. {5 v8 ~7 d$ h) Z
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ - S g; l! f0 z* y7 JIs it a kind of distant memory?$ s1 W' d2 F3 k4 `1 F2 P
它是一种遥远的记忆？ : s1 r7 M$ Y; b: fDid you ever forget why you are doing something... j; U3 s- Z% [9 p3 x& D
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 0 F: t! `- [- }7 C- kHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 3 _- Z$ Q/ G& D6 C7 Q你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ( H. u5 E7 R+ d7 L0 w1 k3 GDo you write memos? - z9 P+ g/ E8 T9 r& ]8 s你写备忘录吗？% s( `# { Z) H6 I' h
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?" C) F1 K7 S% x
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？0 I2 ~: \4 m- ]+ O1 b& M
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? * t# J, \$ }5 b7 `4 ?4 l8 r还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 3 m& p! Y k1 Z l$ u. I( v& Q. ]What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? . X% w7 K2 @, u5 r9 D你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？