标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something4 H0 R9 @1 Y& ]7 Y4 p# h5 b
$ i, h2 R1 X" k: c' X$ w记住我们为什么做某事 0 Y/ H% S- ~. j# u, J$ @# B4 BSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.1 T D& D0 A# X F- e" B3 z C3 q
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。& b- w& R9 S/ D4 v7 ?' l# s* G
Have you ever done that? n+ v5 z) j4 c& b/ Y c你曾有过这种经历吗？ , a4 D2 u; E# a V# M+ N3 dI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. , I2 ^6 W' [! e+ y- @( h我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。( [; l% q$ M k0 n
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.3 p% Q n( j) b
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 . V1 q$ C [: Y. k- u9 C6 UAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. . b2 ~& @5 s a* {然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 , ^$ x; I5 y+ L8 o' @! l6 o( c: RWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 1 p) C: \" l- _/ p. E) N3 ~哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。$ r) M4 g9 q! m1 e
That's a memory problem. 7 v1 a7 }$ H; N4 D! n这是一个记忆问题。4 |& p/ y' A _) f# Y) P
I guess that counts too.- S. t1 k: {- j, n: O
我想那很重要。 " Q& X# l- Z% P) UBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?5 ~* y, e; [ X3 l- _* h( S0 X
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？5 ?4 S7 ?" y6 l9 K! M* Q
At one point, there was a reason we do something. * j) p3 f8 s7 Z( `' A% W8 _& f% P5 I) O在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。' B: n* O# y' t$ j2 F1 N- V
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. % k! G$ s, H/ v5 A# I6 ?+ C* I! e4 b! O对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。3 Q* j; G! p$ h6 F
It's always could to ask ourselves why.8 [' M6 u0 o0 l* L* M4 O" O
总是可以问问自己为什么。# P' i- q3 q5 {6 o
Why did I start to learn a language? 6 `6 [+ y9 t, y1 r/ y( _' r5 v! p为什么我开始学习一种语言？+ s% h/ @+ D: y0 a' ]. f* ]8 E* A. E
Why did I join this club?3 M: ]/ Z- S: `5 N+ f, o& O
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 9 K9 e2 u1 K7 o6 C3 F- }Why my friend was this person? * `6 @' G0 h( ?* d5 T2 [0 h( J为什么我的朋友是这个人？2 [' R+ F) }0 W% u
Why did I get married?" r( `# e. [ p8 U9 ]( M7 w' L L5 b% N
为什么我要结婚？7 A! z* L1 O+ Q% ]+ W3 ?
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.* l6 w1 n. k2 U( v1 S# x3 Q
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 . ?6 t% v B' Q$ O" z7 D% NI think we need indeed remind us of why.1 |: M/ Y/ r" @: N( @* x8 y
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ( h- y0 a- {: n" f) DOr else it's tough to finish what we started. / q: A8 B: C0 K9 c/ o$ J6 k! B否则很难完成我们所开始的。 5 I3 ]# _, F! T3 xWe stop starting. We quit the club. + h* K: S* Z; L# }7 Q我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。: K3 k7 o% @2 p5 \% ^
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.$ \% ?; V0 P1 R1 H3 T
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 7 Z7 c% i" Z) K- | i+ WThere's nothing wrong with asking why.$ _: x& H5 x: G/ k
问为什么没什么问题。 - \0 k$ R \8 SIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 6 J7 ?4 a( b+ K" M# W事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 ( d2 J% h9 c4 E; n- M; @0 kTalk about it. ! b1 ]- z$ a% V谈论下面的话题： + g3 [3 q( T p( f/ k6 R: BIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 2 G, F/ z3 e7 j' G8 d9 [' E& d你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？1 T ?: ~ @1 y3 i: e1 b, k
Is it a kind of distant memory? + x2 K. W& ~* i7 p* q4 G8 s. n# C它是一种遥远的记忆？ $ D+ X$ D: X1 E7 `' uDid you ever forget why you are doing something...0 b ]' @7 |/ _2 A! r3 s6 ]
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……4 [) Z- a. S$ ^4 g; B1 {
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? . T* ^/ M( x; t. o$ G0 P你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？3 x; l, j- l8 k* N2 }
Do you write memos? ) [% ^8 H5 p$ O3 r* ^# e4 T' I你写备忘录吗？ + b6 L- V: c7 { s; [( Z, hDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?( x; R! M; S* k8 A
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？. Z- s: ~/ m" g5 |4 R
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ! \) W' `2 v' S) Y4 ^还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ! Y. t1 c3 ?9 Q# ^What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?0 W; |, e+ Q2 Z0 y! T0 o6 G, Q
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？