标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something : u, w- Z& _/ q, b: A7 X I& [$ D% L6 o% {+ {& k
记住我们为什么做某事. H% e# z5 _8 {6 s$ D1 t9 [( r, r( H
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.- P; ?: U+ f/ W: w" F6 g
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 # _5 S7 q' s7 ?8 dHave you ever done that?# @- s! e* O6 f) x g u
你曾有过这种经历吗？" |- X$ Z N! e$ d7 k
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.4 n. k. J& n( I/ c# C
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 g& B0 p0 `8 b" ]' x+ j) @
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 9 X2 a+ y8 s* ?; v& p- |我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 . {5 e+ m6 ]& z- \) Y: v2 `# a3 xAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ' K( @9 d9 e2 ]" o" i2 C/ v; R然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 / o) l( W X1 N2 d0 X' n* ^/ ?$ OWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. # u, v. l$ [7 l4 _5 T/ s. n哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 1 t4 K. c; x8 V- x! T* d* U. XThat's a memory problem. . X: t/ L+ w) _4 l) J5 Q2 q这是一个记忆问题。/ u: t; R6 z# _( E% R1 v9 S% y3 v
I guess that counts too. 4 \! P+ o( W2 Q+ ]8 m我想那很重要。; M7 Z3 @7 X! \4 P
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?2 x- a9 N1 i1 x! P* u/ k" O3 @
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？4 T$ w2 }% s; h% l# U, @
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 2 W1 e N3 B; J6 V; F/ F( F在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ; B F' l4 e1 f$ Q) |For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. W2 j9 B! x. g
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。& Y6 d& J Z2 H3 U
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 0 ^% S9 P1 q/ }1 R$ v7 S0 i6 ]' `. l8 \总是可以问问自己为什么。. N- G0 q0 a$ D# k- R; R
Why did I start to learn a language? 2 e4 v" [) g. W8 v2 X$ r! e3 I4 D8 l. u为什么我开始学习一种语言？0 x3 v- i1 A% `1 r. r5 R
Why did I join this club?: |) w* t1 [# T; ^0 x2 u
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？& L6 i9 w& V" J! E
Why my friend was this person?; C1 F. c) \5 N" O% b
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ % |! i8 B& ^) |" y( x; m4 I9 jWhy did I get married? # P9 n5 X$ P0 n为什么我要结婚？: P7 f" j) Y& g! W
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 6 R# e* D) o {如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ( ~6 ]3 j; f# m* ?. j4 sI think we need indeed remind us of why. 2 R& q0 U8 l& }* b# I& ?0 b1 D' f我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 & l% [6 E1 k" l, ^: mOr else it's tough to finish what we started.- R, l( H3 J4 l0 J1 O+ E2 R
否则很难完成我们所开始的。8 @/ ^) Q5 {- i! t) Z6 @8 g
We stop starting. We quit the club. 9 F. N! J( c+ O" S: f我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。" \/ P$ Z- V4 H! h
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.. K$ l8 H+ o" k6 I8 x
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。' l& h7 {" a- t" C
There's nothing wrong with asking why. : M% C( p, {5 L/ D问为什么没什么问题。 : D. @# i! g5 h- |In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 7 u9 d9 t3 o( o' ~( C' t" R事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 8 r* j% O! g2 L: c+ m8 JTalk about it.9 i; v& {( F" j8 h4 n( w
谈论下面的话题：! i6 w& K9 q. a& i: a
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?) D) H h5 x0 c# a
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ " ?& [! f4 E* i& ?8 s8 ?Is it a kind of distant memory?/ [3 W; K" z" [" s5 P+ X( p
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 3 F- |: j: U" S8 W7 YDid you ever forget why you are doing something...+ {6 n% K0 x8 ?. B2 V
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……- b- U. p+ M' E3 ?
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?% x- @8 f& J9 I. W4 a
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ) w" ?' h( S& g- |% n: z" c" Y! n2 H: tDo you write memos? 6 b+ e5 c; P9 D5 B- W你写备忘录吗？ ( y" z; x3 _7 N5 g& i: ^Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?; `- o2 Q6 [' {. z! p4 S/ a
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 8 w- p/ p4 a1 S8 t- D% l2 bWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 9 n$ Z- u1 z: P# `9 U. o1 @! ]还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？5 g4 _) {, J8 t' t; R
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? # ], C6 L+ `' F1 M. f2 ?6 ~你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？