标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ' h* ~* X* r$ ?6 i% C/ M4 M $ }0 ~; j( m3 C' r% N7 f, o. t7 h3 C记住我们为什么做某事& _% G8 j) `# \& X2 k& ^
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. . W6 m; m9 F5 r8 g2 D9 r/ I有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。! S! V, Z& U$ w! x/ n, @) d. ^
Have you ever done that?# d, n/ v4 F. N, W7 {2 m4 P0 c
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 9 W# E. D" ^3 f; OI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.& d! d3 V4 K% T/ ^' `3 I+ [
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 3 Z* A* @# @' G* ?7 VI have called someone because I want to tell them something." C( R- ]6 A) v! E; f" G+ W1 `
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 1 [/ U# B# E* S% T. EAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.6 c9 B& Z* x% m0 R
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。3 V! k9 v3 J/ E. x! E" h6 R
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.$ g* T9 G9 G+ x1 |& i( e% D
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 & h5 {" T; d& i8 q3 [/ }; g9 Y2 R4 aThat's a memory problem.4 s' ]' `8 L1 M7 e6 \$ [! ]
这是一个记忆问题。- o- V" X8 X/ s
I guess that counts too.! g' i4 o @7 L1 h' F* f8 c
我想那很重要。 ' g) H8 r/ n8 N5 KBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?: F$ U/ J: O9 c" U3 o' D
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？$ { Y& Y( l' @. _) P3 y
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 8 x' h0 f. P+ C$ b8 m1 @( S. W在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ( H, J4 n( p$ tFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.0 l9 O i( v- K
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 * b' Y+ y- E; y6 H+ ?It's always could to ask ourselves why.# f/ M I5 z& K9 H3 C. B+ J1 ?
总是可以问问自己为什么。 ; v6 Z- R) c% x% g$ a% y VWhy did I start to learn a language? 2 Y" h9 ]: s9 |+ H: k3 K9 w为什么我开始学习一种语言？ / T# `% k: N' s! ]Why did I join this club? / g+ a+ Q2 F/ ^2 S$ e为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ : X$ W; p8 Z# G) s% @& [# j# S6 S2 UWhy my friend was this person?1 l5 m3 N: [# x: h% T! j; h
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ . e; V$ d7 t- H' G) L8 E; SWhy did I get married?8 a; Z" M3 o5 H6 l( J8 w+ G9 v
为什么我要结婚？ [0 m( L. y; \- p6 }; d9 K
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. $ Q/ m' ]# d. I. q0 e如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 + x# x; W4 o& P7 F, E L: E6 u4 t+ ?I think we need indeed remind us of why.6 T0 r' Z0 Z9 @ r
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。& \" `$ X. g, ~+ e5 B9 \) |
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 5 ], M: S+ h* o否则很难完成我们所开始的。) u( S8 U9 O7 U, A- N ?
We stop starting. We quit the club. : q9 A. ?9 Q+ ?/ J# k3 n我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。- a% C5 }" d- o; n8 Q/ e- b
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.( ]8 g* d9 q, F) n
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ! I L( P3 x# N+ T$ J2 K/ wThere's nothing wrong with asking why. + t! U/ ]$ R1 ~* y% k" \问为什么没什么问题。0 ]& ^4 b0 Y) U0 a$ Y+ V5 N9 A* V
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.7 D0 u7 w4 z# e5 u* J6 |
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。- {0 c8 f' g& `
Talk about it.. _) L9 J4 l: m; ~ x
谈论下面的话题： % n" k8 Y6 V8 d d" ]3 BIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ; a$ D/ |& h2 _' Y J( m8 Q A1 W你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？( H$ L" ^9 g+ e) Y
Is it a kind of distant memory?- r4 V/ D0 J6 g% i; {3 P6 X
它是一种遥远的记忆？ ' g" q/ j$ G! a) x+ @, [9 i3 W9 YDid you ever forget why you are doing something...) ~/ y. _ |: p' |" C
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……! {/ i# X4 y9 q; i1 [4 l6 \% q
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 7 n2 a8 D& j1 H" F2 C- o! l5 N你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 8 o# K, j2 M* K9 iDo you write memos?0 \8 C3 u+ q" [, T8 M
你写备忘录吗？ 2 X( L) ~- v2 P$ kDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?4 g6 S4 @: i/ u# w" J5 U l' t
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ! J% G9 {1 l, D0 Q0 C8 d2 m: u: Q- rWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 5 D8 R* Q- ?+ K5 K: f: K1 W) E还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？. B! P+ V, W! _# i4 g0 L0 i+ q- K
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? . Q& @7 C `3 X: W你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？