标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something4 E. C& ^' u( d. I% s' Z
+ `4 l4 E$ l: N' D$ D2 V+ E记住我们为什么做某事 " n; b% X+ B5 _, T3 h9 H* wSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing." y; E; {5 ?5 @! J
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 5 h+ C ^6 h0 d" mHave you ever done that?2 @8 b& N7 r4 R0 N1 _1 U
你曾有过这种经历吗？# o1 o$ Z9 F d
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.. r& v( u6 s' b- p0 U: Y5 P
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 5 w+ L2 _8 [7 O. k. aI have called someone because I want to tell them something. ( z! Y2 u, j7 S/ x! d" e" `我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 & G3 b$ ` H9 O z$ JAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 4 s/ v5 W# {8 V) J$ w然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 " o t6 I; Y7 m( y: bWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.% x" w# G" S/ p
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 V4 n& x8 D3 F1 @That's a memory problem. 5 g& U4 O0 d% a/ \- M1 }! |这是一个记忆问题。9 O3 p: L6 v0 G: F( _
I guess that counts too. % W% S" P& E2 o" j0 w我想那很重要。. I. y1 L' y7 w
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 5 ^: A6 c7 w9 S% ]: k5 j$ o. B8 f但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？3 C& m4 D7 p+ p6 Q4 G
At one point, there was a reason we do something.) n% R, i) J( R& \/ V( B1 L
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。7 x; ^. R- C; f
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. % Y4 n& t) c, Y, S0 j" Q+ r5 L+ }对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 % {' R/ E5 K& Z0 [It's always could to ask ourselves why. 3 `& H$ e3 X2 [, o总是可以问问自己为什么。 / ~9 w' h; {% L2 j! C( j r/ ^Why did I start to learn a language? $ X5 P9 O) n9 i: u8 M7 I为什么我开始学习一种语言？' p4 z+ D$ Y% h( u; _
Why did I join this club?- r- i7 p$ v0 L
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 8 n+ N& q5 U h: O. s* SWhy my friend was this person? ! @" {2 I+ Y. J5 b3 c为什么我的朋友是这个人？, C2 Q& `9 H2 c
Why did I get married?6 w7 x. o2 x; Y* Y2 c7 ]
为什么我要结婚？ : O) V& j0 u) p aIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.# |, ^, b+ `3 o+ [: x
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。6 F) ] ^0 H: X" o9 ?7 g3 A
I think we need indeed remind us of why.9 Z8 }7 D, h1 t2 |. a# y
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 " s* _" K% }" _5 \Or else it's tough to finish what we started. * n, f: W" a+ t% w/ Z否则很难完成我们所开始的。 : W3 @6 C- ]! \" u' J1 `: TWe stop starting. We quit the club. ' l* R+ @* ~9 N- Q5 t5 n我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 " ?6 a2 _; H; q0 BWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. / B7 n2 @: B- Z2 ~& D# X( n% X) C我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。3 ^% Q- ]; i* N' ]
There's nothing wrong with asking why.( r9 b& h$ h* V1 G; `) l: f8 K- ], T
问为什么没什么问题。& [: r: t) _9 ^2 t" n; W
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ) q* C/ ^# k2 k/ n事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。6 E3 \ e4 Z; }. S/ Q
Talk about it. 4 v4 p: u; p$ h" O' E' I' S% b2 [9 ~谈论下面的话题： ) P- u' G$ Z" u/ n+ d6 @Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 0 x- e; o( B# t你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？* P- D! t3 x4 U3 M/ C: y9 i3 }& G
Is it a kind of distant memory?4 }- {, l9 t u5 P& d; d- L9 e [
它是一种遥远的记忆？- D* u) R; _# [ m# `5 y
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...' }) o/ }6 e" p* ~) Z5 }2 _! R
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… # }. u1 Q, `1 F* X6 s% s" Q: ]$ [2 lHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?2 d/ N. o$ j& B4 K3 a3 Q( O
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？; S( K n. v/ C ?9 M p- N) F0 ]
Do you write memos?" L9 a' ?7 D5 u( o' c
你写备忘录吗？ 1 o8 c, N4 A% m2 k9 VDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?$ o8 B% D1 d2 R% |6 k5 O7 `
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？9 _- e% O5 z4 Z: n4 b" v& U7 N% L1 \
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? . a1 q0 t# M" c* r6 K; L还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？% n$ J+ ~/ C5 l) H2 \- t! A2 s
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 5 ?' b, Z, r0 U: ]' G) |4 f3 p3 f你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？