标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something - T/ Y2 o$ `1 B+ L0 B) W; ], K; _1 u+ {! h3 L
记住我们为什么做某事 . x7 T/ \ ?. d% w O5 b. |Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.0 G3 l/ o# T$ ?8 q" v; z$ E
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。2 N8 T1 q/ Q+ ]3 S5 j
Have you ever done that? ! q* l( O+ W& s; f. m你曾有过这种经历吗？3 W+ d- {! g; N. A; t
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.8 E N1 O+ G) q6 w7 X2 k
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ! y" B+ V2 Y! o* T( ?7 O4 ^I have called someone because I want to tell them something. % f# W4 G( R" |7 {3 c我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。% c5 _1 I1 o6 h
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 9 g, @# v# t @8 b然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。9 m4 F' [0 [% I2 U) d! E) R2 a
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.3 `, \ Y: V( L% t- m& S( h
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。3 A0 z7 N# @- [$ t3 m+ Y2 u
That's a memory problem. 0 Z6 P' F* ~) W" {这是一个记忆问题。 $ V: c7 {- N* U) i9 }I guess that counts too. 6 t7 i" H& \% |6 ~我想那很重要。6 i/ w! \2 p8 d+ ^8 N
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 9 |, ~5 w' J; F( {; i, h但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 4 q; f6 I+ l# p; ]" YAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 8 t$ _+ s% m! H$ M9 G在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。* p+ @# L/ j9 Q) X
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 0 O! E# ^0 y& ?对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 1 L: r) n2 c0 M" e9 UIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 5 _& @2 L. @0 Q2 I% g4 G总是可以问问自己为什么。 # V6 R: K B# E3 y0 k' `Why did I start to learn a language? 0 B7 B! F0 s8 a( h+ f8 Z. R4 J) \为什么我开始学习一种语言？8 ~$ I" |6 Q+ I% y+ [' Q7 x1 J: f
Why did I join this club? z9 v. p. H$ m
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 4 U1 S) j+ T- G" h6 jWhy my friend was this person? # ?/ y3 u' E3 @为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 1 t: r+ R* F/ _1 x9 A, o, Z4 }/ aWhy did I get married?6 V0 F" a8 v( X( }# d9 e! z
为什么我要结婚？7 d, y+ Y) R5 q5 r, Q: W
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.7 b+ ~# Y/ u4 d: S( L
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。4 {9 ]* u3 ?; T3 Q( e; y3 p
I think we need indeed remind us of why.* c3 [2 V" _) I4 t
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 * ^8 {" Z9 U7 m( OOr else it's tough to finish what we started.) |, I) c3 {, w- W, b& G5 w4 K) ~& ~
否则很难完成我们所开始的。8 k' W' h6 P0 q- A& G" L# I4 r6 K; X1 b
We stop starting. We quit the club." V' W' z* S0 z% D. N
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。2 z. w0 t, R9 }! w% ~3 L
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 2 k, E1 H! X/ @( ?2 F我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。6 g# \ [. N) @, R. S. y
There's nothing wrong with asking why. & c( S0 {+ ?# l( v7 D" t问为什么没什么问题。 3 P: I# `. g- mIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.+ U: t6 y9 s! Q ^6 N3 G: B
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。! v/ ^8 @7 K f0 P" h& r3 u0 F G4 I
Talk about it. & W( D: Z1 I9 z8 O% P1 b谈论下面的话题： 5 U2 t/ L0 d7 D, P: Y* J SIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ; |! |5 k% `& l( N3 V* i你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 3 A4 m$ t2 w& G/ H7 w- hIs it a kind of distant memory?) X/ A) `# f6 u$ j
它是一种遥远的记忆？ ' E# W: F: k5 RDid you ever forget why you are doing something...9 X' K* y7 P+ B3 T+ v& B
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 0 G) M6 p9 z: | e. nHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?" S. ?* ?/ r+ M/ Z" ?0 d9 G
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？$ `, R* }( ^0 w5 X0 x
Do you write memos? ! W( Z& Q$ w8 w% g# a6 Z你写备忘录吗？ 2 s$ x. _1 O5 i; K1 [Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?. O" G: ^% i( ?
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？, n5 Z% }! F9 F+ U9 h& u. U" d7 U
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?& K$ b% Y0 D. d& R. s" K2 q3 U
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ * i2 B4 p. s# j5 y3 B4 b+ _0 tWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?. }0 U/ G7 A4 A4 u2 ?/ L4 B
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？