标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something * ~. ^, {1 a" w' `5 p5 n# t5 u0 y8 f: s9 \/ L \5 ` P) ~: R, g
记住我们为什么做某事 ( E- X1 G. k9 O5 HSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. q" ?# Y7 j# J k
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 8 x2 P- _5 k& }) R7 MHave you ever done that? & k, m& F$ w3 z你曾有过这种经历吗？. u. `2 K+ V! @% H8 g: s
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. : X" ?4 f; U( e: \: ]8 Y! ]我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。, ^( C) }! M5 n& L
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 9 Q0 r; d$ q9 |/ X我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。0 Z9 I2 g4 l6 j; d4 v! E
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. & \2 e- ]/ V4 j* H1 O) b然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。0 X/ @4 Q$ V* y- y$ {/ l% |
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. / J# a( e" R; w# s( h( S, h8 N9 ?+ R哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 3 w" ?5 E! C1 ~6 w4 l# D/ |, m2 jThat's a memory problem. " k) l$ Z6 c5 S% z1 B这是一个记忆问题。 " f; ]/ O1 S: s5 bI guess that counts too. $ D6 x6 e6 Z3 i我想那很重要。 + v0 N2 z( w; s. u* ]But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?7 q0 r6 Q' }6 J7 U6 \6 O/ P3 ?
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？1 ~4 o$ @8 C2 I. B. u
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 3 Y; E- B: l6 @7 \0 ~* x9 y: y/ s在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 : \3 k, ^/ {' kFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 8 M7 a4 x3 E1 F7 U) z9 B) F对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 " q1 m/ w3 a0 K) P0 l+ XIt's always could to ask ourselves why. . M; i+ Y. ] {( n( a- X总是可以问问自己为什么。 ) |' r4 ~5 r# \+ R9 e; E4 T8 GWhy did I start to learn a language?/ |: E; |' k9 g. D3 n
为什么我开始学习一种语言？2 P1 X6 J# J h/ |" p+ q
Why did I join this club? 1 B% g( r {( ~* I5 P( w M为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ! w3 `1 C3 e+ e* m9 EWhy my friend was this person? ; L* S# u) ?! K1 n, E为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 0 s" V ?% ?: \+ w% k0 ?, Q6 o# GWhy did I get married? ; b/ A7 ]' A& B, B+ v) f$ j- r0 h为什么我要结婚？/ J8 ?& i6 p1 P+ q( i# S4 r
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 7 U- E; [7 `- n' O5 g如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ?2 a" E9 t" K( D
I think we need indeed remind us of why.* i! j' Q, g" [
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 \8 H. R4 A" {
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.. c1 |# }9 A; v3 {" P
否则很难完成我们所开始的。- s1 C5 @/ H/ z- L) D& ^
We stop starting. We quit the club. 8 P0 q! j/ x( w1 X+ U% C我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。; L; q3 g" V& S* e1 H1 J0 H
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. + P* o1 w8 Q& k% C我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。. E* T8 [6 h: j+ B9 i
There's nothing wrong with asking why. $ c. _1 a; a/ \$ d问为什么没什么问题。) W% m& a) _9 f: q
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing., L& t d1 \2 M4 S" n8 p3 l
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。* Q; t; j" l! o7 d( d9 s. r
Talk about it.4 y" q" O- H0 R+ H8 Z/ O( K, U
谈论下面的话题： % Y9 Z: q, R1 ~0 ]0 MIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?7 O/ |% F Z$ g$ j+ u' R
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？3 v ?3 X4 _; A5 U4 z" L% f, z( F
Is it a kind of distant memory? : ]- W6 L; F. Y. Z `/ M1 y它是一种遥远的记忆？# s% y( f q; e9 H& x" R
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...: F) l1 |+ a4 W2 T
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……. D1 D/ @# }% d6 o& {4 _: j5 @
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?7 i9 ]8 _ J. E4 S, B7 D2 ^4 E
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？1 G" w8 o) O0 \
Do you write memos?& Z, V0 N) P( c- Z5 x
你写备忘录吗？" @% d$ H3 S( E8 x; e: S6 Z
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?6 C( m! g1 v1 L6 W4 G H' g1 h3 }6 ~
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？) } K! y. T/ r9 B+ V
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?6 V( ^3 k- m0 I$ F
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？- ~3 H' b$ d/ s/ V* \( c; p2 N
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? - n$ h0 q# K2 V1 a% N1 \. v! X- W你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？