% ]6 _& K1 ?: r9 F( }6 |$ { S d记住我们为什么做某事+ H+ B7 G% z( H- L/ d0 m R
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.8 L4 ?* ^ B& z& z4 W) B, `
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ( _, J6 z! O( S5 v$ E% T) JHave you ever done that?/ W( }0 d) J" F
你曾有过这种经历吗？$ h1 @9 v* |/ l6 M- T6 c- P
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. o7 f, ?" i. \7 ^
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 # _0 a) t9 w3 b; i1 v: I' r7 [I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 3 N, g6 h- W. e; j" s! ]我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 + J' ?, S* L$ o' k/ e$ H+ I% E# z- ^+ iAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. $ }7 t8 s1 w) t, H L* i- m然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 - V0 T8 g% X4 H. ]% y4 O: H7 U _Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.1 \5 c3 x/ h$ \- ~' c% u, [
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。9 m; e0 ^9 w* e4 }
That's a memory problem. 5 t. |" C# o+ h, G0 |& W" u这是一个记忆问题。 4 U0 w9 J) s! p* W9 y& d- M$ i3 p, {I guess that counts too. 9 n1 p( G+ x$ z: F$ H; ]4 B$ W我想那很重要。7 ]/ r R( ^0 a; i: r
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ) d" U. X$ H2 V* ~2 [% ]6 c但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ : K" K1 R/ T! a7 J- G6 `6 GAt one point, there was a reason we do something., l- }* j/ S; y+ d% d% i
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 % M9 ?! X' k* E8 z" m" A3 N! ]For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason./ |) r: N" F: G+ V% w; } ?$ C4 Z( b
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 5 p' _8 N+ _) ^" t8 }It's always could to ask ourselves why. " |# V! f1 _4 m9 I: v6 F* h总是可以问问自己为什么。* t# E! \$ V' h8 @1 c
Why did I start to learn a language? ; }; o1 w Z+ u! M9 w( B3 F3 j为什么我开始学习一种语言？ , T* o1 q( ?9 f0 D, IWhy did I join this club? 3 G* k5 \& z' V& N3 ?4 x) v为什么我加入这个俱乐部？" H. i( b* x& K+ {
Why my friend was this person? , L. d1 v8 W& s5 A/ f! v为什么我的朋友是这个人？/ P* O. k. t7 n9 H3 s
Why did I get married? ' Z2 f1 D# @* u) ^5 z e为什么我要结婚？: M! w2 [9 V$ t
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. $ R1 N9 s2 r% N `如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ( z9 v7 |7 {, ^+ F# V! H% b# b. PI think we need indeed remind us of why. & _% z; p% e9 W1 @7 g我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。+ g3 P( \( r+ x( m6 N1 O( A: m
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.3 P: ?! [. {2 ?$ |
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 % h1 B, _- | P, X9 NWe stop starting. We quit the club. - f0 w0 G1 i: J" t2 ?+ h我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。% |; `0 \% P- W$ ]6 Q- m
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged./ U y2 h$ ]" H. m
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 7 d0 i, l2 d' kThere's nothing wrong with asking why. % j: L7 ^' ^ i, _2 ], @问为什么没什么问题。* z' w# a6 T- b
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.. A* \& c, u% P
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。( w, i8 {0 c3 N1 c& B6 v5 c
Talk about it. - T) g/ S# Q* i; f# c4 t* z) i谈论下面的话题： ! ^ [$ i7 `& Z' L% q' P" {Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?5 ~4 W- `0 Z1 }& w* X
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？6 p! G5 ]; p/ z
Is it a kind of distant memory? Y" ^0 q; L1 D" v
它是一种遥远的记忆？ + }( t- U8 I0 }( y& X: ^' {Did you ever forget why you are doing something... . U( H p! Y5 d" p/ S你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……; H# O" f J# P% T) K
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? , g8 u( y( R& P0 G你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 3 h0 h2 K6 N5 `$ VDo you write memos?6 c% A0 f" Q5 T% S% _$ I
你写备忘录吗？ ) ]+ z; e0 t h* _Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?% v8 X2 J1 R/ @+ T- E5 C- V J
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？6 z, Y$ K6 W* N3 h U6 P, a: G
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 8 G4 {. e# {' s' E' W1 H还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ / B$ ~9 x. e7 Q% v4 g/ V& uWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ' R7 V! p0 @) E- `& w- z6 H你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？