标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something, \- O$ S6 I2 @% G4 r; m
: S7 s/ ~/ w& D+ V p记住我们为什么做某事 5 D& C, t; {& M$ m% K7 P) r XSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.8 j% e' a$ K5 `& Y" L
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。# i6 j5 r+ l5 E' o) M
Have you ever done that?& ^" o# N5 e# v! z' D4 A
你曾有过这种经历吗？$ T ~) z& ~) M) Q# ]) B
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. - _# }' ^* D+ f' ]4 L$ ?: A; s9 K我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ( z: P6 W0 v4 n5 L3 d+ nI have called someone because I want to tell them something.) t+ }+ i# V8 r' g, A) v
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。6 b8 s( [( E J' ]; t
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.; N7 A2 M2 A3 m- t; [; |$ E
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 2 q% Z6 J5 N- y1 y8 E. _Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.( s7 x. j# t' }4 X7 v3 C/ i2 g* G2 F
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 : ?$ j6 p6 q' [: B' ]That's a memory problem.' V1 }' b% x% r p/ [
这是一个记忆问题。 @+ i4 u* C7 [# L
I guess that counts too.0 |$ k; {$ `/ \5 q5 ]1 l" v: J
我想那很重要。 # ?, Y; d, c' M1 l* ^But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? C. {$ d }- h% b6 a但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ / ] j9 Q' l' LAt one point, there was a reason we do something. % A2 _0 c6 e2 j, F( N( D在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 " t! Z% E, k* O3 i' qFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. , [$ e4 h1 h+ [$ Z0 Q8 N1 W' M对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。! m" D. ~! E) T; |3 Y) K( }
It's always could to ask ourselves why. $ Z* T# a8 [& b K' |! G总是可以问问自己为什么。5 f: [& y7 ^( y" q
Why did I start to learn a language?# b; G0 E% Z7 b7 T+ ]& @4 l. I4 ]
为什么我开始学习一种语言？/ ^' G% T! P* A
Why did I join this club? 9 A) E1 ]2 ? H6 j" y为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ # g. E y \2 p6 ?Why my friend was this person?% M/ _( M' C/ e! p* `8 y4 O
为什么我的朋友是这个人？7 F/ V, n+ d- s ~
Why did I get married?' u1 U @7 o5 i% R$ X
为什么我要结婚？ 2 |( k6 e/ q$ \+ J L; {: BIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.3 D/ x, G! n$ L3 `" _ H) a6 A
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 4 g; B' u3 M5 @7 p7 Z3 EI think we need indeed remind us of why. - ^: L+ H, D7 ]" p& X+ \- I2 n0 H9 p我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 / V/ x1 t# P6 l( ^/ b* a' d$ H5 c( ~Or else it's tough to finish what we started.7 O* z! v3 e% B6 M% ?' q: v) f
否则很难完成我们所开始的。. g. |1 d+ ]+ }( e) o/ H
We stop starting. We quit the club. 9 w6 d: X3 H8 k2 m我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 I* ?: S7 ^+ B" e
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ' K4 O8 T$ q& U) y# v6 D% H我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。7 F0 x9 ^* g. I, @! Q7 S/ K; l
There's nothing wrong with asking why.; P4 N9 ?5 {9 R0 M+ t; b
问为什么没什么问题。1 x# v0 Y3 _/ |5 ]5 A8 ?2 f# g
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 2 q, c9 A$ b% V7 G# M事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 3 F% T+ y+ u+ d9 |Talk about it.! y% w! R1 L1 `
谈论下面的话题：* R: O! ?3 \2 ^4 v B
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?, k+ P9 E- G2 V+ _9 N
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ , W* T) `) A( r% c+ J) F4 dIs it a kind of distant memory? " m) Z! R, e- ]; T, B它是一种遥远的记忆？ 8 E4 v9 ], L) x2 J! ?Did you ever forget why you are doing something..., o1 | E& A/ O
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……3 K [2 ]& Z9 o/ q C: r( e- L; Q
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 6 n4 z: N( T; K: H8 {, o8 o你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？( X" a; z+ K: q, y; s7 X% ?
Do you write memos? / L9 B( u, L# [, C; z你写备忘录吗？) s* \& \! I( `" g* m8 ~2 b" p
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? : _# Q. j0 S" b' p2 X你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？) o+ `3 @; R3 s+ y( A
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?% ?2 ^3 @+ K/ G, G3 D
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？! U0 I9 w. o! n5 `1 `4 i& k
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?* G# @7 W/ d, O' E
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？