标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something3 i# n) H' p# K9 A" a) G
0 }1 } H; h5 O4 H+ V2 |记住我们为什么做某事4 ^) v. K5 S0 H
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. w' c0 h% g. q7 N0 u2 G5 |有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 - `% t+ _3 d) M4 sHave you ever done that?4 x. }2 M9 t: C8 l* i
你曾有过这种经历吗？6 s ^& A+ E5 J
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.( P5 H7 ~! Y: ?9 P0 |' _
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。! W) Q$ Y( o3 H* P
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.. m# j6 w0 b' M& M H: e8 _. M
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 E3 S o) n2 D8 {- s
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.1 L8 O/ M! G8 X' E! k
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。6 Y( l! i; d- r5 }: F1 F2 f& ^$ n
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place./ C' ?6 A9 c) t% y- l* d2 U$ g+ M H
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 & Z8 i, V. l8 E% j% z8 iThat's a memory problem.' ~- f, m" E1 y7 o4 r
这是一个记忆问题。) r1 z4 L# K3 s
I guess that counts too. 9 I3 D0 j: v' q我想那很重要。 ) o; g# {3 I' ]* E: W( NBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?2 N+ C" o; l6 O+ Z* n! a1 T- H
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ & E9 X6 L, V& m' a. x u8 v# n4 kAt one point, there was a reason we do something.: B( D0 V5 j2 M' }4 M
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 # [- N% P3 |& MFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.: j, f$ H: u: a2 D" Y
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 3 R$ a1 p) G: D9 ]1 _. rIt's always could to ask ourselves why.0 G j! _1 m8 @" O, F9 ~$ g
总是可以问问自己为什么。$ [" W; P2 Q) W, A& [
Why did I start to learn a language? 3 E! d& E% P" ~4 C# E; _) o, c7 x为什么我开始学习一种语言？/ x- W+ T4 ?5 j* {
Why did I join this club? 0 a0 \6 ~- A! v为什么我加入这个俱乐部？1 f7 w& V7 N) }- `6 R( N
Why my friend was this person?6 f3 }: t. o! `1 z Y
为什么我的朋友是这个人？. Z* _& |: v, T5 c: n. [
Why did I get married? % X9 s2 A0 u7 r o0 c为什么我要结婚？8 c; p$ x4 X3 S* n$ u' c9 ?3 }& {
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. , l3 J% j$ J$ v- ]! _如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。& d+ l& H2 k% |9 m
I think we need indeed remind us of why. , }: k5 D% p+ K9 i1 h我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 7 n B& U {4 p0 d3 oOr else it's tough to finish what we started. G8 _6 n# e4 b% D( P! L) S9 F, h% |
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ( V$ b+ y+ K' o: V" b; pWe stop starting. We quit the club. $ d; p, [2 N' ~' z O9 W我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。" r3 ]* {, r2 }2 N- @' x# H, w
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. : B( q' g6 [3 `1 k3 n2 S! g& N我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 % N, l# s+ l M+ V& ?1 \0 v1 ?There's nothing wrong with asking why. 8 ?+ t5 b k4 L+ S) P8 J+ X3 v问为什么没什么问题。- p; L) Y( ?; k9 Y( g
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 3 O6 o+ i) v u3 w. h$ r0 I事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 8 k4 @7 X0 z* m: L7 fTalk about it.& D3 z, V5 t* B* p7 f
谈论下面的话题： - p/ g" w' r2 M7 K1 x* mIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? + D1 I# u2 O* r+ d) M( u# S8 _你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 8 \" g" D% s' CIs it a kind of distant memory? 6 d) C3 H5 M+ N0 ~4 B: A6 g( \4 V它是一种遥远的记忆？6 V3 W- u& C; D# J% J s+ b( H
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... + C0 V U) o R! q- N/ f" Y你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……; } Z3 x% q' K/ l. A1 [
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 3 z% J. O9 v4 ~1 Z你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？. V! ~+ H; T6 F. R5 ^/ G
Do you write memos? % t0 y: z+ n8 R( ~2 c2 f A& V你写备忘录吗？ ( Z/ }5 v8 d& A) F5 P NDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 9 F1 Z8 h& @( W你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？! c# C: Y9 H4 b5 N5 g) K
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?* T- l* A( \3 ?# U( L& F
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ + x7 N2 h! |) M' uWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?1 G! k) k0 q9 V8 J: o
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？