7 P' L% S9 |. B) Z记住我们为什么做某事 - h$ Z. G' H! F3 MSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing., o" H9 ~- Z8 L( a e" e
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。) ]( v. Z) B4 ~! G% p. l) ]" _+ B; G
Have you ever done that?9 f4 n/ v* O/ g1 T
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 8 K- O4 R& Z3 D+ w% h2 B+ K4 s, WI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.# l, |' A5 A5 Z4 T9 `! j- M
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。+ h; l4 t. r0 Y5 c a- V
I have called someone because I want to tell them something." \+ T5 L: P X3 ?! q) v
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 . u* R4 l& D/ }8 l1 [: NAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.) V# M/ Y1 P b3 x* X
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 5 V1 f" }5 i+ r6 HWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 4 A9 e( v$ [- r* W* e, j& w+ Y哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。" [! I7 t j; ?" s d4 o3 [$ Z$ z
That's a memory problem.7 j& |# n: l1 B' n) C" B& F
这是一个记忆问题。 $ x E6 O$ j) ?& A. t [. g# j9 ZI guess that counts too.. ^* r n8 O: [* K
我想那很重要。 4 a9 O$ s' R7 xBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ; O' o5 i4 u- ^% G4 e8 s) B但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？0 s( ?! Q% D/ a* f! h: R
At one point, there was a reason we do something. ! y% o' L+ K# s3 A, G3 b" J) L在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 - F5 \' A/ g( [For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason." t6 b) A2 C4 `. Y; J
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。9 I# _( U2 v' S! g' h5 L6 s5 B
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 2 W) @1 H7 Y! E2 L# R总是可以问问自己为什么。 4 |0 v$ g5 _5 AWhy did I start to learn a language?# i+ [, U9 [4 O1 }: j: `
为什么我开始学习一种语言？9 E- P- e7 o$ {' q4 [2 m
Why did I join this club?& p+ L! }, e$ D
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ }4 I% v; m* y' S5 q1 X8 P, sWhy my friend was this person? / H, q$ p2 z" [, t/ ~为什么我的朋友是这个人？. Z7 l Y! ~5 `% L
Why did I get married?* D, U! q! x, T" }# R; O# x5 O
为什么我要结婚？0 u8 V. e: H0 T3 E
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.1 o6 A& o% Q% X! p
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 5 z! E9 J. M8 b) W& NI think we need indeed remind us of why.8 o8 \8 ~' j8 @
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 5 O: ?2 I* J S8 q. l* JOr else it's tough to finish what we started. : J( J* z2 r/ N+ }: Q否则很难完成我们所开始的。6 Q1 H" b) l9 N2 O
We stop starting. We quit the club.5 w0 e {: A0 S
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 $ {. F) Z" G" t' G3 oWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.. C2 Y% Z T$ G, @; K; ~
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 % U7 |. U, s4 A7 {* Z0 J6 k- PThere's nothing wrong with asking why. 0 o. i( k4 g7 |8 ]. e( y问为什么没什么问题。% o& X9 d8 D2 {8 J8 t- o
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.( C' I# _! f9 \$ d% M9 B6 E
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。+ {% `* h% }' W8 s0 ?- x/ }
Talk about it. 4 B7 g) a7 Q0 p8 Z谈论下面的话题： 7 n' X* p/ C, T' F) f5 Z. _2 r; `& U0 f! iIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 2 t% e- l( J" O D" c0 c你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ " W X% L+ L+ FIs it a kind of distant memory? 7 ?4 o+ D2 v; h* s7 ]它是一种遥远的记忆？ t; U/ Q4 ?: q
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 7 t; `* a9 w5 S0 n你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… * R& K8 p( Q, [9 k- zHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 5 T# J# O+ K& V2 Y9 o* o6 Z你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ / |7 O+ T( J- L6 uDo you write memos? 7 ?) Q1 I4 e- w8 n/ d/ l' {你写备忘录吗？ # v% S! I/ \$ ]) }# GDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?+ O% H8 a+ ?) h. v( p. X! n; d: e
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 7 T6 @5 K. n. [( p; IWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ; A2 i6 v% l$ H7 @: ^1 Q5 z# g还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？- d" ^ f& p4 s% R+ x9 Z0 v# @$ r
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?! s) G$ _+ B! O" G
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？