标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something& Y: ^/ |5 V3 { I# D, a# B
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记住我们为什么做某事( g O8 S& m0 B9 _" W% F# J
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 7 g( \8 W! k( i有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。7 l% J* u0 @" y6 I
Have you ever done that?" T% n. P& U, R
你曾有过这种经历吗？ ' ?0 D# {' P/ j3 }: l: RI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 7 s+ a7 Q$ b7 Y我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ' D) y4 F+ q0 t6 z% ~/ U l4 [I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 7 y. _8 S# i& ^/ g j) q4 }我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 % D% j, l! Q8 {And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.0 x0 h% z$ `, m) R4 g4 J0 k' Z
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。' g9 a- J% t- I
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.# A/ m; s' w1 o& d3 ?( Q
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。- o4 a `2 K8 v6 t5 @1 z
That's a memory problem.( }1 V/ s+ o1 ]' u8 h. E# P: I
这是一个记忆问题。 + t) q! S. x3 x6 z h! o3 zI guess that counts too.# s+ G9 E& x+ u7 t. x
我想那很重要。 & f) y: p8 D$ S; X. k) a4 f5 x! DBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? $ b( P! _0 J8 D; Z& e! {但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 6 R4 Q2 O* O1 S7 j0 r+ _At one point, there was a reason we do something.$ I+ @9 J, R* Y4 }/ E9 m/ ~
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ! F6 A7 e4 y4 |. eFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.5 x1 y' m# t6 _
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。5 V1 f+ A J4 w# W5 ~9 V7 Z
It's always could to ask ourselves why.' ?4 _2 i- T7 J) k0 U4 A3 K
总是可以问问自己为什么。7 y$ ?! }+ O" e: J
Why did I start to learn a language? ( P) l% f% a# y, @为什么我开始学习一种语言？ + S# J! ^( j& ~& p3 ~Why did I join this club? 3 B0 e* a; i) m( W为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ " W( N5 R* [4 X1 ]* @" ^Why my friend was this person?# z) n3 H+ H$ x( B: p* m
为什么我的朋友是这个人？) Y! z5 n; `! m/ P- k+ ^* o2 `
Why did I get married?2 }6 F- T. `/ ]' y5 h5 n& ~
为什么我要结婚？0 u6 `3 n% n! \6 u% S+ f
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. ( L" M* O* m7 B! U& }; s如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。% R( j9 E7 g" I% B) p6 c- m( n
I think we need indeed remind us of why. `4 ^/ J- d( s我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。& q6 d) {/ M; Z8 `3 k0 \
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.) U5 A- V) k% }4 t
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 x; ]! W5 F( Z7 L5 P) JWe stop starting. We quit the club. 3 \1 D; u) F/ e! X! a, x, `我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 / c) V& [. y" f) `! eWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. : P7 Q" P& o' N5 Y我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 3 F* h2 ^" }6 AThere's nothing wrong with asking why. 6 }) P2 w" p0 A1 C# R! y. f问为什么没什么问题。7 R" f0 o# Z. F+ i
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.& \. N# S2 {, j6 R+ w o. x
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 $ R8 B; x' D v6 g- B1 d4 {" M3 QTalk about it. ; [+ y1 Q+ h8 ~8 T" m谈论下面的话题： " r/ E3 F5 }% k& Q4 F' HIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?8 a1 Q9 d' s* d, R' W3 h
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 5 ]& c: ?$ ~% h8 U u' C0 yIs it a kind of distant memory? 8 Q3 N3 j) G% l# k- p! k它是一种遥远的记忆？4 F7 ^6 q" g) @
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...$ q; F5 g4 B! s" U2 p
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ) E; d- b4 \! E: j& ~3 V$ H) A7 z) ZHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?0 M+ w2 z. }% H3 r
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 4 H" [4 N6 L8 g1 NDo you write memos? 0 ?$ `+ \, T$ Z& u你写备忘录吗？+ n4 r5 T8 s- n5 ^2 j% X
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?4 J' ~4 ~9 _6 |8 C- q' y4 ?. C
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ * M8 J! S: U2 g, N5 u \What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 7 r' J- j! G5 P5 l. b还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ * v( g7 ]1 Q t1 V# J; I; d* d4 NWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?6 f, R N3 t c
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？