标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something0 \2 \6 V7 B6 |' |& }3 H2 Q) o
3 `# v# Y+ B6 C; _9 a记住我们为什么做某事. W& c$ n1 O3 h5 A- h. ~$ t+ e) I
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.. z, Z* g2 b! |6 [5 [8 v
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 % `6 R) X- F: b. THave you ever done that? 1 Y' m6 d9 O8 v5 S+ r! K8 ~你曾有过这种经历吗？& x# K6 X+ r2 I. d" \# l* q: F
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.3 x4 Z4 g( `- b$ X/ d5 p( ?
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 8 J+ x3 J9 G* n; B+ aI have called someone because I want to tell them something.+ \7 O9 z( c0 i
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。: `9 U- N! E! n: J5 z3 _. G: s5 M
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. . C/ X% _3 G% F8 j' M5 M然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。" Q, `! h1 O/ J# F2 v1 @
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.. ^2 o& @7 V- p, Y
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。! K+ G, l, t F! c5 N3 P* w/ L. v
That's a memory problem. - \3 `' c' G6 f这是一个记忆问题。 8 e6 g0 G: z; v7 I- V. q! rI guess that counts too.& h' k, t+ e4 x/ I* n2 t( M
我想那很重要。: A: K1 e6 ]$ }- t+ h$ O
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?8 U8 U" B3 f6 J4 Y7 \+ j
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 8 G2 l3 A! a- B4 ?+ c3 |At one point, there was a reason we do something.; e- @4 c/ ^6 W" z$ |4 s& D
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。: f/ l; Q3 m1 Z$ p7 N
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 0 L7 S9 U# l$ Y. n对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。1 Q" g% x* P2 n* s7 v8 a
It's always could to ask ourselves why. - O, g5 R3 P( f( k2 a9 u总是可以问问自己为什么。% Y& T, `# Q% H f. c3 F
Why did I start to learn a language?! w8 }4 @4 r! q4 r% ^( j8 H6 Y
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ & C! y7 {4 C9 }" F+ x8 QWhy did I join this club?7 h. g# n* f9 k/ }1 z. L
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？5 U* ?- T m3 C4 {
Why my friend was this person? 0 {1 N; e: ~) w7 S$ H为什么我的朋友是这个人？ & K) j" L. A4 x* I, a5 ], tWhy did I get married? & D H; ^. v$ g: \! |. [* x为什么我要结婚？ & G% h5 y6 M% c( @. |If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.% l/ t; i5 [' Z
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。& `4 Y6 D. U$ w9 i( R
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 3 Q4 U. P5 `8 z+ L, N我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。4 n# t! Q+ J; b/ o. U( h
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 4 n+ \+ y4 v/ @9 N8 l+ S否则很难完成我们所开始的。; M; j5 H% _! `# R. d2 x5 m/ L: `+ P
We stop starting. We quit the club." G8 ?% g* @& k- R" W% q2 P
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ; `) I% v( G4 z7 Y% Q' @& R) CWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. - ]$ h3 y5 a& ]5 _我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。6 @5 z2 b8 M, g6 ~# N
There's nothing wrong with asking why.# @7 R* R6 b7 m) {# A! H
问为什么没什么问题。 9 X4 K9 l* a: `$ qIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. . X# v" k7 W( B) V事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。6 _( z1 I9 J0 |+ ~. g$ C
Talk about it. 3 W, _4 h3 o) B; L谈论下面的话题：4 n: j+ P8 a* ^6 p' ~7 {( `8 m
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?( E+ u9 ?0 F& b. L& a/ h) S
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？5 \4 S) P3 ~0 e( x0 B
Is it a kind of distant memory? 9 g& f1 Y+ ^. X. s+ Q它是一种遥远的记忆？' V8 k: D @5 C- N/ G ~
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 6 a$ P0 R3 n; r# _# a5 g) s你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 2 Y# E5 j0 h1 s3 E$ K' x `How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?# Y. ] w) }1 y& \" G- f
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？7 x# M; [$ \5 Z$ `
Do you write memos? % Q) Z/ D4 I0 i2 r# U( m* l+ h你写备忘录吗？ 4 p# z# C) V5 k j! pDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ( |( C7 l* z S5 G你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？+ r4 Y, ]6 t2 e" B: N
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? + l( D* F5 m7 ~( n( P. Z0 I还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？- }9 q- \" ^, L- r! U7 }1 Y
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?3 v: S- j, l i
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？