标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 1 Y+ z' f3 ~; w& m, g0 f% j % @4 F& k2 K1 f记住我们为什么做某事 ) f+ L7 ~; g+ T& B0 lSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. & G3 k `5 ~- N1 g7 A0 J, d有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。/ S* W9 W r7 N' F6 U
Have you ever done that?$ [) J2 j: Q- H7 ~3 V5 [
你曾有过这种经历吗？# L5 L8 S; v7 h) i0 A7 J) o. E
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. - _1 w M* e9 h. S, W6 o1 u我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 0 c9 t; Y, u! h4 e% G8 L. z1 CI have called someone because I want to tell them something. # K8 P6 T6 H# \; @ O7 G我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。. K; B1 J) G! O* O( x
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.( n& ~. D7 w7 J
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。9 F& }5 v8 g* O
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.* X& q% b. ~/ O
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 4 I$ ]$ Q- l4 ]" r/ i$ R' r2 W7 W% W+ [That's a memory problem.+ `4 N' ^6 J8 _2 n
这是一个记忆问题。 ; w2 {( I0 C. B2 ~: ~2 a/ }I guess that counts too. : u C* r8 Y3 G/ ?" W( L1 @我想那很重要。1 [ o# O4 S# _/ U" h
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ' v* g3 D! k3 e) ^但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ : }9 O( _+ ]; ]9 R0 O% N) dAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 0 H+ @' _7 f0 M+ }! z在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。1 ~$ Y( c' c$ s ?" g
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason., N+ I& U. f0 j9 h
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 % B1 Z2 R: g7 o7 `) m u0 ~: ~It's always could to ask ourselves why.9 H; a/ P0 Q" S
总是可以问问自己为什么。0 M `) g% H. x8 d
Why did I start to learn a language?3 h$ Q: |( ]' H6 `5 y. F
为什么我开始学习一种语言？- c& c1 K! S3 a( q$ Q- J
Why did I join this club? / x& I- h# b4 Y: z) |! E g为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 1 i- F/ t; M$ {0 uWhy my friend was this person? # t' L b r: r为什么我的朋友是这个人？ / {1 Z& Q) v, L( KWhy did I get married? ) |' N8 Y% G7 Z+ P9 P/ [为什么我要结婚？# U: Y/ N) t$ N( {1 ^6 M3 l! c2 K
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.$ a3 A6 }- i! F
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。* Z5 ~" ]7 I7 l( U0 e$ t9 Y4 d
I think we need indeed remind us of why." E7 Z$ B( U. Q$ B' ]
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 / G7 `/ n$ s* P( h- i' N) `Or else it's tough to finish what we started. ( @ C6 s5 N3 Y( X# C) ~否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ; z- Z) g& f& r) i$ C+ rWe stop starting. We quit the club.4 Y% e- j/ \, B3 x
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。7 I! y2 J8 |, u1 K9 ]2 ]4 t4 h
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.6 z% M4 m5 u. ^* E# |
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。2 F X L- d" q! k( J8 a
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 2 a5 _+ H% L3 p问为什么没什么问题。2 q+ Q& h+ Y% v% W
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.6 I" O p/ t; R6 O) z Z, T
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。: ]# D% e; f, S _9 ?1 _* x, h0 ~
Talk about it. % \- n# X) R$ Q! }( x& Y4 Z8 p) e! y/ O谈论下面的话题：6 v7 \3 R. Z# o' ~6 ?4 O
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?3 p8 H. G& g$ S) K# g5 l7 {
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？& Q5 k0 u% r) X U9 z. d
Is it a kind of distant memory?4 l+ P2 E3 f# H* K( b0 \5 |( ?( d( E
它是一种遥远的记忆？ * W0 r+ x5 \: m0 ^0 j0 DDid you ever forget why you are doing something... 1 o; u2 T2 ?! L8 v# R$ u! a你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… # J0 s* T7 @0 i* |9 YHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?$ M, ~8 x2 \! I- b- A3 N t+ `
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ) z: Z( W T5 X+ d" QDo you write memos?! E1 V. _. M" B# k$ Q
你写备忘录吗？ n& d; d# G3 C* B0 i. \8 R" m
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 7 C( y$ C9 | b) e; `" M7 D你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？" g6 D% L$ I. p
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? u7 n' c% x- |. Q还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ % Y/ Z) j8 [6 Y3 m) A1 H6 RWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?% i- T! c. ]3 b! K$ z+ i
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？