标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something6 v$ N! B. t) p( v
+ ~% s5 ?, T6 e( n" ^' B记住我们为什么做某事 4 r" \! `4 P- _* o, Y2 V3 A5 fSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. # s1 ^5 v/ z5 [1 `+ X3 t/ X有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 0 J- r$ S" J$ G; kHave you ever done that?. d8 ?2 q6 F+ T0 C! h& z
你曾有过这种经历吗？3 r0 ~7 ^7 @; v: R: O# P: [
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. S6 m1 d7 u3 [* s8 |. P5 \
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。" }( h. @# h$ ^. O
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. # Y. t; g% n+ \& Q6 C6 b/ s我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。* T+ H4 O; V4 U/ c
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.5 Y6 P/ j8 ~4 V
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。. t) `, |! F! w& V6 B# h
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.* ]+ u# w+ \% f2 m/ X3 O
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 1 d$ F: B) k& E5 p! f% h$ NThat's a memory problem.* ^9 `0 k% C k
这是一个记忆问题。; t6 \! s& E; ?0 W( u) r
I guess that counts too. / w5 ^. {) [; L2 i- Y) E- E) s" z我想那很重要。 ) W% u' R0 {/ \: sBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?1 k6 n6 d3 i) Z9 L
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 9 S" e: t* z* E8 x gAt one point, there was a reason we do something.% C/ n9 A- B1 ~4 T! |! F
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 : t5 J7 A8 K# m* G5 j% zFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. + I5 x9 Q5 Q4 S对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。* J7 L& r: D& k* m0 D( s
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 8 J! d6 Q! h j; z2 b总是可以问问自己为什么。2 X7 x/ j4 S/ c7 d9 u* ]5 ?0 e* y/ c9 |
Why did I start to learn a language? ( Y4 J* n }" h( a# W T为什么我开始学习一种语言？* A4 T& p8 k+ }* U$ X7 a
Why did I join this club? 1 Z. j! {9 ?0 @. k为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ % C* p* G, A% ]9 e4 F" sWhy my friend was this person? 8 S0 ^! L, w7 X) _为什么我的朋友是这个人？9 D5 S* h. V) [+ R0 v0 F1 S! p
Why did I get married? _2 u+ x2 O- A0 T# O9 x- r1 B
为什么我要结婚？, J5 X# I5 {7 a/ o
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. ) J }: H: B l如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 7 y) M& ?* |7 e i2 ?I think we need indeed remind us of why.- G7 M1 ], J/ a( P) V
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 $ K. y9 Q/ I2 c. u& h- F- m6 DOr else it's tough to finish what we started. ; ~6 b$ ~8 u: I: h- j# I否则很难完成我们所开始的。 8 [; L1 L6 X1 e# h# ?We stop starting. We quit the club. 2 q1 m6 R5 {) O我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 - t8 Q, `+ }* [* U |- BWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ' _1 s! t0 _% I* h- K% U: y0 D我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。& o+ o6 S, k4 h; ^/ W
There's nothing wrong with asking why. + F% T8 m. U* y: K/ B5 ~问为什么没什么问题。6 x# _1 K3 U- r! w
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 6 z$ d2 L& D+ k, ^1 V事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。6 ~& z6 m; t& T( V6 f0 S) S9 i
Talk about it.& x t2 Q8 B, v7 C# j8 c2 s+ ]
谈论下面的话题： * d: U( [ |' P1 a4 xIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?: [, F9 c7 @3 v
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ' ^, G; E4 \1 m( H. xIs it a kind of distant memory?% ?) u% w! F) h/ M& A- t! [
它是一种遥远的记忆？0 S. K8 h3 P) w0 l6 { U3 \$ U% T9 |
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 1 D9 f W9 A1 [你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……5 K/ ~4 F. Q" w" H& W
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?% e- @2 D+ `- y; i! l! H
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 4 d; J# B: W8 @7 B" QDo you write memos?0 {5 J( {" M& @2 M# H- F, R
你写备忘录吗？( E. I7 u& G* j7 l) n
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?' w5 `0 M! d6 |$ o& D0 o, ^
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 4 A8 H2 @7 S5 @+ X1 }What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 8 _' p, K% l0 n5 q n还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？7 _" w7 h& K: P* M9 H+ E0 G s! ~
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?- d2 J( \$ V, G0 S* T3 N7 _. Z
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？