标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 7 B2 [2 G* e- |: I. x" o- { 1 m D8 m/ ^& F& o0 z$ M记住我们为什么做某事 8 `: `' b6 m6 E" \( CSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.. I1 @' x8 ?2 e# a+ W/ X4 G; Z# W
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 2 p: n6 N3 V7 i, |" ]- @Have you ever done that? ) X. |$ P, B; H你曾有过这种经历吗？ & T% V/ j6 v3 g9 Y, zI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ' J) U) A! O2 x: j/ m( }# g我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ! }) u( b) p1 l1 K% II have called someone because I want to tell them something. * }0 u! h% t- N6 Y! d我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。7 i" W. b% E/ x2 v
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.- Y1 [( I3 f$ I0 I% D
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 & v+ T* ~+ ~8 V; cWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.6 E8 a: @: P8 h# t1 r
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。$ t) p+ ?) R/ K
That's a memory problem.$ |* F2 X! `: h* }% z3 T
这是一个记忆问题。 2 g; M- X' Q: J8 k# WI guess that counts too. , [ N) K/ \0 g: U+ F' G我想那很重要。. V! M7 `8 [+ r% ?% t6 {
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? / s% `6 m9 P( ^# J但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ( l0 h, j0 N7 U; `3 P4 yAt one point, there was a reason we do something. , g6 Y% g; x+ D9 Z- y2 f$ u8 S+ y5 E0 i在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。$ U* i' n& b& q* S Y# f
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.% [. P) T4 M# ~1 S
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 + u' h: o: y' h1 N+ Y) h( l/ yIt's always could to ask ourselves why. * z. W( R; s8 `1 R+ n: ]1 X7 j总是可以问问自己为什么。; N) S0 ~4 l2 e+ [1 ~7 Z. ^7 k
Why did I start to learn a language? 5 t, {+ P; G9 X& E/ C为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 1 e y" O8 }& p1 b: ?: w _6 P" u3 ZWhy did I join this club? : }3 m# P- K! I& v为什么我加入这个俱乐部？/ V: Q8 V: @! W* u, ~5 Q7 }/ P0 I
Why my friend was this person?/ n& b; L8 Q2 I0 m8 @1 @
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 5 L8 J9 p9 K3 K( KWhy did I get married?1 _8 [. E( _( l5 a. j T6 h0 i
为什么我要结婚？ 1 _1 l. h6 @4 m! F& PIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 4 Q {; S& c- B; P+ v. W如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。( H: K' Y5 z, D. ]1 o
I think we need indeed remind us of why. . O" g/ t7 g6 {+ g9 W我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。% q* L6 A$ N A+ a$ r( K
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.. J6 y& i4 B, j h8 d1 v' Y
否则很难完成我们所开始的。1 U p" |: X! h# |) M
We stop starting. We quit the club.8 L( @* A4 j6 J) c
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。1 x6 I' }/ ~0 z* K
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.9 Q1 v% H/ d X6 K) F
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ' b; L/ b' o. m `There's nothing wrong with asking why. $ R5 R. b5 a. J7 K& B3 X3 x问为什么没什么问题。- z; J/ k3 E/ w+ j9 p0 h
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.* q G2 X& w% C8 m. ]
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。0 E( a6 B! E; Z. O7 ~( S# k0 y5 _% G
Talk about it.. x( A; @1 P! H# d
谈论下面的话题： 9 `& k( \0 }4 C; BIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?) M- { A* s4 t! e2 L
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？* l7 @% [( j8 n# m; w* n, Q
Is it a kind of distant memory? & q# m) D5 p* ^* {; Z7 Q它是一种遥远的记忆？" \# g/ J7 ^) t$ Y" R& j; @
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... , E' j( @) w1 X" i/ z5 K( G1 {你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… : f4 T; v) ^0 _# g3 KHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?& l! b, U: n9 D1 m2 j* Z8 i& O
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？% V3 A# Y' ?7 x5 M& N9 g
Do you write memos? m6 J1 q `9 h9 G你写备忘录吗？ * d; ^/ b: S& H# Z+ e7 oDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 1 C+ ?1 }! l2 m6 b8 S" X你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ : y1 O8 p& M# B- g* h! lWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?2 ?9 t. h- O0 }3 F8 a
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？$ A: Z. G2 Y. |# ~7 T9 a
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ( j7 o! ~% d r9 M( b你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？