标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something7 s% g! g/ f' ]; C F; p& K
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记住我们为什么做某事 6 [9 x! ~) u5 u2 ~% F3 k rSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. , `4 n9 q% d; D9 h w! G有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。# b4 _ ?* [' q# O. X+ I
Have you ever done that?, x) T. X& y! o
你曾有过这种经历吗？# C& K: O; F1 x$ p: Q
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. " A& k2 f( M$ ], x' n. y' O我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 * z& z! Z( _* w! c2 ~7 }; u& S, ]I have called someone because I want to tell them something. ( H9 \0 W% K' N1 L+ Q; V我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。& m% d9 J9 n- e% u3 S4 x
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 5 U( @3 t/ n1 H% V1 m3 { ~然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。" k* b$ l! a0 E. q$ ]# P
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.% Y2 n2 I! B: {1 Q2 V. v! x: f+ m
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 " }: ?) t' D- i, CThat's a memory problem.2 U" Y+ K8 |- _: e
这是一个记忆问题。 " s2 {0 i) P# Z0 Y1 xI guess that counts too. 8 E2 J2 m& h' r: X, w/ }我想那很重要。" S- y- ]. ~1 {# u( q8 F1 u/ m
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ' J, J6 p8 B+ T但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？1 p1 p5 `5 E- t9 U
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 4 l4 D+ ]- X6 c/ ^在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 p$ f% P$ q/ V3 j9 U7 LFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 2 Q3 x' D) l; {1 n对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。+ m8 c; e- h0 {) L. m
It's always could to ask ourselves why. p* V7 M4 J: {4 D; P: D* N6 Z
总是可以问问自己为什么。 + l2 @0 N, B) n; s7 wWhy did I start to learn a language?5 U. ^! L. o+ U& |0 A9 a/ m1 b
为什么我开始学习一种语言？* m6 j# s% S# I* n
Why did I join this club? - a0 [; j- }& `( E3 O为什么我加入这个俱乐部？8 _" z1 M" n( j! q; r8 ~
Why my friend was this person? 2 C" l9 u" k' |- q为什么我的朋友是这个人？5 R" ~! q4 o# `7 c2 I; B/ K3 I
Why did I get married? ( f5 R1 s" h* ~. u' g. a; E为什么我要结婚？ . I: Z& y, h$ D* N, {If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.& a! u4 G+ l* X4 E
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。/ g9 p0 T0 a6 H! t4 g* Y
I think we need indeed remind us of why.+ W0 r0 R; R8 s g" t; `* p/ `- i
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。: s+ S5 F, P& [+ S0 k' z
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. $ S# N' O4 k& |# {' Y$ H1 _否则很难完成我们所开始的。1 F0 F( x2 J0 T5 o l
We stop starting. We quit the club. 2 u3 T& g4 B r4 N我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。0 \7 B9 l/ _& @( j2 W U) E/ I) ?: K
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 3 G5 o$ d e1 A& }# e0 J我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。- z. q) m( p3 Q2 V- S, D8 B0 F
There's nothing wrong with asking why.4 K& {/ X2 ^4 j! z. q
问为什么没什么问题。 , E# \7 N/ A0 E: sIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.2 Q# Z0 ~/ w) J( s& \, k( R) [
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 3 B: e% P% v8 A6 I+ pTalk about it.. k# m+ |- C: t2 ~! o, z
谈论下面的话题：+ M# q+ t4 ~3 g/ `; j% J
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?" X! G W6 w& u$ X7 N: C% U
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ & L1 }: i4 ^6 J6 O, Z+ K* K8 p) KIs it a kind of distant memory? * e9 e h5 W9 Q7 b% s它是一种遥远的记忆？ ' D7 I" ^+ f o9 {3 eDid you ever forget why you are doing something...$ a: D. S9 F" N" E
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 0 l% t5 p5 E& c4 L HHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?) t4 \( L3 Q4 I
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 1 ^7 p" P2 n+ E5 tDo you write memos? ' u$ [: ]& D4 J; t你写备忘录吗？ 1 A% i f) o* f8 dDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 3 ^5 V, ^' \% b/ A1 a7 r" D你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？1 N, ~0 Y5 }& A
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? % N% r5 [ g' ~6 \还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 0 n1 J6 i$ O# D( ^, V2 ~What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?3 O! [( U7 `0 v9 J" t' _
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？