标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something + t% h# [: _ }# L' }$ `0 }: X9 {% M5 n/ G5 b8 z, p; q
记住我们为什么做某事 1 M8 y: v/ e. O) fSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.7 V' z L- p; h% w# X
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。* f' A8 T/ @2 s- G8 N4 g, O2 L
Have you ever done that? ' ?& e- X% O [' O( M! V! ]你曾有过这种经历吗？ ; K& N+ Q& e+ [ v3 v; ~I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.' B# P0 U0 K) r
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。8 z' i5 p- u! ]7 W4 d
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.6 v% o/ J3 K/ c. `! [
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 * e. t6 `1 o( f+ L0 b, i/ }And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.( n: d5 S5 Q, _9 d
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。6 U. t& V* k; b/ \% q
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 0 z* m4 \+ e7 n! H' k. z哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。- a/ o* [- U" g! {3 k$ k; ~' H
That's a memory problem.+ t8 b0 W* \; L, b/ e% b
这是一个记忆问题。 % u# s0 k2 G& o/ X- I, N% T4 NI guess that counts too. ( q- W1 v0 p" D' x. \$ O: R我想那很重要。 . A; Q: h' a- e% e+ B% gBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?' w( Q% K6 _) L1 G* n1 n: ^
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？% O( y4 |2 K+ t3 X+ ]$ W
At one point, there was a reason we do something.. |& ~) f. q1 @) k
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。! M3 F4 C$ q) ?, F
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. : M. z0 |, i0 C+ A* \5 ?" g对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 4 Y; Z2 h* R4 x' e$ TIt's always could to ask ourselves why.7 M& j+ ~, h1 R5 m" ]/ K) j
总是可以问问自己为什么。* r# a: ?7 k) e9 p' O' F+ k ~
Why did I start to learn a language? ( f- K+ C* Z4 `6 D. d为什么我开始学习一种语言？ & b6 J% b( h1 s7 W# I% k4 aWhy did I join this club?& ~% s$ t4 U% ] Z
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 7 E+ F" {4 |. h I9 s8 _3 EWhy my friend was this person?& i, [4 W4 \( H' ^5 v
为什么我的朋友是这个人？) F% G, O: g* m0 p
Why did I get married? , [) n) e9 {; ~1 W1 I- e2 e为什么我要结婚？ ) O0 m" P! m0 M2 e$ d; J+ k2 o1 tIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.6 o; X# E9 U* R( }$ d
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。# S6 V$ ]& j" Z
I think we need indeed remind us of why.% W" ^" k: [$ a& G# Z! [
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 # z& k$ l5 Q& M9 C! GOr else it's tough to finish what we started. " }9 I6 f; y, Y9 q6 {1 ^+ f: S$ g% Y否则很难完成我们所开始的。. t6 m% ~' `3 o# o& D, S
We stop starting. We quit the club. 4 ~) R8 j# @0 M我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 / w) U1 M/ ?9 [+ r4 d! u o3 RWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. E- _* R# ^- C X, p2 }: U1 E
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。) d# a( r: [' P4 v4 N4 W+ {) W3 ?
There's nothing wrong with asking why.0 ~( v- u/ A+ Y/ ]# N# u
问为什么没什么问题。; ]( p8 q6 m8 F
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 6 e1 t, Z/ f, y( a事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 ( ^( H: {( b- D% v0 GTalk about it. 9 z. A% Z& Y6 ]. P c' a6 N" S5 M h9 v谈论下面的话题：7 [4 ]2 o( L7 ~ T* K$ D
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?6 X. w6 m- W9 M7 D6 {
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？' S5 K. u9 v* Z: o& S' ^; t
Is it a kind of distant memory? 5 U- k- r/ V! U2 [) v' O( B它是一种遥远的记忆？6 n% f: w/ B, \" z! l
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 6 p' Z5 L. _. b n你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……- V: F1 S+ I7 V$ b
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 4 }) r1 z6 ]7 D* h你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 7 E0 E5 Q- l" m. u. XDo you write memos? # e; S- [! f8 }你写备忘录吗？4 c+ N" I7 u3 M% N& C0 O. [ ?
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? + c5 i/ w% C6 S7 g, X% }2 a你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？) {" m! a6 y# x( Q! _! ]! R
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?% `: J& H5 T4 y' }
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？6 O Q: E x" K5 q# W! H* _
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?) ~2 s1 [- w4 w6 z& R n( T6 W6 w$ _
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？