标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 6 f1 ^" Y4 l5 M 1 ]* l* m( A8 L% y6 c7 S `8 q6 x! i记住我们为什么做某事 ! z, d4 ?( w, {0 JSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.2 J" b* @: |. |& E6 g4 M8 {' @
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 5 A3 Y" |0 X1 G4 ^Have you ever done that? 3 v6 O: O1 r7 b7 Q, Y$ v* P; {1 }$ e你曾有过这种经历吗？$ ~" j! v* s" P! {' d* Z7 @
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.% Y9 Y6 H( d5 w0 R9 A, J" ?
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。+ M1 n4 y$ i- f, @4 h$ [5 N
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. ' Y2 ?* A3 C- B我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。3 Y- f+ Y: d! u4 ~0 {- \( `
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 3 l' N4 N. ~- T$ n8 I然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 / F" x2 Q. e% z. oWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 6 o( z: q# F! ?# R+ e! {: s7 S4 v哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 / G: K5 J: ~3 {* Z, Q7 ?That's a memory problem. ( y( }" Q! z+ u: E# P7 M' \这是一个记忆问题。2 e5 O2 ~1 h* o' n" B& v4 b
I guess that counts too.0 e) U- \4 U5 n8 q1 W; y9 M7 }
我想那很重要。- |; h+ C/ f" [% P
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? , z2 R: Q' r9 Y G但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？7 N. T3 S/ B7 U2 ~( O( \) J) j6 K
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 4 ]) `- `' t7 J# k0 @9 ^在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 . c. Y- A! N) R3 Z( PFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.' \; n. Y; S8 L8 [+ V7 D
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。8 z% ^0 _1 W- c; z. E/ W5 d9 n
It's always could to ask ourselves why.; V5 e) V9 X6 v6 h+ K- ?. t. W I4 n
总是可以问问自己为什么。 / X @) _7 O# A/ i% u: iWhy did I start to learn a language?) X6 ]8 s8 x2 z* f
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 4 T8 E# w0 M% S9 C9 B4 {Why did I join this club? 3 m" ~7 i2 g0 B为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ . u# {: s. E+ G8 |$ ]- Q, xWhy my friend was this person? 0 _/ T9 a) D( m2 b! u为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ~: d u0 Y/ ?
Why did I get married? 7 I! j7 m/ q5 n" [ J5 l为什么我要结婚？. S7 A8 ` M0 A/ R" C
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.* Y2 x- x t7 ]2 d) i
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。, f& s4 G$ ^" n+ T) \6 x
I think we need indeed remind us of why.) {3 D2 m+ x+ h7 h7 w
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。& H" O6 Y( B* J" p6 x
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. ; b. T9 {+ n4 J# @否则很难完成我们所开始的。; Y# _/ l% [7 S, _$ m6 \2 ^' Z
We stop starting. We quit the club. & m4 ? @; t4 O9 c我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。2 C& Q! L& f" b# G9 y' N
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged./ L1 e' P3 N7 P* ~/ D6 g
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。9 b& m& [! Q5 t; i' ?
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ' g- p9 U: Y. b问为什么没什么问题。 , n: s( D9 x5 u' R, H5 LIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 7 ] F) A f4 S" u; v" C4 m3 x7 b& G事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。/ a7 e' b( O7 `, g) a& I' r. q, y& P
Talk about it. 7 [& s# F3 Y) \+ e, ^谈论下面的话题：/ D4 n' V1 o, p/ v1 Z. N: U' [
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?! }* D' {! d. d+ [1 D5 u
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 3 b. K1 b9 }& K5 ~2 s k" J8 bIs it a kind of distant memory?+ P' O9 P1 S& j9 ? z5 t6 i
它是一种遥远的记忆？0 _1 B" {) @- t7 i" P
Did you ever forget why you are doing something.... _% W4 u. I$ \! V7 D
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……. u7 E! J3 I) u. L. i& x, Z
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?" n2 t7 D) G! }, Y1 e2 y
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？4 x! A9 ?0 e8 A7 U: c
Do you write memos? 3 t0 y0 _3 I% @2 i; ^ k P: x你写备忘录吗？* U1 L9 P: O( |1 [6 B/ z
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?6 x. k/ s1 o5 G) R4 |+ @. l
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？! b: ~" x, _0 X' H
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?' c4 O5 Q" {. [* V5 {1 Z* U
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ % t" |) _' k0 a! L EWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? # \% O: f6 g# [1 t+ b1 ^ j你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？