标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something& v0 N- {4 [& x
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记住我们为什么做某事8 e1 c6 i* ~+ O" Y' H' C
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. : i* V5 E$ d# B) }有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 / N) m; s' j1 h0 k& E0 O lHave you ever done that?6 D1 D& P: J |
你曾有过这种经历吗？0 A- ~: C" G. R* _" K' j! u
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. - v. g! i) l) e* U我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 8 v& d- N8 t3 R) Q6 o- B, HI have called someone because I want to tell them something.5 d" v$ M/ ^0 D P7 k% C% J
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。" ?5 {: i6 }5 n" ?! c2 D
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 2 R, `4 y' I+ d* ` P. r然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 # R+ Y9 \4 G1 Y2 p4 F. u, jWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.% a/ _1 h5 U1 O9 f5 B
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。/ N0 e7 [% q- I& f1 `
That's a memory problem.2 ]6 p+ k9 O! M4 x! j7 m% k: p4 R; h
这是一个记忆问题。 / S' A; u1 b* r! g& aI guess that counts too.: k; A# u2 x9 [/ g I! U9 z
我想那很重要。7 k+ ?) O8 H# ?
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?( Q7 C) V9 K8 z) L4 D! V0 }# _
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？: g8 T4 Z+ y7 {) n* {
At one point, there was a reason we do something.1 ?9 Z* O X. s1 c& c
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 6 E2 J$ U5 |/ g' ?! _For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 5 E+ p( Y+ T! V; j2 w- R对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 1 b! r! Q. u/ E: f6 KIt's always could to ask ourselves why. % b+ \/ V# S7 h) a/ i; A, z; {# g总是可以问问自己为什么。) d& g. X" e* J9 l: i% E0 r+ ^
Why did I start to learn a language?. f! N0 L9 i4 J. K" U* G
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 2 n ]7 M- Y" }& OWhy did I join this club? * w: c7 M! F' c6 v& j为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ - N5 I4 @2 ?* w$ H" ZWhy my friend was this person?' `+ K6 J% c/ }. Y
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 6 ~" M% T: A. H. |2 j) {Why did I get married? - F+ P9 U9 N: J+ t9 g+ U. B8 N为什么我要结婚？ % N3 X ]. d6 UIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. + m: m1 J3 w# T' K如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。3 M- i- y4 t7 a6 s* X
I think we need indeed remind us of why.6 I C) u1 X; |; `: g
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 % ]3 ?5 [8 Q$ D+ Q) i, q# k& ^Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 9 J# h9 k' f3 x6 u4 H9 L否则很难完成我们所开始的。: x( `( V% g Z1 s$ a
We stop starting. We quit the club. . a; a7 P7 F) @9 l我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。, r+ r( ?/ G% {& ]
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.) o8 V. i- [9 x, @/ J
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。. E0 M, E+ w; p" }; m
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ?+ P2 p- Y R& Z' R
问为什么没什么问题。, r' T& l$ Y! g! S4 c) T
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. : Y) M4 B. g/ R {7 V3 \事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。' J* i) x8 u7 b% d
Talk about it. 4 r+ g1 B% }$ D$ h4 { a" c- j谈论下面的话题：3 ^; m8 ^* g: A' d% F3 f
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?* F9 {7 B. R* t" X0 c: a
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ; [1 L2 V4 M; G8 IIs it a kind of distant memory?8 }( s) U) f* A( b4 S
它是一种遥远的记忆？ : s- f, e( b) R6 {Did you ever forget why you are doing something...* `. H- e* \& e9 a6 s
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……/ P' f1 W: f, Q
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?* ~% X, X6 a; R& w8 a) s. K
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ + s9 i0 O% Z0 [* ~Do you write memos?. X: O( }8 r, V/ ]! W
你写备忘录吗？ % p. c+ U2 S, V# zDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?) q& i$ L" A- T
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？! J# I* \+ c6 M7 h) q6 |6 B
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ! W, e0 q1 {# `7 i3 S/ N还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？- J; V$ a. u" a7 N. |
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 1 x1 E) C( u) c$ a. x你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？