标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something % u7 i9 W! J5 L0 t$ s z+ D, j9 p1 u# _+ e2 h6 x& A
记住我们为什么做某事 3 A4 W3 _3 V% Q; gSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 2 w8 s& s0 l/ \* w有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 : S- I) ?- h, B" b; L" i8 |Have you ever done that?& G# S$ {8 ]4 |( u! m
你曾有过这种经历吗？* c0 f9 P5 w6 F* W
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. o& p; {& x1 M" m w: _我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。% P, S2 [; s) N* L
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. " k5 z: p j! D) Z' u6 v6 k我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 v* s" I, s' m: B" r1 l: W
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ; o3 L. n4 Q% a* I+ I6 ?: K5 Z7 O; C然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ) e; D+ I9 _; o; [Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 8 ?+ Y: H- K- [( R5 Z2 m% H/ W3 a1 v哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 9 X4 v- ~) @& qThat's a memory problem. 5 D1 T- f2 q; C- r6 a这是一个记忆问题。7 R& c! b. k u( C5 [, W
I guess that counts too. + k6 `7 {+ ]: S( J) ]3 B1 j: Z4 y我想那很重要。+ @% B* H# h% H$ i& m4 l
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? * y9 i, L: v; v' H& i但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 3 Y1 ~9 h- ~' i. e# g" v2 QAt one point, there was a reason we do something. ' S; h2 [* t6 J. x# J4 e0 I在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 1 h) J1 T9 N- n/ n. N) F/ D- EFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.3 `4 V) {! K8 e5 X! M
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。0 J- G5 h* Y; v: ?9 ^# w. z! K/ v
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 0 z2 {1 R1 }$ K5 l" N# U* I总是可以问问自己为什么。 & a) u# S* N; B! p4 W+ yWhy did I start to learn a language?1 Y; i( Q" X/ R0 d7 h) n
为什么我开始学习一种语言？# v! Z, l |1 u) M' Z
Why did I join this club? 8 O0 ]1 q7 \/ Y B" |* I8 E为什么我加入这个俱乐部？5 i X# e t) _3 }8 j' @
Why my friend was this person?/ U- J( V2 Z, O7 b: ]; ~& R
为什么我的朋友是这个人？8 x1 {6 a9 g7 v! g
Why did I get married?2 _) \1 Q/ T1 J9 B- M3 i
为什么我要结婚？ 7 k9 c; W* B+ [9 @; OIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why./ U* ^) G6 b: q' k) l
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 7 P! X2 l7 ?5 V( v" d4 O- A9 W' jI think we need indeed remind us of why.! {; v4 W* u) F3 p' u
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。% U8 Q- j+ N" ~* d/ ?
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. ( E7 P& K3 \ u2 F2 |; ~否则很难完成我们所开始的。; t) I' T) C3 p3 V5 A% A; A7 q
We stop starting. We quit the club. i4 s* T. @1 x; {# b我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。- ]& A6 k i) e* V
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. , j; y6 j: n' `# I3 l+ {: d我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 # j! G- ]+ J% h% V. ?: EThere's nothing wrong with asking why. ) j3 U" j9 ]- T& E9 v' L问为什么没什么问题。9 i5 [ b* q/ R* I0 A; D; ~& g6 w
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. / D# F. C+ v; F' i2 X1 t事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 8 U7 l! b! w: b; v: r. ITalk about it.- \, t0 s7 {3 K; x
谈论下面的话题： 7 _% H1 q- r, C' j8 T0 A4 @9 cIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?; d" F$ s8 a8 Z J1 M) ~
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？2 @# u) u) ?/ B! ]3 @
Is it a kind of distant memory?6 }2 Z1 A# F0 Y1 U, w# R
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 8 t x4 {# o4 J N% {$ q. b/ A! DDid you ever forget why you are doing something...! z; g+ {3 a+ [3 N* |
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… : f8 B0 V* f/ | V" ~. G5 _How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 2 ~5 h2 [& N( a r/ I: T$ w" K你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？6 R% T) C5 e9 @ V
Do you write memos?( o2 r7 j5 W: ?% {/ G
你写备忘录吗？! S3 Q- O, J3 [/ n+ n' c& G! A# D( H
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 9 w; \7 D. T* D1 `2 V$ Z你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？7 n- B' {+ m! c) c8 N( v
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ) w. P# x8 J8 z2 Q, W1 y还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？6 ?! J( I3 }* k7 z6 T. e" [
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? , V9 o$ `. |& ^. t$ g, N/ l' x& r/ Z你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？