标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something0 o& u0 c: d: Q2 U& I: h8 r
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记住我们为什么做某事 # a2 v+ f% A( x; L! S* ~ k% v# ^Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. $ b ^3 M( A( K {1 A# W有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。$ I/ g% m0 m/ D) Y Q, P
Have you ever done that?. ]; [2 l. _: U2 t! n2 C+ [
你曾有过这种经历吗？2 c& v+ e3 i$ a2 j6 W
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.: l# J( w- X9 U* [: p' L& z
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。. T, S c+ I1 C8 @+ Q4 [" J
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.9 i) _7 e# _# T, ], \
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。2 H; Q" s3 c$ s# P' {( s
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.1 @/ M9 e. Y C" D0 Z
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。: Z, O3 W2 R8 ?/ i
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.7 C1 _7 I4 O! W9 N+ e1 H
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。$ R% M( w( S L1 Z, r: H
That's a memory problem. 6 x( P$ S" F! x- T+ J1 L( T这是一个记忆问题。 - J! g8 b- s w1 ^I guess that counts too. , d$ k8 j N6 v6 J/ W7 n我想那很重要。 3 P: M1 L# e7 B! R3 }, \8 N$ lBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?6 ?) X$ N1 B( H' Y3 {
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ) [3 H/ S" f$ R% j1 A5 PAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 3 r" d* J! q, ~4 n- M, e6 c在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。& S h ]& p2 s# g; ~9 ]
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.- [/ D, c2 _$ a, v
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。- E+ s, S8 `1 `5 w# {% J7 N
It's always could to ask ourselves why.% d$ x5 J+ J! i- v! r/ S
总是可以问问自己为什么。! s0 n- n4 D, x K
Why did I start to learn a language? / Q+ n3 ?' C6 x, H% B为什么我开始学习一种语言？: G! l$ z( `& V/ g& j
Why did I join this club?% R ~% t* v) [7 ^1 _' b5 r
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ; W) W, E" M$ @9 |Why my friend was this person? ) [) o& p& z. N. x" S9 z% e; Q为什么我的朋友是这个人？ H8 N1 y2 \; s: }( c8 G2 @
Why did I get married? 3 x9 |' T8 ~: Y1 p3 a$ Q为什么我要结婚？ % \: U) W5 o+ B; ]9 ?8 Y" NIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.( U% U7 e7 ^( z4 {% I9 e/ I& b
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。) {( D& ~$ m" Z9 k
I think we need indeed remind us of why. ( e. C3 w0 j( U, _) D. m我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 0 n$ q. j* U' Z r6 oOr else it's tough to finish what we started.( N) |2 c! A& R2 }1 d& Q- v3 ?
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 , @# f1 t. g, V/ Y- P( rWe stop starting. We quit the club.- r& C: x4 [6 q+ A6 U
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ' ^4 A, z* ^4 c1 w& x5 v: @We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.: h$ |: K: G9 U/ R- w
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 9 O) r" s. J" q! r7 ?# u! GThere's nothing wrong with asking why.# X0 {/ a2 Z' E ~4 x6 v1 \) a
问为什么没什么问题。7 G9 |: n0 ]( |3 K$ S5 C5 {
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. - I3 G; A7 l, k4 T9 {事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 5 B B1 h5 }. b5 UTalk about it.# e2 `! M0 t1 F, G3 K" V0 m
谈论下面的话题：! k7 S; r7 E8 A2 ^
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?" N2 i4 C- W2 a: F1 A. X
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ * s, h# Q6 A4 U! V9 xIs it a kind of distant memory? ) t i4 D! q5 P2 X它是一种遥远的记忆？ + r, P( {2 e' vDid you ever forget why you are doing something... $ k) |9 X s1 }( N$ a' G: D/ ~0 ]你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……8 ^9 f( z; j) J
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?0 p2 r" Z& l) s% O
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ M* B4 u Z" N+ G; b8 fDo you write memos? 6 n* |& u+ S3 Q* B) Q# G你写备忘录吗？5 z, a6 T6 k6 T# Z, b
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? r5 H1 k# y! z; y: i& j
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？$ i8 m. Q. ^- O- H
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 1 C( h- n9 O+ Q7 v还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ * X, \- G; M/ E0 D: M+ pWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?0 u( A& g2 V, Q( v+ k
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？