标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something + u _" U% k. M2 e1 n0 o6 d# w; \" y' |" B: B! e2 m
记住我们为什么做某事 ) \5 K: n) B: t" h7 _( Q! z r# I3 }Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 6 Y2 v; Y6 C! l) b+ ~6 H/ P有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 & q) {5 e& S) n; k; W* d9 RHave you ever done that?7 g! F% W/ k* s- y5 h
你曾有过这种经历吗？ : \' ^$ W) i' x4 E/ DI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ) X1 a+ ?6 A1 D' u我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 & k! x! T2 A* _9 [ e MI have called someone because I want to tell them something. $ H$ E( M5 Z( j" d V我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。) a- Q( d: w" `& E" l$ Z" @
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 5 f+ E4 g7 Q, }( z% y然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。' }" H/ I( z/ L- o: s8 c
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.9 L- I' \& K3 C# a* [
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 + j) p9 \( ^$ |5 \- W1 JThat's a memory problem.6 O! T6 H- t7 B6 j4 t9 g; {
这是一个记忆问题。/ N( T! i' Y. b2 y
I guess that counts too. 0 `) l+ x- W5 ~0 T我想那很重要。- c: V H- Z/ a6 |# t
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?: o) N2 f: x! P( G( z* c
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？" G1 p/ B5 O/ e; ^1 d9 n9 ?
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 2 i) a- x; F" N" c在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。, K7 l. j( }9 p. L
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 7 w) f4 Y) H1 u1 u4 D6 I4 w( m对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。+ ~4 n& H( ~$ Y2 o: w- N
It's always could to ask ourselves why.2 X# Q1 [" o$ P
总是可以问问自己为什么。 " ^1 }! y( \# W! X+ a# d$ y5 PWhy did I start to learn a language? . W. G! b3 A9 M为什么我开始学习一种语言？! E4 v. J4 B* P8 ]) [% t
Why did I join this club? ' Y3 a# b' Z# Y3 u2 M5 o" i, {5 U为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 2 Z- a. Z8 r! W- ?9 Q) BWhy my friend was this person? ; [' U Y4 [1 K7 q2 x" ]& h2 ^+ j为什么我的朋友是这个人？1 k- E- O$ l( n+ S
Why did I get married?; u: r- c) ~$ H. k
为什么我要结婚？ 8 T4 ~: l4 q7 k& SIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. ) Q' K+ D7 [4 ?如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。- V( E0 C' W5 B# C. D
I think we need indeed remind us of why.. m7 |' @1 ^4 q. f$ y* R# s
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 # t0 \, ]9 B- @$ ROr else it's tough to finish what we started.5 W0 f$ G/ [, X, w" _4 g: W
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 : ~* s4 }: v! T1 f* F3 YWe stop starting. We quit the club.! W) g( ~" m b
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。( t0 T8 ^& G) _2 b) x! @
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. , b: i$ a' l/ l$ r; g$ \我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ! z/ r2 |* \" k8 N. @There's nothing wrong with asking why. 2 l! P) I/ [7 P R. K9 d# s& p问为什么没什么问题。 6 L# }7 ~: f1 i5 X0 F0 s- iIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. + D# Z6 q, U- s( z事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。, H3 | P1 F6 a/ ~+ {! {
Talk about it. 2 C+ L4 s' E5 w- s S谈论下面的话题：# d1 {+ t( \1 S6 f0 T# Q6 Z) P
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? , {1 `0 o: Z& C2 K% u1 e+ Q你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 1 D$ t( J& K% cIs it a kind of distant memory?3 L: ~. D( P! N4 b# p- B8 ]
它是一种遥远的记忆？/ w6 M: D( h# f5 g' |- {& N
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 7 Y' s% f# x% n W( k) r你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 0 n7 y d: j% L0 f( `How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?, W. d3 G, U8 k
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？' [2 Y3 ~, e6 j7 `# P
Do you write memos?5 D0 v# e. v. K' X4 {% O, f
你写备忘录吗？0 X4 ~) g+ x. |' b
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? , u; X4 i. Q* c% I- o2 o4 q7 u你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？8 G1 P" Q4 U7 t0 H2 u% b% I1 Q; Q
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?( r7 {9 V2 b$ @5 Z8 ]6 ^8 @9 X
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 5 C/ J0 a7 w b8 \( N S: PWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? / J" Z. r3 o8 {你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？