标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something7 h9 Q3 o! o3 Q9 |' i
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记住我们为什么做某事; r+ Y# v6 B D# R2 w; W6 z. e
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.2 K5 U2 |6 \' O. }1 J. c9 }
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。4 m, P) K. G* S2 ?( E7 }% {1 _
Have you ever done that? & C; m; U N4 K7 D7 N, |你曾有过这种经历吗？# w7 c0 a* d* w- @
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.9 ~3 ?. ?$ E& W+ W
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 3 T% {4 W5 G& k! ?I have called someone because I want to tell them something.3 ^( V7 x: h( m* D v/ ^
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 $ }0 k+ [( `; n/ }" d% oAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.; S S+ B' ^6 a
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 . Q* g5 R- b4 t3 Y3 v! X1 xWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.: c$ J: I1 T8 n9 b; ^! n
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。3 ^, `! c# X6 \* x+ E. g
That's a memory problem.- l; m( @( d( ^2 ?3 r* I
这是一个记忆问题。( K1 D: U6 i5 V4 x
I guess that counts too.& l: C: J, o9 h
我想那很重要。 0 {/ p8 f9 V. W# V# v( x4 hBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 4 Z& G% P9 e# f- @8 r" Z- d$ R但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 7 Z" h G/ C u8 w# Y. s# _9 gAt one point, there was a reason we do something. ' X" Y* R5 V# a: v5 E在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 7 V* w4 \2 q' }/ qFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.* _2 g4 ]- x- F+ U- u. z( r
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。$ z, {: A* o" |) G- V
It's always could to ask ourselves why.* J9 E3 _8 f6 q8 p2 s& s, z. `
总是可以问问自己为什么。* |; _) I7 H8 N2 A @6 z8 ~
Why did I start to learn a language?, S2 K+ [7 q! z0 F2 ~
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 9 K' k& q2 e& \; PWhy did I join this club?( h1 l) p2 U' u2 @5 Y4 P+ Y
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ " U$ m v8 K$ oWhy my friend was this person? 4 u/ C1 `6 s" I为什么我的朋友是这个人？" T4 F1 z, V% Q) N" h
Why did I get married?7 e; a0 @1 |+ Y$ y0 L4 S% C; ?$ j
为什么我要结婚？ ) J2 [4 C2 n1 Z- C( e: DIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 0 K! ]1 H3 r( M1 N/ `8 |, {7 O: W4 a如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。- k0 w9 i d0 H9 N6 j4 n8 G$ A
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 8 @' v# [- S, _我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 , Z2 S+ y% M4 }: F% m6 R2 OOr else it's tough to finish what we started.8 _' C. a6 j* N6 b# @' f5 V
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 1 e4 } E# v: `( lWe stop starting. We quit the club.7 c) R/ P- \- s9 _
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 5 e7 P4 O4 B& T L1 d) _5 q* JWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 2 d2 p8 o) l# c" X我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。! q" ?- g6 F3 h" A% k
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 0 D8 K" M1 Y3 t# `: U& M6 h问为什么没什么问题。 6 k7 y' U j6 o' X4 JIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing." ~# _* F- S9 g+ Q3 d
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 4 o$ f( i, f$ n1 O" C& FTalk about it. # Y, C" ]8 P/ s6 y" G谈论下面的话题： 4 p& j6 P1 F# h* SIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? S& h2 F. E0 |$ l$ O$ ~0 Y
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？( W" v* q E% H% Z! x
Is it a kind of distant memory?( o# o$ V' ^& y8 G0 k5 {. _, ^
它是一种遥远的记忆？ ( c2 A3 R! f5 i$ KDid you ever forget why you are doing something... 6 A) i3 K! G. ?9 d你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 1 J8 L w9 C3 {) vHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 7 D3 q% G+ E% P4 s4 H5 I) B' s你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？4 h/ n# o* Z y- N' u, P* x
Do you write memos? 0 h# N; c9 R5 ]5 a9 ~8 U5 |你写备忘录吗？ + \- O! R. [# [ ?. wDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? U7 [- |' R6 Q- Q0 O% T你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？) P5 E7 K2 L( d) j7 m" Y: m) h4 T
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?- a, l9 K: [# ]8 e3 ?+ Z
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？# Z- z: t1 ?6 H$ Q2 l6 _; g
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?: A0 c& V# x6 y$ m2 C5 S& G
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？