标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something) q1 p4 o3 w: Z2 }- m
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记住我们为什么做某事 ; e9 n2 o! B( V0 ?1 \( k1 k3 P9 sSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ! @) D# o s# K5 P有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 8 u: @+ `9 k$ O5 Y; J7 Q8 t8 UHave you ever done that?* N8 B" n+ q! A5 r' x$ L
你曾有过这种经历吗？8 j! s2 C) A6 Q' p: g
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 6 z8 O# ]( p0 D5 M' L我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。) O( j. T' s0 V1 l7 G
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.$ G, c& L9 c, D e& _
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。5 t* K* a/ R; n2 D
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.5 x3 f, x: \ m2 O. Y2 U
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 " V7 h4 ?4 i. ?2 YWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 1 o+ _+ ~7 q- j% i: }& J7 k哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 $ ^3 F R. ?8 q2 w" b( EThat's a memory problem. / `# y# |0 d. I' V" I$ J% n+ A这是一个记忆问题。 " Z3 Q+ b! A" l5 r7 z) VI guess that counts too.0 D8 b* M# W g( {% K
我想那很重要。 : Z4 ?- |6 a# \4 L" ABut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?2 Y/ Y( T5 [3 `. B5 E- z. q
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？+ U- I: A" V- _& H, q, E8 s1 W
At one point, there was a reason we do something.0 A" H1 X: D' h7 P. _& C* H
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 % p1 `( d+ b) S, BFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.( d/ i/ K4 p( s% I# D- t; |
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 a M, U5 u. l$ o: q6 k
It's always could to ask ourselves why.6 z; T5 i/ F8 W
总是可以问问自己为什么。 3 q, @! T9 o+ E2 {6 k/ Y# wWhy did I start to learn a language? & u" X6 y! W, _为什么我开始学习一种语言？ : k" ?4 L8 D$ D" i" M( T4 OWhy did I join this club?9 Z) F: J" p5 O, N( u: q
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ * i M5 b; q% |Why my friend was this person? + A: B6 n0 g, w. Y+ T8 h为什么我的朋友是这个人？6 P7 Z* Y2 t5 O( s `
Why did I get married?& T$ {& s; ~# r! l( A$ `
为什么我要结婚？ 5 o! u! E- a( I0 AIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.2 D) Y8 T$ ~2 L0 p" G1 h7 ^! |
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 & b" |) a% ~7 A3 `+ O- AI think we need indeed remind us of why.3 F3 n+ Z" _8 `3 r% d: h
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ; {$ t% A) @- l0 ~. `Or else it's tough to finish what we started.& d8 Y% R! a& a; x0 p
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 4 {+ a) f0 ?' [: A' H7 yWe stop starting. We quit the club.0 [. S7 ]* H6 M7 C: T
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 2 e1 w- s& o H. fWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. - ?4 @2 T `$ a. a我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 0 t4 f2 f- j7 z9 W3 e" L& sThere's nothing wrong with asking why. 6 ~ _' G, i, d& |4 {: R问为什么没什么问题。; N4 ^9 @8 W) \/ f! l
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ( u3 k. ?1 R0 Z3 f6 X; i) b事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。) u4 f) y7 Q/ c% q0 C6 ?
Talk about it./ B5 A3 R4 V5 a; A2 ?7 f5 g( q
谈论下面的话题： 4 E3 l+ Y; z1 b, f3 AIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? . x- z" M4 R" O G' t. t3 }你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？6 `2 J$ X" t! T# S6 O6 r1 `
Is it a kind of distant memory? 5 O0 R6 `+ t& [( ?它是一种遥远的记忆？# a* I# x9 [) C& S
Did you ever forget why you are doing something.... t7 i: B. ~$ h+ ~6 `
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……" z( e! \* E4 a
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?& b, i, e! W4 k& b
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？. N X3 d" b2 D; L1 r# @! G9 O c
Do you write memos?8 w; K; P% F; d$ v
你写备忘录吗？2 F$ r% ~$ h+ p
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ( W9 M8 y) B8 \2 F, o m4 |你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？& n- M- L, b& [" c4 t, u9 m' [1 z# Q
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 4 F7 r. Z$ C& n9 L( |0 A/ ~还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ' ]- X1 n5 h- ?& q- t6 \What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? * y0 ?0 }! l% m$ ~) c. V你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？