标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 2 N4 N) q) \$ N$ a6 G$ N; d( c' ^" H7 E+ c+ g0 O3 N, r
记住我们为什么做某事* ?' \; h2 A) a2 O; f `* M
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.4 a" B) c1 Y* u) ^' D% N: U- E$ z
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 5 c8 l+ q* e' E5 [+ y" V P& \Have you ever done that?, M* l; n, h0 v$ ]" G& m8 T8 g# ]
你曾有过这种经历吗？) K1 Z; m+ f' v: w, n, }% [
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ! Y& c) I! D8 {; G( A我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 2 ?! N- w" k1 g7 A4 cI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 4 h. h# ^; v Y$ Z) a我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ( E: O! n) `8 e( A8 I1 gAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.1 D$ ?- }3 |) Q4 y3 @
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 1 p9 K; e" q8 g6 `) n( F) q" f8 c0 q+ gWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. f- }8 [ I6 ^. q8 O4 \- r" S
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 & E4 Y+ l2 ?4 J& EThat's a memory problem.- d- O2 ~' H* @: I1 j
这是一个记忆问题。' J8 d* z9 K& G
I guess that counts too.# F" d6 d" V8 `/ x
我想那很重要。 ( `: W8 C4 L2 D9 V) a' G5 IBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?, L4 t) I) f& Z }( Q! |
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ; W ?- m7 v' z, L" p5 KAt one point, there was a reason we do something.( ^$ }2 m5 b9 ]$ S5 Z M1 a3 J" h
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。% B8 ~7 o0 g6 V+ O! p8 k
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.2 P9 V# p5 V l' b" B- T% a ~
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 Z, {! [2 s1 G( h$ P& `" KIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 2 M% s& E* Z0 Y5 R2 D5 N总是可以问问自己为什么。' {4 a; q4 I( R, C4 i: \( y
Why did I start to learn a language? 5 B- R* P/ p) ?为什么我开始学习一种语言？' N: b! Z" {, @& i6 k
Why did I join this club? ' Z4 N* i2 K8 F0 v- \! d为什么我加入这个俱乐部？4 ]0 V1 O# w" l3 y$ j
Why my friend was this person? 5 S- H7 I% }, |为什么我的朋友是这个人？ : K# y* A9 [$ l- p% `+ u$ `Why did I get married?, z6 \& V" x. N$ p9 g
为什么我要结婚？ 0 w- s0 H/ s, | u7 N8 j- {, g. o2 w) O: QIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.' J; I" V; M/ s l' G3 [- F
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。* {' S4 W& R% o% i! O
I think we need indeed remind us of why.% `% l2 q4 x- h9 Z
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 % S( w: k, o) M+ @Or else it's tough to finish what we started.+ v, J: c5 T& p
否则很难完成我们所开始的。# H0 [1 z0 y, E5 q- z2 E+ w
We stop starting. We quit the club. ; t& h7 d) J4 I我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。$ H6 j+ V! w9 j% t
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.2 L" l9 `$ j7 t7 F* s
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。6 P7 H, f3 [" C
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 2 U% P7 p; ^' K问为什么没什么问题。 / q9 e R5 C ? uIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. % W" V0 W! @7 ^# u( ?! v v+ N事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。, a8 q+ K1 o( B
Talk about it.1 q* ~ P0 p3 K" U8 m3 r
谈论下面的话题： 7 Y+ X+ A/ R/ B5 n' Z' qIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?( k/ X& O5 Y+ k( I8 I
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ $ x9 R/ H2 o5 Y7 I' A" C, LIs it a kind of distant memory? 7 j; ^" @3 N+ q3 h( A0 g5 i它是一种遥远的记忆？ 0 |- I" T: [' \1 q0 _, H ]3 [& MDid you ever forget why you are doing something... ; d. J3 Z5 D5 I你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 9 e$ u9 o) f" Y7 z1 CHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?" {, ?, n/ O: T/ h1 O+ K
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？- N4 n! k8 n: I+ k& F5 g5 d+ Y
Do you write memos? ( E& J! Q0 j S- O4 Z你写备忘录吗？ 8 Z( L' N% Y; O! Q8 {) f3 i+ F! SDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?0 h2 i/ X7 K( M* O% q; y' h+ W
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？2 B; f% O" H* l+ c* {: _' z) i
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?7 t8 @: |8 c$ C/ W
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 8 h& `3 h9 L3 rWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?" ^7 l+ Y/ S! e# [8 Z
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？