标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something1 P! V% ~ Y- S3 d
4 U: j9 L, z/ z1 y3 n记住我们为什么做某事' ?8 r5 W/ Q# V- v
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ' W5 \+ r& A5 [& ]有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 6 |- {9 |; C2 s9 }* ?; mHave you ever done that?) D- |5 w; Z( \4 l% p. k! s
你曾有过这种经历吗？ ( _6 c" r j# Y3 s9 w! KI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too." W' D0 w0 t/ ^; U
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。" g0 y$ x. m1 ~ _8 L* W- R8 x
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.3 m$ {6 ?3 T b& q9 g* @ Q
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ' d( C; p; z8 Z3 kAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.1 J. a1 ~. w$ X5 e
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。, P; r1 X" l( |
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 5 J; T j4 j/ C$ A哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。* {" m2 Y6 w3 H7 u }6 Y
That's a memory problem. " s3 g8 V: J2 ?7 L; q这是一个记忆问题。 . D% h$ Z. F, D, {" h7 x \ jI guess that counts too. + z7 z. e9 W$ W g* j我想那很重要。 E: `. |+ E- v( u! hBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?, O4 L, |2 w, ] e7 G; I
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ $ T0 @( f" u5 p& T' cAt one point, there was a reason we do something. / W: q$ Y) k/ J& @) R% ^在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ) s% O+ l: d4 x4 Y0 W4 d0 d3 j2 qFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.# b! j$ t0 U# {* O, ~& p
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。7 F S2 b1 ~: X* @9 q. r* B
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 4 O4 c% o8 _2 Z5 D总是可以问问自己为什么。 ) h; ]' L6 i3 {/ y. X- k: rWhy did I start to learn a language? n I) [. g' Z& O5 m0 J% i为什么我开始学习一种语言？ % _1 Z+ M& x# h$ ]4 @& KWhy did I join this club? & X" e6 O' N9 u: |为什么我加入这个俱乐部？" g8 F$ z1 ^% N% o. y @7 d
Why my friend was this person?! S. M# G. q3 i/ c' ?5 m
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ : ~5 Z. N# h' W3 ^* O1 w- rWhy did I get married? + m i2 b, [: A为什么我要结婚？2 c' ?; @8 l3 |
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. $ x* b( h2 r# ~& \/ X6 `+ v8 r如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。( q# c/ h( j' s- D# j
I think we need indeed remind us of why. / ~1 }4 a( `- X& @' V4 U! v* n我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。. [ H$ ~0 m* K; \
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.0 b; L$ ]5 }5 `% }7 T: ]3 L
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 * H4 a) A' `5 h. f; D' V* n0 m. ^" d* fWe stop starting. We quit the club. 0 m6 w8 H5 T6 E! Y; w我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。" i0 P8 q; K# m& a- R5 E
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 6 c' W' V) P, R& w8 O1 T4 |我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 0 x" j% ~1 P* U; \; L2 `3 aThere's nothing wrong with asking why. - r! C8 b5 G! {3 L, X1 K, n问为什么没什么问题。! g! q- L1 C" h" _
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. $ j# [; p% |9 b" J3 l2 z& P" w事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。* ^8 H! z: c* Y5 z+ M0 Q3 F. O# m
Talk about it.: D+ p; P1 \& v! a4 L
谈论下面的话题：0 T9 R( b6 L# k' J7 _
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?3 K1 Y# Y+ A: n5 j+ f; z
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ & S) ?$ I) _% ^" a) S! {Is it a kind of distant memory?# j) \; F' ~; \$ K' }0 B7 K3 i
它是一种遥远的记忆？4 b& U9 v- n8 w: V+ W- P8 t+ }2 \2 J
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...6 w/ s" H" o% a
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… * J* n6 y( w) W+ `* pHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 1 |) O* e5 Z+ T& X8 O* K8 r5 x你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？. s5 W# O( h+ a" R
Do you write memos?9 R1 n' y$ q% \; ?& Q- T; D
你写备忘录吗？0 o+ Z7 N/ N! j$ K, q7 {: {4 s
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?$ |- W3 p3 u) P
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？3 Z2 R5 d# b- R& `2 X
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 5 M; g& G$ |0 Y$ t; {还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 8 J7 V. F3 Q7 w" e8 e9 l9 QWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? + H0 l0 J( _2 z. I$ F+ c你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？