标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ; I2 h" X Y1 g2 v l4 M& {, Q* I& @: |
记住我们为什么做某事 ( a5 c4 T4 _! @8 S7 \5 j D: uSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.8 a! W. t; w8 e) Q. T% ?: \6 N
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。* ?- @2 b, c6 u# _$ ^ p( p
Have you ever done that? - a, L4 o, H$ x8 y' w# f o/ d1 ~2 n你曾有过这种经历吗？ , K/ ]! Y7 P# \: ]I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. * s- \8 i; T# @1 ~, C我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。# |4 ~& z, q6 x3 L. x
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. * [% U* n! L) G. T我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 * w" l" ]- T; z5 r: |0 XAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.4 @5 o" T; e8 {$ J' k+ d
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 + X7 ^2 ]' m6 `, \Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.$ c2 F9 O2 L$ D& a* w: o6 u% P
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。+ A) {6 W3 x) ?; ~
That's a memory problem.6 H- u- s! m y" _1 m
这是一个记忆问题。( y% G; o' l6 l: a
I guess that counts too. , [2 X6 Z! K Z& @* D! W% M8 {, k我想那很重要。0 j7 R; B7 X2 N
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?8 f+ |$ w0 C1 M0 L
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ; l& N. S w( P2 ?! z+ fAt one point, there was a reason we do something., x8 p! v3 ?6 e7 _% B1 ]$ j
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。+ j* ~" B9 _' v5 ^' u8 z# `4 W; h! R
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. . A- X* P/ ~/ M; i0 _* L) n) Y ]对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。' S, A) r4 n8 F6 F7 H9 K
It's always could to ask ourselves why.3 S+ R# I) N7 `
总是可以问问自己为什么。 3 ~" \7 F6 t1 V+ P# ZWhy did I start to learn a language? ( }8 k" y3 q2 G0 @为什么我开始学习一种语言？! V7 j1 |+ _! w% f
Why did I join this club? h( ?, e4 {+ J3 E
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？; g7 K m# B$ C5 |3 M, \& |# p
Why my friend was this person?; M! j9 y6 l2 d* Y L+ G* c6 H
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ / S* W- _4 ?0 \" n+ J5 v" }+ w/ R1 ]Why did I get married? $ W. G6 v5 Q8 f; S$ n/ g为什么我要结婚？ 9 `3 K1 q' z* b3 oIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.) [# T0 Q5 R: \2 A! }/ I/ T9 ?
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 R5 B7 u: ]) X5 _7 j# E$ _: J: f
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 9 m, J' G% c# F! W: D4 O. P4 j, E我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 1 a' H$ g: W" _/ I( OOr else it's tough to finish what we started. ! ^0 [0 R! z% k& `否则很难完成我们所开始的。5 g' v& ?, A) W& Z8 _" c" F, A% r7 U
We stop starting. We quit the club.$ ~, H5 }" B V: n, J
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。: a6 m7 q5 M1 A, M
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.# Q8 y* E/ ~7 M% H
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。+ M/ n. W! }6 z% X' s
There's nothing wrong with asking why./ ^+ t$ G: {$ ^- A- C
问为什么没什么问题。 ' R8 c; ?; d# n' I. B. Y/ _In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.6 [3 N' i8 e# Q
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 2 d* h: z& D9 k3 m8 `! p3 B: dTalk about it.& t, h1 J# K5 O
谈论下面的话题： 6 T3 _4 H3 b V8 c; kIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?# U1 a& o# w7 Q7 x/ w$ k ~
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？7 k# N R0 F/ V
Is it a kind of distant memory?7 x5 V* s$ s. g" s
它是一种遥远的记忆？4 P4 ^' v/ ~, V; t& c7 h
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...+ S g, G/ ?4 Z
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……* w7 k, N, p5 V- I2 g8 s: ^
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?/ K" G+ [) r' U0 M; f8 ]$ A
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ * Q. a2 K! m3 r" g* b) x! X9 b5 HDo you write memos? 9 L4 H: h! x5 K# W# N* ~1 q你写备忘录吗？& x) b6 Q5 }$ n, H
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?% q- Q o, f/ T! x L; J# s
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？0 r. I1 U/ r5 j4 h, {
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?# j% o) V+ G8 J- g# [
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 3 _1 I; I8 @$ U) KWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?( e0 W! f$ y! ~: i7 g# w
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？