标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something+ U. X7 w& {8 p) O9 s1 d: A
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记住我们为什么做某事 ! _' J" D, B( S- S+ LSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 5 D5 \) F( W+ J( Z有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 - ]8 D8 _/ `! e3 o" L" pHave you ever done that? ! l' D) Z0 B9 S你曾有过这种经历吗？ ' t- B2 D# ]( y( e0 BI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 1 m1 H! K& t0 d4 `, `我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。% S9 B7 B* C, u
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.6 d/ D; a- ^. U# I5 }4 L
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。8 W7 a: y, d, Z8 [- [6 v
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.4 `5 t+ S7 `8 A, ~8 Y
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 " x5 O# i" ?8 }# c* VWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. & e' n4 a* c6 T& K. i% i哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ; S9 T+ \3 g& D H/ H2 r# nThat's a memory problem. / `$ |) |% F6 g这是一个记忆问题。/ b: M( b: z/ L( L; k* N. |4 J
I guess that counts too.4 B4 c' Y6 N# n# y% @+ w( l
我想那很重要。 7 [! R. @3 k0 L6 cBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?, M6 G# x0 V) X4 a/ B! C
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？: e7 n4 Y. w! _& B8 v' O: e$ Z
At one point, there was a reason we do something. & ]1 j/ E, `% o9 l* x6 t# \2 W4 a1 [8 J在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。& s$ E+ l: @) u; m
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. . \4 }( w n5 G& T" ^对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 8 t6 x9 E8 {" a% z, \# H# ?1 sIt's always could to ask ourselves why. $ v! C8 ?% M2 b! d$ D总是可以问问自己为什么。, I5 d7 y- ^: m
Why did I start to learn a language?# e& S2 B* {$ Z: z( D6 f% P3 Y( k
为什么我开始学习一种语言？: U* J$ A" q& G; l& U; b
Why did I join this club?! L ?# i, n) s+ |
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ) p4 w5 z0 i; B; o: O: H _* k$ ZWhy my friend was this person? 5 F4 B9 V& `* q为什么我的朋友是这个人？ - h2 D0 M1 B7 y9 S6 I! t$ fWhy did I get married?* ] Y/ K2 }- N& b$ p
为什么我要结婚？0 U3 S0 d L. M r2 L4 v
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.' A/ d! _* ^0 a0 J+ `! E; c" q
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 2 E9 s6 b9 d! R+ ~( f2 v sI think we need indeed remind us of why.2 `! F* T* w8 o% ~8 m1 D
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。3 j: o4 i( z/ {# O9 {8 V
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. . o9 v. m+ m* V3 q7 e/ t否则很难完成我们所开始的。 2 {- ], k/ S: V0 T0 k1 i/ |7 uWe stop starting. We quit the club. + y/ O+ K/ S% L8 r$ t' f/ ?我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。; }! s% U* S0 y8 S7 C
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 8 n3 {, j! T" c8 s/ X* p我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ( t1 s' d0 y- C: NThere's nothing wrong with asking why.& h" c6 M8 X `! i4 C0 ?1 t
问为什么没什么问题。 / ^" g; G: b- `* s3 F; H; y: wIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 2 B0 Q; V2 y% _0 d" X, N$ J" ]事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 8 Z( [. \) W7 R0 f# B Z3 i+ STalk about it. 6 v( q3 {1 N# o谈论下面的话题： 5 n0 }5 j# n7 R1 B ?; YIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? & P X" B7 o% ?8 _! I; d& [( z9 l }你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？/ I4 B7 J( Z6 Z/ B& W
Is it a kind of distant memory? + `# F- N( F4 T( p# F& S3 ]7 {它是一种遥远的记忆？& f: ^4 k/ D7 `5 Z5 U# w) C& a1 u; ?
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...7 }& \0 h8 {5 j. A' l9 @% T7 o
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 5 ?$ R& q: u0 `9 [How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?, y- }7 i& O: x$ B9 [) w! C8 j
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ - O5 c% \( t! S% I+ s, G: E5 `Do you write memos? 8 m. l1 p& i% Z5 \" g你写备忘录吗？ ! w B" H/ U1 k) WDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? & S( ^" O( `. g4 Y3 N3 v" w: s, p你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？5 q; D) F ]' n/ C' @- L! L
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 4 p7 w" n* R' k1 {还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ # Z9 s/ R& m L3 vWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 0 @4 s/ |/ [* K) q你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？