标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something$ z$ ^, H* m# ~. e+ i) S0 T
- x0 y* z& C: y6 y5 Y记住我们为什么做某事; t% g' v- l: n" v0 F, x$ V$ J! K
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.7 A F, s2 M7 b. e! _8 e% x
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。! s: j7 f d) ~1 j7 W6 ~3 v7 u- C
Have you ever done that? , T6 l1 U. @$ u! |, g* G) `2 C& J你曾有过这种经历吗？ 9 `5 w! q) {# f, Y; k# ]* GI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 2 N3 x/ k* D5 m$ b w我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 9 W0 _0 b* h$ V7 Z- yI have called someone because I want to tell them something.( q6 B' i9 R* V1 I9 q# P+ ?
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。% t$ w1 {8 L. ?, k9 b/ o9 k
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 1 F. P& \1 I( [) g然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。0 u6 w4 N5 V& O5 k5 u+ W4 j# Y+ u5 \
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ! c4 Y5 m& F/ ~, A9 C哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。3 ~% C2 d" ~# o$ M# Z3 _. I
That's a memory problem. J3 C/ s+ A. y! ~0 a9 Z+ O这是一个记忆问题。 7 s* b7 h% t' UI guess that counts too. ' U& ^% V' \7 V% k我想那很重要。 ) \, I. B$ h7 o% f- xBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?( Q- X6 G4 Y l! I+ _
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？6 f. }: h a2 x% b7 Z) F, _9 {
At one point, there was a reason we do something.. r s5 v# U1 g. |
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。) d# K" P8 Q( m+ Y$ u3 k
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 8 p# W2 t0 L4 Z' b6 F对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。6 i/ Y/ s/ I0 h) E
It's always could to ask ourselves why.2 @- \0 Y2 e# U1 N; n
总是可以问问自己为什么。 2 m4 g. Q; G" b/ \* QWhy did I start to learn a language? 2 u7 H5 b6 ~2 c7 B6 i9 X5 V) Z2 v- ^为什么我开始学习一种语言？ " n- z& F k/ y6 \& aWhy did I join this club?, g, C M" j( \- T1 f
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ e, q: Y, J4 u0 g! uWhy my friend was this person? ) S2 Y2 _( J% J y0 V3 j% O: n为什么我的朋友是这个人？5 f" h& S0 [+ h
Why did I get married?1 Y/ G3 C6 V& h
为什么我要结婚？6 f3 j2 D8 L& W0 R8 ]) x
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.9 V( _ \& r' Q7 Q5 V! ~+ T
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 $ }* C) C* ]7 ]9 I) YI think we need indeed remind us of why. ( m0 Q5 I- ^5 S }* q" R我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 2 ~5 x. }- b u9 X+ fOr else it's tough to finish what we started.3 F: b' m5 T8 f6 [0 c
否则很难完成我们所开始的。# i# G! R3 p+ Y; e
We stop starting. We quit the club.0 |3 ^3 \0 T! Y. \1 @" c! }* d' A* h
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。1 T3 ]" G: U: S7 D
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.* p% _* j4 t( h/ w8 v6 U
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。7 h ^# X7 ~5 b D( C) ~
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ' D$ b) s$ E. H0 |. v5 t问为什么没什么问题。 7 W( K# \: H% R: Y. _% q+ h" ]) ?$ SIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ; u! Q8 g3 j9 L8 j+ a事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。- [, b* y% {4 Q0 n5 ]. y e% l
Talk about it. * w) Q8 D4 |' M( ]谈论下面的话题：1 d7 [2 \5 ^1 R, w2 [
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?& G. f5 U" b1 [: c& v7 u0 a! g
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 9 t$ A9 B0 |4 dIs it a kind of distant memory? U4 I0 D+ a O; c0 t, I; d它是一种遥远的记忆？ 5 B" ]" I* o6 L+ O4 JDid you ever forget why you are doing something... / K, Q1 T' | r你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……% [ }* B$ i3 j- u, U) K" @
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 9 r1 H6 ?4 r3 s9 K* t8 l你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ - ]4 Y0 L( _& p- aDo you write memos? c% `# H- M& M& d+ i: B6 w3 M1 d你写备忘录吗？3 d+ n1 a* A% I Z6 t: w
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 2 A. S1 W+ j* k7 e1 [" B你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？8 v1 M5 G* m- ^' I4 X
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? s' H2 ?7 m5 [) F+ E6 x
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ & Q( S( c( x# U. U+ c Q# ?What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?( e, h+ x7 W, u- P# N: [3 ~. T
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？