标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something, ?2 `/ K o( @3 E5 {
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记住我们为什么做某事5 c& {, ~4 A) u
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. * l" f, H9 g& }# q& O有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。5 E! w4 U( Z% ]# r: @' m
Have you ever done that?9 w2 u; a6 t' M" A s
你曾有过这种经历吗？' c6 E$ H) G5 r
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.. P9 P$ Y$ l1 L
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。* w# r+ R" S! Y
I have called someone because I want to tell them something./ C) n: b- }' M3 I: X
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 8 G" ^8 p0 v q3 }# e; B2 ]' E% aAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. W" P0 Q# S0 ? S6 ]
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。$ Q) d" K: ^/ }2 X% A
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.8 z3 C/ ~+ | S4 N2 C
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。# L0 T0 o" m! e& `4 X
That's a memory problem. 4 U1 k) m, Q- P这是一个记忆问题。 4 P3 U0 e8 _! K- a8 k, G5 I' l6 wI guess that counts too.& B- h( J. v' Y0 F4 k4 L8 Y
我想那很重要。0 G( K1 K& U! A% q( ^. y! v
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 5 z+ B) x% B$ e& j% o但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？" h9 _- P+ J& E- z m- x2 s
At one point, there was a reason we do something. G: V8 Z; B; J; O) A
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 1 _/ v$ g( E1 F: h) o% H# Y- D& HFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. % }! K7 n4 K8 S. Q对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。0 a% g8 b7 L5 O0 C& S+ H
It's always could to ask ourselves why. , ?8 G W' Y; q9 X总是可以问问自己为什么。0 U4 P$ {* P7 ?) |3 p
Why did I start to learn a language?" w: ?$ r, {: p) `: N. [( s* e
为什么我开始学习一种语言？) T8 P# j$ E+ A, C7 K
Why did I join this club?0 c+ N2 z4 Q6 M4 ~
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？& t! U) @0 N _4 l# i5 ~
Why my friend was this person?; a$ `9 \$ u6 }" x$ Z3 R
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 1 _+ L1 \- ]. g. F: w, {- @Why did I get married?. Q: P% @+ r Q9 i: |7 Q
为什么我要结婚？% s8 [( _1 y6 [8 w& J; {) b" N* w
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. $ N+ ?( x. q( G- X/ P" ^如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。" U7 k: |) R9 T
I think we need indeed remind us of why.: _( a7 O# a# C# ?
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。' J- a& N- M& ^ L6 g% k
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.2 i6 h- Q% z* l) D* A
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 % _5 r2 G0 r: c" y7 xWe stop starting. We quit the club. * \) g$ m9 F5 T' o6 A我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。: u& }$ B4 w) F' v
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.9 J. K* ~1 S" k( ]& ]7 V5 h, W
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。7 V, s8 a4 q: ~
There's nothing wrong with asking why.4 l3 w' O: w0 z, m& t# k
问为什么没什么问题。% J$ M, p6 o7 n( _ N8 N
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ! w; B# n" \, R. i2 Z6 o1 J0 F: g事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。- j) |' d* B. x0 f9 Y- z
Talk about it.& I9 n, j: d/ j/ V" W; r
谈论下面的话题：+ n9 U# H% R# B: W1 r' g
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 3 q* p4 h* f6 C6 h5 f6 O& x你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？0 L; J( F' u6 }5 A2 G, f
Is it a kind of distant memory?5 f( ?: O) ~8 P
它是一种遥远的记忆？$ q, [( H# G# p0 Z; k/ K
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... $ Y* A# B: Y8 V" |2 P你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……8 M; }7 J1 P1 r$ s8 `! [8 C: [
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? + L, e% X5 k5 V' k你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？% A, O3 t u2 U( M7 A
Do you write memos?, T8 k* J1 t0 R
你写备忘录吗？; u7 Z8 m% G5 f9 T# c7 O; F2 M
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?% C' @- u. d2 H' F0 N8 @" C
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？% O$ U9 u9 {- w, g* k
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? : @' g" s2 z" z: c( T: T还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？& ?" B) H: S ~- w; Y
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? " K" S* n; G* X你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？