标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something+ K5 r4 d7 e) J$ T: S5 |8 I/ k
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Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 7 a. ]. r& R& Z2 {- }有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。9 P- g A) K+ a8 ^% f. ?" P
Have you ever done that? , G8 d2 R8 r' y5 A( a% B0 |/ F你曾有过这种经历吗？ / S9 w" u) G8 W! i$ n1 nI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ! x O0 {( C# j1 ?0 Q" _! b! R我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 % m2 ?1 |3 a+ ~I have called someone because I want to tell them something. " ~: Y6 r6 v" u7 D) s! m我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。! E( Z, j- x& S: }( f1 v
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.4 a, ^7 N4 _1 x3 U7 s- U3 @6 k4 K
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 F! Z. V3 e4 }* K4 M. ~4 _" ?* E
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. M1 d* p% S/ G! m9 v) d哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 : o/ `+ d% ^5 X ~. OThat's a memory problem. p: u; z3 r& e1 c1 r+ ^- Q这是一个记忆问题。 * c3 u# _/ N/ h& K X( YI guess that counts too. J$ m8 i- z8 G6 M9 k: h1 c/ _
我想那很重要。 ' m- Q3 n4 X) iBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?- @6 X& T5 q$ `0 p: ]* b$ z1 L
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？4 z- @# S+ t2 k3 f$ I5 F
At one point, there was a reason we do something.: }' A4 r ?9 N8 Y
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 # h2 r8 ]9 P6 M0 q; S7 t9 F& iFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ! U+ M( a k& S2 V! S' d. i6 F对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。( M, k) O0 T' K! q( k" h
It's always could to ask ourselves why.# B- I1 O! w0 f8 G
总是可以问问自己为什么。 ; m& _/ a1 c% O7 i+ h" i) HWhy did I start to learn a language? % W/ \# p+ ~' P8 _1 d$ t7 d) y: r+ q为什么我开始学习一种语言？0 ~: J- z- [* ^% {, {
Why did I join this club?! k* H8 b5 D1 D% Y9 M
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？5 u0 q& m8 F0 [
Why my friend was this person?1 a' ]" j: E5 T
为什么我的朋友是这个人？2 t; b5 n, I) v) U) E! R: v
Why did I get married? , o+ ~0 _: V a' \' w为什么我要结婚？. C' J3 p, _. x7 N
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why./ `/ A0 J, e* f5 U
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 : c9 n2 m2 |5 k/ F- FI think we need indeed remind us of why. : |: G R- q2 y; b! D$ F4 u我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ) h( R( e+ M$ z& ]" I7 V* }2 P- SOr else it's tough to finish what we started. - {* \$ i2 I+ V" V9 S1 {, y. ~否则很难完成我们所开始的。- `, @2 [9 m0 {1 f2 ?5 K
We stop starting. We quit the club. 9 X, ~$ P( K3 R( r1 i$ @我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 9 x: y- P9 {, K7 L7 dWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ; K+ I h6 T/ ?' w E我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ) L J; a! L) } h; p9 |" XThere's nothing wrong with asking why./ E9 G9 {# F1 e. e
问为什么没什么问题。 G' ~3 n4 q' i' | Q( v. O6 i+ r$ F
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 3 X+ _5 `" X* R% g事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 7 U6 q/ r) s/ D6 [) U g# wTalk about it.9 o; w8 Y) }- s1 M) J& F3 i% F
谈论下面的话题： 8 H/ a5 U3 r' B) i! T3 B" VIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? $ u, ]9 C# \$ K1 d/ F5 S% g你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ I' o/ v' f5 q; EIs it a kind of distant memory?7 b8 \5 X2 d l! z( ]" D* k* x
它是一种遥远的记忆？ $ y2 R3 `9 P+ {Did you ever forget why you are doing something...5 C n# h: F5 F; f
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… " B- H5 u* `8 l$ ~; u- ]7 g4 dHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?+ y# h# O3 q( \& r) z
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？* M, I. g6 _) u- Y* J
Do you write memos? ! W. x2 U$ ^, H' I- J- W. A你写备忘录吗？ - I! l ~2 v. F; ^: W4 ~4 i5 RDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? & R [8 M K7 ? G- b+ J% }: O你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ! e4 Y: a8 ^! @- ~4 X; GWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?7 S! x# W/ i6 N# g# [) |* g
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？3 j3 y k5 L' i O+ Q6 R
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?# H, I8 c- a* j; f4 [# C
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？