标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something* b0 ]$ T4 Z3 `" h: N) T) ]5 R
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记住我们为什么做某事9 n) G) M( [7 o" c5 ?) ^, \/ ^6 S# q" W
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing." t9 r- ^( b9 m
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。- X+ N; I+ k2 T4 E6 Y: }
Have you ever done that? : D! h- s8 v$ g! C. k- O( i: s. d7 {你曾有过这种经历吗？% w8 H0 I }" X, f u
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ) T2 q6 ^' k; S1 Z. s+ D& N我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。- z% ^8 ^0 F* i& O
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.( e0 k3 Z# ~, `% g* I
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。: k% D2 B: ?3 ^
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.: \: K' v/ X& e& `% S% y" ~. v
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。1 |/ D* B4 u, e2 Z/ U' L
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place., h4 i/ ?1 \/ Q4 s4 A0 b% ?
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 & W, d: x: L; l3 hThat's a memory problem.* @/ [. Y; ^& ^0 ^. Z
这是一个记忆问题。8 e; } V ^7 W/ Q- f1 ]
I guess that counts too.$ J" k# n8 W. _$ _% b; @& A! O
我想那很重要。2 i2 w, h* Q: ^
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 8 Z! j" e- ]4 T- Q. K但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ , h+ g- T, Y* Q) DAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 1 y0 o9 L7 H% T4 ], Y, v在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 0 p- M- |0 ]) Y2 e' X! @# G1 EFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.+ F& h% @4 L8 g' h" P; s: E
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 & Z+ {9 x& J: ^, u2 |& x" kIt's always could to ask ourselves why. + |: i, j6 h: w: y' Z% m3 V. |, N总是可以问问自己为什么。; X) y! j6 ~9 ]3 \$ `
Why did I start to learn a language?+ _; R9 u2 ^2 q3 q- n( J* k: h
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ : F; O7 `8 a/ T# a* q# w4 `/ H* i: FWhy did I join this club?4 k7 u; q% z4 B
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 0 A) [' O6 ?( ?, ?: C+ eWhy my friend was this person?* B8 ~8 M/ {0 M, q! i2 g$ t
为什么我的朋友是这个人？: F/ O3 L6 ]* h; @
Why did I get married?3 O) u3 H5 ~7 l2 V3 i$ G
为什么我要结婚？ 8 Y! [( v; d$ h5 A5 n2 H- jIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 3 Y' h# c6 v1 f4 j9 U# Z/ S如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。$ s+ u: }3 V: ]& s" Q5 m: B3 _
I think we need indeed remind us of why.0 m$ o. g8 z3 Z9 `* V( w& i! ~
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 1 p# Z; r# e, p( j9 F% y( j# hOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 0 g% i3 B" c# X0 \. J) w( o" O% j否则很难完成我们所开始的。! e5 m8 ~) C( T/ c& v
We stop starting. We quit the club.- z3 \' h/ V n$ b7 E/ l4 O
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。" O8 d, Z5 b" C0 ]' A
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.. B$ M" @5 q% z: l
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 2 C# t: H& }( L# H- d; K% ^7 L+ EThere's nothing wrong with asking why. ) z% F- b3 p' Q+ h4 j, P问为什么没什么问题。 X K$ r3 Y5 j/ mIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. : [9 v7 u" d# C% D: v) d事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。& R2 d( {) ?, m7 { d0 N, n
Talk about it.7 J Q. n* u8 ?
谈论下面的话题：9 ~1 S1 d# ~/ b" x
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 1 k3 a& o% c7 F' Y" p2 X3 } ~5 P你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ % _$ a! ]3 l* Z4 E# P) GIs it a kind of distant memory?) C# @% C* F) [' `0 b4 x. H
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 3 U3 ^8 j6 q1 x' }1 I& Z3 iDid you ever forget why you are doing something...# N1 n+ Z* R% y: C s. c9 O$ R
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……. `, L5 ^7 T/ N
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?8 c% U5 i8 v# [" f
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？3 b5 ?- _# O& g" i T
Do you write memos?4 R3 N9 B1 H& T+ X M/ E/ H% o- ^
你写备忘录吗？ ; R# G9 q9 R0 NDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? % Q6 Q; {( o$ p( f你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？2 b9 _; X3 r/ m! q& C. s2 [
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 6 s0 N" U5 `% T$ g% P6 G% \还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？9 s7 S1 [- |3 J# }9 T+ G0 w- m' ~
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?8 M6 [( H1 Y2 H0 {1 H* O
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？