标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something - Q5 I8 _* o: h5 H$ I( W % v" e+ g8 U, T {0 H% d记住我们为什么做某事* G6 T" X* m( i. h @
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.8 u8 M3 H- b; E3 e) b1 w
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 3 G! ^3 y2 ?) w7 x# m9 PHave you ever done that? 5 s1 [. P8 C% H& _- b" i你曾有过这种经历吗？ . T E; ^4 L& Y; iI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ! r/ }4 R* V1 y2 L$ f我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。: d! K Y; E* N' T6 g0 r; N
I have called someone because I want to tell them something., k9 S; {/ M& A A
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 & D$ B' B" B% O# H* p) tAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.9 Z9 |* _2 H* d: ~
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。( Y1 H: F6 U5 Q: d0 v7 r# g8 K
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.! q% g7 I7 L% S0 ?( Q9 z* }
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 / s( h! p. J, lThat's a memory problem. 6 k% u9 p- E" N: u) S7 B0 r. j这是一个记忆问题。. i% |1 y: ?6 r% G+ \
I guess that counts too.6 U2 n" x6 \4 L& ^* j% o
我想那很重要。8 o1 Z# g4 e5 B
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? * n. t" U3 r- |但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？5 T" @$ o' z$ d( X+ l% a
At one point, there was a reason we do something.- D8 i9 ^" v9 u5 L% y T0 O
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。8 l5 Q; X& c4 F+ C
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 8 Q( f6 l: F! e& u对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 1 L3 `1 m7 {% x5 a( o/ {2 Z# x' ZIt's always could to ask ourselves why. S* X C) Q( `
总是可以问问自己为什么。 % e( i Z& N$ HWhy did I start to learn a language?1 U; l# S, @# m) T4 C& B0 i* W
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 1 x3 \1 U& H+ f! ?( F6 RWhy did I join this club? & @/ w$ I' V$ P1 ], V2 \8 T* N为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 2 g! g# a$ S6 O' w L6 e4 }( Z3 }Why my friend was this person?3 ] I2 Q- [* b% u: }( G
为什么我的朋友是这个人？/ z. {1 S+ s& W
Why did I get married?% D. }) A" v" n# g2 `
为什么我要结婚？ y3 Y; W3 }1 u+ ?" H! D1 O5 XIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.# g7 O( K- ]+ N
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 . @6 A+ I; o; o) kI think we need indeed remind us of why.5 |- |8 G: e' C$ d/ E1 ~+ C
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 2 w* _; E3 q! E8 g# S! {' }Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 4 \( Z8 g% K+ e5 S否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ' J! d& _. f' P* IWe stop starting. We quit the club.7 O7 }( E9 U, ]* e0 Z$ {; O
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 2 m( P! N7 B% n5 J0 v$ wWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. $ {) h5 d3 \; n) ~: n我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。1 A% K E0 g* A( a" e0 \
There's nothing wrong with asking why.+ H- \0 q7 [% G. z) F$ @- q) M6 d, {
问为什么没什么问题。 4 u/ z. f" c% I) bIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.4 X4 [# }: A; d+ ^8 ^
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 & C& T: ]1 j; |. d( U v( lTalk about it. ( d9 F* K4 O1 o; o谈论下面的话题： ' j; f) U7 Z4 B* U; Q' }9 x! FIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? f: m' E [; I* v. t( E
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 6 d [8 ^$ @9 i- |" w( K' B% XIs it a kind of distant memory?; W0 s R! u, _6 }/ o
它是一种遥远的记忆？ ' L1 H0 P7 _/ B) k! d5 Q) _" |# ODid you ever forget why you are doing something... 2 F- s, `3 O! V. C+ {( O& H$ H5 A你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……# B4 `1 Q1 I2 x/ Y/ ?
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? % m0 C2 d& W0 d: J: s0 k* T" I你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？/ ^" [6 {& I+ [& B
Do you write memos? ( G7 j# x9 o* R4 {& v你写备忘录吗？ C- x" k' R4 U" f# K7 l: r5 X ^! Z
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 5 ^3 F7 S! p S1 J+ M( u% ~- {你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ( l( y4 F) I* {) w v7 U" KWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?& r3 f( x J2 \
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？, S7 h" y- @) A3 b- c1 k4 F8 w
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?& k: i" C, {4 i0 _8 E; c0 n
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？