标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 0 _5 V* F5 o1 J$ [+ O6 r6 c- X) @% Q: e4 \" y, _! N9 J x( `
记住我们为什么做某事' X7 }! m: n6 U+ C6 |/ X
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.4 S3 A6 E: n ]3 R4 b3 ~
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 1 L" q0 z/ l: K0 B, oHave you ever done that?) {# c! `% e5 W, ~' R1 w2 V/ ~
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 2 Q( _' z; a: b6 t: vI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.7 @' {3 y4 j9 S+ J1 V* @) G
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。1 a8 z* D8 i, Y1 i9 H7 }
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.$ z1 {/ M9 `6 Q" s! ^! u
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 # L( F' J# r, |) o) @# H" ] D1 vAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.0 H/ F. z' n( ]( _& {
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 7 c. [# [6 z& x" B3 \0 lWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. E, X" s x* A1 m& X( C1 q# `哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。2 s- T) u+ c4 F+ R
That's a memory problem.6 e3 w0 ~& F S2 u3 h
这是一个记忆问题。 3 m6 i' V$ C5 _5 M4 H% kI guess that counts too. ) w7 a4 P. d: J- \! M我想那很重要。 v( L& q! `& C5 { M
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?5 F: J; [) X7 d9 K
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ N/ Q u; y' H% B H9 V* kAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 7 z/ [2 q8 i) A在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。* s B4 o8 h* w; ~% F! L* }
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.; y3 T' T! t: x" i4 a
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 / P3 ]* i: ~3 s" eIt's always could to ask ourselves why.: y' }, O9 l6 J+ M9 @/ w
总是可以问问自己为什么。 $ R t, a# ?$ |& G2 Y" M1 y9 H/ QWhy did I start to learn a language?1 p; x) `& N8 B" [" R. z% m
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 7 C8 f% d: Z. D r( oWhy did I join this club?1 n0 X9 a K) @ g- a( p
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？3 S( K& ^1 y* D f
Why my friend was this person? + @- a. e1 c1 V为什么我的朋友是这个人？% e7 @) S/ z# ]/ T+ {* [/ h# O
Why did I get married?: B5 w3 K5 z; {+ H4 x
为什么我要结婚？ ( [- G! n9 c x& \If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. / m0 g" u7 [) S( a如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 h$ s- [) \ X
I think we need indeed remind us of why.* N( `1 e5 ^: }4 p C4 k6 e' X9 u
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。/ J c4 G- V0 T& U
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 9 W; g+ v: H1 ]8 v$ B否则很难完成我们所开始的。8 o' r, j/ O' [9 P
We stop starting. We quit the club. 2 H! h! R. J7 Y6 }我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。& i7 v( ^3 C, G4 m% ]% H
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.( v0 v, Y) t- {1 e/ t6 @. x
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。" Y' Y2 A$ k* g' h
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ) w; T" Y; ^0 B问为什么没什么问题。 * G4 x; r/ Q: O2 G- z; f! P: KIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. $ |' c! A# I3 t% E+ n事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。+ M; k( O5 X" M$ `
Talk about it. 3 n. f* c, z$ T9 i0 }4 k2 C谈论下面的话题： + A6 r9 s. q( ~! PIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?- j+ ?9 {. Z6 }8 q1 X( B( a6 w0 S
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？6 Z7 O" k7 q- B3 C2 }7 u, V* O
Is it a kind of distant memory? ! E% C; m. n8 N& F它是一种遥远的记忆？ : w! }( ^5 E1 `9 XDid you ever forget why you are doing something... / U1 X8 ^' |) r4 `你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 1 p( i6 B; q, E! A3 |* K( x {! BHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?' }; {. y+ x5 D: q, t
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？5 i7 z X2 V8 K0 D, \) G- U
Do you write memos?/ s& P5 N7 L* j2 I* e/ a
你写备忘录吗？6 D! U. m2 z# D A: F
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? p: P( p2 t# H4 T1 ?
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？7 E2 S# R7 J& h: i* v
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? / {- w& I8 W$ W. O还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ / o! ?; U* q( i1 T6 }What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 5 E O9 r) ?+ b4 P你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？