标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something " K. l) ^8 _4 r3 \' M/ b & h- I* ^" M# t) y( ~2 b9 k记住我们为什么做某事+ R: W0 U6 @7 j$ k8 T
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ) @ z1 T1 W% ~* ?# P* Q有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。+ G5 _4 }. n# V5 Y5 m
Have you ever done that?) K' G' E& \. r& f
你曾有过这种经历吗？2 e$ T% T3 I5 C& B
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.! F! `3 _( E( L2 \
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 " I! a' d b3 q2 ?9 L! xI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 5 |# P; c x4 ^. s h. d8 x我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。& @8 V0 \4 }0 `! V& P/ z4 P
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. : d" T. i0 t0 w( R& H5 F然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 " N4 k2 }$ D( s+ u/ E9 b% oWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.4 [, ?+ [$ Q ?4 _" L
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。4 y2 V5 \8 T; w6 v
That's a memory problem. ! E7 ^& ?1 N7 Y1 ]: N7 ?0 Y0 G8 N这是一个记忆问题。 7 D" \' s% f' Y6 G# X8 C& ]% CI guess that counts too.0 Q% e9 k$ n p- p$ d/ i
我想那很重要。 7 F9 ^1 Q8 S% L% u6 @But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?/ h) Z0 } o9 { F: a4 S- w
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ O5 g* j1 \& H: o% n8 aAt one point, there was a reason we do something.3 n) B$ k1 J, o1 P# Z: u
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。' C. x0 Q& k* z/ e! _- w
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. $ ?$ _% a& c. _4 X对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 1 Z. E" \" t' _4 z0 K% [, k& OIt's always could to ask ourselves why.9 \9 u" n- Y" g& H5 J
总是可以问问自己为什么。 % m- x: `' e! X. z" o; g4 p- _Why did I start to learn a language? / J: G; F* }) l, |- w+ n* N为什么我开始学习一种语言？# W% s8 G9 Q3 f6 Q8 r7 I. u
Why did I join this club?! R( X; e! b. y* h" _
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？$ \* p/ v6 b: N
Why my friend was this person?; L# E, x- \; X$ _1 U
为什么我的朋友是这个人？6 j* r" s5 {( i8 P! C2 V. T2 L
Why did I get married? , ~2 C% T( D" K! k, [8 M为什么我要结婚？ - I8 h& S% D3 E: hIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. ' {4 V, r3 V1 w# x9 f# c! {如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。+ p0 D3 R1 B4 ~ g
I think we need indeed remind us of why." @5 t& k* u7 P8 D2 @
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。- x* U" W7 s. K; h
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.; J2 M( p4 g5 Y L E }3 m
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 9 W. C* U; `+ }We stop starting. We quit the club.) G* C0 O- T/ w# B7 f
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。7 @/ u5 H. P4 y9 ]9 Z& L
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. + c$ Z( g6 V3 K; e9 q, `0 J% c我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 # a2 i% \) Y0 P% m. M; fThere's nothing wrong with asking why. 2 [# D, M8 b9 @8 Y8 [问为什么没什么问题。 6 U' {9 X' S" _. H' M% N5 q+ aIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing." r5 W; j, C3 N5 @
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。8 x m" p% ~# A: F1 D: d- f3 L
Talk about it. 2 l# P( z3 z: v3 j5 j% h谈论下面的话题： * E+ i, V0 |3 N! y8 ZIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?! |5 ^4 ]& y7 B# }& C/ J' P. l
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 2 X$ l" x/ [5 {' [Is it a kind of distant memory? G1 f" U+ W, [+ g1 N, o
它是一种遥远的记忆？ * \& e; S O0 k0 rDid you ever forget why you are doing something...8 r, s6 I3 i5 s6 c# f' D
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……0 U1 Q6 B4 P7 `. f" m. u$ } T, A5 n
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? & @( T( a9 @& T- T2 a. J你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ( l, L: K( q6 TDo you write memos? - f3 v% C) J5 V% R2 i. j, \( }! o你写备忘录吗？( _5 {3 B, U2 p" l) N
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ; j1 i- s7 W3 T# T# ^9 g你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ # l, S2 R% q2 D3 o$ v( v1 s& ZWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?" q0 |5 U3 d2 ?9 t
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？' h: y- }* ?( B: J9 H) w7 S
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?$ u" {2 z* e W! D3 v% F9 I# Y
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？