标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something - s5 |% Z- o* I' D# R1 j * M: {/ T% i# W% N: b2 Z记住我们为什么做某事) Y' V& S2 C; s4 i
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.$ ?0 R: Z5 W! `. b. N9 I3 E' q
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。* y7 J( N$ y3 \/ l- z
Have you ever done that? 6 T5 D8 h0 t# [/ X5 @你曾有过这种经历吗？! ?; j" I: ]( r6 T
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. . {7 J6 ~ M% i我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 0 B% x! d, c3 }& y- R# H, A4 ]5 OI have called someone because I want to tell them something. A# y9 b, M' ~* |
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。% x+ L9 {* c/ a1 m6 j) V
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.' \. {9 `: u' V1 D3 j$ b* Z
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ) w* L, y" K5 R: r) cWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.+ [9 O6 f, P0 u9 V
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 # N9 r+ |6 d& ?1 p" K. V# |That's a memory problem.4 Z2 [8 u1 N* J6 @" ~3 }& z* S4 ]
这是一个记忆问题。- R/ ^9 G2 ?/ L& ~6 @0 r
I guess that counts too.8 S9 i! O* |! y- a7 ]; N( q( O
我想那很重要。, `& M+ \2 m3 X c/ I
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 6 P2 t% n; V' P( m+ X但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ $ G, c" i" r) b& s+ [( C! `At one point, there was a reason we do something. . O/ u8 m: w( O/ T在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 2 k( f" `- T0 U% t3 {For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ' |8 G8 N# R3 d$ T$ ?1 J* M对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。+ J; a" B) ?* H# h% h: L
It's always could to ask ourselves why. ) }8 a3 C; x: `; j4 D' q' O总是可以问问自己为什么。4 O% f8 X, Z, G) E% |" K
Why did I start to learn a language?8 C1 c+ N4 E/ d/ V8 c
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ . ]9 a: y3 s1 h/ P E7 v+ ZWhy did I join this club?8 i3 Z. R; n3 z& A* g
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？6 Q! V- h' w, j) x0 I) p
Why my friend was this person? 0 _# f! y7 F V8 s2 M' E! v为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ! A2 m3 \- }- O/ k; J* A# CWhy did I get married?+ X, V5 Z5 _7 l
为什么我要结婚？! q! Y4 f& J0 C& Y! f7 j) ^* a
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.; R7 z- `. Z1 D: C0 h9 X4 g
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 " a9 y# D0 t( a0 a% f% L0 mI think we need indeed remind us of why.: t+ j, M* o8 @* D5 |' j% r
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 3 @: E, ?' A8 o* A+ dOr else it's tough to finish what we started.7 T* V: E, p) R6 |4 |3 Q' P/ O; t
否则很难完成我们所开始的。1 D1 X1 t5 O. B6 Q) f0 A/ C
We stop starting. We quit the club.2 D. ^6 n2 T/ }- X4 c2 `1 a2 \
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 / z$ u+ R7 _% Q4 K# h( qWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 8 S- w/ h" \7 ?. V+ f8 w" Z* m6 F我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。) V# p: k( c# J9 I( G3 S* A" v8 s
There's nothing wrong with asking why. & R/ o3 [! u# ?/ G# v问为什么没什么问题。 4 s1 G0 ]# t1 F; f* a" OIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 3 g6 T6 L/ \) J' f# e, D8 \事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。& m+ ]/ T- e/ j3 {
Talk about it. 3 G5 s1 e$ p4 H; r6 \+ i谈论下面的话题：1 h; @3 N' Z/ F7 K% }- Z! L( ^
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? " Z* O3 [7 I: F* O" p- A! H9 C你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？, u2 I! y* \, r+ P+ c
Is it a kind of distant memory? ! H4 O1 |, a. f" ~它是一种遥远的记忆？9 O6 n1 p1 E% D; Z
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 0 G1 C$ {4 s2 o; c你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……$ U1 b, Y' z4 \1 [
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?& h9 p" u! j* W" p
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？, W3 D+ \* t( R8 t+ k* @* F
Do you write memos? k! v0 c' K2 }0 [6 ^
你写备忘录吗？* a1 Q* y1 G; ]/ k; y$ |
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 5 F7 `* z) A) z% O. Z' s7 ?你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？+ A* f. n3 R+ c/ C* W
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 5 G/ X- @8 G: g/ Y还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？, P ^3 z' {0 C S" J
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? + \! Z4 C j# A& F8 T. p+ \你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？