标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something/ I& h1 M$ g0 W' h* A) u8 n' ?
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记住我们为什么做某事 , q6 u1 T# V& NSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 2 S$ B* c2 P- q4 @5 F8 ^# n有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 $ r( w. R; e- }$ S% ?7 NHave you ever done that?+ b3 {3 ? ]6 y" V9 A. [) s( T
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 2 h. V" E# \) {3 F) m4 rI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.0 R+ l! u B9 f+ Y! M: J- k
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 8 ^+ t, q1 ], z( wI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 1 R3 E+ [3 K. Y+ z7 c8 e我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。" Y o; F1 h/ l( Q: D1 V2 d
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.' y3 V, i) p* H5 N, H8 c g2 y: R+ |( q
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。- Z; a+ ^7 S+ n: V
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 6 f* z& v* O. x8 O% R6 z哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 0 h: _% w, n( c: bThat's a memory problem. - O& k+ l; I5 E这是一个记忆问题。) R: `) \1 ^: u, x9 ^4 W% [
I guess that counts too.) G J4 z5 q6 K
我想那很重要。' d2 m9 b+ Z0 G8 ^; ~
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?5 q/ ^' j8 z7 o% @2 O& ]- K8 ^7 C
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？8 H( w1 h; |: C$ Q7 t
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 0 i" V" ^ @5 K5 x* w2 u在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。3 r% ~) y# x5 g- f7 P& w
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. P. C7 y% ^$ e2 |, E( J/ R U2 g
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 5 @0 a" l2 g' |) GIt's always could to ask ourselves why. . l9 m' x( h% P$ u5 ]9 L总是可以问问自己为什么。4 o, @8 k5 h( J% I
Why did I start to learn a language? 0 l' e- ` X3 ]& C为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ) A1 z. M4 M0 _ k( k% ?6 O; F) [5 OWhy did I join this club?( \8 F0 w( S. p7 a T2 n
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？8 Y4 @4 h0 \2 z9 p
Why my friend was this person? ( ?$ }. j; w3 @为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ( B; M% W3 i* U' z- J3 _Why did I get married?! F" f$ \# V' ]* ~8 \$ k
为什么我要结婚？0 F( ^7 i' s8 e( F. i
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.: v8 a- m4 y# c! `0 Q) ~4 ~2 _
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。+ w( S/ {5 c& i2 y; Y
I think we need indeed remind us of why.+ R) [& G2 T) S1 K" R: Z% C6 e- k
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 : u) K( n$ Z( S- U, SOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 0 d1 V$ ^5 i: J7 W9 k% p% V$ o6 z否则很难完成我们所开始的。9 @4 A! s- b* }0 p4 ? q) {
We stop starting. We quit the club. & K% M5 C, b2 v5 g, s4 R我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。$ @% h. i& B3 M' ]8 _
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.3 }4 T Z% x+ G2 q. A& W8 N" m
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 $ B" n/ Y% ~- `6 o7 l8 ?There's nothing wrong with asking why.1 J* r$ k( ?; N1 c5 a
问为什么没什么问题。 ) s( d- {. o3 V, M) G9 X H* rIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.+ ?% B/ N* V: x/ V/ f9 r8 B
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。, o8 O: @5 l3 h5 l; X# d1 r
Talk about it. # o; |8 U4 R% P谈论下面的话题：! ~% C, m; E4 P. m
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 4 P6 j: X( \( M0 Y: t你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？# n9 w* m% c$ c% N# p
Is it a kind of distant memory? |! A. X9 ~' j, m它是一种遥远的记忆？/ n! n9 v4 m6 X6 O) G
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 5 T0 K. q& q. _/ q9 R你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 7 _: i* o' z4 u" b7 q9 lHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? & R/ H$ ^, Z. x" o' W4 \8 J你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ! r/ l5 {' ^3 K: \3 kDo you write memos? q; T) m' n. _" u: q6 ~& M1 y" @7 W你写备忘录吗？ ( q' b* W8 @; r% _' e) b- `6 ?7 ?Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?# o Z& W! A$ \$ e) a
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 3 {8 q7 S' w+ L& M9 v' s9 c0 d ZWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? . |% O9 n4 L3 X1 Q5 P4 o4 C还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？5 V+ Z% L! n6 o6 k3 h/ k
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?; M% v6 m6 m- d3 c. s! t1 `
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？