标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something / V9 x) W+ s w2 y, H5 l * { N# Z9 b$ C f0 X3 M. {9 ?记住我们为什么做某事% C9 I& Z9 H" z4 N: d
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. " L s! d: G1 d8 K1 Q; Q有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 * `8 K- C7 q j, n# E/ R: kHave you ever done that?5 j$ N5 m1 O+ y" g/ P1 b* S) K
你曾有过这种经历吗？* T8 N8 h/ g4 b0 s+ m
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.( ~- i# {" N( F+ W* G( \' X( a
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。- e# ^ Z$ g' @ P9 V O/ |5 W
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.4 s' j1 A8 [. y! Y w L
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。/ W- s: `3 [. p X1 r8 I) [
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. % w' P h0 @2 y5 |! J) D5 l然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。. S6 r# E6 |$ { q* ]
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. n4 J$ I2 B& f, Y4 o3 N哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。1 U: |' N( u5 O' j& k
That's a memory problem.; U+ \4 a! G; j6 {
这是一个记忆问题。 U: [6 ~" r% @+ L) p9 |& k/ M
I guess that counts too. + D: W3 L7 g2 @% H9 T2 I, ~' f/ ?) u我想那很重要。 $ R7 C, t* S4 Y5 G' ]But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? & e0 y Q& m9 F& z但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？; E* n& V4 {. r4 E9 _
At one point, there was a reason we do something.; H# {; T, W, x" G4 s9 O1 ?! q
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。+ i2 V+ p$ I. D i6 Y
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ; d0 Y1 A' D7 W" q0 R$ v$ m$ H对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 - R! a% b2 C0 {% EIt's always could to ask ourselves why.) D2 B* x2 q' F: K8 v
总是可以问问自己为什么。 + \& q$ O0 x, w5 hWhy did I start to learn a language?1 v3 L. |2 H* E/ [+ ^& c( d- R
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ . a! c; N+ q) ?$ BWhy did I join this club?8 c! I! ~, m8 ~# y
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ( X) f* p6 _- `; u0 k* tWhy my friend was this person?& S( r2 p/ p. D. `$ W$ n
为什么我的朋友是这个人？7 n* |% ~$ s1 ?5 D
Why did I get married?( s+ D. x. d+ e
为什么我要结婚？2 _ ?* C+ K, _7 W) f
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 3 E3 _, W8 j5 m: s如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 6 I, k @- J* E, _3 }4 s) }I think we need indeed remind us of why." m% V" C/ l4 g+ E
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 + m# n: u6 r1 @% V0 \Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 0 ^" I# D ^; m% O+ U5 Q, Z2 \" Y% c否则很难完成我们所开始的。: r# d6 d- Q! ?8 Q7 p6 }
We stop starting. We quit the club.! e$ F$ j9 b1 {# a/ s1 x6 D3 G
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 j& g. X/ |4 L% p8 \' I* gWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. $ h* @& Z, T- x/ v+ |' `; |我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。# a. c ?! c8 D, A
There's nothing wrong with asking why.) h1 E2 z! g0 l' ~ I% q
问为什么没什么问题。+ O Z; t2 Q3 }
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 8 e+ x. e* G4 @9 n5 j/ U事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。0 I& \" z5 O# ~; [1 I* s+ v6 z
Talk about it. v9 @. K0 C( }9 N谈论下面的话题： 6 W2 [" @' Q/ e% i. w D+ T: n4 FIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 0 [% n4 o7 ]3 Z2 P ^你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？0 \6 U7 j6 P1 G4 q. T
Is it a kind of distant memory? 2 I* M1 r0 ?: ]$ N6 k/ F( r$ l& a它是一种遥远的记忆？ \5 Y8 ]2 ~( V8 nDid you ever forget why you are doing something...* O* q2 p" _ V4 {
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……4 b3 V9 Y) i* u( _9 o2 k
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 0 t( \. g0 w p$ M% ?3 B) V' D, e你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ $ {1 z; ^+ ] f$ x) q3 mDo you write memos? R b& }6 G, q9 G4 Y
你写备忘录吗？ 4 d" Q$ V2 L' s9 F( E( ADoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?$ a; D6 E, A/ r4 C; `, |
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？: _( V( C" s7 u% `9 ~
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? G8 r( u! G9 B k. A
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ! `7 [1 n9 D2 Q% @! k. aWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? " |/ \+ o6 Y6 _) B你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？