标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something # a% z! w/ g0 B" s1 D" y( B , w% v; ~2 ?! U* p: s8 ^0 D3 [记住我们为什么做某事 ; A& X$ I7 i) a1 ]4 A0 l' |+ \Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.* E% r) l9 a/ @6 W: K* y5 z
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 : Y6 ~: W1 K! I2 vHave you ever done that? D8 i, ^0 c$ m9 Y8 N! z
你曾有过这种经历吗？6 `* R6 R0 [/ k; U: Z8 o; x) n
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.1 B1 z6 d9 B6 B/ A" C7 k+ o
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。9 D# o8 |- X% L1 k2 a: z- J
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. + E [2 q2 ?7 N* g我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 % P0 U) b/ B& ?4 {- X( Z# GAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. $ Q2 v" H0 \: [& m然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。$ Q. n+ ?6 D& f0 V2 E- X! k
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.: Y$ v6 K" ?5 ]' X3 B# b" h
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。1 h3 {& Q5 k- M% F& o/ ]0 B2 ~
That's a memory problem. 0 E0 {- N' Q4 c& W* j; L这是一个记忆问题。8 M7 G8 }. b6 F, ?& `( U
I guess that counts too. * E1 a7 A& {* }* t2 P我想那很重要。) `: D4 B! P3 v3 C' i7 ]& V5 o
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?: o# V! T4 }: M2 @
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ' H2 v! { [; V: _/ w9 qAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 0 ]5 O6 A4 Z) J在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。' M6 L% L5 Z# _
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.1 N' s. Z! H0 E7 f; |
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。8 `& b" m- h5 c. I2 S5 v; T
It's always could to ask ourselves why. , [: J& [# f' k; s+ i# z) r总是可以问问自己为什么。0 t* e- h5 B, O0 M: [7 \8 k
Why did I start to learn a language?, z9 e0 d6 u t1 e3 A, {% a
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ - X- a/ J" q/ o% E# ~Why did I join this club? 7 o. a+ G' E; q6 ^为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ' Q" X" B" c* @& HWhy my friend was this person? * i( ]3 \* U; X为什么我的朋友是这个人？, m/ q* l- G- v( `# \7 f
Why did I get married? # u, @; a; P; U7 A# X* g) I6 ?为什么我要结婚？ 4 y2 ^5 @# M) IIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.$ ] R+ z: T9 o' w5 O( [- n& D
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 . v# Y F' E7 D+ T. qI think we need indeed remind us of why. 1 p" o4 n5 m4 m: H我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 & K# s4 [: y% L8 l% H* m4 WOr else it's tough to finish what we started. $ X6 E) W2 k( p# G s否则很难完成我们所开始的。. |" N2 j+ o; [/ |! r6 ?" i6 y
We stop starting. We quit the club.9 j1 w8 Q9 [/ y) e, V# R: o
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。+ }8 q, f5 m1 h1 p6 J2 d( U4 k
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.( H4 h7 j" a8 Y# O, \8 ]
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 9 Z( d; }2 m6 G9 Q) qThere's nothing wrong with asking why. 4 a9 |3 @" s3 ]) F问为什么没什么问题。( `1 E; ]$ f( B0 {- q" }# d$ I( b/ q
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.$ |' ~, P! x/ v7 }9 I3 Z; q
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 + {% i* S7 K' {. [$ tTalk about it. 0 Q2 e0 B/ ?" v9 Y Y* ~5 ^5 r谈论下面的话题：6 j( `5 W; x- [
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 1 s- o* Q& J# v* d你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 2 G. a3 B# r! u# f) e) D2 OIs it a kind of distant memory? 8 L' ?7 g9 K* H+ O2 b它是一种遥远的记忆？. r U& [" w9 j1 M7 o
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 7 D9 ?% S" w# r你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……' X2 @7 b, W4 H( |) l6 b/ _
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? : g9 X6 |$ e% r C$ h你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 3 ^% T- n) u# ^- S3 {Do you write memos?0 c0 d* J4 e. Q# U$ S
你写备忘录吗？4 E o$ q+ H+ Y; x
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? # r+ |; ~+ M3 w+ Q% m- E你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？, ]( K6 M4 p- [+ R3 a4 l
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?: k& Y g* Z% C4 k. M) y$ U
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？, K9 q: _% A$ v2 G b/ r/ X
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?, ?8 [) c* g. [; j# U N+ X* i( u
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？