标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ) z8 U4 j5 @* _ D : L; l2 a' l/ F5 P- g6 S记住我们为什么做某事 - g+ C- {" \) q/ H5 wSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. & B+ q6 o- ^0 L1 P有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 : g" V7 D; z4 T8 G5 XHave you ever done that? % f) F6 W; e9 [& o Q" P" l你曾有过这种经历吗？/ L( J2 n- n4 A# a) ?* E
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.. L! u! G9 C7 _: K8 ]
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 - w5 w) X) O2 \I have called someone because I want to tell them something.: H; j Y3 Z6 B& k5 y2 z8 U
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。8 }4 c3 \4 V3 c8 b
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. & ?# o- v' l6 L; U然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。2 Y5 ` h' z8 l" {. f6 f% E) {
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ; N1 i: R* z1 M2 e$ w5 W哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ( b0 V1 d" D7 U3 h8 J) YThat's a memory problem.# B8 D1 S; f3 Q8 E
这是一个记忆问题。 ) |) |3 `# h% U, u C% P- w- }, F+ OI guess that counts too. : ^0 W4 [8 O4 J) @# l `' U我想那很重要。6 b1 O1 H" u/ b( R8 E$ O
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?) N1 o2 o% r D R; m
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？1 W! E- `$ j# n) o9 ]
At one point, there was a reason we do something. ! D; E+ l; z. S* T2 o7 E在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。" \9 L: d9 m! k6 F. H1 T
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 6 R$ X9 b+ H+ E5 A' U: a* B对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。( d* b8 h4 W, y3 C: }% c
It's always could to ask ourselves why.( K" l+ t O- |) f1 F
总是可以问问自己为什么。, s, P! a* ~& c/ h! s4 t1 c2 P% {
Why did I start to learn a language?5 e; f7 N4 z: b1 i, l8 x+ C; B
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ - L, d$ \* L' w9 YWhy did I join this club? $ W1 I I4 l, l4 t, a7 E5 F为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ' B, U8 f! {) y0 `5 R& AWhy my friend was this person?. W1 P1 S8 m7 }% N M4 Q
为什么我的朋友是这个人？* K! S4 r2 k, N+ a
Why did I get married?6 _$ d5 T4 ~( K: d* Z* u
为什么我要结婚？ p' u% w) ~0 Q9 g5 z p( {
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.4 h( @3 n' H, I8 |' v
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ) H/ x9 x- d& U3 M" uI think we need indeed remind us of why. 5 O& a+ w0 I" q6 C T1 C! w8 ^我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 , K8 O; ~9 h8 k& q0 \- V7 `Or else it's tough to finish what we started. ( N G0 h2 b9 ^否则很难完成我们所开始的。5 c6 K) e6 y( I) M9 {' }
We stop starting. We quit the club.5 T1 s, H2 S: U3 Z; k
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 - e% v! j* p6 b- EWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.' T, Q* A" p, \/ c- g2 l6 ?
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 & ^) X/ R n. h2 |' h; ]+ QThere's nothing wrong with asking why.+ R- g9 [6 @. B. p, R' S
问为什么没什么问题。( V, U1 U* w& F' }, d2 l/ S9 |
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.3 W# N2 C0 U% k% B
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 ( s: f8 f7 N3 l: p8 ATalk about it. 1 [1 }6 t8 c" p. z/ C谈论下面的话题：# E. I; a7 p/ h* _2 V6 H$ q
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?7 @+ ]! i+ g0 ^; P+ A
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？1 H' D* ^# q- A" S! D, D" S
Is it a kind of distant memory?, e1 h+ g9 _$ ?. t. Q% b/ w
它是一种遥远的记忆？ % i% @( w) X& N+ [' M9 vDid you ever forget why you are doing something... - k( L4 d% X3 h# p [3 }* I1 I w你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 0 O' R, E. Z$ s8 `How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 0 }# E1 G3 F0 b) g你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？- B4 | c* b) ]1 A" L
Do you write memos? + B( M! _, y% M. M: o* G你写备忘录吗？ " o }( ]: }# B" Y& K U* ZDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 1 K: J" K$ b7 d3 U你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？1 c( c2 n a$ K! j3 C+ k
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ; s6 g, @/ Y2 ?1 `* Q6 W还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？6 P4 f' s* X9 ]2 O) ^; y7 ^8 D
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ' m: R4 \# P3 @) w7 W& y6 u你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？