标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 7 S. s+ ~ m1 m ) E9 d8 l! f6 C' k记住我们为什么做某事# s+ G- q+ v+ o4 E
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing." w5 ^' T* ^8 G/ g8 Z( P
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 8 }. u0 G/ x# F5 QHave you ever done that? % h7 P+ Z- N8 K2 s你曾有过这种经历吗？ " _5 m+ b: S. o( k$ Q" \. cI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 1 {9 E4 y" h5 G8 a; H0 h6 V2 t: \我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 R; v1 |2 y- ^* k) K
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. y8 A' s( |% }
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 $ c* u0 F+ z7 c# ^And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.( R: F( d0 p9 k f
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 & b" o% p3 l- {7 T" Z6 HWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place., y& ^0 J* g8 M
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。- s _4 R# q0 y F
That's a memory problem. ' K/ {. l# j5 s% |9 ]这是一个记忆问题。 4 m$ j9 R. t j( |8 o$ hI guess that counts too.6 b- O- y: P$ }
我想那很重要。. Q4 _# ?1 B# V" Q# @/ a; z$ s
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? : ]3 S! _. z. A但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？" z- w, V( d' F
At one point, there was a reason we do something.8 @- ^* r+ `# ~! f9 l# z# A
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。) d" n" \( P6 t5 V" H" s, [9 s: f9 @
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.9 Z: r0 I$ R6 y* e3 O5 G! N" |7 l
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 . m7 a( K2 U4 z% m' L) o$ _It's always could to ask ourselves why.5 u8 c- E3 b9 ~* u) o! h
总是可以问问自己为什么。 7 `8 a( B+ ]5 _' wWhy did I start to learn a language?! D2 s% _- x& ?+ e: x1 W
为什么我开始学习一种语言？& q) C! U# y! g
Why did I join this club? ( g" C$ D5 K- K6 h& P9 x4 S$ s8 Z为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ ' J$ Z _- l0 _' b; }5 W( cWhy my friend was this person? $ s8 P+ j' I6 M, `0 G8 J为什么我的朋友是这个人？ & i& r% e9 S% ?+ Z5 R1 y9 _9 o+ CWhy did I get married?& S" _7 {* L7 U
为什么我要结婚？ 4 P! h- K5 }) C, zIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. $ l) q5 g* }: u. ~5 M如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 6 f5 O! u( ^$ }7 l5 L* t( fI think we need indeed remind us of why. 9 ^3 v& c( Z$ W; O! G/ W; \我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。$ H% M" `. @7 H5 v1 l3 S
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 3 h7 @. X. T: k+ l否则很难完成我们所开始的。 7 E4 w6 r" @) S' EWe stop starting. We quit the club.& q1 [7 \4 ?' e N9 n$ D4 I
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 8 A3 f5 L2 N2 ^5 R5 q3 }) W6 NWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. * l9 x1 { U+ R$ E) }& A我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 w$ v, c; g P- d& U" |
There's nothing wrong with asking why. / L, h% a' L1 S5 U问为什么没什么问题。) l* c$ o4 O4 ]% @
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.7 w0 H( v7 |) [( V7 C2 M! t
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。3 P- [. q" h3 r' R; _& v3 |: \) v
Talk about it. - q: J' K. K4 n4 n谈论下面的话题： 3 m) @6 c1 m/ R; o7 FIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ! ^1 r$ V8 |8 s8 [你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ _3 V* {1 F' d2 ?1 |# HIs it a kind of distant memory? ' f2 T0 Y9 u, s# o3 `' q. F) y它是一种遥远的记忆？ + Q8 ]9 P$ Q% X9 F( `Did you ever forget why you are doing something...# O: ?, j v7 _! o7 L: {
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 3 X1 M* o2 [' y- B; mHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? . u4 z; i. S% l5 a6 \% l6 a3 o: K1 I你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？# E1 h! P: u/ ~, C E/ h
Do you write memos? 3 _; ?; @4 `; q你写备忘录吗？7 b7 V: |4 m' k# \
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ; d) l$ B H, n你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？' z2 F' y, C' c/ L& V/ u. n: ?
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? % v9 B: B0 r& u+ t' Y$ m z还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ , _5 u; w3 P6 u# w eWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?0 J) x6 C* F5 W3 P# N) s9 @: G
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？