标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something. c4 ~9 n: i- _! T# ~: n4 u7 c6 c, u
- [5 g2 E( R, \. Z记住我们为什么做某事/ s5 w: J4 Z1 b, S0 x
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.5 k! c6 _2 Y+ ^. L2 W" ?
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 & D9 ^ R4 K" \9 E4 |9 e# H4 _Have you ever done that? ! w/ b2 f* _& a$ X你曾有过这种经历吗？ 7 f; M1 J2 r2 Z& H, q) mI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.9 ]" E+ C4 d$ j8 @6 A0 W. ~7 y W# S
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ' k0 K6 G7 A2 ~" W. jI have called someone because I want to tell them something. - W5 A) o& a3 e/ {) c3 b; `( T" Y我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。" S. f1 {7 w5 v0 h8 |: m
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.& |- [0 T/ P. d' F7 m& R/ l
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。0 A' G* Y. {2 [3 \) p1 E ]1 N5 b" y
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.) }% _- H+ z) F4 O, Y9 k
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。3 F; V/ h1 z# ~- e. e5 K7 G1 w# W
That's a memory problem.' q' n) P$ Y# E" D0 h
这是一个记忆问题。) B7 A+ A. {1 {) p/ J
I guess that counts too.. v4 a, f3 K# x# _- k5 o! q
我想那很重要。 7 y9 }5 R( e) E( I8 kBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?, V! L! J# e/ T) B- p* W
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ / s; C5 R6 j4 W. c; _! q6 RAt one point, there was a reason we do something. ' g1 _: B! k5 |$ o" x+ Y$ l在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。6 o3 N5 M( T9 o |: ^/ h/ Q
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. - S# s6 L# N0 H* i/ P对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 . r3 R& |! p X; HIt's always could to ask ourselves why.5 R' q- s( t( w; B
总是可以问问自己为什么。 " X( L1 e s K G& tWhy did I start to learn a language?3 N, R) O2 ~5 r. J; V$ B
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ) ~1 c: m+ b0 ^) }& Q: [) i) GWhy did I join this club?3 {2 g+ M! w, A; ?( ]) }( }
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ % V, z$ _4 L4 d0 gWhy my friend was this person? * Y2 z* C' A6 ~& T+ R' \9 t为什么我的朋友是这个人？7 h$ A" p2 a3 R; |* V
Why did I get married? ' Y' p1 j" J9 o为什么我要结婚？ % u$ y1 c, z3 U8 \, {7 b2 U K4 kIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 7 E1 \: X/ W: c2 K: D如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。1 o8 P; M+ u, `+ ~4 x
I think we need indeed remind us of why. , t) A! I' q$ B- t$ `# H我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。3 A# c8 z# h9 _
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. + t! g; A# B1 b8 ?否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ' F, k: o- L E8 NWe stop starting. We quit the club. " T4 ]! u& b; C( X4 H% M) t* J/ K2 e我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 9 n9 M; M7 y8 R. ?' j0 F# {% S, VWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. / m2 z3 t2 G/ x3 D) O. k8 o我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。# @5 b9 L# J+ e# f G6 @
There's nothing wrong with asking why.- X) t) c; x. o$ h6 K) c
问为什么没什么问题。 9 W& ~) P7 i: C% FIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.: Q1 F8 r% h2 R/ V( S
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。) u4 L3 V; U6 D2 e+ Z) F3 I' M+ z
Talk about it.) g3 |) H( H& j5 ^
谈论下面的话题： * h, x: \9 m, }' @/ q7 N ]7 YIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? - {. v1 F& n0 ~( ]8 o你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？1 E1 G4 ?9 T3 ~- y: ?! @5 q
Is it a kind of distant memory?! o$ B* I6 l* ?2 y' p
它是一种遥远的记忆？ " x1 w9 \' h$ _+ a$ hDid you ever forget why you are doing something... $ r4 p7 W3 [0 x7 b你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……, _' i+ l2 T7 _% L' r" Q
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? $ A1 k/ s* g- w: C" h你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ) c! z9 J; k7 a3 z( _+ ]# uDo you write memos? ( h$ W% |, K( K0 a; c. }你写备忘录吗？ / g! r" n" a+ JDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? / v% K8 R% g2 w3 I8 A5 ^你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？8 p5 M* p1 v1 d# E$ W
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?9 x. A! O1 W6 F, k2 n
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？4 ?9 S V0 r5 L7 {: w W
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?8 ]5 c9 B3 v6 w# w
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？