标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something + \0 t( Q7 {/ d3 T- `8 Y5 j- ^2 j/ P1 O% g( P; D1 ~
记住我们为什么做某事 5 ]( C; q# v% x8 Z! A/ e7 | JSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.6 {# K, E& f$ q% k% N
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 / N! R! f7 w2 O3 KHave you ever done that?$ d' I5 c4 m0 ~$ ?, G# \ {
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 6 y& c7 O$ @3 @: pI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.5 z! G* M+ k2 p+ d
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 * \0 \. K5 K$ V1 WI have called someone because I want to tell them something.9 j' j$ h3 b$ Q( v
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。8 g+ t! Y S( B& L: p ]
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.9 l0 Y# N% q6 v3 n* n* Y" s( |
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 2 g3 n+ m. d+ D/ J, u9 QWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 1 N d6 J8 Y+ }: |: b- k哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。% n. L* u. x! j- J# z* C
That's a memory problem.# S! |8 L" o1 h0 b2 j
这是一个记忆问题。$ u: {% n; F" l) O1 d8 i
I guess that counts too.9 x$ |, {0 c7 ^3 B
我想那很重要。0 t4 g c- p( O& D' B$ G) u
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? # w$ o9 q- S& L( T1 ~1 k! P但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？4 S ]9 B2 F+ W! a# w5 H8 b
At one point, there was a reason we do something.( v: e8 x5 y5 s4 G
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。* B# V3 O! r% r" g* M) N+ P# A+ d
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 7 f& f1 G% g# I. M+ J. Q2 y对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。/ R) O' V8 A6 U+ N; R6 f
It's always could to ask ourselves why. / K4 z# p% q8 u/ w6 o. J. f' F1 S总是可以问问自己为什么。% c$ C( s' D! Y( D: Z
Why did I start to learn a language? 5 O& J. }6 V. O! h+ r1 j% E9 d2 [为什么我开始学习一种语言？3 f1 _$ [! u9 [
Why did I join this club? $ Q' u' i' M+ h9 h为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 9 y+ p7 w5 G: R' ]( HWhy my friend was this person? 3 @, y7 k k: e7 x3 X" K. o为什么我的朋友是这个人？ ' J: T. I# T9 q2 C8 KWhy did I get married? + D& C9 T/ Q4 A+ g为什么我要结婚？! u5 u$ w" h) u" N& r
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.4 V( P- @9 D7 }, P9 ], D6 j
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 a7 S7 Q: |3 C: x- c
I think we need indeed remind us of why. ) D3 z. r: M ?8 x8 M% ^+ ]我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ; S+ _) r4 W( ]+ g7 uOr else it's tough to finish what we started. ; R u" Q9 `8 T D- }8 l否则很难完成我们所开始的。 " g- x" @9 o) Y8 fWe stop starting. We quit the club.% Z& R8 A5 H+ ^, N" Q( ]; O, L6 o
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。- ~/ s2 o2 ^, C( A% C
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. Q+ v% ^' d4 ~0 T0 B; M' _
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。' A6 N( \* M' a' C: S
There's nothing wrong with asking why./ ]$ W! y' ?" k1 S6 T* j
问为什么没什么问题。 % a4 G# S& r0 N) C/ p. BIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.; x I7 D! B+ H7 \/ f7 o- b* x, j
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 2 g5 a* |, i2 c( |( rTalk about it. * o4 ?! [# Z" E4 g( b谈论下面的话题： 4 j/ e6 f* j9 u" f# f8 v) ^) B- s) |Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? / s- S% `! ?- N7 u5 F$ V0 h你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ' D$ O7 C# `2 ]5 m) {- VIs it a kind of distant memory?+ h; o5 l. H2 @" |; U
它是一种遥远的记忆？ . c+ N& P) P: y2 P2 ~1 [Did you ever forget why you are doing something...; Z4 Y Z+ F) [9 ^: u B% Y% j
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……7 L* l6 p* b! e# E8 `
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? + }7 u- L8 e1 E& k5 W7 G你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ' v; |. \" m4 `4 S/ QDo you write memos?; X) ?. M1 a$ F' |' `/ D
你写备忘录吗？ % F9 U7 F' m+ u3 I2 p3 N: p( tDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 2 j- ~' K7 z+ j9 f/ k, ]1 I你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ' m [, z/ p6 pWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 7 Z( ~ U# t3 B" f6 q2 `' m! M还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ) u! D: e0 O6 v% [( VWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? # g& r* d8 k" y5 a2 P5 Y你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？