标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something2 Q! }; j4 A; t* n- \7 v
& y& _) F/ i# ?' H记住我们为什么做某事 8 {$ N1 `" }# f; T1 `Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 7 z1 M. W1 o7 I& j0 j; L- D有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。7 G+ \7 f, ?1 L2 w K. O6 U
Have you ever done that? ! w! M' P& q% b( f/ n: h3 F' r你曾有过这种经历吗？ : F' K) [1 B; F# [* p. C1 v. S3 FI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too./ P2 i2 B( e: T; X+ Z1 m' m
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 / l. }& d2 c" ~& F- o% NI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 7 d! `5 b3 m1 p, S, Y c& E我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。* F) d+ x& d5 P4 q$ F: @9 b
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. o) W; x2 j7 D# j
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 0 i& b; Y1 g( r! ]7 I! p5 LWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. & i4 ?4 b6 Q8 Z; ^哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。( S4 U/ x! k- L8 D5 _
That's a memory problem. a: ~& a8 m0 T这是一个记忆问题。 v. X/ b3 u% j3 q0 {+ Y
I guess that counts too. / h( X1 {5 C5 S# U我想那很重要。7 i a" F- ~: S8 s
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 6 ]) v# D8 v E' N. ]+ P g6 U但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 3 ^% X* }' k% n: O+ V: W2 cAt one point, there was a reason we do something.5 F. S0 V2 m9 r6 C S
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ( E f/ W) O& v! c# U7 q2 R# ^ yFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ; H5 v/ ^4 h# x. i8 H) q对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ; x# k9 @* k( @- F$ b1 q) H, wIt's always could to ask ourselves why. % [; \1 E# b% S6 t3 d) N6 N& p总是可以问问自己为什么。 % h! t+ G: K5 n: M0 b( x# T$ q% [Why did I start to learn a language? ( a5 o" U2 q6 h9 L为什么我开始学习一种语言？& W9 W6 N8 E% v8 u% ]: w$ t
Why did I join this club? 2 }: v, Y }* [ \/ n3 _为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 8 @9 j' T$ g+ G- z, fWhy my friend was this person? x" v& @6 O O) q" t" n3 @为什么我的朋友是这个人？; R+ D5 d8 M1 j- A
Why did I get married?; l& j8 Q$ a% Z8 ]& f5 Q. E2 O
为什么我要结婚？ 7 o, ?; V; z3 O& M) J$ E, zIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. " t$ _1 r8 c) u# u6 m如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 6 T# t; S* E) P7 ~& yI think we need indeed remind us of why.0 L1 }# v- h& K+ ^9 N
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 8 M* R# r& C7 yOr else it's tough to finish what we started. - y( `0 m6 K; j) F7 h! K% b. q# k否则很难完成我们所开始的。 , O. j! Y7 N6 e+ n3 x- K& QWe stop starting. We quit the club. ! i2 w/ ~+ W& o& m% [% Q! h我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 0 Y/ k1 \7 A3 E+ @# F- ^We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.8 ^0 A7 n/ S! A$ e: |$ ~9 ^
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。8 Z7 A) v F. }. I! u) z/ p. N
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 4 L, a$ e/ O+ E) w3 ^! t! f问为什么没什么问题。 " ]' B- I' D7 l% d# AIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ; z, n# R& k$ ?! @9 u2 Z4 ]7 c事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 0 v+ ]4 @; \5 E1 J: Z" \Talk about it. 3 e1 u) _" }: b3 T' l2 g. H ^+ o谈论下面的话题：. P9 o8 @& T" E! T$ S% H
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?& l, L3 ~. t0 w ?6 z+ w
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 0 C% T: Y$ M8 G- @9 y3 uIs it a kind of distant memory? + g( s- @+ a, S) P# f" l" `它是一种遥远的记忆？ 2 z9 w" o. [; h" B- n0 lDid you ever forget why you are doing something... 1 F1 q+ y- L5 T% ]3 j' q你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……) N0 B" G( a, X* V3 h
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?6 U& \/ Q3 p) i# q, h
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ ; J1 P; t& r1 x7 [7 T# mDo you write memos?. E9 {$ k$ v, w5 w7 E/ R; O& \
你写备忘录吗？; W' e& D. \; d4 ^; Y: h
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 9 i; L8 H* i2 J% J+ [你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？: z# C) t6 P- D. k8 W
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? & e) D* M! y; C) P还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 0 ^8 Y" K+ V, N4 UWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 0 }4 f, |2 R* T. W你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？