标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something, ]* i. V7 T6 L
4 w0 |9 }6 M% L# _3 d记住我们为什么做某事& A' x4 t1 B* V v
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing." E, {7 C: z# c& F3 X! p. A
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ( ]/ g6 }5 Z) gHave you ever done that?7 c, ?7 |+ d5 Y3 `" _2 V$ o. Y
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 9 `* w5 a1 I5 L7 K+ r* t. NI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 4 h- s; ^3 Y: I1 L' z5 [+ {/ N( s我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。+ V1 F' f. k6 b8 T v+ e
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.- i+ F8 `& b3 |6 M
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 # r4 b9 `4 U5 I/ N) r- @8 QAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ' f- O' g0 s5 I# G1 ?6 H然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 - I% P) N8 ?7 k% j0 UWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. , }6 N, E6 @- X3 ^' I y哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 & G( s+ @$ ]+ N7 x6 vThat's a memory problem.+ t! K) P3 n$ o2 d/ D" ~
这是一个记忆问题。 5 U/ }% Q: Q, `5 |- O) r( r! s! HI guess that counts too.- c! f% Y9 _# K4 B3 [( S
我想那很重要。 + R: A9 e( Q+ ?6 [ q% W1 |But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? # z1 |6 Y( F* @但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ! c% X+ e# B w C0 N2 V/ _7 p; L8 hAt one point, there was a reason we do something. + R3 D# }$ d2 W% O4 X; n) N1 y3 ~在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。) v# l ]: D! B) I0 v0 [
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. , @5 N9 H8 a3 n5 m对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ; l8 C A$ w! V- IIt's always could to ask ourselves why. , S' e: f# K! c( ^3 n$ Q+ y总是可以问问自己为什么。3 p# I& X4 l3 k8 P8 [
Why did I start to learn a language? 4 T; a2 F# j$ E1 Z8 c为什么我开始学习一种语言？ " Q) i, S" l9 [$ w1 b3 oWhy did I join this club?* Y( x% L! [: x- j y, _+ v( }
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？- \" p6 M$ f2 |" d( O/ K- Q1 J
Why my friend was this person?# g+ ?- T ?1 ^9 `
为什么我的朋友是这个人？( Y* J' F1 y2 E7 v, l
Why did I get married? * l8 O" p9 R- K1 \: W* f/ ?为什么我要结婚？ , T2 [0 | |# { }9 vIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. , A4 g) V% ^0 J5 @如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 * i4 n% l: q3 t5 q6 W9 j: L' f4 }+ ?I think we need indeed remind us of why. # B4 l; H+ t& p7 @3 ?, f* x6 B我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 " G1 A( A5 A1 d8 z9 H2 R, KOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 6 ?' c" Y! Z1 k0 f5 O- d否则很难完成我们所开始的。/ r) `8 B6 n2 B2 c, Y3 o {6 [
We stop starting. We quit the club.! Q6 E. x2 q* E4 ]
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ; U3 x% B+ y$ X' c; k: KWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ~4 ~4 w& w: x; q" j, d, e
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 9 j4 w3 J. g" n3 QThere's nothing wrong with asking why.3 y& |' P8 [- v; I8 m
问为什么没什么问题。 h7 ]% Y1 n# l g, OIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. , \8 m# e+ l9 F L事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。' _! }" m ?, A+ j% [
Talk about it.: I6 M6 e. i! e4 C( p$ d1 _& c
谈论下面的话题：0 I- w6 ]: E# F( O7 U5 m
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?5 O3 K0 U2 A3 D. n% ~' B6 B
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？( a, O% m+ b# j& B1 T5 w
Is it a kind of distant memory?, Z S2 K: h7 w' ^& F' b/ ^2 d
它是一种遥远的记忆？" m! |6 ?2 h5 g& s+ A$ m
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...+ G3 E: k3 C: Q
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ! F# j- S. {* o6 X/ H8 f) JHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? : l! c) |% `5 d# k& {4 V& d2 J你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？5 A% e* v- C) h& v$ \
Do you write memos? ! q5 l3 c% [$ v8 |你写备忘录吗？ " a5 ?' W+ J) X& q7 D2 lDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? " a7 n N; J0 |+ E2 n& |: g你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？+ X D" A8 r+ q9 @- [/ `
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 2 ~( m- c) j* P" I$ Q* P: t还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ + r4 P; ~& n6 \3 d! k a! f9 uWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?2 |3 O1 h9 w7 A5 V. }$ _
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？