标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something1 v% [ e' {3 ~& R1 a9 O# `* e, \
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记住我们为什么做某事0 H, B. k$ c9 @3 {# }9 B% R
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.4 a. J3 U* t+ b
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。: s5 I! b% U/ L
Have you ever done that? % m7 e L' R# @+ t2 b& w9 h2 X你曾有过这种经历吗？. ^6 @" m4 h$ r+ _) C1 C8 B
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 9 w, f$ F# N" i4 A8 t6 R, w* y3 f我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 - M, f% c& A) H. D% H. K# {- l% mI have called someone because I want to tell them something. ' v ^/ }* g3 [8 U* Q) d" F我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。4 K+ k9 a2 F5 v( k
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 2 s& a* `$ N4 K( M5 ^然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 6 X) o9 u4 m* E: \7 q/ k' vWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 3 L" j" `9 X h) M5 i哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ! z* _/ L- j* u* c! N0 cThat's a memory problem. ) i" X9 Y r% I, T5 _3 x" @这是一个记忆问题。 ( z: T7 {; }% C* I! ?. JI guess that counts too.3 @* n! F5 \+ B f; B/ ?
我想那很重要。2 Z% w, P: Y& n. a. C0 a
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?0 {+ Z3 d/ _- z8 U! a9 {
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ . S6 | Q. v+ R; w, o2 j2 a: aAt one point, there was a reason we do something.( O& [& k/ @% L
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ; N9 a% Q! W' |' ^For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ' D$ R3 f) u* \. j' p1 Y对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 " S7 \- _3 z- D/ K7 PIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 6 b' [0 h8 N, F总是可以问问自己为什么。 1 v: P3 f: g' N6 ^9 ?) b0 oWhy did I start to learn a language?# q. Q& d9 z; O: x
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ; U4 [; ^1 d% K; OWhy did I join this club? : x3 Q/ a/ L; D) |) Z& S, Q为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ . C; P; F( u1 |( |5 IWhy my friend was this person?3 _3 Z* H7 ]- t8 D3 A
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ , P# r1 N- P R, @! oWhy did I get married?6 |' ~) B' O3 r% j% \; Z
为什么我要结婚？% b9 _' y4 S$ g
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. , E) E2 n5 M+ R& }8 ]0 u如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ( z5 G+ z0 ]; n! J% D( a* x5 s1 l# BI think we need indeed remind us of why.; J* v2 g/ |# K p. a
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。5 n, Y# y: x- H( l
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. ! u4 \$ q7 u6 x; e- V& S: k否则很难完成我们所开始的。 + N. h: [. w- K8 Z O' t% x" w( b+ yWe stop starting. We quit the club. 3 B' O! S3 }" G0 n9 H4 Z7 r我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。2 O9 ]0 j3 ^/ x
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 9 f U/ @" \: j% a& A我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。! G2 U* v' P6 U- C# s$ d/ r
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 6 n. p( W4 O$ }# {( e问为什么没什么问题。* e$ I; c. [, H, j* K! n- l
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.; h+ O4 c5 j1 m& Y* d# B
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。4 k) O) q C! y
Talk about it./ A' v* Z2 R& k1 h0 }( M
谈论下面的话题：( M; c' ^! t% K
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ; }4 w4 K6 A0 c' C你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？5 K: X, k+ g; A8 y
Is it a kind of distant memory?$ \2 e+ J: y V0 i, K' U1 `
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 1 Y' k: V+ i, J& {" c6 g+ a1 Y# |Did you ever forget why you are doing something...1 B# D' J# k) F4 m! `: K$ x
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ' q& s. z5 H1 m) I. g3 `9 l3 `How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 2 X R+ v) m; z# q你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？( E m3 p) f' }5 M2 y
Do you write memos?! b3 d" {/ C1 J2 i8 y( i$ _/ z
你写备忘录吗？2 h. H- H" }7 O
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?( |# x! @' k5 Y0 I: Z/ r% e
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ : L! P0 b' U8 V I* M$ N3 O0 ~What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? # J3 T4 a7 F7 d! E; B0 p% y- r8 j还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？; U3 X- d/ V* k! k3 f1 j
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?9 }- J0 o5 K f3 s/ ]
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？