标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something , L9 Q: G/ N1 T( ]/ Z3 h) z, ` ) H) U6 f8 J/ U记住我们为什么做某事4 f, |' z* l2 \+ ^
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.6 N$ l, Q0 S2 Z8 v9 C/ K6 O* ]
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。3 x1 F$ D' ? X5 \ I T8 Z3 r) \
Have you ever done that? " c0 J8 d0 n: p, v; x9 I你曾有过这种经历吗？ ( n) G" _" ?2 [4 F5 w* t* VI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. : ` D$ S- ^: V4 r我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。' W3 o- b" Q/ T0 d, q# v$ V1 v
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. & P& n, z8 n8 Y/ {- v1 @/ j我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 : M( `4 g* o/ L9 |, g0 C1 JAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. , J0 n& T8 I; t2 w) S7 ~2 N+ D' B然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 + s) I- u' t+ O( ?7 C. p: h$ MWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.& ]: H- r3 @# t, k
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。* H: [6 y" Z, i+ k7 G2 `& w+ r
That's a memory problem. 5 Y3 ^0 v% ~; a/ L, c这是一个记忆问题。; N1 U# O/ b/ b( K6 E& |
I guess that counts too. " V8 e) Y* ~ }! d" k我想那很重要。" Z: _9 M: i1 V# l- r
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?1 ]0 N5 x8 S- t- `7 _2 Z
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 0 z% n, v) h: K7 |0 YAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 2 x* X- D; e, Q) {5 ]在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 * `* h9 R5 a# t) t' EFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. : C1 D6 v: K9 `7 u* j对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。3 }$ w9 V' }$ i1 u
It's always could to ask ourselves why.6 S# n( Z* a$ O4 m4 K
总是可以问问自己为什么。 , P( H1 P Y$ d0 HWhy did I start to learn a language?" F2 R2 j: M& ]! i5 x2 V
为什么我开始学习一种语言？1 x2 q$ m3 R. `0 \. X1 G
Why did I join this club? 7 n: c( r9 o5 Y' Y0 N为什么我加入这个俱乐部？0 @# H8 s! y9 M# V; D* v; p
Why my friend was this person? 3 g5 X: E; r/ Y- r ^$ _1 e为什么我的朋友是这个人？: I U0 X6 G( g! X, ]
Why did I get married?* p5 l) b# _+ i" Q- R# E j& e
为什么我要结婚？ ) s6 A! Q- I9 X. d. G& |* R, I5 `5 \8 ~If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.8 _' Y! I: D( @. P9 X
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ! A" r1 l3 S4 h: U {; LI think we need indeed remind us of why. - X ]0 P4 }1 y我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。" g, v" [) l: M1 o* H: @
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.7 E, A! X( t: J
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 R# F/ G% f# R0 A* `! _% MWe stop starting. We quit the club. - X7 _# A6 ]0 B- B; R, W2 C% O3 k我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 0 U) I4 c) r1 i5 s; e3 OWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.1 l1 c/ J, d/ z) L9 ]
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 J% O: p- P1 HThere's nothing wrong with asking why., V; g! Y; A0 Y% }# z9 `5 h
问为什么没什么问题。4 G( n- ]! q2 d5 d" \. z
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ( K B9 J) D" Q1 c+ Y事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。4 ?7 o) k" Q3 u4 \3 p; |3 W, y: ~
Talk about it. ' |; J3 O6 Y+ Z8 \4 O- e* m谈论下面的话题： + F2 N/ ?6 p4 S( v) r& SIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?8 w0 ]* q9 E R& g5 E+ ~% X4 I3 g
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？! C$ T$ ^ D1 A; \% X* N
Is it a kind of distant memory? ! Q/ E. x4 V* | N) T) g9 s它是一种遥远的记忆？ 8 K, R0 [# W# c. `. ]' |, u7 eDid you ever forget why you are doing something... , u! F4 e' B1 [: r: ]* \你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 6 X. H6 {+ O( u! r& nHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 3 S" `: l$ [$ o% t你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 1 Q: u6 B3 @7 h* V& ^Do you write memos?8 D/ K7 E, _! O% g4 |; E# _. o: S
你写备忘录吗？ ; L6 Q4 c* T5 D9 qDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?) s5 k0 O$ a# L0 `% a0 J
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ r1 _6 b. h- m j- f) N2 i0 `: E6 W
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?4 e- D6 T/ A" n% J2 a
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ - S! d$ s9 a( e8 F WWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ( A; n8 H( K7 q你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？