标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ! A* R, v0 J: _5 P; J, \ 8 v" C1 U8 d; f. `& H5 X9 y2 P" \记住我们为什么做某事 X* Q( U3 |5 }; \! [5 V0 Y- uSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. * x8 q- X% d, S! o' }4 V, [6 w有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 3 X, v0 T4 F6 Z5 ~, z d/ nHave you ever done that?& `& W6 R0 x! u) R; J) c1 B
你曾有过这种经历吗？( B3 [7 W) d: }0 Q: z) l
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.3 _9 Z B9 |& p4 y0 ^
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。: y- l) q+ Y. C$ \) V0 ? I; g
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.; ^0 |4 N/ e" g
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。7 E4 K$ c v+ |* h# e' n0 G
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. # j2 y. D0 ]( O. {然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。' c7 U5 }3 q+ }) G9 p, t
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.5 y4 O) Y+ L6 o, q- ^" o g5 D
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。, _$ T. u3 ?) V/ W3 y) p, U
That's a memory problem. 4 i3 ]$ y/ b9 g- g, c6 o- z2 a这是一个记忆问题。 + a, \, s& }. U/ n* H8 f. W/ j \2 U% kI guess that counts too. % E( o' g2 K5 X- q0 V A# T我想那很重要。/ r, U2 Q" H1 a7 p* {& F
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? . b. q6 P. Q* c: n但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 8 Y( [7 i" e L, a" pAt one point, there was a reason we do something.# L3 M5 F3 Y5 ^0 H* i; q& E' Y Y
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。, T0 y; W6 R4 b8 h1 b$ s
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.3 N) _5 a% b7 |2 t
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 % [- Z ~# u* Z4 j3 EIt's always could to ask ourselves why.! R# R/ g5 h3 z# ` k4 y9 D
总是可以问问自己为什么。 1 u: E0 J6 i2 A% q! I8 J) `Why did I start to learn a language?; S' J- D* J' `& D4 I
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ) X. ^+ S3 a" }9 ]) ]& DWhy did I join this club? 9 o: b, c, t) E$ }! U为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ - b+ C( `& k4 x0 W# {Why my friend was this person?! |8 d0 n5 E: x# V
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ " w: l9 r' H, }! EWhy did I get married? , X: u8 m% T$ i( P9 `$ l5 \$ w; L9 }& L为什么我要结婚？ $ }" A0 C8 C" Q+ wIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. % @3 V. ?+ v+ i" B8 k如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 / Q0 v5 t" m3 _% }/ d) S8 o: x( LI think we need indeed remind us of why.; y+ U3 `- w0 U% I
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。2 U& H4 u d% n3 b! V+ e
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. ( h) S( J M& f, T. p8 m否则很难完成我们所开始的。 F4 l, S% Y# ?* s' ?6 WWe stop starting. We quit the club.0 y1 F; S& O* Y V' {* S; I& f
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。( W2 i# ?1 `: r- C8 I% E
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.5 l: H/ c; S: o g
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。1 _- P, A! Q( j: A8 O; x2 F) o: S
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ; D; y2 |$ N) c问为什么没什么问题。7 u/ G6 H. s5 b' T
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. , \- u& C+ i$ ]& x+ @事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。3 e; y3 P) h9 _: Y, B* A2 w, w9 m
Talk about it. , |3 O3 d ^2 U/ e( Y谈论下面的话题： 9 t, I" ]# R9 S; n( M3 w4 bIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?; ?! i5 D; H! E+ Z: b
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？5 {( y. e3 p% @# v
Is it a kind of distant memory?8 [% d7 z) p- {' C5 j% C1 M8 p3 p% i6 h
它是一种遥远的记忆？0 G! a+ [. x8 ^
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... + k0 h, {4 U- v你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……- s5 \' c6 i, E2 g
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?+ x* F. M& ~4 b: b' s" P% L+ Z
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ : P# N0 r( z0 ~- qDo you write memos?. k* ?' K- b3 d6 u
你写备忘录吗？ ! @2 t) c0 o7 }) h. FDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 3 d/ h( u: e2 p$ e0 w7 U+ f6 _. E你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？( T# l7 q1 M7 E! {
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?; J' b: p6 G N+ }) W. \
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ) W% x0 W6 _" f$ pWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 5 `2 a0 k+ ?3 w9 J你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？