标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something2 R, p& o2 X5 w! a( f3 ^; E
5 @0 `# p8 F V1 ~3 d; B记住我们为什么做某事 . `- a, [1 T9 c, N6 \Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.% p+ x3 ?2 D* K
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 5 ^" [, W% u% H: ?0 [2 g6 nHave you ever done that?4 k. x ~& ?' r
你曾有过这种经历吗？8 N* p5 n3 C% ]3 c5 t% f0 l
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. $ M; l# Q' [$ @7 I我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 0 @/ j# f* {. e" lI have called someone because I want to tell them something.' j; J, h+ h) Z
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ) L Z- s* t# m Z9 V* nAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular./ i9 j+ w+ B ?2 H3 D
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ! H l4 N. u& p4 P4 |5 S, sWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. % V& X) o% n$ P- C, d8 G2 X6 n哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。8 X6 b7 K5 l5 a5 d d( P& P/ T# W
That's a memory problem. 1 ]* g3 ~& H& s% A! R这是一个记忆问题。" T- r: i( D8 L( ~( `2 }
I guess that counts too., A8 I6 w4 D9 ?* e# N. P2 ?
我想那很重要。 # S, \% |0 A: p9 b2 |But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 2 s5 V+ z! c3 H5 c. b. L" X但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ " D" _. `; z* UAt one point, there was a reason we do something. + b6 v( f1 X9 j2 U在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。+ h* ~5 s. @' F6 v, H/ ~! v5 P: _; I
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. / E# E" P0 o p+ G8 X. Y' b' {对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 4 i2 c- T0 I/ M( ?# A! eIt's always could to ask ourselves why. / x& u: C( C) z总是可以问问自己为什么。6 B# ^" n0 q$ v" a9 C! b# H
Why did I start to learn a language?& t3 L7 I! Q/ V6 Z) W
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ " n! ?- T, o$ v1 z* GWhy did I join this club?% [/ X1 K" D9 y( a/ m6 P3 ~
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 4 A9 Y9 K7 z& h3 l$ jWhy my friend was this person?' H+ C5 }0 @" @( c7 \1 W+ V
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ % {& g& x) w, Y: I! q3 ~& cWhy did I get married?' S* } S' f- w8 P1 v/ d0 T
为什么我要结婚？% ?2 K" q) A, U! c& B0 c+ i
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 9 r) `1 E; M1 |3 \* B9 a如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 $ E1 h6 T$ }3 x2 E- KI think we need indeed remind us of why. v. F3 R5 a3 a! \5 u2 |我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 % i4 ^, g- T7 U& H5 r+ D3 y* FOr else it's tough to finish what we started.$ P) X' x" B& b6 B" K p" H
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 5 }8 N3 v5 T0 D' Y% vWe stop starting. We quit the club. ( V% P* \, P( a5 l, `我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ) Z( x0 Y, _+ Z8 MWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.3 H: j* \: m- r( x4 H
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。3 m3 v5 W9 _# G1 v
There's nothing wrong with asking why.7 d: Y9 O0 h* W6 t
问为什么没什么问题。9 B+ v9 u3 l3 C% Z. p$ }
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.1 V2 p+ h7 [0 @" P! L9 l" W! {; [) y
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。2 n4 F6 e; `2 ]& E ^/ j
Talk about it. ; f: ^* K% y6 _& K$ j$ e( h( O谈论下面的话题：" E# K1 W4 m9 l6 J& y: H4 G
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ) b5 d$ ~+ `% Q0 f你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？' j, _* d+ ]3 Z
Is it a kind of distant memory? 9 I' i O* v. c! d' B6 {5 F4 Z它是一种遥远的记忆？, h, I0 x+ v5 d" @$ d! B& ~
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 3 Z( J/ T: F2 B你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… " X% v/ C1 G6 b7 s9 THow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?# |5 m4 e& {* {( [0 F$ |) Z9 p
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？) K2 L: U) @& \: ?. L5 x
Do you write memos?( s* ?9 j! V* F& M2 B# [+ \- h6 M
你写备忘录吗？0 U4 b" \" `& L+ ^
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?3 L. I7 U6 T. s% g& {
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？8 y+ V) K# L5 _3 o' \- b
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?- N& r) E0 N: U7 b6 Y
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ $ {5 z4 J, d2 q8 |2 s/ NWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 3 S/ J, O& b( b6 b8 l8 Z你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？