标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something1 a6 b2 G9 b8 y. Y
$ Y0 f( n* }! I% R记住我们为什么做某事# ]" y; ^, l8 M0 D' {- y& ~* i- f
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 5 \ W/ c; _! L7 D有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 / Z/ O7 I: [( S; }( i. v$ d' mHave you ever done that?$ R0 t7 ~ X2 V X1 l. N/ ?
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 0 }1 q1 u& m5 NI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.0 P4 b! {, g* \
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 N' U/ _! W% d/ ^' ?
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.' _, {/ u/ U' v# i* i; |
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 & Y9 z w3 W3 Y6 d- ?And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. }3 K0 Q% t( \
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 % o, l {7 z. H$ Y- A# a1 AWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 9 x4 l5 y; I1 [! f0 s8 t8 R" v* ?% ^哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ' o, R A- d) h. GThat's a memory problem. ' D. d& S/ b: E# k* B, `' V4 t# b6 h这是一个记忆问题。9 x1 [+ o2 N' c. r# l* @' A
I guess that counts too. $ D5 S4 K' ^9 D' ]我想那很重要。 % g" w7 l# L( ZBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?/ H( i* H! J' o3 \& W. }8 I
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 1 i, q+ j( w- SAt one point, there was a reason we do something.( R% i7 d3 U2 g0 m5 _1 B& x0 V
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。- ^7 M" [( ?3 K" `) f0 Z; E
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. % H6 p( N3 J0 i, i. h- J对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。7 j* G! G# B# M( }
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 9 d1 [6 z4 w+ W5 [总是可以问问自己为什么。/ Z) E. R; n, e( c) |/ ^
Why did I start to learn a language?$ l& R: D+ i. L$ a( ~3 z2 V
为什么我开始学习一种语言？! X' u. Z* X: `- J6 p( b
Why did I join this club?! }/ b* L' d! c, F' a7 s m
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ . Q4 i, g1 v' F2 [6 OWhy my friend was this person?- L' t% d; z! E; ?# V5 G+ P
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ - F1 B# i# x M% wWhy did I get married?+ \% d) W; _7 U* H: x1 X
为什么我要结婚？" E" Q3 R/ t7 I, ^0 \4 c& |
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.# Y5 Q7 G, f+ {# f
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ' |! K* H# }" g, }3 LI think we need indeed remind us of why.) X& r' |; e+ ~" b1 P% r: o% P
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 3 S. _: j5 k* c& TOr else it's tough to finish what we started. : i6 x4 c( P+ X6 Q否则很难完成我们所开始的。( \- M% l8 A/ H
We stop starting. We quit the club.! U% H, Z4 R% P5 N
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。* t' ]% D, } M D# l
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ; S# `$ K \: }9 T我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。0 a) a' q& t4 @5 U) V
There's nothing wrong with asking why. $ O) |5 b" G, t2 u/ i, L- t5 ?# j问为什么没什么问题。 - O8 N3 Y6 t- iIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.2 Z& O; i2 n) A# v& B: Z9 K4 T0 h
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。& x% i" R( A! i @& `. q5 P
Talk about it. " ^( Y) K) D v" v% w) L8 ~谈论下面的话题： 2 w7 O/ H8 p! B5 {; cIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?" B3 y& ?/ H* Y: q4 M7 f: W2 q
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？, I) ]( V. ^0 Z# p* `
Is it a kind of distant memory? $ _8 u$ A: Q9 d% u( K8 C1 h它是一种遥远的记忆？ 9 ^- ~; R4 f }5 |2 E: _3 g5 ~0 [, H6 jDid you ever forget why you are doing something..." Z$ K. G5 M6 Z7 }* T
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……" q" ]7 K) `) p+ y4 e# U! y
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 9 k$ W7 ?; W! O7 @ t/ U; J6 V你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 2 j% P; W$ I: j8 {' Q9 \) h7 oDo you write memos? ) g( i [" G" }# E' [# V1 ^你写备忘录吗？: W9 y }& t% R1 v! E3 _% o* ~
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?1 R2 E+ K8 h9 P
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ + T: x) _0 n/ c7 _What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?5 M3 d; f1 X( F6 W& R
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ # V1 y, h1 T d) ?$ z$ aWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?) Q7 s. _/ ]2 P8 N" K
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？