标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ) w4 b& u' U/ Q# h3 U9 H/ l6 _+ h9 i4 Q6 l4 X1 s/ B; V7 R
记住我们为什么做某事 0 C& M0 G- _. sSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.2 ~- i( d! N" g X
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 9 ~) m7 ^( r% R8 ~" Z/ s' g/ CHave you ever done that?& l$ ?. @' c6 R& S
你曾有过这种经历吗？' o; u, o, v2 r5 r
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.9 V5 N% S* T' S! O9 a0 [
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 8 v8 {: X5 M* F" j+ s* g$ \3 lI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 1 Z8 ~0 w+ T& P! s; Y我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。# }" |, Y! ~# b: Y f H
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. . s. d0 ~0 a6 t然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 + {! r* f V2 |Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ! n2 h; u; p A# F哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。8 Y$ o1 P$ _3 z% l8 ?! x' f
That's a memory problem.& L& V, ? v0 v2 C! F) w) C
这是一个记忆问题。 / U# |5 G* f$ y- z& }$ P% I$ YI guess that counts too." u1 o2 L/ {2 \/ W6 S$ o
我想那很重要。" c! W( [9 Q; @5 M/ k$ p
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 0 k8 z& p, H# E6 o( ^6 p但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ; h; G1 @5 _) r+ ~- IAt one point, there was a reason we do something. ) Y" `: ~- L. J- S4 s2 m在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 % l1 b8 n/ b' Z- @/ ]; A8 G7 ZFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ( M9 C, }: ~; |! l% a对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。# z! G q1 O$ K$ D* E- D9 L/ Y: g
It's always could to ask ourselves why.3 g% O& z% n3 o3 `4 d( k
总是可以问问自己为什么。 9 g! j3 j% U* F) i2 K2 N3 pWhy did I start to learn a language? s% T" z. ]- Y3 c- ~/ n1 t: ~1 n
为什么我开始学习一种语言？& x5 s/ Q9 V9 }. P4 G
Why did I join this club? : f8 s5 D) @: z$ s2 d* P1 e6 z为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ : r# @5 S1 G, X0 K0 k& Y0 ~5 o3 QWhy my friend was this person?0 b$ H) Y" s' |& x! |0 K
为什么我的朋友是这个人？% @% {" L) ~1 J. i# n5 X- i
Why did I get married?. j& P1 x2 i, ?* A
为什么我要结婚？) { Q7 Q/ m$ X0 W" e
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 3 V* ~5 q9 |% B6 O+ r如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 + N9 H& ^2 A/ B, v4 I5 }9 z1 r" ~I think we need indeed remind us of why. $ I! f+ `# ?4 ~* n- l我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 " }# b& C9 y( ~& FOr else it's tough to finish what we started.: {% c" E8 Z& e' y
否则很难完成我们所开始的。" N$ Z. ?/ g% L9 F4 a6 F
We stop starting. We quit the club. ; R2 R$ f/ A3 C' t" X( `* X! O我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。1 k2 G7 ^0 T4 @
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.2 [- s* u; {; y! A* p( t* z4 B
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。$ o( j6 p* u6 a0 U" k# n
There's nothing wrong with asking why.0 _8 n, q1 b* V( }, N% b
问为什么没什么问题。 % N2 w, ]2 n% o: y/ C( c1 y) `0 r! \In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. " g/ t4 J3 @. X事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 , q& \8 V8 h( h+ o2 |' oTalk about it. " i! J% w1 D- {3 p% |5 Y谈论下面的话题： * R& x. e. \" I3 I( |Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?, A/ |- U2 F( {
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？" R0 I4 s: u) h, h% {- s
Is it a kind of distant memory?$ X+ n: r3 p% U0 O. k4 D
它是一种遥远的记忆？ 0 W- ^& `1 o& I( S# VDid you ever forget why you are doing something... , v3 x. ]2 L3 d# U; \; u+ ]你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ) D# c) l( x( v6 EHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ' h$ }+ V4 l# g9 p( U你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ " D6 B0 S' s+ d# K1 P( ~# N$ wDo you write memos? $ I( @- U# R T' T O' k你写备忘录吗？5 e7 j8 \3 v {% z& |/ ?" P! n
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?' q4 l% n, H3 m9 h
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？5 R! M X, h- @! _$ ^" y
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 1 w# a0 P: v+ R( O0 m$ J还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？5 n: o( h; a" y1 F4 Q/ k
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ' D! l/ x; \# C- W7 d你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？