标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 5 I0 Q5 J" ?( s4 C4 t5 @! b4 Z" e6 a8 U/ N$ C
记住我们为什么做某事/ l4 q% h4 e% S5 \
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. $ Q7 y9 c8 j2 M0 p2 }7 V" b有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。& T$ X7 `* Z5 F( i0 A
Have you ever done that? ) o& D5 r2 e( n% l5 ]你曾有过这种经历吗？ ' m4 _0 d T& @/ F q, aI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. & x! ~2 F# U k& n! l0 B! p& I我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。& ?- ?/ I+ b( ?3 {
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.8 j% ~5 O C% D: R% w
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ) d2 n5 J" x+ H/ [/ jAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ( }$ X, Y! F8 G+ }4 S% G1 A然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 " S4 z8 p% i9 Q5 iWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.0 a# d) n7 j% D8 T' K( g4 F
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。4 R( x6 d8 m& @, X: a, \
That's a memory problem. * r( G, h, [" x- o7 A2 H7 ]这是一个记忆问题。' ]7 y6 M- Y+ r5 X! V( @/ Y: b! P
I guess that counts too.9 D. j8 W- A5 m6 g) E
我想那很重要。 5 c) ~( [! o* B: [: N" L- P& PBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?/ j' V2 ?. I8 ]& ]3 ?+ v) c
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 9 a. Z+ {. a. U% |At one point, there was a reason we do something.4 _( h' D5 p" d& q
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。2 y+ K6 H1 j7 u1 b. a0 [, y
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.3 q; v/ O& |' b) f+ D9 ]" X
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 5 Z( x+ q4 H! W- i2 d6 S$ a& L9 |. FIt's always could to ask ourselves why. & D6 B, {6 n; n2 o( H总是可以问问自己为什么。! g* ~& J9 N) G, p/ d7 C
Why did I start to learn a language?. v3 Q$ {- I: ^7 Q& E5 s* u1 H6 \
为什么我开始学习一种语言？: w, @+ g0 ~ Y6 L/ k. }' Z
Why did I join this club?2 C: [5 X J2 x: ]1 ]! c% V6 c
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？7 n# U5 J% b* N) O0 S. d' o
Why my friend was this person?9 p4 L9 T( c7 h% r) d# V3 N
为什么我的朋友是这个人？$ M; |% D; w, Q- d
Why did I get married? & l4 x5 u" V+ T! l为什么我要结婚？2 I! V& d U' V4 r
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.' k" Y2 c1 U O
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。/ b8 @& R4 I) \
I think we need indeed remind us of why. # W: K9 D- u- F( j. M1 J我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ; R4 l* t3 F3 V* AOr else it's tough to finish what we started. $ T+ z% C2 q0 z6 d否则很难完成我们所开始的。 x, ?. B: k) g: H# o$ B6 ~
We stop starting. We quit the club.+ V D* M. B# s/ W: F0 f* G7 w3 w
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。, O7 c1 b6 k, l/ t6 W5 i
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. " x1 e* S! d) R+ E. v$ \5 M我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。5 P- G9 \! L* A4 R$ C% E
There's nothing wrong with asking why., `( S; h$ K j) G' O# \* `
问为什么没什么问题。 ) v8 x3 M9 h/ G( ]# fIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing., ` K: |4 p! z4 u& ]
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。! L7 {$ `% L8 L* O
Talk about it.. f+ v. @- [8 p* j" \3 ^
谈论下面的话题： * O8 O" O |/ S' o% f+ o) ?Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?( T# k+ U* h7 ^
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ J. e- M" x1 L8 l) |6 lIs it a kind of distant memory?% D1 a f' Z* M& w9 g1 F
它是一种遥远的记忆？$ c9 M4 x4 [# _/ k
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...7 M$ n( l T; E+ u* [4 z/ K
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……/ C0 N& g4 I$ ?
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? : p+ s. n4 b9 q你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ x6 j9 t3 t; J b, Q
Do you write memos? % j$ n3 E+ @! Q* \$ u0 O/ } _你写备忘录吗？- E1 K& k; Q: U+ F7 i$ `
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ; B3 i5 O/ ], \" G* ^你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？2 p) i, {4 H( \& ` S7 {8 k8 g: _' T
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? " I7 K$ T. h3 h还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ % L$ E7 O2 }+ p; \. T+ pWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 6 y" v" j6 J$ M3 P% [你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？