标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something% A, L2 Y9 D; \ _
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记住我们为什么做某事 : \+ u4 {/ \5 N4 E; ^* SSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ! d# v! N5 j5 i$ \5 v: \9 M有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 : P0 S" o7 E5 \. F: ?2 x0 j2 F/ NHave you ever done that?8 m( o; C, _' W& m0 f* y: N- L
你曾有过这种经历吗？ , ^1 \9 x) |! p. v! @ X% q% k! ?I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ( v: I% Z( t6 [* ]我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。+ i) @ y3 s; J! [/ K3 l6 h
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 8 Q2 ?+ {2 r0 L9 _我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 $ z" b4 V9 S! H* S- Q5 Q% D, WAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ' V9 O: E; h8 X' B5 l$ i6 X3 N+ L- X然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。9 I3 _& K7 U" f% p4 e& i, a1 B
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 7 o. a: L7 C# z: B0 K4 D- n哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 3 v( n" }# {# [That's a memory problem. 7 M4 V9 }% _* G& h' G: R这是一个记忆问题。: g6 V9 T, g# T& b) v
I guess that counts too. ) ^4 d" p% B" D: K我想那很重要。7 T+ m% m8 X% \" r" ?5 a
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? G6 l/ q- [3 A$ h8 X0 h但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ; o; y# I9 R7 }+ Q. R/ LAt one point, there was a reason we do something. $ G+ E- [# N, ~' R& V8 c1 y' V在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。/ u/ P' G: B; R8 [) h" F
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. " K- X) k' p5 |& p+ u/ k( S对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。6 Q/ P$ k7 w4 }+ G2 S: V& q: E: h: L
It's always could to ask ourselves why.! N( {0 B( ^4 {/ e
总是可以问问自己为什么。, d1 s' H+ P2 k5 [9 `' u+ b
Why did I start to learn a language? , @; s1 `4 K, \/ x7 `为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 5 I& n: b" B- v( y# HWhy did I join this club? + {% Z8 P3 B, {为什么我加入这个俱乐部？, n) x' B, s. r$ i
Why my friend was this person? ( Z# w* R2 F+ l7 X" P为什么我的朋友是这个人？# t% f2 H' @) d7 L. n* u
Why did I get married?9 U0 t! W! ~& p4 _
为什么我要结婚？ ) o. g" Y6 F0 A5 h8 ZIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.+ r7 @5 O( `& E. T# {
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 6 g* z* M: v9 W7 E% HI think we need indeed remind us of why. # p/ d% m& \7 T我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。7 E/ `% E! o! o
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 4 `% i4 r9 X, I* v q) D- M否则很难完成我们所开始的。: ^/ U+ e6 y5 p# V& i
We stop starting. We quit the club. @5 p9 y: Y+ [, H# U我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 : A% ?3 x# {/ C; k4 u* k- E% uWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged./ y9 _$ {. \' u9 ]5 s
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 * [3 |, T* ?6 S5 W, |There's nothing wrong with asking why. 5 \: ]% {! Y0 ~2 p问为什么没什么问题。 8 D* u* Y' K$ q9 U, ?" iIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.) p, J0 @# W5 H3 Z0 l) E1 m
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。; V2 v: Z M$ C. I1 p- l4 Y2 o/ g
Talk about it. 1 Q0 |7 H! x1 d- U T- s/ T+ E5 l6 y谈论下面的话题： 6 H0 r: G* X+ x/ sIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? y ^" g- f: d* w
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ $ u8 m0 Q0 ]$ HIs it a kind of distant memory? # L: g' _, O. v- \9 i* x' }. f它是一种遥远的记忆？/ E6 E7 v& Y! A! {1 o: r
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... S; t2 i0 j5 k1 ?4 z你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… ~; Z& \: |' YHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?0 p( I! N) ^+ z
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ : Q8 x4 [7 [8 HDo you write memos?; r5 j: S! u/ t# |% S) J
你写备忘录吗？ " ]& N, U+ b0 tDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?0 w( Y1 |+ A' X7 \6 b
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？& r" {5 h# M9 _' {: f+ v7 H
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?( r. ^, M4 e; k. ~% h
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ + f" i+ N. E- E# Y" h% gWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? - ?) h2 j7 ]7 }( C, {你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？