标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something" K- E" i& `2 ]; u W& e X
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记住我们为什么做某事 # ]6 t; e4 E/ b+ z9 ^Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.# r) Q; O1 p% n% j4 k( R+ Z
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。) } y) ]; j+ Q) n
Have you ever done that? 9 i- y& n9 C+ r' n" C0 ]* i- d, Y你曾有过这种经历吗？ 8 U6 n# k: f! z6 E, gI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 5 H* ~4 C- X; N% B0 ~. y* A8 ~我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。7 {8 X8 ^6 W" B5 {/ O
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. . P, v. P+ N6 E. T% }我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。" w" ^: E( ~! o3 o6 _2 @6 P
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ( e5 H3 p3 E9 C0 b% }然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 - l& j9 V: q7 V! d4 @# GWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.$ k: _. _& U8 v
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。3 E* Q1 T5 F" E
That's a memory problem. 6 Y' e# I- c! c0 W这是一个记忆问题。 , _* s" |" S" P! OI guess that counts too.2 ~0 W" W9 \: s2 H4 S% x
我想那很重要。 $ X( e& W+ d. y$ cBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? / m9 V- r1 S7 {3 W {& f但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？% T0 T' B3 a' m2 m3 W1 Z
At one point, there was a reason we do something.3 X- R/ O; O: t- b. t( R5 ^
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 ' s6 O% Y% `! Q8 t9 NFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.. D- k* x0 W% \4 Q# E D. ^
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 * k5 j3 l) }) a/ v, M0 f8 a( ^It's always could to ask ourselves why. 8 I2 s: l% K8 [, ]* `总是可以问问自己为什么。4 z7 p$ }6 G$ E9 `" _
Why did I start to learn a language?8 n; i; {: g5 Y1 z* j2 Q
为什么我开始学习一种语言？9 v6 N. z6 V! e: z
Why did I join this club? ) Z+ O. @- O% }# H3 J6 R为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 1 k' |) F( [! RWhy my friend was this person?8 E/ A( L1 |# R# \) _9 s! J& X
为什么我的朋友是这个人？0 x0 I( _& D) H l% C7 y
Why did I get married?( ^; ~1 ^* A+ C$ a6 V
为什么我要结婚？ 7 f# z& \ F4 u. GIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.2 L1 v' A g6 h% p4 V! p9 a
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。: [2 ^0 e5 i& Z4 T3 r: Z/ d4 N* d
I think we need indeed remind us of why.# b9 U7 x& Q0 i- C# m
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 2 U) a7 @0 q6 k: O2 EOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 6 c* z7 u# {: E' ?0 E0 [否则很难完成我们所开始的。- H: L# }) S' \4 `4 `/ \
We stop starting. We quit the club. ; h! h* a0 ^) Q& k \我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。. v5 ~4 s# |! t, o
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. . ?; ^3 T" U6 [) G$ X# Y" D我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ! `: W8 F$ Y3 PThere's nothing wrong with asking why. / b0 \6 G" x! S3 H z6 `: o: r问为什么没什么问题。 ( X) d, z( Y$ K: B* iIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.% R( w/ G* E# K# f
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 + j; a% m @0 Z' B* Y; ZTalk about it.! k: `" Z! F( Q7 H/ V* j( _" m
谈论下面的话题： % x, D1 K) }! k" iIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 4 H* Z7 b8 f/ d+ j- l你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？" g) ~/ h5 S% Y# F4 n: P0 u
Is it a kind of distant memory? 5 C$ A4 J6 {$ {* I" P它是一种遥远的记忆？4 U& w9 h! l5 G5 k6 I
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...' m4 {% n4 e. O0 f5 K" g
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… " V6 v8 F2 T0 ~2 F" O* J' S1 FHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something? % u3 P: Z) W3 L3 c" Q; W你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 4 V9 [* _* r& O. g1 VDo you write memos?; a1 K. E r& l2 [: O
你写备忘录吗？ ; b! H1 h3 Y8 q5 c7 q0 s5 `0 tDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ' a3 u+ s5 C' e. x" d' B6 V你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ . Q& K& _) }* y, o2 W. `/ I; u; u2 [What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?) y7 M2 K" o5 } M5 p/ T7 L/ O
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？4 B% X- x- M; I7 j
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? u+ N) T* [! o4 g你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？