标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something. u& h0 C5 C2 \8 x
& u! [, y5 L0 u1 N5 {! v- s记住我们为什么做某事0 s+ d8 Z$ C* R* Y! R* [% ^8 f
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.: U4 Q7 H9 h9 e. N; A
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。/ k l7 g) k' H0 F0 {- [) h% u
Have you ever done that? ! s; m. _ _* c你曾有过这种经历吗？ - J# J+ t( u1 v4 p) X, QI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 8 V$ _9 ^/ j9 k( m4 R我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。; \/ M' t1 k7 {# Q. I/ y4 [7 w* |
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 3 ^' O R% P: L2 y我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 7 }; H, n; ^! R% ~* E$ i: P7 ^5 O# [7 sAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.0 @' c- l' R/ Y' J( O& t1 O* M
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 % f/ z9 S/ Y- @/ r- o5 U( \Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. & J4 ~/ D8 w* A% O. I' Z$ i哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。3 \6 q( M4 Y# T" n
That's a memory problem. 6 C' v6 A' k0 f; A这是一个记忆问题。1 N0 [' W: B8 i8 u' g6 e
I guess that counts too.1 c2 |, G6 s/ ]8 F# O2 A; f
我想那很重要。/ j* d2 W h' D v3 @" ?. I
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? + G. r) U( k9 k9 ~8 }0 u但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ! Z8 H# Q+ {% B4 o) p+ s2 bAt one point, there was a reason we do something.6 S1 a- \4 M8 H" y: ?5 |% S3 _
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。% C' s+ b/ ]0 c+ `2 o% X
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.3 N r8 x* ^; t2 s6 X
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 H* e, S. Z) u. J. }" x# x5 c5 ?, C
It's always could to ask ourselves why. . @; K' K! m- [( }) ~ y& Y3 Q* Q总是可以问问自己为什么。 ( X1 X6 R+ ?% T$ ]Why did I start to learn a language? 3 j7 s2 q/ f, V4 J3 u! J9 v( O2 w! o, t& y! @为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 1 U5 y; O! ?1 g( m; v$ t; i. PWhy did I join this club? |# D b$ ?4 r7 x为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ / N# H' A4 m- R3 c/ eWhy my friend was this person? " z% |& C j9 P! k$ [& w& d% u为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 3 H. \4 V% r# B# u5 j8 }' YWhy did I get married?4 ]- @# d/ Z2 x2 k1 p; v
为什么我要结婚？ ; F3 \* S7 g }* M2 ]/ a9 y5 MIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.6 F2 ]0 U( g {. N3 I& t: i( u
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 - a# n8 E- j' f8 ] Z) oI think we need indeed remind us of why./ P$ [, |; G& T& B% n: V0 R
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。7 H8 O" r% \ p% @, y7 A! B( t
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 9 P8 j7 e; [. U. @否则很难完成我们所开始的。 " o. L a' |; J5 Z% bWe stop starting. We quit the club. 7 y5 i, r3 Z ]" i( R) k0 A我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。( c3 N) R& F0 s* L: q7 q7 |" s" _
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 7 U. S2 f* N& l1 U我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 1 K9 V' k- j9 \/ z. Q0 SThere's nothing wrong with asking why.! V& A- E( S' H( ^( ^
问为什么没什么问题。4 ?: m1 J: h6 B6 z/ c- ^
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing." w" U" L. G7 Y* p
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。& w& t/ n' z, k' [% R
Talk about it. $ j0 P# P5 _ H* X谈论下面的话题： C2 \8 r9 q! Q% r: a1 \# ^+ M
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ' F0 ^$ Z$ G. P* L6 C你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ + V7 m# K, O4 uIs it a kind of distant memory?& T$ w7 M0 K+ f! T5 G/ L
它是一种遥远的记忆？ / b- G* T5 N R; x( ~Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 7 W; F% W5 m+ r9 Z' ~. Z3 V) E" i你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… + a$ P6 F3 Y) D% G, z7 F9 D: ]How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?5 B" {2 X; m, T& f& W& I+ `6 q
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？' C" z$ D4 u# t. X0 |8 D
Do you write memos?$ I# R. W) c7 T I8 e# D
你写备忘录吗？ & b+ \- L+ T( y$ kDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?. o) ^' Z( z: y
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？; C; z5 z5 i1 [: |* ^
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?0 [9 q# f0 H9 D v6 N9 k; u6 U
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？. K" X1 M$ R2 l2 ~% y' B
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? Q$ J$ N# C T6 ~1 q" E& h, `你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？