标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something . T! e$ \! R& Q+ I! \7 ^ 7 D4 `) `" Q$ ?8 E, K9 Z$ x记住我们为什么做某事 * J# b8 d& O! A" lSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. " u6 x; s( A# S- n. q' @有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 * f X$ y- t) Q% \# X' E* AHave you ever done that?6 T8 }' K0 \. W4 ]( t- D2 K
你曾有过这种经历吗？0 L' y; I% n# C
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too./ g% r7 [2 l# T3 }% ~3 n/ m
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 5 h$ A5 A" ]8 S7 t7 tI have called someone because I want to tell them something.' p$ b' W2 V, l& T. V- X6 ]
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 - V% a1 o3 A+ a# xAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.* H- U$ a: c" b+ j) |
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。! X& }, a$ M7 Z7 p2 f/ D
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.* O/ t; F' o6 x9 v1 e5 u6 J& a
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。0 w" f5 t, {: x6 _! C
That's a memory problem. 9 f0 V3 K7 D5 j# g这是一个记忆问题。 G! x. G9 V U. G" u5 g. Z# g+ i
I guess that counts too. , S( k. t" k" k, |$ t7 \我想那很重要。8 O. f4 s8 |7 m9 g
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ( g* h9 l' U7 C, f5 a* O! t8 C+ o7 ]0 i但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ) M6 i& \* C$ ?! D* k: X) aAt one point, there was a reason we do something.5 ^! a( a- {. f
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 7 F: s5 C7 h" i$ F2 D, wFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.2 m! g. Z/ O. z2 Q
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。9 w- f2 k3 t( X0 S4 H6 k
It's always could to ask ourselves why.% O5 }( K5 L+ T5 v& r
总是可以问问自己为什么。 4 ?2 q* M; p' b3 S0 B: iWhy did I start to learn a language?2 e# @. Q. n7 Z4 n+ y
为什么我开始学习一种语言？1 h% t8 V; F% N2 ?! ] f" D0 B
Why did I join this club? 3 l- K# D) ^; E* N3 o为什么我加入这个俱乐部？! f/ L6 f# F, O2 s
Why my friend was this person? ( l1 f: I. U: X+ R为什么我的朋友是这个人？( x. }8 j/ h& W: K1 F
Why did I get married?! p1 g, C6 T4 ]% W3 l7 h7 D' y
为什么我要结婚？% t) ~" M: e6 g+ U
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.. _* B, l% [9 k. F3 T! l& f' D$ ?& N
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。' n& o! A$ ?: t( y
I think we need indeed remind us of why.0 {+ g& g$ E$ z' o9 O5 w
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 4 a T5 s: {/ g; q) x% vOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 7 c4 P) U0 g& R) U8 e5 N否则很难完成我们所开始的。 . C& i2 H* k% H1 g" l9 `( c' }We stop starting. We quit the club.8 Q/ r Q# b+ N- K
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。2 l. c7 ^6 ?+ f- z' q& s" \: @
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.$ U( ?: g3 H: n- k. M: g7 ?, Y2 l
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。( O1 C4 F3 `4 M0 r9 A
There's nothing wrong with asking why. + ~- W' @+ e C, z问为什么没什么问题。 ( Y: o5 |0 {$ @$ q: gIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.- [9 z+ c. x$ @, T! G
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。# K/ z6 d8 P7 \1 B
Talk about it. 1 p2 n0 z& A! \5 [! C* d/ B谈论下面的话题： 9 R) W1 D& \3 Q0 `+ }- P% dIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?0 f$ X- L* V6 o$ X- \
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 9 O& C+ Q9 B5 z" J, O% {6 c1 \Is it a kind of distant memory? 1 T4 q. |7 @ Y8 k! F! M3 X" j4 ?; y' f它是一种遥远的记忆？6 L) u- c) g, c
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...6 g0 ~1 X% P# Z1 {3 q4 q
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… u3 N4 @- ]0 y7 C1 {! I
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 3 s2 A! C6 f4 d你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？9 C3 O! s& [* I$ d" K+ ?6 b
Do you write memos? * r( A( f9 f6 x. P3 j9 F4 l+ U你写备忘录吗？8 x0 _7 l. ]4 Y* P
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?* H$ H$ P2 H3 m* Y: H1 w
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？9 n# N- S$ F+ D8 i
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?3 C( h6 f& p" m3 L ?
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？: k& Z. `& |$ ?# _) j1 |4 E
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?+ N, a+ Z; d% W; R
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？