标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something& U F$ x* \4 T; O( o6 O
7 ~9 R ^6 g. m- x/ F5 \" I记住我们为什么做某事1 R8 r8 t( g! ?3 b3 [1 v; p( j& E
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing." p" s- l0 ~# R
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。# `3 o. \. [% P% F4 J v6 c
Have you ever done that? 0 Y- J1 y7 Y5 ^3 N; Q' C- d- g你曾有过这种经历吗？ & J2 M7 T1 h, I& s g2 cI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. . u6 V. ]2 W% ~2 i& _. L我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 - j& ?, L* G& y: E& H* II have called someone because I want to tell them something.- F. a1 c+ v* N4 [
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。2 u: O5 f& O( l4 K) i% w
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.1 B! ?, T5 V( k' g
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 " U' ]( j# n) V5 V' FWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. - o5 f' i. k! ` i& F哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 % L" z- o& p: U: nThat's a memory problem. ' K. X$ N$ P6 \0 j3 v" F这是一个记忆问题。 ) C7 v f* o" N- SI guess that counts too. 2 m& u" g1 m% y, {6 J- h我想那很重要。 ; d" N# j" u. f4 b5 O9 t2 ZBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 9 g7 d6 i0 f& m但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ " _6 r4 T% L1 I* U' B/ AAt one point, there was a reason we do something. * w, [6 \3 H* m0 S2 B在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 1 e% Z# Q0 t+ N/ x4 }For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.- J, k9 L8 w5 G& |0 R/ S# s3 q
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 y6 V% m7 T6 _( {; |8 A
It's always could to ask ourselves why.2 D3 X+ y- X$ ^
总是可以问问自己为什么。* `3 v0 x; ^ d- G! U6 F% i3 z
Why did I start to learn a language? 3 S3 z0 S. T% ?4 d9 S* m- J) b; V3 X为什么我开始学习一种语言？ % @+ h$ h3 p! F. m; aWhy did I join this club?# @+ T5 G* I2 u
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？: y# j4 a/ D" r) N
Why my friend was this person? . F F1 L# ~; B( r6 m7 I- a& R为什么我的朋友是这个人？! ~. F8 ^1 q4 z
Why did I get married?" i% p1 A/ n/ W2 \6 x7 Y1 N) E
为什么我要结婚？ & t* ?* Y* F6 u$ E0 B- r2 jIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.( k/ f! O# p1 l% x
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。, B8 Y" i) J/ g3 E0 i
I think we need indeed remind us of why. ! ?5 d, Q+ s u& _8 o! l" v( v我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。, q' d! s, v+ p3 F Z4 F
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.4 L+ h* r0 Y& ]7 V
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 " T6 d2 J9 R5 o- gWe stop starting. We quit the club.5 ]. o7 {! r7 \5 n- S2 A! Q
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 2 h8 _. q2 t3 sWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.; k# q( u" N6 a0 p$ }* F y+ [) }5 G$ f; [
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。+ D9 I# ]9 Q8 K
There's nothing wrong with asking why.* m: J5 B4 [# ^ ~% R/ f
问为什么没什么问题。 ( J" q t0 h3 H% x! ^0 UIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.5 _* o7 r% y" n0 V3 Z( V0 D# W
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。$ H- y' I6 A4 x" w8 V y: y
Talk about it. 6 _; ]: z0 c) ]& d) C w b& Q谈论下面的话题： 1 L- g9 E | x( G9 {2 E( lIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? $ e8 d4 d+ Z4 \" ^' v2 i1 i你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？% D6 v! w+ P% b& U2 p
Is it a kind of distant memory?# t9 `1 x0 [( M0 s2 y
它是一种遥远的记忆？/ d1 C! [+ t9 O4 f
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... ' U" [# F1 ]: a2 x你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 7 |- D! k- E' Y' I4 J; aHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?7 u! F; U# }( j O' e
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？1 V7 Y- `" d) ^( h
Do you write memos?! a+ q$ ^$ M3 u6 h! s: \: E
你写备忘录吗？ - b" E% X) W6 Y6 `Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 1 _) j' o- d6 |, {" U }/ V, q你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？: T( c3 ~0 P; q1 v) {, v, q, u
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ; o. ]6 U4 i- V3 ]! U9 W* {; l还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？) R' G3 C! U( H
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 7 E2 W. Z- P8 U+ d你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？