标题: 美文赏析:记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析:记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something # ^6 B3 W7 I0 ~7 D) w # F2 s- e6 l; \ p' d记住我们为什么做某事( @: W1 U. f# ?% |/ {
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. : ^- O. d3 X2 p! Z$ J. |, ]6 ^有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。 0 N2 k; y5 Q. m3 }- C( A3 W. ]Have you ever done that?- Q* e5 a" j. f) I; o; }- i [- {
你曾有过这种经历吗? . `2 G- K& _: I" j4 f! bI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.( V+ _* o& c% a( N, \
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。 5 v F9 R- k+ P8 m e9 xI have called someone because I want to tell them something. & u/ \6 ~2 d/ E我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。- }- c8 j, h8 U% G9 _8 `
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. & C: q( g) _2 P0 I, ~$ l: X然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 g6 n' ?! p5 ]Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 9 V3 R6 g. s) @6 j, Q8 n哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。5 U5 s9 c+ [. B7 p/ c( v) c: J4 b
That's a memory problem. ' E$ ^9 n6 e4 F! H% m: h# H这是一个记忆问题。; p6 u6 S; X, F. b* S9 s% `; W" N+ J
I guess that counts too. * F. L! S$ b1 R3 v1 ^- G我想那很重要。$ y9 H1 i3 q A# c& P$ R0 p( {, X; {
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ( D6 D+ T7 Y8 a; r* ]9 [9 D但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么? : D; \: h, H4 j+ j5 H7 |/ {8 CAt one point, there was a reason we do something.5 X" [. S' K ]' U- C
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。& y D& r u8 u$ @
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. - B: G/ z; }, s# d$ q* n1 K对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。 9 |+ o- p* t9 H8 _* P6 U' w3 D: TIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 3 O9 H4 T, W) v1 m- \6 |: R总是可以问问自己为什么。" P. g5 f# |9 y
Why did I start to learn a language? ! W) i* ?/ K3 x0 i! x为什么我开始学习一种语言?" z0 |# [' D' Q e7 T: Y1 H2 S
Why did I join this club?- `% R8 ]! V$ o5 m
为什么我加入这个俱乐部? 2 W9 k9 i( W) z% j' I, [4 U1 VWhy my friend was this person?1 H: N0 K' h& D+ j9 P R
为什么我的朋友是这个人? 2 O7 l6 A: f9 D( @$ Q1 w6 H$ gWhy did I get married?- Z5 }7 `! [1 [- I5 W* V3 U# ^' I
为什么我要结婚?4 d4 n2 X$ Z) P% D
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.$ Y2 j' r7 Z& ?, C# g1 U
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。3 g" ?0 w+ A8 \8 ]& v5 \
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 8 m3 o+ E: u, T# \4 e, _我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ?- U# f# V+ w
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.# c; o# R; [& o7 J. O6 v! i
否则很难完成我们所开始的。0 V4 m1 _6 ^" M' \( `
We stop starting. We quit the club. 0 @4 v" D5 g+ f. x2 _2 L4 V# A5 C- z9 A我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。; _7 H0 ]; o, y! n" X, |/ {' b
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.! A* q$ f1 h. r& _4 I
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 6 f3 x; U3 X3 a2 v/ L W2 |There's nothing wrong with asking why. 1 H' k( i9 S% T2 U9 H/ K问为什么没什么问题。: ~+ W- t0 h+ |) P
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.# Y$ |- U/ d8 c7 b$ J m: e
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。) J n& P4 V& l/ v* e/ b
Talk about it.# n* |! W8 z3 M- t
谈论下面的话题:8 V# v$ u7 a& @) v' P6 l8 O% A
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?3 L1 X2 z0 U5 V
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?: x: y( Z) S* Q, z
Is it a kind of distant memory? 8 [$ ^9 ~+ C" p' F. G它是一种遥远的记忆?# @1 i; B5 U* E/ I* g- Y
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...: `% Q1 Z7 g% Q) w+ N
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……( ?# p) I \: `/ R% B, }
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? : w/ _/ j; B- Z' K( q你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗? 3 H4 {, H: @' a& cDo you write memos?2 e3 ~* y" h$ s ~/ l' P+ [9 Z
你写备忘录吗? $ q$ _* K4 E3 ~* A# I, `Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ( S3 W# z f. m3 l你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?3 |% _5 } m) j- [ f
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?% d# P' P1 f9 P5 k* @
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?, i- x, N Y6 z' M8 B( D$ B
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? & `6 K8 i! {/ N你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办?