标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ( l c. T$ g. B9 @ 0 K, i5 S" F; {6 J( y记住我们为什么做某事 7 E; u7 | J4 v# _- j0 nSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.0 A `8 n( z, N( J( M
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。- p, Q6 `) K( J, n B: i
Have you ever done that? }+ n' p- y) l$ f) Z- u. s4 ^
你曾有过这种经历吗？5 M2 J# `) F3 E5 [# \5 q* J: x
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ( f5 V0 @7 A2 f' D9 P" z! u! Y我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 3 i" E& E4 O% p2 t( G; X# O1 u( tI have called someone because I want to tell them something. % z5 w! I! l5 ?. J我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。" T- i" d+ _8 q/ ]& f1 h: {& {
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.8 z+ G, d+ y! ^3 [; Q' ^
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。" O- ^" Z; m+ p1 o5 r" m
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.0 F2 @- U5 [9 E8 m3 l. X& k: A
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 . H1 ]/ Q4 T- U) v# Y; eThat's a memory problem.6 k! ]* c5 B3 X/ W
这是一个记忆问题。 ' `, p% P8 d8 V/ vI guess that counts too.& j1 R7 k' d# Z
我想那很重要。# @- b; g2 S2 W1 T$ _+ h. |1 ^( Q
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?0 u/ A* T+ B# A- r
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？6 h" c4 p# I9 v% L
At one point, there was a reason we do something." O' @. s4 c- D" i5 K
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 5 _. |( q: v0 {5 ~: o; S/ e& g5 tFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ; D* f5 [, k% z$ V+ c9 w对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 4 T C: k' ^% p# z. t$ \It's always could to ask ourselves why.1 a5 R# N6 D7 d$ [% z
总是可以问问自己为什么。 & {- X+ Z4 m/ JWhy did I start to learn a language?7 m6 y& k8 S e- P, v: ]3 d# r( ]! {
为什么我开始学习一种语言？. ~1 _3 t# X$ F+ P- Z3 l
Why did I join this club?. j9 z' E& [1 ]5 z
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 4 s$ h* r) s! b' |. @+ U+ gWhy my friend was this person?+ b h0 n1 A( L0 s3 u. x
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ u+ ?4 s# f! @3 ]" @
Why did I get married? 3 b, x- e* i, A1 ~0 J为什么我要结婚？- s2 a* Z9 v$ F: f7 {3 I
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 1 s# Z& ]$ ?' |3 X) b如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。; s& b+ B. P: d
I think we need indeed remind us of why.0 H! F& W5 L+ u4 z
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。7 ^% I1 D+ }' A+ s
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.( L6 }& m9 e# `/ y7 f U$ P( t
否则很难完成我们所开始的。) v9 A7 O: v, [9 W$ f ^$ Y5 R' u
We stop starting. We quit the club. / j0 w2 V2 K# H* ?) h( t" S我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。0 e R3 V0 X0 _
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. + p/ f6 e6 v1 c3 w- A) [我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。# m( `" n! i7 L# S' w; `
There's nothing wrong with asking why.* N8 c+ M& c! U$ J
问为什么没什么问题。: O# f6 B9 {4 F
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 9 E4 y% G+ J9 T: a事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 4 H! [9 e+ ?; }6 L; j% X3 [& L" mTalk about it.) ^* ?2 H# U. O3 Z0 C+ ?3 F6 X0 ?9 z
谈论下面的话题： ) l, {! F2 q+ Y, [! DIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? - ?* W% o7 O p/ ]7 k" {8 \- d( ^你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ( J3 \3 E* |4 w) \Is it a kind of distant memory? $ b, t6 P& R* K它是一种遥远的记忆？ 9 D- B. \+ o1 Z" eDid you ever forget why you are doing something... , d L/ E+ | h7 J: l; K) J你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 4 F+ G$ v1 u3 _2 B1 f8 [How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?. t& s5 g; k, k( o1 c
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 4 g% C4 \" o2 Q0 e2 G$ sDo you write memos? ) L- y* R5 _& _( \" j: a你写备忘录吗？5 e" U! @$ ~. ]$ |1 |. z
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? G8 g1 ~ o# g8 H( U你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 6 B* Q& b& M5 I( Z& L' VWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 4 ~6 p3 H$ Z# ?" r还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ $ x/ X) i2 J8 w. `- _& LWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?4 v, p8 i- F7 E3 i
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？