标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something " R5 S2 }, ?- l$ ~: o. ^2 w& {7 X, m! c4 J/ Z" j, Q
记住我们为什么做某事7 O j$ T) \8 o+ ?
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ) m% ]& M3 m1 v1 Z有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。/ ?! l9 L5 m1 E; n5 T5 W
Have you ever done that?* ?3 b1 o: D/ o' X: L0 {# ?% Q* {4 q5 p# {
你曾有过这种经历吗？ ) a4 K x! q3 G% P1 m6 V# YI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. & [0 A% z! z( Z" L我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 9 g- s" Z% S cI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 4 ? \: K w7 @* a我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。! u5 d* m$ O( x5 `
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. . ]# ~ p) n9 U# v9 e% ` [然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ' J1 ?& ?8 ^. w7 ?4 H) fWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.+ s: M1 o8 H7 o! E; Q. l+ H
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 & W( |' r$ ~. O9 D8 VThat's a memory problem. ! E3 K# l. D) T7 E. o L. {这是一个记忆问题。 9 U* p: H& S d! w/ `+ w5 OI guess that counts too.& O) [. l+ r4 d+ z* K0 d! L9 U: X* o
我想那很重要。 " [3 U( ?4 d! N( g- j- U: VBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? $ j/ J3 g3 X+ p* s$ ]但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？, q) K6 Y1 L5 V! A, I( L/ g) s
At one point, there was a reason we do something. , ]9 V9 e5 z' w7 ]9 N在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。* R# R! O4 U) \7 B
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ) _( w& @8 O$ ?) A对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。, c9 g7 J3 H2 ?: z) _" V: ]' ~/ N
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 1 e2 W8 c/ m% H9 K6 i7 ?总是可以问问自己为什么。6 L' X7 y+ H* e7 V& m$ b; X) ^
Why did I start to learn a language? ( `4 s: m% M7 P, p; t为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 4 d* S% D" h' jWhy did I join this club?. Z1 d2 x' y* e8 r3 @6 N
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ " `: i/ [4 a3 V x5 G( rWhy my friend was this person? * @+ H: ?# [; k7 \) R为什么我的朋友是这个人？ [7 ?4 @( I4 O- O
Why did I get married? - S% A s2 E- i- ^2 K2 V为什么我要结婚？ , u& `: b5 ~. [- {! i) b/ j9 rIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. % r5 Y/ z2 v6 J! l& y: l: b如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 $ ]7 z( W3 _2 k# AI think we need indeed remind us of why.8 K5 Z6 j0 O, s6 C# B0 n8 J% f
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。% t* M2 w* k( T; w1 \+ |7 q* u. R
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. . ]" p9 x0 N7 ]+ {否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ) y, x) ^7 i5 Q$ ~" C- p% m2 eWe stop starting. We quit the club. W0 U, ]5 D6 k" @8 } Q& N; o5 p
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。1 c/ S4 A- }+ V0 y1 O0 r& x
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 9 Z$ z& [0 C- m% l. K我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。0 |8 O+ V; M9 h
There's nothing wrong with asking why.; H) v2 W& d- E3 O9 p0 u( o
问为什么没什么问题。 ' |$ B4 h" y6 M5 m4 v; CIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. + k9 i& x+ b" k# p- D* Q, s% l事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 ~: Z! M, |# ~/ @1 X2 r
Talk about it. G, Q8 K5 R" X2 R1 y, V谈论下面的话题：6 k8 h2 {! Y9 ]1 C* q) `
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 6 f7 Y1 ~/ Y# d你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？/ \) k) }2 |; ^- s
Is it a kind of distant memory?3 a3 E: g+ @/ K; `
它是一种遥远的记忆？6 L2 R/ {( F! ^! E% L
Did you ever forget why you are doing something.../ S0 ] v2 y0 X( g/ b1 O5 \) c
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……0 c% E' L7 ]' ], [% T x
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?2 v+ _( f2 i( Y" @# @$ q, Q' _
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 0 S2 l% V+ l( @* p! uDo you write memos?- @* N$ j! b# @- n' ^, W
你写备忘录吗？ & s) }' u, b) g5 a$ H7 ]Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?2 h. r& @3 {; Z+ S, B7 y
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？4 d; a; S/ Q, z6 i
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?9 J- u! ^) Y+ x( P6 n6 J8 b
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？5 P' g. g! N& J3 ~( k
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?/ _# n' Q" O3 _0 T, S% b/ v
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？