标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something + Y. w+ b6 g M) `! e- j / X, u# V3 Y2 ^- M记住我们为什么做某事$ L) @/ ?: _# d ]" g# ?$ G7 }
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. . V P+ b' h. d# i/ G' r有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 : v' w, d$ x+ X: b% R) dHave you ever done that?1 z, o) _4 | j) z
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 6 b1 k0 _1 f0 [% K" yI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ' n" } i1 `1 R. x( b我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 9 D9 i3 D1 j% T! n+ Y/ |, FI have called someone because I want to tell them something. % i: {& ?$ g! w# I. c1 ]3 w7 o我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。: Q" |; c B6 V5 w% J' u
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.3 v! n) M" ]9 z1 x
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ( S6 L( B0 x+ i, fWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.( @& |! H: ]! u. H
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。! d) G% e9 e1 H$ a# t: C4 H
That's a memory problem., C; Y9 x9 q" \) I7 L! o' ?: K6 b
这是一个记忆问题。) i4 Y6 s; A h$ v0 e
I guess that counts too.! p7 T3 g, [ e5 T0 i- ]3 ]4 M
我想那很重要。 Z+ X; M j3 o) K, h u0 {) e( w8 ~
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?" r) u+ m6 g/ G7 j
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ! D( U2 o1 e9 DAt one point, there was a reason we do something. " k! ` B p1 \% `" N# O$ h在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。0 Y0 B* D+ d: }
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 0 ~) X$ w( a, W2 s" o$ } [, {对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 # i- W& T% M% a) y8 e7 M+ zIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 1 `$ k4 Z% r2 ?( k# x# _总是可以问问自己为什么。9 x4 ^$ x* x! O8 d
Why did I start to learn a language? 9 K0 ?* u0 v' w4 D5 g为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ! T; [9 l1 v4 Z0 ^2 i% `# m% rWhy did I join this club?4 Z$ d# B5 w6 H8 S( l; D+ w
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 9 Z" D" x9 g% ^6 O. ~Why my friend was this person?3 U V7 O f$ v, T
为什么我的朋友是这个人？& A+ h- o3 j7 I) E: v
Why did I get married?( Z( u: }. Q. x( H
为什么我要结婚？ ! d9 U% K0 K J5 AIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. * b: m+ v% Z1 F如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 8 h: H. ^2 A$ X+ j$ m6 lI think we need indeed remind us of why.6 G$ A2 I- ?5 r7 M& d1 T1 Y* A
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 ( c) a/ I$ F5 p* _3 N" A8 a9 qOr else it's tough to finish what we started. : M, K8 H9 Q) D4 Z+ B否则很难完成我们所开始的。4 C5 l- o' H v5 {6 ^8 `
We stop starting. We quit the club. / ]# `' T. t- J3 p! F+ J2 {我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。, W0 B8 Q/ E6 [5 R8 @9 d
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ; H9 x" n( u: W2 S3 i" R我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 , b( i; z) U/ D; E1 _( \4 _+ FThere's nothing wrong with asking why.; a" U/ U. h- q M: d
问为什么没什么问题。& c" A- y6 m5 x s0 m( {: }
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.- l: ?# T$ }( P3 Q- I# T! n
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 ) |, I. k4 z+ MTalk about it. , u3 k3 D5 M% ~% W3 n1 Z谈论下面的话题：8 d4 M( P" O) N
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? / k$ P/ q/ K! }- c5 G7 }3 A你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 0 J8 e1 Z1 w6 i8 l) p& k( f ]Is it a kind of distant memory? & X+ y* |4 o( `; s它是一种遥远的记忆？ % W4 M9 L# \8 H2 K% UDid you ever forget why you are doing something..., c4 a9 A4 _" H/ X. K
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… u0 h9 V2 \+ h! M3 v- [! y* E7 F; [How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?0 b6 N: j4 _* a7 P; N. ?
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？4 \. H; H4 g4 ~8 f5 R: A" [2 M
Do you write memos?+ @' J$ D0 [4 E* |/ A( W
你写备忘录吗？ # ~) z' j4 ~9 u# G1 LDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?3 f9 I5 J( v% b7 R& Z8 e
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？# G9 V$ g7 E7 V5 P3 G8 f" a
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?4 V& A0 d" u% T# n6 \1 \+ H
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？, c4 \! f/ s+ S; `# q
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?# t2 U& A/ n. i: M+ Y: J
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？