标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something & q' ?/ y5 y4 i* O( ^0 }9 w& {3 t3 i1 u. |/ E+ Q6 Z" H
记住我们为什么做某事8 W) \ k1 U" S6 _4 n- u( @
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.% ^, ?$ K F, e
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。: z# p8 z8 M, F/ \9 n. t& [
Have you ever done that? 8 G+ {8 U/ s0 f* V你曾有过这种经历吗？- `% s4 ]) B3 J+ Q- t1 T
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.5 J5 z4 y5 Y' X; F) d4 y3 h$ N9 c* H
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。. h8 a' f0 Y t* i$ ?9 T" V
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 9 V) G- g8 N6 V7 K1 v* y我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 1 y1 _1 u4 n! q; RAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 3 g) F# Z: B9 |% m& B然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。8 p2 L* d7 C0 K0 c: D" C7 z
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.* ?& x7 Z B( Q4 @
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 0 p5 n8 d! N2 _0 U4 ]That's a memory problem.8 ]( Q$ X- t1 B8 f7 T+ z" e0 W
这是一个记忆问题。 4 O+ x0 r& H+ o0 C' ^I guess that counts too. , |$ ~6 v0 h, I+ l/ S5 ^我想那很重要。 " b+ M0 F! h4 D# z* hBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? " \$ c+ e" q4 x2 j但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 2 |0 ^& P- q: A0 MAt one point, there was a reason we do something. , ?; j1 t3 ~, T( j9 \在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 & ]/ b. L! O) T' O+ g y% hFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.7 |/ y+ D& k* Z) s' i% u: [
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。# q1 D3 i% [) W+ F9 _+ m2 D
It's always could to ask ourselves why. S- y* u6 K6 `5 T总是可以问问自己为什么。 % D, r1 V! n" q8 g( |Why did I start to learn a language? 4 F' H' `' ~, x为什么我开始学习一种语言？ s8 k& z$ @ `7 ^) t6 w% K: fWhy did I join this club? # E) b/ i4 j4 @ w- f8 k为什么我加入这个俱乐部？. x B$ \- {) e8 D9 d
Why my friend was this person? G$ g' }: X5 M0 t$ z
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ , T6 Q9 {4 c7 X# O* H/ h9 vWhy did I get married?6 l8 w/ r9 y2 y. j
为什么我要结婚？ 4 u4 j0 E' \- n0 V( I& S2 BIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.7 D% e& Z- v' E! E( e# u/ q
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。6 v+ {, @ }3 T
I think we need indeed remind us of why.3 x' v5 x$ \4 b5 y0 L. ], z
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。2 A0 M' V, A& I& B; Y8 Q
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 2 y, z4 V' O* z否则很难完成我们所开始的。) [) F/ f( ^" b2 I: e3 q- z A
We stop starting. We quit the club. + t) E( w H4 l我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。& h; B/ t" D1 T6 ^( ?. h' G% s3 @
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.! ^1 I% F# t, }. U6 Q9 R3 S: f
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。, J, E ]8 V6 T: P8 b
There's nothing wrong with asking why.4 |* X5 c5 U( j, k
问为什么没什么问题。 6 q& |" r: r$ v, S* o0 zIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.: e3 B- J* s: v7 V) A. U0 O/ n
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。& \ f5 V; N4 d6 d% n
Talk about it. 8 M0 ~3 o4 Z- y/ Y谈论下面的话题：! c+ V0 X; I8 v) `/ n/ l7 z& U
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? " L) q- O U/ T6 |你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ . _$ v2 q+ v2 w# X# |1 ZIs it a kind of distant memory? 4 x" D% ]8 h" K+ s0 K8 }它是一种遥远的记忆？ ; Y+ I% N) E# O, { A0 }: KDid you ever forget why you are doing something...0 {# d7 I4 g& ]1 ~
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 8 Z, ]8 _" p" Y! uHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?! J+ S6 O" _) [& [
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？, ^) M8 E+ A$ b* O* P: B |0 M( O
Do you write memos?4 o% x5 g" t: y' e9 L: [: h
你写备忘录吗？3 I' J. x; U9 P4 B# L4 s# a
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?* I( w& |1 u6 R$ ?. z& l# @ Z
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ! s! r. }! M" M3 |4 {What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?# s# u4 Q0 N, P
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ; t' T9 H, M c' j6 T4 fWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? K( H8 e4 T" E! l% R3 _你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？