标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 6 x0 b1 T3 @( d% V1 `+ ?6 L8 a* D# j* W3 e/ n) x2 x# f7 o
记住我们为什么做某事 ; S: J0 d5 q( F' K9 {' _# TSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 3 ]) ? |4 W5 S% a: f* M! ~ e有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 9 c+ @0 |5 w4 }Have you ever done that? 1 L3 e# r. o& b6 q: J4 Y你曾有过这种经历吗？: p* J! W1 d5 F
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. + c! G; L2 |. M) i. N# I& c我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。* n- N* h$ X+ ?0 G8 H# U8 g
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.8 O C& o+ o) ], x8 l1 R
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 5 O+ s1 h8 F6 v! H# Q4 k' M* @And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. : v: n4 K8 m4 O$ r6 e1 g& G- q: q然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。/ Z* N8 K# m6 k" k A W: T
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. ( u. O) w+ p9 S' {+ |: R( _# g哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ; A, Z" A5 Y9 V& N0 ?2 L1 `That's a memory problem. 9 K: @% ^4 q" v" p0 H2 o- x( |这是一个记忆问题。 * I c, l- @4 uI guess that counts too.6 Z$ r+ L! ~5 @5 W( n8 {* ?! N% k
我想那很重要。 - g3 O1 S7 V( N6 VBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? ( b# y! p8 t. ?: G但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？. t, H# @5 c9 Q- m1 o/ J* I
At one point, there was a reason we do something.+ e* o( a, i ~% @
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。5 e- }5 k7 V0 c& U: ~* f+ D% O
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 4 ?! z2 P' h% E$ f. s' E对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。9 n+ F2 x: _7 j9 Q. f( H0 D) Q
It's always could to ask ourselves why.6 C. F. S5 p% u. V/ w; w" A/ W
总是可以问问自己为什么。 - `1 I+ X. V$ R3 ZWhy did I start to learn a language?+ n. j: U* }0 [$ f- U: s
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 1 n9 }- j( E1 L8 b9 p) ^Why did I join this club?% m! N' q6 T: _5 I. F
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？2 {7 u( U0 {1 e3 G
Why my friend was this person?5 ~7 q2 H1 V& h3 k
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ % e. i% G6 I d! _# Q( P2 _6 F- OWhy did I get married? . @* R5 C8 _' o; j0 X为什么我要结婚？ 9 G6 x' q$ c7 X, w3 J* a, @If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 0 | ]5 l$ v9 L' i4 M如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。8 z% U! f; \2 {$ I; p% i2 Q
I think we need indeed remind us of why.) v4 L q0 C+ ^* W- h
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。6 `! N% u: ~0 E2 v1 d/ \
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. & {6 k8 E1 z$ y6 Q否则很难完成我们所开始的。0 T0 `$ A3 {: V$ J, E$ V8 m& [9 J
We stop starting. We quit the club.' W: d8 |# W6 S- q& Z/ m! B1 F$ C4 h
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 8 e+ ~# N6 T! d( T9 ]3 ~We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.! c* i/ E; P" I' C0 ]# c
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。5 _' B7 R9 W& Z7 P/ I& G8 x* ?
There's nothing wrong with asking why.& z$ P1 W" Q1 z$ M! f! u
问为什么没什么问题。2 D5 {3 ]; N9 ~* @+ v; ?
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ! A/ n A T$ t* x4 x; a) n9 _事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。3 s8 g' }0 k& l' ]8 J7 l
Talk about it. ( h- T4 v% c5 @" Q谈论下面的话题：+ r0 p1 }( k1 J) O& A
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? a; K( N+ O. x
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？: i. z& ?( H/ b9 }6 J y
Is it a kind of distant memory? " m. e- ?! s7 A& M它是一种遥远的记忆？ 8 Z g, E, j# r. x6 O# ~7 S- lDid you ever forget why you are doing something... & d! {5 |! F4 s. ^( q7 b9 N你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……- U3 c( A& Z; | {+ [9 k$ [
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 2 y3 ^$ w( b7 M* u& A你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？# a7 u1 @3 P% _4 v% }- O
Do you write memos?: b" ]" b8 {) o6 m# u
你写备忘录吗？8 `) Z& h& b/ t" D6 ]! x! u6 Y% B6 O
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?6 O5 b/ `% t y1 A. K$ P
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 9 b' {' V9 P+ \. E2 T( V- jWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?2 l- _2 ?. Q7 f* ~$ s
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？' Q* X" l: y, ?( l4 c
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? - m+ \: |* Q3 d5 }4 i# X0 c. X你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？