标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something% U. z8 P& W1 {
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记住我们为什么做某事 & {& Q/ K& u/ s2 `4 N- h5 kSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ( q4 ?; t# ^* `5 Z/ x& f有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 % {2 r8 f1 c9 G- A) d9 QHave you ever done that?4 x% I$ H) T2 N. n# `+ ~$ C& j" g
你曾有过这种经历吗？ w' b* N2 l! p* `% II'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 9 ]( l6 }2 ?9 z3 h* N* P* M; K我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ( ^% ~, c8 h/ W. }I have called someone because I want to tell them something.0 G) j+ E" u& @
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。9 w* {* G. X* l+ W* a% Z9 E8 x
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.. ~0 L* r0 A0 ?4 ]$ t* \
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 - |7 N. H( T4 ?1 w- o8 vWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place./ F/ z- }* _, S/ V$ D; v/ c
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 & t1 h& d1 f. D1 M0 j- H/ y7 VThat's a memory problem. 6 D* Q/ c1 N+ @ P, T$ d- b这是一个记忆问题。0 K4 Z! l E1 O( ]; \8 v
I guess that counts too. 4 w1 e$ F6 t. U1 {% k' `4 f我想那很重要。$ T0 L7 Z+ r3 m$ z" @* Q& A1 l
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? # l; L1 h: P6 `6 W- B但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ & y5 r5 {, X3 | P& e+ J3 CAt one point, there was a reason we do something.- a+ w' c. V+ a% ^0 f. t
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。1 B+ a8 w% H. M ]3 _' s
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. # @' m5 u- P, K/ o4 i对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ) a. _0 h7 A, w$ K$ w3 G; g: ?It's always could to ask ourselves why.- O' |! b) D2 o9 ~, E$ }
总是可以问问自己为什么。! ]' ?. n7 r8 \0 C
Why did I start to learn a language? ! q# P/ [# k3 t" Y+ l+ c为什么我开始学习一种语言？ - {- h( h1 t! v K& nWhy did I join this club? : B. }: Z( V" E/ _, g) S! }为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 8 P: L) N9 t, Q$ C# HWhy my friend was this person? 9 e. a9 h2 n1 ?+ `6 A为什么我的朋友是这个人？! K2 x/ l) v- k9 l. W
Why did I get married? 9 f5 C, e. a1 l& j为什么我要结婚？ 6 d) ~, Q: x9 c/ m @% ~( Y' _: hIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. : h% ~0 a' _, _- W: F7 q% M如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 3 s2 v' U3 {0 e2 W0 s# eI think we need indeed remind us of why. 0 B2 G N% d% `6 b1 s# z我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 * S: h8 E2 k, i9 a/ t( YOr else it's tough to finish what we started.7 p `5 [" x+ R5 o7 \8 `# g# ~
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 & [1 G- a1 V& ]) \9 F9 IWe stop starting. We quit the club.) [) r$ P H+ b0 v% j
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。5 J% t$ B) ]1 D8 J$ T G
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ' H" a( Q1 T( [# `* H$ d我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。& q* |- o$ P! Y4 m1 o
There's nothing wrong with asking why.1 I& z3 ^: P( I
问为什么没什么问题。# W& M% T8 P3 ]0 n8 _. r
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. . {: G4 e) u/ L' o$ S事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。: f! o% n+ U6 D3 k% o3 v1 h
Talk about it.4 ?8 \0 @! O: E# r9 L. p8 `* Q
谈论下面的话题：# [0 |8 @2 F1 _- d" J
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?" m' `" l% s% a& }( }# G: x
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？! D% }; B/ Y- w
Is it a kind of distant memory? % Y; M3 o! l7 R/ e它是一种遥远的记忆？ h. c( o- j- C+ f- KDid you ever forget why you are doing something... * ~+ x9 c3 Y& N你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……$ H/ C; l/ h# i3 h
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? , P8 Y6 C) Y$ u6 R4 T3 w* ?你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ * v1 ?. f0 ]9 l4 h' lDo you write memos?5 u. w4 P$ G: I* n) [
你写备忘录吗？ % h5 E+ O2 m, U8 W. A3 D: pDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?! e, o. r0 t0 d8 G( J3 X
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？! `3 O& P, f& f/ Z
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 0 l4 y9 z& ^ x" ] o4 o* ~( L还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 4 @8 |8 Y8 w* T- Y3 g3 O: P D- b. }What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? & `4 z, S. ?# T4 d# R1 z你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？