标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 8 L0 H; Y. a! e6 D) I) n% V- C 8 _* y0 V5 G) U. G' o( h* C! Y- M" Z& r记住我们为什么做某事 + {8 }: u- r% I) F8 V" tSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing., z& w" L0 m6 p2 C" Z; m0 m9 G ]
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。4 e; B! C" z* {1 X8 d$ R) k
Have you ever done that?) I+ p7 R. O6 x. [ O1 i( z# x
你曾有过这种经历吗？ x' ?/ \) ?. C& E
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.8 }; z: P# e/ _5 b1 {7 K
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。- N2 s" }0 d( ~0 g6 c& p1 {0 b7 r
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 6 b6 E4 Z5 p& _% v0 [- T, L7 W我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。* @5 X; s: m0 c/ K4 Y! e
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. ' {; Y' |0 ]6 y0 a7 Q2 K: s7 q6 L3 W然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 / g8 G8 g* g: ~" H% l8 e5 N1 WWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place." D, b0 h4 f8 B; ^, }
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。7 ^$ t3 E0 @# `5 O
That's a memory problem.( H N* w/ }9 C# I
这是一个记忆问题。 6 L$ ^8 k6 L8 F, b, h- D8 CI guess that counts too.4 S$ L F. }7 h5 \4 J2 f) k' Q7 Y# P% R
我想那很重要。; o2 m2 Q4 z8 d- c5 h, h
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 5 N& P0 u% R0 i: P% W+ A但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 4 W d3 g0 m* h% ^! f# W4 NAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 7 v9 d# d* s& ?4 s+ \- W* e- P在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。- S. P) E3 a; P
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 1 Q8 C, Y- K+ C- |% f; b' i1 m对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。2 X% T, \+ {3 u
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 3 W( `) C% M0 c+ ?0 e# e; v* f总是可以问问自己为什么。' U: g1 A. s! _9 J
Why did I start to learn a language? : C3 X) j& ]- Z3 E( W$ Y* V" ^- Z为什么我开始学习一种语言？ - {! h7 Z& m/ C* O; [: s4 KWhy did I join this club?. ~$ f1 u* w! u1 p) F/ d4 b; c& Q3 B8 S; k
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？# Q7 X/ D( X# {2 L1 m
Why my friend was this person?* L2 D+ \1 q. i- V
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ " Q, f9 w; c5 x% }9 UWhy did I get married? % P9 k# ~7 n2 \/ a& Q为什么我要结婚？9 n. f- w. [# L3 x/ ^6 a- [0 R
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. y& c+ G: k5 s- _
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 7 C( H8 Z, |2 v" UI think we need indeed remind us of why. 1 g7 u& j# _- r/ _) @ M4 I1 y我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。8 A6 Z4 D. ]2 `6 u9 S' F" K6 J
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 9 @1 l( G+ N: U6 k否则很难完成我们所开始的。2 H1 C& f& u. \8 D+ v- l
We stop starting. We quit the club.- Z% l+ x: e4 {+ C$ Q
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。/ @; b {3 K3 S+ h
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged., |' x9 Z; E7 v4 X" I' ]; ^
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。/ G9 X- Y# v" t* k( `% A# k7 Y
There's nothing wrong with asking why.9 m/ _3 H9 Y4 B @
问为什么没什么问题。 2 u: K9 k4 h, _+ [6 C8 PIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 2 c: H; l0 ?5 H+ r) {$ R3 ^4 Y9 y事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。% w a' F9 Z9 V8 i5 r% B: [. ^
Talk about it.; Z2 f$ Z% p# d
谈论下面的话题： * u2 |( r U# B) ?Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 2 O# }% l, W1 j+ e你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？; ~/ `( |# s" B: L+ j1 l5 N
Is it a kind of distant memory? 7 v! C2 i/ ^4 M! \; k( t它是一种遥远的记忆？ ) t, h8 M- g, f( ^' f; ]6 mDid you ever forget why you are doing something... % Q/ x l+ c2 w8 X, p* m你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……% I9 j# M) ~5 V' P, `, @4 K. z
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?' N: P. |% }+ M
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？4 r: k: M+ |8 `/ N+ l8 j
Do you write memos?+ r8 Q+ X" I4 w( W8 \
你写备忘录吗？7 o* U# Y a& ?& k
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?: a3 v2 r$ I+ R8 C5 N( o) v( P% N
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ 4 a8 O$ O: T% yWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?% c7 ^( j5 M) a& i
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ - U5 X5 q* O2 d, X. F3 g" kWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? . W; B# I, Z+ ?: K& [7 S+ v你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？