标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something1 w; l9 n& M- j, \9 p
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记住我们为什么做某事 0 }3 N3 e$ C4 Y: P7 Y, e5 }2 LSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. . q; [ I! }+ O) O有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 - Y$ l" _9 k J, M, \0 [ [# DHave you ever done that?% p+ d/ [2 S6 J4 G
你曾有过这种经历吗？2 d7 F" \3 r6 V1 d
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. + f8 G& v' J) q2 Z8 m! u* {: g/ G我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。9 g, s. f4 N& U6 ~ I+ c
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 3 ?5 j+ G; U( U4 ^我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。- X7 `' P! s8 \: E
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. * |7 o7 } H. Y) V/ z然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 6 W: G, C( e1 d8 P& @Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 1 A4 W" v& C) M# j哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。$ Q9 P- V3 q3 o3 B# ~
That's a memory problem. $ }5 a: Z" Q1 V8 E% D- f+ A这是一个记忆问题。9 A2 g4 U3 A {8 n" y
I guess that counts too. ; P& M: k+ ^! d& H7 R2 }$ J我想那很重要。2 T. h5 X" M' Z2 z& c
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?5 |: g. s+ n% f- m
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？% N6 Z% E+ J0 d# w
At one point, there was a reason we do something. ) E- X7 P, ]% s在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。/ V7 I; _- q' S2 Q3 D2 ?
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. % f7 L1 u# H3 u) r, S" a# k对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 8 Y, e% P4 l- b+ e4 sIt's always could to ask ourselves why.* J+ A, E' b% }' P) w2 Q
总是可以问问自己为什么。 , S; z( n/ F2 I9 l: R) {Why did I start to learn a language? 4 }' a5 }% A0 O为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ) T8 @" E# x5 R/ n0 B/ ]; g5 jWhy did I join this club? - `6 |. H7 u5 Y' a8 [为什么我加入这个俱乐部？3 `3 W$ q1 N! p/ [/ p1 s
Why my friend was this person? 1 `7 A3 f) j' n5 {; w# h为什么我的朋友是这个人？ # Z5 D* e3 a8 B$ C9 P& r# D3 @Why did I get married? 0 b( L; K& x% }1 M3 E为什么我要结婚？" Q% l! Y2 {; l4 ~7 F7 b/ I
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.# T1 h1 \0 i' I0 s% L% @( {8 u' n
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 2 F/ h, m) ]+ I. Z1 s6 vI think we need indeed remind us of why.1 \2 G$ q& }' p( T( l) ?
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。, ?! U s3 J5 J$ P
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. & v& u* S) Y8 @$ X g$ |# [; @5 E否则很难完成我们所开始的。* D& m8 C: l( {+ q. u7 l7 g
We stop starting. We quit the club.( D. X# R7 Q" j! [6 M
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ) U. n& u5 ^$ j/ N, TWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.7 w% v! C, z& b* J
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 ; M7 T: r3 U2 _6 OThere's nothing wrong with asking why.: J$ B* c- w4 V! K
问为什么没什么问题。 " S* J7 n) w* L; W' bIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 5 [5 E: k; }; r3 G事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 & L/ v$ T! ]6 ~5 k2 F3 lTalk about it.% Z, t, g/ K% T$ u7 V) ?+ _
谈论下面的话题： , w4 }+ G- p. f" W3 N) c9 ZIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?* i0 B% {1 o: y9 \1 ]
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ . I) M; M. a1 |4 f; E5 ^Is it a kind of distant memory? . q: q6 x+ H6 x7 M% W) d) @2 h它是一种遥远的记忆？( P2 f7 i- j+ `& z: ^
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...6 G8 w' l0 b8 H8 r' u# |9 @% F* i
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……* G* k! k6 v) p- `. m" @8 Y4 G3 N
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? , {6 N8 r% \6 ~& [6 e" w0 T9 _( L你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？: z& Q; h+ H. J# |% S; B- N: R( ~
Do you write memos? \4 c( H0 L: C% M- |% }. o' l! a
你写备忘录吗？& G) n& [2 W: _( S7 X$ S
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?8 D) N: h* d9 H$ L% [% x2 z
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ + b+ }3 |3 J8 Z& |6 |8 E% t4 \; c! ^/ IWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 1 B" j6 `3 F8 O& g还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ! H$ r" m& H4 w/ f' R$ x6 sWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? ! q4 t* E. u1 T你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？