标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 4 S/ C: n5 A) T# j5 v5 c. d; M9 z # `0 \+ Z/ u4 v L2 P记住我们为什么做某事$ J9 J, |& @4 C
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing., l, o$ Z2 d2 b; g* I
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。& B Q: [2 p5 h
Have you ever done that? 7 v% g' x; m9 ~1 q+ f2 l W9 }, f; Z你曾有过这种经历吗？/ e: q9 O( ], x# v
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.; C5 ]' ]7 r i L# E9 F
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。1 ]+ }7 J: Y$ ?" u+ k$ [1 o
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. ( Y( m Y9 M: w- o0 H% n我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。7 W" g y6 |8 \) P+ S h
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 3 M, z: c! Q. v; O然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。' G/ h. t# N; Q4 v
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. 8 u; X$ l4 x8 T哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。, V7 q( f1 `2 x k
That's a memory problem." j5 |0 {* P1 a8 z
这是一个记忆问题。 7 i- P7 }4 t+ _, r' @4 KI guess that counts too.6 p7 H* @! V& l! i, c, }
我想那很重要。/ o3 Z4 P; ^) O
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?- R- v" r2 m `) b8 Z
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 4 M. K) c# `5 g& q' UAt one point, there was a reason we do something.# C: W) s( @" m+ x
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。6 L+ ~4 s. ]4 A: x2 z: Z0 o
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 9 C5 _# _" n9 q8 v2 B; ]对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。* r) R) S/ @; Q
It's always could to ask ourselves why. * f. V& P B( l2 w6 Q) {% R总是可以问问自己为什么。 # }" O4 w9 M2 |- sWhy did I start to learn a language? A! _% u$ F1 x2 M+ O" t
为什么我开始学习一种语言？) ~3 s! R) v4 F* [9 s
Why did I join this club?: ^, m3 |, ]1 f! B
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 6 a+ j% p/ q% u( H x8 e* `Why my friend was this person?7 T! n" ~. j( q
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 3 L' t3 n8 B; f+ R# lWhy did I get married? ; d1 x( I; i' b% f1 I/ ^为什么我要结婚？ " |7 D7 t2 C( d* CIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. + S2 M1 A+ G) W" T, Q* ]如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。- v4 S2 J+ O, c1 E1 Q! X/ t
I think we need indeed remind us of why.7 q* _: I* U" w: g$ N& H* J
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。: M& V( H; J/ i2 f0 e
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. ( Z: C: |* Q u% j2 S" I9 L否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ' N# A9 V( V& ~/ N. l# A' tWe stop starting. We quit the club.0 J# `, ?+ t8 H
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 - M6 ?/ A4 h. BWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. ! Q9 e O5 w1 j+ r, ~我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。2 u) y4 e% x- q. l
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 9 _% J% Q4 V/ P' E T d4 P7 W. @. Z s+ H问为什么没什么问题。) E, ?: t: t* k6 M4 a8 `) P
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ' w$ `8 A, j) w$ s" `5 m事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。: f. V/ P1 k }
Talk about it.* m) b2 }% h1 s' K/ g) ^) _: f" d
谈论下面的话题： 3 f# _. S: z3 U& d5 W1 {# \, ]Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? . k6 Q* O3 O6 o2 s3 _你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？9 j4 A& Z' c: ?' p. u9 k l. T3 z5 e
Is it a kind of distant memory?- N2 [: e% G+ B8 }4 @8 j
它是一种遥远的记忆？; {6 P2 V$ p8 Z
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... ' N- C+ m+ X* F4 X# }" t你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……8 Y- ~- A% H! G3 ^% `, B7 X
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?% y; @" C5 V; G
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？. F9 m( C2 [/ P( I" a! t
Do you write memos?0 Z. V k% {+ ]: S
你写备忘录吗？ 1 [8 {8 \7 Z$ `/ @2 f4 d3 U+ lDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? % X G0 n! J. |/ v你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ * P& C4 f; r3 M% O+ `What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? ( w# ~% u( R/ U% r还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ & Z+ B: l* d7 l9 M6 R, RWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 8 E" @) F( ]% j" p+ V( q7 Z: d1 F你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？