标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something" L* v1 j! L' n
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记住我们为什么做某事' Y6 V; v' {2 h
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. ( {( C0 e t. S/ s1 |3 X有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。/ J8 t* A, n( F8 \+ _, ^- W
Have you ever done that? ( y2 j2 |5 E, n+ q0 r$ H8 P9 C你曾有过这种经历吗？2 g2 W/ Q- ~3 {- }8 U
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ! D* H; ^2 c' g* o5 }4 X我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ( \# W+ O) k! {: k& V v- L0 jI have called someone because I want to tell them something. & i/ Q2 q. w& `6 V$ `! U我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 , y% _* C1 p& t- @$ W; l( y, cAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.8 T- H# ~& O( |+ k4 X4 @& y# s
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 # O' y: v" ?2 cWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.8 \1 ^" s) M9 z% G. A
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 / v8 f: n6 D+ l$ X% m7 GThat's a memory problem. * I( j/ G( I- b5 T这是一个记忆问题。3 O. q# N+ k5 k4 c3 A2 |
I guess that counts too.' z0 e6 k g3 R) ~8 J- S- B* H2 r
我想那很重要。 1 e" N5 N) E( K6 y, lBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? . j* @9 J3 a$ C. E" R& ]3 G但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ! C& ~8 q. X7 f8 `+ f A: n! ]At one point, there was a reason we do something.3 V! j* H5 P: a% o) W0 P4 A
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。4 b0 P4 H" N; }4 p8 b5 q$ `
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. & g8 u" K1 {* m* l' B对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 # X9 z8 ` P4 w UIt's always could to ask ourselves why.! u9 S- }. ?1 \: H
总是可以问问自己为什么。/ f+ d/ I1 K( X0 {
Why did I start to learn a language? 7 G8 w; ~" J9 L) y q为什么我开始学习一种语言？- F' |9 }- }9 h- R8 J9 N
Why did I join this club? , z2 f, y3 g6 Z8 _8 z( C) j为什么我加入这个俱乐部？* I' h2 y7 x4 z, ^9 m4 v3 a
Why my friend was this person? 7 I* o, s+ B+ y8 q% W为什么我的朋友是这个人？) }: a/ L# e& H. g$ i
Why did I get married? 1 s* Q5 I) [) u7 Z. m. A为什么我要结婚？% ]1 W# b9 R f
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.; }' H" c" ?7 q3 g1 z+ ^
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。# \* \# Q. ^0 ~- ~# F
I think we need indeed remind us of why. ' m7 c. L4 H, a1 n% l8 [5 A$ i7 w我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 1 R* ~3 E* [: I8 c4 I5 w& ~7 D! ]! oOr else it's tough to finish what we started. ' i4 m0 G# g1 l L0 K7 A9 U否则很难完成我们所开始的。2 i1 R7 G5 a2 c' t. U
We stop starting. We quit the club. 3 h9 N! y/ }1 S2 k6 @我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ) b% _5 D2 ]' D# pWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 7 v% I, b4 B1 N6 L我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 * Q( }9 x/ `8 g- W5 QThere's nothing wrong with asking why. - `: w6 e( Z: _# l问为什么没什么问题。. {% X7 a5 x' d+ c) n! z& Y% |, o
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.: a& e1 C8 g0 p5 i5 q3 I/ O' Z f
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。5 {2 }" d$ Q4 b& G
Talk about it.4 g4 H2 a& |( w/ M
谈论下面的话题： ) w b) T; G' }% K# kIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? 4 R! W& R& t8 q$ [你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？4 i7 g) J- ^3 @
Is it a kind of distant memory? / \; k8 k% f* a& G9 ^7 [它是一种遥远的记忆？6 a y" f7 O! E% j- O+ x( M
Did you ever forget why you are doing something..., N2 s1 d- ?+ ?& G: A1 ^' f# @' U
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… : ^ \/ `. b6 B+ a) S- x/ `How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?. F @9 u0 X, g/ Q2 ?9 @ v6 Y
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？3 h+ U8 Y- }9 {- t* P8 U
Do you write memos? - D+ j* Q9 F7 Y# W! e$ Y你写备忘录吗？$ n7 H% Q& O( \$ w% h
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?% m v7 }4 O; d# I' g
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ + J- V/ W7 E/ K: ], ~What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?4 {& L9 j- e# ~' [
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 2 |3 `/ o+ d& \! c5 d% H- M7 YWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? + O; d, t: K* K7 Z1 K4 U& U你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？