标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something+ F- Q/ ?' ?3 B8 ~1 D- d' K
5 U. D: e' \- r+ y" `# B1 P记住我们为什么做某事 * y" a6 R+ {" C$ i9 j3 cSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. " V. L* V# O2 E; n0 @) d0 R$ C有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。* v6 P9 V% `9 H
Have you ever done that?7 Y; A: P6 {4 P. u1 A# \
你曾有过这种经历吗？ % z9 w5 S+ q" a4 M8 k7 ~I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.2 j- k6 c3 B+ c8 P; d/ g( j. V/ B
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。/ G( S2 U# N! R! Z
I have called someone because I want to tell them something., b% @; B7 |. {5 D+ S0 O
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。" j5 g/ m# F; @/ T1 k
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. - F$ A1 G1 { \6 @7 q" X8 c0 R/ g然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。3 R/ O6 R" Z8 N4 z! C( j# q
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. % @/ @0 P0 }- G9 G8 T2 k哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。! t* z1 x& Y) r% u0 L8 C! V) [- S
That's a memory problem.+ G6 Y7 E; c1 k+ d( X) k) A6 o* G
这是一个记忆问题。 ) \( x; L; }* d6 |( G; E' L- NI guess that counts too. ; ^5 v! p6 m! ^5 W5 Z7 ^我想那很重要。 - h( e v1 z$ G0 b* j1 t$ mBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?# G& P& C, }5 d/ \6 X, H& o
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 5 Z9 H7 B( w# EAt one point, there was a reason we do something. 0 G1 e7 \( X5 X' ?1 S在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 5 {) n+ |% J1 B2 Q- o: ?For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. , A! K" u% a2 A6 P M: w对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 - q8 b! F/ o/ @/ B/ _1 u, KIt's always could to ask ourselves why. , s% i- _- H# L& F总是可以问问自己为什么。 - B" g6 v3 r2 f& I+ q6 kWhy did I start to learn a language? 2 R* d9 F/ Z4 @9 j为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ' O; N( p7 h! }( K) o7 X4 WWhy did I join this club? 7 O. v9 p+ p0 C$ g( n- [为什么我加入这个俱乐部？1 P+ ^2 w* W5 ^ L9 C
Why my friend was this person?$ _3 s) e; U% J* R6 }* f
为什么我的朋友是这个人？% p; o/ y C: H+ S+ `. x( p
Why did I get married?2 D" X' J# }1 B: D7 ]
为什么我要结婚？ . ?; [- M! I/ U3 ]) M$ V6 YIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. ; r; ]% z. B# U# g) G2 m2 C如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 9 B5 Y% e* j( c) t! @" K3 tI think we need indeed remind us of why.. u( _1 F! M% i6 o: K
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 / Z" v) p1 I# R B' wOr else it's tough to finish what we started./ k5 V' r0 g& ~4 r- n# `
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 + u$ h) \4 k/ H9 O2 O: BWe stop starting. We quit the club.* e( j3 M T+ `6 N: K0 C* B6 i
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ! m4 A+ `4 N1 L& [" BWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 6 l3 Y) L7 r4 _) F我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 9 {( x/ _7 q& P, T3 Y' C1 fThere's nothing wrong with asking why. 1 G' o8 Q- w0 `6 E$ P8 X问为什么没什么问题。 # w: L& P: @, D& K$ L; ^3 Y) eIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ; j$ d1 V/ [/ K5 A# [8 }5 n F事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 / _: [) b" h& C/ m& CTalk about it. / e5 a1 z( }4 X. V7 Y: g谈论下面的话题： ; u/ y g' U/ I z- o: x: Z' qIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?" K! T* r) H# \7 V4 s& @" ]% l
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？0 `6 @' J' k% j( Q
Is it a kind of distant memory?; v: n% w) g0 ?, y* h* a# k
它是一种遥远的记忆？ / b* d, e7 z$ BDid you ever forget why you are doing something... 3 D- j- S1 f% L) w& [1 X你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……! u0 i9 A3 P$ C
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?( k. U, x4 b3 h. _3 a
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？* e. U2 c! L, \. I8 H
Do you write memos?7 t: t" S q+ ?
你写备忘录吗？$ H- H( k# \7 D5 S, D
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? & q p0 U# d1 U: d( U t你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ * [/ o/ ]3 v5 i7 s3 aWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?0 {6 v5 H$ `! A3 I/ U+ \. P
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？' g2 ~4 k& i9 k4 a9 X: s
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?8 l% t( S9 r7 J1 \1 ^7 c `# `
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？