标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something, ^7 V I+ L# s: D1 [# f ^
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记住我们为什么做某事 / p: o6 J j! q- s7 k) {9 b" iSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.4 h9 G- t8 a; [$ G: i: X3 B6 h
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。6 [) v2 n' }' ?
Have you ever done that?& |% j! J4 G/ v6 X0 |: H" z
你曾有过这种经历吗？ , W7 R5 w0 W" j& Y. }+ W( dI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. ; ^! s. z% f3 Y( K4 q8 K我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 ~( |3 @0 ^2 d+ r& v0 ]
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.# U- t. Q* W+ Z
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 " y6 A* X% d7 T% G+ q1 `And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 7 {$ O% Q& j5 {# o" r然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ?6 j+ H( A: [4 Z9 {1 `& ?! J9 _2 @
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. : L$ C( {1 m0 k哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。1 N L. ^& [7 y/ n
That's a memory problem. ; Z6 L$ _8 M1 y: R8 f9 L这是一个记忆问题。 - ~- | h1 v9 F2 I5 L2 pI guess that counts too. & n- \3 D9 T" @/ J! R$ G, V我想那很重要。2 i& w" R4 P1 ]8 k
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?' I [, ~: Z, q% o
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ + m L; H; |) `1 B- W" sAt one point, there was a reason we do something. . U1 z9 C! j- L0 V- x! G! H+ t在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。) U: C6 m/ \1 `3 Q' m& X/ c7 v
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. / m' A, Q+ m% u. ~5 h$ {/ s* i对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。. h: i* z8 `: V( \$ s
It's always could to ask ourselves why. ; @2 m! h) m V总是可以问问自己为什么。3 d0 [! ?% ?" _2 `# y' N+ G
Why did I start to learn a language? + s( P# n& G# Q为什么我开始学习一种语言？ + @# ~3 Y; m5 WWhy did I join this club?$ }, X# y) x/ B! A* ~
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？$ S* e% V* g6 X& b7 n
Why my friend was this person?& J' h: v" g' ~9 h% l
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ 2 s' u/ x6 r0 r) A. D+ EWhy did I get married? 3 V+ C0 s. H2 I7 J为什么我要结婚？( u! v2 [, Q( Q
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. " w7 Y0 P* {* \0 C; |7 n如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。+ g0 }& P7 Z1 t8 I! ]* `5 d1 Y* m
I think we need indeed remind us of why." y/ W2 A$ G$ {! r/ l6 O1 p- q' B
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。+ q, D$ U- N5 U* l2 P4 A
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 4 j7 ]2 a2 l1 p( o3 ?: o9 g否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ; ? D, C* J d% @1 e0 i9 @, C6 MWe stop starting. We quit the club.3 Y) v8 P4 q' M$ L1 E' l
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。9 K# \3 a$ g! Q& Z
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.( L; ?7 @' k1 y% s$ }, Q# A
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 & @+ w5 Z5 ` T; a4 i5 b4 W) ~% OThere's nothing wrong with asking why. " f; [1 ?; }( m2 f问为什么没什么问题。! @3 T1 O6 |4 k4 ~. _" E9 O+ p
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.3 c2 B4 H$ s. C- P$ d- V
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。+ l7 {5 d# g( u! F9 o
Talk about it. 8 v) N5 f% L9 {" L! ?" J谈论下面的话题：% t; C( t8 C2 w; c. f! t
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? * p, z7 T: n8 t( ?8 s: w你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ " X, G9 i+ A0 z1 m% d) U2 Z" SIs it a kind of distant memory?3 |% K2 \) G/ F e0 E p: Y7 L
它是一种遥远的记忆？) }9 l8 H% g8 V0 S% E% T
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...( S2 @; U! O5 ?) }+ P: g
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… / ^7 S+ R/ y6 N3 M6 zHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?! P( h* I. B" j7 n5 N
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ O) r9 N+ i1 yDo you write memos? . k7 Y& O6 ? j- M4 q你写备忘录吗？- J9 z+ Z4 R) M) _% L
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?" i0 @, p' J4 p4 Q9 y% q" L+ i
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ! n6 w8 K# u* S- M6 \What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?2 N: |9 o* f( g; f0 s) y1 X
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？! g$ I* x: Y# V9 k8 w* Y9 I) X& L
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? b, O/ l. a7 J/ ^ n# ]- [你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？