标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something 4 `0 i' O: Z5 p3 ]$ @/ Y3 }% x) S 8 u% ^" G; Y- D记住我们为什么做某事3 |& i1 V! _4 i7 L) N/ f
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.: r" T, B7 C: I, R! v3 t
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。! Q e, r" J' U7 Z5 w. \
Have you ever done that?# `# V9 g5 g+ q5 l) y5 A! o0 G
你曾有过这种经历吗？8 Y' l) s( ]- v" \- z0 n
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 1 ~ x7 `" d+ \5 z9 ]3 F我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 3 }4 Q4 X" p4 E% e. dI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 5 U8 }7 Z; O, b) k/ i- s我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。5 R2 n1 \ F& r: t. h
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 4 W, b: |* E/ z, x7 O" D然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 6 Z r2 `! M" i9 f7 IWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. * a6 x9 Z) r& i* J哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 J5 b5 D+ i B9 A6 [4 V
That's a memory problem.- @: l) u n4 e3 E" g
这是一个记忆问题。 ( x/ V6 N$ d6 K# E m5 ~I guess that counts too. 1 X1 z9 d4 m1 F* C我想那很重要。8 S n3 i7 E6 ?9 {
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?0 N9 q5 L* t7 N' P5 o5 s& Z$ Z, F7 @
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 0 n4 [6 n: w7 _# T2 w2 m! KAt one point, there was a reason we do something.3 p5 b, P$ L" d
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 1 E- f9 M. X; S0 X% K* E' W6 R3 CFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.2 {1 z% R* Y4 S6 |# k5 V
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。8 m3 a" Y" T" X5 U% Y
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 4 X" \3 u2 f/ N总是可以问问自己为什么。 9 |1 ^+ I+ M% `6 B8 G: yWhy did I start to learn a language? % o- T# T+ ?; \为什么我开始学习一种语言？+ L. W- k( D3 g+ A* D
Why did I join this club?5 j+ t4 ^$ M' b$ q9 A& p
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？5 O/ `$ g. Q: P) E; T: F
Why my friend was this person? , E+ w/ ^/ B8 ^; K: z2 {为什么我的朋友是这个人？1 R, y; O- X! S: S! Y
Why did I get married?* y- j, a- t+ d u3 [
为什么我要结婚？ 5 e/ t6 G% E" I7 v9 a' TIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.$ |5 R/ G( j, a! I8 s0 b' {
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。. o( ?2 c: `3 F: s8 a+ ~
I think we need indeed remind us of why.( s& m; J: _4 `. D6 k) P, f: n
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 , R e' v0 w) }1 h; b- ^Or else it's tough to finish what we started.3 ]6 P% I$ o) `5 z1 l% c5 {
否则很难完成我们所开始的。$ \% _+ Y& `7 n1 Z7 d
We stop starting. We quit the club. # K7 q/ K, J' M. q8 ?0 X) x- U我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。0 T8 ?' w& N1 n" n7 d( U! X2 `% t# Z' \
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.) D4 E V3 [9 n( Q! L# K; G0 W
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。3 e8 E0 f% |) H$ L& `
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 3 T( _- s) G! @% w! ?6 l' O7 i) g. m问为什么没什么问题。# O+ d: g( c, Q- ^/ T
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.5 I, {/ F4 X8 |% h5 e3 I2 w
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 ' V, z& V, a9 MTalk about it./ u" \$ A& p9 A2 g* g
谈论下面的话题：( \; D- m% z! b8 f6 r4 t% k
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ! |! @8 N% j. w [你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？( j. Z' q2 M8 u. ^- h6 R- B1 {
Is it a kind of distant memory? : x6 e$ E5 L& K5 y3 Q它是一种遥远的记忆？. L% R- C, d3 c% P/ K1 h
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...3 I' d8 F: b. x" [: O
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……* x, j; M {: }) q- I- \
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?4 @/ r% }4 M. A. U; w
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 6 R1 d, I5 d" `Do you write memos?. s! u+ h' S9 g; C$ r$ |
你写备忘录吗？ ! j, p q+ g: l7 ADoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?. Q7 @0 o' i+ l6 z, s2 V1 }, Z
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？4 y- {' n2 }$ d$ }8 a O$ e; M
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? 2 o" H; b- e% Q$ }7 j还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 3 n6 D9 H: [. u$ y uWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?- a$ k2 F0 k/ }; I0 k; I/ h7 I; N
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？