标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something, r+ n( p0 ]9 o) }3 B8 d$ z
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记住我们为什么做某事 `1 \: K# n8 b+ {
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. 0 f. K0 U' J0 l, ]! [有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。0 [, G k) ]2 q& L* L
Have you ever done that? 5 H& P* G9 w4 B0 Z) u- m$ X你曾有过这种经历吗？! P) x0 S7 Z/ r% B
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.- A+ r- S5 S" S6 i9 u) S8 H4 I$ m
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 D, b2 A7 v) }
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. " V3 U( T0 U& r! u我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。0 [) X4 \+ h: q1 {
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.. }& d# ?+ [1 v5 ?# H G
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。6 e4 h3 w6 k. U) Q, o
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. - O6 e) \- m9 b哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 3 P9 D7 j) p0 \3 }0 dThat's a memory problem.( r! o0 h" D) U
这是一个记忆问题。7 p8 h- {' \+ j; ]/ V5 U* E) L
I guess that counts too.& j% I9 y5 z# ^ X. Z' c
我想那很重要。 2 }: R( G/ r* M U9 P1 HBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? - b) a" }7 W! @) C2 U2 e但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？; N A/ [* x2 G0 {; u# p
At one point, there was a reason we do something. , C; ], e& }7 T& r2 L/ b$ G在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。6 F& j- H( z. W4 @. ^0 o
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ) ~ H5 k: e v+ a3 T \对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 7 Y5 K% w/ X- P1 m$ M% h- a. l0 [5 MIt's always could to ask ourselves why.; i% B l/ A% g0 K% B
总是可以问问自己为什么。4 y5 { H, h* h' R3 Z5 {* R- x
Why did I start to learn a language?7 g- _ G. d' Q0 C: S% U( P
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ _" L" @( }. y
Why did I join this club? : R7 O1 H% q5 W Q! O为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ * ^, R* L# m" q% }2 SWhy my friend was this person?9 r% Y+ `; y6 @
为什么我的朋友是这个人？. I, `+ h# N, I# s& \
Why did I get married?, p# @* Q1 x/ q& O% I1 I+ ~$ P8 q
为什么我要结婚？7 m- }" |1 w- K) }8 u2 p
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. ' ` f. j* x# E: u" Q4 m2 q如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ! ^" u- u7 K: s8 j2 H9 ^I think we need indeed remind us of why.6 U6 K F6 s0 J- H6 ]
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 : C f! U. ^& P* }* qOr else it's tough to finish what we started. 2 l% e! [, h1 C4 D. |+ E否则很难完成我们所开始的。/ R, S! H' x3 D/ a3 d
We stop starting. We quit the club.4 w6 U3 c- l' R: n6 ]3 f: u! w$ ] Y
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。- [6 F, ~) W A8 O* B
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 5 n! P! Y8 q1 n; t. U我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。3 S& A6 J' I& S. W8 e
There's nothing wrong with asking why. ' E+ k/ T7 ]# r+ d" ~( Q$ }问为什么没什么问题。9 O v8 ~" j0 g/ W* ~+ b k
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. ! W8 R p! b. ^9 T; h3 T事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。8 i/ ~9 o! M9 Q7 W$ y
Talk about it.- _+ u+ r0 O" G" i* |( f t
谈论下面的话题： D" c. Y5 ^# Y" o6 U
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?# ?* }8 c7 E/ ]
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ " y Z. v8 x; q: Q! uIs it a kind of distant memory?+ }1 e" c% l* K$ y
它是一种遥远的记忆？7 D: T# A3 s. n0 o9 J0 A( ~1 ]5 X
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...& t1 a$ d( G. m/ Q# \
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……+ H# ^+ b) n7 s" S, P0 n6 f2 z
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? ( l# V9 e( W+ G/ `你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？) L/ z. F k1 l+ [; X/ w4 e+ h
Do you write memos? % V5 C. v# J i7 s6 ? [% ~& k8 M你写备忘录吗？+ C& o2 h5 _2 A" T j" f
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? # v: ^( K* r5 F4 ]你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？$ [6 M0 D8 @4 v! w7 M; m% c$ I1 X
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?! }* _0 B! y" D+ |6 R
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？! L Y1 ?# u; d7 m* ^4 P
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?& u3 G! l3 Q6 M1 m
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？