标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something& ?0 u/ u/ I# k X. n9 C9 E& u
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记住我们为什么做某事 % p2 {0 |# K4 l8 ~) B2 _Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. % m, Z! [0 ?( {2 K0 v1 _$ L有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 & c/ c' B! h1 G% u9 Q- J. THave you ever done that?) F* T/ u. {1 Z! c2 u2 K
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 3 c% e( f2 l8 r3 O8 gI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.1 i8 C! d7 c+ p1 \
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。5 _# r# |; O, M% h
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.* C9 M% P0 o2 N
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。9 I }$ W) Y6 u2 L- U7 V# C
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. # H. o! `6 C5 r$ N然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 9 y. H& s) |* H: aWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.& W: R' j: U7 f0 c- c- y. T
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。3 ]; }7 @' `# `. h4 `4 Q n% [8 ~
That's a memory problem.. R* V+ [) p. |7 P; p' b5 k2 U! I
这是一个记忆问题。 $ e- Q# [: _( t0 F" r4 J5 VI guess that counts too. 1 A) A% w9 b, R, I. c& w+ `我想那很重要。; o; `6 r+ L4 {7 U( W
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?1 }: e: v# {( U( `# D+ I
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？/ E. Z$ C2 [3 g; h
At one point, there was a reason we do something. 9 _: J: R: s! { E7 @4 c在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。( Q2 E; i1 ~4 u$ }$ n
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.) o8 P- t: n V5 e3 S Q
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 4 @8 \- D. s# ^( Z4 u% x; h" jIt's always could to ask ourselves why.8 A5 J; @6 K+ ?$ X6 T; @
总是可以问问自己为什么。6 Y B4 ?6 t$ _: e: }
Why did I start to learn a language?' W1 @" M* y) X( b4 V9 U; \/ [9 b
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ # \6 H) R2 r- d9 W, Y) eWhy did I join this club? 8 x( i5 G: O6 P; P为什么我加入这个俱乐部？/ _) I* w) S! s# i( { S
Why my friend was this person? ) C, i9 D8 \5 Q* {为什么我的朋友是这个人？% {3 v6 c$ {$ b, f: |8 D4 Z
Why did I get married? & j( {1 n$ ^. [, C. U为什么我要结婚？$ p* b+ K8 K+ u6 B
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 7 ?, r) `( q; e0 H如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 ) W! g; O, u) e" d+ n% YI think we need indeed remind us of why. # @( h2 r6 T# x# \9 p4 n我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。6 b- t7 S# U T: `' U
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 5 w# ^0 d) X K1 p7 i0 N4 m否则很难完成我们所开始的。 ( u& ~: t* ~$ SWe stop starting. We quit the club. ) A- P4 g/ I9 r( B我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 5 t3 s5 v: H7 N5 K1 j: ^( aWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.8 h+ _1 L7 F A
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。7 t- ]! |# [" f
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 8 ?0 H) h L6 B- Z: V8 X! n问为什么没什么问题。5 V' }5 G m9 J) R, K; y3 Q
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.# O! {* J+ d% B4 F0 {* _
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 % J: O) n; P$ q2 y0 ETalk about it.( b0 h4 f7 D' C% \$ o0 w. [
谈论下面的话题： $ I/ P6 p: Q" d$ u) N: NIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?3 u0 S% C6 x, H* d9 X
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ 4 W- q) ^+ c+ B2 V' TIs it a kind of distant memory?, A1 I4 s1 E$ i0 m* e
它是一种遥远的记忆？6 ~! c A) B4 `! S* O! X$ n
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...( [2 d& ^: b( k! h$ y9 [( l
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……: [( u$ r0 {' T1 D
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?$ D$ z0 U7 j3 l5 Z; V! m& W' p
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ % b% K# M; o7 ^3 u. DDo you write memos? " b6 `& R }' |& [/ n: I你写备忘录吗？7 d9 t; e1 M. U6 K0 ^3 e9 e
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? % P/ Y) K1 b9 f' u/ X4 F; k你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？) b4 ~& `# f' k. N
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?( U% P" ~5 q8 L6 K2 K4 n
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ / j% W% q5 P; }: \) Z/ `/ a1 cWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?8 v4 [ Y( h0 i0 Q+ T- v, m
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？