标题: 美文赏析:记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析:记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something W% S% t1 _6 N4 b
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记住我们为什么做某事# R: Z* X4 F$ B- \, g* k
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. % Q' h, F( W% q有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。; R& I2 u9 z! T
Have you ever done that?; b, e) }7 c% U$ O+ a
你曾有过这种经历吗?, w/ q" C; M/ Z: o
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.8 a# Q: ~( y; d8 a I- v. \
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。+ H, q( ]# a) x( G$ s# c: Z3 s9 [/ y
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. & Q# ^9 f8 m# u) \. z6 y1 G我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。6 x# v+ U- }/ Y( V4 O
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. # k \/ y+ ^+ n) ]然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。5 C4 i: }7 I; ^/ F! I' a* J
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. # V& {! _- l! l' V' e( i哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。6 a4 p8 R5 y/ N: X' r
That's a memory problem. 9 ]' A9 `7 I) d0 O1 {这是一个记忆问题。! h! ?# a7 K) N* S& h0 O i
I guess that counts too. # y* [' y" z. S我想那很重要。' h' b, I$ x9 n% ]/ L; y
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?* s+ ]0 G `0 c; p/ ]
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么? $ R' _0 i1 [& [* f( cAt one point, there was a reason we do something. $ H4 D( q" c7 S/ P g6 f在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。8 E- e W+ _. o* K
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.. E( ^7 C4 U) C6 }0 g* C7 \1 P# t, e; e
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。 & I* w( `' {8 O- n" tIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 5 x0 @- E6 u$ |总是可以问问自己为什么。 ; Y4 A8 d$ }" g4 ^# ~Why did I start to learn a language?5 @: o7 e3 v$ | Z1 \
为什么我开始学习一种语言?0 e; V f j% W: }) T
Why did I join this club? o ?( f- k7 b
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?- B: ~7 N% E: }4 J
Why my friend was this person?" `0 H) ]2 v: v
为什么我的朋友是这个人?+ w: Y v; K; M6 R+ e; u$ g K3 w
Why did I get married? + x" Z: B. H; ^5 N3 F' W为什么我要结婚? : _ x5 m/ f& qIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 8 m0 \+ n- w1 {如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。8 L) U. |- \) b
I think we need indeed remind us of why.3 Q4 _/ k% ~0 B5 O) Q5 o
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。% g/ a3 u r9 U" u) Z, n
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. * K2 V" F, J, n% b5 x否则很难完成我们所开始的。2 g4 M0 J9 a9 s' B" D+ H
We stop starting. We quit the club. / h* n! R( o; c. `我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 . @- z2 a2 L' ZWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. % b+ I3 ^- q- Y7 s- `9 J& M3 N# l我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。7 z( L7 |$ n! o0 A# u B
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 1 u2 j: x W# g9 S; b! {4 m+ `问为什么没什么问题。7 I8 L$ X4 I4 m
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. % w! }# [: j( b3 ^" ?事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 % q; u0 P( G: B) J' `0 T$ vTalk about it. ( w) i5 [. i: L谈论下面的话题: ( M1 Y2 E* j3 i. g# rIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?$ F5 Q0 b- _$ j9 P/ R
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?* k+ I9 ]5 d0 W7 q3 Q& n$ L" C
Is it a kind of distant memory? c0 F# c A' o3 B& u) P% r
它是一种遥远的记忆? u8 Y* M @+ E3 k0 J, tDid you ever forget why you are doing something... . S5 H v, t) M* t' t你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… . H3 f2 f' E( X# B- F( Z! tHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?, H" i3 _. |" l/ p9 y
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?: A6 Q2 [' R* H, p, ^. ^9 }
Do you write memos?" ?1 W- c; G! t' c
你写备忘录吗? 0 g) Y2 R0 h3 y% HDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ! h) @9 Z2 r! N) [2 O你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?! Z5 M) H J" j/ q; M/ g, S- { c
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? $ d% [+ P( s( ^% T& q X* F/ d还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?* r! x7 F8 E: T2 f# b' y
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? 9 b. i# o8 l. z. R% q你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办?