标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something & b$ j% N% N5 g! X1 r" }" x+ z6 y; L) r2 D! m% _
记住我们为什么做某事 $ [# k0 V# b) w' ]4 u7 {0 hSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. $ x# _6 L* `6 k+ a) x有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 3 H0 X3 D. N6 Q9 e, cHave you ever done that?8 f1 h" V1 [5 U" M
你曾有过这种经历吗？ 8 ~9 f+ k4 [1 E4 m3 l0 O* f; B' AI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.0 U! z# `3 E0 A1 V* H, z6 {% |+ X
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 2 ]4 c# o/ S* X1 CI have called someone because I want to tell them something.0 R J8 F8 [) O2 S
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 ) k/ I$ V1 z& d! j I! }* O3 ]And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. % A' j! O- W8 }/ \: B/ B' p+ ^然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 7 @: s9 s1 L7 \5 vWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. & a" o [, _1 @( X2 y* {哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 3 g5 {6 e9 j3 n+ ~* p+ |% UThat's a memory problem. 1 e4 T+ M4 N# m这是一个记忆问题。( m: c6 Q3 P5 V" I
I guess that counts too. : c* h, @4 T% n+ I我想那很重要。 4 {. |4 i3 i: h* D, o- L4 QBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?7 p5 v. d }8 D% c$ O- o* V1 B
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ ' e ^) x- w( A# KAt one point, there was a reason we do something. ; h+ c' Z% s- a# G( n在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。5 j9 V( N' N, J: \ [
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. 6 L( _7 u* \6 W2 u对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。4 L( ]: i' j0 q& t2 C2 @/ u8 u
It's always could to ask ourselves why. 4 q- _4 q* M3 Q, T总是可以问问自己为什么。 ; ~$ W6 F# K i) Y3 c2 u" OWhy did I start to learn a language? ) Q6 g) d& L" y- u- C为什么我开始学习一种语言？ ( Z2 t4 B( x0 c B, y& c% _ C" RWhy did I join this club? 5 Z9 @* R1 e4 k! Y/ u为什么我加入这个俱乐部？2 b R! C1 \! w2 @
Why my friend was this person?+ f% N0 w- v* a$ `: L/ a" A
为什么我的朋友是这个人？2 ]) F* t% p V4 H
Why did I get married?& O2 |+ i: i2 }8 p0 B
为什么我要结婚？ 9 @; d- q! |- V$ `% p7 P3 kIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.( N% F6 q" h" z& Y
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 4 V; C( G' ~# O# I- D" R; yI think we need indeed remind us of why. & P2 k5 X, z: t. s" K- J4 @/ F: G我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 & d$ z4 g' R( t3 r: X* pOr else it's tough to finish what we started.% S, v" k$ f3 ^- B9 {+ O
否则很难完成我们所开始的。! o4 O9 ~& ^. G* ^2 @, w' P
We stop starting. We quit the club. * _3 k- p# b/ }% S& l# {我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。* z! S& @/ G+ k! e1 H p+ x
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged." H2 n3 Q: K1 u
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。# T @0 G$ V5 v2 K5 b
There's nothing wrong with asking why. 2 _( ~5 }( J" C4 i$ j问为什么没什么问题。 . f0 P: I' a% U# O6 [0 A$ o3 nIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. & X5 X" q( L7 Q! _& E: N f事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。7 L* l# t9 G- a, n$ M
Talk about it. - m+ N& i1 v" Z7 |谈论下面的话题： $ Z- Y8 ? ?% q* ]Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?$ g; {3 a0 r% V7 O9 m
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ - t. R% X/ w+ {Is it a kind of distant memory? 3 H d+ k$ }. P' o) I它是一种遥远的记忆？; d3 y2 e3 M! l: l/ R6 P5 L
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 1 [( ~/ U7 S( q8 i( |# [你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… f4 A* z$ Z" Q1 O: JHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?( h$ V& G4 S2 J/ p1 b( I
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？" C* u- `8 E7 W$ }2 l3 v8 O
Do you write memos? # b; n9 d# O7 G你写备忘录吗？8 ^ i1 a+ c+ \% Z8 r
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? ( l3 O: v* |7 V: Z0 z你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？$ C# ^2 w! ]0 N
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? + n) V9 U5 i/ i! ]. y还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？; \2 a0 ~: E- J) w! D
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?+ Q5 v6 _) t2 B# X9 j8 K6 d
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？