标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something- F% e" q& s2 ^+ r* ?; y! m+ l
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记住我们为什么做某事 ' N3 y; H9 u4 H9 s. |Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.) d. P/ i B1 ^5 _5 q
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 : [" d0 L3 b0 z, u$ J' THave you ever done that?7 U1 C8 \1 j# T# C
你曾有过这种经历吗？ k+ z) D. z6 l z, H BI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.1 {& s, [9 S6 k" @/ H, ~) i
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 6 t( T+ e: Y/ B d& |" XI have called someone because I want to tell them something. + O9 S% M, h/ m5 o* v! g! a我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。+ I5 o2 z6 a9 B# C) o
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. $ t H; g c8 A- V然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ' x) V2 J+ q! iWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.8 a5 S3 t3 Z* ]7 X% P1 m0 [
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。, D# I8 G" Y M8 x5 c6 d+ g& c
That's a memory problem. 4 ]: D) F2 x! z# H% Q: g这是一个记忆问题。) N5 y% w4 _# @! G, Q
I guess that counts too.) n ^; @5 \0 G0 s
我想那很重要。+ P& G- M+ n% f# q' R+ ^
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? 3 O' x2 j4 E- |- _但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？+ S1 C5 C! l; d, {) R0 I
At one point, there was a reason we do something. ! j2 f8 _7 Q# W j4 z9 V在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。 9 Y2 Y; p. A/ U2 W# |For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. ! P% H# B3 w$ y' ]3 T9 w对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ! S7 `" _1 h5 f% h- O7 C$ UIt's always could to ask ourselves why. 7 z( ?, r! V$ x: I# D& I0 K总是可以问问自己为什么。 7 e6 E% @3 H1 Y& @/ C! I' g+ UWhy did I start to learn a language? 8 z! T$ `$ D4 z% `0 G为什么我开始学习一种语言？ + s4 E2 Z" z/ U0 H; {Why did I join this club? G0 V/ R5 T' \1 ~" k( A
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 4 I$ c# w1 `9 I" x+ WWhy my friend was this person? * i" U9 F4 F' ]# N' |+ U为什么我的朋友是这个人？: Q- ^/ r: T/ d8 o
Why did I get married?4 }) g6 _1 v* l4 Q
为什么我要结婚？0 a# _' N, _% L
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. 0 d+ M2 U. M) @# g& x如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。! w% k9 g6 x% g' i/ Y1 N
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 4 N" E7 S1 }3 t, `7 l8 L1 m我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。8 r/ ?" E0 g+ s
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. & R* m+ G1 Y5 U# X$ S3 u: b否则很难完成我们所开始的。 9 Q% g/ O0 C2 jWe stop starting. We quit the club. . N) u8 V. U6 n+ {8 G8 r0 n4 r我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。* y4 c" }1 V& n3 D R1 q! ~
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. $ _! p4 m S# F& V9 ~! L我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。8 C2 y. @' N" H% o
There's nothing wrong with asking why. % d* N4 `6 l8 W# g+ m问为什么没什么问题。 ; p! h3 Z3 k4 [- a1 J r. d) F9 xIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.% s* c; o: m/ m& k# {. u7 u4 o
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 - W0 F1 i$ a+ r0 _+ Z. WTalk about it. 0 `' Z0 |+ G) B" e+ |8 Y0 _谈论下面的话题： ' F! ^$ c: I2 C( @Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?) D3 R0 u0 E( H! w: @
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？5 R& T0 v4 p/ S4 e" ?, h# H" G
Is it a kind of distant memory?6 l k6 n& b1 G' l% b/ V1 X
它是一种遥远的记忆？# y6 F$ m. e$ Z# b
Did you ever forget why you are doing something..., A, Z5 K: F1 N8 j2 t( U7 S: \( y
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 1 ^9 \- f- i4 J9 a3 [How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?7 V/ b L- V) h. d% g
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ $ G3 U+ J$ B8 } s) |Do you write memos?2 E3 U' c5 q: @" J- ^( g% E
你写备忘录吗？ 9 U4 W9 g# c4 ~& W, g1 n) c% x2 ^Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? F* r' S. J( k% I5 L7 d# X你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？* b3 _. l8 [7 }! T& Z- ~# H
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? * w$ k) @0 u/ h+ i0 x2 | A还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ 5 Y4 W/ q+ ~2 ]! t9 P& sWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?* {" h8 Q$ M! J2 V2 s8 O
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？