标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something ! C5 g% u' S9 G- } 0 P7 y6 e9 h6 q K+ |9 _# ]: C记住我们为什么做某事 3 o `) v9 \# T F; f' eSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. / `9 l/ q* k/ B1 [; X4 x8 i2 T1 n" w有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 5 z6 ~! F B$ C7 ?* gHave you ever done that? 7 d! \: ^/ x6 p0 k5 T你曾有过这种经历吗？ 0 O7 ^0 l4 B9 V6 s4 S- o1 vI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. . D( F0 c0 m8 v6 {) i) r" d$ o4 d# V我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。- e$ K' }1 W$ w, |* R: G7 ~
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.! p |* C2 n; ]6 @! a
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 4 ?& z3 T( G0 ?5 eAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. 1 l% ]; H" F# o. @1 x: a- H& I4 X然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 ' A( c3 V9 I9 f5 F$ BWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.3 ?2 |# \) \) n' O* M/ \: j
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。( g( s7 }0 g" O- b2 f% w0 `( _" x
That's a memory problem. ) |+ n5 G1 Q- }3 @' @7 V' ^# u1 d这是一个记忆问题。2 ^1 b6 m) D: i: q6 S. @: m, T8 j6 r
I guess that counts too. * Y5 h% y, o6 y* K- x3 `我想那很重要。 - W4 E( n2 n; ]2 K6 DBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?1 s2 S* M; Y' @- S5 h# u
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ . a* |3 y7 U2 NAt one point, there was a reason we do something.; L1 S. M+ ^8 \- @, P
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。/ O$ z& n$ i; m; z; A z/ L
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.$ q6 M z* [9 z* e% C' M7 v- u
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 , \: [) B, E! |* D6 QIt's always could to ask ourselves why.3 Y: D* d0 N+ W2 O! l
总是可以问问自己为什么。' M$ s0 s- ]4 S. U1 w: t
Why did I start to learn a language?$ ~' f3 V4 y9 V. C F1 G' a5 z
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ " a* m4 w, J% R$ g& F6 V0 u3 CWhy did I join this club? ' L5 ?1 A% R2 V4 A/ F1 U为什么我加入这个俱乐部？( d5 `) S p3 z" A; R d. ~2 y4 o/ H
Why my friend was this person?# C) H+ Z: m; M
为什么我的朋友是这个人？, `- ?4 _( \0 b( C! d5 L% R8 l5 s
Why did I get married? . G- Z& b. L0 j7 F0 I. m3 z+ r为什么我要结婚？9 o5 B' |9 g K7 Q2 @0 d
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. " u' L; o+ K) S' b6 V8 ]* w* B如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 : K, G+ N5 R9 L1 ZI think we need indeed remind us of why. 6 b) ?$ h" J1 n; |/ [, }我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 % y8 z: ]3 q, D4 }3 I5 yOr else it's tough to finish what we started.& G/ w8 b- a# L
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 D4 V3 M9 m: S3 M% G
We stop starting. We quit the club. 5 k* {+ j! S- w我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。3 \ G7 l6 x4 Y, T; k
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.# s" U- m& H* b3 x$ g( \5 i+ n
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 , H; m X% H$ i/ m. y5 a% T8 mThere's nothing wrong with asking why. 1 d: g& `5 V( V) C. ]7 w1 y问为什么没什么问题。 2 i- k& [1 k& ?, _5 T6 U, L+ ?In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. % Y" z: L# Y; L事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 & j: g. t- A* \2 b `% eTalk about it. % m E# u3 A' N. X0 T6 z9 Y Q谈论下面的话题： 6 l. X6 i2 e2 yIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? - ]9 J) p5 ^8 ^+ D- B( Y& o你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？# j9 F' p4 @ g
Is it a kind of distant memory?& o7 X% [0 }$ ^; [& b5 ~' K8 e
它是一种遥远的记忆？" ?! |6 k' s6 C" O. \7 L
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 3 h7 h p1 V& g1 F7 a你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… 3 M o3 w- T1 l+ ~# B% Z( yHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?0 s; ^+ O, v8 ?
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？5 z: ?4 v7 d. Z" q. G' c8 V& l; T$ z
Do you write memos? ( F; @6 c; m8 I6 F你写备忘录吗？ . s P5 h2 e. jDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? $ E+ R6 v" q1 w8 p0 u你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？* @3 m1 h4 c( T- ^+ M2 ^1 F
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting? t8 Y, o2 G" r; O7 ^* o还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？( B. D& X8 C$ N$ D5 u8 |; e5 o. H
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? # h) n3 c: d1 `/ B1 j- G3 k/ _& Q你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？