标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something# f* e9 m) ], s% ?8 q
& z; b% Q! G) q7 ?记住我们为什么做某事 - a# z8 r. ?( m* RSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.4 \5 K( S. J1 M7 G x* ?1 s. N9 f
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 ! |9 Z; e/ @& {Have you ever done that? 7 P0 d$ s7 U7 ^- d8 t你曾有过这种经历吗？7 l) H+ E3 ^. [; ]1 g, S
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.' n1 F- E" k' l! C
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。 " a5 ?' h5 ]/ V) RI have called someone because I want to tell them something. 5 t$ T. {" u! q/ L/ r我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 2 X) W9 m, b2 m# Q* x; XAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.; u" v, n, z) j) R
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 & K8 ?3 S$ q4 p. y2 t: `1 BWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place. " G- g- T2 W; o' c4 j- d: E* ~哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 - m+ g! q. V4 A" WThat's a memory problem.- g9 K; U) e( Q) L+ N5 x. t5 \- `" _9 U
这是一个记忆问题。 6 N9 B* L( T( {! J6 h. |I guess that counts too.1 T- j5 c0 E% a& _; A- F
我想那很重要。, o' b2 c2 `# g. O4 i: G
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?" r5 P4 n3 p3 k: l1 T8 w
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？+ ^# C7 Q& L, ~2 A
At one point, there was a reason we do something.- x" e8 V5 s% J4 K# y# x* T
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。' m7 X. g- a% I6 e' m$ C% Z+ }( `; S
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason./ Y9 q f" {7 j* [4 t2 \
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 Q/ [9 u4 V/ n/ ^% \% R( V! a
It's always could to ask ourselves why.3 y4 [, Y! d* D4 T2 _1 a
总是可以问问自己为什么。+ e# v: Q/ F( J7 [+ B
Why did I start to learn a language?" |+ {8 I. d! g& {1 D4 ^4 d% [5 ~
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 4 C& ^% R3 Y7 e9 @8 AWhy did I join this club?: r0 D* l0 O# [: `) _( Y
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？% t; W) X) a2 i% ]+ w" x
Why my friend was this person?, P+ D2 {: s- [; _) T) ]+ l5 ~
为什么我的朋友是这个人？: w- [- A, Y8 ?$ Q7 w# c
Why did I get married? , @. W5 O6 k7 |/ [: F/ r为什么我要结婚？ 0 _8 m$ T# r. ]1 u5 CIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.. `& O$ N- W( Z- H9 v
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。 0 u! o7 N0 j# t% Z& n4 `/ E: J; ~I think we need indeed remind us of why.+ z' C6 y3 }# [
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。3 ~9 b4 s+ s9 r K3 @* s
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 9 Z' A: X5 g( I4 m( U否则很难完成我们所开始的。' T* J/ P' c* i$ w1 T
We stop starting. We quit the club. ) }" t0 K+ D0 L" B6 d6 c+ a我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 # z% F0 N7 g3 h9 O* N8 fWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.- d2 s; ^7 @. b+ d
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。( C4 ^2 J8 y& X$ q5 b
There's nothing wrong with asking why.2 R& k8 }4 k$ L/ v
问为什么没什么问题。3 W1 t% q1 e, R0 h' n% W
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. 3 v' { A& h3 ?% L事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 A" t% t1 g, Z
Talk about it. 8 v7 X) m5 [) w* \; W2 z谈论下面的话题： ! Z: A- J4 z, IIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? , l' ^" A. \/ E; O8 c你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ . i% v+ Y% U' f$ ?0 g6 JIs it a kind of distant memory? ! z' N9 a$ a7 m H- z$ T它是一种遥远的记忆？6 u0 H9 F K7 }0 o6 W( l8 H
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...2 Y1 V; B: x! H; Y" o
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……+ j k5 Q2 g) x
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? / q& [+ s& {) I( D" N7 D- R你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ & E& k9 n7 C, o3 y. v! fDo you write memos? {! c" S ~! Q; V5 T
你写备忘录吗？" X/ h+ Y! l- O3 ~5 |' t: j
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? Z q9 c1 P2 ~1 [! Y9 g' N你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ ( X) @( J& q% R, K# g% \What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?+ R. e* Z5 R' C; ?
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ + ?) Q. g5 d# t2 L& U, Y: T* n& GWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? " B! \% m+ o2 S3 }) K4 @; E1 M) o3 p你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？