标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something8 R) U4 M8 Q9 m' q! R$ P2 {
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记住我们为什么做某事 8 J, Z: F) N8 Q, PSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing./ i& A4 Z" [5 i' G$ `& b6 `) T, }2 c
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。 : E. `5 W7 p2 o' g) ]Have you ever done that? 9 R3 d0 c! R: g/ Z- P7 I5 }你曾有过这种经历吗？8 u& m9 @7 S$ Q+ B! ]
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too. 3 }1 W9 c% [0 O! ?) V0 P3 B我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。& W. Y/ x. M1 @ R0 ]
I have called someone because I want to tell them something. 8 K% ~1 ]- O& h我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。 3 ?8 J% F, H. D( C; [And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.7 y8 V' E4 I9 y( h9 `' ?# y
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。 7 ~; A, \4 o/ i- qWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.3 j6 ]' t/ b" \3 _# m
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。* ?( I+ D" ]# {7 a
That's a memory problem. 2 Z+ j4 }% p9 J% q这是一个记忆问题。) ?( P: l9 A) X7 T
I guess that counts too. # `, [8 E1 {' A- X l' r$ H: k我想那很重要。3 g8 Y( {( c7 R4 ~0 @" z
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? j" Q+ w) L3 g0 h8 |0 c5 M但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？ 3 N( S5 [+ e+ @+ W- O+ {At one point, there was a reason we do something. p# O+ i, {9 n/ m$ x' O
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。9 a( j' |# I; q$ U" p1 l
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.0 u, p+ c+ |- J/ l& t6 {
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。 ! ]& C1 I) e- d. E2 p! H6 W! mIt's always could to ask ourselves why.% D) c, ~1 f/ u: g) `
总是可以问问自己为什么。 5 q8 ?5 O2 x* d6 L0 V$ ]Why did I start to learn a language? " v$ f8 T. v O4 f为什么我开始学习一种语言？ - m! z: h0 T2 |0 k pWhy did I join this club? - w, Y% u- s; \; `为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ 6 n m9 ^1 b: {+ Y1 D& J7 UWhy my friend was this person?8 Y5 p( C- R, E" ^/ W
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ O7 }' B1 t4 `( y9 P
Why did I get married? ) ]6 D) }" o b6 N# d# ?为什么我要结婚？5 T) |3 e. O. N/ I8 p/ `; g' Z
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. }2 r5 [" m4 @6 j s5 f/ N
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。/ a% F, l0 n) ~$ ?
I think we need indeed remind us of why. 8 i8 {9 K! B7 y& C1 q1 H我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 7 b# o; f9 u* R/ I3 a' xOr else it's tough to finish what we started.8 \& G- s( v" V% I' g
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 7 {# e8 r/ K2 s) j6 ?We stop starting. We quit the club. 4 A# O K9 m5 P) }. s我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 $ F0 `; e6 `4 T( UWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. 7 |' E; [0 x( T/ H( P! p0 c0 O, S我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 5 f' m0 k- j3 P. F5 i* g4 Z. zThere's nothing wrong with asking why.4 r) b' ]# T" V- Y
问为什么没什么问题。 : K/ s' r- w0 h. Q; I, d% A5 TIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing." [% v9 B: `2 t& a7 ?2 @, e
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。6 L0 {" W; J* W3 l- N+ _ A) j
Talk about it.6 O* I+ z5 f* H3 S6 h% J
谈论下面的话题： 8 _' g& f# W& @& Z3 v) JIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?! q6 W E! K/ _, X. K) C/ l" E
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？1 ~7 P) r% h4 }& a: n: m" F5 l
Is it a kind of distant memory? * T( i% q* V. O( ~它是一种遥远的记忆？4 D; O, X1 @2 J, M4 f
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... ! U; {) U) d) a9 v: d你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……! x6 i' B( u9 p& B! m% ?& j( h
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? . K5 i. _. j% p2 R你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ . N' }; d( ?2 Q- b; IDo you write memos? ( ] d# ^$ Z2 N- l) q- M你写备忘录吗？ : h4 s r8 k8 g7 W7 j) WDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?& I6 U" d2 P+ e
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？" ]" h, U8 c y4 F# @
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?: l0 n* e6 i. K/ p+ v
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？ ( h: l- L) l3 H Y0 K+ `What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? * m$ n1 Y) M6 G) N, y2 M, }+ Q6 M1 L你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？