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Remembering why we are doing something
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8 q, e: A; Y' M# _2 T1 s& k记住我们为什么做某事
$ i4 J- M: ?( @( h8 W( X. pSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
4 b+ v$ R7 y# N8 u% z+ I/ B; s0 l( B有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。( m3 w3 B( O* T8 R
Have you ever done that?" T# g6 e& E* P; F
你曾有过这种经历吗？8 i+ Z2 X: v! M E( z5 q
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
- J$ l( ]8 G2 K8 n* H6 j; T4 s; z- y我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。
0 W1 ^1 G1 v, y' _& jI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
; R* X2 E# w3 s7 O我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。2 i' b) C+ J& W! K5 z; z. M
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.8 ~5 o' ~1 E X9 A
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。0 A# S# V3 d5 {- N9 w) y
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
' f6 Z5 r# v4 b# e哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
0 `# g1 T& b8 ]That's a memory problem.
|+ `/ m1 W) ~9 b1 M1 M T( S这是一个记忆问题。7 K; E7 b' r$ V9 N: \
I guess that counts too.9 d& b- x5 _5 h
我想那很重要。9 E# }* h( y/ B* n1 X$ c
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
# g; m3 {$ l- X; S: z, k0 ]但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？4 l+ d8 H9 F5 a2 ^; s1 q* a9 O9 `
At one point, there was a reason we do something.# h. a" [, d: w: S8 _5 d
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。0 Y' }3 ]0 a- T" x
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.. E2 L v; J( G7 X# l- U g
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。& |* T/ j3 i; P+ v8 H# G9 }
It's always could to ask ourselves why.
+ t- w9 v* k! M总是可以问问自己为什么。- d. _* L" v+ t. T
Why did I start to learn a language?
" e. f2 L0 N/ ?4 C# }! [) ~) M为什么我开始学习一种语言？7 w& p" A) g8 e
Why did I join this club?
/ }3 t9 u) j* K8 w. y0 ` C为什么我加入这个俱乐部？# }: Z' a; p2 d9 ?
Why my friend was this person?- ]/ o* _2 _3 O& j
为什么我的朋友是这个人？
+ Q3 ~5 e( ^9 | G$ kWhy did I get married?
4 X3 }5 E7 m- D1 n' r; K0 t为什么我要结婚？( j I3 g" S! m: ]
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.( p/ A4 G9 i% t# ~7 p4 b5 O3 B3 Z
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。
! t* q5 J; G2 S( J# H" k* {0 e9 M$ R5 }I think we need indeed remind us of why.* G8 T% R4 ~4 `' m* W4 Q
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。' h. T6 k( ?3 O7 Q" ~/ V
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
^8 H6 W9 X4 y3 P0 t C& ]* \否则很难完成我们所开始的。/ s. n/ @! i' N) f1 [
We stop starting. We quit the club.
+ C3 Z% ~# I" [5 q7 \# U我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。: A# _2 _9 B' {2 k
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
( {% s) U6 G, F; |我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
( W7 k2 y9 A3 Q, ZThere's nothing wrong with asking why.: E4 {, l' z4 Z: I
问为什么没什么问题。
% k' b: s, f3 s3 fIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
: k B- c, w5 b6 ], S2 _2 J+ C事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。7 U* g. h2 a% w$ A' k3 {) m' h7 ]
Talk about it.
% \- u6 B6 l* ]$ Y: d谈论下面的话题：( i1 I) X. C: F. I% G
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?+ ?0 b% e6 Q! U9 S. `# {0 @8 g% B; b$ S
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？
" l* A% ]4 V1 R* NIs it a kind of distant memory?
9 C' i( D" z0 Q$ r! ]它是一种遥远的记忆？/ h3 i o: b9 C; n, K+ ]
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...9 T! c' |! Y0 C8 A
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
7 r- t* L0 r/ r2 n1 P: ^. Y9 }How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
0 {/ z1 K* @. ?, j4 G7 ^& B你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？3 z6 k7 |- d' V# G' `$ B( |2 }
Do you write memos?% ?& W2 B) B" Y
你写备忘录吗？
6 D7 v, Z) g% I1 m" A- zDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?) w# a. N5 r" Y: a% I' b
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？4 T5 B7 v. }. c& O
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?, r' s9 t% {$ y% _" f- U
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？
1 M) J- ~. U7 Q hWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?1 U, b0 I& q- y6 G( q+ |4 Q' x, V. R6 @5 Q
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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