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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事
4 U" U) w% S" `# _Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
6 x1 R* ~- v2 [8 X$ u有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。* V y: V' [. @0 W5 u6 z, S. |9 _
Have you ever done that? a6 u4 c( C5 i
你曾有过这种经历吗?
: ?. ]$ c, m! a. k( A+ vI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
2 _) ]3 n- d. i) F1 T我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。7 l7 p& g0 \+ b9 {: Y
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.
& G& Z9 j" {; r$ Z2 H9 [我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。
; ?0 T0 a8 \* H5 W+ |And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.0 Q; H5 P; e" g6 W- G
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
- P0 h+ F( y t/ t' Z- j5 cWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.4 g' m0 c# E) X+ |5 h r: G0 ^
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。8 X: c2 H9 b0 a! e$ B
That's a memory problem.
0 ]1 G$ i; l1 E: m8 }9 w这是一个记忆问题。
/ X9 z7 ~6 g# R, ?( P/ tI guess that counts too.
, [$ N8 o b5 b+ b: c我想那很重要。+ D1 q6 k' E5 \5 r( F' t/ U$ [
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?: S8 P& t; R" g
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?, N. k) S7 d6 ^) [* ~4 E. \
At one point, there was a reason we do something.7 F' Y* _6 w' _* v! D
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。1 y( Y# G4 t. s9 u1 p4 }9 b8 N2 ]
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
0 ^8 _. _' a m对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。/ y9 s$ b [! K7 Y/ W
It's always could to ask ourselves why.
; G) F( y; V/ C( M& s. ]+ p% @总是可以问问自己为什么。
% z& \3 z8 Q& T9 m: [% EWhy did I start to learn a language?
- g. u" S% [8 A" f: v8 _: w2 V W为什么我开始学习一种语言?
, k! ]) ~' v" }2 u& u) R DWhy did I join this club?5 b3 s1 N/ L8 t; c8 |8 R
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?
. p+ E( g3 P$ ` rWhy my friend was this person?
. Q% e9 ?8 i- \# B& v为什么我的朋友是这个人?$ u) O8 { d a+ }, s! P4 K
Why did I get married?
Q* j0 l4 ?7 b" n' N+ r/ f' a为什么我要结婚?
4 s/ P8 U* w3 |( ^" g- w" `, ~If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
( N% g! H# s4 d4 C: m' L如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。/ M3 p0 F+ M. e( Q- J+ x4 W
I think we need indeed remind us of why.
4 W: l! c" b6 I: c, ~) W; |( K我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
) E1 ~; n% o. r! K! Q$ o: E# ?Or else it's tough to finish what we started.( _; z% n9 Z: y/ r4 k7 [
否则很难完成我们所开始的。- z. Y# w8 N+ {" F
We stop starting. We quit the club.
* a4 X- M) ~: t6 t" m我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。0 E0 Y' Q& j% V
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
$ p/ o9 l7 Z Y y% Y我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。) I( J* f* h7 s$ o$ P! @) w! j
There's nothing wrong with asking why.1 @1 }; r6 t7 y+ I5 [" y
问为什么没什么问题。
8 Q6 ], B; G6 A% Y+ N* W/ zIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.* p% P# v8 t% k/ e3 Z s4 P6 r2 R4 h
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。5 O6 {5 v$ m6 l5 r/ s6 R& m
Talk about it.; W- M% j# g2 z& k9 `
谈论下面的话题:
8 e5 H4 i3 ?7 YIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
4 @$ s6 j# J, J; \2 w& a你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?8 s2 Z7 \ r" J$ F z% t
Is it a kind of distant memory?- F* x+ ?9 _( r5 r4 S) A
它是一种遥远的记忆?' K: ?: N4 p3 s- x! X
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
" K6 Y" v3 q! p& D- m你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……2 ?' @1 H: H( U9 c* l% o- ]
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
6 P3 Y+ K0 C9 {' |# @你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?7 s, {' X, V3 ~' h, B
Do you write memos?. c& t# R* E7 A2 f5 ?7 x {0 o
你写备忘录吗?8 z& v) w9 n& X* ^
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? }4 W( y+ P5 {3 g0 \
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?1 \+ u! u$ B# k$ E
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
$ z @. a( c) \还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
" @6 h: N6 G9 B1 P/ UWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
8 ~/ G0 h' C" _5 [你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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