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Remembering why we are doing something) M3 D5 h' {1 {2 K& E$ X. [0 d- e, Z
' {4 {( a3 s0 x8 f$ i0 ?: L% R- i6 q记住我们为什么做某事; {* O+ R1 j5 b- A E3 z
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.) I' l$ u. {# w3 H3 H; H# X
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。" ]5 G$ {* M4 L* _+ p7 m9 w
Have you ever done that?! N4 c' ], K3 R d+ I n
你曾有过这种经历吗?
A$ G4 G$ a3 a- o, kI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.$ E" f' Q z. j, L8 X* W' I2 z
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
* q# K# t" g) I) w/ ~I have called someone because I want to tell them something.. ]0 @( a1 A7 \9 u+ L( j
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。4 x1 p" j- _: S8 c' d3 _
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.+ q: {# ~ p1 K" e2 B
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
- P4 w, M) b! {, qWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
2 G1 w& j/ v. W* U7 z哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
+ H" d, r* A& x3 w5 r% ]- o nThat's a memory problem.
+ n3 T- V( A* W8 e2 ]& h5 U5 T+ R这是一个记忆问题。
0 {& ]; n% a0 i& d! rI guess that counts too.
; C' j5 s N n0 P我想那很重要。/ R* n( b; r2 _5 R* n' K" z ~
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
4 y4 T7 r d) c( x/ z1 z但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?
$ }) x Y" k% T' }. a% h' x4 SAt one point, there was a reason we do something.! R, n5 Y/ t# y4 \1 b
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。2 W5 B; g! P% r4 v0 C# I8 q
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
. Z8 N9 ?/ s" J4 ]对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。4 D' W* e+ h) y2 j% r4 T
It's always could to ask ourselves why.
# R* k: |( ?- ^; z总是可以问问自己为什么。; G0 Q/ K! ~: S" S8 C: X
Why did I start to learn a language?
" v h8 X8 C# o8 ?( E为什么我开始学习一种语言?9 z9 x" S! R8 g0 n- O; f& z. j: s
Why did I join this club?
5 i2 t0 [5 A5 U* z为什么我加入这个俱乐部?2 T" ?6 n/ x; R6 M# k, C
Why my friend was this person?
* e) C( {$ l; |为什么我的朋友是这个人? E! B0 ]+ r3 |# {1 |7 B
Why did I get married?* C$ [% C) H5 a z9 A9 Q3 r2 G
为什么我要结婚?5 g/ I6 h# ?3 R$ k$ s
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
; E+ Q$ [0 a o* e) M c; }7 n如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。1 D4 n* u/ P+ `: O
I think we need indeed remind us of why.. S7 ]0 S& v# O* |0 C
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
* R( l7 R( ~- P1 y6 n7 LOr else it's tough to finish what we started.
; d( E- {8 L, A! @否则很难完成我们所开始的。
\& }- P/ P- H' H; V5 Y/ Q4 ?We stop starting. We quit the club.2 j: J4 z5 }2 S
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
, \- z; I x M2 Q a7 N, O- U; K. UWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.* J9 G. }8 s. \2 T! l2 Y! e
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
% J& m, |2 B& R7 H' Q; ~, b% U! hThere's nothing wrong with asking why.7 _$ t, r& w0 u i; b2 m
问为什么没什么问题。6 D9 v% l* d; o9 n
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.: N/ n- ~0 u, h' _$ O
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。. k0 d9 b8 |7 l
Talk about it.
1 k8 T9 ^ p9 D! Q4 y谈论下面的话题:
9 Z9 J( S6 s; d& WIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?2 n# A" N% W4 w/ b; \3 _
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?' ]# L7 V$ t1 u8 E9 I$ z4 ^: p( `
Is it a kind of distant memory?2 E7 I y, C$ F# _' s& e
它是一种遥远的记忆?
$ Y, T# A; Q% ?8 J: B8 c+ X+ LDid you ever forget why you are doing something.../ w, a* l" A1 m: o
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……/ ~9 Y2 `8 `7 u0 U8 X4 L
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?6 f- @" a' F* i6 a
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?1 s" T, P l8 |& }! ~. b0 d! F& r( E
Do you write memos?
# q: [' O; |2 _5 q. m5 [你写备忘录吗?
/ m9 C. r9 W1 S9 m$ ODoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
& i; K$ v$ C% a! p( `: F0 P2 |你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?8 l2 T& i8 I4 B J" f) N) P
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?+ x4 S) L- W& _; Z" }. L+ x8 t
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
3 ~% P' q4 O9 r! A, a: o( VWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
1 F5 ~$ Z+ o8 h+ R) q7 R6 F1 @你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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