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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事
2 [" r2 z8 w9 N( e) c" r: }Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing., f' T7 w3 f: b! l" Y% F4 q; i
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。
# Y+ {7 r# p* D2 j/ B; N$ KHave you ever done that?) w- Z8 N2 D" ^" ?: D
你曾有过这种经历吗？: ]5 y2 S5 I* a+ X
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
Q" `; Q3 j8 z1 |: N4 @& j2 Q1 `我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。
" j8 x1 k* C5 H4 xI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
9 V( w2 O2 o. N% }4 Z$ t我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。& d% f: q( X# D/ |/ q4 b5 Y8 g" i
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
( Y# |& ?$ W" @5 [然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。$ f- M, d- R0 }2 I3 k/ H O) {
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
: f! p0 ?2 Q* I8 Q+ e% x9 I哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
: k( M1 T$ L* ^That's a memory problem.
1 c# t" b: [5 w0 @; ~3 ?这是一个记忆问题。7 ?$ z6 i* r' d# G( v2 a6 h$ R
I guess that counts too.
* B* G0 e& ]! w; F' Y5 T6 m0 l+ f我想那很重要。' Y/ B# `7 _( [; u2 W
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?& k! x) I( N# M" u$ n
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？
& l5 E( x$ s* ?8 Y9 q+ S1 IAt one point, there was a reason we do something.
) h3 {% A$ m' C* Q在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。/ x8 Y. W4 t1 p9 ^1 S/ Z: B
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.$ u5 ?* K' K H
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。
$ u0 y' V/ Q' y2 h, l# f& X$ _It's always could to ask ourselves why.
$ s7 q# S( s" A2 x6 n总是可以问问自己为什么。: i9 o4 ^7 B8 f' ?
Why did I start to learn a language?6 O' _# U. o" `
为什么我开始学习一种语言？" m9 V: i* H; c2 K+ d" p" I
Why did I join this club?
" S8 ^/ a+ v& C, N. S' V为什么我加入这个俱乐部？
) b! k" a" K2 m" i$ {2 U& VWhy my friend was this person?
- t. Y8 F% a6 p2 S$ X# u) K为什么我的朋友是这个人？) z/ _ j4 ]9 h
Why did I get married?! U6 a S: j) C1 w5 ]
为什么我要结婚？0 w N) A: K9 m% S. v# U
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
" S+ [( T3 @3 \: a/ S/ Z如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。
( [: w" g' s- ~/ b* b; DI think we need indeed remind us of why.
3 h/ ?' M3 @0 i$ d" V我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
% v; }0 Y w/ ?1 x$ ZOr else it's tough to finish what we started.; y# l* m" ~& O' M
否则很难完成我们所开始的。; e; i4 h& s/ i) J F
We stop starting. We quit the club.
5 i( h% `9 [" M! T" `我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
+ f5 y8 z/ l$ j. C" K, ^( Z/ p& NWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
0 z( ?6 C- u, p; D! o: Y& e我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。0 p( Q0 o w0 x- g& P9 [
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
/ l, Q) @8 b: h% P问为什么没什么问题。# L/ j) x* J; f# ?. o8 a# E
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
% x& F# p7 V ~/ f* d事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。% ^* H, O, R, f) a. d: c% v" O3 I
Talk about it.5 ~0 h M- x# ^
谈论下面的话题：
s# t, G) l( o2 R; lIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
* U; Q9 }7 T7 ?你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？. q& I# v1 Z3 E) y+ s$ v
Is it a kind of distant memory?
% F) o8 i# C! `8 ]/ k它是一种遥远的记忆？! O4 m: w5 U: U% N
Did you ever forget why you are doing something..., s% {) w; u# p+ {5 |- f
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
U* G2 r& F' l8 QHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?3 d1 t( A( A1 r/ r! `" e
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？# v) x( x% G- k) O
Do you write memos?& Y/ o$ u4 M& \) Y0 g5 c* H' J! U
你写备忘录吗？ |8 c0 w+ o% B% E
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?8 h/ @. T9 z$ o6 ~, _
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？
' w+ T1 d( b+ ~5 l4 PWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
( z. ?3 c6 U0 U& ^还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？
/ K- ]3 h0 z5 }: X! f* bWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?, P3 v( N6 Y5 f- Y+ a- D4 s
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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