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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事
% Q$ @ u. D" [- S6 hSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing., _2 @ z* v3 y8 b( K2 _
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。! l% p# y; d8 k. ~3 J; q# y2 n
Have you ever done that?8 k9 ^0 I8 J/ j9 V
你曾有过这种经历吗?$ h* m( G% n4 S- }
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.4 ] s! ^( \, }& z4 H; c
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。8 q- ^% e7 v" S! Q3 t6 H) v7 y6 d
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.
! S4 P% @ I/ K5 i我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。3 [( }- Y& K4 A5 N2 j) S* p
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
# ~9 M* N I2 q1 e然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
- v' I8 ]8 }' c `- _3 gWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
6 p% }$ }; D. K7 O! J7 }( U哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
' D+ L' z3 N3 `' D0 ?That's a memory problem.6 k0 U* J2 M* `# a! {
这是一个记忆问题。. x7 ^* X9 S8 x( M1 b7 a
I guess that counts too.- @9 I. s/ H+ i- N# M
我想那很重要。% J) Z* i1 E$ I/ E3 q2 a* o
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?. `/ _- B' A( \: c- ?
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?
* U& o. n2 G2 `5 d9 QAt one point, there was a reason we do something.) M# K# A( B. G$ d2 s
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。; Z4 l6 ?+ N+ h x6 k8 {9 j
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.1 \; R. s2 w; J9 {# u ~
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。2 S" I& e x. Q( Z+ I: O
It's always could to ask ourselves why.
- x: N: I7 \3 v' n% v% m8 P总是可以问问自己为什么。0 f" L5 q' I; g9 ^
Why did I start to learn a language?
* E& _- Y+ z, ^9 l: f" V为什么我开始学习一种语言?4 @+ ^. a1 ?/ z' @
Why did I join this club?
( }0 q9 r, Y p- ]4 x3 B7 _7 B" k9 b" ]为什么我加入这个俱乐部? e/ L4 c3 P- e. S7 j
Why my friend was this person?+ p, U2 H6 k3 M/ D: ~
为什么我的朋友是这个人?% |2 n! ^2 D% U+ h* I
Why did I get married?2 j$ x! Y8 |1 c5 K$ m6 i: |
为什么我要结婚?! b1 \% z1 \, p- C/ c) }5 T9 _+ I" f
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.& x) P7 ^$ n! W. q
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
1 Q6 n3 e& T8 P' `1 yI think we need indeed remind us of why.
, ]. n' e! t' j5 Q( F" F1 a& W( k我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。6 S8 z# h# V) W0 R2 ^# F6 D1 g" ?
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
/ z7 m: B) ^$ W7 c2 k否则很难完成我们所开始的。9 [ [$ C0 x. G! w
We stop starting. We quit the club.: b0 ?+ W% P6 n+ I6 t
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
. z" H, w5 _) h+ ?2 I) h: `5 }We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.1 M# \4 ~* o& Q4 _4 Y' w% D* b
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
2 X4 y7 I( m; f9 dThere's nothing wrong with asking why.
N& X6 }7 U) O O问为什么没什么问题。
$ H5 v3 ?- I G" ]! W+ sIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
: n$ f% e6 | _% S% D/ ~" \事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
- o$ v0 _! x1 M4 L2 k) _Talk about it.: ~ S# B& ?5 ]. p. x
谈论下面的话题:
2 m5 X$ H! t7 Q5 wIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?' e( N, `: N2 u
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
( T% B/ e' y; |5 [1 tIs it a kind of distant memory?7 ^) }5 {! m$ \
它是一种遥远的记忆?
4 _- i5 R/ s/ n) JDid you ever forget why you are doing something...+ C, ^, a' f I5 t3 x$ B
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事…… n* K- M7 Z( A: ]1 ?
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?! l; x' N# A; T6 ?5 `8 Q, \
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?
+ K+ c' e2 \4 s& a! N( _Do you write memos?% A. E/ w+ R2 J" j" P; K8 ~
你写备忘录吗?: [( N$ x# T: _ w, b2 j! L
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
6 O, m- ?: `2 W. I2 l你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
. T4 S5 v" L" }5 M4 U t2 AWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?& G1 J4 n" D1 x4 d0 G6 x
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
7 w' k3 ?( L6 j* N% Y: r" DWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
) ^, d9 `7 W6 N% w9 a- D7 c你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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