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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事' A+ X; G; j+ V
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.: U( G. l o" K6 [
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。
# b* D+ U/ N5 s* ~( E9 N) h) eHave you ever done that?
8 o5 Y5 U; Y G! s( A% e' v l+ v+ @你曾有过这种经历吗？6 B& d% j; y) @1 U
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
) U. t( r& u% f' W我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。: Z6 m4 v4 s% Q9 A7 N6 [- ^7 A" [$ P
I have called someone because I want to tell them something./ p- H% c; J/ Q5 ]: Z9 d
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。' ?& F" n3 I' W" ~1 q+ W+ H- {
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.! L" R( q" i& x( O. Z7 d& I
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。' S5 T5 @% j, j
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.3 I/ O7 O8 C& b4 v2 L" i( ]! M& V
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。( P8 c3 M! F5 a' }* i* M. N5 d' j
That's a memory problem.
. c7 J/ L% b; `5 y+ [( m这是一个记忆问题。
" M* Q; B; Y( l- g- ZI guess that counts too.! P; ]9 ^) A0 h2 Z0 c- M& C( M9 D
我想那很重要。& Q6 D, O% ~# w
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
: s$ m2 h3 `, y# K, i; G) r& N* v$ d但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？4 f6 I/ ]! Y; j, N4 ?9 o
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
- A6 d: ~2 _% t在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。
) w! O/ U6 ~# P6 bFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.7 q3 \% x8 ]( y+ o
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。
4 h# u9 _+ \- I: @% K; UIt's always could to ask ourselves why.8 \: V! G2 v, `, V& P
总是可以问问自己为什么。
( a/ D+ q( D& v& NWhy did I start to learn a language?
( n3 ]" l( a+ x# k* A5 N为什么我开始学习一种语言？
8 }3 X/ u# D% S& M! P, L$ HWhy did I join this club?8 I: p6 n3 g: u6 Z9 T$ U# w5 @
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？& p! b2 y3 B/ ?, @8 i1 F
Why my friend was this person?
6 p6 b' m! }8 {6 i3 y5 u. N; [' N为什么我的朋友是这个人？- J6 _; m' [+ k
Why did I get married?
" S7 N# i' a+ T4 y3 F8 R q+ f1 u( E为什么我要结婚？
' m+ P; Y% r, R& PIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why./ I! X1 C0 O1 ]& G
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。
) K5 j h" z0 A& aI think we need indeed remind us of why.. R( v3 [$ l/ n: W, @
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。0 S5 P, z2 y) v4 u6 u! U. q
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.# d. B* r) F9 d% r5 q
否则很难完成我们所开始的。' G* Z# K, K8 Z$ M3 V
We stop starting. We quit the club.1 s- ^3 t# i& N" v8 u( J- k4 m
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。/ a9 H( G! t+ `6 s2 E
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. A1 P) r9 y0 ] t, a
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
" s& h: u6 H5 z) LThere's nothing wrong with asking why.
|$ F8 b. I, r9 W3 p& S# ~ U: J8 Y问为什么没什么问题。5 [) t, y2 ~+ d3 B* w: q+ Q
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
- T3 A; z0 z+ m事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。: p( q* C3 D" R! y
Talk about it.
3 p Y0 G2 A% I ~谈论下面的话题：: b* S, r) R6 Y
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? M% U+ K3 ~, v, E, X
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？
; M. K1 \* X: sIs it a kind of distant memory?
: ~2 F. R, u" q1 C! ~& Z它是一种遥远的记忆？! \5 A+ E% Z; @0 ?! m5 k* w
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
& I) ^9 g* P! C; }( @你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
0 h) A8 ?8 D i. a+ X4 nHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?) s) l4 o" f0 C9 q( |6 S- r
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？
3 W& U% I/ [5 g6 \; d) M+ W6 {Do you write memos?/ [. A; b5 s: E2 J. N
你写备忘录吗？
( T: D' H4 a0 z* R( `: EDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
" ?4 X* A" N e/ J- E+ H1 o2 C你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？
6 F" E$ d9 Q# M8 l8 s2 A1 JWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?8 t( Q( M K& y' I4 @% L
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？* v+ i5 j4 _4 y4 u
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?& t6 T d' Q8 o h! S8 p$ \) Y
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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