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Remembering why we are doing something! b. v1 I- {" L& d( b# x
' H% s4 D( T( Y9 V! O记住我们为什么做某事0 A( ?( w1 f. Y: Y, ]7 {" H7 e% G, A
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.$ n3 K0 e8 i- a
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。' x1 w; {* X; Z1 j
Have you ever done that?
$ d3 V% l2 R" S你曾有过这种经历吗？
6 B+ z/ m) s2 R3 F- X% ~7 b" Z3 tI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
- Z5 }' Z, i; e7 g- \- D我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。. P, z2 D9 Y- s: y
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.( }; i2 Y8 x: R4 W r# H
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。
9 M) I, Q% h7 ^( V: EAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.3 k6 S; h* O. G0 K% l
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
5 d2 [" x0 S$ j' M$ q+ H KWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.8 n/ T$ G) \" G7 W: D9 e; j# J7 o9 D
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。" o; l% \# ?/ f/ I' r, P" t: E
That's a memory problem.( o9 K% ^ D! \( z8 v4 L* }
这是一个记忆问题。
7 F) `5 b6 O3 a( [+ bI guess that counts too.3 x. Z( W: m# @- ~+ ^! u
我想那很重要。7 U1 C* o6 ^8 P) T( s
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
0 h- T& ^$ w9 w, \: R但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？8 ?8 x( }' n" S& O- Q
At one point, there was a reason we do something.8 G. a) P% C( K" a* R7 O) ]: e
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。0 L' k$ N7 X5 E5 g/ i
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
% D8 [& I I' k% Q" N; K对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。
# l3 g' E' P i6 V" ]0 O. g% E& pIt's always could to ask ourselves why.* T) e5 g) m7 E$ {" k9 r
总是可以问问自己为什么。
1 J0 L1 R" K& D7 Y# g, w P: jWhy did I start to learn a language?
( k. }0 e" O* ~- d% x/ u' e为什么我开始学习一种语言？2 Q( ]6 B; d5 F7 m' Q5 U
Why did I join this club?
2 K5 Z E: U: L0 s4 e# [8 ^为什么我加入这个俱乐部？
9 t2 ?' K2 x8 f. |, zWhy my friend was this person?$ m; N! R/ P, ?" y& N$ f
为什么我的朋友是这个人？
5 K% h# e a" A8 V5 }( f6 nWhy did I get married?
! ~) W+ V; G& c. c% b为什么我要结婚？, x& n$ u* d4 x8 X
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.' n7 v+ }, q9 b8 w
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。9 C3 r% l7 o, _% h0 ]; X' a
I think we need indeed remind us of why." c. A- a7 `) s8 O9 z8 O0 S
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。. x1 W% |1 n4 M l: f' ?
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
+ T* O/ x. B5 n( N$ V! l4 k5 J% e9 q否则很难完成我们所开始的。. L0 N0 w4 L% b' H+ ^- h* v
We stop starting. We quit the club.6 Z; j7 }8 {/ D* g5 E( b
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。6 M8 Q( m7 ]0 t0 X4 X
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
0 Y5 A# _' j; }2 f" ?: ?我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。' Z5 L3 E; W# ~3 }" S
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
% a6 S- k4 w1 E; \4 [+ L% l. C! y问为什么没什么问题。, p& k5 q7 S$ L+ i7 R9 M3 u2 ~
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
* a2 t9 ]9 e% u事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。& G; V: ^5 |4 N" N7 `
Talk about it.
5 J; t2 A9 Y$ d谈论下面的话题：
) g* k* {# n$ a+ ^& d* p3 yIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
" b/ n8 u; i6 L) _) p; J+ r& N你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？4 _! v. _% ~) w* o# e* \
Is it a kind of distant memory?
6 p& L. J& t6 n9 `( B它是一种遥远的记忆？% ?! h6 T( Q3 L0 U/ o
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
; }" j! t, K) w9 L# B7 i: h你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……6 z( Z! K! P9 @+ u/ v4 X
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
6 I( v) W- S# C T你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？
. X1 _/ U( i4 t( J" _+ \3 _Do you write memos?* U3 Q& o3 W; X$ Z) Y
你写备忘录吗？
5 Z0 i+ V9 P3 o" XDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?! B/ W% j8 W% c
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？
& ]) R" N3 v& }. N {( bWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?" S" B K5 J" j
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？
/ e3 H8 R* I Z- D& A0 MWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
2 S8 n! l0 }: Z! R4 f1 q) K你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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