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Remembering why we are doing something
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5 k" c1 i$ Q2 d7 d6 U3 A' c* o记住我们为什么做某事 X- X! c" n6 f' L3 U7 x5 n# e' O
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.8 I9 Y: Q) g% n7 t
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。7 s! c, l6 n1 w+ z4 V z2 |
Have you ever done that?5 H6 V% e# Y0 t0 H. D
你曾有过这种经历吗？+ U0 }. S, b: ?4 d' M' o$ O
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.! O$ u/ y6 D3 h- l( L
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。
4 [3 n; ]1 J: n7 z- C4 TI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
8 [% _' K4 B8 |; k; L- H, G' Z我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。- E8 G( Z# M: E$ z, p3 J6 {
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.$ i! ^* C* }1 i! L8 d' }' f: x
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
; @: K4 c6 Y* u6 T$ Z/ d$ cWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.& P; A# g: Z3 k: r8 I
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
, V; } H, h! j: {0 h$ EThat's a memory problem.* \0 F: R) w2 P- S
这是一个记忆问题。
! `6 F9 z8 e4 zI guess that counts too.
3 `" F6 K x+ M7 g3 C. L我想那很重要。' L- P( X% k6 {2 |, g2 V
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
$ c# o& B# V: t但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？# d& o3 P) J+ `. T) \! g
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
# n& c% R A" c2 z$ k) S+ d! j在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。' Y+ P7 V3 H# L6 i# G0 }
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
4 w1 o7 d) I+ _. z: C对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。
! _- ^7 T6 p, s+ c& `7 mIt's always could to ask ourselves why.
8 I' r/ l2 S2 W* V总是可以问问自己为什么。; ?$ A s A0 K" A& _
Why did I start to learn a language?
* k6 x( |( b' G; @$ `! a3 D为什么我开始学习一种语言？
, v. S* q6 o7 v: _& `Why did I join this club?; P% B7 i6 D& _- @8 _& l
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？% ]1 W* B" b6 V& j' w. Y' I1 r
Why my friend was this person?! S( a: A- L# ]$ Z7 \- K
为什么我的朋友是这个人？
/ C& ]- I5 f+ q5 N5 ?/ EWhy did I get married?
& U9 S9 M; K" Z, q/ E/ O9 r为什么我要结婚？4 e# g# h# U% Z! d5 Y2 K( D3 W" |
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.4 ~4 j" o' E! W2 |5 H
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。
; z* s/ r9 N' R2 nI think we need indeed remind us of why.7 @. k" h: `6 {4 D+ x2 B/ i
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。8 z e. n9 h4 j' ?0 m7 E
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
& d; b% v4 T2 S否则很难完成我们所开始的。* j( ?. z7 K& J
We stop starting. We quit the club.3 G, B! }4 R7 a
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。6 t# |+ o' ?/ A% }+ E/ P
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
6 G5 }. s4 Z" s8 Z4 {我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。; j. Q9 a: ~- u6 `
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
5 W* W: T& {8 g+ G* z问为什么没什么问题。) j( J8 }$ b7 H8 f5 {* E9 k) V: G
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
3 O: }3 ?3 c: b( |& m" z事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。, [5 G5 C7 ?. `) n& X
Talk about it.
" `% ^7 R) G* Q" b* l' s) L谈论下面的话题：
1 f- G$ h. ^% U! A# |. RIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
+ `. d0 G; N! X& ?你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？: w9 j( s+ O2 A5 G$ b
Is it a kind of distant memory?
0 P# J) X" I3 e+ X4 G4 [' k! v9 I它是一种遥远的记忆？
/ b9 K$ ~& M! W7 d' R9 Z! X7 ^* ADid you ever forget why you are doing something...
2 l/ p0 r% Y/ ^! S; D _* `# ^你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……" ] A9 Z5 H0 y
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
6 D2 s* Y9 L: b6 A你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？
0 z% e$ r7 K7 k3 kDo you write memos?( e, W4 l3 _$ P9 [9 s" B
你写备忘录吗？7 s; n8 G( K( s" g9 s8 x7 E8 _
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?# X$ m3 w# J+ A- `# q& E8 D% v
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？
2 J. Y, ?1 e$ z2 @' ]' EWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
4 l0 N8 }+ Y' W: ^# Z% Z还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？
E$ f9 A% D- MWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?1 G2 H; k: k7 U+ b* i0 x
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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