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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事 O0 C% C5 Z) I& d( }; \
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.7 H3 ]# g( E. C5 z" k9 z
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。
9 D4 q% V; ^, s4 O- z E& ~Have you ever done that?; I% k1 n4 C! j+ x5 d/ B( |
你曾有过这种经历吗?
! t# h( i+ G3 o8 T8 U% i& ~, _6 P8 `I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
: V/ q& e7 @# W- L我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
1 V* _ `: c+ Z7 I/ k* D0 q KI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
6 G3 k$ S1 k( P! D/ ?" u$ [我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。( P- ?7 |" Q* o* s- |+ r/ s+ i4 q, J' n
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
7 X4 r |: X0 Z) [" ]然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
6 ?5 H0 f$ f" A5 _4 C6 p- l# aWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.6 o( {8 \+ d% m* [9 j
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。' l( w7 g% z5 P3 a
That's a memory problem.
# m* w, R& Q; |. e0 A9 l% V& Q' o这是一个记忆问题。
" a9 b' T; L0 y- w" JI guess that counts too.2 l. E: Q' M4 \# }
我想那很重要。) v( a# q7 P' r" e& u
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
( t# b0 z' V7 @% D+ S$ Z但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?, X8 S- K$ I+ M3 u3 {) E
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
# L2 V" i+ N# e( A& L1 o8 p在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。
0 o0 ?+ z0 a! B5 v$ vFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
' ?/ q& G5 L" R8 @& ~% e) `2 x对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
5 V, q! v0 D" C" T$ e7 b/ D! aIt's always could to ask ourselves why.
9 r! k0 b) a3 m% [# q; B6 F总是可以问问自己为什么。/ S! P- ]* H: {. A* M. E" w; A
Why did I start to learn a language?
$ n+ j3 u) h9 I' _为什么我开始学习一种语言?2 J% e3 w9 k) z% r
Why did I join this club?& U9 d; I6 |0 C9 m
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?
1 Z4 v2 n8 |8 cWhy my friend was this person?
9 G8 r1 t7 F9 {; R, v1 j2 t为什么我的朋友是这个人?
7 l7 n5 {0 H5 M: D5 T8 W% LWhy did I get married?
& b# r8 {& c6 ?; b为什么我要结婚?
, w1 m8 @4 s% p, p/ ]+ rIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
9 Z7 c2 D6 n& y3 n- h& _2 F如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
& z- ?) ?( \* TI think we need indeed remind us of why., V- {) v" Y. j: L0 k. Z0 r! O. x
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
6 K0 d- `6 c: EOr else it's tough to finish what we started.
6 a( P7 `. S) E0 x否则很难完成我们所开始的。8 Z5 Q& }- e6 g. @4 H
We stop starting. We quit the club.9 |8 a" i9 V/ A2 [% X- \3 \9 }
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
6 S' Z2 Z& ], P: xWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.3 z$ K0 S- y$ o
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。 j7 l8 s/ M$ i. V! H
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
{1 y) t. ?4 m问为什么没什么问题。
, @$ s% e5 X; G7 mIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.* y9 s& E, R/ W8 b u. ^! G
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。* n2 e1 T( \$ g5 F5 [, u8 G
Talk about it.
, P) I& d5 K4 c& D5 p+ {/ ~谈论下面的话题:
& u% r2 ?( i7 K+ P, ]Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?( `# B5 {6 c& D2 u
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
- D ^# ^# _' O; r" `& p; `4 rIs it a kind of distant memory?4 d( ?$ W4 }0 a' A! [2 H2 w- \
它是一种遥远的记忆?
' _' w! X g4 F. A* T; gDid you ever forget why you are doing something...
7 q7 B7 f j* f. M你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……$ x- ^6 w* Z+ `+ R6 }1 D* w) q) U
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?4 y' u8 ?4 _1 ^$ D
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?+ \! x O: z8 _
Do you write memos? s7 U& S% U* e3 S# x5 p
你写备忘录吗?5 h0 Y% A* Y0 U9 m' G
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?( a# \ T3 p6 j0 r9 @/ \" v& x
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
7 [; W7 d" B4 e6 XWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
6 K* P1 v% }& f L还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?+ h1 [2 ~; {4 _' E' j9 T9 x
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
( P" A/ }2 L$ l c# a7 h你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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