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Remembering why we are doing something
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3 v) X8 A6 P4 _# k. W: C4 k+ S记住我们为什么做某事2 w, Z+ M0 k, Z' C+ s! c1 Y
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.7 r. b% z6 V3 O8 O3 {/ q( K$ Z
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。
' m' A5 _! |, _, mHave you ever done that?
! Y/ `4 w* \9 ?. [你曾有过这种经历吗？
T- M. l+ l; }% i- \/ B8 DI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.6 u3 w9 _* W4 M2 E
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。* e* ^" R- f" X1 Y# d
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.' ~& L6 K m# i+ G% r
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。% V3 _8 Y5 ^7 {2 c6 Q! q0 T& o
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
* I! A' N% v4 g. I4 t$ Y( k) L2 E然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。# S' D" w0 b" w# R
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
2 ?9 G* j! B6 p( E8 \+ O哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。+ M, g* g W: n( h) W
That's a memory problem.
% y5 \, }/ d9 |4 l" M这是一个记忆问题。8 g- _1 x+ R. s
I guess that counts too.5 f6 _1 }5 w# r) B/ u
我想那很重要。
4 K# M" v' O: B8 _9 t7 nBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?# a" C6 a1 H# Y$ l
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？& F0 U1 s" l( w! S* ]/ O
At one point, there was a reason we do something. Z4 M3 r9 }8 B9 {5 d
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。
; c; {' g0 V+ qFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.0 P9 ?$ u1 L0 I' k, p* t8 }: b: u
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。! D1 b+ V. q" [) {1 h& }
It's always could to ask ourselves why.& J: I; q" U* a. \. T
总是可以问问自己为什么。2 a. ]6 M4 r. D
Why did I start to learn a language?
9 |$ V- r( c) W为什么我开始学习一种语言？+ T$ q( E5 z6 v& Q9 S6 G$ M9 g
Why did I join this club?
9 ]' b) }1 e) l" S. c为什么我加入这个俱乐部？) ~' Q% z" j! t" Q6 f( c" G
Why my friend was this person?
7 P) k9 o7 L# U4 B. H/ T, N- O为什么我的朋友是这个人？
; U/ Y& D4 m0 H% v( x$ B' @2 v1 _Why did I get married?0 ?5 D( q1 s; N' k
为什么我要结婚？
$ ^3 h _ Y4 ~) H$ {% a1 }If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
" Q1 w# o! X0 S& {. U/ ]5 W, z如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。0 D8 ?9 s* x8 ?$ Q! J
I think we need indeed remind us of why.* {$ [7 ?3 ^4 J1 ^4 ]( |' c
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。- ?+ U. x& ]6 @1 G) j. M) c
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.1 L& k) M9 N8 S, H1 b( m( z! N
否则很难完成我们所开始的。0 R& ]& p3 x# N v% U9 c# J* D4 {1 d
We stop starting. We quit the club.
; |8 L" K h& u$ r9 Q我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 h/ T& [6 Q, _) I" Y* n" }8 T
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
+ Z! B& n" O+ D* l! b我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。) l! b/ }0 X( I. U) p* ^
There's nothing wrong with asking why.% @/ o5 @% m0 }! B
问为什么没什么问题。
( T4 D: b% j7 r4 v& b7 _1 ^5 UIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
/ u' S. t2 |& }$ m事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。+ ^( j. |/ h8 [& A9 _& L
Talk about it.6 j, M" P& k, O8 D
谈论下面的话题：6 L* U1 K |3 {, S. }( \
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
. H) Y/ j; n9 K9 S5 H2 C9 v1 K你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？& Y" c1 k; |, r7 X: e
Is it a kind of distant memory?
( D# p* d3 x) b- {+ c. l它是一种遥远的记忆？
' X# ^9 [* w; Q8 wDid you ever forget why you are doing something...
F. {# \, n1 K, A你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……! c, g3 Q* ?0 Q
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?5 G& R6 Y- T9 u- a/ W4 b$ Z, m
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？
1 Q) x6 B+ X8 }, o3 ]' _5 d4 NDo you write memos?
. F$ j# R- x/ e- `5 u9 a: E你写备忘录吗？
% k8 X0 H6 l: e9 YDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?) Y2 V0 F# l N! |7 i. W' D
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？6 \. E6 d- W8 O
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
! W$ o3 t+ c9 {$ s还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？3 ?; m, i) \; R. p0 @* k4 O
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
0 w! ^) W% D% T1 {你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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