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Remembering why we are doing something
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! M! Q7 u0 W4 C& m7 \: U1 b" ~记住我们为什么做某事# c) d, m3 |+ S! r; o7 o$ Z& y
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
; p% C( v& Z0 c a9 ]; q有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。5 f0 h& a! b0 d6 l9 } W$ G
Have you ever done that?
8 ]; ]1 _5 f; ]$ i; F你曾有过这种经历吗？: i1 G2 U) i& @8 ?4 x V/ s# ]3 a
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
* I3 L8 e: @, q! Q: u6 u7 a4 m: J我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。
B# g& }) [0 r) A! S# UI have called someone because I want to tell them something.% ]7 r, x: V% V. ^" f3 W. A+ X
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。7 t" s8 T8 t2 w5 r6 R: h
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.. Y' A. q3 m7 \3 J# c
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
# E9 i0 Q% b8 S' L% W J: @9 |! S3 `Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.0 M6 R6 Y2 K" Z) ]7 c
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。9 c; F% C6 a5 t; O6 e: E
That's a memory problem.
. A8 l2 L8 N/ M2 E. Q这是一个记忆问题。( H1 ^3 d' V$ y8 z Y# T* s# I
I guess that counts too.
' ]$ O' H' c; j! t我想那很重要。5 N$ O! F* U+ M. E7 L. n" T
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?& _4 G) ~4 N0 u! n6 i
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？! I) `- r& V4 i9 i* X) @
At one point, there was a reason we do something. z3 N1 S6 V% y+ |0 Z* q1 S
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。
1 U, x& c8 G9 t5 L) B+ FFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.# j9 K3 S1 u7 i" b2 i4 Y
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。! K; q. B" z" h: E( |& S
It's always could to ask ourselves why.' P2 F( T1 i* I- n7 W! H
总是可以问问自己为什么。
" p' e% s4 x$ T8 cWhy did I start to learn a language? S+ W; V7 @' V' J
为什么我开始学习一种语言？+ A8 F4 [/ O$ a: T9 t
Why did I join this club?* f2 G- }& D; }
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？0 l" b9 I. S' i p: Z
Why my friend was this person?
# A5 w9 S& j V- t为什么我的朋友是这个人？
" d, y9 Q; |* ]3 VWhy did I get married?) s3 C& d; D, S- ` m% D X
为什么我要结婚？2 b; G% c: x% Q5 p
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.# \. b$ G: ~7 a# G3 }) z# O
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。
7 X. L \$ c4 j! X6 dI think we need indeed remind us of why.* G/ c$ H& y: K6 a. H# n
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
' N/ r' h; N# V1 V8 UOr else it's tough to finish what we started.1 r0 s5 ?$ m @1 E* [( l- k: G
否则很难完成我们所开始的。9 |* w$ n' A% p
We stop starting. We quit the club.
! `* Q/ w( o6 A' y6 R! [; p3 ~我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。, S8 s; z* S4 y9 k( h
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
! e6 b* Y8 b! b* R$ n; _ s我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。# L% t1 N0 [5 N, H$ }
There's nothing wrong with asking why.; I- V8 P3 r9 c% B, v, u1 Y6 ?
问为什么没什么问题。* s/ ?+ ^8 Z$ e8 d
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
4 |# S4 e% g6 s4 b: ~$ l; P! ~% G事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。+ [4 R/ ]) b! z$ h
Talk about it.4 e2 R- C2 R- i6 |
谈论下面的话题：
: D% P) r& h7 [. _2 rIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?8 P+ a: M J6 Q6 \, Y
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？" K# {5 u2 O7 W; j
Is it a kind of distant memory?: s+ L' [% Y7 @1 R9 r7 K; o
它是一种遥远的记忆？
7 R) U+ l5 p2 j7 R0 s8 qDid you ever forget why you are doing something...: {9 S G5 n1 H" g
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
8 [* X0 N# G( `$ R% c/ kHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?0 l2 `: w1 t: `9 w
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？
- w4 v+ F* u: K5 a) P& e0 zDo you write memos?
" A8 O: L$ M' l+ C- p; a8 s% D你写备忘录吗？
4 g1 K, v# l5 R4 z9 I5 s; q+ `2 QDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
% x0 o# y- @- ^. \你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？
- ]: N ~1 s0 ~' BWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?+ n; w% z' t; Q/ J
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？; H! _& G; b9 z u, a
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?% @. G- T3 v4 B; a; u) P- W5 M! K
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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