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Remembering why we are doing something
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" o7 I) K9 t& P% J; {( j记住我们为什么做某事7 K7 ~; h/ r r3 x4 x; U
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
+ i2 o- f/ c. V% s6 q. R; l有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。
! z( S5 j! R9 P! ?Have you ever done that?
$ \' X3 i0 z5 H0 ~- n& c, w. w你曾有过这种经历吗?
% m9 v% I7 T; Y$ \* J3 Q$ sI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
~2 X( [1 U& J/ B8 `# W" ^* h我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。: m* A! B8 H2 E+ Z9 U+ l, `
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.
/ _7 u( n! g5 X$ ^0 Y3 ~我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。- M8 n/ E. ~* k) |
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
/ Z0 D# E! M$ }( C% }然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
$ r- k: \+ d: V L& PWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.% h2 l. F6 l/ I8 S7 f/ E
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。1 X8 k) L. I! E1 F" D+ A
That's a memory problem.
& A4 d/ l# [( O& s/ |3 ?这是一个记忆问题。
8 L3 s4 I& A4 YI guess that counts too.9 j0 O# i+ k0 R: Z! K- v% A
我想那很重要。* E! J C7 A3 @5 G3 _6 T# u, r
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?8 ?8 V1 l" z7 C- J. t/ P
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?
, \) q5 e2 H# bAt one point, there was a reason we do something.
# n$ j2 ~% {) C/ e: v6 M在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。& S) E( X+ `1 `8 {% `' G5 m% E
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason./ Y% V; d& T- {% F/ e: L4 a" l& d
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
/ i$ F8 F2 b* R$ n; A5 \% aIt's always could to ask ourselves why.+ H6 l0 Z3 @2 _2 t F& H+ t# H; S
总是可以问问自己为什么。
! M- n" F$ A# O. C0 QWhy did I start to learn a language?
/ f- C! V+ }+ D为什么我开始学习一种语言?: C1 v$ y' t, B$ a' C
Why did I join this club?
0 q6 O; |, r; C' P y) {% ?为什么我加入这个俱乐部?. d+ b2 T, U# T
Why my friend was this person?& i3 R' H2 B1 z- Y
为什么我的朋友是这个人?$ o1 x* _: ~6 B$ h* p, ]
Why did I get married? N) V6 Y) e4 Z' S' _8 s
为什么我要结婚? r1 E9 |0 p5 f2 U9 b
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
+ T+ y: a& L7 v0 g4 L如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。9 x/ c0 |. g% @( _6 W) ~
I think we need indeed remind us of why.
. P! Z1 c# z Y6 w4 S我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
; y% C% n6 J, Y* ~1 J7 z3 uOr else it's tough to finish what we started.
4 a& Q3 Y2 `/ i2 y: M" W4 T! \否则很难完成我们所开始的。
5 Y# L% r) D( n3 `- ?7 v$ W% oWe stop starting. We quit the club.. p- ^$ E7 R( I2 Q
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
+ v7 A7 \4 K& B& CWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.& a4 i6 [5 _; p! i
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
* t% k* G* ]. z( q; B$ |0 UThere's nothing wrong with asking why.( @6 y1 f0 R( \5 V. M/ p1 M) I
问为什么没什么问题。+ A) k8 _7 F7 t7 P, w
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.3 ~) E3 L1 Z \
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 n7 Z" C& a' p* J% J% |# l
Talk about it.+ [" n% Y- L2 \3 e5 \ p) C
谈论下面的话题:) L# E0 j, Y- K8 L( n
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?, }; t" N5 A6 Y2 P) x& {
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?. l" Y5 t4 ? a/ B6 `
Is it a kind of distant memory?
6 W$ e/ F/ ?9 F3 @4 D( d它是一种遥远的记忆?
+ m% _, v& y2 }5 x2 c. r4 SDid you ever forget why you are doing something...
5 N% H% k, Z$ M1 J/ U+ M2 q% _* P你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……6 g- m! B3 T, V; D
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
0 {, z! [- }3 o3 {. I你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?6 _$ t+ x# z. U
Do you write memos?% u3 b: N. o1 M: m
你写备忘录吗?
% g' N) P+ P" q/ U' S# p3 pDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
1 l3 X) D7 _3 W2 M6 q7 n) ~4 W你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
; v9 I k- \: |8 E" mWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?2 D# I6 }9 R0 P
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
- {7 B0 h( ?) Z+ KWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?; o& v4 t7 u0 ]9 y: W
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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