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Remembering why we are doing something
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' U, I! Z; G, \* D9 o记住我们为什么做某事
. l) L8 G1 q1 z/ |! }% RSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.3 y+ c: e7 T, b9 I
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。" f) F+ v% l( I% s" z
Have you ever done that?! K" P9 x0 l! F; `; \
你曾有过这种经历吗？
) W; I+ ~. v8 hI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.6 P% P7 V( E4 ]' c; z' w2 W
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。% h# Q) ` d* l- s F1 E( N9 ^
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.
4 @) E W4 Z, T. v" ]$ P/ a3 r6 S我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。6 c, a; [( U0 @4 h% |7 G, f8 H8 P
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
& q9 y4 X \" q$ W# c2 p然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。; r$ R3 Z# D. C8 n, H4 J
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.3 x; U8 R% Q& u1 A- M/ [/ G
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。0 R. C9 Y! ]6 R& k1 ]& c% f
That's a memory problem.
" {# l: h- Q4 ~6 ?7 Q( w8 k这是一个记忆问题。/ V, D# u( q- A3 q
I guess that counts too." w6 s5 e2 a. @" d2 w1 o
我想那很重要。
+ q) S9 w- B1 P% Q" Q6 i0 }' sBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
/ S& b( G7 m7 N3 h* h+ F3 `; x但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？% K [7 {& d9 q
At one point, there was a reason we do something.0 s( r/ T( k" I% K! @8 P; ?. e
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。" P" Y- k" G+ C8 e: w
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
' u" \$ F1 k9 }7 y# i1 ^! C5 X) x! h" z# o对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。
( c- D4 }4 e$ {: {It's always could to ask ourselves why.
: {, i/ P0 m# b& C6 ~总是可以问问自己为什么。
# K; y% |9 `& |" g* H9 l/ jWhy did I start to learn a language?
1 {9 O5 f" t) U+ n8 K为什么我开始学习一种语言？
7 Q- T6 q% A, tWhy did I join this club?- g4 \, W5 e) k: v- E2 F
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？. k; a8 Y9 _/ a' R
Why my friend was this person?) O# d1 Y/ |( e
为什么我的朋友是这个人？/ q3 \) g G; g3 [* t( P
Why did I get married?
' p% l+ A9 Y* ^* J: N为什么我要结婚？
* h1 c# d8 r. j7 g- Z+ \If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
9 l3 C: o! W- m+ G如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。
1 m Y9 A/ {, B: W, P0 e* E1 hI think we need indeed remind us of why.
* H2 G- x5 O1 E0 f/ S: E) C# r6 M我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
0 W( s2 h- F2 z# L1 m* K7 H' h* C4 [Or else it's tough to finish what we started.7 D' O3 A- I! {& \; y. `
否则很难完成我们所开始的。& m- }- a) d; N" M# [+ W3 F: n
We stop starting. We quit the club.4 z4 n3 w- Q+ ^" I% A6 B( p) i
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
/ P; l$ A ^3 Y l E2 U" O/ `We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.. J/ g# i1 A: I( G" R
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。& i8 x: ` f( P; [' y+ Q. [4 F
There's nothing wrong with asking why., ^. N9 W" D% N, z
问为什么没什么问题。2 _6 ?( B5 L' U9 b- j3 z2 Y
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
( ~$ B4 D8 f3 j9 d0 }事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。* X9 f- m* z6 T7 V/ B. u
Talk about it.
, y# r7 [0 U! e! b谈论下面的话题：
( @! n g/ i. EIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?: j9 B5 C' Z$ q) x, S
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？
& U& H# v' _1 D: a g# k/ s2 ?Is it a kind of distant memory?
3 B- D' n$ I; G1 t它是一种遥远的记忆？: |0 q- b& `( Y5 v- t8 P0 @
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
B* o. `/ E8 v: n* B% ]你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
) }- ~/ W% @5 M2 B, DHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?) T4 k" D3 H1 g6 Q( h, a7 \; n
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？2 W7 X4 Q) k' L# |3 L" c' h
Do you write memos?
8 T+ X& n$ ^5 k, ^- w# O+ N" @: n/ D" p* m你写备忘录吗？
" E( P; F# b: A0 F' @) Q9 t& bDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
' N& k& H3 V* u3 O, a, z你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？
9 a& N9 K6 f. m- b! v2 zWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
0 M! t0 {4 k: I" A8 P; h还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？
3 r Y$ B2 u m" l/ V8 `& uWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?# d# Q- Z& q7 I* |( H- s
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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