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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事$ F3 Y* e) R+ y1 z% n ~
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing./ b- c& _$ ~" u7 ~
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。4 H; A# {4 U7 T5 A3 J
Have you ever done that?& V4 a% _2 L2 b
你曾有过这种经历吗？: T) ~" D" b- n8 ^% h
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
- y6 X8 u) _* U" F- X$ j1 b) B i3 T我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。
3 Q1 H2 A: R" }6 JI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
7 w5 i. _+ {5 D7 f) n( z7 y; p3 C7 K我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。
) O' k0 J8 m4 u# _And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
, V, c! Y& C6 x8 I2 N5 G* |然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
9 b: e& z/ e8 h3 X" q$ @' `0 bWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
7 K" P1 s1 r% g$ Q! J9 Y哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
# @* h0 d) j- n/ h5 k F7 n: \' u; W2 DThat's a memory problem.
' e, c! n5 e* _8 Z& ^这是一个记忆问题。
; H: E7 s: I7 c- |$ n$ e9 [- RI guess that counts too.
! Y, S% U( C; Q3 Z我想那很重要。 a6 ~1 M/ C$ L
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? V# Q/ X. c4 H" p6 g
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？) s2 Q: ^: f7 [' w9 j
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
% K# Y% p! f7 o7 S" I! L% i( k在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。* c; E7 Z3 d @6 d: T& h
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason./ b) O4 w/ r1 Z4 J3 @
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。
8 I3 Y# { d- _8 F A/ W# _$ CIt's always could to ask ourselves why.. y& w; O2 A/ P4 o2 R
总是可以问问自己为什么。; S+ X! f6 b. u+ N
Why did I start to learn a language?8 P( q6 Y0 V+ T' f% P. y
为什么我开始学习一种语言？
7 Y8 k* n3 L u4 eWhy did I join this club?9 b _% m) L/ X Y% h& o& X6 t- n
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？
, `( ] L0 ~ W) D8 A5 YWhy my friend was this person?; n! j; q2 v# G) I
为什么我的朋友是这个人？6 y5 U0 l6 q7 s6 d! a
Why did I get married?
6 o* S# R' r+ t5 Q2 Z% ^为什么我要结婚？" @, }( W$ @/ ]' w! c
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
. ?! d- G2 W& m/ i; B如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。
6 x% P, j8 k$ ~- u, g/ J. ^I think we need indeed remind us of why.% c+ O& u! h, \7 Y
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。 e) z, ^, J' y7 y$ A6 C
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
$ a- E, u: @- A+ R否则很难完成我们所开始的。8 f. o: M! O# c7 ^# ]% N' k
We stop starting. We quit the club.5 z: {: r) X/ N/ p
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。- u! F5 d: ~2 w! v0 H
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
1 J$ `8 d+ r ^& z/ v我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。7 L5 |& s. S4 q
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
8 z- S- ~6 v# M% i问为什么没什么问题。# f1 Q+ B. n8 x h# k
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
+ a# y+ w8 P. |! }- ?$ R事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
2 o, g( |) T0 D; iTalk about it.& k( |6 ] [' D s& }9 K) `) B
谈论下面的话题：. Q# B3 D9 n. g
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
7 f5 w8 |5 j- X你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？5 o( ^8 a. B; c7 Y7 \& ~
Is it a kind of distant memory?
. |( T! }) C; o( }$ @; [3 N; {! Y它是一种遥远的记忆？ m/ t! b* x% x3 [4 |
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...% Q4 {9 {& D5 j- v: D0 m! Y
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
0 N6 N! a" z) R8 a1 X( IHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
% ^: j% z! d' L4 a' f L, L你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？
; @1 m f. c- m9 }, G, B9 E( H* [0 HDo you write memos?
! j% R% V$ V7 W. R/ W你写备忘录吗？ w$ T; c2 R) `
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
+ \6 f: ?& }) ^6 \) G6 `你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？2 |8 a. Y' i' I# t
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?- l* G* p; v1 F0 k" q; s2 x
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？6 F* Z) Y' c% i4 w. f+ i- i% y
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?0 a, q/ g9 N- S q5 E! F' o9 W
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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