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Remembering why we are doing something
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* f0 R4 A) d' ^2 g: B2 _记住我们为什么做某事
& t4 Y" O' K& z a' eSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
' _9 C6 G' @, r: d$ Y' d4 C有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。7 `; k4 l5 m0 f0 m- ]& m" Y
Have you ever done that?9 o7 E0 J0 Y8 r& C# E
你曾有过这种经历吗？
" W! E' N! M6 C+ P/ Z9 XI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
8 S" J8 \! ]% {- u我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。
% Q" Z% U( a$ a0 g. ^& UI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
5 g+ ]0 m% D) @我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。
( ^- s9 I6 d [& X# O8 E4 ]And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.0 h V+ y; S! z. N" h/ \
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。! J, ~; F: \4 l2 |3 C, F
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
- K3 L) ^0 @0 m/ L, E$ a, }哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。, R1 T0 `9 c. y0 g i. {0 A$ c
That's a memory problem.8 H) `, _) l8 q
这是一个记忆问题。
1 P2 ]6 _: c1 [0 C. r n, FI guess that counts too.% A5 s) d. T( a& V$ o/ A
我想那很重要。: F9 ]* t9 N% X3 z5 N
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
f9 e' V3 `" C, ]' f8 l但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？
4 G4 L8 A; m7 D* P$ B1 l) rAt one point, there was a reason we do something.
' Z5 o8 p8 f2 \3 Z& y8 J7 P在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。# e$ d/ P' v0 R, f% r' y& \
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
1 i; S2 f' A5 Z4 g; T) a对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。
8 x/ b( ^& @. D5 ]& G# b( E- HIt's always could to ask ourselves why." P$ t( _/ ?3 s; X4 s
总是可以问问自己为什么。
9 z5 ?! N, v, a, I& y7 |# pWhy did I start to learn a language?
6 Q3 N( t4 N! e! n; W为什么我开始学习一种语言？# s& I- a. a+ Y% O* {7 L
Why did I join this club?
) X, j1 W# N! }- `为什么我加入这个俱乐部？7 g/ G# S- }' b8 Q4 H
Why my friend was this person?
8 u0 Q% W3 r1 r- e- [ f+ F( w为什么我的朋友是这个人？
3 t a; Z7 C8 M- F% QWhy did I get married?
! x5 Z# e! M5 n4 |3 O' Y8 s为什么我要结婚？
% Q* n4 k: b U( F2 @6 pIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
" Z1 }# _( W1 t$ r- S如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。
3 s1 l" e! g# {0 q v. ]I think we need indeed remind us of why.) d% z, _2 H1 l7 U$ _- j5 Q
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。( C' M) B: a i' f: T
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
: `8 j0 F; P: p4 B8 |/ @' U4 p否则很难完成我们所开始的。7 r( A' A/ C# \8 q
We stop starting. We quit the club.0 f+ U7 Q; G5 |" [" V( J3 Y& X; s8 {
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
; I1 C! [0 |8 `We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
9 p0 I* @* t7 V; g1 |, T7 S我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。; w9 A q( W6 p% @
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
, }. J6 u/ W+ O5 _7 h" e l6 ~6 ?+ d问为什么没什么问题。1 K8 i2 E% Q& R* q0 t J X3 b
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.# ^- J" U9 X* g% j
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。( U1 B; M# X. q6 T( u7 H
Talk about it.
5 }9 l( H; |; o) o/ i! U* |! A谈论下面的话题：
. x* V! T- o( T. l; Q9 A, YIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?5 w7 o+ h/ N" x! S# K
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？
5 u( D; R- ?4 ?+ ~+ E, B: C8 UIs it a kind of distant memory?
! @) \$ c6 L+ s5 }! O" c. y6 q它是一种遥远的记忆？: _' X$ q# x6 t; z
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
L0 x, m; O( e7 O$ i8 a# S# w% n5 e你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
& n- u$ x" X% T3 h( SHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
6 S- a0 g9 X1 X4 u# b2 w3 N你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？$ M* X: F( {3 M# M6 q: P
Do you write memos?
$ c/ {; m6 v. T: Q, y) O1 a% U: v你写备忘录吗？6 Y+ M+ a: M1 W! |8 c: _$ O# w5 U& V
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?: N( w' I8 T6 B8 v, W
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？
, J( w9 r3 p( U. VWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?, S* S; S& G- y- h% Z. b
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？
7 ^! T) B/ V5 [What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
+ F7 R9 u' I: Z2 e5 s7 C7 ^: `8 z你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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