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Remembering why we are doing something
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; O! `/ C/ J/ X" l记住我们为什么做某事* d* L' A( Y* [" \0 a3 v
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
* x- H5 I- h8 R& Q有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。+ s# m3 q/ L) V/ ~" t- E
Have you ever done that?' D# E$ `( ?+ [8 j# E- p
你曾有过这种经历吗?
7 G$ i! K% ]9 a9 G- x B& M. {% pI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
% m3 \- x. |9 G我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
& x1 q- a7 T6 t9 g. a! C$ \I have called someone because I want to tell them something.
, G, ]; l9 L4 ?/ P/ \我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。7 h% q& O4 s& N: d# e: q: E
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.% r: p4 M' q4 J0 {3 s- u
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。) ?6 t2 P% ~/ M/ w
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.5 ~9 ^) Z0 w! @+ d# g
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
6 T* f% Y, a' G$ |) H* yThat's a memory problem.5 }8 c9 O* W5 o4 M
这是一个记忆问题。3 M6 [0 l$ I( R! }
I guess that counts too.3 p; D, i" ]: j7 H5 G8 G
我想那很重要。% h7 l5 ]) Z( b
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
7 b2 }% B1 u# j但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?: G" A r. |4 ~% ~! U
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
6 l( d2 q+ M" e" u$ g4 _4 V, t在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。2 @- k. B# H! K4 T, D, {
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
( L7 b9 c2 G" k4 ]. t对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
* l$ B& B6 L7 ~! `It's always could to ask ourselves why.! l6 L) T7 _8 M( ~4 g' d. q9 w. |7 G) R
总是可以问问自己为什么。# G K5 k1 h! b8 o6 g" Z
Why did I start to learn a language?
8 M# R3 |4 d/ d* t为什么我开始学习一种语言?: Y( r, l" Y& {' g1 z% |
Why did I join this club?, _" @, l8 ~2 ?( @3 d; T% l
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?
' q* U, r# }! M5 M8 V; q5 N0 hWhy my friend was this person?0 l _8 w9 O3 v& L0 W% c- \
为什么我的朋友是这个人?
( T$ \+ ^& W1 D( UWhy did I get married?
* J; v; d6 y B9 R4 o6 k! R为什么我要结婚?
2 H4 Z z8 \' }3 V, F# EIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.* o6 Q! M$ E, r. W4 Y+ g6 N
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
+ I! W/ w; ?$ ^1 ^# P; |1 O8 @& MI think we need indeed remind us of why.$ w/ _- k8 A% i' w: p X, C1 h
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。# I# N$ C: I8 H* ]
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. s" w2 p6 ^8 A
否则很难完成我们所开始的。, T' l2 h6 `- T( v
We stop starting. We quit the club.
( n! d/ }3 |0 A0 L0 s9 d4 c' P我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
# Z" G6 W0 N7 |( oWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
" L1 L: F" F/ `3 j我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
" `. r9 w& B- ]# A+ R$ KThere's nothing wrong with asking why.( n1 e% d2 D; M; C: g, W
问为什么没什么问题。6 k" q; l7 X1 p c$ j: q, P4 _5 A
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
3 a/ C, G9 Q8 M' n2 O事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。" L% D3 w6 Y- N- p& {1 i
Talk about it.
* Y& \2 f# c" R6 W5 y" X谈论下面的话题:/ u0 y& k3 F& E* B) Z( v
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
: P' C! k# _6 ^) b3 s你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
8 {4 H# \2 m B! C/ i ^ {Is it a kind of distant memory?# _( u2 j# A- f7 Y- }, y
它是一种遥远的记忆?; o. ^" q( ^2 |& }; ~) V! h
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...% ~: ^2 T6 |6 {, [7 P
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……" E2 h5 `' H. X- C
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?0 \7 P/ G, \1 @, E9 _0 l' \( u
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?. @3 v9 h2 i1 i+ p
Do you write memos?
" [! I7 r `& K7 m9 I; m你写备忘录吗?
! p9 ?# C! \: ~+ ^$ t! |: L8 PDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
% C% _# H: F1 Q0 z% s8 I你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
9 [; {# ?4 [ ^8 v3 m0 _+ T9 c5 oWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?. T, n8 v8 c$ j8 S. [2 k: D( e
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?' V) c5 ?4 R2 w6 T# j
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
' M4 i! `: s- i& @/ C3 k8 a1 A2 e你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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