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Remembering why we are doing something( `! _; ^% }; @) p1 ^* d
# q4 u; x P, p9 G& @' p* G记住我们为什么做某事
$ f8 q' [% e" n# c, t$ q" jSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.8 k- P* g$ m1 S0 w
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。
/ e% F# B) k' J$ V0 J' ?( r" X+ g7 _Have you ever done that?
% h: i7 [! e5 }2 T3 i$ J7 T你曾有过这种经历吗?5 n7 f, k( _* M0 G1 K; Z
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
/ {( p" |) U, k0 S4 M我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
9 H( {' u* T- V4 vI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
" S- {! C% ~9 c; N我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。% ~! z2 ]' R& W4 l9 }* }" h
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.( P2 t' P2 |7 E7 y/ }: Z2 v
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
! J" _9 U6 d3 b3 v( bWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
' L% Q7 V1 f& c9 k哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。. d3 \6 m8 o' s; P
That's a memory problem.- i) h/ g3 v9 z+ V3 k% c m: y" [8 ~
这是一个记忆问题。1 K4 ]8 y. Y2 S5 P
I guess that counts too.
2 f9 o9 R$ v- ^! c% I" d0 h# T1 K: Z4 c1 V我想那很重要。( ?8 P* G0 Y2 _! _
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
2 l/ w, ^7 E. P! j/ |2 H7 H& c但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?5 W7 h* F/ I; ?( P3 ?
At one point, there was a reason we do something.6 u- @: Z7 g3 {% m l
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。3 w1 l. d f8 F: c6 e; |
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.; E& _! M) Q2 z
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。 p+ `. B- @- ~. k
It's always could to ask ourselves why.* c5 t! g) V: |6 y" S, ~
总是可以问问自己为什么。
1 j2 ~0 ]' e4 xWhy did I start to learn a language?8 r; T, P; z- T2 \) d# o& i
为什么我开始学习一种语言?
! n2 _. m( d* X4 l y6 i' AWhy did I join this club? @9 w) B# D' F* h( V3 O& S# `
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?
; E) J9 S2 I7 R$ M" uWhy my friend was this person?3 L4 ?. I( ^5 D0 x" k7 u
为什么我的朋友是这个人?2 j4 A" h: z1 x; H7 S2 H5 H
Why did I get married?
, Z6 x& ~( G. s$ b. ?为什么我要结婚?
- A0 L6 D0 M/ C2 b/ O$ M& X$ Q$ bIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why." `' d% @ L( O) \
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。, w& B' l8 l. W
I think we need indeed remind us of why.
' q; h6 X% W4 h" E我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。( I c! F& a/ c! D7 L; R3 d
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
, F/ Q6 ^4 L& k# _% a9 v7 M否则很难完成我们所开始的。& Y- @: S T# j3 _6 k! `
We stop starting. We quit the club.* S& _' H5 V6 Y- x' z0 [
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。+ X( M) N- k0 n( T, X
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.* b0 o8 P, E1 s( l* L2 d( b
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。& M+ _: d( |; \' q8 J
There's nothing wrong with asking why.% ^# s9 i; A3 V4 Z' x3 j
问为什么没什么问题。3 l2 l" n4 S. d ^6 q5 d& f+ [* {
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
: M; K0 O0 P" X5 z$ Q5 ~2 j+ E }8 M事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。8 }& m1 k& Y( B0 R
Talk about it.9 s! \* j& o4 ^! g2 G4 D/ i9 W: |
谈论下面的话题:3 w D- W- t; ~3 P& N3 T
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
9 `, x0 c" J8 E你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?: [; z: {; |2 r% U2 I
Is it a kind of distant memory?6 ]/ N1 j" g5 a& j$ v7 s
它是一种遥远的记忆?
8 l: {0 B/ N0 m% N7 m+ Q& H2 C0 pDid you ever forget why you are doing something...0 U" O9 c9 k; {, U9 r
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……/ g1 C- g1 }4 z8 d* f9 }& B
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
& N% B9 N. X0 f8 C+ ~8 h你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?* K: F/ M1 M6 n* }" t& h! s' ]2 J
Do you write memos?
4 R+ [: n1 `9 x$ v3 S4 a& N9 q你写备忘录吗?
2 f1 r0 E- x( {9 d- n0 p0 YDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?+ [. Y v: y# ^& N
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?$ D. {$ b2 k8 \; C
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?8 \8 D7 |; h! z n% O& f: p
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?. o0 K m _+ n' q/ q6 _# A' r
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
: Q: }" Q1 r7 T- f: ^你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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