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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事8 R1 e6 O+ J/ g
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
) C' i: E* ]' I6 P有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。
. n8 a, U* `1 UHave you ever done that?
, Y; q& C$ q8 d# A/ |7 e你曾有过这种经历吗?; y% e- q- b0 }' K3 o9 ^
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
. q; T% y+ c8 l# D% G0 v我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
0 p: h& P4 A+ d. B9 L: NI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
6 q* {- ~6 \8 s5 z5 D( W' A我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。
' Y8 J4 D) R U/ VAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.4 `" r i- C$ h( [, X
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
' n. y% D( q) t7 _1 U0 x- mWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
9 W1 e1 f2 m$ y5 j4 e/ E8 H9 K哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。5 z) W0 M$ M, L# d8 Z: D: u
That's a memory problem.
0 x# ]$ X; K! }, g- O0 r这是一个记忆问题。+ i$ D1 \- Y5 \% Z
I guess that counts too.# L2 f7 U* ]) l6 _0 I$ G9 Z
我想那很重要。 [" L0 O; c9 w/ X2 j/ u
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?3 u( K3 _9 |: W. h
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?" e8 r' b+ Y* L( t$ |' d" I8 [5 I
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
. e3 T% B* N# z% O- |' \) F在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。
' f. Z) G' V3 L% q& \$ k1 x+ tFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
5 J1 b* ^/ ^ R' `1 d8 b( k( f对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。 q& c$ w+ {8 Z& g5 \4 G
It's always could to ask ourselves why.1 g7 ^9 V! N2 d7 I j2 g L; g
总是可以问问自己为什么。0 D5 h# _5 h/ T. h0 G. W7 ^& c
Why did I start to learn a language?
2 _: b A& y M9 b为什么我开始学习一种语言?
0 O' k1 x# w* j4 P( ?1 L1 tWhy did I join this club?5 `. p2 [2 w( K; p. Y7 t
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?
7 p2 r9 W9 a4 W( d) U0 U1 VWhy my friend was this person?- ?+ o' G" E% S: ^ z1 ?7 ?- ^
为什么我的朋友是这个人? C# N' D- g' \% A) {
Why did I get married?" X- ]2 J- n- Y* w& c5 }( X
为什么我要结婚?
: `0 n J! u1 I/ `* @0 M, kIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
% w! I7 D3 D" S如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
3 K* s/ n/ f( x6 Z* MI think we need indeed remind us of why. J/ x; _) B& P } [/ d
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。# f9 t' z F# L* s
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.* k( M& c% F* ~: i
否则很难完成我们所开始的。0 h2 G( H8 ]+ b; H# _: E' c5 {
We stop starting. We quit the club.
+ N# q2 w6 O/ \( o# O- _; D& }我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
$ d) `. u( [% V2 a5 W8 UWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
8 b1 m) x0 U+ T" t C7 K我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。, f! c1 ~: d3 @/ M
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
$ U& k/ p' X2 d, c& b0 n- l9 Z问为什么没什么问题。
! N: A& Q6 n3 Q/ k! q1 n4 gIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
- A0 j7 P; F2 L7 X& r事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。: V; k1 R* Z8 T$ O7 ]8 g9 {
Talk about it.
# m/ j8 B- }% ?3 ^谈论下面的话题:
v; b* O. O& Z" E* ?1 lIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?+ v3 A! d* h. t, n2 A. i6 m; b
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
# w4 I# l9 K4 O; g6 G. ?Is it a kind of distant memory?
1 k$ x$ K' z; G1 l. |* Y. L9 _它是一种遥远的记忆?4 V) t; ^% q- R
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
2 C4 e: j4 e& Q1 W+ D+ }你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
, P# Q$ S9 s- o. dHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?. T- w) f4 }& v3 q
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?- S. n4 T2 F$ E& V
Do you write memos?
: N: j% p% J# J你写备忘录吗?, `8 Q3 l! R9 `# Q" r
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
0 X0 ~+ c' i! X- L8 E r你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
. u8 N. M( f7 ?6 s+ x1 SWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?8 U6 W9 }0 ~) K- N2 K, f
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?4 J8 L8 v4 U/ T/ @- C
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?$ H0 D3 V N- v7 @' E
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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