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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事! \; C! p' p n% `7 F4 n
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.+ G' e4 ~8 H3 `
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。* B+ I r0 j% b: T- H% J
Have you ever done that?
D5 {& z4 u' ~ h2 b: X3 G; S你曾有过这种经历吗?5 v4 i* ?5 h. b5 |' D
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
6 N" G6 p/ f( @6 j/ O8 R6 W我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
+ X& h Z+ g2 k C! N# I4 kI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
/ E; Z; Q! [& s1 P+ K我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。
4 U2 } ?, i7 n5 oAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
~" p1 w" k& Y' a' t然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
! d+ {# r2 J2 q! h8 ^6 ~8 @Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.8 V( w5 w$ \1 X5 E. a. f
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
$ l3 _# _+ ^2 IThat's a memory problem.) }8 _2 s/ t3 K/ \. J
这是一个记忆问题。$ |+ L2 ^# P# e7 [
I guess that counts too.+ n, j3 [0 ~4 J/ K$ d4 f6 I
我想那很重要。# r" p, m( m. `' E9 z4 X
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?8 T4 r' a7 m5 K% c5 P
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?
/ L& K: O6 e% B7 Z, z3 u) i( G, \At one point, there was a reason we do something.
3 Q T. J" Y& w: J& ?2 L" V$ A在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。
* L6 E/ O }4 i' c0 j7 L7 cFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
; r5 q$ _2 i" K$ i3 M对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。* V2 v" M7 Q( d0 v: x* }6 w/ s
It's always could to ask ourselves why.
: @* S6 _. P2 o2 O( Y6 t& q" ]总是可以问问自己为什么。
( x2 ?! M9 N; J- H. ~/ [9 j; @* d1 R8 rWhy did I start to learn a language?5 l8 f9 ]# \! U7 P& \3 I) h2 E. e
为什么我开始学习一种语言?
2 o; n. R9 a! N u" ?4 EWhy did I join this club?3 ^2 n& t( k8 x7 P+ }% I+ ^
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?$ k5 @- }7 S$ G" @/ s: A& U/ P6 B1 @
Why my friend was this person?3 Y# z5 `- g5 X+ P
为什么我的朋友是这个人?8 m# d* b, A9 ^- D
Why did I get married?
?2 W1 H! V# X0 h% _为什么我要结婚?# u T1 b$ N6 T4 n1 f
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
: Y+ F' H( _. L: ~( M$ ?! ^' t如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。! ]$ z8 ?0 P, ~
I think we need indeed remind us of why.- d1 i3 ~+ l; W% B
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。- X. T+ l" n3 }/ `+ c4 Y; V
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.7 X4 k. f- u! y( e
否则很难完成我们所开始的。
* z; K" Q) m5 h* J! i/ w2 VWe stop starting. We quit the club.$ T8 `% ~: t6 {) l2 L
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。$ p7 _: H$ c' {
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.4 o3 V" T4 K( B4 I- f1 c
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
) g3 a) f" t" H ~There's nothing wrong with asking why.
9 ]9 r( a6 V9 @5 J9 ]+ A9 u4 N问为什么没什么问题。+ _& ~- G8 j9 b1 O
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.' I( G3 I+ G, m+ k" w6 d& j
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。/ ~) J4 p# k8 ?/ \
Talk about it.
! J7 s- g2 I) s7 i* G, }谈论下面的话题:+ b$ _; r( h0 A8 J, `& O( o
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?- g0 X% y6 b: n, R' Q9 t
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
' M6 J& R6 a: J8 N* _! nIs it a kind of distant memory?0 d1 l" p' X o' F1 w+ ^
它是一种遥远的记忆?
$ f3 h5 n9 d. q# \) \- h7 [Did you ever forget why you are doing something..., ?' V, x* L' q t
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
^! t8 `+ |9 e* ]: n! {- UHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
2 f) G0 v) S3 w6 m8 y' u! i3 `* X5 y( c你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?
3 z# b1 P# n1 G$ \Do you write memos?! a! @9 V+ r- S6 d: B
你写备忘录吗?
: U q: ?& {, q1 r+ r! N( F, `Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?3 _% a5 n9 q, |# D, l
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
! h4 W+ K% ~2 F5 MWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?5 C. t# W& {. x: \- e- A9 A
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?5 C, e" Q$ I! s; j
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?- j8 D( ?* x- u( E9 @& p
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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