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Remembering why we are doing something
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+ H5 z* g- o) W, s7 u记住我们为什么做某事$ o3 r/ e5 J% t8 y" y! {
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.' G6 \8 z5 l* w, W
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。
/ o* \7 T: L0 S$ ?% F# W0 MHave you ever done that?6 d, x$ `2 i$ W1 y2 K- p8 i. Z
你曾有过这种经历吗?2 c9 g) V ^' |
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
' a6 W( e+ _" X% l) Y. M我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
; i' D7 U# H( O" B9 kI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
/ W/ S! B3 Z0 o& h' p我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。& s8 u$ N4 w! m) T/ E
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.9 T' P* B5 `9 H* F" W' B
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。8 R% ] r, k; l+ G3 x
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
9 q3 W1 r* z7 g6 S哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。4 @: |+ s2 H- e* E
That's a memory problem.
$ F5 H# t' d" v, j这是一个记忆问题。$ I2 C [; ~0 Y: ~) @1 ?
I guess that counts too.4 T0 W) ?" \9 s. W# \2 T
我想那很重要。 P. m$ H. }' I2 S# |+ g: r; V" x
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
& T* \8 a6 w0 z3 x) s/ |0 M但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?
5 L- ~& H x' e& lAt one point, there was a reason we do something.
4 E; B1 a! i9 W! C在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。
4 }. o' U r; W$ `& j0 t/ q" M0 K, VFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.; G( u, [4 ]8 G6 B: c. Z( U. y
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。( {) w. L8 v: c A, z9 U. e8 [
It's always could to ask ourselves why.
_, `7 f& x3 W总是可以问问自己为什么。
1 }4 T2 a1 u: X2 v' ]: _ w5 eWhy did I start to learn a language?6 f, o2 P& s& r8 z
为什么我开始学习一种语言?6 _2 Z" T! y4 m+ l3 C8 j
Why did I join this club?1 e3 O# K. r& s" r+ A
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?7 W1 O! b1 `1 J4 a! j+ f
Why my friend was this person?/ u/ {; `9 u9 ~5 p+ D
为什么我的朋友是这个人?5 d% T; N- I7 H; v
Why did I get married?
( B! B5 C) j. V/ l( O6 [- J: o& S为什么我要结婚?
3 ~' T# J d) N; YIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
$ F& g' v$ W9 I* t' b- p% ]1 b( B如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
" \" A% J. w* ~( T9 [9 ?I think we need indeed remind us of why.' J$ }0 w* P, z; J. ]+ n
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。$ K! K! {( B1 z+ c
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.5 g4 M/ Q0 G+ D$ q
否则很难完成我们所开始的。
, Z$ ]6 m: A# e8 ^. mWe stop starting. We quit the club.$ z, D4 F, U$ |1 v5 V# H
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
6 J3 O+ z# f3 I% zWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
7 W+ ~& D# O2 p" G$ ~我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。) ~6 Z; d5 J; n& Z( x
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
: S) n! Y g2 e0 }问为什么没什么问题。 a5 W: `+ _, f% P8 _7 s
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.. z4 v( m5 Z6 D0 V9 C, ^. ~
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
6 Y8 a! g% t) u# e2 _Talk about it.
- m0 w2 X* ~$ }& S谈论下面的话题:0 k' N; o7 i: Q" O2 Q6 Q& v
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?9 i. p- I# Y: i- X" A6 d. I
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?) `) L! i% u' g' S, I$ e! y4 w
Is it a kind of distant memory?& e# f" e% x5 d' A3 @8 _% r; m7 z% `, P
它是一种遥远的记忆?. f2 Y/ l+ H5 x6 X
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
# w# T7 n7 V! f7 i# `9 I5 l- Z你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……0 Q4 r/ {9 b$ _5 X
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?. z8 i2 v( _3 T1 E+ D
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?. T0 w" b* a7 Y9 u' t: b6 e( m9 W
Do you write memos?5 T* S8 ]' K* g. [! k+ G
你写备忘录吗?2 |6 v" U2 f8 ? f: X0 s
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?0 W& L. v: e2 M" ]' Q% u; s# j
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?8 w; u! D5 n p. h$ i
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
, B1 h5 }. d9 M4 n/ }) ^还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
- w, P' w4 H! v3 V# RWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? E6 Q" v8 f6 {3 i
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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