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Remembering why we are doing something
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6 y7 Y }1 `( a5 p; @6 p4 F! D; P6 K记住我们为什么做某事
3 c3 U- W7 l6 d( i. qSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
3 i) Z& K' Q4 R5 {$ i有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。( ?) X+ z) G$ f5 h* k
Have you ever done that?
A& G8 r7 N u6 m; R8 Z, f你曾有过这种经历吗?) `0 Q0 j9 y; `0 |! t7 R4 x
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
/ F; ?4 Y8 j9 p+ E/ z( U我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
+ n. x5 J: ?$ oI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
! F5 L3 M6 U2 A; d3 j我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。( @/ }+ ~7 g8 z% a
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.4 p( F5 }& q1 X# p6 }2 e: V' O D+ {
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。$ _* Q6 {9 u$ K; o3 G7 {" G
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.( n7 p0 W7 Y! N$ P* ~: f/ j9 I
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。8 P. K0 ~% v Q; |* |
That's a memory problem." b( |2 E% @5 K" r1 a# h/ N
这是一个记忆问题。
6 f* U5 [% e- L$ ]* p( q8 s$ wI guess that counts too.
1 |& h* H8 a6 f+ A) c# Y' U( X' h- T我想那很重要。1 m4 r" a: N3 ?% V" _
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
0 Z- k( ] H3 x5 I, y但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?4 o+ r7 U& [- S4 N: D M
At one point, there was a reason we do something.( O! F" T* a1 r" z! ?( }
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。* M4 o( _ X, n/ P6 _ h
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
: s8 C6 I* D7 Q) j) k7 Q对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。& Q* Q, V% F0 D
It's always could to ask ourselves why.
, l0 H! K0 \: B- V; A% g5 o. v3 o总是可以问问自己为什么。
0 U2 ]6 ?3 c4 ?8 vWhy did I start to learn a language?% K7 k4 t. W6 I- L
为什么我开始学习一种语言?" M) c( R; M+ q# x2 c. I. o- W
Why did I join this club?
/ y/ u/ L% `( x- ~- ^. @& G为什么我加入这个俱乐部?' X+ s. ~4 Y3 J
Why my friend was this person?
3 w0 t0 B- L$ L( F& I! D为什么我的朋友是这个人?
% | d* a" o' K7 QWhy did I get married?) O) S1 F' d) l" c$ S1 d2 a
为什么我要结婚?- |) S$ J- E9 |( o0 T
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.; D( ]+ v6 b& _$ [& b, h! \
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
( N4 M5 }) |$ C) tI think we need indeed remind us of why.+ c; c, s0 ?3 I' o0 P' x
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
' i/ w- u9 v0 t7 M G0 w8 COr else it's tough to finish what we started.) I. ? M3 [- `$ e1 o
否则很难完成我们所开始的。
8 m) _; d; T5 T5 k9 VWe stop starting. We quit the club.) e( b$ N$ j# v
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
6 p( {. k; t- U8 KWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
1 s/ ?3 ]$ ?' b; X1 e7 ]# x+ `( \我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
3 M: X" u. j9 }% B: \There's nothing wrong with asking why.
9 c$ }+ M" f8 k! Q问为什么没什么问题。
4 p0 t- s# T$ p+ h7 y1 e+ J# @In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.! v9 Z0 j5 h3 \0 r
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
5 ~/ x2 U* C# I) VTalk about it.
( K" O! d7 E0 o, S" ~谈论下面的话题:% l* i" p6 Y; y. S1 Q
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
' z8 }6 e. D/ e3 k6 N4 [: A你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?9 q# x' A, \% e, `3 R; w
Is it a kind of distant memory?! a& ]1 H$ U9 S, O4 v6 D5 T& t1 y
它是一种遥远的记忆?
4 l$ a* x3 ]9 R9 F" ~( h- |Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
+ b2 Y! \: |0 N$ C你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
1 U6 C. N) }3 r7 b% h% eHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?8 Q1 a: ` n4 E7 T7 H: [" M
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?
9 R+ D" o- Z& `- a' F( mDo you write memos?
0 [+ P/ X! V0 q* k. m, c' Y你写备忘录吗?+ k. a- {3 ^0 I2 S
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?8 f5 X, @7 x( E S0 n% b9 J
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?9 M6 a& ]: w5 W! C1 r
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
( z) i7 I' Y3 G还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?# U% H, k% t8 \) a% A$ W2 d1 m% t
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
6 P2 E! S3 e7 a你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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