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Remembering why we are doing something
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9 T9 V: u2 {0 ?$ O8 {+ l3 X: C) V记住我们为什么做某事2 F; ~( s, m, Q& r( o3 t
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.! w) w. S- _9 d
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。
$ \: R0 \* X4 ?" R3 Y" a7 THave you ever done that?
- g5 C. M4 k. G* W- z你曾有过这种经历吗?- I" I7 @8 ?/ I
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.1 B2 ~! e+ P( {. ]( `7 N
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
7 z6 o3 p( {# \" @/ }5 MI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
7 g: _: K2 i7 y+ N5 s3 y% U6 l: w我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。, u( I0 S" |! S3 m$ z g l; u, y
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.( q+ y& X8 B6 T% k8 d- o$ Q2 U
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
0 h2 c+ ~6 ?- `( }) j6 pWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
. c, n& F9 J7 N# G3 O哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。/ Z0 X9 m' s0 _ n+ K; d
That's a memory problem.5 N5 L$ G4 V& p0 E7 x6 `/ S
这是一个记忆问题。
& t0 r8 O* S r; q/ d5 s# mI guess that counts too./ O( H) l- t1 ^5 u: {
我想那很重要。" ?; D- b% j' D- X% z3 }
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
1 a8 b# [2 u2 B, C% w# j2 A2 O但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?. `7 b2 |$ Q$ u; H! z; m* X8 s
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
8 c/ a7 _' d0 J" R在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。. p( s* [) E# o! k/ R
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.4 Q" [3 |' M; @; J6 P1 d
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
% f" v5 `/ ] n# S$ SIt's always could to ask ourselves why." R7 k% o9 g$ g% E
总是可以问问自己为什么。; m0 J# J( F; v) m% R
Why did I start to learn a language?
* Z+ m/ P& C* j( r为什么我开始学习一种语言?
! M, N% W6 O( f- Q7 r+ `$ m; @Why did I join this club?5 E1 X9 @9 W1 f/ `5 R
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?
2 o1 }' M# A0 Y/ B" SWhy my friend was this person?
) F; t% l" ^9 N- e7 x5 W为什么我的朋友是这个人?
- E2 c3 c( c# j! F0 lWhy did I get married?
% n" Q2 a2 Y! Z2 t- L1 @为什么我要结婚?
* B, d$ ]6 R) a3 X$ ^" {. J& I3 i) UIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
( k& j# k% ~& V# W: ~+ i; V" o如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
( K8 w. ~9 ]( r/ w; j7 _4 UI think we need indeed remind us of why.
5 ]- }3 W/ ?3 q3 `/ m我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。6 Y+ }3 } @" D' z: p, g4 F* ]
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
3 P/ q& S' V$ I否则很难完成我们所开始的。$ G. ]& {- H2 o/ E
We stop starting. We quit the club.
+ G" `+ r3 N3 j0 R我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
$ z, ^$ W; o6 B5 r( z I! wWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
1 ]) B* a: J. M W: N! G我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
" Y3 q# O: G- E1 z) Z+ {) u aThere's nothing wrong with asking why.
) G/ I+ |3 w, F# A问为什么没什么问题。 L& j: D( X) h
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.2 ^& d$ r; q. M
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
& \( x8 u9 H3 v' ~7 v; H- [2 n* FTalk about it.7 m: p; _, _8 R3 a% M7 }
谈论下面的话题:
^; T3 _$ O; r3 T) }1 h8 NIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?' D! x% n( ]% S' i( ?/ M) G0 U
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?7 o' _; |7 R, t
Is it a kind of distant memory?. p7 A9 j+ L6 }$ I
它是一种遥远的记忆?4 ?" F3 f1 z9 k9 e7 f
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...2 a+ {# q/ L1 }* z" t" u
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
2 U) G( k1 Q9 f* E$ NHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?: R8 t+ T3 H1 E8 y& T; u
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?( ]) I8 s- B( b9 O
Do you write memos?' v) Z2 f4 J( z0 H1 K! U* |2 O
你写备忘录吗?
* p1 B+ _2 W1 DDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
" T+ s- z ]( t0 I0 l你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?) |" V2 p) F9 c, Y9 }- d' ~
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?3 D. K; `; M" P! o
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
) u; V5 Z7 V* r. A( M# yWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?) t/ P9 m0 h4 y8 d# d
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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