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Remembering why we are doing something
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5 `+ t5 v8 ^2 [9 X记住我们为什么做某事
; ]# r4 D) c! Q/ OSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.+ ?5 ]$ M/ E! ]* y R
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。
! H4 n1 c0 B# _0 lHave you ever done that?0 P. ]& v1 Z& t k
你曾有过这种经历吗？
8 E% G, j7 p* b/ t# f+ ~ MI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.4 h, X$ d' e+ h, n
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。" s6 P' s( W$ a, p
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.$ k5 a$ ~. n: ]5 f. u6 S0 H
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。& r0 [: q/ s' g4 E7 E* s3 y" o
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
7 o0 ^+ D8 z( W) S" G* O然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
/ V0 |5 M2 o. ^. C$ [9 \Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
! i! l) a9 P- n1 p+ _哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。0 Z5 z! x: W0 K6 [* g- S- y
That's a memory problem.
4 [4 Q3 r! [2 z8 J& ?这是一个记忆问题。" t) U3 d% W% m/ f
I guess that counts too.3 ?* b* a9 u: s1 K2 |. N, ^
我想那很重要。* t, c) j: F) Y/ z+ Y: e7 \5 E* G
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
5 Y! M7 i6 Q! V' _- y( Y, R7 q. K# ]但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？
' S$ O9 z, X8 J2 TAt one point, there was a reason we do something.
! ?7 d# v' {( m/ d$ i% Q; z p0 C在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。
. B3 f3 \) |; u5 F3 m' zFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
+ M! w5 d7 U! Z3 A7 B对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。
1 N' X, A9 `, l5 Z: P, f4 mIt's always could to ask ourselves why.
- w" m+ N( k; P! L总是可以问问自己为什么。6 e- g+ I( E8 ]8 F" f# ^
Why did I start to learn a language? j w5 Q1 c* V7 _& n
为什么我开始学习一种语言？( c E, g5 x! ~! M
Why did I join this club?8 T; ]! F, {+ _/ m( @8 b0 _
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？! R: w8 M! U% z# R9 B
Why my friend was this person?8 c) j, r% j& q* {3 q# M; {/ O
为什么我的朋友是这个人？0 w# U) k3 ~& U* ~* v5 o& _
Why did I get married?
& Z, w2 p4 ?" w4 c2 A! ?5 T, c为什么我要结婚？3 O4 w! _$ R, a' K. |
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
) Z- j: h% t+ b5 H: ?如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。$ Z r& m: }$ ^# l+ G( Y2 W
I think we need indeed remind us of why.
* l, b- Z7 m& {- n% N- ]我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。; N7 k% J) i# v8 p( _
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.. o9 c6 E3 }6 m# F- E4 j
否则很难完成我们所开始的。% k: H" N4 Y/ |9 w2 F" ?1 T) V) Q/ i
We stop starting. We quit the club.- o9 P" D W e3 f( C
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。% R) `+ W3 X" z9 q. w
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.* z. W+ e. G# H4 B& a0 q( O
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。$ R. S: J2 W& V0 j
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
u5 R! Z- T% K( A- _% _ s3 p问为什么没什么问题。/ H% \; L) i! E9 v+ r1 q
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
8 l' T; I' u& L6 z& z事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。! J3 A3 O. m7 l7 H- ]" G& x: f) c
Talk about it.8 g3 H/ s7 G8 o3 O
谈论下面的话题：7 I' F$ X* ?4 X; K/ b+ @6 V
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
% i Q# X# B ~7 K; |你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？$ r! m2 Q: R' ^2 }/ \5 I K
Is it a kind of distant memory?( H0 }0 |7 D, Z
它是一种遥远的记忆？$ R, s' t# T) W
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...+ L0 o8 Y$ r% U2 `4 t' O
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
) X; h! u6 N: A) ^* r$ C7 fHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?- i) Z6 j( y2 Q; l8 [: ^. `4 N
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？
# u" z2 b3 L4 s$ O* Q+ DDo you write memos?% W! K! D* \5 j4 U
你写备忘录吗？1 c, D y" g \+ ^
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?- b4 a% }7 W7 o" ~
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？ {' }: c6 D( x T( ~9 U1 F$ Q4 A
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?) Q& n9 |! ^7 q$ Z- {
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？) g( D) f! ?( ?* T9 d
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
: s4 E: F& L f你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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