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Remembering why we are doing something
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4 U2 u) p& A* k) j, j6 K记住我们为什么做某事: n! r8 f4 G4 g1 `8 O7 o$ r" M+ I2 A
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.+ n. G) ^$ z1 F# \; f
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。
) b, q+ N6 v( j, `3 _% d8 xHave you ever done that?: {6 a: B! s* e7 c: H2 Z& N/ x, {
你曾有过这种经历吗?
7 x6 ^5 q5 T! J4 ?7 UI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.! ^8 r+ @% R+ U K5 S
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
" d5 }* j. o I% SI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
& [, V' b0 R0 |. _9 h我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。9 @8 I' |# u8 ]0 P R
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
/ o7 X0 [7 p, N$ u6 C! r/ X& b然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
0 h$ ]+ Z; b4 _Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.( w0 N8 k+ n/ f6 u8 n3 O
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
2 E1 ^$ V j6 E5 J1 m; f# JThat's a memory problem.
6 a/ d: q" z6 a" X* e& h \这是一个记忆问题。; l# v: ^* X5 z m; s1 C
I guess that counts too.
1 F( f6 A5 R" L/ p: f我想那很重要。. m4 S; e6 p, o, n# f
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?- B) Z& {# e- u6 @' n% x) z! M
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?( O& D& y0 u7 |3 Q: g ^" C: ]7 V
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
# m, Y# U) i* a! ]: z0 ]$ H* ~) X在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。
* U% q+ ~( J) q* @5 v# LFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.- o# E) H# A Y! s
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
. q5 a$ R( D Y9 v% h( r* o1 b G# qIt's always could to ask ourselves why.
) n# `! |4 S. e- w总是可以问问自己为什么。
/ K7 C8 z7 _, q4 [! f# Z( P9 d- LWhy did I start to learn a language?# x8 V- E7 F4 ^
为什么我开始学习一种语言?% j( `; w" r' ]$ I, W. \/ f
Why did I join this club?# q G% I9 U4 e" ^" n9 f
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?) x' L& e9 i N4 s* m9 c
Why my friend was this person?
5 m, a% j) }6 [6 B! A为什么我的朋友是这个人?& B! r' {, |5 ?, l
Why did I get married?9 b! Z, A: f6 k- r/ s7 G9 d
为什么我要结婚?/ g+ V7 Q& ^6 q4 z6 v# c3 Q% ]' Z5 ~
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
1 P: p; G' m) ]5 t" b4 q如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
. ]% H l1 q+ kI think we need indeed remind us of why.
1 s' F8 n [) D( G9 C我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
3 _1 z8 C' o+ b. Y* @# p0 J* Z" KOr else it's tough to finish what we started.
5 }* D4 o3 I, u4 V) R否则很难完成我们所开始的。
. @2 k. h P- c* f/ ^We stop starting. We quit the club.3 t V% m3 J) y$ @, J" b( ^' J
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。8 W3 ^& G0 h( n1 o. J
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged./ A! j( o, `5 m- ]8 ~
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。0 L8 K1 x. O8 E! Z# d
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
( \. ~. d* l/ z+ C, S& \问为什么没什么问题。9 S# X+ c% F. L9 Q5 l8 k
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
- ~. a# Z- J8 e5 ~8 [" s- n/ N事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。( q" C* @0 `) l, m& e. D, X& t! L }
Talk about it.: j% E5 m7 l" f; s* q
谈论下面的话题:
4 j2 X$ t$ O2 r, K; r! dIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
8 d9 d8 t7 }; ?7 ?4 H! X你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?* g$ L/ K0 l: g5 D
Is it a kind of distant memory?( t/ p8 m" I$ h/ w! k7 } s f
它是一种遥远的记忆?2 N( ` c- |& v! E& ?7 \
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...2 J; e0 t7 e8 N& |* H
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
8 U1 `7 w* E& DHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?% t, ?, b$ \% E0 a7 o- M
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?
- _! m" ^; y. \2 {" a2 ]Do you write memos?
$ C k; t# m. {( J$ ~1 a8 V/ {- q你写备忘录吗?
! @' x1 q( p, j! QDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?+ u1 T2 F4 R8 x K, O0 X* W5 {8 r
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
* m) W4 ~) `4 a5 g- D8 P& C2 i# \What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?' W. v! Z( j4 Z; W% C0 {
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?3 E, q; K2 X6 F" M+ S2 j! w% Q* S# F) Q
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
. X" k9 Q' m9 p* O/ u' p你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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