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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事
# D6 `8 I2 D' { h7 j. a7 t/ b' lSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.4 K6 p t! \) m, w2 J! C
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。1 t1 U4 w# g- p( y
Have you ever done that? o9 T1 `2 m: ^ S1 h' ?; a4 [
你曾有过这种经历吗?. d& S9 X7 v2 {% E, O
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
' Q9 f+ g G1 P; T7 g( q我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
/ s' l" X; w' o$ }0 R1 w$ aI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
& {* i4 w! q8 N7 U我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。# m. ]0 u N& t0 N: r. u' I5 e
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
; r3 g6 a" ?3 |) j9 z* y1 n; `* W, C( H然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。9 g" u; j: R: d6 G
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.# l* u3 \! w' Q$ k. k3 O
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。& l4 |. q4 u8 N5 v. p# k0 [
That's a memory problem.
/ P- J0 R2 e& H) [这是一个记忆问题。! Y* B2 L% O! R. N: q
I guess that counts too. `& v% a& ]# Y" \) W& ?4 ~ w4 r
我想那很重要。1 N( O6 b5 E, r' Z5 \( Q
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
0 S9 l3 Z; ?% O1 Z1 m- _1 e但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?
5 u/ D; `$ m$ x, u& [$ gAt one point, there was a reason we do something.9 }- ^7 J: T9 Q6 y4 A
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。
! |5 J8 O9 ]" t7 ~; g M* GFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
! ]/ f& U8 m; o, Q# [1 \! K对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。 k" R J8 [5 A b2 B$ \5 E& a7 ~
It's always could to ask ourselves why.
, ~0 [% T* k/ j$ S n' ]总是可以问问自己为什么。
( t, p" j4 p' H2 qWhy did I start to learn a language?, D" V* f+ U- E$ J
为什么我开始学习一种语言?
6 v" ^6 }9 C# [! y- O7 v& M4 E2 xWhy did I join this club?
2 w4 Q" U( d4 @) q' b/ L$ e为什么我加入这个俱乐部?3 C, U. Z! S/ w9 o# L
Why my friend was this person?' b( n$ m- \6 E# E3 E' [
为什么我的朋友是这个人?, K# R- J5 s4 R% l1 V1 l1 ` O
Why did I get married?
0 x: Q, X* Q6 H) Y0 ?& s为什么我要结婚?
4 D7 k, F, J/ P" i6 A) \" y6 R6 dIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
/ W; P4 R+ z9 S8 ]$ ]如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
% b2 g9 \5 M/ SI think we need indeed remind us of why.
, F1 y8 @- {! b0 p$ f8 @我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。( z8 x) ~% ~9 L4 h/ f1 j
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.1 E: d; T. B+ n5 x m0 N, p0 u0 [$ l
否则很难完成我们所开始的。6 p( r) k& K1 c
We stop starting. We quit the club.$ ?* l6 e/ y* z& m0 T9 g) N5 l. e
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
: N) h- N6 T9 p4 Q) JWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.$ D: d4 j |! _# ?. A% M
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。8 b( G- e" I: K& }
There's nothing wrong with asking why.6 L& V- H. f7 L& L' b# q1 g& R
问为什么没什么问题。
; h5 w- ? H8 A% s/ J/ WIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.% s4 o" g9 l4 E# Z2 \0 A
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。% j% X: O, I4 o' F# y$ E/ U
Talk about it.
2 W' y, k, ^) X, W谈论下面的话题:
3 H! [0 `8 ]8 o/ G hIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
) Z0 M) H: I' g6 H( j你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?4 E2 |3 d# M6 x7 p- Z& c
Is it a kind of distant memory?$ f0 R1 s8 Y* W% Y0 P9 S/ ?
它是一种遥远的记忆?) } `) y# P' p& x
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
. c- d+ G z, [# z) [你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……+ v9 S- [- T; r" C( x" f9 ]: e
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
1 h; B& m! X: y你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?
. s2 \2 {/ e# w% }7 RDo you write memos?* q1 Y4 K, L- t/ b% H! f3 g
你写备忘录吗?! f2 U. B g- m2 j( D% w- k9 ?, E( |
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? l) ]9 G) A+ e! K) @& v; ?
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?1 y; O$ G) F5 M) i! r8 ]
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?9 t% f5 H% Y6 F6 P
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
3 ~7 D' S; P% m$ K r% a k8 lWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
+ _ |2 X6 X: t7 ~1 b# G$ y" E0 L你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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