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Remembering why we are doing something
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7 _8 _, ]6 E8 X* z$ s! {, G$ ?9 v记住我们为什么做某事' K2 ^6 y/ H& p6 Z! @
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.* h1 v) B2 \- r5 b
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。' U5 h* E3 L3 _7 O% G
Have you ever done that?6 k7 d' S6 e1 _- l1 i; P2 B
你曾有过这种经历吗？' U. t( n$ f2 _% ^7 ]
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
! }$ A! Y7 b% \' x6 i我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。4 W+ { v3 O- n' F; O( x: F0 f1 @
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.
9 N, r& f6 m$ g4 X7 G我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。) [" W; h! q' k/ B0 B
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
1 S# l* p/ M; g; ^5 g* m然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
! ?5 E$ ]8 T" A6 }Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. q( Q4 p8 \/ p' m' ^
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。' F& f* V' e, b! ^% y
That's a memory problem.2 \( G G2 U; r9 B, F
这是一个记忆问题。6 [4 F8 l" C+ e l# U8 b* s
I guess that counts too.
2 L" v. N! w) F% G- f我想那很重要。. l% }7 t( c- p2 h( V
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?8 _! g4 z* q. V& v8 q6 e
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？% @& h: J: a1 W E+ X* ?
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
! T( P9 B r: E4 [; X在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。" k, z& W0 b# Y5 g3 |* n' a( m
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
7 k) ~, D0 D' U对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。
- v: s) W- {: n4 s. i- lIt's always could to ask ourselves why.8 L9 T/ k, X! }; T* |0 D: x
总是可以问问自己为什么。( K$ Z# P2 W6 \4 h
Why did I start to learn a language?
1 r9 x/ {, K5 p4 M2 W为什么我开始学习一种语言？# d+ B6 I$ Z& l6 }9 c" T
Why did I join this club?4 O6 V7 P U4 k, f& X' [; Z+ c) V# R
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？
& l- [ f* O+ `6 E$ Z4 V5 D$ C5 uWhy my friend was this person?, j5 b- `. V) @4 T2 g# I
为什么我的朋友是这个人？. ]# r. d& V: e
Why did I get married?
3 ?: {, ]6 v% }$ [7 e! @ {) l为什么我要结婚？; w/ T% U/ I6 x% M
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
- K- ^/ N% ^ P6 {如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。
' X P$ F# L# N2 ^I think we need indeed remind us of why.: @8 f3 i6 c0 d. b$ ?! s
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
# Z. T# l( C. d8 _. TOr else it's tough to finish what we started.
# {; |. w1 \1 E) B* X6 W: [否则很难完成我们所开始的。2 r& x& G- W) w5 |
We stop starting. We quit the club.5 U0 J: I) j; R' _& }1 a
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
# b! Z4 Y1 X9 y9 U* p" P) C* y3 sWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. l$ o+ ^7 h3 M& C8 c
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。4 X8 U' s2 d3 F1 }
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
6 u+ }# i) r# \: Q( |问为什么没什么问题。
0 I0 ~4 n# Y. B; B; I. \5 iIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.. t! a' p3 C5 b( L" C* b2 a, O
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。* [. @7 K2 `% g+ a/ c; ]
Talk about it.
" `3 v7 I9 N; T5 G/ Z- d% U谈论下面的话题：( J3 A" T" e' v" i! u
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?+ G/ U1 f$ g) \# E/ A
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？
9 l3 _8 c8 ~7 T9 F! FIs it a kind of distant memory?
1 C: H% S8 X: g/ Z& D- j% F它是一种遥远的记忆？0 |/ m) Q/ g8 w# L2 D- Y+ V4 p0 a
Did you ever forget why you are doing something..." }1 A, Y. @4 X6 x
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……% i6 s. }. l9 Y8 w5 l2 P' R" X; S) z
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
( {" `4 R, U! ]4 f" G8 i你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？
: A0 Y2 E) _7 o3 p/ c1 ^/ l( o% UDo you write memos?
) g) U" b8 Q) b' W你写备忘录吗？ o2 k u o' U& p, A/ `! Q
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
4 M2 |, y8 Y& S3 N你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？4 E5 T+ m( B8 c& L; q5 K% ]
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
: K4 ~7 p* W& u5 ]: w) I+ y! C还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？) ~: Q. F3 w Z
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?1 s2 v3 U" U9 x ^9 k$ I
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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