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Remembering why we are doing something
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5 a5 r! J; k% u. P" d6 l" t/ n记住我们为什么做某事7 K; A4 ]/ `9 \, Z
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.& h- k% t5 c8 ?5 @
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。) D" H3 ?) f! N; u a) a
Have you ever done that?5 c; W0 d! [( ~: S' ]; _
你曾有过这种经历吗?
$ n- H0 M( Y. @; p) QI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.. s4 ]- S9 F( r6 Q4 M! g) ]
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
% b% [" m0 ?: S" b6 l) p. ]I have called someone because I want to tell them something.& A+ g# R# @# F1 i+ `5 x
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。5 y" y% R5 b: ]; I! |$ y# B) A/ o
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
0 t l9 D9 l" m) S0 S: S) H然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
# L) c" e) t& C6 k$ R2 }9 AWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
7 J0 ^9 T; y! ], k1 `- Z" f哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。. S) S: c0 Q/ O5 i% X, W
That's a memory problem.% `4 Q- @. t6 T& K" e1 S' z
这是一个记忆问题。
) K0 T' I# a( }* `7 {: E, kI guess that counts too.
& A8 f5 U* o5 |* D/ p. d( E _1 Q我想那很重要。# o, U8 E; L+ W) C% b
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
5 ]" M9 K7 F/ M$ h4 w但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?) |/ {+ U" {/ [: H
At one point, there was a reason we do something.2 u( p8 F* G- _/ k
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。, [# e, Q; f2 W6 Q
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
# F4 c6 o3 o N( x# \# @对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。7 A" p; S, V, @
It's always could to ask ourselves why.2 a1 d5 @$ T( n7 O, x8 l; ]% q8 B
总是可以问问自己为什么。
/ l1 `2 ^) X$ ~7 S3 j* K$ h/ QWhy did I start to learn a language?& e+ J2 U, Z3 L. w$ ~& l2 J1 x- k% ~
为什么我开始学习一种语言?% \2 D) Q" h5 T* Z
Why did I join this club?
& W/ f J% z: f为什么我加入这个俱乐部?; P* |9 @8 ]3 Q( }5 U5 ^# u
Why my friend was this person?
% G- F+ f4 X* u; |! `6 c) ]' N为什么我的朋友是这个人?5 ^3 f* n" B$ s% n$ E7 v/ M$ q
Why did I get married?$ D, t) x6 W |+ L/ g2 z. S5 ]9 ~
为什么我要结婚?! V# b' B0 N* ^5 a L6 e8 {( E
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
& q0 F6 e, l% E$ n% j如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。3 a# R2 J# d! c7 m% x) P7 m/ J
I think we need indeed remind us of why.
0 r. H8 f& D5 u7 r: y我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。, c! \+ `9 j' q1 j
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
% F+ v/ ?- N& ?: M D/ a否则很难完成我们所开始的。
+ Z2 b* F9 s& {! K* eWe stop starting. We quit the club.
9 c9 Z$ q. X x我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
: x* `+ X. H5 LWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.: _# c) ~6 P* I
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
7 F+ d- y4 a5 l$ z" V( WThere's nothing wrong with asking why.
% C' b( t2 U3 E' M问为什么没什么问题。% Z- ]3 s$ F5 ^& \8 p; I+ I+ j+ D" n
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.) `$ o/ }7 W! r* ?) e/ I. m( S
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。# _* K) ]5 \1 f- _5 n4 ^. x
Talk about it.
/ \" E# }, x: N3 E. X9 r1 j谈论下面的话题:2 c/ {# o8 `3 d2 Y; @
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?0 \( C9 O0 | G [
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
+ O% i0 u! f" `8 {# d$ VIs it a kind of distant memory?
4 p8 X S8 R' |# R o它是一种遥远的记忆?
, Y& o5 `/ [" h- U U, D% g: BDid you ever forget why you are doing something...
9 \) T- t/ z' x1 N+ B0 r你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……9 K% |0 a! o5 m3 f
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
8 u. O' `# J# ~% V# y你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?& `8 k, d5 A& A% H8 g$ G4 Z
Do you write memos?
! ^+ c" g& i; o9 N7 _. v x8 ^你写备忘录吗?
c- T I! R$ I% CDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?7 u* M: F) ^, y3 I. A0 ~
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?7 w% X- ?) d& _& r: G
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
/ m, F {" k6 I还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
e2 t& ?. q- O' F8 XWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
2 y8 r# e) C( ?+ B" V你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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