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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事, P* g( I6 K/ j
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
( e6 B5 w+ S: R/ H- p! ?( d有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。& t+ A( Z6 t4 \" D" l( e" ^7 d
Have you ever done that?8 Q' P4 f/ K5 A
你曾有过这种经历吗?/ ?- Z" ~" l: i
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
# u D2 @. x n4 V( T4 X3 K6 K8 y" o我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
j C6 n, a/ _2 p0 F, h" _2 OI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
* ^$ W; S1 V. ~% ] _3 T我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。
# f) |& F- a: M& V8 l# sAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.: ?9 o# B& j+ { c
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。" D8 _5 B' e! `% j' O
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
8 e1 } I9 @0 D$ P7 n哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。! P! C1 m3 B0 | @
That's a memory problem.
9 `* N9 Y- N n# v5 l0 o5 j- r% Q这是一个记忆问题。
& q( X7 }5 v4 C& n" fI guess that counts too.
$ A. y# T, }( Y3 y9 Q4 Q' {* R我想那很重要。9 D$ U/ ^) n2 G
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
0 l- ~- k [' ^9 h, }但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?5 |% s" T! U+ f0 w0 B0 E! D' Q
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
& `! b) \ A# C9 y ?/ X, P在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。8 d% z, z: d* h/ |: g3 B
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
; A# P4 U' D6 f2 x5 V( s5 i3 z2 F对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。" e3 y2 A9 k+ \8 w) G2 C0 m
It's always could to ask ourselves why.! F. |- x8 h5 j5 \
总是可以问问自己为什么。7 G+ H. B& W ]
Why did I start to learn a language?$ S$ i8 s4 ?+ W. ]$ w9 t
为什么我开始学习一种语言?. x% z4 \! h! x" t
Why did I join this club?
3 W0 p* f; Z7 y6 P8 X m% v; L" K# ^为什么我加入这个俱乐部?
4 e7 x, B; K7 e3 g: tWhy my friend was this person?8 V, s" q2 l" N/ r6 j
为什么我的朋友是这个人?
+ v |& z. B; X3 Y kWhy did I get married?+ o: g5 D' H M* Q5 G* c! L2 H
为什么我要结婚?0 ?* E- S9 r- |, x' G) O$ T
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. w3 _# K. V/ V2 D
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。6 u# O; r' U, i* e5 G! C
I think we need indeed remind us of why.. m, u" l) O7 Y3 S5 x1 ^
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
6 {/ o s/ Q4 Y1 O" POr else it's tough to finish what we started.
! t2 Q8 I. r4 K6 l8 `否则很难完成我们所开始的。
4 }; R& ^" J9 g( e3 N1 F1 U" {We stop starting. We quit the club.
3 l! M5 S! W, Y0 J+ F我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。" h$ O: c; [- t5 S: {& ~" @! R. A
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.* e# s# V1 ~3 A' J, o
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。. F' g0 C1 \/ Q2 {7 U
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
; n: y4 A7 Z- }# A9 i/ g- l问为什么没什么问题。
8 G- z% m) ?5 ^- ~1 M1 n D. eIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
: k4 p7 }" C1 r0 O4 q% L+ G: w2 m事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。4 H- {/ Q3 s) t0 g+ r
Talk about it.
, g: {+ c1 v3 |# T3 I8 ^谈论下面的话题:1 |$ x6 D7 L( \" Y8 e: ?
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?( s0 u/ G, m8 C; w- W* }6 ^
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
$ V7 p* Q0 W5 YIs it a kind of distant memory?
\6 W5 f* f6 }$ t5 g6 [它是一种遥远的记忆?
( E2 U- n; G8 {$ A9 vDid you ever forget why you are doing something...$ q* I$ N v8 m! M8 v# K9 c; T2 K
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
( D3 j/ |7 U* [( L) \How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?$ `, m1 H4 g5 @7 Z2 j/ o! q
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?$ D& n. V8 B: v! Z
Do you write memos?
% A t" m3 n# M: R你写备忘录吗?' l; `0 d0 n7 r
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
: i6 D+ u k& {1 m6 T你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
- @7 o6 N/ q1 eWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
6 Z4 |9 D8 s6 B+ B( _还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?9 w0 b1 m! a5 G8 z+ O0 C6 \4 Y
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?4 w* A) ?/ K/ {. f, f3 ?
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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