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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事1 W: O/ `* H0 U8 i, X- K. [& Y
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.+ C5 L# y* \5 L6 J
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。$ S" a, Q& _4 X! `* Q
Have you ever done that?( _1 I. ^: V% e+ g2 x
你曾有过这种经历吗?% H6 B5 y1 \6 }" x
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
s4 g5 \. l7 s: S% H; i- E我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。3 n# m3 P* c6 x0 n* V; h
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.& J* @6 W4 x$ A* D m+ _
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。; Q F( i& T9 g6 U E, Z* u1 N
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.! H2 S! b1 A" M! I' j
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。& J1 V: O3 x/ g. H* U- r
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
' X |/ p, D. W/ Y$ O8 @哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
7 O" H0 y" e. x4 D5 y6 NThat's a memory problem.
* ]9 P/ e- L+ |' ]. n这是一个记忆问题。
7 W+ R: X1 y7 K2 c4 i' `$ ^I guess that counts too.5 M1 A+ e0 a) j4 K; ^6 f
我想那很重要。" Z; J1 V* E! b U: V
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?5 ?2 n1 `" V0 L- [) k0 K! o
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?) x' h3 c0 P4 X( a/ S6 a
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
; W* P1 T; q2 ?4 r+ U7 n* H8 P在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。* e; J8 a0 f+ U; {+ H v# r* ]9 L
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.7 y( V) E$ b, L/ l
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
: k' s( [* T. i& A! _% @! t& VIt's always could to ask ourselves why.
t7 E. I9 l3 W' c总是可以问问自己为什么。
# y+ i2 y, `+ j! X: y1 UWhy did I start to learn a language?
( t! u0 B7 d" \+ e( q为什么我开始学习一种语言?6 a. H% ~1 w3 f* I% ^& F& n
Why did I join this club?& U& b+ T3 ?1 o2 y
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?
( p0 Z/ ]5 e' qWhy my friend was this person?
, v' M+ O" K! r$ H3 S" F; A为什么我的朋友是这个人?; ^3 A5 h0 Q q* i% F" @
Why did I get married?
( R( `5 W7 V, O2 m$ W$ Z为什么我要结婚?( Z0 [ _) u% s- T/ t$ Z9 R F* U$ e
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
! @- l+ K, v* P如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
1 p' w; \8 e! J @! a9 f& z/ pI think we need indeed remind us of why.
. o" B3 R6 i; }0 M, B. M; j) Z我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
5 ^- U- m: g0 j, P/ g& zOr else it's tough to finish what we started., A' `% \9 D# \0 ?$ ]4 A
否则很难完成我们所开始的。6 Q& r1 M. @5 X+ `9 m- S, Z
We stop starting. We quit the club.
+ W9 P* ^# N- j- `1 L我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
! U6 J+ C) _4 Y. K! v$ e* kWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.0 N1 d( W3 {! a8 g
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。% p0 p0 C4 H* Q3 G
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
0 t0 G, K* z* {3 B问为什么没什么问题。" N4 \! v$ M: w% x4 @6 M
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.# [9 b% v9 s! L( M+ q' r7 e3 t, D
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。' r- Q" t: p6 Q; h9 c5 ?
Talk about it." D! g* `+ z! p$ [" q8 C
谈论下面的话题:
2 f U5 e: E! x5 WIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?. L& n* o. `. e9 n) l7 B) o
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?# q( J- y p* q9 p( E/ r8 z! C
Is it a kind of distant memory?& M; w) ^1 p5 H1 t: D- U
它是一种遥远的记忆?
; w$ e# r3 u2 a7 {: MDid you ever forget why you are doing something...
& Z7 @+ @( G0 N! D你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……1 h# e5 R% k) h8 k6 x5 M7 Y7 c4 A
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
2 Z0 A+ l- }+ A) P你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?. B+ r9 B5 ^( A- ]% j0 N
Do you write memos?
2 z! n% v, b8 @3 j* Q! S) M8 X# N+ b你写备忘录吗?+ x; F$ @: G; Y, E4 v) o/ e, W
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?/ G& n2 K$ n. E) D" R
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
. P" L% Q8 n+ S6 q. VWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?4 B4 \4 v/ f6 s6 m$ o
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
) E( n) d" z7 s; `% q) M0 @What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
! t" E6 L8 R0 f1 b' O( x. n, E你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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