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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事. o9 K7 [. B4 c {1 ]: t
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
" w; \. U- `6 a, h4 p# L, ]! ?有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。
- P% W* [! t$ ?# J; \% M- h( DHave you ever done that?0 V9 |$ M& S1 T; F' I$ V$ z0 {. g0 U; k
你曾有过这种经历吗?
8 j/ Z1 f" Y/ I2 d" A/ pI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.# _9 d, \, u q* @6 `
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
# ^# l3 y. B2 R+ `/ N) e8 @1 hI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
0 _4 c/ b; d: e9 ?& Q( ^我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。$ M& f# X1 K4 f+ `
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.' @9 l9 w/ K* Q
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。/ T, j: O5 x; i* F
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
4 N0 a6 x9 H" t2 ^! X1 W% U哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。$ J( T3 H6 x# L k4 l# ~
That's a memory problem.
! z s- P6 E8 Q# e3 d8 D# a这是一个记忆问题。; f3 h8 t1 j" e, ]$ t" [$ y6 T4 K
I guess that counts too.6 j$ T" f$ W0 R$ T! l* K+ I/ H/ h
我想那很重要。
" y. z8 y$ V- [But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?) g4 w/ R) [6 V' x+ p: H
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?: J8 }/ |) V$ S2 Q3 m4 x
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
1 R5 ?, Y, a2 W3 z9 Y3 F/ V$ i在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。
) @/ ]/ f- D. c, jFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
+ V& a* ]0 ^" n) L* `1 V g x对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。. k$ W ]( u& |
It's always could to ask ourselves why. [4 L# d) Y% `/ R
总是可以问问自己为什么。9 {; g$ ^' C3 G) j
Why did I start to learn a language? E; Y; {2 G) ^/ x2 ?/ r0 k3 T
为什么我开始学习一种语言?* h) ~" @0 w$ V
Why did I join this club?
& ^5 K) v& V4 M8 L. A& Q1 q为什么我加入这个俱乐部?
4 W& s+ ]! c! l$ H! i9 @( hWhy my friend was this person?4 |6 c/ t& E, t. q5 P, |) f8 i G. \
为什么我的朋友是这个人?
# \: L: }& z$ @9 f; @+ b1 A1 U$ vWhy did I get married?+ t0 h6 _) [" s, j
为什么我要结婚?; o) c( s0 @& G) `$ G1 W/ z
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
$ ^% Y4 c4 o3 g7 F# _) n( A如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
5 K8 N o# m: y. pI think we need indeed remind us of why.8 _ F* \; j1 W! u" R6 G, \3 r
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
- \: T8 x7 X* e% [# C5 NOr else it's tough to finish what we started.( E1 s: M u4 g& D* ]
否则很难完成我们所开始的。
7 p4 i( U! G: u1 {We stop starting. We quit the club.7 t9 L5 g( `- E. p1 i
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。" |' Y( q) p$ R- L, g9 W" }
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.' v$ N# ^* _2 K8 D0 b
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
% S7 ?6 V6 F9 [, g5 HThere's nothing wrong with asking why.
Q8 A5 p( X1 T9 C问为什么没什么问题。
4 P: u9 P, q. v, d% OIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.9 o) x! f3 ]+ k- N, U
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
1 {; s- l) r% o& LTalk about it.( w# I; O ?+ @" x! H/ H, M
谈论下面的话题:' M# R% i# r- g7 j! U/ Y3 H( _
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
2 z9 F2 H4 F9 W: b' E( x/ v/ e" N你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?/ h$ \) f: V4 l: \# I1 [& z/ a
Is it a kind of distant memory?
+ r1 @& }; J( I% r它是一种遥远的记忆?3 M6 {( }+ h! ~" k' I8 v
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...9 r- t2 n+ h+ L' {- Z7 W; v
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……" B4 f9 j+ d: f p
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?6 o, A5 W6 Y3 k' z% A; I
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?! r3 B% C) O# }# O( O# \- H
Do you write memos?
9 P' h1 T$ y7 e) W你写备忘录吗?
V+ j2 w, N! S1 x2 X8 Z }8 qDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?7 Y) X: i% T6 G8 @7 |
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?9 S" u9 |( K M7 ~( h
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?) A9 p9 U4 h; u9 n Z2 E, R
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
5 L4 F( U0 M$ |! Y0 g7 `# OWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?. S0 n4 }' @1 w
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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