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Remembering why we are doing something3 w& S# \9 ], X j
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记住我们为什么做某事
" U7 g9 ?: M2 v! KSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.5 u, Q4 h/ S) _
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。5 p/ ?! L5 p$ o3 `# N1 i
Have you ever done that?3 @) V$ _2 \& [2 H
你曾有过这种经历吗？' W* x& i! j5 j5 y# y' h: Z
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.# d( H6 q& p6 _. Q9 h9 f
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。
. V% i) k+ u& J8 P- TI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
0 H. p5 h- `& `6 f. H$ ]$ f: w我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。; l1 M( P: p/ {; F, w
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
5 ?0 g, i5 K$ {然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。- P# E" y) ]/ ]$ [" s# k* F' d5 K- y
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.# K" E. F3 C5 Y! ~) u* w
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。 ~/ Z% i' X R X2 p s' [
That's a memory problem.8 i1 N( g. r, b
这是一个记忆问题。
7 s1 X6 P* t t5 m8 o/ bI guess that counts too.
6 U% U! `: C: } M" w' L我想那很重要。$ n% a. @* w: J' B3 ] P9 D
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?: q* B% w0 Y" ?* Q7 ?$ {3 I J: V. N
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？% j( p% ^8 p" I& `% C s
At one point, there was a reason we do something.# }# f; G! e) \2 p7 A. s- J' w. c
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。! ?3 h) U4 W4 K+ q$ T. S9 R
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
, K& G- F" ^2 l8 \0 x) M2 B# |对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。
# P% N9 R% N5 Q! W# a) e, {0 SIt's always could to ask ourselves why.( ?) X* V7 g& K
总是可以问问自己为什么。
2 {5 I* o G- I! h& BWhy did I start to learn a language?
4 F9 y: [* S% u- d M为什么我开始学习一种语言？
8 \, e. o' {3 q) Q& _ Q8 eWhy did I join this club?
( R$ Z" |9 |: \% r6 U2 J$ M. o为什么我加入这个俱乐部？
- s- k6 b/ @, ~7 kWhy my friend was this person?4 V% [, z$ n$ ]& ?8 B
为什么我的朋友是这个人？) w1 n0 p3 v' n7 `3 |+ A
Why did I get married?" ]# ^1 e! i' w3 p* s' h5 Q
为什么我要结婚？3 s, U! J/ o" K" U/ N7 I
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
5 o3 U7 I& D' V, p如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。
! ?6 N% o8 g; p# U( J3 A* ?1 |I think we need indeed remind us of why.
$ R. O Y. M% X& Q1 e8 m我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。$ D" @# ?7 d1 Y+ F" z( |
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
9 x. q5 b( v5 v! j否则很难完成我们所开始的。
& o4 g! `7 ~0 t! uWe stop starting. We quit the club.
; q: D: \( K# O+ @' a$ h我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。. v; O3 \9 j4 ?) W# w
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.+ }' Z- h/ C6 g3 E6 z: G/ Q* L# }
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
8 D* C) Y' J* t; s$ [/ J. f8 EThere's nothing wrong with asking why.% e: E( V! q4 v1 F
问为什么没什么问题。
8 U8 z- P( q: l, yIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
* S {3 m, u. }8 H) T- f! d事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。. Z u- r6 e* n) C3 Z
Talk about it.! O# Y: {- |4 P. j# P3 K2 d
谈论下面的话题：
& g. d3 g" I+ J) `Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?0 p! S, D# I; g" [0 U' v
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？, Z/ ]$ }8 ?- s" p5 n
Is it a kind of distant memory?' N0 d; s, w6 G3 b
它是一种遥远的记忆？
8 H4 }6 t4 b- s: N5 a- |: H" `Did you ever forget why you are doing something...( S2 V0 W; G$ t" }
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
; x" {- \# u) Q! O: |' H5 L- XHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
, S7 N2 e% T; u4 x6 V5 ]" B" H K你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？
0 P6 P' ]+ |, ?, q: `) K: BDo you write memos?
- W& Z# K9 n% W5 [- G7 E/ y* p你写备忘录吗？
$ b8 f+ k3 \5 E- `9 b4 O8 J0 \% \8 ]Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
! o' @2 D$ {, v! f* ?+ u你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？1 n" Y0 I0 o+ `6 [2 g
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?9 d( L( l7 ^# s5 y
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？0 N- c6 R, t$ D$ D9 Q
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?' E5 `3 p ?; V S0 u4 n
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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