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Remembering why we are doing something
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8 _5 ?' O- M! [! _# g1 y记住我们为什么做某事1 }" n/ _, n+ x5 I3 z* K* L6 { [
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.) _( f) s" l* r
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。, n u c8 R. I# d. J& w
Have you ever done that?0 y4 R2 b z2 @" i! ?
你曾有过这种经历吗?9 Y; s, R/ M, H* |+ _
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.4 `3 |' `) O' x: r, ~& E6 A
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。- V! W, d/ C a) B- `6 Q
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.) q! \; M# F- [) M- P; h
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。* B: `# l( _% G$ w5 E& Q, ]
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
- c y( a5 z% D( n+ L& _8 S然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。0 k! s8 v8 i9 K& y- ]
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
2 j- \. L& \5 c. h* z& G: N% t哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。" \; Q( L# L& o+ ~( g2 s9 @ ]
That's a memory problem.
$ R7 V4 T4 W0 {! ]8 \3 L' z9 A这是一个记忆问题。5 }" l- B9 x: W5 D% Y, j! m4 V2 i
I guess that counts too.5 l9 n9 R, e1 l- F
我想那很重要。
* S5 u, Y8 E/ h6 LBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?5 s" f1 Y h' j- f+ O! F5 o
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?
% B7 B) M( l: g+ Q/ D. kAt one point, there was a reason we do something.( z/ j/ v5 K( a1 x
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。. T$ T |. p' x( Z# |
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
2 h& U2 t/ L' C+ s: E( c对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。' v y1 a# c: Y; l/ T: n
It's always could to ask ourselves why.; E# J$ K2 N5 c$ F0 k2 W! O2 t6 T
总是可以问问自己为什么。
& y7 k1 L4 X5 } ^2 _; q! I: M/ UWhy did I start to learn a language?
! {& E6 C; ^" g% G; z" C为什么我开始学习一种语言?4 l' u6 Z5 p% O+ B
Why did I join this club?
D" r# T6 i1 ^% g1 h# T0 q为什么我加入这个俱乐部?( r( L0 y0 a8 w' F5 ^
Why my friend was this person?
1 d; o- D; A3 g1 s( \为什么我的朋友是这个人?
: w) b/ I. C! NWhy did I get married?
( h3 j$ f' n0 v( C- ^: V为什么我要结婚?
% `& i8 a5 l' f, sIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.8 m* z: {7 K( Y+ J+ |* [# {) K7 b% t2 D
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
. Z' Y! _' l- \I think we need indeed remind us of why.! @8 l L$ a9 H7 x* M
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。7 E- s/ H5 z; f. l% m z
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.4 a3 d# K6 Y- ~- {# J6 U. G
否则很难完成我们所开始的。
! x& W2 C, j j4 v9 w) ZWe stop starting. We quit the club.
* K% ~ X9 R3 o6 l# l0 l& X我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。$ ^: z8 @3 A/ z* N g; w
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
* G: Y* f7 Y% l4 C3 _我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
( b z/ P4 d: V; i* s) k) l/ ?There's nothing wrong with asking why.: T' Q; b. C8 x$ t, c. w, R
问为什么没什么问题。
! \/ r P9 b! Y" _8 S y4 sIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
: E( l N: A, ?$ D' L+ F! @事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。, D, x( {8 \8 r
Talk about it.) {3 { R: l! Z5 ^; x# L9 z
谈论下面的话题:
7 S- I& d9 x) G qIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
- v3 J; h8 f& R# t8 _你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
: h& [3 k" b, W2 s8 dIs it a kind of distant memory?# \2 u& R( X4 `* i3 B3 C7 A* E
它是一种遥远的记忆?4 V6 V: n: F9 \# Y% b- e) z ~8 r
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...! O, Y9 i4 I! d) x( ^; I4 K
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……) k; G3 S+ }! x
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
) e- V( I% G5 C4 Z9 r你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?4 F2 Q3 R( L, [1 x& q
Do you write memos?
! c' i+ x9 X" ~- M% X你写备忘录吗?
$ p+ ^ r# Y6 B: I+ s HDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?7 E& `7 E- y5 M- q8 R. f
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
* C. _' ]- N( h& K. p2 h( W5 y5 sWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?( j: v8 T! B* q6 s# H
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
# W0 h( b$ d7 D0 c& p" b- }What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
: Y0 }6 h4 i2 t你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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