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Remembering why we are doing something
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Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
- ^: {2 b/ _1 G8 t; I3 |. ?有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。3 ?# @+ [, J; m+ n( W
Have you ever done that?
, r* X8 V# M$ I8 t8 F' @: [! w你曾有过这种经历吗?2 m) m! j% S7 v$ m d+ T' Q
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.0 N1 j$ `5 v+ ~; s
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。( B; |2 L) G% v/ K$ i1 W! F
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.! q3 ~# A* F; \; ?
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。
0 t( I# `) c3 jAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
7 z$ a0 s1 H- G5 V然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。+ J; g; `' @7 \6 T, ~& v
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
- j. U D+ \# ?% k4 `: [1 u哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
: G% `" p8 h" `4 e. `+ `& A5 SThat's a memory problem.
b$ j- s7 M% d+ s4 Z1 |8 W/ M这是一个记忆问题。4 p% B7 V! i6 m: m* D4 W
I guess that counts too.
. w, G! m9 f' R- \4 @我想那很重要。8 w3 M0 _/ K+ V& O; }% N
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?- Y( u" |! Z4 H+ Q( n
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?
* O- M6 m2 A a" a% \At one point, there was a reason we do something.7 |" ~1 f+ r: {& l
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。9 a; s/ K" s5 S+ K+ y! w
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
7 L$ z" B& m9 Y! k/ E对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
( y4 S% x9 `# Y' L9 v) qIt's always could to ask ourselves why.) w6 s9 k( y# A& _# S
总是可以问问自己为什么。
& ~2 j3 o3 b Y3 L/ E b7 n/ e4 gWhy did I start to learn a language?
9 L: g( V. R+ V% i) E; U为什么我开始学习一种语言?
# p: d; l& o3 X0 x: n4 vWhy did I join this club?
# N! Z7 ?% [4 C5 |+ i. U/ k% |4 n, D为什么我加入这个俱乐部?
( F e, P( ]; ~" t& `Why my friend was this person?0 q" T& S1 ^" f8 h$ b
为什么我的朋友是这个人?
; W/ I9 P u4 W2 xWhy did I get married?5 y$ K' t; _% X
为什么我要结婚?: S9 B2 S0 M, P( @
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.# w3 A6 |& q; e
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
: p8 |) T- I- A5 h' K. H+ n" iI think we need indeed remind us of why.
' D6 D9 @4 O5 Q* e/ g: o) s我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
9 e3 g& Q+ q$ y6 U9 C& iOr else it's tough to finish what we started.
. [- L1 f! q% c5 m! H! b/ E Y否则很难完成我们所开始的。8 t! o6 Y5 G* v4 _
We stop starting. We quit the club.3 l _. i6 ]9 L& M J, h; i# i
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
# l( p- k, T9 k* U$ V' s$ rWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.: r! Q% i3 c) `+ g$ {( V# I# y+ q
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。& m! q. G1 s+ [* M- _
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
) ~# e* d3 g5 \$ J2 j问为什么没什么问题。
8 @+ J/ U, ^5 j' W T7 rIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
0 v: g: A% _+ ~0 ` Q9 F事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。' {; @9 s& u# `- U' V7 b
Talk about it.+ j2 ~2 z/ M4 l3 n, e" J1 c9 h
谈论下面的话题:) H# p( @* y; Z$ ^4 o
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?# u9 D9 Y7 y) @, g. v6 S
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
, }6 B+ L' l; L' pIs it a kind of distant memory?
, [1 j% a8 w9 }9 A: y! ^它是一种遥远的记忆?* H3 l% t4 f2 x2 m
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
: G8 J2 u: L y你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
3 p" a7 J% I6 @$ uHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?5 [" C4 Q, Z0 e% ?1 ?) g: p
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?2 {1 y! p% J' X. ?' k1 c
Do you write memos?
$ m! q! S/ V, h( R# P% c2 O你写备忘录吗?( K; v+ K9 {7 Y* Z9 ?1 ^
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?4 v; @' p4 R8 T% C! e1 z
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?4 ]2 c9 L% ]2 \
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
% I. S5 k2 ?- K. c: f b还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?) ^$ E: _% a# ?1 `
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?1 s' U# F2 p5 G7 c. z, M
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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