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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事( ~+ \( S1 \! f- A1 h
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.% {% M3 {$ F. ]! ?" e* A: H7 t
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。& @, D( {) ?& p
Have you ever done that?
. J" _# w0 l W& q你曾有过这种经历吗？4 L& v1 J' ~* {: w; a; O
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.7 S, q/ [* ~) i$ _
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。
, c, j% z: G. s$ e1 PI have called someone because I want to tell them something.2 j) m. l4 z9 j5 W
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。8 m+ P2 F$ m. _: Z/ d% m7 d& ~& E5 X
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
, n: B4 X+ {* b# y+ m$ W f- v2 G# m: ]然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。/ d" o8 Z/ V7 n
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.$ O6 a: ?0 H0 N. z% Y& H+ w
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。5 b: d; g& Y/ ?3 Y) s, b
That's a memory problem.
; e7 }. S8 r* n! {) ?( {$ N' q这是一个记忆问题。+ s$ S9 S; h7 {6 b* d7 M
I guess that counts too.
6 v9 z5 d3 N/ k# b# l2 t我想那很重要。# w3 u1 b4 s- J& }( O# |" B
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
. V5 z( ?' `1 Z9 l但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？% e0 [/ l! u( G" h
At one point, there was a reason we do something.! r& l) x1 u7 j& J
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。$ V" M. v4 d: \) r: T- U1 ^1 m
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.) E+ P# v0 }( I: Z: [( V* G2 H
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。
! s4 K7 G( k' ?9 F$ H: `" M4 RIt's always could to ask ourselves why.; P6 B- P. R: i/ ]0 N+ }, R
总是可以问问自己为什么。
# E2 b x7 p0 G$ \' d2 PWhy did I start to learn a language?
, v6 ^* ]0 G7 e* D; Q7 h' W为什么我开始学习一种语言？: A4 f& f: P3 ?" ?- y
Why did I join this club?
% t) r- j' I) U. y! l( w为什么我加入这个俱乐部？8 D7 q' J$ |9 _, K: @+ r
Why my friend was this person?6 q7 n7 d" {2 O" r2 N' C1 l& x! Q
为什么我的朋友是这个人？5 p+ u* J# m, O) Z9 G6 i' J; y
Why did I get married?
5 e' m: z* o3 |7 ^* B7 E" L4 X2 W8 `为什么我要结婚？
7 V% X0 r' O# u8 ?If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.5 R- \# d5 @1 h
如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。, ^ a5 C: c+ C) K j3 b
I think we need indeed remind us of why.' H# ?0 Y |# y7 v
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。+ \, v. i' Q4 m) P! y; u+ F
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
9 ?0 u) w- G& P7 M! N( z否则很难完成我们所开始的。) K2 w7 d& ]' q+ G
We stop starting. We quit the club.
8 {* i4 O+ z6 n1 B我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
! F) t2 K+ x- f/ b% I3 E2 EWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.1 U) e8 `4 e/ E( T3 Z0 I6 f- D
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
8 L- }/ q! `; i$ g3 }: ~There's nothing wrong with asking why.$ B3 W- F: @: W: q* ~9 y A
问为什么没什么问题。5 o( D: Q: s1 |: R1 ? Y
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
. N* f. T* T; l事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
0 K3 K+ k& d7 ~$ w8 U" s5 V- F+ CTalk about it.
5 D0 R& {6 H6 d0 h& I2 ^+ n" n谈论下面的话题：8 R: y2 {& j8 h9 K
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
- T2 M6 q: q2 y$ H你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？+ [7 {0 ^ H3 N" x& }; P0 y, N
Is it a kind of distant memory?
+ H$ H) }9 e6 m- {它是一种遥远的记忆？
: G1 G; G u9 ?/ i% `7 H) W fDid you ever forget why you are doing something...5 w3 e0 s9 Y; {$ v
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
; L$ o+ ]6 R9 B5 iHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
: l/ Q; |4 F7 U7 G | d你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？+ T/ o9 s5 z& b# B- c
Do you write memos?
6 l% D6 i0 C* E6 y6 |你写备忘录吗？
% W! Q, a& z( v: ^; D2 `Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
9 Q* F6 R) r* N. _ T你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？: H9 a; y$ ]0 W# V$ C3 c
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?$ a* w* F. J/ j x, h1 H6 [* S
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？
7 N: h" x8 S$ {* G3 G d0 l2 c. S! gWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?, t7 n. S- t, j
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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