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Remembering why we are doing something9 O0 F! n7 z' [& }+ L: b
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记住我们为什么做某事
- }9 i/ I" A( l6 q) B; ~Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
y1 s' Z8 ]6 k7 J5 F, { c" a有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。2 O" a1 n! m: U
Have you ever done that?0 Y% i: v. D* X( Z; B) |
你曾有过这种经历吗?
" {; o. c+ n! V" mI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.) q% Y: f# [) m. L
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。1 q; X8 h" Z; G0 D: I
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.2 a" C: U1 i7 t/ P
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。
9 ]+ i- m+ f$ E% [And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.$ b [: t4 M) }2 k# D& \( o& A7 Y- r, d
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
3 Y) D9 g7 O( ]% {Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.0 D w- w4 n6 o. ?2 M! ?; U2 [
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
% Y8 b. U( e' w; k' ?That's a memory problem.' r' J7 `7 l8 a: M; I' N
这是一个记忆问题。
8 }3 O2 J! U6 i. r* hI guess that counts too.
* n* V5 ?7 T- W" X& T! T. M) k0 a我想那很重要。% U% F8 g7 f" T- T
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
- b4 E# z& f" Q5 d: V但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?
5 r" s+ a) {9 `5 qAt one point, there was a reason we do something.
* V/ D$ w% a& H) T在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。! m; v: q& ~! M& f
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
5 C! a8 H: x$ }/ `: E6 i" Y对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。" q; |4 @" Z& t9 g5 q
It's always could to ask ourselves why.
- r; {: s% K# V) T总是可以问问自己为什么。' r8 g/ P& I: N0 e7 |: a
Why did I start to learn a language?, B$ }% D C' I4 w
为什么我开始学习一种语言?
1 R a- Q' w7 N# m" sWhy did I join this club?4 ]* y; q2 N6 X
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?. g( s/ I; d9 r5 Q' g/ }
Why my friend was this person?; Y( F# D# H- R& {* {
为什么我的朋友是这个人?# t+ [2 H+ z8 z7 M
Why did I get married?% R. m( e: D Y2 i. q# o$ k
为什么我要结婚?
8 [0 B7 O- |8 I+ _1 k6 `6 k5 lIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.% [( }% E0 `. N& \9 }; D, q
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。+ C! n$ p8 e/ f' F7 h
I think we need indeed remind us of why.
, v8 ]) c; T' E2 q2 @3 Z$ q我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。3 C7 F3 x" ^! m$ _
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.3 V$ h+ \3 z4 }9 u3 W. D/ r2 m
否则很难完成我们所开始的。( u2 ?* z1 M0 f) ?% h
We stop starting. We quit the club.' b) ]* I% _. T3 X/ M1 U: D! z
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
( K0 c% i6 \# F, ~2 [! |7 DWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
, a$ s: K' Q5 O我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。+ F% o! m& B1 Y T& j* n6 X
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
, G4 W- T5 J( O问为什么没什么问题。
, U9 K0 S% N3 \! F7 Q! W6 yIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
# m: k2 D& Q8 g$ c% `事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。- f" k8 a# j4 q0 p; D" t! T8 N: |3 |
Talk about it.
; z" K7 G5 z1 t: ?谈论下面的话题:
7 M6 j! H/ h/ v% }Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?5 W$ X1 L) `1 s. D( m% I3 `
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?6 N& I# h( k* s5 p4 }
Is it a kind of distant memory?2 g' K; j1 x6 _+ N6 z
它是一种遥远的记忆?) P6 |" r) y2 ?
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
$ n3 g1 I# z" s! {0 M4 _你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
1 ?+ j% O* {6 T: z8 q- r3 |; ^How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?" d7 }8 W: s6 I; Q- K2 O% m. }
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?$ _5 ^" e9 Y5 D
Do you write memos?
i: s; h* z3 \你写备忘录吗?' d6 ?, O! @ M9 n
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?" v/ V# c! x; c
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?0 F1 z' f- D; p; l
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?( r6 K5 G9 U/ {, C% R2 ~ }
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?3 y) @- S5 E4 a9 g
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?3 y; k& f7 C' R
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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