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Remembering why we are doing something
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M" z: G0 H! ^- f, \5 W# E5 E9 E记住我们为什么做某事
3 a/ f+ d& @6 t6 kSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.4 _, ]8 V D/ s( N0 h( d
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。
2 z4 r* M5 H* K' I$ z$ ^& E2 M! CHave you ever done that?0 O9 N& m5 p& z1 A \
你曾有过这种经历吗？. G8 C+ @* t4 c& E/ C! w% r2 h
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.9 t6 Q$ V# ?: ]
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。6 D# q8 t4 L6 u. B; l5 c! U' c# E
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.
; O$ F" a( x% Y+ Z8 H4 c0 ?我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。
" V& v1 }4 b2 _( _% }6 p/ xAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.9 E: L% g# X4 n
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
$ W4 N. `) G C, `) N( dWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
* N, F2 q D! K- K& v+ Q$ `哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。& \& s) Q. A" |) a* c
That's a memory problem.% a" P# b3 ~9 E/ N4 s5 [
这是一个记忆问题。
& S" a( S' F7 d5 g" Z; EI guess that counts too.. v# B- `" z# a' ~- V5 f+ ]+ c
我想那很重要。1 V# J4 w6 f* w3 u" a
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?+ T* o. b$ {& E) S6 l
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？: \5 R% {0 n; }6 X3 J7 \
At one point, there was a reason we do something.+ e7 U0 c) t j8 l; I
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。
* N. @" V7 q2 BFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
/ l: b- W* l$ ]9 U6 @对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。
' E) S# C' `% {; d% J2 Q5 dIt's always could to ask ourselves why.
- @9 `) l2 n% `总是可以问问自己为什么。
. g. r) X( x; s% c( zWhy did I start to learn a language?5 |- N* C2 a; k) D
为什么我开始学习一种语言？
" u2 |% H5 G+ U, R8 _1 r: dWhy did I join this club?) G- \5 N1 M" v
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？" p% u* t+ { w/ B
Why my friend was this person?1 w* _0 Q1 ]$ K7 J) Q0 Q
为什么我的朋友是这个人？8 h' u7 y, ?7 d' K( |) W3 \
Why did I get married?
4 T( D: h% `" F, z; N为什么我要结婚？% [+ T% n+ ^0 B2 \
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
7 G" @) H0 n) n+ t/ L# n5 l6 U如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。- g) D/ ?( x, f# g6 @* H$ O' W
I think we need indeed remind us of why.- l/ H0 e, p# U
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。/ `- Y0 P! ^9 s, Y
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. I) X7 \+ Y+ q3 x; r3 I3 Q0 q
否则很难完成我们所开始的。 M6 }6 h1 n# b" @9 Z' L1 J
We stop starting. We quit the club.6 D) J5 k8 ?/ p7 {
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。) k6 |! l# X: W) l5 i. `" k! D
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
" V% D! f5 p3 t! V8 {4 I我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。/ c" F$ Y7 b% Z) s9 ^1 ]4 s
There's nothing wrong with asking why.# A) l5 b* I0 \/ l
问为什么没什么问题。; w# j2 K( J1 T* |
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.: |( ^& C# u* z( j; g
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。9 `& T. R0 q4 d9 ?% D% c
Talk about it.- h: ]' e) N% a+ [" |% P
谈论下面的话题：
/ j0 s# y$ T0 `6 Q. K% _Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
6 _' ]/ S2 X$ e; x/ q; |; b" ]1 f你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？
* P6 P- t2 u" M1 Y, ?Is it a kind of distant memory?( P' D" X! h( P3 K, ]
它是一种遥远的记忆？2 r' m* s/ R$ f7 R% A. n3 Z# U, V( M
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
( g" w) J0 n9 r* l* H你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……7 E6 j* r. k! z7 ]8 F! X/ s
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?2 Q3 A$ D7 G' \& \5 D/ ^) k' X
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？" |/ |+ w2 n4 a' d y
Do you write memos?3 R; ~4 d/ b( C7 I
你写备忘录吗？# ^. ]& c/ W( i* R7 ?9 C2 B
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?; M" k+ Z. }+ i) b! l9 {
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？3 p% `0 A b# \
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
( J5 b# z, I# l' ]" D. N" \还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？+ n/ O8 Q! J$ [0 O$ F m
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?3 i- Y. q' Z4 s4 E5 p6 m
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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