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Remembering why we are doing something
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$ y; X; T, r7 C1 s/ G; z- [记住我们为什么做某事* v' j9 t$ a8 C# d
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.6 u% p$ C) ?; u
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。4 O( D* G/ `+ O7 x- n$ D
Have you ever done that?* ? a, z% @+ ^, M- y/ k- M. s7 s
你曾有过这种经历吗?4 ]0 ?3 W8 ]/ ]5 [! b. p7 c
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.1 v5 p" G8 ~% I0 x0 i
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
1 Q- {& M3 l }, ^* C: [I have called someone because I want to tell them something.
7 w: f% t# W) Z$ {我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。3 P) k! y4 f+ o) U7 b) |' J
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
$ \! w# Z; j& _$ e7 h# U( x% d然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。+ i4 H0 |4 v5 r( v+ w
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
+ ]8 X' B# ~" X# _+ k哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。+ g+ N0 F7 N* M. V- B) d/ [
That's a memory problem.! x3 G$ j; J4 c
这是一个记忆问题。. d! V+ W# d, Y. {4 v
I guess that counts too." t* f7 ~* U5 _! y# E# g) {% B* z
我想那很重要。& D# w O* z' r& `& x% t! P- t9 J) v
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
% Q: G% t( a- J% j但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?5 e) z6 q( T# y% n% n
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
% {2 B6 [. l, X! o# {在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。
4 }8 v, [; C% }/ s9 U' F) uFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.1 Y" V3 f" B3 ^, J
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
+ [0 @( t5 \" q# Y @7 PIt's always could to ask ourselves why.
; D1 t4 l6 J6 s: d* K7 r! V总是可以问问自己为什么。 r6 t! Q4 p' ]9 O( e
Why did I start to learn a language?
& K- D* v$ W( S) @' k/ [! Z为什么我开始学习一种语言?
' S n" _( \/ ~! X: cWhy did I join this club?" n% \) a [* ^9 ?5 s
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?5 h8 u9 D2 X1 n, I& a0 J6 @+ l6 v
Why my friend was this person?7 s# U4 m. S* ?0 P4 X1 F+ C
为什么我的朋友是这个人?4 V/ G- @& @" Z3 q( R
Why did I get married?" z0 Q0 I# w! J: ]; s7 A5 ^
为什么我要结婚?
* v2 T- X# x% N4 \$ DIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
3 p0 B' Z4 i* @# @如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
. f# ^- m& n' G0 l* h5 V, `# Q8 `I think we need indeed remind us of why.
, M6 l% S7 M% U1 M9 e/ h我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
- M1 D7 E' O/ y3 ^% SOr else it's tough to finish what we started.
3 n C: f; }; @/ O% Z7 l! O7 b否则很难完成我们所开始的。
/ ^+ q2 b N3 Y: M* u" lWe stop starting. We quit the club.
6 t8 |$ B* c9 ^& e! s我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。" F& U; O8 V9 A& b \
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.7 f& z/ `: H( T" U1 I- a
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。6 _5 ^9 B; b% u! z3 t: }7 H- c
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
% d v! d @& T7 W1 r, k* L问为什么没什么问题。# \4 d, G9 C3 V) T/ C
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
n& Z- o2 u' p% L; v& x2 U事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。& M' ?2 r2 J* X; f' k* g
Talk about it.
) F( w: @6 M/ g1 O" `( `: ^谈论下面的话题:9 p$ u8 ^( {# x' V' h
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?4 w1 Y- {6 j( P) `: V
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?2 e& r% I2 R% g( V
Is it a kind of distant memory?
, Q8 j2 ?3 g7 s: m p; F! I它是一种遥远的记忆?
, @6 R- W# p0 ?7 T1 O# P7 b8 |# ^% r/ RDid you ever forget why you are doing something...( T& L) O8 P3 u+ |3 Y
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
6 i" s; ~/ M5 B/ E NHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
3 [: i) P8 V' w3 S( X4 T: x3 ~( b你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?
; k1 I6 s! R+ y% a1 H5 @Do you write memos?
- e0 I) m" Q6 z你写备忘录吗?
9 R# V5 W; n, U( L/ W: G8 SDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
6 L3 u. b% e' s0 u6 o- o你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
6 o% k) a: s) x* k uWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?6 a! y. O) Q7 J/ i6 Q
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?3 t8 G+ c0 o3 W0 ~5 d
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?- s: Y& S8 c: a8 I2 \! q
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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