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Remembering why we are doing something1 ]3 p# o V* m; `0 j
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记住我们为什么做某事
3 x8 i. ]& `$ j4 p/ i% j3 XSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.1 P1 }% n) K0 M/ S( m4 g
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。; l D! Z+ w: p6 F4 \1 v! q
Have you ever done that?
$ i9 }2 F! \5 }$ I8 i1 T5 ?& f1 ~$ E( h你曾有过这种经历吗?$ U6 O) _/ W" u$ W% r" ~8 |
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
- t5 Y* n/ P# q7 b6 i& W, N我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
3 ~( t1 o4 _) ~$ _+ Z) v4 i, r9 rI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
9 A8 ~# z+ r+ R4 m# P# E我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。
3 K, D% G5 h! t9 K9 Z0 z7 DAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
, {7 S( G$ j6 w+ H3 @9 s: T D然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
7 ?- l" R7 j) J+ Z6 r* i) D$ CWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place./ `; [9 |/ l+ e5 q+ h
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
% L5 v6 ]; f7 | L; {5 {+ HThat's a memory problem.
9 k1 q2 O$ L* f- V& r9 ?这是一个记忆问题。
6 C7 d' _$ I! d2 y! S% m' ^I guess that counts too.
8 f( h- }5 [# {' L/ h4 _我想那很重要。
# k( c* L) \- [5 n; WBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
) E- r5 ~* c d& x5 n' K7 j但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?
% n$ y/ x! ^2 W4 v8 {4 |, ~At one point, there was a reason we do something.$ O [! o8 F6 f9 Y4 d# b( T
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。7 h; g: m" l7 [2 f* ^) \
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. P2 H% v! Z, |3 Q
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
# P8 r" S' y9 p9 r4 kIt's always could to ask ourselves why.3 ]9 D$ |( l$ w+ q8 v" g
总是可以问问自己为什么。, @' |/ ?6 h4 B( U. P( V3 ~( I
Why did I start to learn a language?
9 M! n" L3 ]" v6 @& { W为什么我开始学习一种语言?
' b0 L% l& `1 _1 cWhy did I join this club?6 E: \0 J2 ?% e E
为什么我加入这个俱乐部? v. ]+ d( h* K! ]
Why my friend was this person?! M8 g# E2 Y" U4 a6 F! Y
为什么我的朋友是这个人?
; {6 M; j* |$ q- J( pWhy did I get married?, _' O' y$ ~+ j
为什么我要结婚?
' O: k( J0 w9 }/ F( s) qIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
5 M: M' O. l$ W如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。: K6 ^ m1 \6 a' D4 Y& j
I think we need indeed remind us of why.
) ]! O; n0 H5 z& h9 L# ~我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。+ ~6 j/ n* i1 N' R# B: I7 G' k+ X
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.' `/ K% I& ?4 e$ C
否则很难完成我们所开始的。* _/ ]; r k. H6 R" F$ W
We stop starting. We quit the club.% ?8 ^/ z# y$ R/ k0 |9 B& g6 \& v+ {: f
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
% e) G& R) A" K+ QWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
" } {1 n! V: z. ?& ^- `" G我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
" s, P5 z8 g8 F: E$ hThere's nothing wrong with asking why.& z8 E+ ^6 {7 O' H
问为什么没什么问题。
. v$ ?, ]# R8 N$ k( lIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
/ M3 {2 S) E, U6 A. F事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 d* L6 ?6 w6 H/ p9 f, F
Talk about it.
! c: P4 U: c) ]% z! |谈论下面的话题:% d2 C9 R$ i% \7 r6 j" m
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?) r( y9 _* y0 f5 D7 W T
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
/ Z7 w( p8 @# C+ c6 C# EIs it a kind of distant memory?9 s D. C" ~1 q
它是一种遥远的记忆?/ \ ^; k% c$ W7 v& b- i6 X
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
, u. e0 B$ W0 p8 B. d你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……# W+ d* X+ {) [1 G0 l
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
, q7 {0 S* x8 e8 c; A N你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?. E+ u1 \. M5 p0 \. f8 I
Do you write memos?
+ S6 _' f3 ~* u0 Y你写备忘录吗?
0 _! A$ ]: D5 L+ {& oDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
9 n9 w' r! c% O- L D$ \& z你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
* f) K# V( i0 X) Y4 {What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
+ I* G; d P6 Z还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?( S8 S0 \3 L9 p$ \& e
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? [" R; @% l. L5 H3 C
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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