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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事 \0 r* `$ n! J, U
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing. y2 H7 F1 g) h$ ]0 B, \: X" k- ^
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。
0 M8 w6 W- u, w, i, zHave you ever done that?
- I# {/ v# O/ _, r$ F; d- H6 Q你曾有过这种经历吗?7 D: ~$ T0 H* a0 ]
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
: H* x2 K6 b* M2 u0 e! G2 [" r我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
6 T/ N& |! `! [) {0 a% |& ]I have called someone because I want to tell them something.3 ~+ Q: a# H" b* p9 C
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。3 n7 h/ o" R# C8 }; J. O- g
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
# U: Y6 M1 |! [; v) ?: l! w1 n/ m3 J然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。4 W4 e1 Z, o3 S8 x F. l$ n2 `
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place." a% n% M) l. b! e- `8 J! ?
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。( Q4 i( ~6 U& n" o5 c
That's a memory problem.) Z% h3 h. k* ^( J
这是一个记忆问题。
' f1 Y. h/ K1 [9 zI guess that counts too.
( L4 D' j c5 w' B我想那很重要。5 v. Z6 V0 F) e
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
- Q5 B3 p8 T# L9 x但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?" J/ `$ i1 a9 x! P3 p; z5 V" p# j
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
{; @/ H1 {( {) a: m在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。
5 C d+ D, @6 t6 p5 d. d& ^3 ZFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.. x/ ]5 N+ C& _' I7 b) S
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。9 ~8 Q2 ]' _5 ]4 c
It's always could to ask ourselves why.! ]) L8 s; t! e' b- U+ e. ]' A4 G
总是可以问问自己为什么。) e- y B `5 v4 [
Why did I start to learn a language?
0 t8 U2 R& f) N! S3 Z- t# F为什么我开始学习一种语言?2 ?% I+ e F4 |& P- e
Why did I join this club?& Y" p U* B5 d% h' `4 l
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?
3 `. ` j" D. ?$ c% wWhy my friend was this person?
$ X" C2 P5 r8 T, |' M4 y为什么我的朋友是这个人?
) O* q5 Z: x% u R1 w( yWhy did I get married?5 p( S4 g6 N/ E7 q& @+ h) [
为什么我要结婚?9 ~* S) G+ |$ O. t
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.5 w* S9 x5 `7 b1 O$ d I
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
! Q; v4 k |$ x$ U) z3 l4 bI think we need indeed remind us of why.# H+ |5 a# V1 x } i$ l8 m5 ? k$ A
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。( v1 U( u7 E+ d. m1 w- j/ L6 U
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.9 d z ~% C5 ?! v3 u
否则很难完成我们所开始的。9 z8 p4 U% C9 W, F
We stop starting. We quit the club.
6 I3 U# t$ [) T$ g我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
' v( N8 g ~3 lWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.# y' B5 Q+ `% ]2 s: ~
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。, I) e/ A2 w" p. }: p' T
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
, E0 g1 a0 j' I+ |/ [& A2 _问为什么没什么问题。
* m# g7 ?5 v( I# g/ zIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
7 l9 V7 u* W: e: t事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。. U8 J2 m$ j* e, ?* z
Talk about it.9 V1 `* P1 _0 F1 B
谈论下面的话题:
* P$ w, K. t% K) T4 j0 nIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?% j/ x7 r( i9 _0 l
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?+ q5 [ _2 l" f" E% v! i
Is it a kind of distant memory?
7 c$ w' I4 V) g0 t, k它是一种遥远的记忆?
0 ]) D; F5 {4 S1 |9 e9 B& }Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
, j6 X) v% U U) z你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……" R6 ?4 b7 V4 l% X
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?% J0 e. h) S3 A( {% t, c- h* R8 j
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?0 _, T+ `8 x% ]% O" \
Do you write memos?; ^! L7 J, u1 ]2 C1 t
你写备忘录吗?
7 F, r6 n7 |' e: g t: a1 l' |Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?8 m8 C1 o0 m+ W: K! _
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?; V4 p5 L/ C |8 T1 a* x" s2 J
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?. I& H( g% X* f ]- H7 V+ A! z
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?# h9 @" X1 P4 P8 Y
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
( X1 m% ]( V) h6 z1 P0 {" \2 q+ o% L你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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