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Remembering why we are doing something* O, z: x1 |% ^3 F
, | ^) q2 v, [; D7 v记住我们为什么做某事& U& z8 [7 M! ?. n/ Z8 f* e$ {: X
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
3 M& c1 S* n }- O# g有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。
# x; F8 c( k5 Y: s- l) y& CHave you ever done that?+ b9 R2 o- \ R) }6 s3 `, N
你曾有过这种经历吗？
! n. i [) t" c% f3 u. NI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
; q2 n- w' j) U4 K我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。
! [! Q9 p1 K5 ]3 _+ l1 NI have called someone because I want to tell them something.! E; O; R% G5 \( J: D
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。! n3 M% \1 G. G- I0 u
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.0 q" ], E8 S; _4 t, ]4 W
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
" d- H6 ~2 }8 V1 ]8 `0 [! t+ \/ t! dWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.( `2 W+ v, { S2 W+ I3 r
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
' V: W+ Z8 Q% h0 F4 |4 ~That's a memory problem.4 N1 `7 g1 T9 |. s' I
这是一个记忆问题。3 v: [9 G2 w% _1 P" f( u6 Y' M( Z
I guess that counts too.- l+ F. d- `5 o! r; D0 }: ?
我想那很重要。
1 p% R4 P; w5 a TBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
/ r3 d2 }! W2 t但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？! w/ N1 b' ~* h6 r Y
At one point, there was a reason we do something.7 c0 _- n8 d/ B0 w+ {
在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。
1 J* D. k- F1 ~; ?- U$ L& t+ |. |7 {For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
/ [/ e" A; @3 O1 f% v' x- ^$ G! R对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。
4 M0 R; b" e/ R8 {It's always could to ask ourselves why.
; h, E, F2 O2 h5 Y0 h. r& I总是可以问问自己为什么。
" l7 h4 `4 b( H& z7 a/ \3 NWhy did I start to learn a language?, B7 R0 D2 ?/ c, c1 A- ~: B
为什么我开始学习一种语言？+ t) x) G0 q- @/ {9 L4 J; T
Why did I join this club?
5 w" i+ \/ Q+ E! Q/ F4 ?8 l为什么我加入这个俱乐部？# w: J' W' f E$ f. t( s5 |5 T
Why my friend was this person?! `4 x7 `' G6 r# P& O
为什么我的朋友是这个人？
4 ~( }" X9 o* H' TWhy did I get married?
8 u' @, @6 N" @7 n" ~) Y为什么我要结婚？
$ i% m' L! f/ J# H! H2 o5 GIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
# U: y) H9 O u6 l" G4 m3 Z如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。
* |7 v$ u2 G5 o5 ~; z' U2 QI think we need indeed remind us of why.
* n7 e X9 ]" e9 l我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
8 t% A6 `+ m% z9 |Or else it's tough to finish what we started., C1 }" h* @8 I4 G+ S
否则很难完成我们所开始的。' B6 c u! s! o/ |
We stop starting. We quit the club.4 z: V: U% O/ C
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。' V: z" @& d9 u% K/ ?" @
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
7 r5 M( g7 q9 ]1 a5 U我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。$ C5 @8 }% i3 p3 {4 @
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
3 W5 J8 @- {: R; K1 f问为什么没什么问题。
" Q2 D |5 J, V/ ]3 gIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.+ x- g. n4 N9 | d' M
事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。: S$ n& \7 b+ A# {5 w: @ }
Talk about it.
5 Y! r: k4 r7 H c) r谈论下面的话题：
6 s) e' v2 a# G; g( V6 n2 |7 WIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
" o( q7 U) H3 l你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？
/ j5 I( q: y" DIs it a kind of distant memory?/ m& |- y: i! o7 T- T, u+ C0 \
它是一种遥远的记忆？7 s" |5 b0 R) E; H' X' a
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
' M: o( L* c0 g你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……$ q9 k- S4 M) l( F, }6 v
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
) `3 B$ _1 {' s/ {* k. t; H% X你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？
* T$ n8 E- ]6 n7 H1 W+ WDo you write memos?
( Q- k" O' |4 ~0 c, ~" T3 n4 r! w你写备忘录吗？
( `# B/ ?1 k6 `7 _4 `; pDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
; F9 M# d0 d5 ~5 ~4 @' L- X X/ ^你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？- w: U0 U$ b) c2 b
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?" Y% e9 x$ j6 ~# J* X J5 K
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？
9 j: f$ _. d- NWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?8 S' a& n% t8 y% _5 Z
你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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