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Remembering why we are doing something
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+ g! p. {( i' n* u; y6 H( V记住我们为什么做某事
$ s& _* K. }, ~8 G6 I+ Z9 DSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.( V4 i7 D1 m$ y6 H& I8 l
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。0 t. W2 ^6 D" }# d" z% K s
Have you ever done that?0 x3 b1 V+ x" e8 G' b8 ?: B; G
你曾有过这种经历吗?; U# `6 w; O& z2 M- m
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.. x- o4 `0 B4 p# A1 t" X8 c& |
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
' Y# E1 G1 m @2 a5 c2 x) YI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
' _5 u( b8 G/ k$ P我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。
/ W3 N- A& k- S/ p; @4 L! J: FAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
5 l& }% F n! g/ o2 @9 U2 H然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。- C& q$ v `, Q: E
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place. E8 o1 ^' l& Q
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
- h% K, u* D1 u9 e( F' iThat's a memory problem.
& w% S2 b/ t. [7 U5 y这是一个记忆问题。
7 J u# ^' U3 \# N( oI guess that counts too.
0 F* u5 ~9 z9 O# _% Z9 Q6 a* C$ C我想那很重要。$ U/ \0 I/ o2 j2 y0 `7 |( }. q
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?/ f4 n! H9 G* G; p% A
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?- F. H# @; P# X, `6 ]/ c" r6 T
At one point, there was a reason we do something. `. H* [7 D+ @( A
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。8 y7 n5 `' n" B" f7 m( G- |
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.4 k& \4 A+ T8 k) j
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
|/ z8 t/ p5 l- [0 S8 z2 {It's always could to ask ourselves why.
$ N ^: b' U9 C8 f' f总是可以问问自己为什么。" B" E- K% G n
Why did I start to learn a language?
- s r3 N, g# d- K, X为什么我开始学习一种语言?3 Q; ^: P2 L& b
Why did I join this club?6 P* Z; X6 w) V/ U3 l9 t r
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?
2 B) @6 q+ v& R, z% U; w8 }% |) [Why my friend was this person?
1 S4 e. l8 L9 J9 r, [/ c为什么我的朋友是这个人?+ h3 {: V. Y; i* T7 F
Why did I get married?
( N$ c& U. w0 _, ], ^/ A y为什么我要结婚?
+ k0 n3 S0 V1 b* l' t5 @8 kIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.9 I1 g* y4 U# S
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。$ Z3 q0 c* [( n" W, t
I think we need indeed remind us of why.
0 h9 _! E9 i/ n# Q1 `; C/ Z我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
- B3 y$ V6 P1 j; wOr else it's tough to finish what we started.
9 N$ I5 G- Y, O* ?: R0 |; h7 K否则很难完成我们所开始的。
5 ]% c: [: F: V# }8 jWe stop starting. We quit the club.
0 L3 ^9 T2 y6 w# b2 G& T3 J我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 ^0 X; [& v, ~ s }
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
. p$ ^8 a/ J) v0 _) |8 C: n, r% i我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。3 i9 k& W, A% j# U3 l" `' n
There's nothing wrong with asking why.( W5 `+ [. _" Q6 c ]
问为什么没什么问题。6 e' u8 E- T# A6 C; h k
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
( w/ @& [' J& P4 m& t事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
# }$ L2 g: v' A9 J/ S9 `' RTalk about it.
: {2 a; T# R( M9 a4 k: g* U: h% _# D谈论下面的话题:
8 s' o x! n" t) B% o8 K D4 xIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
3 Y" j+ |" N4 s* w你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
3 L2 N, j3 g2 U- {* aIs it a kind of distant memory?6 n1 V7 u7 B j' l
它是一种遥远的记忆?
/ A% J7 q, _! |* X; Y _! WDid you ever forget why you are doing something...: f7 B0 o8 E3 q' [& V
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
1 R$ r9 A1 \, J# b3 `How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?5 C8 W. j5 r5 l: w9 V$ ~( z! _
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?( i1 Q2 \2 P C( E: Z$ l5 [
Do you write memos?$ l: X( K+ ]- B$ ^/ f
你写备忘录吗?
# H4 J7 `# F9 m) b% i. t+ sDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?5 v0 E5 h) Y( t; H/ T
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?( U; R3 i2 n# v- g$ A
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
, e5 V" [1 }2 w" i还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?/ b' u/ V' P( n% C/ G
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
- \* N8 k8 U% h1 B0 O你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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