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Remembering why we are doing something( q" J, b* ]. F6 c5 G
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记住我们为什么做某事
* `( d/ z1 e/ m/ c/ x3 j/ aSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.$ ]1 ]" L7 Y" d! Y3 K; H, v+ \
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。$ |$ ]7 K7 K0 G2 o7 @+ a
Have you ever done that?
. C* F V- S7 ?; G. V) g你曾有过这种经历吗?( D7 B1 L# y- V O- \+ b* i
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
$ q+ ?- Z" s) `6 \5 F# d7 \- ?6 v我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
$ ]0 B5 @* \0 y c6 Z, Q4 D/ ]( kI have called someone because I want to tell them something.: e* T. q; s5 S5 z) {
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。
4 ]$ ~0 g1 _! ^4 FAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
% n5 U+ V5 ?- Y8 R3 |; ~然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。* `" }" u4 D0 O4 E& B% i
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.! ~7 a9 j# ?# f( @, E
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。& S- M2 E2 `- [( R1 _5 J& P
That's a memory problem./ l" V h) r( l# |; P( n8 U
这是一个记忆问题。8 x0 @1 y, A0 A% C) C6 A) G, Q
I guess that counts too.
/ x' j4 [0 _% f6 V我想那很重要。
& M0 _! p- S/ |9 ?But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?, F2 d; E9 @, ?1 T% t% I7 H R4 j. z; V) e
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?6 l% x, I: L1 { e2 ?7 z( [
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
+ ^0 N& R0 Z8 W8 W7 X% b( K在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。 `# d4 l& R7 r8 {9 T
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
8 |" M- w: Y; c R5 w对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
) r# H, S. \# p; V' d/ \It's always could to ask ourselves why.
$ [. O" F. f9 b: `' C) Y6 n" J! F总是可以问问自己为什么。
8 T/ F, i5 |2 f: UWhy did I start to learn a language?3 e* | Z8 E7 p: @# `" |
为什么我开始学习一种语言?9 I3 G$ e+ H5 u: ]& n* H$ s, d
Why did I join this club? k; y6 o) O9 s3 i! v
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?$ A2 A: l" K& S9 R
Why my friend was this person?
7 |, T& |, u' T7 c6 }为什么我的朋友是这个人?
* ?6 u- g3 P5 f" B! Q! mWhy did I get married?6 R$ D3 Q5 t9 S
为什么我要结婚?
; A$ C" \, B* {7 b- O, l% n, aIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
6 H5 j# E- y4 q如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。' Q9 u, l0 a. k0 L* b9 i
I think we need indeed remind us of why.$ P N9 k, u7 }( g
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。3 L! P4 ~" D0 E- b8 E. V
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
( G; X% Q; I$ E- j, u否则很难完成我们所开始的。
1 s* @ O. p1 j( @# X6 k; BWe stop starting. We quit the club., P' d; ?, e) ]
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。# d( K8 \* ~# m- c5 m
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
; d5 o! } O( z. r1 ?2 X% q我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。! j* p8 ]$ p- I, k
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
% J0 m8 n" p8 R2 X问为什么没什么问题。' ?0 T# F7 G4 Z2 j( P+ _0 a
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.6 V) K/ t& I2 A& @# p
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
: S6 O7 h+ K3 V. E9 a; ]+ `Talk about it.
" a3 Z5 h9 z. @+ e谈论下面的话题:
3 }. l0 v: c$ L$ }6 B* ZIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
% O) s+ \' U1 c6 e0 J3 T你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?6 x9 ?. s x0 A5 q" c
Is it a kind of distant memory?
6 E% Y! B4 u. R; A0 w( \4 L9 [它是一种遥远的记忆?
- S. F7 u$ K! c3 ^9 j, PDid you ever forget why you are doing something...# y. i' G/ w8 }: t9 Z5 K, J
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……2 W+ z$ c0 ?) k% v6 M; W* I. D2 m& }% x
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
/ T$ `5 S( b9 y5 o! k: O' d你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?
8 Q o0 K* d2 d( n$ u+ K; y: LDo you write memos?
! u8 D m( S/ ]3 C5 y你写备忘录吗?9 D4 s' P- M$ o) p+ h9 o
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?6 G) E* d [/ `- f' U
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?, K0 q( Y$ D+ b T3 |. b
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?4 n9 R6 l7 o' f
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?# o. [* V: ]$ a7 t3 ]7 j4 v
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?: ~. ~5 j& N5 X* |+ t
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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