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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事
4 n( w1 i% P! Y3 G( l/ MSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
6 z$ }3 q. O( U* ]4 f有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。
L7 R0 k! a3 w# `3 g% M! T; `+ _Have you ever done that?% O! t: M s( r% `) o0 T; s
你曾有过这种经历吗?
% Q% X$ a X }* k5 q7 a; v; iI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.6 J6 Y* Y: i# \
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
# S2 N) U @: {" ^' c6 R$ z$ lI have called someone because I want to tell them something., h T M' W" M8 u2 x0 I
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。8 R7 k |& k2 }# u/ Z' ^1 ^, {. l/ B
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.& Y9 W: J( G) J0 s2 s% K+ W+ z
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。. P* T& s" }2 D' p4 U6 Y; i
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.' r# Y% X1 @) W, d
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
. Q2 S' a' J s, q }; yThat's a memory problem.
: V4 N/ X) ^) U+ q: Y) [- W# o( \这是一个记忆问题。
3 ~( ~! F# X& W+ Z( cI guess that counts too.1 h4 i+ ~) |8 h( ]$ b* O
我想那很重要。* N n4 G" R/ g4 L$ g
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
1 X$ ~% v9 v- g8 e {4 c1 ]但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么? }4 H& S+ { A3 P; L5 |: x
At one point, there was a reason we do something./ v1 u# \+ O } T6 R5 ^
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。
1 l/ o& a3 l: n: IFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.* A4 h% O+ @; G @3 P9 l7 s
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
" |) q: G }; }# Z1 w/ GIt's always could to ask ourselves why.
# J4 m& w1 b& {2 s总是可以问问自己为什么。5 ^; h8 |6 M' a# X/ N
Why did I start to learn a language?
) L2 g" W8 p- Q& R! i9 L为什么我开始学习一种语言?
8 {4 e! n5 w3 u. j0 BWhy did I join this club? M* n0 w2 }% ? ` l7 p
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?, u6 ~' r$ i/ F, v) S# \: e0 e
Why my friend was this person?9 c a! S) M+ O5 J: |& q
为什么我的朋友是这个人?
8 ~5 g3 e0 Q. A. c1 k! K( J, lWhy did I get married?% b; y) z q; F3 @- `* [6 A, Q* }# r
为什么我要结婚?
* t$ B$ `7 n. @ RIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
% T6 E4 r% f0 s2 J# x如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
) c H4 Y( W. e8 N$ YI think we need indeed remind us of why.2 K3 @0 t) Z4 z$ p
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。4 J5 s, y$ r8 h3 y0 u
Or else it's tough to finish what we started., q7 P, |# Z) f- w6 p
否则很难完成我们所开始的。
/ H0 i4 r4 A- g3 W8 BWe stop starting. We quit the club.
' b8 K7 m7 J E( F$ j5 o% ?3 u' {我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
# f8 ^6 a+ B( o1 O. ^* BWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.! J. W9 e6 q' g! Y0 O% H$ I1 ^1 v% d
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
' k- B# K5 ~- ] Z. D1 P- LThere's nothing wrong with asking why.
$ n5 P, }% {+ x. F. L9 O问为什么没什么问题。. N v, C6 J' S2 X/ h9 X; R
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
9 v Z$ P( B* s5 x事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。4 X8 U. w: }4 j/ V- F
Talk about it.
; f9 V# l$ J6 a谈论下面的话题:
9 E/ l6 s* m/ v5 O+ vIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
+ W0 V7 Q8 L$ h你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
0 e/ P+ N" {4 T1 X) ]7 g3 ?# o6 r+ E; rIs it a kind of distant memory?
9 B/ B3 l% P* v) f j& S' r. {6 `1 m它是一种遥远的记忆?
! O3 J `, k2 c; f4 | O2 BDid you ever forget why you are doing something...# D5 ~9 A+ |6 j; t& @4 U3 S% Y
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……) h7 @/ P4 t, t1 z$ l- s m
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
( z; m* ?3 u( |& R) x" _# a8 U你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?8 y K& n9 F" M: K
Do you write memos?/ F' E8 F4 _' J9 F$ L; T5 _* Z& ]
你写备忘录吗?
+ @4 c: f i, rDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?$ w; M" B! M. W% o# l0 S+ E& K
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?) q7 k4 J# y1 i7 g2 N9 D; L
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
' x- x' U$ i7 C, n* A* l. l: w还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?% l0 P$ q- h4 ~9 P- ?. E& X+ }2 o6 Q
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? X1 t8 G5 ]! U) g# k( |
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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