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Remembering why we are doing something
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3 U" }2 T& f8 b' Z' o# E* J记住我们为什么做某事. B% B6 U4 J3 ?6 N# A$ {
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.9 @0 f3 Z4 \0 Z4 _: k3 n
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。
+ _0 z z( G. W+ ]0 [, [ PHave you ever done that?
5 c0 t$ U8 j/ S" B你曾有过这种经历吗?0 L- \ r) D+ d9 N0 U; s
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.7 Y. O2 S7 {& U% A7 h- ?' j
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
8 t' a+ J0 E& f( T/ r- `6 qI have called someone because I want to tell them something.( Q6 Q$ n+ e; L! t- e% k6 \4 r: L* Z
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。
2 T" V8 \; G" y* e: i" AAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
8 ?: Q# `/ a$ E$ W2 q然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。" x/ N0 ?: u3 e1 a2 F: v* q8 a
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
5 B0 s, m4 Z n( t5 L哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。0 O6 G. j& T+ K( S9 X+ _
That's a memory problem.
6 f. f* h& A! e" h这是一个记忆问题。9 ~- e! ^8 v$ N. n
I guess that counts too.
+ m n3 o: O e我想那很重要。* Z; h9 ]+ V+ Y& I; k
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?/ B m/ }5 V" T
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?8 m, m6 N( J3 J9 k$ z4 W8 m$ o) {
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
" q# @7 {; g4 o# j在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。& Q D3 c# x% Y4 M
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
$ _, {5 ~2 _& E) Y/ ^# v对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
8 C4 A3 b0 U( Z$ A3 V# k# k' ], TIt's always could to ask ourselves why.
" J3 Q0 c. L4 n% A总是可以问问自己为什么。
$ q1 A/ G! m$ Y: k6 M/ Y+ ]& E4 sWhy did I start to learn a language?
( n4 z8 J/ T4 i0 v; ^1 W为什么我开始学习一种语言?. o4 D; T! ?! h, N7 g4 z0 D6 p, c; Z
Why did I join this club?
0 E! e$ n% P/ v3 }: k为什么我加入这个俱乐部?8 t# r4 p! l; W6 F+ p! k9 u
Why my friend was this person?8 a: @' H5 h! T3 n7 U9 f
为什么我的朋友是这个人? g2 Z' }1 R! g
Why did I get married?
7 G9 V7 L/ y- z* p/ ^8 x, K3 k为什么我要结婚?
7 `8 V& K, |4 @: W: w( t/ aIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
4 t) C( _# M3 y: N" w! Y! u如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。0 O6 S; a, y! a' l! B- j1 z
I think we need indeed remind us of why.! p* n$ [- M8 r- c d+ k
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
' {" d( b3 h d$ f1 }, Z" s8 EOr else it's tough to finish what we started.( \2 t3 }$ m2 C( J
否则很难完成我们所开始的。+ P T4 {0 |4 ]) x+ e9 J
We stop starting. We quit the club., _; p0 t7 I) _: G: r
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。# r; J, I) f4 ?$ t: }( v# ^
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.$ N% Q( U( U1 m
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
4 O- g$ M. F+ A( c& aThere's nothing wrong with asking why.
* u5 [# a) ]: }0 T5 g) j问为什么没什么问题。
; d4 c# E* X7 f/ N: b* aIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.+ |8 u4 e9 r5 |
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
( q. F! t# C! L. c8 g' |Talk about it.
! x) t& |- D6 N/ p7 B9 V% ?+ D谈论下面的话题:' {. I2 T/ _4 g& G; } g" Z; K
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?) |* X6 t7 \& Y% ~" u
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
3 M F9 e% ]* K# v" IIs it a kind of distant memory?( G7 |9 E1 v* u% P
它是一种遥远的记忆?
' Y9 ?' J* z* V+ f8 X$ NDid you ever forget why you are doing something...
) o; f: N8 f ^4 R! C你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……2 ]0 B) h2 K* ^) B9 l+ G f- E" @! {
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?2 G. _' s5 Z) Y, B; Q- c
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?- K; [; o. x% y
Do you write memos?
& T6 X. {* I, x' l; w1 V你写备忘录吗?: |; i& s6 E7 U8 q# i9 Z+ o" S
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
; q* W2 o. z6 k/ v1 }! J" G7 Y你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
8 R" c1 V+ J o2 PWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
+ w9 i S8 u0 y还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
5 U* n: F$ u- J5 Y6 h, \2 W) XWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?2 g0 n8 ]' J3 Z6 t7 R9 z" d, z" K+ y
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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