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Remembering why we are doing something
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& W% T i3 V. s6 W记住我们为什么做某事3 @* Y9 n1 w7 s6 x; B7 d
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
- a! [8 t7 G, b* R* i( d3 M有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。& y: f2 f3 g, M, L) W9 Z6 _7 e1 U
Have you ever done that?
/ e8 c1 d. @: R9 A, _" X, F7 r你曾有过这种经历吗? E: r7 _) R R0 P. w" ]
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
b u; W5 J0 ?1 u- F. i8 m5 s% @7 e& y我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
! m7 e$ ? K+ s. S" q4 D, pI have called someone because I want to tell them something.* b# m+ `( q \" m# A/ C, x
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。+ {( T# |" p1 f7 n& n
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.2 D$ @; s- J# n2 y
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。, Y1 m2 S p: u M2 M! F- y- p
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
& s: Y0 t; r) U1 Q7 u. G7 W* i& C哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
# X$ @* d# m+ n8 aThat's a memory problem.
$ p. R, P# c- ?' o2 N0 l8 j& h这是一个记忆问题。
" U# I* @2 f4 N8 \' n8 YI guess that counts too.7 m: d9 q# E8 b2 r& r
我想那很重要。$ ^* ?4 S0 H0 G
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?8 I O8 w0 _ J7 I6 F- C
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?+ k1 a1 ?2 \8 @, G/ t
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
5 ?: e; r' L1 ^2 F% ~% q) p8 l在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。3 G1 X7 I: p3 j& A* x9 G2 x
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
3 m7 g" C$ \7 W) F% Z8 l对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。( ^$ B1 L3 p K5 h
It's always could to ask ourselves why.4 Q- T( X6 c0 S
总是可以问问自己为什么。/ J7 S+ {( I- S: s8 g% w3 z! ?
Why did I start to learn a language?
- n2 c+ [6 T" e: Q为什么我开始学习一种语言?# q9 _3 a: \8 N# }: W0 O+ e
Why did I join this club?
1 ], I% w* m2 s; _- R2 l7 P为什么我加入这个俱乐部?1 [) |. z2 H# {0 R/ O
Why my friend was this person?1 u- \/ v5 q( e" _
为什么我的朋友是这个人?# b% f, y0 ]" ]" p+ x0 Y7 n
Why did I get married?) ?, K" ^5 k- @7 e7 O& L. z
为什么我要结婚?
# P/ \8 r. i3 d: t2 x* MIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
2 q2 R7 O+ w& I+ {$ p2 Z如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。; X) _$ i6 ]$ k) V6 h
I think we need indeed remind us of why." [7 L- T* s9 u" g* E
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
! f7 \+ k* u6 N E( POr else it's tough to finish what we started.
$ h1 A1 w7 }- r$ {5 F6 y" h) k否则很难完成我们所开始的。. V- |$ Y7 e5 B3 w8 Z8 Q
We stop starting. We quit the club. H$ Z4 m$ o2 r S
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。/ ~2 q' b0 Q, N) c5 X3 K+ x% `
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
" p& P F5 E, T3 z. z% o& R2 D我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。( U: n/ W( D$ A7 s, ]
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
- ^1 B$ z/ ^: j) N/ W) u问为什么没什么问题。4 _. q8 S3 e# J3 v( m
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
2 x* \0 S, i. W; h/ h9 E" c事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。' `2 }+ K" b, ^/ u: ]
Talk about it.
/ R; j0 r5 {$ z3 [. Z( p谈论下面的话题:
0 } v A8 l4 |, y6 p( |0 ZIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
) J; o# w6 K* u6 B你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
: g3 h$ z: O& M# L( HIs it a kind of distant memory?
1 L) K3 K. a- Q2 N. @它是一种遥远的记忆?6 z' b% h% i$ U; I' d" X: c
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...+ s$ J# H' ?3 r, S' y
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
% B& S! d) V# nHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?' F* X; U( s! `; Q9 f
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?) b. d+ g! o2 Y5 O
Do you write memos?
# v' r! U9 L' y+ F9 F# q' P7 q你写备忘录吗?% H5 t* i! ]; p }4 q, F( ]
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?7 ~$ D0 j. ?, i( r( X
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
) U1 s& Z8 R! R% A: m9 H) rWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
5 @4 R6 Q; ^2 f( l( s& s$ @还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?* Y5 V- G/ M: \" }
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
: V6 }: M8 s+ O) T4 i你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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