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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事' Q" U& P1 @1 U- H
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.. @* N& c$ j/ D! u7 Z1 v2 x
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。" g' l: l( e" B9 x4 _
Have you ever done that?% z/ C4 s* P$ ]0 \1 n
你曾有过这种经历吗?
- n5 u! i, D5 b- ?/ C Y7 P& gI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.7 }6 j/ S1 Q2 D# @+ I
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
" u& i3 _# h+ u, d$ {I have called someone because I want to tell them something. r* Z* m- j$ `9 Y
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。
$ @, w$ o3 ?. M u* Q6 MAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.5 b. }8 ?; S% L I& z1 P$ m( d( i
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
; y' }* \) O+ e$ m7 n9 vWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.( n' a1 P; _2 s1 B# B7 X! n5 o
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
, V" ?9 P! C$ H, f) I* AThat's a memory problem.
2 q, H! Q. o; o! h' x4 R这是一个记忆问题。- _: y% [- N/ S; P/ m# p
I guess that counts too.7 y3 n' U, o; V, G
我想那很重要。' a1 J* y( f I* r$ @6 Q
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why? [/ e. f) t; x0 D" R, j- { P, u& Z
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?
; r, O/ K$ I, p8 {8 s. IAt one point, there was a reason we do something.
; H0 p8 C' C A4 k6 C. l+ I5 U" k$ U2 H在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。
5 S. J! a: F8 ^/ T# ]( p+ \For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
9 v5 S3 c0 ]' z; B( k- Z! W4 I对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。" Z# m) Q" f' k6 |! I+ f4 [0 k
It's always could to ask ourselves why.+ s- ]1 A$ S; y
总是可以问问自己为什么。% w2 I1 R) L2 S2 o9 _2 d3 B
Why did I start to learn a language?
. \% r+ f( o: w7 p/ X' B为什么我开始学习一种语言? d) f( j O( j% P0 u
Why did I join this club?
$ g2 J t/ W% A为什么我加入这个俱乐部?
- j- c+ A/ f" f; QWhy my friend was this person?( h* q. r" S& g3 V3 l( c: f
为什么我的朋友是这个人?: g, K/ H9 o7 a7 G8 I) I) s4 F
Why did I get married?
5 Q/ `0 o" A' n u为什么我要结婚?
& W! u+ _. y0 j; m0 D& z# h; v) s4 V1 bIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.3 n6 A6 P0 g- f2 J& {& M3 J w' z
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
5 G3 d3 }5 U: xI think we need indeed remind us of why.
% z+ G+ m# S5 q9 n我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。& K9 F% [, [! \7 `: S' M
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.0 R- e$ f9 m& W- b2 o8 A/ M$ \
否则很难完成我们所开始的。
# i% N# r: s/ `5 {% J4 eWe stop starting. We quit the club./ t0 ~6 ]# V4 r* q
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。5 C& ^6 [. b/ o
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
$ g+ D! s4 p$ P7 M9 n我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。; Z3 W& y$ D- `8 m
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
2 ?& d" w) ^* k6 M- x2 w1 ^. [9 w问为什么没什么问题。4 Y; |+ E. G% E, g) W
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.# U& o" x w1 D/ H6 g) V* n s) q
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
+ D) v" B; C( jTalk about it.7 `6 d: l' ]& p' q1 v& W
谈论下面的话题:
, n+ i5 m6 u9 U8 S. SIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
+ Z1 F0 X9 [ q. y% r; b/ [你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?# i2 e/ L% c) K9 m/ L# v' |' E
Is it a kind of distant memory? S) {" Z- \% P7 b9 ]! b& d, p3 {( ?
它是一种遥远的记忆?2 Y$ `, o( |3 x4 H; s( x4 e
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...) X% f" j: e, m8 i# _+ d
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
: p6 k( @6 A' o7 G" FHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?5 I" N% ?. [" B7 a. ]9 n, s
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?5 u- `9 M1 P+ G1 O% Y' i
Do you write memos?
! f) I+ V7 _( ~# a, K- A5 Z6 `你写备忘录吗?
. x% h1 ]$ J! f4 mDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?, D* b9 ~ \/ _8 t8 M8 @
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
0 t2 Q, _, S& b4 S ZWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
) y% L4 a/ M) L4 Q$ _还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
$ i+ ^* l8 \, F) ?What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?# D& ?. B( [- B" m2 ]2 X
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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