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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事* ^& P' Y: Q, M
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
2 L0 E2 G. V, q* E- B0 x* o i有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。4 ]7 Q" G! w2 Q4 c
Have you ever done that?
! S, q/ a- u, k0 f# A1 q& c( _8 e$ U你曾有过这种经历吗?$ W W% D, A: h
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.9 T& T8 M" Q; W: G
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。3 W& C! G3 c' P r$ `
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.2 X( M; y3 b0 I/ u0 `
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。3 r4 _& B. T; c. n' R2 r! B
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
. N# Q& N7 {1 c2 B3 N) t. ^然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
: i& e, ~& u7 G4 d/ F1 S+ h: IWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.+ e7 q' f# s- {
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。. v5 d, h$ E2 q# M& m+ L( p- ?6 n& r
That's a memory problem.
/ y) S1 s; ^8 g这是一个记忆问题。
) E4 q$ w' N7 p7 lI guess that counts too.; Y" f. G0 M: _9 D4 s
我想那很重要。, {& v W% q1 Y$ n
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?7 i C: W5 l- v( E; a8 F( B( c5 e
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?+ w$ M$ {' l. A8 q( N
At one point, there was a reason we do something.1 a+ p- O3 l; b
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。) q0 K) a: c7 t8 D( u9 @ q
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.) w. R# |# J( K& H, m1 v; }
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
& M3 d" C. e' D1 }# S" Y" yIt's always could to ask ourselves why.
. _7 D3 T' q4 z8 K. r总是可以问问自己为什么。
# F& \, x6 M& T WWhy did I start to learn a language?! {! `3 m% Y' v4 t% q& n. N
为什么我开始学习一种语言?, \% T+ A) q' r: D' n+ ~" W
Why did I join this club?# ~6 k" L( j8 W0 k* E; T
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?. N& a" S. b) v7 h$ R/ c
Why my friend was this person?8 T) P/ }2 x, M0 c
为什么我的朋友是这个人?4 c8 T; a$ h/ p5 }& ]9 S
Why did I get married?2 v& W9 J! W) H9 f& w
为什么我要结婚?
3 ]) P a l7 H; x+ ^8 Y- i/ FIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.6 j+ M+ g4 z% b2 k6 P1 I# l- {
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。+ D$ f9 u2 q7 X6 K1 [
I think we need indeed remind us of why.5 H- v4 C$ s; @
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。+ r# \# S' ]# Y0 ^# g( `
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.- v% r6 y* v( Z0 L9 ^! P% W
否则很难完成我们所开始的。
B6 ~" g* i+ ^We stop starting. We quit the club.4 D3 K( X( c" j; b& G! Y# w: f
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
. t- P% s% D5 w+ X1 V: cWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
& b$ Q" z6 l* p" a3 |9 G6 ^我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。6 J) j- y, E9 a
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
" N/ X$ a+ i" ~ o) |% |3 w问为什么没什么问题。
* I- h* ^0 G, N: C3 w8 k) U3 ^In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.4 z( d# k m, d4 r3 \0 M
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。( A% U `8 s- }* d1 y
Talk about it.
" |, c4 x6 L; ?) q9 G* K0 n) @谈论下面的话题:7 @9 p' _9 `( _9 Q
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?7 J8 l* u$ r) n8 K. z& ^
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
' K( K0 W8 r5 S* o- j& \; p. I5 SIs it a kind of distant memory?
o+ N1 v L3 L. G: x7 G它是一种遥远的记忆?6 u0 w4 T) V0 H. C2 s J
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...0 f3 v9 g5 ?6 O1 c c3 b2 o
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……9 j$ _7 Q; u0 l' X
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?" w2 Q1 a* t* X1 {8 u' x
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?" T) y) V1 R% M
Do you write memos?
3 M4 Y+ a* ]# T3 Y9 M* J) Q: M G你写备忘录吗?: X" o/ S" r( b, n3 a3 _
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
9 C- [, r E, T, d1 A你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?2 t# C* @7 N2 X3 J2 T4 m. o
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
/ |1 z0 c% W6 _0 o( j1 q( a: l4 T. j还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
r- }) B: ~0 S* lWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
3 j* \) s7 u% j- R, A2 @你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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