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Remembering why we are doing something& ^0 x) ?( _; c- [% w! Y
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记住我们为什么做某事
0 l" k4 b& W, Z5 _* v$ m$ f5 `Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.% m! ~/ T: j+ a G$ L
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。' X: Y6 @# p: s) L- {+ Z, e
Have you ever done that?
) q$ _8 f9 P4 b) _+ f你曾有过这种经历吗? X M- i# G6 c: ~" T3 Q' g! k
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
5 p2 H! e$ t. ]" \1 h4 ^我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。2 Y& i0 A. H2 `
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.2 y6 T o. x7 r/ A, s. ~
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。' [7 w6 J l# }1 L
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
" l+ m T c3 c然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。+ F4 [4 @2 F: i# A0 ~! i9 e: G
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
- i H& j$ `! j哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。) s& e6 N1 ] T6 X4 L) I# M
That's a memory problem.
0 ^. K% [* I5 o! \这是一个记忆问题。
& B @% l5 Y9 F! g3 h# ?& ^$ TI guess that counts too.
' {% V; w8 l% j# ?. v4 G: p我想那很重要。
9 t4 d5 ~ i$ A5 HBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?* {- e+ [* l! v% S
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?/ y9 _1 U0 l8 I* v
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
/ f1 N" c) s* q z6 _( o在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。
' o( \# _) M3 P/ L+ ]) I$ W n! FFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.* Y! {" h0 B' R/ b0 z) P1 I
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。 T4 n5 {& r$ J* f
It's always could to ask ourselves why.
9 H( D( s, A* t9 _总是可以问问自己为什么。9 k: l- p0 V0 ~' G6 u) _0 W9 \( X
Why did I start to learn a language?5 ^" L- z- a2 n: Y6 \3 b) ?& F
为什么我开始学习一种语言?! }/ B$ c! W$ z9 Z& N" r
Why did I join this club?
% X. ~: H4 U1 d, ^& o, R为什么我加入这个俱乐部?4 ?+ Q3 E) g5 e' ]
Why my friend was this person?. \$ b* S! y: }- x* y
为什么我的朋友是这个人?
4 n5 O* X7 s5 l( x# O5 |' z1 wWhy did I get married?
- o; L8 o8 u1 d4 O8 K4 e' ^7 t D2 U4 w为什么我要结婚?/ S6 @0 [, _0 |8 X
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.8 y4 `- `! u; @! q' x: R% T$ U6 j. q) Q
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
/ h5 J2 p0 @6 NI think we need indeed remind us of why.! M7 Q' T3 }" N% l# m& L. Y
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。: M1 U1 q7 F _. h3 H8 B
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
0 {* z' S$ L! ]& r# T' J v& q4 |否则很难完成我们所开始的。4 Y! ?. E3 g4 ]7 |4 d' h" I
We stop starting. We quit the club.
* g- T" F; O" u8 k- Y我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
) [; T) {0 Y0 \" U# JWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
& {$ g) [% K* o+ {) r我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。7 L/ A' n" `) Y ]% s$ o
There's nothing wrong with asking why.# k* D1 ]0 K, p6 m" F a# t
问为什么没什么问题。
! b! f9 k% P6 n) q) }* T* QIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
: c# S& m# S" z: m6 s h9 B n y事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
% h9 Z5 d9 B3 `Talk about it.
! Z D, ^9 C" H1 p; I! f谈论下面的话题:
, e- i! r1 F& D/ pIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?$ Q4 M- a6 ?$ { K. Z- W: K1 D
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?/ ?5 b& b8 P, A8 {( c! r
Is it a kind of distant memory?9 a$ k( L% y8 k. O5 @
它是一种遥远的记忆?
: _! J# D2 Y3 H+ F0 gDid you ever forget why you are doing something...
! Z( i. M; n; r( j* y5 S8 @你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
* d2 q/ v/ v0 b# x# b, WHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?1 s! |$ y2 T) W. R
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?* [! \+ ~5 q- k5 N# Q+ |5 u8 L) C1 y
Do you write memos?
( C% F8 S5 B! O5 t; a你写备忘录吗?
6 O# m t4 t7 Y- HDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?" |( y+ p- K4 c3 x+ \1 z
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
0 u: z$ w7 A+ h O! H, i& @What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?, [2 E8 s, D y0 b, W U) Y
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
9 y* l9 h. p: Z* N( iWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?. V/ X$ u$ C8 `7 L. b/ o9 `
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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