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Remembering why we are doing something2 o/ x9 _0 I8 N& V2 h
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记住我们为什么做某事( H0 U) `+ U, K9 W& a3 Z6 U# t
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.+ S3 N0 c* p: k0 {, I2 G6 A5 U
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。& o' B. S' r" |$ O9 P
Have you ever done that?
9 [3 G5 A& i) ~; R) J; E你曾有过这种经历吗?3 i( h7 D4 ~! V
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
- Q0 y4 B8 a6 y, b我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。, ^ V; M; X9 [" y
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.% i" O; C3 k( t8 s
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。* T$ X: u' d2 I* N
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
6 V0 l( \: }0 b2 `0 f5 w然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
& I2 w( L: z+ G2 N p/ Q0 g, cWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.. U5 {6 b" x* F" ^5 B
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。, q% u3 v; {+ L
That's a memory problem.& }6 {7 ~8 s& t k- w
这是一个记忆问题。; o" W9 {) @! Q, q" a
I guess that counts too.
, _9 Q1 w$ p$ X0 q3 P& q我想那很重要。% b6 }) s8 r5 \3 c$ l! f) {
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?% i3 K& l" l) q0 e& S
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?
5 v; A/ k6 J' g! }1 N7 X6 O/ ~At one point, there was a reason we do something.
D9 }1 e# Z( p4 W在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。' F( W* Z0 [0 W4 P8 J. _7 H
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.$ a3 O! S! L& C6 a* m7 y$ J( b: h+ g
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。2 I! @+ B. }" N1 k/ i* J: J
It's always could to ask ourselves why.
6 C" `# o6 ~6 M% z5 M7 E+ N- N总是可以问问自己为什么。
* j& F+ B T" W. ]Why did I start to learn a language?
' t5 l9 @' T7 u为什么我开始学习一种语言?
5 Y3 k8 i4 u2 T1 F! i) dWhy did I join this club?
# }2 P9 j, R; O2 T, a! [1 W! w为什么我加入这个俱乐部?5 D R& [. e0 {: V0 ^( ~- G
Why my friend was this person?+ y- u& p4 \+ T5 e4 u1 Y4 n
为什么我的朋友是这个人?
) l0 f* J" x" }, W, O4 m- MWhy did I get married?& g# @9 s# O1 M* a1 G/ f( J
为什么我要结婚?
9 A+ _; p; f, B" rIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.$ G( ]8 u* Y) x+ Z2 C& F
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
% e! w0 L4 J9 Z! I' P/ YI think we need indeed remind us of why.1 u! N c0 `9 h8 X6 V$ |6 C
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
8 l4 t. s4 A# l! {Or else it's tough to finish what we started.* ~6 D, L: E5 O6 @( ~
否则很难完成我们所开始的。7 B/ v; V! T: @: G$ o* T
We stop starting. We quit the club.
( s- i( O2 @; H1 e6 \. _3 ^我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。( z3 I6 O# t R: B) ~
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.% z! f+ W- }$ Y/ |6 e. o
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。! u3 n9 f3 p/ q9 P6 Y9 y
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
2 n' X8 }8 F0 P+ a- d; G: }/ |问为什么没什么问题。
" q7 d1 y" w# F" z" UIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.. z+ l, p" g: A
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
5 X9 \# ?' S0 _0 [9 y$ cTalk about it.
8 {( @' C4 o5 p' P `5 X谈论下面的话题:& `8 ]8 U( `$ a: y7 J9 W w
Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
5 [3 d- i' `, S% C4 ^你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
s+ G% \: ]5 m& Q: ?! O1 H& q, yIs it a kind of distant memory?4 }$ Y! q" v( Y/ |, L y
它是一种遥远的记忆?
' K4 m; {6 P7 l/ S" NDid you ever forget why you are doing something...
) w+ i9 |; U) \. _8 B R( @, P1 f你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
2 P! T: }+ a$ ?- jHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?& c7 |, k6 b* u
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?3 Z! R' |+ E( ?* o
Do you write memos?
0 c8 C9 w+ f# o( H你写备忘录吗?2 @; M$ I! u! Q3 X9 O
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
0 D% V9 `- v& R% M6 n6 Z& Q5 {你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
* [/ ^" o- e' b- NWhat are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
+ I1 W8 x* C* j' c1 L' `4 @还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
1 u e5 N# o& n" MWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
% f" N* z* Q5 t; w6 {% k9 v# B5 @你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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