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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事1 X. c! u9 \$ A- a1 z, i4 v
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
% j8 B/ O7 s7 d有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。
( P6 b; }# J: \* ]' x) R+ SHave you ever done that?- b! f" m2 L3 @! y1 Y) d$ g2 @
你曾有过这种经历吗?
4 {5 a) j3 q! Y6 `+ YI'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.2 Z9 A+ n0 {$ V+ q* Z
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。5 Z. Y8 I9 p0 x& w' G6 l
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.
; [3 C2 B' r* ]# o6 q( K我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。8 Z% q9 h" ? a
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
; R E: C9 Q% ]% P7 ~, h9 G8 H: {然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
6 ?/ X/ n7 p. ~Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
: y8 j, u8 Y% w( p# X3 }哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。7 D4 s3 S2 R7 O, h: a' D4 }
That's a memory problem.
8 Q, N1 R9 Z0 _* ]1 D5 i8 T( T这是一个记忆问题。; c& z0 l* ?! G& H9 t
I guess that counts too.9 ]# o" j: U i, J' o5 ?
我想那很重要。
0 S+ t+ m/ f3 _ V% `But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?& p' }9 e) {3 Y# s
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?
# v5 A9 k' t: B/ M/ l' b% [At one point, there was a reason we do something.
: }" a# K7 d1 d4 k1 z& J( G; |$ b在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。( n) G' \- d( X1 w; }
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
1 |$ x7 ^ I1 F# ?/ i! w$ i% {对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。% E# a) D4 u. z3 ~% V6 i( ]5 Z
It's always could to ask ourselves why.8 H; f5 H5 K& `; y1 I
总是可以问问自己为什么。
4 z3 w% K: e7 j' o; f: J$ i0 _Why did I start to learn a language?5 u+ C; G3 }+ d5 b# f% X% H
为什么我开始学习一种语言?
4 b6 n1 m# E+ DWhy did I join this club?4 g0 a: |- @& m# f
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?
! f5 q7 B, x, `3 O! IWhy my friend was this person?# Q, }; o4 ]0 I; {
为什么我的朋友是这个人?. ]6 v1 P6 U3 d& F
Why did I get married?9 n# {& { \8 S% q1 R2 B
为什么我要结婚?6 x* B/ B; a5 {2 p
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.* x) K- T" z) t" ~" \2 P; @
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
. v0 Z2 j$ B x' n% f$ k; g7 ~I think we need indeed remind us of why.+ c6 Y5 X* Q& {
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。* w- e) g" D( F. F) Y! @6 f x
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.7 F5 \) ^) B! Y7 ~6 h; O
否则很难完成我们所开始的。
: t5 X5 ^+ d0 b1 p$ F$ M: nWe stop starting. We quit the club.( {/ n8 y: U5 T9 o- s
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
7 i' u' z" A! m8 H5 v6 q! JWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
3 n) Y! Q/ x+ j, A我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。9 b- x% A' `% r3 W9 D S3 G
There's nothing wrong with asking why.7 b% H2 F* T9 G7 T' h
问为什么没什么问题。
$ I9 ], k7 X% o4 O) MIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
3 F# o: e4 U% ~+ _6 ?5 J事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
" V+ D& j6 m' |$ ]5 fTalk about it.5 C9 \8 g2 q0 q% U
谈论下面的话题:
0 Q- a0 k9 m4 ?Is there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?) i6 Y3 g, I+ V. @2 A
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
" M) r* w$ T' P% w* P+ C z d( KIs it a kind of distant memory?* z8 g+ V) V8 u6 d* @* p
它是一种遥远的记忆?
7 v7 _& P2 o! t) k* X) z; ~Did you ever forget why you are doing something...+ ^5 b6 w5 B# F- ]4 {
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……, a$ j6 c& L _/ a8 C5 f8 A; t
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?5 B1 z* O: b4 O8 p) c$ P
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?
/ L$ O9 S) d) ^8 ~! dDo you write memos?
7 T* g7 @- ^8 C' E你写备忘录吗?
2 W0 J' M$ t h0 cDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?# J- M' _1 w ?3 x/ e j8 @
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?% x9 k: m( F( l6 S3 o+ O& Y% @2 O
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?: G# Z: Y8 a" R- K3 S
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?) i2 Z7 \& F4 k9 j- T8 m
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
& j8 h9 P; g; Y0 s6 ?你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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