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Remembering why we are doing something Y O7 o4 M# l" o* |" @9 U: r
% o2 r0 y6 V* E: U2 ~记住我们为什么做某事' V) k$ m" ], G- F3 ^& o" _3 X
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.3 T% P0 a1 M* M; D7 K2 X: Q
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。
$ s; f5 s4 P$ R: X5 N1 i8 M; vHave you ever done that?
8 c3 g* j0 P- }* g: ~. j/ r你曾有过这种经历吗?- C* k0 X3 M' J. r2 q" F% B
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
! S' E- V/ ?2 R- U; ]' Q. h5 z; s我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
( t8 z8 ]' f- d6 c( s3 Z$ HI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
+ L$ @& Q# h4 E" t我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。
1 M6 p9 I2 h, Q, o* O5 P/ OAnd then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.2 U) S W; y+ R+ X
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
# t; U& O7 Q% m7 V, f! zWell, I forget why I called that person in the first place.8 @( ]- K2 ~8 F6 y' P c
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
5 E, W5 T$ X+ N3 c2 J* Y5 F3 eThat's a memory problem.$ [5 C2 C! B7 ?+ P9 ?+ N% G
这是一个记忆问题。! v+ E; @9 E l) L1 u) U: `4 M
I guess that counts too.
" u( N2 E, ?: B5 g8 c/ M7 e# J我想那很重要。2 C3 M" F3 \9 z$ u
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
m: }3 ]: E* r' W, s4 @但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?3 i/ A: Q/ C% A% ?7 S; \
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
$ J# Z y* D7 p' _" Q在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。+ f+ R1 ]4 o$ g% z; y) G4 b- x9 r/ L
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
# \+ ~2 _" [% I3 G对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。! ~; P0 T& f& Y" m/ ~+ D
It's always could to ask ourselves why.2 h, j' w s1 L: `, G9 v
总是可以问问自己为什么。/ j4 ~: l/ z- q
Why did I start to learn a language?( `5 F& }- k+ }3 [9 H' c
为什么我开始学习一种语言?, U; B' E$ u4 |/ _3 H
Why did I join this club?' x3 H: T" i& `- @
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?( y2 a, m9 h9 F) ]! D/ c$ [
Why my friend was this person?
; R( g/ k" g D+ z; H为什么我的朋友是这个人?7 X- [2 g9 \5 e
Why did I get married?- h! x7 B7 F1 v' j$ z5 }5 e4 }
为什么我要结婚?) X ]. c7 ^: H" j O
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.$ W$ U. V; c7 V- s! @' I
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
' h/ u: O& _0 a V- y; `1 h! lI think we need indeed remind us of why.
, B8 G+ J# r/ V- Y8 Q0 K9 `( |我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。7 `4 s6 v5 Z. R4 x. ^- q8 _
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
/ j' s4 n# M. S, o ]4 p7 v/ t& `' ?否则很难完成我们所开始的。& W" x4 H" ] H% B4 H' g5 m
We stop starting. We quit the club.
3 Y& V6 |& H2 o O* U. u9 l我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。% Z z& a3 _1 ]
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.2 D( h% D% F9 L* R+ c. C
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
9 o& [8 }2 w3 e0 Z& b% B* w( VThere's nothing wrong with asking why.
$ u6 k9 b3 W: t3 ^7 _/ t5 p% r8 A问为什么没什么问题。/ x) o" H5 G( K: W. f0 A0 J
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
9 B$ Y3 B/ I' h8 |9 _+ N9 k c事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
* v' I" n/ |5 B/ RTalk about it. c! Z. d( O1 f) _
谈论下面的话题:
7 a) i1 y3 C' o+ W5 t8 y- p& J8 DIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?( j; h; t. ]$ y' I& ^
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
4 N4 H- h; e3 u$ oIs it a kind of distant memory?
' U2 ? \+ k2 N8 k它是一种遥远的记忆?
: P& m, B: h; {Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
& W' q+ Y$ B& |你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
) p8 O! H1 k# ?4 i) ~$ Y' pHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
" Z$ I K; b0 I. u8 Q% L2 u你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?$ ~! F# N* d1 _+ ]) x
Do you write memos?
5 J7 G% s) w5 O& j( z3 q( ]你写备忘录吗?
1 E. z; ]" ~3 }. B+ yDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
( G7 z$ c& k) ]7 J$ c你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?6 L7 L; n* Q' X6 F9 E, t
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?) p' L/ N2 ^0 q" U% I- h
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?1 q$ s+ O3 v! o1 v6 v2 Z* N
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? v `8 H* O/ C" W
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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