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Remembering why we are doing something( @' G; L0 A( t1 d) U0 e' d
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记住我们为什么做某事
' I1 O7 S9 f# a5 d' H' Y3 ISometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.( P5 j' A% G( e- F
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。3 d' H# [- y0 p+ L6 y; z
Have you ever done that?
9 a) a9 |/ H, F+ S/ d& c你曾有过这种经历吗?7 V' n- f+ H9 g
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
, H8 y6 P6 g# d+ M* c我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
5 g$ K/ ~& h) ~I have called someone because I want to tell them something.
1 @' y8 A+ d( |% ]0 g我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。3 s' K4 u9 n4 G! [5 ^. N+ [+ }
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
; S5 D, d0 a" y然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。4 q7 d" T# C8 C
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.- `7 p; G3 V/ N: Z9 m. s
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。# u& j# N+ ]0 d' B; f
That's a memory problem.0 N' g) R6 G# e( ?4 r! D" Y
这是一个记忆问题。3 N" `% q8 w: o* l- k
I guess that counts too.6 _0 L: @" }: z, L+ \- U
我想那很重要。
|' H" l# m# K8 \: s- [1 GBut I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
4 j/ z' l! y- {- R" W但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?
! o% D0 ?+ Q% {( Z: m5 P6 ~At one point, there was a reason we do something.
- y$ f8 \3 R% Y# {) A4 t% Y在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。2 b0 e& T: B, B- F( _" c% A
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason./ K6 h; r- y6 i; F
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。6 I2 k. i% b. Z$ S. X% y/ P
It's always could to ask ourselves why.3 X; v. k1 M, i
总是可以问问自己为什么。
9 a7 c- h \, Z+ t* d2 e: w+ bWhy did I start to learn a language?. Y- R/ \1 d t
为什么我开始学习一种语言?& |' l# f/ W6 c( h' w2 o% r
Why did I join this club?/ r: L; S" w3 Z* M- G0 t
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?! f8 F+ I) N6 b9 m( ?% J
Why my friend was this person?& r# K0 i5 H$ w7 O3 }( R
为什么我的朋友是这个人?
1 O* x/ s1 Y, z/ GWhy did I get married?2 S7 [2 K! c! A( K8 W4 k
为什么我要结婚?4 I. J$ y* c% H P7 v
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
6 H5 m. h" u* S, Z* ?3 n如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。; c3 N9 O5 J6 U6 J, {
I think we need indeed remind us of why.
5 w$ p8 R$ _, E我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。0 I9 j* {3 U/ P F% i3 v
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
! g: q1 O4 Q$ d+ E5 s# D6 K否则很难完成我们所开始的。2 G5 F% Z* c S2 V& [# w0 m
We stop starting. We quit the club.
$ V& e8 }" J0 D" k @2 Q我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。( r6 {9 J: t/ ?# A) p$ {: ~! u
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.* b* F( M" X" t* A$ Y( W# S& t
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。4 Y7 r% r8 H% |8 j* j7 y" k' Z8 }
There's nothing wrong with asking why. f8 H" T3 S/ P/ k4 I6 r
问为什么没什么问题。7 y7 w0 n1 Z/ V8 e. N3 @
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing./ n) G, P: P6 d6 K
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。$ Q* n* ^# [% w" }" H
Talk about it.
9 B: l. ]' ?: T* e, w r% `谈论下面的话题:
: B, `, o2 p5 d* ^* PIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
2 J2 q/ _8 a2 D- I" x" H% C% k你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
# |3 o7 l6 b$ N. q# u: O9 X' TIs it a kind of distant memory?( P, K, u% s' M( {( Q
它是一种遥远的记忆?
. ?: `3 C& q" C$ O+ T* q# iDid you ever forget why you are doing something...+ P$ Q$ Y6 N' }8 H7 s6 D4 T# Z
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……& e' M4 ?" A5 p8 p
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?& j$ ^2 P# I; e. N' Q/ k4 X
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?
) i+ q6 d W9 e( m$ c' l+ J& mDo you write memos?
; z" S5 I6 s+ U# r$ n3 @你写备忘录吗?
) Y2 N4 f6 U* P8 M: I& C! ]Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?' H& G! i8 P( o7 I8 G
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
! W. g; H2 b) V$ B4 ^' X) {7 s Q9 }What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?* w8 g/ O( J1 l3 f( e% P. L
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
% S) O& X5 M( |# P$ a4 R3 WWhat do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
9 _; k) z0 q. x9 B+ D/ K你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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