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Remembering why we are doing something& y3 S5 V0 k5 l4 S' M
3 ~; c$ B* ^: f/ j4 \; C! a3 R记住我们为什么做某事
% `. e2 m6 r- f7 e6 [! g: q& s1 KSometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.0 o6 Y% {/ F( k" _
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。. A5 @/ T; o- f$ |/ y0 r
Have you ever done that?+ G: W8 `4 B! k }2 P! o$ q6 `
你曾有过这种经历吗?. ?( D& x1 [" Z3 H$ N4 l3 W3 _
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.
. ]- w% G/ [6 `) T3 H$ s我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。! a1 m8 p9 S/ x% X8 [
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.
# u6 k6 l- O6 l6 _" z, z我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。1 k5 G" j& k" ~: Y' D* b b
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
& g( T W9 l6 Z C然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。3 R+ f7 [, Q6 a9 A# N
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.; d4 d5 t0 x) F( w$ V& }
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
, C8 k$ \# ^" c( }$ A$ t7 ], fThat's a memory problem.% |1 `! V2 Q+ Z' }: z7 g3 z
这是一个记忆问题。5 p1 G9 W; g3 b Y" b, D8 ^& k
I guess that counts too.. s9 Z! n/ L# [6 `% k
我想那很重要。* u" Y. j/ _* ^ ?
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
5 a* ], U/ w/ l$ x但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?7 V# n$ K6 A: C& z, J1 ]0 J
At one point, there was a reason we do something." B$ r3 s( ^6 x8 T& u& Y: o7 I
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。
% t b3 y1 x" w2 I5 p+ @) eFor long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
2 ^/ S1 e' k( U3 r" s9 q# X对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
. b/ S& X3 e. o& t& Y$ a5 [7 ?5 BIt's always could to ask ourselves why.2 N' C1 @; I! e/ i( F7 h
总是可以问问自己为什么。& s% Q2 q! q5 `
Why did I start to learn a language?6 [/ |! d9 {7 U* ]
为什么我开始学习一种语言?
, R; \* c1 F4 ?# a- f: k0 LWhy did I join this club?
7 [# {3 g1 x4 q7 G' o为什么我加入这个俱乐部?* L7 r& v5 M {
Why my friend was this person?
4 y$ ^3 ` m8 y2 a为什么我的朋友是这个人?
0 T$ ?& C, V$ PWhy did I get married?
# g6 |5 j. W+ r0 U% X- q为什么我要结婚?
1 G% b7 x& [: q+ q7 A. zIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
- Z; C7 e" B! w# n6 m1 V# q4 n% C如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。, r5 w. ~! {8 C6 V2 U
I think we need indeed remind us of why.
: Y7 c6 T0 e/ o. t3 z$ y我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。/ Y0 c8 ^* P1 }+ q5 T2 O
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.
. W5 x# G! F l' P+ O% X: z否则很难完成我们所开始的。 r5 ?8 N2 p. D: r6 G/ [7 Y
We stop starting. We quit the club.9 B4 s* r' E5 W& m- y- ?
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
+ W" D% y( ^/ ~, u4 m7 P8 W$ wWe end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
% ]3 m$ G. k. ^. R& H我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。, ?7 n. o h# @! i9 L: s3 L
There's nothing wrong with asking why.
- ^ C4 e6 }4 F# }问为什么没什么问题。
4 U* v* W1 X2 }6 Q8 ~* G) QIn fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.( m; U- ^. P( g/ {1 |- I
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。0 X: y$ S9 ?4 i1 ?4 b; F! z! o ]; G
Talk about it./ x) {( w7 e' u
谈论下面的话题:
, H7 f3 F% {( L! {- cIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?
+ K% L! N9 |/ Z% L9 e2 d9 s. {你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?6 [; M- s. u" A8 o
Is it a kind of distant memory?& u p" [$ I# n* P/ k7 |
它是一种遥远的记忆?
l; N: ?3 [ Z' f9 Z `0 w! M1 B6 {Did you ever forget why you are doing something...9 H% D) g' Y, `; u
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……8 v. C; e" K' r, {
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?2 ~/ X2 ]2 H- Z) P4 ]
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?
4 g; S' j" J" C" p' QDo you write memos?
0 N- C0 B+ \; ^你写备忘录吗?" c4 {) E6 }% i6 Q2 `
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
- x4 O, W' c8 i2 l# |$ h, Q6 N8 D你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?- _7 B% n" y' t& [, U I0 Y
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?, p0 K* }! @- P- o# q- ]) L
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?+ W* H$ ^4 e$ H2 X) ~
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?6 b3 C1 i1 v. d4 a
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办? |
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