标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 [打印本页] 作者: 2452790809 时间: 2012-9-5 20:16 标题: 美文赏析：记住我们呢为什么做某事 Remembering why we are doing something% G2 A( b, B3 @7 O
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记住我们为什么做某事8 W5 d+ S& c# f) w0 Q9 G+ ^
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.) I* j( Q1 i; d8 l1 b4 W2 m, K
有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。1 H+ j" g8 o4 w0 ~. M; g5 |/ i
Have you ever done that? . O8 n+ e6 `! _' A$ E! M你曾有过这种经历吗？) t& k: w3 J" S* \" e1 A5 y) m1 ?
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too./ r' }9 j P6 b% K
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。2 v) b/ K k/ L% @6 i- i" x
I have called someone because I want to tell them something./ I7 L8 z, D2 {( @) L# A6 {
我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。5 `9 I+ |# {" V. \3 I$ i1 ? \6 m7 Y+ v
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular. S( u1 H; X& e! y. g L+ o
然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。0 w# _3 Z" L& V
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.1 e4 M. y& q& U0 c; W* C8 q, z% _" a: @
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。6 X2 j8 b& {: ?; r" J
That's a memory problem.0 n7 d: w6 L% S
这是一个记忆问题。% ~; W. v" m( A# u- L
I guess that counts too.) F6 h h/ b+ I
我想那很重要。( R0 @9 `$ f' |! _
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?0 f& V0 d3 \1 Y% D, ?9 E8 t9 ^6 ^
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？+ \' @' j# ^% q- S# T$ b
At one point, there was a reason we do something. ( U+ B4 K1 t# S+ v8 \9 a1 b在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。0 u/ v& c! \- y `
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.1 g$ q$ }% w' q! l4 p
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。( ]" m$ {! _- t3 Y6 n6 d
It's always could to ask ourselves why.3 X, ^! T5 q- }
总是可以问问自己为什么。* P4 [" c. U# W) I
Why did I start to learn a language?8 a0 j, T# K) X8 I, O! Z
为什么我开始学习一种语言？ 5 q; ]! s3 P: ~6 }' F! J2 D8 YWhy did I join this club?7 N) q+ ^6 |! B( B2 z' r& S/ `
为什么我加入这个俱乐部？ , y: {6 F# m9 tWhy my friend was this person?) b8 R' G: \9 j% Q
为什么我的朋友是这个人？ / A) t' w8 }. Q# T4 XWhy did I get married?+ y8 X2 x6 G' V: ^, E
为什么我要结婚？+ F( D F; O; Y2 y4 ?/ D, O O
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why. ' }' k( Q1 @& j) h8 J n" I" i% y, j如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。( c6 T1 X+ `! W! B
I think we need indeed remind us of why. ( c2 ]/ a1 Z. Z4 I) P我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。/ F* ]/ e8 E9 i1 _" ~ m/ [
Or else it's tough to finish what we started. 9 t2 t7 z' i1 s: _# k- b否则很难完成我们所开始的。+ X: m4 t X, [# Y) P" H; q# T
We stop starting. We quit the club.8 h0 s' S5 ]3 r7 J- {7 p! R
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。 " u ~5 Q1 T8 ]6 a$ {We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.' K1 U9 s$ t: l/ j4 }, A* q
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。+ S; V5 S9 Y" w3 J$ f
There's nothing wrong with asking why.3 K n$ ?8 { y
问为什么没什么问题。 0 D+ ~: k3 F0 l$ Y, L9 M* X" U1 p \' _In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing. # t5 H; K( f( `4 d# V) K事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。 ) x6 U: t7 j; X7 \Talk about it.7 q1 W9 Y$ Y0 j$ o8 K
谈论下面的话题： 1 w' u, [- {+ V: r1 eIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it? ! y$ b. m/ ] \0 r& n你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？ ! P" j2 p- E/ Z5 D: v3 YIs it a kind of distant memory?* v' f. X+ O0 S7 S# r+ t
它是一种遥远的记忆？, J5 O) K" I) s$ j
Did you ever forget why you are doing something... 9 A( v- E; Z' w" O$ t0 I你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……1 X( i3 S( ^# k% P
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something? 3 d; L' v7 s7 H- h2 m+ E2 X4 b你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？ 3 ]8 {! A: @/ n) B7 k0 s ~Do you write memos?* x+ ` h. j; `% r0 y
你写备忘录吗？& g8 A3 \ T. E1 z) C' z3 l5 b
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing? 7 t |! I) u" ^ ^你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？: Q8 L* _& s0 D9 z/ u' C
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?( G E: b* W; s, Q: w7 t2 r. y
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？* z0 @: K- i5 C# {5 E6 D4 e3 q4 g% f7 y
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name? % q! c' G) j6 ?- p) m你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？