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Remembering why we are doing something
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记住我们为什么做某事* C g# f( \& y" J& E
Sometimes I forget why I'm doing, what I'm doing.
4 p0 E- K9 S' _# y2 C7 |- U/ [有时候我忘了为什么我在做，我在做什么。
4 V9 p7 N' z: }7 z$ XHave you ever done that?" W, J; B) r1 c2 H- `
你曾有过这种经历吗？& p4 d0 j; X+ o7 i" l: h, {5 H* N
I'm not just talking about a memory problem, although that's possible too.9 W! |) L7 K. h; n
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题，虽然那也是有可能的。
9 A: E1 l# h1 BI have called someone because I want to tell them something.
5 y! `. e' l' G' P1 x3 G+ d* c我曾经打电话给某人，因为我想告诉他们什么。, P( H2 [0 {/ z7 y
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
p9 J5 }8 [7 C: f( R8 D* S然后，在选择合适的地方后，还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。7 f; b! N# ^7 i. o# {! \
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.5 q, k* }! G; A* e. A: ^% ?
哦，我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
+ e1 H, n: ^! \% d% P7 z! A% v3 LThat's a memory problem.
3 F4 ^8 {7 z: x3 W u8 I, z这是一个记忆问题。
G( E- s6 G- z, b- dI guess that counts too.. Z( _* E# y! x0 i
我想那很重要。8 O' I; U- `9 G8 ^/ o
But I'm talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
' G7 E- h/ v7 g0 x- S; N( A6 U但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题，而且更为重要，那就是为什么？
8 o" l3 A# c7 J, ~3 e1 ~" HAt one point, there was a reason we do something.
6 h& M9 k) g# v# ~5 ~8 s; X在某一个时期， 我们做某事会有一个理由。1 `' A2 {6 j' @, S" o5 }& R# W
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.3 q# y# e Y) E) l8 S0 c
对于长期项目，我们需要提醒自己原因。# g/ s2 \2 z, d" m' \) M
It's always could to ask ourselves why.! U, c* T" z y( r/ ]$ d
总是可以问问自己为什么。/ m% h3 v, x+ b/ Y: H' D
Why did I start to learn a language? k4 J' o- V- @ ~" v6 v2 H
为什么我开始学习一种语言？
8 Z) C7 P$ }4 K* h8 x; YWhy did I join this club?
$ [9 h, }- Z1 B0 y8 M$ E为什么我加入这个俱乐部？
, T1 t, _5 g& ?( }7 ?Why my friend was this person?
! E0 `; r" H' q$ C为什么我的朋友是这个人？( w% K4 r2 s3 D y
Why did I get married?) a( l2 m% I9 Y. ? H
为什么我要结婚？
' H/ R1 i2 y: D7 VIf we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
7 }2 s4 g/ g# O) T7 {6 n/ m如果我们迷失在做什么，在生命中，在每天的存在，那么我们不能说为什么。9 g2 X0 U+ c% D m; H4 o
I think we need indeed remind us of why.
, |( S7 A% A2 x0 m7 ~- L! {我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。+ ?8 N/ L- m, m# t
Or else it's tough to finish what we started.+ X4 r5 V( i/ |8 V& [2 p, a7 o) f5 w
否则很难完成我们所开始的。; q1 v$ {# I1 D8 S! G# ^
We stop starting. We quit the club.3 f) b9 S7 I3 s* e3 j
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。3 F! C) Z" o* r* A' U
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged." o2 [4 F& R; `. Z- o0 o2 V
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。: e ], M" n* o( f @
There's nothing wrong with asking why." x6 C* A1 V+ v: {1 v$ ]# x/ a- g
问为什么没什么问题。" H' a- a9 B6 o9 R
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
' l, x8 q4 u9 b0 I- E事实上，我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。$ C$ ?3 i" D$ i# O6 Q# K/ E( _
Talk about it.
& w" M8 F% M0 h; z3 h4 L% V谈论下面的话题：
; O& j1 d5 [0 |+ b! oIs there something you are doing but you've forgotten why you starting it?' [# o7 h' [) K0 V0 ] w
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗？$ L2 c* }0 e S6 [+ K* ?
Is it a kind of distant memory?
/ M. Q S0 m9 ~' X它是一种遥远的记忆？
* ]& o# I+ {" e3 U; h0 }Did you ever forget why you are doing something...# Z G8 O* x. P( J
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
/ z5 \' D P+ { ~6 jHow do you remind yourself why you are doing something?! N3 M- `: f$ I0 B/ |! S- ^# G4 O2 {& Q
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗？) M5 a# _8 d2 q2 t) ?# ~
Do you write memos?8 e* |+ o t- W9 o! {5 J7 e/ F: I* y; |
你写备忘录吗？
% @+ d. B& b7 }) W& o; CDoes your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?( g Z% J! k G
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗？
. M* C: A; ~' |8 ?What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
3 X9 x7 P" E# T$ C: F7 m" S, M还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗？/ q4 A$ \9 B$ ?. e: V s
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
9 d0 y" X7 F# R: K+ g6 a2 s* P你看到认识的某人，却忘记了名字，这种情况下你会怎么办？ |
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